"I Am Not Male Or Female:" Sam Smith Said He Identifies As Gender Non-Binary

Sam Smith says pay attention to me.

Oh, dear God, what a beautiful woman-to-be. Just gawjuhss.

He's too old for this.

[quote]I’ve sometimes sat and questioned, do I want a sex change?

This is so bizarre to me. You either enjoy having a cock and playing with it, or you have body dysmorphia and feel like it's an alien part of your body, in which case you should get a sex change. But going back and forth and not feeling strongly either way... I've never heard of that before and it makes me think he's saying all this for attention. Awful if that's the case; I thought better of him.

He's too homely for anyone to care.

Can he return his best male vocalist awards ?

[quote] I Am Not Male Or Female:

Has he considered a DNA analysis to settle the question ?

Is he a dog or a cat?

Animal, vegetable, or mineral?

He’s god

he should read this

😹 GOD is DOG spelled backwards.

Why’s he with a guy who hates all the queers?

Does anyone remember the Ray McClooney character from Little Britain? That's what this non-binary crap makes me think of.

I'm not very familiar with him (I had to google) since he's primarily a European pop star but I think he's quite attractive, whatever his precise sexuality.

He's finished.

After this ridiculousness, no one will pay any attention to him anymore.

He shouldn't have lost the weight. He became an instant asshole, once he lost it.

I hate that he’s using the health problem he had as a kid as a reason. Gynecomastia Is quite common in boys around the onset of puberty but it usually goes away after a few years. If boys are obese they can start storing in the chest and fat cells relaease estrogen exacerbating the problem but losing weight solves the problem. I’d hate to think that those boys will now worry if maybe they are girls or non binary or worse that other kids will have another insult to bully them with. Likewise, some girls get hair on their chin, chest or thighs from testosterone levels in their teens. They are not boys, half boys, non binary or gender queer. Don’t young people have enough to worry about already without more shit like this.

He look like a man.

When all this trans stuff (judge's decisions, medical and psychiatry, gay orgs, politicians' support) finally comes tumbling down it will destroy the left politically for a decade

He is to become geisha!

No, you aren't, Sam. Not that anyone cares because you're fug.

I hope he keeps his bubblegum. I’d like to chew it someday.

It could be worse ....... Felicity Huffman could be his mother.

He's speshul.

Is this considered an out of body experience?

Cock = male. So he's male.

🐓 Cock-a-doodle-doo, y'all !

Non-Binary. That's why they hate us.

He hates us, R27, that’s why he pulls this shit after his embarrassing antics claiming to be the first openly gay Oscar winner. He is a self-loathing jackass who can’t accept being gay.

Non-Binding. That's why I love my underwear.

He sho' is uglee.

Geez, so fucking tired of hearing about this crap.

Yes, r31! Agree! A Big MARY to y'all!

...and yet he still gets all the privilege and benefits of being MALE. Because guess what, moron? Oppression isn't about the way you see yourself; it's about the way others see you.

[quote] Smith told Jamil that he’s “always had a war between my body and my mind,” explaining that he had liposuction when he was 12 years old after his mom took him to the doctor and discovered his body was storing excessive amounts of estrogen in his chest, giving him breasts.

I'd bet $10 that Mommy told him that because she wanted to shield him from the truth that he was just a big fat person who constantly ate.

Good Night Nurse.

[quote] You either enjoy having a cock and playing with it, or you have body dysmorphia and feel like it's an alien part of your body, in which case you should get a sex change.

Would anyone go to a podiatrist for a toothache? Dysmorphia is between the ears ... not the legs.

The plan of treatment for any type of body dysmorphia is behavioral therapy, cognitive therapy, and anti-depressants.

Make him go away.

He really has ruined his career. He was a big deal when his first album came out, and now he can't give his records away.

Sam Smith should go off his "diet" (ie. stop sniffing coke) transition into a "woman" and team up with Adele.

They could be the new Two Tonnes of Fun.

He's a man.

Is this what ruined the Brandon relationship?

[quote] They could be the new Two Tonnes of Fun.

Somehow I don't think their first single "It's Raining Non-Binary Gender-Free Carbon Based Life Forms" will make much of a dent on the chart.

[quote]Somehow I don't think their first single "It's Raining Non-Binary Gender-Free Carbon Based Life Forms" will make much of a dent on the chart.

Leave your umbrellas at home!

[quote]I hate that he’s using the health problem he had as a kid as a reason. Gynecomastia Is quite common in boys around the onset of puberty but it usually goes away after a few years. If boys are obese they can start storing in the chest and fat cells relaease estrogen exacerbating the problem but losing weight solves the problem.

Right, and it can always be caused by disproportionately high testosterone levels, such as in puberty or through anabolic steroid use. In an attempt at restoring balance, the body converts what it perceives to be excess testosterone into estrogen, through a process called aromatization. The usual practice for steroid-cyclers experiencing estrogenic symptoms is to supplement with aromatase inhibitors (drugs that block aromasin, the enzyme that plays an integral role in the aromatization process).

By calling on that (admittedly painful and embarrassing) experience, Smith muddies the mind-body mishmash narrative that's he's borrowed from trans activism. So which is it, Sam? What are you trying to tell us?

Respect my insanity!!

Everything is fluid. This rapper/weightlifter announced that he was a woman for a day when he lifted a weight stack and in doing so he broke the woman's weightlifting world record. (He did so to prove a point.)

Fuck. At least in that picture at R12, Smith looks butcher than Shock!

Nobody gives a fuck.

Zuby rules!

I realize I'm probably in the minority but I prefer his cute pudgy cub look.

I now understand why Brandon Flynn broke up with him.

*eye roll* @ Sam Smith.

Prince could get away with this shit----------Smith just looks ridiculous.

Sam who?

You either are a man or woman. Gay or straight. This gender shape shifting talk among adults is a bizarre trend. It doesn't do gay or straight people any good. Just weird and stupid. Mostly for attention and shock value

Where's the science on all this stuff? I'm not hearing from biologists and geneticists talk about this movement. Are they all scared? I think the history of racism and eugenics has everyone afraid to speak out and tell the goddamned truth.

[quote]Has he considered a DNA analysis to settle the question ?

Or, he could just sneak a peek into his own underwear. There’s a test that’s usually pretty accurate in determining gender.

[quote] he could just sneak a peek into his own underwear

All he'll find are skid marks.

Testing the waters before hegoes full MTF.

I heart Zuby! What a fucking brave guy. And look at this, what they are really saying is that gays must be sterilized but we knew that was the whole point of this shit. And Japan gives no fucks and won't bow to Alok and Megadeth and Jacob Tobia.

How brave of him. He's still fug in any gender.

R12 I've never seen this man's breasts but he DOES have a large head.

Mild breast swelling and tenderness is common with boys during puberty. Somebody should have told him he's not turning into a girl.

His music is awful. And all these labels just to say you like dick is ridic.

He's desperate for attention. I dislike his music (screechy warbly falsetto whines), but he's funny on chat shows.

He should never have won the Oscar for that awful Bond song no one can remember. Remember when he was going after poor Tom Daley?

It's snowflake a gender yet?

Looks pretty male to me.

He's become exhausting and boring.

Do the Qs and Ts welcome him as their mascot?

Or for that matter, did I miss any related Twittrage against him for publicly singing about being a man?

Still ugly, still tiresome

So, has a cock and a pussy? Both? Neither?

I think he should ask out Jacob Tobia.

R66 going after ‘poor’ Tom Daley? You mean the town bicycle that very top in London has rode? That’s one well used ‘bi’ bottom.

He is saying having bitchtits was his body's way of showing him his fem side? Or wtf.

Anyway I don't know what's worse, him, or the "Countertenor" phenomena in opera. Every damn male singer wants to be a countertenor. Something in the damn water for sure.

[quote] "I Am Not Male Or Female"

No, but you ARE extremely annoying, Sam Smith.

[Quote] his mom took him to the doctor and discovered his body was storing excessive amounts of estrogen in his chest, giving him breasts.

Is that why he sings like a whiny bitch?

#keepthepeensam

If only there were some physical way to differentiate male from female.

R4 doesn't understand gender issues.

r80 Please enlighten me. Yes, I should have used gender dysphoria, not body dysmorphia, and I unfortunately noticed the error when it was too late. But other than that, my point stands. And I haven't developed gender identity myself, so please don't lecture me on "gender issues", cunt.

Oh, nevermind, I see that poster's just a troll, stirring shit left and right all over DL. As you were.

He is going to be so fucking embarrassed by this self-indulgent non-binary nonsense in ten years' time

Datalounge, Sam Smith's announcement has inspired me to speak my truth. I now identify as an elephant. Does anyone have any peanuts?

Almost every fat person that loses the weight at a reasonable rate before they're 40 looks about 10 times better, so why does Sam Smith look the same---or slightly worse?

Also, I read that he was 26 and I didn't believe it, had to look it up. He is actually 26, but to me he looks early-mid thirties, is this a symptom of his weightloss or is he "identifying" as someone older as well?

R85 same here, when I heard that he was a year younger than me I was also surprised. That's one rough 26. At least when he was chubby, he looked his age.

I'm assuming the reason the weight loss looks so bad on him is because it's not "healthy diet and exercise skinny," but rather "coke (and/or amphetamines) skinny."

Remember when Jonah Hill lost a ton of weight, and somehow looked even more repulsive? ...same thing.

....

Is he still dating that Netflix actor?

If you're a fat kid or a fat teen, and don't get in shape until after your body has stopped growing, you will always have that certain look, it can't be corrected w skin surgery. Fat kids skeletons are even different(knock knees, permanent bad posture).

I can't think of one person who was fat until adulthood who doesn't have that look.

What a pretentious twat.

He should date Rose McGowan

Some bodybuilders and Instagram models were obese into their adulthood but got into great shape. Fitness is about work ethic. Sam Smith is probably just lazy when it comes to exercise.

who cares

he one fugly queen. ughhhhhh

Looking pretty male here

I had to unfollow Sam Smith on Instagram because of this statement. He is forcing me to dislike him.

if he dint have $ and fame, he would never have a date

FUG GUG WUG MUG SUG

R94 gross whatever it is

TMI.

What, exactly, is his problem? He's rich, he has an Oscar....Wanna talk about problems, Sam? I'll show you problems.

He’s so ugly. Who gives a shit

He looks like Sloth from Ice Age.

whatever IT is , its beyong ugly and should stay home so we we don't got to look at such a supremely ugly face.

PLZ STAY HOME AND AWAY FROM CAMERAS SIR

With trainer

Sam seems to be putting on weight again.

I guess that's why he got himself a trainer R104.

Trainer looks like he could probably use a trainer too

That was my first reaction too, R106.

R106 No kidding. No wonder he's fat. He's taking advice from a fellow fatty.

Fuck off Sam.

I'm a Tiffany lampshade.

That’s a man, dude!

Ladies with an attitude Fellows that were in the mood Don't just stand there, let's get to it Strike a pose, there's nothing to it 🖤

Millennials.

I identify him as an arsehole

Why don’t the English get the fuck on Propecia soon enough?

I mean really!

Sam Smith is making a mockery of real trans. Why aren’t they in an uproar over this and cancel him?

This isn't even about Trans. This is altogether different bullshit.

If he's going to be a woman, he needs to do something about his hairline quick.

It's weird that pattern baldness affects men but not women. When bald men trans to female, does estrogen make their hair grow back?

He's not going to be a woman. He's non-binary, you see! Even more interesting and SPECIAL than trans!

It's creepy as fuck is what it is...

So non-binary is not related to the trans stuff?

Yes, it is related. He even said he was deciding if he wanted a sex change.

[quote]When bald men trans to female, does estrogen make their hair grow back?

I’d like to know this too.

Er, I mean my friend would like to know.

[quote]Fellows that were in the mood

OH, DEAR!

Lol.

I think this is bullshit. Everyone has both male and female traits. This gender non-binary stuff is made up

Between this, T and queer...

Yeah he's kind of self absorbed and full of silly information (storing estrogen in his chest). There are lots of mixed up people in the world- more of us are than are not one way or another. We just know too much often- or rather- we know too much about something that we do not need to know about. He does not bother me- so however he views himself- fine. Live and let live.

"I identify as unfuckable" - Sam Smith

My god that's one haggard 26 year old. When he's 40 he will look horrendous.

r103, r130

Dear god that picture is AWFUL. He looks early forties there! Is it all the power of a receding hairline, or is it something more foundation... drugs? Something else? Whatever it is, I want to AVOID it!!

From Sam Smith’s interview in the Sunday Times. Looks like Sam Smith is a bit TERFy because Sam Smith makes reference to female bodies

[quote] As we talk, Smith is relaxed, wearing a soft grey sweatshirt and jeans. Their weight has fluctuated a lot during their career and it turns out that the relationship with their body actually inspired the pronoun change in a significant way. “For me, what triggered everything was the work I was doing with my body issues. I always had body dysmorphia. As I started to address that, I started to address my gender and realised that I was holding myself to these ideals of how a man should look. As I looked into it, I did therapy, I realised there was more to it. I have girl’s thighs and I have girl breasts too. It started to awaken this conversation that had always been in the back of my mind.”

SOME FAT MEN HAVE TITS - GET OVER IT

I beg to differ. Fuck your feelings!

[Quote] I have girl’s thighs and I have girl breasts too. It started to awaken this conversation that had always been in the back of my mind.”

Sam never fails to amuse with Sam's ignorance.

Poor, stupid thing.

He still sounds utterly exhausting and insufferable.

It seems to be getting worse too. One day he will just disappear after being sucked up his own asshole.

I don't think Sam is exhausting, just very dim. Clearly not cerebral, not at all. No verbal essays, just stray proclamations.

Just like Sam Smith's tweet about having a vivacious woman inside of Sam Smith who comes alive when Sam Smith dances, Sam Smith is demonstrating he has a very retrograde attitude about masculinity and the male body.

It's a shame Sam Smith wasn't born in the 70s, because Sam Smith would have grown up watching amazing artists like Annie Lennox, Boy George, Grace Jones, Sinead O'Connor, Alison Moyet, Marilyn, David Bowie, Prince, Bananarama, Madonna all challenging stereotypical sex roles and blurring the lines between masculinity and femininity.

Sam Smith seems desperately unhappy and would really benefit from some equality and diversity training.

There were plenty of gender benders after the 1970s, especially in Britain, Sam's birthplace.

R138 But this is quite common in people who declare non binary, it's "i like something that it's not common for my genre so i must be non binary" which is incredibly sexist and a mockery of real sexual dismorphia.

If you are a man and you like to dance like a woman, you are exactly that a man who dances like a woman but now people need a very special cathegory to suit them.

And i like Sam, they is talented but very very tiresome. And i have a doubt someone who uses the they/them pronoum can use "me" when he talks about "themselve". Sorry if it's a stupid question but i found the whole pronoums thing very confusing

Spot on R140. And yes - very, very tiresome.

This is an actual petition. Not a parody.

Just to illustrate R138 point, my favourite 1980s band Japan (and their straight lead singer David Sylvian).

Zhey zho zhannoying!

I didn't mention Pete Burns or Phil Oakey in my list. The sight of men wearing make up and having long hair wasn't anything spectacular or shocking when I was growing up,

Plus some of the biggest artists and groups were obviously gay even if they weren't officially out - Freddie Mercury, Andy Bell from Erasure, Jimmy Somerville, Pet Shop Boys, Elton John. Frankie Goes To Hollywood/Holly Johnson.

But a narcissist like Sam Smith wouldn't think to appreciate those artists helped break open the doors and keep them open for the likes of Smith who was born in 1992. Back when Sam Smith was a gay man, Sam Smith couldn't even be bothered to find out whether any other gay men had won Oscars, Sam Smith just declared that Sam Smith was the first gay man to win an Oscar.

I saw him on Graham Norton recently and he's put all the weight back on. He was wearing high waisted trousers with braces and looked enormous. Even Harry Styles can barely pull off that look at 6ft and 170 lbs. Sam must weigh around 250lbs. He's 6ft 2 and massive so would make a terrible transwoman.

R145 I think that has more to do with Sam not being particularly bright than with being a narcissist. The guy heard that no openly gay actor won the oscar and thought nobody gay won the oscar.

It's a pity because Sam was probably the first openly gay singer that american radio really embraced and was out from the very beginning of his career, but then he needed to come out as something different every year.

And the worst part is the androginous image looks atrocious on him

I'd hit him hard, male or female.

Dear Sam taking a cock up your ass doesn't make you a woman. You are gay dear.

As many of us predicting long ago, "trans" and "nonbinary" bullshit ended up being an "out" (you should pardon the expression) for lingering disgust at the idea of homosexuality, especially in men. Nothing is more threatening to the species, deep down, than men who refuse to fuck women.

Sam, my sweet: you can "identify" as Martian or Venusian . . . you ARE a male. Until they can zap that Y chromosome out of your DNA, you were born male and you're going to die male.

But, hey, have fun pretending so you can trendy rather than sneered at.

^*began predicting

Sam Smith pronoun is Ew/Yuck

R145 Phil Oakey wasn't totally straight, about a Kinsey 4, he sucked me off in the Millionaire Club in Manchester in the early 1980's.

All I can say is that Sam is a GIRLEEN!

Are they no longer teaching biology in English primary schools?

He seems like an idiot.

He's a dude.

Next.

I find him hot for some reason. I’d definitely fuck his big bottom.

Gross R158.

He's eminently fuckable. I like sissies with plump bods.

I don't see how a roly poly like Sam would make a bad transwoman.

At least Sam isn't Jessie J, the treacherous shitbag.

So according to Sam, flat-chested women with slender legs are men ...... okay

Zhir is desperate for attention.

Some of the replies are very bitchy.

[quote]Does the hotel not have a gym?

[quote]Some people are cold and starving on the street, but you just fill your boots being bored in your fancy hotel room with Simon Cowells jeans on.

[quote]Did you pack your grannies jeans by accident?

[quote]The spit of Annette O'Toole!

[quote]I just love smelling the net curtains in hotels, but it's just not the same since smoking was banned in most rooms.

R164 - those jeans are unforgivable. He must be a vortex black hole of neediness. I couldn't.

If he goes under the knife would someone please remove its vocal cords.

If he goes under the knife would someone please remove its vocal cords.

Putting a photo of Sam Smith at the top of a thread should be considered a hate crime.

The funniest thing about the early 1980"s (pre AIDS) was that my friend Alan used to wear fishnet tights under his uniform and 6" black patent stilletoe shoes to school. No rule against it so he got away with it.

He's a successful software developer in Sydney now, married (to a man obviously) and they have two grown up kids.

Sam Smith wants to be a mummy!

Sadly this doesn't involve Sam Smith being bound tightly in bandages and locked away for thousands of years in a concrete crypt, but Sam Smith wants to have a child and pay a menstruator to carry a human child created by using Sam Smith's non binary semen and use the parenting term traditionally used for a woman who push the baby out of their vagina and feeds the baby on their breasts and take on primary responsibility as the care giver.

As Sam Smith has a woman's breasts and woman's hips, maybe Sam Smith has ovaries, fallopian tubes and a womb tucked away in Sam Smith's gunt.

[quote]Smith, whose new album Love Goes is released Friday October 30, said they will ‘hopefully find a boyfriend’, but added they’ve had a bit of trouble on the romance front.

🤮

I can see Brandon getting back with Sam, especially if Sam comes out about having a black woman inside.

I find Them exhuasting