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Mrs. Dan Savage ... can some DL bodybuilders weigh in here?

What kind of "supplements" is the missus using now?

by Anonymousreply 39106/08/2019

Why does he keep posting here? Does he like listening to people rag on him? Negative attention is better than no attention at all? He looks freakish.

by Anonymousreply 101/26/2019


by Anonymousreply 201/26/2019

What a weird thing for an aging gay man to be into. I don't get it. Looking good and fit--sure. But that?

by Anonymousreply 301/26/2019

Hubby was on Maher's show last night, dressed in a tight, form fitting tee. The other male panelist/guest/host were all dressed in shirts and ties.

Gay perpetual adolescence is so endearing, no?

by Anonymousreply 401/26/2019

Yea, r4, I thought the same thing.

by Anonymousreply 501/26/2019

r4, Dan promoted his new cause on Bill Maher with the T-Shirt.

by Anonymousreply 601/26/2019

I don't care what he was promoting, R6. Savage and the Missus are always trying to look "hot" and end up looking like hot messes.

The nerdy looking guy from Bloomberg was infinitely hotter than Savage could ever hope to be and he wasn't every trying.

by Anonymousreply 701/26/2019

r4 / r7 I prefer hot messes like Dan and Terry, who are out there being "messy" gay rights activists, over an anonymous coward.

by Anonymousreply 801/26/2019


by Anonymousreply 901/26/2019

he is obviously sufferring from ptsd from a damaged childhood............probably bullied endlessly and is overcompensating today. He looks awful and I cant stand his husband either. They are both the embodiment of the downside of the gay community.

by Anonymousreply 1001/26/2019

Terry has mentioned in interviews that he was bullied as a kid.

by Anonymousreply 1101/26/2019

If Dan is some kind of counselor, why doesn't he counsel his husband to get some help for his body dysmorphia?

by Anonymousreply 1201/26/2019

At 50 it’s time to get over your childhood bullying. Not sure what the whole body OCD and drama dressing is about. Midlife crisis is supposed to end at some point with an acceptance of age and appreciation of other interests.

by Anonymousreply 1301/26/2019
by Anonymousreply 1401/26/2019

What contest is she prepping for? Tired Old Queens of Wilton Manor?

by Anonymousreply 1501/26/2019

Gross vein ridden old bitch .

by Anonymousreply 1601/26/2019

Nasty. He really doesn't look clean, down there, or anywhere else. I'm betting he smells.

by Anonymousreply 1701/26/2019

he was hot about 10 years ago. now he just looks like another aging circuit queen

by Anonymousreply 1801/27/2019

whatever, his 24 year old bf likes it. I like Dan even if he is a bit messy at times, but I have a pretty strong dislike for his husband and his bf

by Anonymousreply 1901/27/2019

bf approves

by Anonymousreply 2001/27/2019

it's like he has decided that it's not enough for gay sex to be meaningfull and fun and fulfilling for him personally but an act of rebellion to heteronormative culture and sonething to be displayed publicly

by Anonymousreply 2101/27/2019

The pic at r20--wow. Desperately clinging to youth. Grisly.

by Anonymousreply 2201/27/2019

How can you tell R22 ? Its so filtered Im surprised their faces are still visible.

by Anonymousreply 2301/27/2019

Young, young, YOUNG!

by Anonymousreply 2401/30/2019

R8 would rather be a fag than afraid

by Anonymousreply 2501/30/2019

I hope their kid asks to have his identity changed. How fucking humiliating. You don't think he gets shit for these antics?

by Anonymousreply 2601/30/2019

Agree R3 Miller looks horrible.

by Anonymousreply 2701/30/2019

Has Dan Savage offered his opinion about Terry's new look in his column?

Savage did a bit where he described how much he hated Terry's new moustache, just wondering what he now thinks of this lumpy, leathery, vein-y mess.

by Anonymousreply 2801/30/2019

I would guess he is using HGH from his skin and possibly Clenbuterol to keep his body fat low.

by Anonymousreply 2901/30/2019

He needs to stop getting his HGH from TJ, because whatever he is buying isn't working. His skin looks tragic.

by Anonymousreply 3001/30/2019

ooohhhh!!! he has penises all over his clothes! how subversive and non-heteronormative! the queer hero we have been waiting for!

by Anonymousreply 3101/30/2019

R31 Finally! Someone who understands me!

by Anonymousreply 3201/30/2019

Kill it with fire

by Anonymousreply 3301/30/2019

Wonder what his 'roid withdrawals are going to be like. Yikes!

by Anonymousreply 3401/30/2019

Ghastly. I wouldn't fuck him with Dan's dick.

by Anonymousreply 3501/30/2019

He has gotten 2, 629 likes on Instagram with people leaving him comments about how hot he looks. When did really big veins become a "thing"?

by Anonymousreply 3601/30/2019

Now that I think about it, Dan Savage's opinion doesn't count. He still can't drive and relies on Terry to drive him everywhere, so it's not like he's going to leave Miller. Nope, Savage is stuck with hideous, hulking monster.

by Anonymousreply 3701/30/2019

Well at least he left something to the imagination.

by Anonymousreply 3801/30/2019

That is seriously disgusting. Gross.

by Anonymousreply 3901/30/2019

Why the fuck can't Dan drive? Also, in the day of Uber and Lyft and I'm sure Dan could afford to hire a driver for longer hauls if he wanted, why does he rely on Terry? Jesus they are both totally fucked up, but Dan comes off looking worse, frankly.

by Anonymousreply 4001/30/2019

^^Well, he has to give him something to do.

by Anonymousreply 4101/30/2019

R41 I thought that's what Terry's bf, Tom, was for

by Anonymousreply 4201/30/2019

Dan is a writer, I do not think he has any actual counseling certification.

His comments about intergenerational sex in The Stranger still squick me out.

They are both freaks. How long until Terry has a heart attack or stroke at this rate?

by Anonymousreply 4301/30/2019

It rhymes with “Bristol Death”.

by Anonymousreply 4401/30/2019

I fucking love Terry.

I want to do him and I hope I look that good when I reach his age.

by Anonymousreply 4501/30/2019

Was Terry "plainer" before and maybe the less 'famous" out of this couple and is experiencing "from duckling to swan" syndrome? I haven't seen that type of shredding that isn't a result of "interfering with nature" aside of doing exercise and not being a glutton.

by Anonymousreply 4601/30/2019

No one knows why Dan Savage still does not know how to drive.

Yes, Terry was plainer in the past.

by Anonymousreply 4701/30/2019

He was really cute when he did his "reveal" however many years ago. Dan got a ton of attention for having such a hot husband. He looked sort of...wholesome...with a lovely naturally worked out body. Total fucking opposite from the mess he is now.

by Anonymousreply 4801/30/2019

so... is Dan dating Tom, too?

by Anonymousreply 4901/30/2019

Is The Attic still open for business?

by Anonymousreply 5001/30/2019

[quote]Hubby was on Maher's show last night, dressed in a tight, form fitting tee. The other male panelist/guest/host were all dressed in shirts and ties. Gay perpetual adolescence is so endearing, no?

OMG that was not a tight form fitting tee, that's a normal size fit for anyone who buys for their size. The oversized tee died out decades ago you silly old queens. Pretentious gays living in an age bubble is endearing, no?

by Anonymousreply 5101/30/2019

He's on: Test. Probably trt doses. A dry compound: perhaps Mast, Tren if he's on cycle (trying to grow bigger), maybe Bold or Primo, but he looks "full" and sculpted (meaning his muscles are retaining glycogen stores) so I'm willing to bet Mast.

by Anonymousreply 5201/30/2019

Agree with R52. This pic suggests even more. And probably a diuretic. Even when he shouldn’t be taking it.

by Anonymousreply 5301/30/2019

I thought Mugler had been a sufficient morality lesson years ago.

by Anonymousreply 5401/30/2019

I still like Terry's nipples a lot.

by Anonymousreply 5501/31/2019

r51, I think the point was that all the other panelists and the host were dressed like grownups.

by Anonymousreply 5601/31/2019

I would imagine some type of PReP and other anti-virals from the looks of things.

by Anonymousreply 5701/31/2019

Flintstones vitamins

by Anonymousreply 5801/31/2019

steroids dissolves all the skin fat to get that muscle definition. It looks awful when you go to extremes

by Anonymousreply 5901/31/2019

Does not what she's talking about ^

A DL specialty

by Anonymousreply 6001/31/2019

You are beautiful, keep it up Terry!

However, I am worried about the chemicals.

Go back to natural Terry.

Terry, you are a Sigma male therefore, you will go your own way.

But droids are not your friend. Peace to you both. Xoxo

by Anonymousreply 6101/31/2019

Terry is a classic Sigma male who unobtrusively dominates the relationship. Dan, believe it or not, is the submissive or 'beta' partner.

It works well for them. Best of luck to you guys.

by Anonymousreply 6201/31/2019

OP's photo reminds me: are they ever going to bring back that special beef jerky at Trader Joe's?

by Anonymousreply 6301/31/2019

r59 you don't know what you're talking about, dear.

by Anonymousreply 6401/31/2019

Def HGH look at his face - HGH gives you cromag forehead.

by Anonymousreply 6501/31/2019

R61 That would be, "peace to all three of you" Incredibly privileged and heteronormative of you to refer to them being in a two person relationship when they're obviously not

by Anonymousreply 6601/31/2019


by Anonymousreply 6701/31/2019

He looks like really self-absorbed beef jerky!

by Anonymousreply 6801/31/2019

But you don't single out the so many heerosexual compeitive male bodybuilders over 45 who live their lives obsessed with their looks. They outnumber gay muscle men by far. R4

What is this need to pathologise gay men?

by Anonymousreply 6901/31/2019

R69 One could argue that he gets extra scrutiny as a cofounder of a nationwide campaign for LGBT youth. And for being married to a celebrity.

by Anonymousreply 7001/31/2019

And for dressing like a 20-year-old club kid from a small town.

by Anonymousreply 7101/31/2019

Nailed it R71, lol.

by Anonymousreply 7201/31/2019

There is nothing sexier than a guy completely covered in veins.

It’s great to see the body’s inner workings on the outside, like those anatomical models that have a top you can lift off and all the guts are showing. Leaving things to the imagination is for other people that are not as cool as me.

by Anonymousreply 7301/31/2019

R69 In a word: jealousy

by Anonymousreply 7401/31/2019

R74 Doubt it.

by Anonymousreply 7502/02/2019

T-shirts and singlets should not be worn beyond 40 for a man. Maybe at home and the yard, but otherwise, no.

by Anonymousreply 7602/02/2019

The arms look like veiny over circumcised penii.

by Anonymousreply 7702/02/2019

Heterosexual bodybuilder, but it is only gay men who are pathologised.

by Anonymousreply 7802/02/2019

[quote]T-shirts and singlets should not be worn beyond 40 for a man.

Are you 89 years old and obsessed with the antique fashion rules of you long dead mother r76?

by Anonymousreply 7902/04/2019

I seriously wonder if anyone, anywhere finds Mrs. Savage desireable or sexy? 10 years ago he was just barely do-able. Well, if it makes him happy I guess there’s no harm. Question for any DL docs- is there anything detrimental to his health from the diet and supplements required to look this way?

by Anonymousreply 8002/04/2019

Mrs. Dan goes for a walk in his Seattle neighborhood this weekend.

At this point he's basically a human Sasha Baron Cohen character.

by Anonymousreply 8102/04/2019

Dumb steroid soaked attention whore.

by Anonymousreply 8202/07/2019

I suppose he looks better than that Beefy Noodles dude who injects silicone into his monster balls. But not by much.

I doubt he has a clue how awful he looks to normal people. Whenever I see that I think: meth, steroids, HIV. Sorry, but that is the damn truth.

by Anonymousreply 8302/07/2019

[quote]I seriously wonder if anyone, anywhere finds Mrs. Savage desireable or sexy?

I do. To this day I just don't understand the DL hatred of him. He looks GREAT! Especially for his age!

I just chalk the hatred up to the caftan girls being annoyed and jealous because they can't purchase the latest earrings from HSN due to their limited monthly check.

by Anonymousreply 8402/07/2019

Terry is a naturally attractive man and if he were to forgo whatever pharmaceuticals are giving him those disgusting popped veins and scaly skin, he would still look great. In fact I think he once had the kind of classic corn-fed looks that would have kept him looking sexy well into his later years. But he's ruined all that, and if he keeps on his current path, he's going to look absolutely horrific by his early 50s.

His taste in clothes I can forgive, because he clearly enjoys outrageous couture, so why not?

by Anonymousreply 8502/07/2019

[quote]Terry is a naturally attractive man and if he were to forgo whatever pharmaceuticals are giving him those disgusting popped veins

Actually, that's achieved through water deprivation. Bodybuilders do that before a show or a picture shoot. You don't like the look. But, there are many others who do.

by Anonymousreply 8602/07/2019

Wait. He's not in his early 50's yet?

by Anonymousreply 8702/07/2019


[quote]By drinking a higher amount of water you trick your body into flushing more when you cut back, which results in your muscles looking tighter. The combined effects of carb-loading, salt avoidance, and water depletion will suck as much fluid into the muscle tissue as possible.

by Anonymousreply 8802/07/2019

He looks every day of 60.

by Anonymousreply 8902/07/2019

Aww... Terry's bf is making Instragram stories about how much they love each other

by Anonymousreply 9002/10/2019

Dan's writing God-awful opinion pieces in the NYT. Using this logic he should release dick pics of himself, Terry and Tom. Also how ridiculous to say that everyone should do it, except him cause he's not famous enough. Oh, and why not mention the Tumblr page? It seems relevant

by Anonymousreply 9102/10/2019

He's entering Madonna territory.

by Anonymousreply 9202/10/2019

Ageing is especially hard for people who have lived superficial lives.

by Anonymousreply 9302/10/2019

R93 that's what is weird. He has raised a child and started a widely acclaimed advocacy org. Then seemed to have some bdsm/queer liberation midlife crisis

by Anonymousreply 9402/10/2019

"Then seemed to have some bdsm/queer liberation midlife crisis."

Well put.

by Anonymousreply 9502/10/2019

Dan's made it pretty clear he doesn't want a fat man, so he's probably the one pressuring Terry to roid himself up and get bigger as he started getting older and saggier. So he knows Dan is constantly looking at his waistline and he's the less successful one in the marriage, so he tried to break out of that by becoming this aged manwhore.

by Anonymousreply 9602/10/2019

So Dan is sizephobic? That's as violent as rape and racism. How does he still have a career and an intact reputation?

by Anonymousreply 9702/10/2019

The OPs picture look like something lying in a tray in a butcher-shop window.

by Anonymousreply 9802/10/2019

R98: Are you saying he needs to be stamped with an expiration date?

by Anonymousreply 9902/10/2019

[quote] You don't like the look. But, there are many others who do.

I love that look!!!

by Anonymousreply 10002/10/2019

Terry dresses like an extremely low-rent version of David Rose in "Schitt's Week" (except with more color).

by Anonymousreply 10102/10/2019

[quote] OMG that was not a tight form fitting tee, that's a normal size fit for anyone who buys for their size.

by Anonymousreply 10202/10/2019

R101 LMAO! spot on!

by Anonymousreply 10302/10/2019

What is the point of all the effort?

Does it make the man more alluring?

Does one masturbate into it? Or have a conversation?

by Anonymousreply 10402/10/2019

He makes me sad.

by Anonymousreply 10502/10/2019

Dan has talked about being overly casual. He lives in Seattle, a city known to be extremely casual. He's also never worked anywhere except the Seattle Weekly. It's probably a very casual work place. I know someone who worked at The Bay Guardian and people came to work in pajamas and wetsuits. He's like those straight guys who wear sports branded clothing everywhere or the women who wear yoga pants everywhere. We live in a world full of slobs. I wish it weren't so, but I don't think it's proof of arrested development.

by Anonymousreply 10602/10/2019

Dan, Terry and the twunk bf should start an OnlyFans page where they take turns fisting each other. It's what all the sex positive people are doing!

by Anonymousreply 10702/10/2019

Oh please r106. He started wearing tight t-shirts that showed off his biceps as soon as he and Terry hit their 40s and started working out and seeing results. Terry, of course, went the roids route to get even bigger, whereas I think Dan just likes having some muscle.

Dan's commented on his show MANY times about how he thinks if you're fat you should just go on a diet and lose weight because no one wants to date you otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 10802/10/2019

R107 is Dan involved with Tom? It looks like Terry is dating Tom but I don't think Dan is romantically involved with Tom

by Anonymousreply 10902/10/2019

Who said anything about romance?

by Anonymousreply 11002/10/2019

Terry is a dumb attention whore and Dan is just an asshole who thinks casual sex fixes everything.

by Anonymousreply 11102/10/2019

R110 ok. I'm not convinced all three have sex together. I think Tom and Terry's thing is seperate even though he lives with them

by Anonymousreply 11202/10/2019

So Dan likes to watch? I think it's one big dogpile

by Anonymousreply 11302/10/2019

Dan has a problem with fat people? He needs to get over it and make love to fat people.

by Anonymousreply 11402/10/2019

He finds them disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 11502/10/2019

I like guys to be fit, but that veiny, 0% body fat look is just gross.

Hard pass.

by Anonymousreply 11602/10/2019

[quote]Dan has a problem with fat people? He needs to get over it and make love to fat people.

[quote]He finds them disgusting.

Ahhhh.... so THAT'S why he is so hated her on Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 11702/10/2019

r117 have you gained weight?

by Anonymousreply 11802/10/2019

Dan doesn't just have a problem with fat people, he seems to have a problem with anyone who isn't what he finds attractive.

by Anonymousreply 11902/10/2019

Fatties are the WORST

I applaud Dan for having standards

by Anonymousreply 12002/10/2019

I hope you get sat on by a fat person, r120

by Anonymousreply 12102/10/2019

You're a fattie aren't you R121

I work out daily and every hour I say to myself "you can't eat that".....over and over and over.

You can do the same.

by Anonymousreply 12202/10/2019

Savage uses roids too, but still looks older than his supposed age of 54...

by Anonymousreply 12302/10/2019

I think he’s tremendous!

by Anonymousreply 12402/11/2019

Savage is much hotter than the other one, who looks like stale trade.

by Anonymousreply 12502/11/2019

Daddies don't cradle their mugs.

by Anonymousreply 12602/11/2019

This will be sad when senility hits.

by Anonymousreply 12702/11/2019

sad, he hot w/o the roid mess, he mus know they kill the liver and heart, theyr like speed, bummer to get off of, …. he mus be off the deep end. thought dan was more smart than to let terry go that dan ok?

by Anonymousreply 12802/11/2019

R128 Can you imagine living with Terry? He seems ridiculously high maintenance. I'm sure Dan is happy that he stays busy posing naked and having a much much younger boyfriend to occupy his time and leave Dan alone to write

by Anonymousreply 12902/11/2019

Mmmmm my pussy is dripping

by Anonymousreply 13002/11/2019

R127 Who cares about senility when you've got great tits?

by Anonymousreply 13102/11/2019

I've always found Dan Savage to be a smug jerk. Also, I can't stand his lisp. If you're going to be in public speaking, go to a fucking speech therapist and correct your speech impediment! Those who feel already "too special" to need to fix anything are always monsters. See: Barbara Walters and Rudy Giuliani for example.

by Anonymousreply 13202/11/2019

Does Dan still do drag? Or did he just use that as a gimmick early in his career then drop it and become butch when he no longer needed its shock value.

by Anonymousreply 13302/12/2019


by Anonymousreply 13402/19/2019

I'm sorry, but this is pretty desperate behavior.

by Anonymousreply 13502/19/2019

she's hideous

by Anonymousreply 13602/19/2019

He has over done the muscle building obviously but you bitches would still do him and you know it.

by Anonymousreply 13702/19/2019

Leather daddy or leather MARY!?

by Anonymousreply 13802/19/2019

Nice bod, but the Narcissistic Personality Disorder ruins the look for me.

by Anonymousreply 13902/20/2019

I think it's time he lets us all see his porn work in the purportedly destroyed Boat Daddy.

by Anonymousreply 14002/20/2019

R129 My ex-husband frequently embarrassed me too. But what can I do? I don't own him.

by Anonymousreply 14102/20/2019

lucky fukker, gets to suk on that hot cunt of his blonde tom Finlandia lover.

by Anonymousreply 14202/20/2019

Shredded Grampa!

by Anonymousreply 14302/20/2019

Grandpa's piles are itching.

I am SERIOUS, y'all!

by Anonymousreply 14402/20/2019

ide trade my poodle to suk on the voluptuous tittys and floppy asshole of miss terry....YOWZA

by Anonymousreply 14502/21/2019

He’s so embarrassing. I guess Dan was secretly hoping Terry would be dead by now. You just know Terry’s not the type to go away easily....maybe Dan could slip some antifreeze in Terry’s protein shakes.

by Anonymousreply 14602/21/2019

So much jealousy here on this thread. Why don't many of you get a life, (YOUR OWN LIFE) rather than criticizing someone else's and the choices/decisions that they have made for themselves. He's LIVING his life and dreams while many of you waste yours clacking on a keyboard and eating bon-bons.

by Anonymousreply 14702/21/2019

Terry, call me back bb, I need to eat the inner lining of ur anus really bad, for its soft and famous, k?

by Anonymousreply 14802/21/2019

60 will be rough for Terry.

by Anonymousreply 14902/21/2019

When mutton poses as lamb, mutton would do well not to pose next to lamb.

by Anonymousreply 15002/21/2019

in above pic, is that terry's adopted son?

by Anonymousreply 15102/22/2019

No it isn't

by Anonymousreply 15202/22/2019

R150, I want to slap the gay out of that tongue.

by Anonymousreply 15302/22/2019

I actually think Terry looks really hot - although he could do with a couple of % higher bodyfat to lose that 'extreme' ripped look, it would actually make him look better. And his nipples ARE sensational (nice dick too).

However he just comes across as such a desperate attention whore and that is really NOT hot. I would love to know what his son thinks of his dad flashing his tits 'n' ass all over instagram.

I do really like Dan Savage - listened to his podcast for years now and I almost always agree with what he says. However I do find it annoying that he never seems to acknowledge his 'thruple' relationship, even when it's pertinent to the calls on SavageLove. I feel like perhaps he's not into it as much as Terry is.

by Anonymousreply 15402/22/2019

R154 I don't think they are a throuple. Terry and Tom have both acknowledged that Tom is his BF. But never include Dan in that. Terry and Dan have a monogamish marriage plus Terry has a live in BF. I also find Dan's refusal to talk about it irratating. Especially because he always tells others to "come out" as poly.

by Anonymousreply 15502/23/2019

His teats are just as real as Christina Hendricks dammit.

by Anonymousreply 15602/23/2019

Him and danny boy are the most awesome couple in Gaytown….

by Anonymousreply 15702/24/2019

Elegance has a name!

by Anonymousreply 15802/24/2019

Now he thinks he's Christ?

by Anonymousreply 15902/24/2019

the best guess I can come up with is that he is using play-dough to get the look he has acquired.

by Anonymousreply 16002/24/2019

He drinks 6 raw eggs and half a pint of bull semen each morning. He also injects himself with HGH before bed each night.

by Anonymousreply 16102/24/2019

He eats rainbows and unicorns.

by Anonymousreply 16202/24/2019

Wonder if his adopted son will comment on Insta at R158.

What happens in the next stage of a midlife crisis of such proportions?

Are they actually legally married? Sometimes people say they are when they are not. So T stays for the attention of being the Mrs. and Dan keeps him around cuz he is cheap? Does Tomboy pay rent in cash or just with his body?

by Anonymousreply 16302/24/2019

I'm sure Tomboy just pays rent with his ass.

by Anonymousreply 16402/24/2019

Dan Savage is snotty, judgemental and a bully. In the documentary-Do I Sound Gay?- he said that any gay male that's not attracted to effeminate gay males is misogynistic.

by Anonymousreply 16502/24/2019

Every leather daddy needs a tasteful tote/murse!

by Anonymousreply 16602/25/2019

It looks like Dan's tanktop at OP was designed by Vonda and Shonda from "Super Showcase" on SNL

by Anonymousreply 16702/25/2019

I like me a muscular man, but the "ripped beef jerkey" look is a bit...much.

by Anonymousreply 16802/25/2019

Terry must be a gaping sinkhole of attention seeking neediness, I wouldn't be surprised if Dan hooked him up with that equally narcissistic twunk just to get away Terry away from him.

by Anonymousreply 16902/25/2019

Terry's teeth are nasty looking. He seriously needs braces.

by Anonymousreply 17002/26/2019

He has mule teeth.

by Anonymousreply 17102/26/2019

The typical DL'er. Especially posting on this thread...

by Anonymousreply 17202/26/2019

Ol' Jerky Nips is back ...

by Anonymousreply 17302/26/2019

watch out boys. Terry and his BF are in Palm Springs and posting thirst trap photos on Insta

by Anonymousreply 17403/01/2019

I want to lick every inch of Terry's body.

by Anonymousreply 17503/01/2019

Too many veins.

by Anonymousreply 17603/01/2019

When I think "leather daddy," I think "Bea Arthur goes to International Male"

by Anonymousreply 17703/01/2019

I'm afraid it's quite obvious that, to resort to a DLism, a lot of posters on this thread type fat.

Whatever Terry's neediness, in a world where far too many people let themselves go to seed after 50 or even 40, his work (and it's hard, hard work) to stay in shape is to be applauded. He and Dan look good in t-shirts? Great. I'm sure they enjoy a lot more hot sex than those bagging them.

by Anonymousreply 17803/01/2019

I doubt Terry enjoys anything R178 I imagine the constant desperate attempts to cling to his fading youth and beauty are pretty much all consuming now.

by Anonymousreply 17903/01/2019

"Whatever Terry's neediness, in a world where far too many people let themselves go to seed after 50 or even 40, his work (and it's hard, hard work) to stay in shape is to be applauded."

It's not like he's got anything else to do with his time. He doesn't have a fucking job (other than being a paid shill for shit on Instagram), hubby makes good money, baby boy has fled the coop and how many times can you redecorate the house before it gets boring. He's like some wealthy suburban haus frau: nothing but time on his hands.

by Anonymousreply 18003/02/2019

R180 I heard Dan on an interview recently saying their son still lives with them. I think Terry's Bf lives there too

by Anonymousreply 18103/02/2019

The things their poor son must see and hear living in that house.

by Anonymousreply 18203/02/2019

Hysterical frau ^

by Anonymousreply 18303/02/2019

Dumb Fuck ^

by Anonymousreply 18403/02/2019

Dora Dumbfuck ^

by Anonymousreply 18503/02/2019

He's spending the weekend with pornstars at a porn event

by Anonymousreply 18603/02/2019

It's a sobering moment when one's trainer goes to seed. But life moves on!

by Anonymousreply 18703/03/2019

trentons hot as fuk, u nuts?

by Anonymousreply 18803/03/2019

I would suk Millers asshole and tits off any damn day.

by Anonymousreply 18903/03/2019

Terry hanging out with a human garbage bag like Trenton Ducati is yet more proof he's a dumb slut.

by Anonymousreply 19003/03/2019

Dora Dumbfuck ^

by Anonymousreply 19103/03/2019

jus by looks, ducati is hawt as fuk

most of the beautys are horrid inside, yes

by Anonymousreply 19203/03/2019

R191 Don't troll because you're obviously no good at it. Depending on who you ask and believe Trenton may be an actual monster.

by Anonymousreply 19303/03/2019

I've never understood the hate for Dan Savage. Reminds me of our current climate of the extreme left hating the left (instead of focusing on all the fuckfaces on the right).

by Anonymousreply 19403/03/2019

dan and his hubby miller are divine fun guys.

jealousy is a hideous animal.

by Anonymousreply 19503/03/2019

This is 500x more attractive than his usual You're So Vain, You're So Veiny look.

by Anonymousreply 19603/05/2019

Oh hey look, he can wear clothes.

by Anonymousreply 19703/05/2019

How do we tell ms Miller to stay off social media? No one wants to see that. I’m guessing the followers are there to ridicule. Maybe suicide is an option🤞

by Anonymousreply 19803/05/2019

jealous ones: he is where he is cause so many men want to eat him....

by Anonymousreply 19903/06/2019

I thought Terry was super hot when he first started his midlife crisis, but now he looks gross.

by Anonymousreply 20003/06/2019

love is love, i guess

by Anonymousreply 20103/08/2019
by Anonymousreply 20203/08/2019

There's nothing more cringy than a parent having a public midlife crisis

by Anonymousreply 20303/08/2019

dam, ide eat his tits and asshole till the clouds cum rollin by

they say he hella fun in public toilets, buck nekkid, takes all mouths and cocks

by Anonymousreply 20403/08/2019

Insane ^

Or Anonymous In Kansas City has returned

by Anonymousreply 20503/08/2019

I could care less bout his hemmy roids, his body is hot and ide feast on it all nite.

mind ur own business jealous haters....u look bittter

by Anonymousreply 20603/08/2019

R206 I support Terry, and the hate against him, from bitter unfuckable old queens, is hilarious and tragic. But it doesn’t blind me to the fact that Terry frequently looks ridiculous and cringy. glad your back, spreading your butt corn craziness around DL. It’s obvious that you have gone off your meds...don’t kill any of your patients

by Anonymousreply 20703/08/2019

[quote]watch out boys. Terry and his BF are in Palm Springs and posting thirst trap photos on Insta

Isn't Terry afraid he'll be confused with Tom Bianchi if he goes there....because he IS going there....soon.

by Anonymousreply 20803/09/2019

hanging with all the porn boys in palm springs

by Anonymousreply 20903/09/2019

^ He looks great!

by Anonymousreply 21003/09/2019

We all know where this is headed, He's gonna do porn.

by Anonymousreply 21103/09/2019

his tits and ass still command top dollar. awesome to fuk

by Anonymousreply 21203/10/2019

If he's hanging out with Trenton Ducati it will be bareback porn probably with some message about how if you don't bareback with poz guys you're a terrible person.

by Anonymousreply 21303/10/2019


by Anonymousreply 21403/10/2019

where how do I hire terry?

by Anonymousreply 21503/10/2019

Would be an honor to rim ur dirt ass out sir....I do anything u demand.

by Anonymousreply 21603/10/2019

Someone’s been skipping leg day.

by Anonymousreply 21703/10/2019

Even with those muscles she still looks nellier than a fruitcake.

by Anonymousreply 21803/10/2019

A completely candid shot — I wonder if Terry even knew there was a camera in the room.

by Anonymousreply 21903/10/2019

Those chicken legs are just bizarre. Yuck.

by Anonymousreply 22003/10/2019

Gross, has he starting inflating his nuts like those creepy bear guys that were big news a few months ago?

by Anonymousreply 22103/10/2019

His giant nipples make my pussy excitation yesss mommy

by Anonymousreply 22203/11/2019

more titty and hole pix plz sir, more.

by Anonymousreply 22303/11/2019

I must admit, he is a bit handsome, and bold for being so out there sexually and hot.

by Anonymousreply 22403/11/2019

His face is changing from the steroids, you can see it.

by Anonymousreply 22503/11/2019

Love the tits, im all about that, bigger nips the better.

by Anonymousreply 22603/11/2019

New to this individual. What does he do for a living? Does he had a regular job to go to?

I’m worried that this young man won’t have earned all his social security quarters at retirement.

by Anonymousreply 22703/11/2019

he can retire, he is very well off from his....clients.

by Anonymousreply 22803/11/2019

That isn’t just hgh . Lots of normal people use hgh and don’t look like freaks . He’s clearly using anabolic steroids and testosterone . hgh probably too , but that’s not why he looks like that . In massive doses hgh gives the cro magnon look but that’s not what he’s got going on . He’s aging and destroying his body and it’s sad .

by Anonymousreply 22903/11/2019

why is his skin business booming then?

by Anonymousreply 23003/11/2019

lol @ r227

(But in case you’re serenely unaware, “young” Terry is 48.)

by Anonymousreply 23103/11/2019

He has good muscle tone for his age. But it just proves that sexual attraction is based on many elements.

Terry's self-awareness is a bit of a buzz kill.

by Anonymousreply 23203/11/2019

Terry in 2011:

by Anonymousreply 23303/11/2019

I'll give him this, his kept boy is a hot piece of ass.

by Anonymousreply 23403/11/2019

Terry went to the symphony in this.

Does Tom of Finland have a spring Bea Arthur collection now?

by Anonymousreply 23504/06/2019

He's just a few years away from entering his Advanced Style phase.

by Anonymousreply 23604/06/2019

He looks like beef jerky left out in the sun.

by Anonymousreply 23704/06/2019

Terry in five years?

by Anonymousreply 23804/06/2019


by Anonymousreply 23904/06/2019

I guess it is an addiction to, in addition to the steroids, etc, an addiction to attention and some sort of inner need to know that people are noticing and commenting on him. Well, Marion, if that is the kind of attention you wanted, you sure got some..

by Anonymousreply 24004/06/2019

So arrogant and vain and so deluded.

by Anonymousreply 24104/06/2019

It’s sad to see someone who can’t handle aging.

by Anonymousreply 24204/07/2019

TrimSpa - definitely TrimSpa.

by Anonymousreply 24304/07/2019

[quote]It’s sad to see someone who can’t handle aging.

I think it is even sadder to see how so many give up after a certain age, and yet, criticize those who want to live their life and be the best that they can be at any age.

by Anonymousreply 24404/07/2019

Without the support of his husband, would Terry have become a webcam sex worker?

by Anonymousreply 24504/07/2019

Nothing says "leather daddy" like a Tom of Finland murse

by Anonymousreply 24604/07/2019

R244 There are men who age well without looking like a funhouse mirror

by Anonymousreply 24704/07/2019

[quote][R244] There are men who age well without looking like a funhouse mirror

You see? The operative word is FUN. A plant ages well.

by Anonymousreply 24804/07/2019

For people here over 40 and hating, may I ask why you don't work out?

by Anonymousreply 24904/07/2019

R249 - I’m over 40 and work out. I just don’t take all the supplements, testosterone, HGH. There’s a difference in being fit and healthy and then looking like this bulging, veiny nitwit crying for attention.

by Anonymousreply 25004/07/2019

Do you think he's dying his body hair yet?

by Anonymousreply 25104/07/2019

I bet he smokes a lot of pot.

by Anonymousreply 25204/07/2019

He's got a great bod. But it's pics like this that make you want to punch him in the face.

by Anonymousreply 25304/07/2019

That's actually pretty mild for him, R253.

Not getting the logic of anyone being critical of his narcissism must come from someone who "doesn't work out".

by Anonymousreply 25404/07/2019

Why, R253? What is it about that image that you don't like?

by Anonymousreply 25504/07/2019

"For people here over 40 and hating, may I ask why you don't work out?"

What Mrs. Savage does has nothing to do with health, R249. Like so many other roided out idiots out there, there's a very real and distinct possibly the roid usage, yoyo dieting, and deliberate liquid deprivation may be causing him irreparable harm, maybe even leading to premature death.

Just because someone "looks good" in your eyes and being an extremely photogenic Instaho, R249, doesn't automatically make them hale healthy. Bitches be droppin' like flies.

by Anonymousreply 25604/07/2019

It's because he looks stunted. Peter Pan-ish.

You would think at his age, having raised a child, that his pursuits in life would be a bit more elevated.

by Anonymousreply 25704/07/2019

[quote]You would think at his age, having raised a child, that his pursuits in life would be a bit more elevated.

Maybe, it gas always been a dream of his to be a fashion model? I mean... President Daddy Bush was skydiving well into his 80's and 90's. There are a lot of seniors who are taking ballet classes and performing. Older men have had dreams of becoming porn stars--and are doing that. On and on....

They're actively living their lives. What should they be doing? Only going to libraries and museums?

by Anonymousreply 25804/07/2019

"gas" s/b "has"

by Anonymousreply 25904/07/2019

R258 - I hear ya. Terry's living out loud. But he's painted himself into a corner by making sexual attractiveness his defining quality.

If only he did try skydiving or ballet. That would at least give him a skill-based talent.

by Anonymousreply 26004/07/2019

I wish he would skydive without a parachute.

by Anonymousreply 26104/07/2019

Is this him?

by Anonymousreply 26204/14/2019

R235: Do NOT sully the good name of Bea Arthur with Mrs. Savage and her TERRIBLE fashion choices. I won't have IT!

by Anonymousreply 26304/14/2019

Terry is our Jackie O.

by Anonymousreply 26404/15/2019

She's so EDGY!

by Anonymousreply 26504/20/2019

Terry must be so exhausting to be around.

by Anonymousreply 26604/20/2019

He could be Andy Cohen's hot mess brother. Or maybe alter ego. Have they ever been seen at the same time?

by Anonymousreply 26704/20/2019

R266 probably why Dan likes that he has a boyfriend. Lwt someone else deal with his ego

by Anonymousreply 26804/20/2019

R268: I've always said Tom's a husband sitter so Dan can get shit done.

by Anonymousreply 26904/20/2019

Terry's tailleur in R265 would fabulous on a 30 something.

by Anonymousreply 27004/20/2019

R269 LOL That is probably pretty accurate.

by Anonymousreply 27104/20/2019

Have not been following Savage's exploits. From what I'm reading on this thread it appears he and his husband have taken on a younger guy to be a "thruple"?

As for the husband, that's likely HGH and/or a really strict diet. It's an "I lift weights" body not an "I am an athlete" body, which you do see, naturally, on plenty of guys his age.

The difference is that 90% of those guys are not on IG. Or not showing off on IG, anyway. They may have accounts the way everyone else does, to take photos of pretty sunsets or their kids, wives and dogs and all that.

It takes a high level of narcissism to be that old and doing that shit. It's like the 23 year olds, they think they're going to get discovered and become big time models or actors so you can forgive them.

But this dude knows better.

by Anonymousreply 27204/20/2019

But he was "discovered" by gays, and has become a gay "circuit" celebrity, for a certain crowd, and gets plenty of endorsement offers, so I guess his mid life narcissism flip-out has worked.

by Anonymousreply 27304/20/2019

R272 Dan's relationship to the 20 something boytoy seems unclear. He apparently lives with them but doesn't really ever mention Dan on social media, but Terry and Tom are always expressing their love for each other online. I think it's not a throuple, but Dan's husband got himself a boyfriend. He refers to Tom as his boyfriend but Dan never does.

by Anonymousreply 27404/20/2019

Terry and Tom have been boyfriends for a couple years now. Even have matching tattoos. Funnily enough, Dan feels like the third wheel now.

by Anonymousreply 27504/20/2019

Dan beefed up a lot and seems to take an interest in staying fuckable. So who has HE been fucking the last years while Terry fucks Tom?

by Anonymousreply 27604/20/2019

R276 rando pornstars and gogo boys that recognize him as a gay celebrity? or Jake Shears?

by Anonymousreply 27704/20/2019

[quote]But this dude knows better.


Changing times, R272. We older guys are not going out the way that many of our fathers did. We want to live life to its fullest to the very last second. That would include remaining fit and having sex. There are at least a few threads on her about buff seniors, etc. Are some going overboard? Maybe.

by Anonymousreply 27804/20/2019

Kill it with fire

by Anonymousreply 27904/20/2019

Their poor kid. When is it going to come out as trans?

by Anonymousreply 28004/20/2019

I think it's weird that Dan's entire brand is confessional personal stories. About his Marriage and his family. About being monogamous. And then about not. And about being monogamish. Urging poly people to talk about multiple partners to lessen the stigma. And railing about monogamy being a harmful expectation. But he has been completely silent about his personal life in the last two years. He doesn't mention his husband has a boyfriend. Or that they are a throuple, or not. He doesn't talk about how they let their son know that Daddy's new boyfriend was moving in with them. It's just super weird. Why be quiet now?

by Anonymousreply 28104/20/2019

Your own lack of respect for the son. It? Really? And what would make him trans? Just dumb on your part.

by Anonymousreply 28204/20/2019

The kid coming out as trans is the only way it can get more attention than his slut parents, idiot.

by Anonymousreply 28304/20/2019

Obviously the son wants no attention because we know nothing about him and he has no public profile.

by Anonymousreply 28404/20/2019

R283 Have you seen what his dad wears in public and online? I think there's probably a reason he has never been photographed with them in public as an adult. Pretty sure it's comfortable staying away from the attention. He is in his early 20s in living at home with all of them. But he's never in any Instagram photos etc

by Anonymousreply 28504/20/2019

After all the attention and fanfare, Dan and Terry are exposed as two basic narcissists who adopted an innocent kid and pulled him into their failed social experiment. I actually feel for the kid. But at this point, it's more than likely the kid grew up to be a budding narcissist himself. What a fucked up household.

by Anonymousreply 28604/20/2019

Is it true that bodybuilders eat sugary things before a competition because sugar makes their veins pop out more?

by Anonymousreply 28704/20/2019

R286 They (especially Terry) have become laughable in their middle ages, with the sudden muscle gain and the Narcissistic ego trip and exhibitionism. Also, Terry's thin skin and self importance is funny. but they seem like they were good dads in their kid's formative years

by Anonymousreply 28804/20/2019

"...they seem like they were good dads in their kid's formative years"

Okay. I'll give them the benefit of the doubt there.

by Anonymousreply 28904/20/2019

[quote][R286] They (especially Terry) have become laughable in their middle ages

Laughable? Terry still gets paid bookings. It even looks as if they are increasing. Dan is still booked pretty much everywhere. They're constant conversation here on DL. If anyone is laughing I'd say that they were. They're laughing all the way to the bank.

by Anonymousreply 29004/20/2019

R290 That's "Sure, Jan" worthy

by Anonymousreply 29104/20/2019

That's what makes it especially sad. With all that success, they both seem sad and desperate.

by Anonymousreply 29204/20/2019

I find Dan Savage to be snotty and judgemental anyway. He has said that gay males that are NOT attracted to effeminate gay males are MISOGYNISTIC.

by Anonymousreply 29304/20/2019

R196 : This is how you dress for an office if you have skills to pay the bills and aren't geriatric.

by Anonymousreply 29404/20/2019

The constant need for validation is exhausting. And sad.

by Anonymousreply 29504/20/2019

I feel like Dan has lost a lot of his magic. He was legit a superstar in the gay world. But his reactions and work over the last several years have been off. He is no longer shocking and his insight into gay life seems less on point than it used to be.

by Anonymousreply 29604/20/2019

[quote]The constant need for validation is exhausting. And sad.

Alas,,, everyone wants to feel loved and be desired...

by Anonymousreply 29704/20/2019

R297 I guess some of us just try to find that closer to home than a public instagram thirst campaign

by Anonymousreply 29804/20/2019

Dan Savage's own narcissism is displayed by his insistence on a career in public speaking without ever bothering to go to a speech pathologist to fix his lisp/speech impediment! It's really hard for me to listen to him.

Barbara Walters and Rudy Giuliani are two other monsters with noticeable speech impediments who must feel too brilliant and special to work at getting rid of their AWFUL vocal production!

by Anonymousreply 29904/20/2019

I wesent your wepulsive wefewence to my disabiwity, w299! What a wetched wevolting wesponse!

by Anonymousreply 30004/22/2019

Child Protective Services will hopefully take the son away. No child should be subjected to that narcissism and neglect. I always thought when you had a kid that they became the center of your world. I didn’t realize they were “parents” but that’s truly disturbing, and I’m a gay man with a general disdain for little kids.

by Anonymousreply 30104/22/2019

Their son is in his 20s

by Anonymousreply 30204/22/2019

Oh I didn’t know the son was that old. I wonder if he’s embarrassed by Dan and Terry.

by Anonymousreply 30304/22/2019

when their son was young Terry looked completely different, he wasn't working out all the time and they were in a monogamous relationship. Terry didn't want to be photographed or talked about a lot by Dan. As soon as their son became a teenager Terry went through some kind of midlife crisis and start living like a 20-year-old. He started working out nonstop. They became open sexually. They started getting into BDSM. Terry started posting photos of him in their attic with porn stars on to Tumblr. And he started modeling and becoming an Instagram ho. Then they started dating 20 year olds

by Anonymousreply 30404/22/2019

Gross, he's gone way past looking good into freakish. Classic body dismorphia. Husband needs to sit him down and have an intervention.

by Anonymousreply 30504/22/2019

R304 they were never in a monogous relationship, and Dan's always been kind of domineering, so maybe it's Terry coming into his own. Dan was in his early 30s and Terry only 23 when they met and instantly became a couple. Dan writes in his book(s) of telling him early on that he planned to adopt a baby in a year or two so Terry better get on board or get out, and how he pressured Terry to make their relationship open early on -- even though it made Terry sad.

Dan also wrote about how his friends disrespected Terry and gossiped about him being a golddigger. Gorgeous Terry, finally fed up, said, "Dan. If I were a golddigger, you'd need a lot more gold."

by Anonymousreply 30604/23/2019

R306, coming into his own? It's a classic midlife crisis. Terry was, for all intents and purposes, a housewife and stay at home dad. The kid grew up and Terry turned into an instaho with body issues and a boytoy his kid's age.

I have a friend who has a stepmother younger than us (her dad manufactures airplane parts so $$$$$ and this is wife #4). It's awkward as fuck between them. DJ must be so happy his dad is shacked up with someone his age.

by Anonymousreply 30704/23/2019

R306 maybe he is lying, but Dan said they were monogamous the first 10 or so years. then just a handfull of threesomes. then monogamish. then full on open. and now poly

by Anonymousreply 30804/23/2019

Terry was such an iconic 90s boy, PNW style. Gorgeous beautiful guy. Still super young looking in his early 40s. Maybe at that point he decided muscled & polished would ultimately age better than his lifelong granola look? Cute guy nonetheless

by Anonymousreply 30904/23/2019

Beautiful man

by Anonymousreply 31004/23/2019

R309 i thought he was super hot until about 5 years ago

by Anonymousreply 31104/23/2019

Gotta scroll down, but drop dead adorable pre-muscle little-seen Terry pic here. He's always been absolutely stunning.

by Anonymousreply 31204/23/2019

R312 very hot there!

by Anonymousreply 31304/23/2019

uh oh. did something happen? Terry's boy just put his instagram on private

by Anonymousreply 31404/27/2019

Maybe Terry replaced him with a younger dumber model.

by Anonymousreply 31504/27/2019

Well, Terry IS a model, r272.


by Anonymousreply 31604/27/2019

Wow! He really ruined himself with the steroids! He was passable as cute before, now he’s a monster. Maybe he’ll die soon.....that heart could give out on a strenuous work out or steroid binge.

by Anonymousreply 31704/28/2019

R285: Go back 2 years on Instagram and one does slip through. He still lives at home, the only requirement according to Dan is that DJ HAS to vote while he lives with his parents still.

by Anonymousreply 31804/28/2019

I’d do the son any day!! But the dads are just gross now.

by Anonymousreply 31904/28/2019

Dan writing another pro-poly piece where he tells people to "come out" as poly. But he's not doing it himself. Not talking about his husbands long term partner

by Anonymousreply 32005/09/2019

R320 - He's trying so hard to stay relevant. Do most Millennials see Savage as a dinosaur now?

by Anonymousreply 32105/09/2019

Dan is 54. He would stay relevant to young people (not Millennials - who are not young) by being their college professor (and good at it) or by having a big fat dick and being a daddy to fuck them.

by Anonymousreply 32205/09/2019

Terry is beautiful, I wish he lived in my neighborhood.

Seriously, the man puts in the work to look like a damn God and does it with humor and spirit.

I remember Dan and Terry from the Center meetings and they look better as they age.

by Anonymousreply 32305/09/2019

R323 Center meetings?

by Anonymousreply 32405/09/2019

center of The Attic?

by Anonymousreply 32505/09/2019

Dan is starting to approach his creepy husband's level of tediousness.

by Anonymousreply 32605/09/2019

I don't have a problem with his age, however his style in exhibitionism may be a litttle distateful... If he worked on it he could make more easy on the eye.

by Anonymousreply 32705/15/2019

Headed to the opera with a T friend

by Anonymousreply 32805/15/2019

If that couple walked into the Grand Tier I would never go back to the MET. It would be the last straw, destroying any lingering class to the whole fragile affair.

by Anonymousreply 32905/15/2019

When you see bodybuilders showing off or drawing attention towards their crotches they make it in a way that makes them look empowered; they lead and we drool over their masculine figure. This man does the opposite, he looks a little desperate for attention; he gives away too much and puts his crotch anywhere he is. He loses power that way.

by Anonymousreply 33005/15/2019

good news, boys. he will be at IML next weekend! If you want to hook up with the most uninterested throuple ever then you know where to be.

by Anonymousreply 33105/16/2019

At least we don't have to weep for the future... this guy is more representative of the past....

by Anonymousreply 33205/18/2019

Well, that's not leather but.... He's got balls rocking that!

by Anonymousreply 33305/18/2019

he is on brand this weekend

by Anonymousreply 33405/24/2019

Humorless Dan and the walking piece of aged out beef jerky he shares his 401k with. Tragic cautionary tale.

by Anonymousreply 33505/24/2019

I recognize that tattoo

by Anonymousreply 33605/24/2019

At this point, I recognize that flaccid cock

by Anonymousreply 33705/24/2019

getting milked

by Anonymousreply 33805/24/2019

That Kyle Brandon dude is twisted as fuck so on top of being a pretentious asshole Terry is into some weird shit!

by Anonymousreply 33905/25/2019

Terry's version of leather always takes place in a setting as sterile as a hospital theater.

I imagine if one of his "bois" got a spot of cum on his leathers he'd freak out.

by Anonymousreply 34005/25/2019

Looks like he's having fun at IML

by Anonymousreply 34105/26/2019

Part 2 of the video

by Anonymousreply 34205/26/2019

Let's be the milking session.

I am the Ibiza Del Mar lounge mix.

by Anonymousreply 34305/26/2019

I don't care how sex-positive they raised their son to be knowing there's a video online of his dad being tied up and machine milked (and who knows what else) by an S&M psycho must be humiliating for him.

by Anonymousreply 34405/26/2019

Aaaand this is why I always refer to that shop as “Mrs. Leather.”

by Anonymousreply 34505/26/2019

How long till the Onlyfans/JustForFans cameos or even her own personal porn fan site endorsed by her husband?

by Anonymousreply 34605/26/2019

I noticed Dan isn't at IML. In the past Dan wrote about them always going together and it being a big part of Dan's sense of community. Or something like that.

by Anonymousreply 34705/26/2019

Hanging with pornstars

by Anonymousreply 34805/26/2019

Porn slag describes both of those plastic trash bags now R348

by Anonymousreply 34905/26/2019

R348 - Which one is the porn star?

by Anonymousreply 35005/26/2019

The milking machine seems 1 malfunction too close to castration.

by Anonymousreply 35105/26/2019

That may be another kink for that freakshow Kyle Brandon R351 I just hope someone let Terry know...not really.

by Anonymousreply 35205/27/2019

R350 After seeing the milking video, I'd say they both are.

by Anonymousreply 35305/27/2019

Previously unreleased security footage of Mrs. Dan at IML.

by Anonymousreply 35405/27/2019

Is that actually Terry hooked up to the milking machine?

by Anonymousreply 35505/27/2019

R355 Yes. His tattoos are visible. Also he liked the tweets from his personal Twitter account

by Anonymousreply 35605/27/2019

I'm no prude, but this is a bit unseemly.

by Anonymousreply 35705/27/2019

Terry seems to be the poster boy for unseemly these days R357.

by Anonymousreply 35805/28/2019

What's he gonna post next? A proctology exam?

by Anonymousreply 35905/28/2019

I have read DL for years (it started with a Kay Lenz thread) This Dan Savage Terry Miller saga has put me over the edge. My gay brothers, why do feel the need…they love each other, have a son, are open books, loud and proud. Look at your cattiness, trumps rednecks aren't killing America, it's your privileged judgementalness that has killed America, gay pron, done with DL

by Anonymousreply 36005/29/2019


by Anonymousreply 36105/29/2019

I am simply concerned for his fat dick in a cow milking apparatus. I mean, really. Safe?

by Anonymousreply 36205/29/2019

Terry jumped the shark.

by Anonymousreply 36305/29/2019

I proudly voted for Donald Trump and adore these guys. Would I live like them? No way.

Do I think they are campy and cool? Hell yeah!

by Anonymousreply 36405/29/2019

campy and cool?

by Anonymousreply 36505/29/2019

You sound "special" R364

by Anonymousreply 36605/29/2019

r360, WWKLD?

What Would Kay Lenz Do?

by Anonymousreply 36705/29/2019

I love Terry and his get -ups.

Again, not my lifestyle, but so what.

I like looking at them.

by Anonymousreply 36805/29/2019

Speaking of grossly depraved behavior, R364...

by Anonymousreply 36905/29/2019

I know that Terry was bullied when young, as was I, and I think his spirit resonates with me.

Question : why doesn't our bullying ever end? It seems as if we are permanently targeted.

by Anonymousreply 37005/29/2019

R370. I think more of the hate comments come from triggered women who can’t shut the fuck up. They come on DL, comment on everything gay and how disgusting and perverted we are. They are obsessed with Dan and Terry.

Really, if you’re a gay man with issues over Dan or Terry, you’re probably pathetic enough to make up threads about your tiresome family or why can’t you sell your awful second hand furniture at top dollar.

Jesus Christ, stop being tedious old queens.

by Anonymousreply 37105/29/2019

Terry just put a pic of Tom on his instagram stories and called him his "super cute boyfriend" I guess they are out of the poly closet now? they are officially a throuple

by Anonymousreply 37205/29/2019

R372 they've been less closeted than Clay Aiken

by Anonymousreply 37305/29/2019

They are both phony, vain, and gross. I once met them both at a book signing for their "It Gets Better" book that my friend wrangled me into going to. They both struck me as insincere and elitists. This same friend once ran into Dan in Seattle at a shop and told him she was a fan of his column/podcast, and he was a complete asshole to her.

by Anonymousreply 37405/29/2019

Terry's escalating hunger for attention and sexual stimulation is eventually going to annoy Dan and/or draw enough unwanted attention that he'll bail.

by Anonymousreply 37505/30/2019

R375 Oh no, Dan lives for this stuff. He is a kingster and a sex columnist after all. He's just also an introvert and prefers to do it from the sideline. But he gets off on all of Terry's antics and porn and hooking up with other people. I don't think Dan is dating Terry's new boyfriend as well, I think he just loves that his husband has a boyfriend.

by Anonymousreply 37605/30/2019

there were a bunch of photos from Folsom years ago with Terry dressed in leather Daddy drag and walking two subs around. One of them was a young guy the two of them were fucking at the time, their short term boyfriend. And the other one was a guy in complete rubber gimp suit including mask but he was the exact same height and weight and body type is Dan. I'm pretty sure Dan was being led around in a gimp suit. He's not this innocent straightlaced guy that this thread is making him out to be. He was in a couple of the hard-core bondage group sex attic for men pictures too

by Anonymousreply 37705/30/2019

Dan enjoys being the main attention whore R376 if Terry starts to get too much attention Dan will start to resent the sideshow attraction stepping in the ring master's spotlight.

by Anonymousreply 37805/30/2019

This is how two narcissists conduct a relationship.

It must be exhausting.

by Anonymousreply 37905/30/2019

R376: Husband sitter, folks. Husband sitter. Get your husband one today!

by Anonymousreply 38005/30/2019

I think the worst thing Dan ever did was to stigmatize PrEP when it was first being rolled out. He said you would have to be an idiot to take it. It is upsetting that a young gay men probably heard him say that and then decided against taking PrEP. And then Terry posts the photo below a year or so ago. What happened? Not idiots anymore? And Dan has never really atoned for that terrible, terrible advice. And he's a sex columnist? He sames like a judgmental asshole obsessed with money.

by Anonymousreply 38105/30/2019

Let's face it Terry is most likely a cumdump for his porn star buddies a few of which are openly poz so PrEP may be a necessity in his case.

by Anonymousreply 38205/31/2019

I still think R177 has the most under-rated comment/photo on this thread...

[quote]When I think "leather daddy," I think "Bea Arthur goes to International Male"

by Anonymousreply 38305/31/2019

Then you'll love today's photo entry, r383.

by Anonymousreply 38406/02/2019

Why does that outfit seem somehow offensive?

by Anonymousreply 38506/03/2019

Terry looks FUNin his mid-life crisis sex gear. His dress-up outfits for the opera and red-carpet are equally tacky as the fetish wear but, unfortunately, all pathetic and not fun. He looks like the aging queen one would avoid at such events.

by Anonymousreply 38606/03/2019

R384 - Did they finally put him in a padded cell?

by Anonymousreply 38706/03/2019

Terry doing his part to celebrate the progress the gay community has made and is continuing to make.

by Anonymousreply 38806/08/2019

What he’s doing is a middle age gay syndrome. I have a friend who has abandoned a lot of activities to spend endless time working out and posting up to 5 shots a day on Instagram where he has a considerable following. I suspect he is using androgenic aides as well. My arm chair analysis is that it’s an obsession and denial mechanism akin to the basics of substance abuse. He and those who support and enable him seem to think he’s some kind of role model and looks great. I think he’s in trouble.

by Anonymousreply 38906/08/2019

Is your friend's name Jake, R389, and is he a doctor?

by Anonymousreply 39006/08/2019

r389 it happens because they (Jake and Terry) weren't able to be the objects of desire whores back in their 20s because they were too busy staying in the closet and being nerdy.

Now that they have muscles and some validation from followers, they're acting out

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