Advice for the young gaylings, who do you rightfully "come out" to

So you're in the closet. Great advice.

We already know...

You can't really be in the closet unless you actively create a veneer of heterosexuality.

Tell no one, it is nobody's business.

[quote]Tell no one, it is nobody's business

the 'lovers' you're about to fuck have a right to know!

R3 you are retarded. If you are gay and tell no one by definition you are in the closet.

R6 You think every lowkey gay guy is in the closet but you're just fugly and they're not telling you they are gay for a reason.

R7 I know you are but what am I. Are you fucking 5 years old? Fucking moron.

R8 wow such a high IQ. Ok then run along and think your highly intelligent thoughts about men not being attracted to you only because they are in the closet.

R9 OMFG why are you stupid straight bitches even on here? Being in the closet means that everyone is not attracted to you straight bitches? You really are a nonsensical psycho bitch.

There are legit reasons to stay in the closet but I suspect most may be ok with you as long as you don't have to say it out loud. My ex is a teacher and he has run into trouble being out. We live in a red state in a red/purple area.

Thanks for the fractured random gibberish, R10. It must feel satisfying to be so bright.

R11 no one needs to hear about the red states, lady. It is a given that it will be shitty so save your breath.

How to be gay at the office:

Lol.

The trailer was great! Thanks!

OP must live in Europe. Most likely the UK or Germany. Those gays especially the older ones all live double lives in the closet yet proclaim to be out and open. They live for the baths.

Met a guy in Germany once and after chatting with him for a while, he basically said he was out of the closet goes to gay bars and back rooms and baths but would NEVER dream of taking a guy back to his place. "none of the neighbors business" closet excuse.

He really could not believe that in America, it was common to take a date back to your place to fuck.

Any thinking person would reject all the lgbt propaganda. It is nobody's business what ANYONE does sexually. No one needs to know who you are fucking and it has nothing to do with being closeted.

Is it really necessary to come out to someone youre about to fuck? Isnt is a given?

The people who care.

Why would I tell anyone I'm gay? What does it matter? Am I supposed to give them a warning? Do people go around telling everyone they are straight? And I need to tell some guy I'm about to fuck I'm gay? I don't think I've gone out with anyone that stupid.

I am John Ritter's wife!

I never lie about it, but I occasionally change the subject if someone is just being nosy and it's otherwise completely irrelevant. But I've had random people pipe up, "Hey, you gay?" and I'm not quick-witted enough to deflect the question, so I just answer honestly. No one ever seems to care, so it's no biggie. Believe me, though, things are very different for me now (in my late 50s) than they were back when I was in my 20s, so I'm not very judgmental about the issue.

Tell the people you love and tell the people who love you.

[quote]R18 No one needs to know who you are fucking and it has nothing to do with being closeted.

You don’t need to provide names and addresses, but there’s something pathetic about cloistering ones self away from human contact and normal social interaction. These basic activities tend to rely on being upfront about who you essentially are, what interests you have, what you basically DO.

(And if you’re at all nice, others will want to fix you up with dates. How can they do that if they don’t know who you date?)

So in your alternate universe straights always hook up their gay associates? Hilarious.

[quote]Why would I tell anyone I'm gay? What does it matter? Am I supposed to give them a warning? Do people go around telling everyone they are straight? And I need to tell some guy I'm about to fuck I'm gay? I don't think I've gone out with anyone that stupid.

Translation = Closet Case

Straw man argument to hide your fear of coming out. Unless you live in a basement, at some point in work or social situations someone is going to ask if you have a girlfriend or dating someone. People want to know if you are in a relationship or not and it perfectly normal to do so. It's part of getting to know someone even if that's just as an acquaintance or close friend.

[quote]r26 So in your alternate universe straights always hook up their gay associates? Hilarious.

Okay, Derek.

I read in another thread here that "coming out" now is SO over with.

Was it started by OP?

younger gays are such flaming queens these days that "coming out" seems as passé as the charleston. Also, they post their holes on social networks with abandon, so...

True. All the flaming faggoty queens/princesses on PREP just have to open their mouth and everyone knows. Their prolapsed anuses just confirm it.

[quote]I pretty well tell no one except lovers

Everyone knows you're gay anyway. Whom do you think you're fooling?

No one can tell. No one can detect anything if I don’t tell them. I’m not a mincing queen like you guys. I’m quiet mask.