A guy I liked kept during me down

Of course you cave. The whole reason to lose weight is to attain hot guys you are repulsive to otherwise.

How much weight did you lose? If losing 5-6 pounds was a prerequisite in talking to you, he sounds like a superficial dick. Unless you were morbidly obese before then it's understandable.

By all means keep pursuing him, provided you have absolutely NO self-respect at all.

Use him and then dump him

Don’t play any game or “act” any way. Just do as you want, in this case, cave.

R2 I was chubby but I wasn’t obese so the weight loss didn’t take that long

OP (after pic!)

Hate fuck him.

If you have no self respect, then cave. If you want to hold your head up high, tell him to suck an egg.

Ignore him and move on

Ignore him. You’ll be sorry if u pursue him in any way.

Did you lose your ability to spellcheck along with the weight?

If we wanted people who think like this OP, we'd date women

Messing around with someone you work with is usually a recipe for disaster in and of itself so there's that to think about...

I can't tell you now, but ask me after home room tomorrow.

So? Why start your story with "so"? Are you a second-rate broadcast journalist?

He probably says "Cutter" R16!

[Quote] So? Why start your story with "so"? Are you a second-rate broadcast journalist?

Could OP be Gio?

It's obvious you want to hang out with him in a way he does not want to hang out with you. He knows it. You don't. Move on to someone who feels the same way you do.

I would definitely fuck him now. Because you are going to gain all that weight back plus more.

Be honest with yourself. He turned you down because of superficial reasons. So why would you want to sleep with him? Go land another fuckboy and have your way with him, and forget this douche.

You're a mess, Mary.

I'm mystified by the title. What does it mean to "dure down" someone? Or is that a bizarre typo?

“turning me down”

Is his sizemeat really all that great?

Clearly the resolution is to find you a hotter man, then parade his ass in front of the stuck-up hellcat who said no to you and make him feel it. It’s a power play, boy.

If you are a bottom let him fuck you but don’t douche or wash you butthole beforehand.

If you are a top try to get infected with AIDS first then pass it on to him.

For fuck’s sake have some pride, OP.

Find someone hotter, and not someone you work with.

R28 it’s worth noting we work at walmart so I doubt they care

Just keep in mind that, when you get chubby again, he'll drop you.

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Ignore his pompous ass. Chances are high you will regain your lost weight, plus 100 lbs.

OP and his friend turning their backs on the ignorant coworker. Careful, OP.

R32 um

Bump

There was this kid once, who wouldn't leave me alone so I mercy fucked him so he would leave me alone. (He was cute but a clingy turnoff) Next time I see him he parades this woman around like it's a burn. Moral of story is: don't play.

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Gee, R35, you were so lousy that you turned him straight?

Perhaps you are as superficial as him. Why do you like him? Because he’s attractive? Do you have any fat / chubby friends?

He doesn't deserve you, OP. You'll gain a bit of self-respect by not caving.

OP should take revenge in a suble way like kill everybody in the office, except his crush, and then scream in his face: WHO ARE YOU GOING TO INVITE HANGING OUT WITH YOU AFTER WORK NOW, BITCH?

Dang, should take revenge in a subtle way.

And, R39, what did you do to deserve hot David?

What you should do, OP, is begin therapy. In a few years, maybe you will have healed some of your damaged world view and things will be better for you.

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Go back to school OP and learn how to spell. How can you get one word so disastrously wrong? A letter here or there due to typing ok but sheesh.

Go fuck somebody else who would have turned you down as well but you can pretend he wouldn't have. You can't with this guy.

He's just not that into you.

dur. . . .

Obviously you are young as you sound like a scorned high school girl.

Because you are young, just enjoy your life. Fuck with him- you want to do that. As an elder gay, please understand that life is short- live it!!! Keep your self respect and do it for YOU! You control your actions so you take control and just do it- don't let people manipulate you!