Queer in hetero marriage
Cyrus, 26, who dated women including Victoria’s Secret model Stella Maxwell during a break from Hemsworth, said she was redefining what sexuality and gender look like in a relationship.
“We’re redefining, to be f**king frank, what it looks like for someone that’s a queer person like myself to be in a hetero relationship,” she said. “What I preach is: People fall in love with people, not gender, not looks, not whatever. What I’m in love with exists on almost a spiritual level. It has nothing to do with sexuality … gender is a very small, almost irrelevant part of relationships.”
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 112 | March 3, 2019 2:57 PM
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GO BACK TO PARTY CITY WHERE YOU BELONG!
by Anonymous | reply 2 | February 21, 2019 7:47 PM
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AT LEAST I AM A SHOWGIRL BITCH
by Anonymous | reply 3 | February 21, 2019 7:49 PM
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Her logic absolutely makes no frickin sense? Fall in love with people? Most Relationships have some sort of sex, so I’m having trouble rationalizing her article?
by Anonymous | reply 4 | February 21, 2019 7:51 PM
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Because it isn't sufficiently woke to just call it slutty.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | February 21, 2019 7:51 PM
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R4 since I am an Elder Gay maybe I’m not understanding the term ‘Queer?’
by Anonymous | reply 6 | February 21, 2019 7:51 PM
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She’s so tiresome and her lack of an education is painfully obvious.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | February 21, 2019 7:54 PM
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Within the LGBTQ community, there's a lot of discussion about what exactly the acronym and its variations mean and why we use them. But while many people both outside and within the LGBTQ community are familiar with the terms lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender, fewer people are familiar with the concept of being queer. What does the term "queer" mean? As is the case with many identifying terms, being queer can mean different things to different people; for example, when I refer to "being queer" myself, I am referring to being part of the greater LGBTQ community — that is, I personally identify as a lesbian, but I also identify with the queer community as a whole. On the flip side, however, there are many people in the LGBTQ community who choose to use the word "queer" instead of the other terms encompassed by the LGBT acronym. Still others do not use "queer" for themselves at all. So, with all of this in mind, it's clear that there's a lot to unpack in those five letters.
Just as being queer can mean different things to different people, folks have all sorts of ways of expressing their queerness, too. The choice to be "out" as queer can depend on a lot of factors, from personal preference to local laws that govern employment and housing protections. At the end of the day, though, there is no right or wrong way to be queer, and it's OK to identify with queerness on your own terms, even if it doesn't look or feel the same as someone else's definition.
Here are five important things to know about the Q in LGBTQ:
1. Your Queer Identity Doesn't Change Based On Who You Date
Open to read more.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 9 | February 21, 2019 7:56 PM
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"Queer" is a blanket term used by anyone who believe a traditional, monogamous, heterosexual relationship is too restrictive. It's not a hard concept but eldergays get triggered and act like it is some complex, woke term.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | February 21, 2019 7:58 PM
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[quote] Fall in love with people? Most Relationships have some sort of sex,
Do you fall in love with guys you hook up on Grindr? No, it's just sex. Sex and falling in love can be two different things. If it's just the sex you like it's not love. If you love the person, it's love.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | February 21, 2019 7:59 PM
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R12, Are youy saying you are not gay if you only have sex with men and not ~love them?
by Anonymous | reply 13 | February 21, 2019 8:01 PM
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[quote] Fall in love with people? Most Relationships have some sort of sex,
Maybe in your family, circle of friends, and work relationships.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | February 21, 2019 8:02 PM
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Cyrus is a straight who found her own heterosexuality boring.
She adopted “queer” as a descriptor as it has now become meaningless.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | February 21, 2019 8:04 PM
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[quote] Are youy saying you are not gay if you only have sex with men and not ~love them?
If it's only about sex and you don't care for the guy you are not in love. There is more to a guy or person than just sex.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | February 21, 2019 8:04 PM
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[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 18 | February 21, 2019 8:08 PM
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She’s bi, nothing new. Next.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | February 21, 2019 8:10 PM
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R14 uhm, they are married. My Relationship usage was towards Miley being queer and married?
by Anonymous | reply 21 | February 21, 2019 8:12 PM
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[quote]People fall in love with people, not gender, not looks,
Could this drug-addled ho be any stupider? If you think looks don't matter to the vast majority of people, not to mention whether the person has a dick or a puss, you are insane.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | February 21, 2019 8:13 PM
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R18 really? That video appears staged? Who would be there filming in an Alley. Do we look like fools?
by Anonymous | reply 23 | February 21, 2019 8:14 PM
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[quote] My Relationship usage was towards Miley being queer and married?
Not based on the comment. You wrote "MOST RELATIONSHIPS ..."
by Anonymous | reply 24 | February 21, 2019 8:14 PM
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I'd be more interested in this story if it were Hemsworth that was queer.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | February 21, 2019 8:15 PM
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R24 I know many ‘Married’ sexless couples. Age, illness, etc affects their sex drive.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | February 21, 2019 8:16 PM
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I wonder if Liam is "queer" at times too?
by Anonymous | reply 27 | February 21, 2019 8:25 PM
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R27 I read he cross dresses and wanted to be a woman. Seriously, I’ll try to find article.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | February 21, 2019 8:27 PM
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R27 It’s more difficult for a leading man to come out
by Anonymous | reply 30 | February 21, 2019 8:27 PM
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I can see Miley loving using a strap on.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | February 21, 2019 8:29 PM
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There was just an article about wanted to add "K" under the "queer" umbrella. K as in kinks. "Queer" now covers who? At least 75% of the population in some way? Making the label ironic and useless.
Waiting for "Queer" to die off, so no one ever has to be subjected to another narcissistic rant about how "queer" someone is for fucking the opposite sex.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | February 21, 2019 8:32 PM
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So she was a lesbian before?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 33 | February 21, 2019 8:33 PM
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R32 That is actually part of the point of "Queer" and reclaiming it. Almost everyone is "queer" but we are oppressed by this standard that is being held up as an ideal that in no way reflects reality as it is lived. It's a lie used to divide, weaken and maintain privelege.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | February 21, 2019 8:38 PM
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Queer is still a slur. It is being forced upon us.
I’m gay. Not queer.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | February 21, 2019 8:41 PM
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R29 There must be something to what you posted considering he married wild child Miley Cyrus.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | February 21, 2019 8:41 PM
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She’s deep. I’m looking forward to her next album.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | February 21, 2019 8:42 PM
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To me you're a queer and a gay and that's a very good thing.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | February 21, 2019 8:43 PM
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I don’t care, r38.
I’m not queer. Please don’t refer to me as such.
If we have to use female pronouns for a male Olympian gold medal champion, then you have to not call me queer. Respect.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | February 21, 2019 8:52 PM
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Hemsworth lol so both Liam and Chris are gay I always knew his relationship with lesbian Miley was bearding and showmance.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | February 21, 2019 8:57 PM
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R6 Queer means someone who is not straight.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | February 21, 2019 9:00 PM
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Queer is embracing your own outsider status and be happy with who you are.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | February 21, 2019 9:03 PM
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Queer means a closeted gay celebrity in a lavender marriage.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | February 21, 2019 9:04 PM
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Look at Miley's dating history I don't see even one straight man in the link
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 46 | February 21, 2019 9:05 PM
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She’s your standard straight girl who fucked some women as a “rebellious” 20-something.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | February 21, 2019 9:05 PM
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R47 She’s your standard straight girl who fucked some women
that's not the definition of straight
by Anonymous | reply 48 | February 21, 2019 9:07 PM
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looks more butch than Hemsworth
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 50 | February 21, 2019 9:12 PM
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Bisexuals are all homophobic morons.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | February 21, 2019 9:24 PM
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I'm sure they are. Every single one of them.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | February 21, 2019 9:26 PM
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In a recent interview, Cyrus revealed that Hemsworth “doesn’t want to be called a straight dude”.
“He’s always like, ‘Well, don’t call me that!” she said.
“I ask him sometimes, ‘Do you like being a boy?’ And he’s like, ‘I don’t really think about it.’ And that’s crazy to me, because I think about being a girl all the time.
I’m always like, ‘It’s weird that I’m a girl, because I just don’t feel like a girl, and I don’t feel like a boy. I just feel like nothing.’ So when someone’s too masculine, that really grosses me out.”
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 55 | February 21, 2019 9:29 PM
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This is why bisexuals are more straight than they are gay. Never trust one. They all think they're first one to say that bisexuality is a default and universal sexual orientation and that "gender doesn't matter in relationships." If they weren't so fucking dumb you'd mistake it for a malicious attempt at conversion therapy.
Nutcases. All of them.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | February 21, 2019 9:30 PM
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Liam's hot and I'm sure they have some nice videos on her phone. Someone grab it.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | February 21, 2019 9:35 PM
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[quote] ‘It’s weird that I’m a girl, because I just don’t feel like a girl, and I don’t feel like a boy. I just feel like nothing.’
^^Textbook depersonalization brought on by overuse of cannabis and hallucinogens. 'Gender queering' has just given her a means of navigating this
by Anonymous | reply 60 | February 21, 2019 9:40 PM
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R60 is right. Don't try to make sense of crazy.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | February 21, 2019 9:44 PM
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Straight people are now calling themselves the trendy "queer" because they think it makes them edgy.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | February 21, 2019 10:00 PM
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I’m gay, but I really feel I am not technically gay. I am more mansexual. Take that ‘queer baits’
by Anonymous | reply 65 | February 22, 2019 1:38 AM
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Is this her spin on Lavender?
by Anonymous | reply 66 | February 22, 2019 2:25 AM
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Everyone thinks they are redefining something.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | February 22, 2019 2:33 AM
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I hate her now. Used to be a fan, but this is absurd
by Anonymous | reply 70 | February 22, 2019 4:57 AM
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Yep, R56. Bisexuals often like to assert that everyone else is bisexual too. It’s the worldview of a toddler: it’s like this for me, so it must be like this for everyone else!!!
by Anonymous | reply 71 | February 22, 2019 5:10 AM
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She is revolting. Her logic is flawed and she has no talent. Next!
by Anonymous | reply 72 | February 22, 2019 5:27 AM
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Isn’t she just saying what Ezra Miller keeps saying. Maybe there is a PR playbook they all share.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | February 22, 2019 6:09 AM
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I wonder how Liam feel about this queer thing
by Anonymous | reply 74 | February 22, 2019 2:31 PM
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If it isn't about gender or anything then why is she dating an hot, white, straight dude and not some transwomyn of colour???
by Anonymous | reply 77 | February 23, 2019 4:27 PM
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If you think Miley is anything other than straight in actual reality then you’re dumb as all hell.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | February 23, 2019 5:29 PM
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Those man she was dating are all gay and the,woman lesbians . Cara is a well known lesbian .stella Maxwell has dated Kristen Stewart just recently ! So Liam is gay too .
by Anonymous | reply 79 | February 23, 2019 5:48 PM
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r12 You can love people in many different ways, but being "IN love" involves sexual attraction.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | February 23, 2019 5:52 PM
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[quote]Queer is a slur.
For many, “gay” is as well.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | February 23, 2019 6:24 PM
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This is silly. A friend of mine is a bi woman married to a man who had relationships with women before she got married. Even though she's not straight, she acknowledges that she's in a hetero marriage, with all the rights and privileges. She supports LGBT rights by going to pride with her family.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | February 23, 2019 8:06 PM
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R81 Yes, 80 year old men that were never involved in the gay rights movements.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | February 23, 2019 8:12 PM
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Oh and hardcore lesbian womyn. Hate being referred to as "gay."
by Anonymous | reply 84 | February 23, 2019 8:14 PM
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Wrong, R84. I know plenty of Birkenstock-wearing, Michfest-loving lesbian feminist womyn, and these days they're fine being called "gay," especially to the extent that it distinguishes them from straight or straight-leaning "queers" like Miley.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | February 24, 2019 6:55 AM
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Wow, standing at a parade and screaming fun is just SO supportive!
by Anonymous | reply 87 | February 24, 2019 7:07 AM
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Humans lust and follow up on that lust through sex.
"Love" and "In Love" are Hallmark/Boon and Mills constructs.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | February 24, 2019 7:30 AM
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Miley isn't Bi or queer, she just has no standards and is indiscriminate, particularly if she can get attention for it.
Lots of us go through these silly phases when we're younger, but isn't she like 35 by now?
by Anonymous | reply 89 | February 24, 2019 7:30 AM
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I think Miley is using "queer" to mean "bisexual". She pings to me, even when she was humping Alan Thicke's son at the MTV awards. They say that bi women eventually end up with a man. I think she's going to eventually end up with a woman. Pop music likes fake lesbians (TATU, Katie Perry), but not real lesbians so much.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | February 24, 2019 7:30 AM
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I think Katy Perry is a real lesbian .
by Anonymous | reply 91 | February 24, 2019 8:40 AM
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[quote] You can love people in many different ways, but being "IN love" involves sexual attraction.
The point is love requires MORE than just sexual attraction. A person is the sum of countless physical attributes and characteristics. Sexual appeal is just one of them. Of course to a lot / most people gender and sexual identity are important when they look for a new mate, a date, or a quick fuck. Some just don't and because of that they are considered freaks or posers, because they don't share the same (traditional) values. Something, once upon a time, the gays were accused of (and in a lot of cases still are).
by Anonymous | reply 92 | February 24, 2019 9:10 AM
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Any guy around her looks scared.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 93 | February 24, 2019 9:18 AM
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Queerness is about more than who you fuck.
Nobody who has as much personal wealth as she does should be able to call themselves queer.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | February 24, 2019 9:36 AM
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[Quote] but isn't she like 35 by now?
Hardly
by Anonymous | reply 96 | February 24, 2019 12:30 PM
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R91 it’s curious that Perry, who gets rumors about being gay and has effectively said in the past she is bisexual, is marrying Bloom, who also has gay rumors. And I don’t mean in the sense that all the celebs have gay rumors, these are two who were rumored heavily before they got together. Is this a question of bisexuals who understand each other marrying (as I think Jessica Biel and Justin Timberlake are) or full-on bearding (as I think Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas are)?
What I don’t think it is, is an entirely genuine pure love affair without some attempt in it at garnering publicity.
Miley on the other hand is a straight girl who has experimented a bit and may do so in the future but who will not IMO long-term partner with anyone but men despite gender being “irrelevant.”
by Anonymous | reply 97 | February 24, 2019 12:42 PM
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I'll bet that when the media no longer cares about Miley--and her parents are dead--she will go full Meredith Baxter.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | February 24, 2019 3:56 PM
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R89: she's 26 (unless she was diagnosed with SORAS).
by Anonymous | reply 99 | February 24, 2019 6:13 PM
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She pings to the moon and back. She gay. He gay.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | February 24, 2019 11:03 PM
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Miley my fist kiss was with a girl.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 101 | March 3, 2019 12:53 AM
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R100 - Jesus, I hope so, otherwise her remark about sexuality having nothing to do with it would be quite emasculating.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | March 3, 2019 12:57 AM
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R101 so was genuinely a third, id guess, of the straight girls at my highschool. Getting drunk and making out with each other in front of the boys for attention. Not unique or interesting Miley, but keep trying honey....
by Anonymous | reply 104 | March 3, 2019 1:26 AM
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The funniest part is that she says people are atracted to looks. Her husband is hot and she says she dated a VS model. She might be bi and not care about gender, but she cares about appearance.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | March 3, 2019 1:43 AM
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I mean, who wouldn't want to marry a Hemsworth brother?
by Anonymous | reply 106 | March 3, 2019 1:44 AM
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[quote]Not unique or interesting Miley, but keep trying honey....
But the RPDR season 11 queens think I'm the SHIT!
by Anonymous | reply 107 | March 3, 2019 4:51 AM
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I think she's ugly. Big ears horrible piercings and that Gollum like smile yuk. And that is before you get to the mental behaviour.
by Anonymous | reply 108 | March 3, 2019 6:55 AM
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She's so edgy and woke. She is a transgressive, innovative disruptor.
by Anonymous | reply 109 | March 3, 2019 7:09 AM
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R109 - I'm sure her sister in law, the former Elsa "I Enjoy Being a Girl" Pataky, agrees with you, purring as she clings to Thor Odinsson.
by Anonymous | reply 110 | March 3, 2019 1:48 PM
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When she isn’t mugging for the camera, she’s surprisingly attractive.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | March 3, 2019 2:36 PM
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R111 - He's still prettier than she is.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | March 3, 2019 2:57 PM
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