Do some take a pass on it like straight men?
Question for lesbians: are all lesbians into cunnilingus
by Anonymous | reply 211 | January 19, 2020 11:30 PM |
No.
Some don't like giving it; some don't like receiving it.
But MOST do.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | February 28, 2019 7:55 PM |
Are all GAY MEN into ANALINGUS?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | February 28, 2019 8:13 PM |
I have yet to meet a gay woman who wasn't into it.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | February 28, 2019 9:11 PM |
R2, all the ones who aren’t sexphobic priss pots.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | February 28, 2019 9:20 PM |
Do Lez tongues ever head south when eating the puss? Or is rimming a dude thing?
by Anonymous | reply 5 | March 1, 2019 1:46 AM |
I doubt lesbians would ever ream a puckered asshole. That is gross.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | March 1, 2019 1:48 AM |
Cunnilingus, not so much. But do luv to scissor.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | March 1, 2019 1:57 AM |
Scissoring.... Lesbianism sounds like a lot of precise work.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | March 1, 2019 2:02 AM |
Is she the one who sang "Where The Boys Are"?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | March 1, 2019 2:13 AM |
Cunninlingus- mostly. Scissoring- not really. I think straight men made that up.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | March 1, 2019 4:10 AM |
What is scissoring? Yikes.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | March 1, 2019 7:59 AM |
Why ya askin OP? What's it to you?
by Anonymous | reply 12 | March 1, 2019 8:04 AM |
What else would they do?
by Anonymous | reply 13 | March 1, 2019 8:04 AM |
R13 lesbians are mostly into fisting and dildo play.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | March 1, 2019 8:13 AM |
I think it is like guys and fucking. Some lesbians don't like going down on a woman, where from the what I read on here, some guys, tops I assume, don't like being fucked up the ass. Each person is different.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | March 1, 2019 8:57 AM |
r15 are you frau on Safari, gaping at the gays in our natural habitat and logging our sex rituals?
by Anonymous | reply 16 | March 1, 2019 8:59 AM |
Yes, r16. I am getting David A to narrate.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | March 1, 2019 10:52 PM |
Nice.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | March 3, 2019 3:30 AM |
You can't be a woman R14.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | March 3, 2019 3:33 AM |
The trannies have eliminated the female identity. There are no women anymore.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | March 3, 2019 3:39 AM |
Truth.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | March 12, 2019 7:59 PM |
You can’t even have pussy cupcakes anymore without offending.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | March 12, 2019 8:13 PM |
Scissoring is one of those things like 69 and sex in the water that sounds hot in theory but doesn't work out that well in practice.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | March 12, 2019 8:13 PM |
We don't worry about offending here. We hate everyone and that is a good thing.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | March 12, 2019 8:16 PM |
^^^ 69 works out perfect for me. I love getting my cock sucked while I eat ass.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | March 12, 2019 8:17 PM |
Most straight guys love eating pussy. Most gay men love sucking cock.. I am bi female and I can certainly attest to straight men enjoying this delicacy. I am more into the ladies, and of course I LOVE diving into kitty....
by Anonymous | reply 26 | March 12, 2019 8:20 PM |
That's cool, r25. I have always found it awkward and uncomfortable. Maybe you are better than I at choosing a partner who's right size for you, or you're just more flexible than I am.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | March 12, 2019 8:20 PM |
There is a line up to suck your tinymeat. I am sure.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | March 12, 2019 8:20 PM |
Do you even know people to back up your claims? Many straight women will say loads of men will not go down on them. And many gay or bi men will never suck cock.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | March 12, 2019 8:23 PM |
R15 - what we all need another gay guy telling us what he thinks about what women like and do. R14 - another screwball. What women say that, R29, your grandmother and her friends?
The answer: Yes, most lesbians are into cunnilingus. Yes, most straight guys are into cunnilingus.
The big question: Why are gay men always asking this question?
by Anonymous | reply 30 | March 12, 2019 8:33 PM |
I've gotten around a LOT over the years, R29, and I can say with all honesty that I have never come across a gay or bisexual man who would not suck cock. In fact, most seemed to prefer sucking rather than ass play.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | March 12, 2019 8:34 PM |
I have a question - gay men are concerned with the size of the penis and look. Is there anything that lesbians look for in the perfect pussy??
by Anonymous | reply 32 | March 12, 2019 8:38 PM |
^ sorry for calling it pussy. Wasn't exactly sure what it was called.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | March 12, 2019 8:39 PM |
Women are not as visual as men. But I personally think pussy is not judged the same way as penis. I would say hygienic and groomed would be the criteria ... It really is all about horniness and giving pleasure and enjoying giving pleasure .
by Anonymous | reply 34 | March 12, 2019 8:42 PM |
How do women “prepare” for those intimate situations in terms of stank? If women have a drunken encounter do they politely ignore the smell? And forgive my ignorance, maybe all women don’t stink down there....I’m just familiar with the smell of the ones I work around.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | March 12, 2019 8:46 PM |
[QUOTE] How do women “prepare” for those intimate situations in terms of stank?
We don’t! It’s not necessary!
by Anonymous | reply 36 | March 12, 2019 8:55 PM |
R35, we just like pussy. And its smell, its taste, its look. A gay man has no business even asking this question, since the idea of dick-sucking and ass-eating is beyond disgusting. Nothing could be grosser. Carry on, though.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | March 12, 2019 8:58 PM |
R37 - can I respectfully ask what it “tastes” like? Is the taste a result of juices secreted or just sweat down there?
by Anonymous | reply 38 | March 12, 2019 9:01 PM |
R35, women shouldn't stink "down there." If they do, there is an infection or poor hygiene.
Obviously if you're just coming from the gym or something, you take a shower.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | March 12, 2019 9:02 PM |
r37, yes!! AND r35, is either a troll or just a women hating ass who is lonely.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | March 12, 2019 9:02 PM |
r38, ask your straight male friends. Or if you have any that do not loathe themselves, your straight female friends . I can't imagine a man who eats ass and or takes it in the ass would be so critical.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | March 12, 2019 9:04 PM |
It's a very watery sort of non-descript taste, and when your face dries, the smell is different.
Not sweaty because it's not sodium.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | March 12, 2019 9:04 PM |
When you massage the woman entirely and her pussy is pulsating, it's heaven!
by Anonymous | reply 43 | March 12, 2019 9:07 PM |
[quote][R35], women shouldn't stink "down there." If they do, there is an infection or poor hygiene.
Exactly. That said, some women don't really understand how to clean that area properly and bacteria builds up, which can sometimes result in a noticeable smell.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | March 12, 2019 9:16 PM |
Not without a dental dam.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | March 12, 2019 9:16 PM |
[quote] That said, some women don't really understand how to clean that area properly...
Right, but are these the type of women one sees out on the town and goes, "Yes! Her!"
You know...I shall say no more.
Also, for those asking what we look for in a vag--frankly, once the hair is groomed (and of a uniform, short-ish length), there's not really much to see. Everything important is going on "inside" (that is to say, inside the major lips). It is entirely, entirely, sensory, tactile, and psychological. Looking at a puss is not that exciting if you're not interacting with it in any other way.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | March 12, 2019 9:37 PM |
It depends, R46. Some women from a conservative background, for example, don't learn that stuff for a while.
Ditto on everything you say about it not being a visual thing.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | March 12, 2019 9:43 PM |
Yes, every single last one of them. It's in the Lesbian Manifesto, page 135.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | March 12, 2019 9:43 PM |
If a gay woman does not like eating pussy, she is not a real gay woman. We like pussy like gay men like dick.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | March 12, 2019 9:56 PM |
^ nicely put and very easy to understand for gay men. We do LOVE us some cock!
by Anonymous | reply 50 | March 12, 2019 10:10 PM |
Lesbian here. I've been with 4 women, 3 of them did not want to give cunnilingus but were sure happy with receiving it. Scissoring is NOT a straight man thing. I've done it with every single girlfriend and loved it every time. I do not like penetration. It feels weird. And using a strap on is weird and awkward, but I'll do it if someone wants it. I had an ex who enjoyed being fisted. I had an ex who enjoyed me licking and touching her asshole. I had an ex who enjoyed me tying her up. Everyone is different.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | March 12, 2019 10:12 PM |
Do bi's love cock and pussy the same? There are just some many questions gay men can ask...we should do a thread - questions you always wanted to ask a lesbian (albeit respectful).
by Anonymous | reply 52 | March 12, 2019 10:16 PM |
For those saying ALL gay women love eating--
Pillow Princesses are real. Scissoring is not.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | March 12, 2019 10:50 PM |
R52, I did an AMA lesbian thread a year or two back.
Let me try to find it.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | March 12, 2019 10:50 PM |
Okay, here was the Lesbian AMA thread. I am NOT the one who started it, but the original lady disappeared, so I took over.
My first post (explaining) was R92.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | March 12, 2019 10:55 PM |
^ much thanks....we might want to start a new one that can be monitored by a lesbian.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | March 12, 2019 10:59 PM |
R56, there are a couple of us here. R51 I've seen on a few threads over the last year, and she is very funny.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | March 12, 2019 11:01 PM |
From a gay male perspective, I enjoy when lesbians speak up and make theirselves known. This is a site for all of us!!
by Anonymous | reply 58 | March 12, 2019 11:06 PM |
R58, thank you!
by Anonymous | reply 59 | March 12, 2019 11:09 PM |
(I'm actually waiting on an ebay auction to end--hence my hanging around here. I'm usually on very late at night.)
by Anonymous | reply 60 | March 12, 2019 11:10 PM |
I am a gay man but I have performed cunnilingus.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | March 12, 2019 11:14 PM |
I'm a gay Black man and I'm LOVING the conversation of this thread! I just had to write that.
Carry on!
by Anonymous | reply 62 | March 12, 2019 11:20 PM |
R62, well, thanks!
by Anonymous | reply 63 | March 12, 2019 11:22 PM |
What does pussy taste like? How doe personal hygiene affect taste?
by Anonymous | reply 64 | March 12, 2019 11:22 PM |
I‘m a bisexual female and I prefer performing oral sex ona woman way more than giving a blowjob to a man. Not just the activity is more fun, smell and taste are also better.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | March 12, 2019 11:24 PM |
r58 rocks!!
by Anonymous | reply 66 | March 12, 2019 11:28 PM |
On average pussy has a mild, watery taste, to me it just tastes of woman. Never encountered a ‚‘fish‘ or ‚‘stank‘ smell. Unless there is some infection, but then women tend to not shove their vagina into your face. That whole ‚‘fish‘ smell thing is just mysogenistic, pretty sure lesbians retch from the smell of cock. Gay men are not into female smell, lesbians not into manly smell.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | March 12, 2019 11:33 PM |
Mmmmmm meat curtains
by Anonymous | reply 68 | March 13, 2019 12:54 AM |
r53, you are wrong. Scissoring IS real. If you have never done it, you are a lousy lover. Or fat. Or both. Do some fucking stretches, find your clit and rub it on your girlfriend's clit. It's amazing.
Or not. And continue to be the very boring, milquetoast lover you have always been.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | March 13, 2019 1:41 AM |
R69, how appropriate, how would that even work? The clits wouldn't line up in that position. I imagine they'll get rubbed anyway, but not really by each other.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | March 13, 2019 1:44 AM |
R69, I hope you don't mind me saying this, but you have a very sour attitude for a lesbian.
By the by, I am not fat; but I seem to remember your saying that you are a bit heavy, that the only girlfriend of yours who would go down on you was a bisexual woman. You said that none of your lesbian girlfriends would eat you out. We might deduce from that fact alone how attractive or unattractive you are.
You're the one from California, right?
by Anonymous | reply 71 | March 13, 2019 2:16 AM |
Yes, I was right!
This was you, n'est pas?
[quote] I don't understand why so many lesbians let themselves go. I mean, I'm fat but at least I use conditioner. And what is up with the women posing with their fucking dogs on their profile pics? Or the ones who are poly looking for their "unicorn" or the ones who obviously want to be my "daddy." Ugh. No thanks.
Did you catch that?
[quote] I mean, I'm fat but at least I use conditioner.
Once more--
[quote] I mean, I'm fat
Exactly.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | March 13, 2019 2:35 AM |
POPCORN TIME, Y'ALL!!!!
by Anonymous | reply 73 | March 13, 2019 2:37 AM |
r72, I am fat but I still try to scissor. It works and it feels really good, you should try it. I'm just saying fat folks have a harder time scissoring and guess what, I haven't always been fat. So I can attest that it's easier to scissor when not fat.
And truth be told, I don't like most lesbians. I find the majority of them to be boring and weird. And just because I was in relationships with 3 lousy in bed lesbians doesn't mean I'm unhygienic. The bisexual girl ate pussy just fine and loved it.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | March 13, 2019 5:09 AM |
R70 Where's your clit located...between your shoulder blades?
by Anonymous | reply 75 | March 13, 2019 9:20 AM |
I'm a big Mo but i have to say that photo is kind of hot. Looks like the ladies are having a good time. So scissoring is like male frottage.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | March 13, 2019 12:47 PM |
In what possible way does 69 “not work?” Maybe it’s not your thing but 69 works just fine for me. It’s just simultaneous oral. What, you can’t do two things at once?
by Anonymous | reply 77 | March 13, 2019 1:38 PM |
Why bother being a lesbian if you won't go down under? Why bother being gay if sucking dicks "isn't your thing"?
by Anonymous | reply 78 | March 13, 2019 2:12 PM |
R74, you sound like a nightmare. R72 you're my kinda woman!
by Anonymous | reply 79 | March 13, 2019 2:45 PM |
"How do women “prepare” for those intimate situations in terms of stank? If women have a drunken encounter do they politely ignore the smell?"
WHERE do you guys get this stuff from? I'm curious. Btw, I've never encountered a "Pillow Princess." That sounds like another male fantasy or church lady interpretation.
"Mmmmmm meat curtains"
I don't think the majority of you know how cunnilingus is done or how women orgasm.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | March 13, 2019 5:58 PM |
Yeah, that „prepare“ thing is hilarious, gay men confusing a vagina with an asshole. There is nothing to prepare because there no „stank“
by Anonymous | reply 81 | March 13, 2019 6:05 PM |
R75 I'm a man, so I don't have one, but I'm going by photos I've seen. It appears to be at the top of the vulva in the middle. So that position seems unlikely to have both clits rub against each other.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | March 13, 2019 9:23 PM |
"there no „stank“
Not always true. I've had odor of vagina pass by me from a woman in a dress who climbed into the back of a vehicle we were taking a road trip in. It was noxious. I also had that happen when carrying a little girl in a dress. I assume that since this was a child, it's a case of negligence on the parent's part, not bathing her enough, or adequately.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | March 13, 2019 9:30 PM |
"I've never encountered a "Pillow Princess." That sounds like another male fantasy or church lady interpretation."
I have a bisexual niece whose ex was a pillow princess. Some people are selfish, what's so hard to believe about that?
by Anonymous | reply 84 | March 13, 2019 9:32 PM |
Black gay guy, here. What's a "Pillow Princess"?
by Anonymous | reply 85 | March 13, 2019 9:40 PM |
R85 someone who is a dead body in bed and just wants you to eat them, but will do the minimum necessary to get you off afterwards.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | March 13, 2019 9:44 PM |
R85 hilarious. No black has ever posted on DL. Fake.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | March 13, 2019 9:44 PM |
R83 read above. That’s not stank, that’s the way the female body smells. Geez you are as insufferable as the lesbians who fell violated by a man‘s presence because all men stink.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | March 13, 2019 9:50 PM |
R88 I've been with women in my younger days before coming out. I know what clean vagina is supposed to smell like. These two instances were most certainly not in that category. Before jumping to conclusions about what other people know, realize that not everyone has limited experiences.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | March 13, 2019 9:55 PM |
Thanks, R86! Now, what I thought it meant was someone who is face done and ass up who was experiencing intense pleasure as their partner was going at them from behind. The pleasure is so intense that it would have them biting and gnawing on the pillow and pillow case in attempts to keep quiet and not scream aloud because of the joyful intense orgasm(s)
by Anonymous | reply 90 | March 13, 2019 9:58 PM |
Ha ha R83, you're hilarious!
by Anonymous | reply 91 | March 13, 2019 10:24 PM |
R83 that is blasphemy. Little girls don't stank down there! They are all roses and buttercups.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | March 13, 2019 10:30 PM |
Girls are icky.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | March 13, 2019 10:31 PM |
Clean girls are perfectly fine r93. Girls who don't wash often and regularly enough are not. In not surprised you can't see the distinction. You probably rarely bathe and stink like hell.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | March 13, 2019 10:40 PM |
I like the fictionalized posts the best!
by Anonymous | reply 95 | March 13, 2019 10:41 PM |
R83 yes, THAT famous pussy stink. The one you encounter once or twice in a lifetime. *eyesroll
by Anonymous | reply 96 | March 13, 2019 10:45 PM |
You should never put the pussy on a pedestal. Females on their periods do have a strong scent down there. Anyone who thinks their pussy don't stink is delusional.
by Anonymous | reply 97 | March 13, 2019 10:48 PM |
I'm still on a tablet, so must be brief.
Of course women in their period will have a smell. It's mostly iron, and I can smell it from across a room.
But we are talking about clean, healthy (no yeast infection), non menstruating women.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | March 13, 2019 10:52 PM |
R35 if you want to know what it tastes like, wet your finger, put it into a jar of MSG, then lick.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | March 13, 2019 10:54 PM |
Every woman I've been with (~35) loved giving and getting and I've never been with a woman who had a bad smell.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | March 13, 2019 10:55 PM |
One of the Hells Angels initiation requirements is to lick a women during her period.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | March 13, 2019 10:56 PM |
Curious if R101 is a woman. How do you know that?
Fuck the Hells Angels, btw
by Anonymous | reply 102 | March 13, 2019 10:57 PM |
The majority of vaginas do not stink. I feel it has a lot to do with a person's attraction to the woman the vagina is attached to. As for the taste, I have been known to equate a perfectly ripe tomato to a woman's vagina. It sets off my desire almost every time.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | March 13, 2019 10:58 PM |
Thanks for ruining tomatoes.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | March 13, 2019 11:22 PM |
I agree r58.
Hey ladies! Welcome. For some reason it makes me happy to know you are here.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | March 13, 2019 11:31 PM |
Fuck you r87.
by Anonymous | reply 106 | March 13, 2019 11:36 PM |
Thanks R105!
by Anonymous | reply 107 | March 14, 2019 12:39 AM |
Nice, R105. Too bad this thread is poisoned by those pimply faced 22 years old gays that live at the DL.
by Anonymous | reply 108 | March 14, 2019 12:48 AM |
My lesbian sister tells me that she loves going down on other women but isn't into women going down on her (touching is okay, just no oral sex), and that she's been lucky enough to find her pillow princess of choice.
by Anonymous | reply 109 | March 14, 2019 12:51 AM |
R109 I have the same preference, except touching is highly appreciated.
by Anonymous | reply 110 | March 14, 2019 12:56 AM |
Good to know lesbians are still around. Where are you?
by Anonymous | reply 111 | March 14, 2019 11:37 AM |
East Coast of Canada, over here.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | March 14, 2019 12:03 PM |
Lesbians haven’t been outlawed yet, r111, the penis-having wing in particular is thriving
by Anonymous | reply 113 | March 14, 2019 12:36 PM |
I'm over here...
by Anonymous | reply 114 | March 16, 2019 3:22 AM |
I miss lesbian bars. I miss making out with women in bars.
by Anonymous | reply 115 | March 16, 2019 8:36 PM |
r89, but you love poopy rectums huh?
by Anonymous | reply 116 | March 16, 2019 9:22 PM |
Nothing hotter than two FEMININE women making love. It's gentle and sexy.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | March 16, 2019 9:23 PM |
I miss lesbians who aren't politically active.
Please stop renting horrible documentaries and making me watch them...
by Anonymous | reply 118 | March 17, 2019 1:57 AM |
A bunch of them are a scared of throat cancer now, so they finger, scissor, rock, or paper.
by Anonymous | reply 120 | March 17, 2019 2:49 AM |
Most lesbians are gross.
by Anonymous | reply 121 | March 17, 2019 7:55 PM |
Gross = not attracted to r121
by Anonymous | reply 122 | March 18, 2019 12:30 AM |
r101, that's called earning one's red wings.
by Anonymous | reply 123 | March 18, 2019 12:40 AM |
R121, may I remind you that it's a school night?
by Anonymous | reply 124 | March 18, 2019 1:04 AM |
The scissoring scene in Sally 4 Ever was very funny.
by Anonymous | reply 125 | March 18, 2019 12:05 PM |
I am pretty sure most lezzies are into fisting.
by Anonymous | reply 126 | March 18, 2019 12:37 PM |
Lesbians love beef curtains as well.
by Anonymous | reply 127 | March 18, 2019 12:39 PM |
Oh, for goodness sake! Where did the lesbians on this thread disappear to? Clearly, the above postings are by some caftan wearing male that will get neither pussy or cock.
by Anonymous | reply 128 | March 18, 2019 12:41 PM |
QUESTION from a gay man - In reference to tv shows/movies, when a woman is about to have sex she will excuse herself and say that she needs to freshen up. I've always assuming that meant she was going to wipe done "the area" especially the a**hole so she would be fresh. Does that really happen? Is it needed? I guess what I am getting at is can you just see someone and have sex or is there some prep work needed. Please note that I'm respectfully asking this question....I've always been curious.
by Anonymous | reply 129 | March 18, 2019 7:01 PM |
Hi R129, adult human female here. That could be a number of things but I don't think any kind of wipe down would be one of them. What I think it is mostly is just a tv/movie trope, and it isn't something I expect to happen in real life. No one talks that way.
Most likely scenario if a woman does excuse herself to freshen up before sex it is a euphemism for peeing (better to empty your bladder before you start with the sex, obviously) and just to give everything a once over (i.e. is my makeup running down my face, are there any tp bits stuck to my labia from when I last went in the dimly lit restaurant bathroom, etc.). It could also be to insert a diaphragm or contraceptive sponge (you put those in shortly before sex, you don't wear them around just in case.)
by Anonymous | reply 130 | March 18, 2019 7:22 PM |
Hey R130, thanks for the reply. Much appreciated!!
by Anonymous | reply 131 | March 18, 2019 8:00 PM |
As R130 said - a euphemism. Peeing, farting (can be released during sex), diaphragm inserting, checking teeth, taking our bra padding, handwashing, telling yourself in the mirror that you look amazing, whatever.
by Anonymous | reply 132 | March 18, 2019 8:26 PM |
Thanks R132
by Anonymous | reply 133 | March 18, 2019 8:56 PM |
R129, lesbian here.
Concurring with the above replies. I have never told a date or girlfriend (nor have I heard one say to me) anything about "freshening up." I agree with the poster who said that may have been a euphemism for putting in a diaphragm (to prevent pregnancy). I remember some sex ed woman showing us a diaphragm in class: it came in its own little pouch (to go in your purse) and required a bit of lube.
(Y'all will remember in The Bell Jar when Sylvia Plath's character got hers from the doctor.)
What we will say is, "Can I take a quick shower?" to freshen up, especially with us, oral sex is usually expected, and we all want to be nice and clean.
by Anonymous | reply 134 | March 18, 2019 9:57 PM |
**Obviously if you took a shower for an evening date, you wouldn't need another shower. This is if you've gone all day and not showered, especially if you live in a humid place.
***For the guys that keep harping on yeast infections, the hotter/more humid the place you live, the more common yeast infections.
by Anonymous | reply 135 | March 18, 2019 10:01 PM |
If she needed to "freshen up" because of a humid day, chances are she's be checking her under arms for odor - just like men might. God you guys are obsessed with fantasy.
by Anonymous | reply 136 | March 18, 2019 11:04 PM |
R121 most lesbians I know have short hair, wear backward baseball caps, subsist on nothing but McDs and thus are very obese.
by Anonymous | reply 137 | March 19, 2019 7:44 AM |
Scissoring works fine for me.
by Anonymous | reply 138 | March 19, 2019 11:40 AM |
I like mutual shower time prior to the act. It helps with confidence and you do feel more invigorated and fresh.
by Anonymous | reply 139 | March 19, 2019 9:57 PM |
[quote] QUESTION from a gay man - In reference to tv shows/movies, when a woman is about to have sex she will excuse herself and say that she needs to freshen up. I've always assuming that meant she was going to wipe done "the area" especially the a**hole so she would be fresh. Does that really happen? Is it needed? I guess what I am getting at is can you just see someone and have sex or is there some prep work needed. Please note that I'm respectfully asking this question....I've always been curious.
Straight woman here. Unless it's 100% spur-of-the moment, yes, I will thoroughly wash that entire area before engaging in sex. Not just a "wipe," there will be body wash (soap) and water involved. It's a matter of: (1) personal pride and (2) respect for your partner. You're talking about an area from where you piss, menstruate, and take a crap. It's a no-brainer to me that you would clean up this area before sex.
by Anonymous | reply 140 | March 19, 2019 10:42 PM |
R140, darling, there is some natural fragrance that is very sexy and should not be "washed away," say the way you smell in the evening when you've bathed that morning. All gay men and women know this, perhaps not about each other, but about their respective partners. I feel sorry for an individual who thinks smelling like a bar of soap is sexy.
by Anonymous | reply 141 | March 19, 2019 11:29 PM |
r141, so true!
by Anonymous | reply 142 | March 20, 2019 12:12 AM |
Lesbian here with an anecdote.
When I was in college, I had two long-term girlfriends (consecutive, not concomitant) who were on two of our college sports teams. They would come home from their 4-hour practice at about 6pm. Neither of them ever had any kind of gross odor coming from their vadge, even after a long afternoon of practice in the sun and a full day of class. They would shower before sex because the sweatiness and clamminess and salt of their skin was gross, but not for any reason having to do with the vadge.
If a woman was raised by non-savage adults, she knows to wipe effectively when she pees and poops. Oral sex (in my experience) doesn't usually happen when one is menstruating, and you don't need to wash off for foreplay and a handjob.
**Also soap is very drying on your va-jay-jay, which is the last thing anyone should want before sex.
by Anonymous | reply 143 | March 20, 2019 1:46 AM |
R140 is dominated, if "it" is indeed female. It sounds like a very constipated gay male.
by Anonymous | reply 144 | March 20, 2019 1:49 AM |
"What is scissoring? Yikes."
It's not as scary as it sounds. It's a lesbian sex position where the two women co-mingle their legs (like pairs of scissors) and grind their relevant bits (clitorises and vulvas) against each other in order to achieve orgasm. I recall hearing some story about some guy walking in on Billie Holiday (she was bi) while she was scissoring with some woman. Tallulah Bankhead maybe? She and Billie were involved in a hot lesbian affair for a while.
by Anonymous | reply 145 | March 20, 2019 1:51 AM |
It is impossible to rub two clits together if both partners have legs.
Look at the porn that someone posted from above. As you can see, one clit is at the 12 position on the clock, the other is at the 3 o'clock position. It is literally impossible for them to touch also because 1. the legs keep them from turning their hips enough for that to happen and 2. the clit is the size of a pearl and it is tucked between the lips.
Look at the cross section diagram.
by Anonymous | reply 146 | March 20, 2019 2:01 AM |
R145, Lena Horne
by Anonymous | reply 148 | March 20, 2019 2:20 AM |
R146 = male
by Anonymous | reply 149 | March 20, 2019 2:22 AM |
Who knew the vag had a vestibule. Seriously. Thanks Miss R146 for that public service announcement diagram. I often wondered where all the this ‘n that was on lady parts.
by Anonymous | reply 150 | March 20, 2019 2:26 AM |
R150, you are welcome.
Though, now that I look at it, I didn't realize the clit and the uretha were that far apart. Interesting.
by Anonymous | reply 151 | March 20, 2019 2:32 AM |
[quote]Nice, [R105]. Too bad this thread is poisoned by those pimply faced 22 years old gays that live at the DL.
There are no 22-years-old gays on DL. Try multiplying that by 2, 3, and 4.
by Anonymous | reply 152 | March 20, 2019 3:37 AM |
Except for cases of infection, Leftover sperm making its way back down the vagina due to gravity is what smells. The smell being tied to women themselves is just like blaming them for not producing a male heir when it’s the sperm calling it.
by Anonymous | reply 153 | March 20, 2019 3:58 AM |
R153 for the love of cock wtf are you on about, cunt. Lesbians do not produce sperm in their vaginas.
by Anonymous | reply 154 | March 20, 2019 1:45 PM |
Somebody help r154.
by Anonymous | reply 155 | March 20, 2019 3:13 PM |
You can wash pubic hair with soap, if you have any, but you should never wash between the lips using soap. Only rinse with water. Soap irritates that area and it actually produces a bad smell from infection/irritation.
by Anonymous | reply 156 | March 20, 2019 3:27 PM |
I prefer a clean working area. If the lady has a bush that a weed whacker wouldn't dent, that I know I'm going to be hoiking up hairballs rather than basking in the after-glow, I'll pass.
by Anonymous | reply 157 | March 20, 2019 3:37 PM |
R76 you might be bi.
by Anonymous | reply 158 | March 20, 2019 7:29 PM |
Yeah, I wash with soap. Never had a problem. My pussy is always eaten.
by Anonymous | reply 159 | March 20, 2019 7:44 PM |
My pussy is always eaten! O my sides.
by Anonymous | reply 161 | March 21, 2019 12:13 AM |
In my straight days, I really enjoyed chowing down on a fresh box. I could eat pussy for hours. Sadly, times and focus changed.
by Anonymous | reply 162 | March 21, 2019 12:17 AM |
I have a dating question--when someone says, "I'll tell you later" for smoking on their profile, that means she's a chain-smoking, black-toothed floozy, right?
by Anonymous | reply 163 | March 21, 2019 12:35 AM |
R146 you are wrong.
by Anonymous | reply 164 | March 21, 2019 1:02 PM |
R163 is totally off topic but I will give my opinion: when I was an occasional smoker (before progressing to daily smoker, followed by quitting) I would have answered that question ambiguously. There is no way to know without asking but it could mean things like: I like to smoke a cigarette when I am drinking, or when high, or have one or two cigarettes after work but no more than that. There are more people like this than the anti-smoking lobby would like us to believe, just because the narrative is simpler when you are trying to get people to quit. But many people who smoke only in specific circumstances are able to keep from smelling bad, having bad breath/teeth, etc.
So it might be worth asking what they mean before ruling them out. It all depends on how strongly you feel about smoking in general. If you get upset at the thought of a potential long-term partner doing something that will harm their health, stay away, but if you don't care as long as you don't have to be around it or smell it on them, it might not be a deal-breaker.
by Anonymous | reply 165 | March 21, 2019 8:54 PM |
R165, thank you for the thoughtful answer.
I really, really hate smoking--if I had the free time, I would probably be part of an anti-smoking lobby. I associate it very strongly with my chain-smoking, white trash grandmother who was also a raging alcoholic. (Though she could be just a nice old lady when she was sober, which happened once she hit her 80s and started to have health scares.) Also, my stepmother, whom I don't think much of, is an "occasional" smoker--two or three cigarettes a night, as you mention. She also had her first heart attack at age 52 and has all sorts of heart phenomena now. (She literally can't jog or bicycle without passing out.)
It's just that this lady on match is so, so beautiful. I gaze at her photo every night.
Man, I have such terrible luck.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | March 21, 2019 10:27 PM |
R158. Dear god, are you the bi troll? No, no interest in vagine whatsoever, but certainly I can appreciate learning about the ladies and how they pleasure eachother.
by Anonymous | reply 167 | March 21, 2019 10:33 PM |
Most straight men love eating pussy. And many do it extremely well!!
by Anonymous | reply 168 | March 21, 2019 11:29 PM |
^ you have all the luck
by Anonymous | reply 169 | March 22, 2019 2:15 AM |
R166, I think you should contact her and ask what she means. What do you have to lose? Maybe she is struggling to quit. Don't give up on something without even giving it a shot. That is one way to make your own bad luck. On the other hand, you talk, you meet, she reeks of smoke, and poof! Crush gone, no more mooning over her, all cured.
by Anonymous | reply 170 | March 22, 2019 3:57 AM |
Wise R170
by Anonymous | reply 171 | March 22, 2019 11:24 PM |
@R168: LOL!
by Anonymous | reply 172 | March 22, 2019 11:32 PM |
I love pussy. If you really like a girl sticking your face in her pussy is heaven and having her eat your pussy until you cum is mind-blowing. I also love to rim her if she has a sexy ass.
by Anonymous | reply 173 | March 22, 2019 11:40 PM |
R168 has never known a straight man in her life.
by Anonymous | reply 174 | March 22, 2019 11:59 PM |
R174 = gay who would like to, and has never known a straight man in his life
by Anonymous | reply 175 | March 23, 2019 12:10 AM |
R170,
I agree with R171: thank you for your wise advice. I have written your sentence 4 and 5 on a post-it and have affixed the post-it to my screen. I'm going to sleep on it for two weeks, and then give it a go.
Like I said, I normally wouldn't consider dating a smoker, but something about this lady captivates me.
Thank you again
by Anonymous | reply 176 | March 23, 2019 3:26 AM |
Keep us posted. Would love to know that a DLer pulled in some pussy for you.
by Anonymous | reply 177 | March 23, 2019 12:09 PM |
I shall, thanks. She's a bit older than I am (9 years), but my cutoff is ten years. So that's fine. I just love her face and smile.
by Anonymous | reply 178 | March 23, 2019 12:12 PM |
[quote] I'm going to sleep on it for two weeks, and then give it a go.
!! Wtf? Two weeks? In two weeks this woman will have u-hauled her way in with someone else & they’ll already be looking for their second rescue cat.
Idk where you live & what pace your life moves at, but online 2 weeks is an eternity. Act now! If you have to sleep on it, give it a night.
by Anonymous | reply 179 | March 23, 2019 2:05 PM |
R165/R170 again. I am so glad you found my advice helpful and are (sort of) taking it. But to echo r179, two weeks?? That is ridiculous in ANY online dating scenario. I think you are assigning a huge amount of importance and overthinking the shit out of what is basically saying hi. I understand fear and shyness holding us back; my particular issue in life is related: great difficulty in making decisions. Sometimes for me what helps with that is logic, reminding myself that I just can't wait that long because things don't work that way.
by Anonymous | reply 180 | March 23, 2019 3:59 PM |
For 146, this is how it's done. Jump to 02:05:21. Enjoy.
by Anonymous | reply 181 | March 23, 2019 10:02 PM |
What a sexy video r181. I am saddened that a loud group of gay men seem to really disparage lesbians and girl on girl sex.. I don't get it.. We are not competition . We are supposed to be family..
by Anonymous | reply 182 | March 23, 2019 10:26 PM |
Loud, small group I should have said .
by Anonymous | reply 183 | March 23, 2019 10:26 PM |
R182, are you new both to DL and to gay men in general?
by Anonymous | reply 184 | March 23, 2019 10:44 PM |
Can the ladies orgasm while scissoring?
by Anonymous | reply 185 | March 24, 2019 1:25 AM |
How popular is scissoring?
by Anonymous | reply 186 | March 24, 2019 3:10 AM |
R179 and R180, ladies, ladies...(or one lady and a gent),
I have a business trip the week after this week. I cannot possibly laden myself with any ancillary stress until I get back. If she finds someone else in the two weeks, maybe it wasn't meant to be. But I have taken your advice to heart and have added photos of myself to my profile when it used to just have a sunrise. Let's wait a few days and see if she writes me: if she does not, I shall "like" her.
Thank you
by Anonymous | reply 187 | March 24, 2019 3:29 AM |
Suit yourself. Good luck to you.
It's also great to go out of town after a whirlwind romance starts. Maybe you make a move now. get something started, then have a break for your work trip, and while you're there, you can both see whether this is worth resuming when you get back.
Not trying to push you in any direction. Stepping off now.
by Anonymous | reply 188 | March 24, 2019 5:06 PM |
Bumping beavers is a sensual act and stimulates the clits and is just gentle , nurturing sex... I also think just cuddling is a comforting way with soft touch and compassion.
by Anonymous | reply 189 | March 24, 2019 11:10 PM |
R188, I thank you for your suggestion. You know, it sounds great for a different kind of person. I am of ilk that cannot deal with stress. It would feel better for me if I just held off for a few weeks.
by Anonymous | reply 190 | March 24, 2019 11:48 PM |
Are Viv Thomas videos popular? The one in this thread was my first time seeing one.
by Anonymous | reply 191 | March 25, 2019 12:08 AM |
It is well known that diet effects taste of sperm - does diet have the same effect on vaginal juices? Maybe that explains the high incidence of vegetarianism/veganism amongst lesbians?
by Anonymous | reply 193 | March 25, 2019 3:06 AM |
R192 is the way lesbians get pregnant. Some poor guy shoots in lesbian A then she does this to lesbian B. So elegant.
by Anonymous | reply 194 | March 25, 2019 9:42 PM |
Why does the pussy frozen in place at r192 have a Hitler mustache
by Anonymous | reply 195 | March 26, 2019 10:57 AM |
I was with women before I came out. There was NEVER a "fish" or "stank" smell. There was not really a smell at all. Maybe soap or a natural smell that was very light, but not bad at all. People all have their own scent. If they are clean, its not a bad smell. Just a smell.
by Anonymous | reply 196 | March 26, 2019 11:49 AM |
[quote] If they are clean, its not a bad smell. Just a smell.
You're right. Even sex has a smell. But, I guess many going on and on here about scents and smells don't remember that since its been so long that they have had sex... if at all.
by Anonymous | reply 197 | March 26, 2019 11:56 AM |
Bump
by Anonymous | reply 198 | March 30, 2019 11:15 PM |
Who is the audience for Viv Thomas videos? Men or women?
by Anonymous | reply 199 | March 31, 2019 3:27 PM |
R192 that made me cum and I am as gay as they come.
by Anonymous | reply 200 | April 18, 2019 7:25 PM |
Indeed.
by Anonymous | reply 201 | May 5, 2019 10:16 PM |
If you don't eat snatch you are not a lesbian.
by Anonymous | reply 202 | June 8, 2019 9:23 PM |
R83 Everybody knows little girls always reek of unkempt dirty vadge.
by Anonymous | reply 203 | June 8, 2019 11:03 PM |
I hear it taste sweet
by Anonymous | reply 204 | June 8, 2019 11:05 PM |
R204 The only way you would know that, you centenarian 'mo, is if you caught a lick on the way out when you were born.
by Anonymous | reply 205 | June 8, 2019 11:08 PM |
Exactly. Like a queer would know what a poon tastes like. Jesus.
by Anonymous | reply 206 | June 9, 2019 12:06 PM |
R83 Eau de twatlette.
by Anonymous | reply 207 | January 19, 2020 10:48 PM |
Is there much else lezzies can do?
by Anonymous | reply 208 | January 19, 2020 10:50 PM |
Good question. Like fisting? Yikes. Seems unhygienic. Plus all the millions of latex gloves that go into the environment.
by Anonymous | reply 209 | January 19, 2020 10:58 PM |
Went to school with a black female who dated a black male who was the founder of SOAP. That was People Against Oral Sex backwards. He was some kind of pastor and believed that no one but no one should have oral sex. Thought whites were pushing this evil sin. She dumped him for a hot fireman.
by Anonymous | reply 210 | January 19, 2020 11:07 PM |
r52, no I hate sucking cock.
r51, Are you sure you have scissored? Like in laid head to toe and opened legs like upon your partner in a way similar to that of a scissor or are you talking about tribbing? Tribbing is nice but I can't imagine ever calling it scissoring. That is a joke. t
by Anonymous | reply 211 | January 19, 2020 11:30 PM |