My fiance dumped me because of my porn past

Your porno was boring too.

-32/10

OP is Rosemary Rodgers.

[quote] this guy, who I loved deeply

WHOM

Links to your "career" or it didn't happen.

Links to the old porn, and current photos of you and the alleged fiancé, please. This will help us create fake empathy, OP.

Whom indeed. Autocorrect fuckery. I am not giving links to my porn career. I want to protect my ex.

Ok then - what is the point of your post?

Is this Ashton?

But, were you touched by a hot scarred guy. Would you date him ? Or even fuck him ?

I was fishing for simpathy and support

It's because you wanted to go Commando to your neighbor's the other day - remember?

Your other EST thread "My new co-worker is generation Z..." was more believable.

This one gets a -50-/10

If you had been dumped because of your 5 minutes as a pornie, you would understand

Between this and all your other idiotic EST threads, it’s clear you have a lotttt of time on your hands, and a crappy imagination/ writing style.

I am grieving R15 okay ? Can a boy mourn a relationship ?

[quote] I am heartbroken. For real. We were perfect.

[quote] I was fishing for simpathy and support

[quote] I am grieving [R15] okay ? Can a boy mourn a relationship ?

OP, I just called your ex and told him that he doged a bullet.

Mean R17

You could have denied it and said that is not you

[quote] You could have denied it and said that is not you

Call me crazy, but I think brutal honesty killed more relationships than innocent lies, like "Hood Heavens, how should I know how you got that nasty STD? Sat on any dirty toilet seats recently?".

SO snark aside. If someone is going to dump you for that, fuck them, they were not the person you thought they were. No one should care. The past is the past and you should not be ashamed. If he cannot love all of you, then fuck him, you deserve better. I know it sucks now, but someone better will come along.

It's obvious it's me

Fuck,

"Good Heavens, ... Sat on any dirty toilet seat recently?"

Tell them Melania can be the wife of the president, why can't you be a wife of a pleb?

But what could one do in porn for 5 minutes? Latin Boyz jerking off? Their solo videos are usually short.

I don't know. He was perfect. I still love him. I can't stop crying. I miss him so much. And because he sometimes appears on the telly, it makes it worse. We were together a long time. He doesn't even answer my texts now

[quote] You could have denied it and said that is not you

I couldn't do that. I am a retard.

R24, I can't even remember. I guess I fucked a bloke. Did a couple of solos

This is one of the weakest EST on the DL in recent memory

R26 is not me

When did he dump you OP? May 2018?

No R30, not May, why ?

Who actually believes these idiotic stories? Check OP's other EST posts.

So you are english, moved to the US to marry a guy in entertainment here? - Honestly man, fuck him. You sound really great, you left your life for him and he fucked you hard for something stupid. I know you still love him but think about it. If that was what was going to fuck up your relationship better now, than five years down the road.

OP

R33 Thank you. I know. But we were about to get MARRIED. It's not easy to start all over again

OP is from England, he was a pornie for 5 sec when he was younger, he was engaged to someone who works in entertainment and his ex-finacee appears on the "telly" from time to time. Does this ring any bells? Which DL favorite was engaged to a porn star? You're too funny OP?

r35 it is never easy but it will be better. Honestly it is a blessing. As much as you love him he sounds like a complete wanker. If I was going to get married and my found out my fiance did porn I would think FUCK YEA! Wedding night is going to rock. Honestly - fuck him. Not literally - go out find the hottest guy you can hand fuck the shit out of him.

Steve Brockman?

r38 well that was over a year ago so his family would have to have been living in a cave to have not found out until now.

Thanks R37

R39 OP is trolling us

Did the OP work for Bijou or Colt Studio? Because that era would correspond with your senility and crappy memory right now.

r41 so? we can go back to talking about Zendaya and the 30 dicks or you can just skip this post..not that hard to NOT participate. Maybe the OP is telling the truth and needs some advice.

There are some seriously stupid people to believe this OP - check his other threads, morons.

R43 Check his other threads. OP is a fucking troll and wants us to believe he is Steve Brockman.

Is the OP the Spaz Troll?

OP no one is perfect - If he cannot handle this, then maybe you are better off without him. For him to be this judgemental says more about him, than you doing porn.

Yes it is a shock., but we are not talking about you being a serial killer or someone deliberately spreading HIV. It is an porn, he needs to get over it.

If he dumps over this, then believe it is for the best. It hurts now, and I'm sorry for that. But time will heal, and you will realize you are better off without him.

What I don't understand and am struggling with, is that he knew all along. So why calling it off, at the last moment ? Not because of how he feels, but because of what other people might think, that he's a bloody fool for being with me, all the prejudice . At the end of the day, people will talk, who cares ? That's what his people told him. ' people will talk'

R48/OP then obviously he cares more about what people think, then about you. With someone like that, could you really count on him to stand by you through the bad times?

Again this says more about him, than you.

Yes, I can see that. But how can you feel so much love for someone like that, even knowing what you know ? I keep thinking that deep inside he doesn't feel that way, that he had to do it out of insécurité. I feel sorry for him. I want to reach out.

Still awaiting sizemeat verificatia....

Op, I think he’s lying. He wanted out for whatever reason and wasn’t man enough to tell you, so he’s blaming your porn past which probably had nothing to do with it. Be well and take care. I’d be proud to be your husband.

Thanks R52. Maybe he did lie about it. We had a dog too, and he kept the dog. He said he didn't want to put the poor thing through the ordeal of UK custom. I think that I should be allowed to see my baby. That hurts too

What's the name of your dog, OP? Sue for visitation privileges.

Forgot to add, what breed?

OP, maybe you've learned your lesson, for your next life.

A song to wash away your tears:

And all the photographs

Of ghosts of long ago

Still they hurt you so

Won't let you go

And you still don't know

.

And it's a long long way

From where you want to be

And it's a long long way

But you're too blind to see

R20 Agreed. I never understood this obsession with a hundred percent honesty at all times. Relationships (and life) runs smoother when people develop the art of keeping certain shit to themselves. Some people have an almost OCD compulsion to share things that are better left unspoken. They don't give a fuck about the aftermath of their verbal diarrhea.

"...doged a bullet..."

In Venice?

French bulldog, I miss him so much, but the quarantine here is bad

Do you think I should enroll in an MFA fiction program?

R61 is not me

OP, you should count your blessings. Would you want to be partnered (or married) to someone who would drop someone he supposedly loved so easily? You dodged a bullet pal.

Thanks mate R63

Are you cut or uncut, OP? Did you present hole in your PRON past? These are a few of DL’s favorite things.

Cut. YesI did present arsehole. Now fuck off.

OP, it's clear you are the Spaz Troll.

You DO realize that YOU are trolling here, right ?

OP, did you write this too?

I'd dump a guy who had a heterosexual or bisexual porn past, especially if he told me from the beginning of our dating/relationship that he was truly homosexual.

take a lesson from Charity Hope Valentine and live hopefully ever after

Strange, my boyfriend proposed to me because of my porn past.

No one who says “I was dropped like an old shoe” just moved the to US. Don’t trip on your caftan when you get off your chaise lounge, sweetie.

[quote] I can't stop crying.

When do the tears stop?

Once a mercenary slut, always a mercenary slut.

My blood runs cold.

Matt Sanchez is back!

Good Heavens! Why would you consider dating someone if you had done Porn? Porn actors are just pieces of meat--they aren't meant to live normal lives.

Go back to being objectified--it is what you deserve, WHORE!

R78 marry me please

OP=Whorina McSuckidick

OP is clearly channeling Steve Brockman, but there are some missteps in the EST: 1 - the breakup happened a while back so doubt he would still be moaning about this. 2 - Brockman is bi and I thought I read that he moved on with some woman.

OP's posts are set on Whore.

I don't even know what EST means

Not knowing what you are doesn't mean you aren't it.

Do you blame him OP ? Who wants to settle down with someone the whole world has seen get fucked...and badly.

Where are you from OP? Also how does your ex have an entourage?

[quote] He coudn't cope, even though he is himself in the entertainment business.

There is zero equivalency between getting fucked on screen and being in the entertainment business. The fact that you don’t understand this is why you’re in this position.

Yeah I assume this EST was meant to be based on Russell Tovey and Steve Brockman. Their engagement ended once Brockman's porn past went public.

The commando EST was better than this one, but I think it's likely that our little OP is a bit off his head.

This story seems familiar.

Thinking you’ve fallen hard for someone you met on Grindr. Can it ever be the real thing?

R73 knows that it's really chaise LONGUE and was just testing us. The clever minx!

R17,

[quote] that he 'doged' a bullet.

Oh, dear

Indeed.

R59

[quote]Who actually believes these idiotic stories? Check OP's other EST posts.

The collective IQ of Datalounge is dropping. Is there ANYONE left on DL who actually reads the posts in a thread before posting themselves? Multiple people point out to other posters that an OP is trolling or spinning an EST, and people just keep barreling on as if nothing was said and the OP is for real. Wake the fuck up, DL!

We don't wanna. We're sweepy! Zzzzzzzzzzzz

This may be the worst DL thread ever, which is saying a lot, OP should commit suicide.

Oh, come now. It's not appreciably worse than his other EST threads.

And yet, in every single one there are posters telling this half-wit to hold his head up high and walk on through the wind, walk on through the storm. OP must be a student of H.L. Mencken.

OP, did you spend your five minutes in Legitimate Porn?

My porn is accessible to you for free.

...open sores and all.

Name, OP/R99. We know how to find it. Your porn NAME.

You KNOW what my porn name is, bitches

Oh, Mel. You knew your contract with Donnie was Cash & Carry. Just suck it up until he leaves office.

Your porn name was "EST Troll"?

This is so boring I've forgotten why we're supposed to care that your "fiance" dumped you. Why would he not?

No, OP we don't know your sad porn name. You're so fucking delusional, you think the world revolves around your used anus.

OP is the same loon who wanted advice on whether going to an older neighbor lady's for cocktails while commando was acceptable.

Are we dealing with a mental illness here, or just an obnoxiously self-involved teen.

I think most of us have figured that out, r106.

OP Did your fiancé dump you after you were so rude to the neighbour upstairs?

Also I don’t know if being a QVC presenter qualifies someone to be ‘off the telly’ in the celebrity sense. Especially if they have to supplement their TV income by working at Burger King.

Damn, Matt Sanchez looks like a basset hound these days.

R109 He always did. Is he still pretending to be straight? Or does he just take bitcoin?

Having a past in gay porn star should have no bearing on whether or not someone should continue a relationship. There have been and will continue to be plenty of guys who worked in porn who are perfectly decent guys. They're not all whores on the side, or drug addicts, con artists, or criminals.

Marc Jacobs is that you honey R111 ? Call me

Did you fuck under the name Dick Grody?

No. His porn name was Ben Dover.

DP Moore is a good name no ?