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Terrible fight with my sister

I think we may never speak again.

I had been talking with her on the phone again. I asked about her daughter’s divorce and she told me she wasn’t going to talk about it.

I said something off-hand about how her (meaning my niece) husband had been through a lot, and my sister exploded at me.

She said I hate women and always take the man’s side. That I did it to her when she got divorced. I told her I just call it like I see it. She ran that poor man crazy. She started screaming at me that he had a mental illness and was “abusive” to her. When I said she was exaggerating like she always does, she said I was just as hateful as Daddy, that Daddy hated her.

At that point, I lost it. I’ve had it with her maligning our parents. I said she was right, that Daddy did hate her. He told me so. (This isn’t true, but she tried Daddy’s patience a lot and he didn’t care much for her.)

I said that maybe if she hadn’t been such a troublemaker, he would’ve liked her more. She went off about that molestation story. I said that Daddy said she made that up. She was having sex at 12 and probably seduced him. She called me a faggot. I told her Daddy said she was a whore who’d sleep with a buck you-know-what.

And then she hung up on me. I had to take four Xanax and have a gimlet to calm my nerves. I won’t be calling her back.

by Anonymousreply 97Last Monday at 3:48 PM

Sounds GHASTLY.

by Anonymousreply 104/05/2019

Do you make a career out of writing fiction?

by Anonymousreply 204/05/2019

[quote]I think we may never speak again.

It really is for the best, OP.

by Anonymousreply 304/05/2019

You BOTH sound ghastly.

by Anonymousreply 404/05/2019

Nobody cares about your made-up dramas, you pointless dullard.

by Anonymousreply 504/05/2019

Is your grand-niece pregnant with a (GASP!) mixed race baby yet?

by Anonymousreply 604/05/2019

MANY people look forward to these updates!

by Anonymousreply 704/05/2019

R6, unfortunately I have no information about that. They probably wouldn’t tell me if she was.

I just get so angry when my sister trashes our wonderful parents.

by Anonymousreply 804/05/2019

I didn't know gimlets were still a thing! You learn something new every day.

by Anonymousreply 904/05/2019

The people in your head don’t count r7/OP.

by Anonymousreply 1004/05/2019

Did you do her niece's husband?

by Anonymousreply 1104/05/2019

Thanks for sharing. ™

by Anonymousreply 1204/05/2019

Please wash down about 400 xanax with that gimlet next time, OP. Then drink another gimlet or two and put a plastic bag over your head and tie it nice and tight for good measure.

by Anonymousreply 1304/05/2019

R13, you sound like a vicious lesbian.

R11, I think I am going to call him. He’s very charming.

by Anonymousreply 1404/05/2019

You were doing really well until the molestation bit, OP.

Remember, less is more.

by Anonymousreply 1504/05/2019

OP - Same scenario in my family. You're better off without them. Cut off contact without being rude or revengeful. Just don't call her back or reply to any of her messages. Let the relationship die out. Move on without her. In the coming years you can still be distraught and arguing over the same issue or you could be free of her. There is no other option. Because you can't change her. That's the best advice I can give you.

BTW, FWIW, the weekend (Friday morning to late Sunday) is not the time to start these types of threads. Or for that matter post supportive replies like mine. So I am leaving the thread now before the "devoid of emotion" juveniles pounce and attack. Best of luck.

by Anonymousreply 1604/05/2019

Do grown-ups still refer to their fathers as daddy? The whole story sounds made up

by Anonymousreply 1704/05/2019

10/10. Looking forward to more.

by Anonymousreply 1804/05/2019

Someone is way too easily entertained.

by Anonymousreply 1904/05/2019

Siblings are overrated

by Anonymousreply 2004/05/2019

Of course it's made up R17

by Anonymousreply 2104/05/2019

I felt the same R15, it would have been just right if he stopped before that

by Anonymousreply 2204/05/2019

She wasn’t really molested. She said a creepy neighbor of ours (he was in his 80s) touched her breast. She knew to stay away from over there. I think someone had a talk with him, but that wasn’t good enough for my sister. She wanted him drawn and quartered.

He was a senile old man who barely knew he was in this world.

by Anonymousreply 2304/05/2019

[quote]She called me a faggot. I told her Daddy said she was a whore who’d sleep with a buck you-know-what.

One troll calls everyone a f-ggot and some gullible idiot starts dropping the n-word in revenge.

It's tiresome on DL and it's deadly boring in ESTs.

by Anonymousreply 2404/05/2019

[quote][R13], you sound like a vicious lesbian.

So do YOU. My God!

by Anonymousreply 2504/05/2019

When shall you be serving your delicious Chicken A La King again?

by Anonymousreply 2604/05/2019

[quote]The whole story sounds made up

No!

by Anonymousreply 2704/05/2019

[quote] BTW, FWIW, the weekend (Friday morning to late Sunday) is not the time to start these types of threads. Or for that matter post supportive replies like mine.

There is no time that it's not stupid to post "supportive" replies to a tedious recurring troll character and his fictional dramas.

by Anonymousreply 2804/05/2019

Anyone that calls a parent "mommy"or "daddy"after the age of 8 deserves what they get.

by Anonymousreply 2904/05/2019

[quote]One troll calls everyone a f-ggot and some gullible idiot starts dropping the n-word in revenge.

Daddy did actually tell me that, I’m reference to my sister. On more than one occasion. He was not as enlightened as we are today.

by Anonymousreply 3004/05/2019

Recipe for that gimlet OP?

by Anonymousreply 3104/05/2019

OP, don't you mean, "Fight With My Terrible Sister?"

by Anonymousreply 3204/05/2019

[quote]There is no time that it's not stupid to post "supportive" replies to a tedious recurring troll character and his fictional dramas.

PFFFT! To you!

I fallen in LOVE with this family!

by Anonymousreply 3304/05/2019

We always called our father Daddy. Why change it?

by Anonymousreply 3404/05/2019

I love this poster. He should be the president of the Maiden Aunt Brigade.

by Anonymousreply 3504/05/2019

R34, (OP)probably bc as an adult it means something else.

by Anonymousreply 3604/05/2019

This would have been better if the fight was with your brother instead.

by Anonymousreply 3704/05/2019

I don’t have a brother, but if I did, I doubt we’d get into fights.

I think I’m going to have another drink and call that poor husband of my niece’s.

by Anonymousreply 3804/05/2019

Wait a minute.... There's the:

-Sister

-The niece

-And, the grand niece (this is the one that's the slut, right?)

by Anonymousreply 3904/05/2019

[quote]I think I’m going to have another drink and call that poor husband of my niece’s.

Oy, vey -the goyim with the booze and the pills.

This is the only time I'm glad to be Jewish.

by Anonymousreply 4004/05/2019

You got it, R39. But there are two grand nieces, the older one being a teenaged slut who ruined herself with tampons since she was 12, and the younger one who is a badly behaved brat who messes with OP's vintage Avon bottles.

by Anonymousreply 4104/05/2019

I, too, agree with R15

by Anonymousreply 4204/05/2019

How do you ruin yourself with tampons?

by Anonymousreply 4304/05/2019

This is a 1983 TV Movie.

by Anonymousreply 4404/05/2019

[quote]and the younger one who is a badly behaved brat who messes with OP's vintage Avon bottles.

OH! I don't know her!

by Anonymousreply 4504/05/2019

Oh, I'd forgotten about the Avon bottles!

Thank you, R41!

by Anonymousreply 4604/05/2019

I would have given her a vicious face-slapping, OP! And her daughter, the man-hating niece!! Multiple slaps, delivered viciously, across their cunt faces!! How dare they!

by Anonymousreply 4704/05/2019

[quote]How do you ruin yourself with tampons?

She loves having things stuck up in her.

by Anonymousreply 4804/05/2019

You're welcome, R46.

I don't recall which niece was given the Easter bonnet, however. Maybe OP can confirm.

by Anonymousreply 4904/05/2019

So where is the niece who ruined herself with tampons now ? (She sounds fun )

by Anonymousreply 5004/05/2019

You forgot the part when you called the niece a strumpet.

by Anonymousreply 5104/05/2019

[quote]I don’t have a brother, but if I did, I doubt we’d get into fights.

I don't.

by Anonymousreply 5204/05/2019

7/10

by Anonymousreply 5304/05/2019

Pic of OP's sister

by Anonymousreply 5404/05/2019

Find us a pic of OP, R54.

by Anonymousreply 5504/05/2019

There is one, R55. She's R26

by Anonymousreply 5604/05/2019

My sister has one daughter, who is nearly 40. The daughter has two girls. The older one is 14 or 15, the younger one is 5 or 6. It’s hard to keep up with the ages.

My niece revealed a couple of years ago that the older daughter had started her period and so she went out and bought her a tampon. I voiced a concern that maybe her future husband wouldn’t appreciate having a new bride who’d been using tampons since she was 12 or 13. Also, I think maybe it encourages promiscuity.

by Anonymousreply 5704/05/2019

[quote]I voiced a concern

LOL

by Anonymousreply 5804/05/2019

R54, she is far too thin to be my sister. My sister is very fat. Mother tried to nip that in the bud when my sister was around 13 or so. Mother tried to teach her about diet and keeping yourself in shape, and even offered to get her an Adderall prescription. My sister balked and has probably gained 5 pounds a year ever since.

by Anonymousreply 5904/05/2019

Ah, the long lost Golden Girls episode too edgy for primetime. Thought I lost it.

by Anonymousreply 6004/05/2019

Picture this as Clayton and Blanche.

by Anonymousreply 6104/05/2019

Eunice Higgins, played by Carol Burnett, was the height of neurotic childhood mistreatment stories. Your mention of "Daddy" made me think of her, OP. That's all.

by Anonymousreply 6204/05/2019

[quote]My sister balked and has probably gained 5 pounds a year ever since.

So she's one of the American BIG PEOPLE (as I call them)? Or not quite

by Anonymousreply 6304/05/2019

I've never gotten a feeling that the family was southern. But, New England,New Jersey, or something like that comes to my mind. Anyway, southern children--especially the well off ones, calls the patriarch of the family daddy waaay into adulthood. I've heard 50 year old men call their fathers daddy or call him daddy when they are talking about him. It's fairly common.

by Anonymousreply 6404/05/2019

MENDACITY!

by Anonymousreply 6504/05/2019

R64, we are from the Midwest, though my mother was born and raised in Virginia.

by Anonymousreply 6604/05/2019

So you turn to booze and dope.

Well Broadway doesn't go for booze and dope.

Now get out of my way, I've got a man waiting for me.

by Anonymousreply 6704/05/2019

I don’t take dope. Back in the ‘70s, I enjoyed Quaaludes quite a bit, but you can’t get them anymore!

by Anonymousreply 6804/05/2019

You need reparative therapy, starting with a big big bottle of Xanax, followed with Get the Fuck Over Your Drama, Bitch.

It comes in the giant economy size. Lucky for you.

by Anonymousreply 6904/05/2019

Dear, sweet r69. So earnest.

by Anonymousreply 7004/05/2019

R70. It’s the Importance of Being Earnest, Aunt Augusta.

by Anonymousreply 7104/05/2019

It’s fine to turn your back on your sister, but how can you turn your back on me?

by Anonymousreply 7204/05/2019

Joel is a neighbor boy, not a nephew. Smh.

by Anonymousreply 7304/06/2019

2/10

by Anonymousreply 7404/06/2019

Someone needs a tire iron to the base of the skull

by Anonymousreply 7504/06/2019

I phoned my niece’s estranged husband yesterday evening. He didn’t seem to know who I was at first, which I found a little strange. I reminded him that he had been to my house for Xmas, and he said “Oh, right. The fancy uncle.” I bristled a bit, but didn’t say anything.

I told him I was very sorry to hear of the developments with my niece, but I understood that she was probably very difficult to live with. He let his guard down at this point, and said “Yeah, you don’t have the best relationship with her either, do you?”

We talked for about 20 minutes. Their marriage hadn’t been good for a number of years. My niece had become verbally abusive toward him, so he’d been sleeping in his office for the past two years. She’s been treating him like nothing more than a meal ticket ever since. Even the girls had begun being disrespectful to him.

He met a young woman at work several months ago and they began an affair. He finally decided it was time to move out and file for divorce. She is acting like he blindsided her with all this, and her mother has been telling the girls that he’s a deadbeat.

So I told him the story of my sister and her marriage, and how she drove her husband into a mental ward, and then to suicide. He knew niece’s father had died, but none of the backstory. Big surprise.

Oh, and he told me he didn’t think their younger daughter was really his child. He’s got a good lawyer by the sound of it, so I don’t think they’ll take him to the cleaners.

I ended with a general “we should meet for a drink sometime” and then got off the phone. He’s a lovely man. I wish I was related to him instead of those other harpies.

by Anonymousreply 7604/06/2019

R73 Well you could argue that Joel is someone's nephew.

by Anonymousreply 7704/06/2019

Is this really you, OP?

by Anonymousreply 7804/06/2019

You poor dear. I hope you can patch things up. We're rooting for you!

by Anonymousreply 7904/06/2019

Even we quickly passed on this script.

It's not compelling or interesting enough to last to the first commercial break.

by Anonymousreply 8004/06/2019

@R76

REWRITE!

by Anonymousreply 8104/06/2019

Just let your sister know that you will not be leaving your priceless collection of Antique Avon Bottles to her or any of her trashy heirs!

by Anonymousreply 8204/06/2019

OP, please let us know more about when you and your niece's husband "Joel" or whatever you are calling him in this roman a clef do finally go out on a date...

And when he ultimately fucks your mussy

by Anonymousreply 8304/07/2019

I came home this afternoon from getting a massage and there’s a nasty message from my niece on the machine.

It was extremely vulgar and threatening, telling me she knew I’d talked to her husband and that I’d better stay out of her business or I’ll regret it.

Can you imagine? I’ll speak to whomever I please!

I always suspected she was a little deranged, considering that her father wound up in an institution and then offed himself.

by Anonymousreply 8404/09/2019

R82, I rescued those bottles from the trash after Mother died. My sister was going to throw them out!

by Anonymousreply 8504/09/2019

I haven’t spoken to my cunt of a sister for 6 years. She swindled my father estate and when he passed she got bulk of his estate, even though his will stated differently

by Anonymousreply 8604/09/2019

Oh, goodness!

by Anonymousreply 8704/09/2019

[quote] voiced a concern that maybe her future husband wouldn’t appreciate having a new bride who’d been using tampons since she was 12 or 13. Also, I think maybe it encourages promiscuity.

Tampons are the Devil's own fingers!

Don't sacrifice your daughter's purity to this Evil!

by Anonymousreply 8804/09/2019

Mother Pence is wearing a kind of trampy, whorish dress at R88. That’s pretty shocking to me. I’ve only seen her dress like a shapeless granny. Even the shoes are out of character. She’s built like a linebacker. And her calves are blocky for a woman that’s so waistless and heavy.

Are we sure that’s not Father Pence, with Father Pence?

by Anonymousreply 8904/09/2019

[quote] I think we may never speak again.

To each other, or just in general? One hopes for utter silence across the board.

by Anonymousreply 9004/09/2019

I didn’t get a wink of sleep last night. I kept hearing what I thought were footsteps outside my bedroom window. I’m terrified that my niece may have hired someone to come over here and hurt me. All because I dared talk to her husband. Should I phone the police?

by Anonymousreply 9104/10/2019

You seem a bit paranoid, OP.

by Anonymousreply 9204/10/2019

Four Xanax? What strength? You need to be caredul with those.

by Anonymousreply 9304/10/2019

R91 Yes OP. Let them lock you up in the jail for the night like Andy Griffith did with the town drunk. Then you'll be safe.

by Anonymousreply 9404/10/2019

R93, I’ve taken them on and off for years, but I have to have a little something to drink with them for them to really work. They’re not as good as Miltown, but you can’t get that anymore, unfortunately.

I noticed a strange truck driving down my street yesterday, but other than that, no further worrying incidents. Maybe I was just being paranoid.

by Anonymousreply 95Last Sunday at 5:16 PM

Why don't you put your sister on the back burner for a few years and clean up your yard?

by Anonymousreply 96Last Sunday at 5:27 PM

My yard is pristine!

by Anonymousreply 97Last Monday at 3:48 PM
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