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Elder gays, I was raped. I feel so scared and all alone.

What should I do?

by Anonymousreply 45April 24, 2019 6:41 PM

Keep your knees together next time.

by Anonymousreply 1April 23, 2019 10:41 PM

Why do you address your post to eldergays? If you are a woman, we sympathize but have no relevant experience to bring to our responses. If you're a man, the same applies because in our youth, men were not raped. I don't mean the act didn't happen, but no one thought of it as rape unless you were in prison.

If you went home with a guy you didn't know, and he was a bit rough or a lot rough, that's just the way it was. Among gay men, consent was assumed once you put yourself in a situation where sex was expected (and we all knew what those situations were). If the other guy went too far, it was up to you to fight him off with whatever means you had available.

I'm not saying that was right, but that's the way it was.

by Anonymousreply 2April 23, 2019 10:51 PM

R1 You Pig.... OP. Tell someone...even a helpline. Even if its to stop this guy raping again.. This wont go away. Plus Youll beat yoirself up for not being 'brave' enuf to do something. Let us know what happens. You did nothing wrong...he did a crime...any otger crime, like theft, and youd make him pay. This is just the same. Good luck my friend.

by Anonymousreply 3April 23, 2019 10:52 PM

Trolling OP

by Anonymousreply 4April 23, 2019 10:54 PM

I concur with, R1. In addition don’t wear such provocative clothing. You’re just asking for it.

by Anonymousreply 5April 23, 2019 10:57 PM

OP, when you ask for it, don't complain when you get it.

by Anonymousreply 6April 23, 2019 11:00 PM

Was it rape-rape??

Or did you just regret hooking up with someone the next day like most of the MeToo sluts??

by Anonymousreply 7April 23, 2019 11:04 PM

OP I’m so sorry this happened to you. Please disregard anything from R2.

I’m assuming you are a man. Men have been raped for years. This is so sad. Please go to your nearest gay center and seek counseling.

by Anonymousreply 8April 23, 2019 11:28 PM

If necessary seek counseling. And if this was a drug or alcohol induced situation, learn from your mistake and don't over indulge again. As far as it goes OP, rape isn't the worst thing in the world. It's bad, yes, but people survive much worse and manage to get up in the morning. I think Americans are to OTT in their reactions to date and acquaintance rape, (I'm guessing that's what you experienced ) .For the time being, the most important thing is your physical health and possible contact with disease. Go to a doctor and get yourself tested.

by Anonymousreply 9April 23, 2019 11:37 PM

Put some ice on it.

by Anonymousreply 10April 23, 2019 11:43 PM

OP you may need to wear a panty liner for a few days if there is any leakage or your hole is gaping. Could you tell us in detail exactly what happened? It might help others.

Be sure to include the size of the guys rod. Did he dump a full load in you by chance? That would have been awful. Just awful.

by Anonymousreply 11April 23, 2019 11:45 PM

Get even.

by Anonymousreply 12April 23, 2019 11:52 PM

I was raped. Got super drunk took a guy I’ve always wanted to make out with and fell into bed stumbling drunk. He laid in top of me we made out and he started undressing me to make oubnaked and he started fucking me. I was so drunk I really had no control of my body. I mumbled no and he ejaculated in my hole. He walked out and I was dozing off woke up shit out the cum and went to ER for PeP. I didn’t feel traumatized

by Anonymousreply 13April 24, 2019 12:34 AM

The worst part is if you get AIDS, there's nothing worse than that.

by Anonymousreply 14April 24, 2019 12:37 AM

R13 that sounds awful. I’m sure you are in schock.

by Anonymousreply 15April 24, 2019 12:39 AM

Is that you Joel?

by Anonymousreply 16April 24, 2019 12:40 AM

I have two words for you - Gloria Allred

by Anonymousreply 17April 24, 2019 12:43 AM

R17 Nah, she'll only help if OP was raped by a famous guy

by Anonymousreply 18April 24, 2019 12:44 AM

You should have attempted to squeeze tight your hole to prevent entry, you slut!

by Anonymousreply 19April 24, 2019 12:45 AM

OP, were you raped by a celeb? Which one?

And remember, if he's cut, he's the victim, not you!!!

by Anonymousreply 20April 24, 2019 12:47 AM

That’s what you get for sleeping with a buttplug inserted.

by Anonymousreply 21April 24, 2019 12:47 AM

OP - I’m an elder gay, and haven’t seen any “action” in quite some time. Consider yourself lucky.

by Anonymousreply 22April 24, 2019 12:54 AM

You people are awful! Rape is nothing to laugh at. Male rape is on the increase and most of the victims do not report it. This is an abuse. A sexual abuse.

Please OP, do not listen to these horrible people. Seek legal and medical attention right away.

by Anonymousreply 23April 24, 2019 12:57 AM

Except someone raped would not write such a terse, bizarre, trolling opener, fool.

by Anonymousreply 24April 24, 2019 1:01 AM

I want to say bend over and take it. But that would be rude and so not how I feel about rape. Troll.

by Anonymousreply 25April 24, 2019 1:03 AM

The fastest way to recover is to rape someone else. Hope that helps.

by Anonymousreply 26April 24, 2019 1:05 AM

R26 Lol, like a rape version of The Ring?

by Anonymousreply 27April 24, 2019 1:06 AM

Why would someone come on here and say something so awful? This is not funny.

by Anonymousreply 28April 24, 2019 1:16 AM

A little club soda will get that out.

by Anonymousreply 29April 24, 2019 2:48 AM

I was raped, r2. Held at gunpoint and made to suck some guy's (extremely smelly) cock. Another time, I was drugged.

by Anonymousreply 30April 24, 2019 3:38 AM

Fake. Why address only eldergays if you got raped and need advice?

by Anonymousreply 31April 24, 2019 4:40 AM

Go immediately to the nearest health care provider and get tested. If the test comes back positive, ask for the morning after pill or the address of the building in town with the most flights of stairs. You have no time to waste. The life of your slightly retarded, unborn rape baby depends on you to kill it.

by Anonymousreply 32April 24, 2019 5:09 AM

Bur was it rape-rape? because only rape-rape counts

by Anonymousreply 33April 24, 2019 5:38 AM

But... or Butt if yous gay

by Anonymousreply 34April 24, 2019 5:39 AM

I sincerely hope you do not get pregnant

by Anonymousreply 35April 24, 2019 5:41 AM

it's just butt babies... you poop then out and flush

by Anonymousreply 36April 24, 2019 5:47 AM

Well OP, if it was good enough for your mother, why are you acting so goddam high and mighty? You are not the first gayling born from rape who then claims rape. It’s basically expected that you let 23 people run a bareback train on you while your neighbors watch, again just like your whore mother.

Best Advice: Douche and pour yourself a glass of wine and enjoy the afterglow.

by Anonymousreply 37April 24, 2019 6:51 AM

Anyone who is raped should call the cops and a crisis center. Not a bunch of old fags.

by Anonymousreply 38April 24, 2019 10:13 AM

I was molested.

by Anonymousreply 39April 24, 2019 12:27 PM

I was, too.

by Anonymousreply 40April 24, 2019 1:18 PM

You were asking for it, OP.

Next time don’t go into a gay bar in Daisy Dukes.

by Anonymousreply 41April 24, 2019 1:31 PM

I like blue

by Anonymousreply 42April 24, 2019 4:53 PM

Where's the jar with my teeth!

by Anonymousreply 43April 24, 2019 5:48 PM

Give him my address !

by Anonymousreply 44April 24, 2019 6:16 PM

You call that raped? Now this is raped!

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