What kind of "supplements" is the missus using now?
Mrs. Dan Savage ... can some DL bodybuilders weigh in here?
|by Anonymous||reply 391||06/08/2019|
Why does he keep posting here? Does he like listening to people rag on him? Negative attention is better than no attention at all? He looks freakish.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||01/26/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 2||01/26/2019|
What a weird thing for an aging gay man to be into. I don't get it. Looking good and fit--sure. But that?
|by Anonymous||reply 3||01/26/2019|
Hubby was on Maher's show last night, dressed in a tight, form fitting tee. The other male panelist/guest/host were all dressed in shirts and ties.
Gay perpetual adolescence is so endearing, no?
|by Anonymous||reply 4||01/26/2019|
Yea, r4, I thought the same thing.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||01/26/2019|
r4, Dan promoted his new cause on Bill Maher with the T-Shirt.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||01/26/2019|
I don't care what he was promoting, R6. Savage and the Missus are always trying to look "hot" and end up looking like hot messes.
The nerdy looking guy from Bloomberg was infinitely hotter than Savage could ever hope to be and he wasn't every trying.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||01/26/2019|
r4 / r7 I prefer hot messes like Dan and Terry, who are out there being "messy" gay rights activists, over an anonymous coward.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||01/26/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 9||01/26/2019|
he is obviously sufferring from ptsd from a damaged childhood............probably bullied endlessly and is overcompensating today. He looks awful and I cant stand his husband either. They are both the embodiment of the downside of the gay community.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||01/26/2019|
Terry has mentioned in interviews that he was bullied as a kid.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||01/26/2019|
If Dan is some kind of counselor, why doesn't he counsel his husband to get some help for his body dysmorphia?
|by Anonymous||reply 12||01/26/2019|
At 50 it’s time to get over your childhood bullying. Not sure what the whole body OCD and drama dressing is about. Midlife crisis is supposed to end at some point with an acceptance of age and appreciation of other interests.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||01/26/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 14||01/26/2019|
What contest is she prepping for? Tired Old Queens of Wilton Manor?
|by Anonymous||reply 15||01/26/2019|
Gross vein ridden old bitch .
|by Anonymous||reply 16||01/26/2019|
Nasty. He really doesn't look clean, down there, or anywhere else. I'm betting he smells.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||01/26/2019|
he was hot about 10 years ago. now he just looks like another aging circuit queen
|by Anonymous||reply 18||01/27/2019|
whatever, his 24 year old bf likes it. I like Dan even if he is a bit messy at times, but I have a pretty strong dislike for his husband and his bf
|by Anonymous||reply 19||01/27/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 20||01/27/2019|
it's like he has decided that it's not enough for gay sex to be meaningfull and fun and fulfilling for him personally but an act of rebellion to heteronormative culture and sonething to be displayed publicly
|by Anonymous||reply 21||01/27/2019|
The pic at r20--wow. Desperately clinging to youth. Grisly.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||01/27/2019|
How can you tell R22 ? Its so filtered Im surprised their faces are still visible.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||01/27/2019|
Young, young, YOUNG!
|by Anonymous||reply 24||01/30/2019|
R8 would rather be a fag than afraid
|by Anonymous||reply 25||01/30/2019|
I hope their kid asks to have his identity changed. How fucking humiliating. You don't think he gets shit for these antics?
|by Anonymous||reply 26||01/30/2019|
Agree R3 Miller looks horrible.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||01/30/2019|
Has Dan Savage offered his opinion about Terry's new look in his column?
Savage did a bit where he described how much he hated Terry's new moustache, just wondering what he now thinks of this lumpy, leathery, vein-y mess.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||01/30/2019|
I would guess he is using HGH from his skin and possibly Clenbuterol to keep his body fat low.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||01/30/2019|
He needs to stop getting his HGH from TJ, because whatever he is buying isn't working. His skin looks tragic.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||01/30/2019|
ooohhhh!!! he has penises all over his clothes! how subversive and non-heteronormative! the queer hero we have been waiting for!
|by Anonymous||reply 31||01/30/2019|
R31 Finally! Someone who understands me!
|by Anonymous||reply 32||01/30/2019|
Kill it with fire
|by Anonymous||reply 33||01/30/2019|
Wonder what his 'roid withdrawals are going to be like. Yikes!
|by Anonymous||reply 34||01/30/2019|
Ghastly. I wouldn't fuck him with Dan's dick.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||01/30/2019|
He has gotten 2, 629 likes on Instagram with people leaving him comments about how hot he looks. When did really big veins become a "thing"?
|by Anonymous||reply 36||01/30/2019|
Now that I think about it, Dan Savage's opinion doesn't count. He still can't drive and relies on Terry to drive him everywhere, so it's not like he's going to leave Miller. Nope, Savage is stuck with hideous, hulking monster.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||01/30/2019|
Well at least he left something to the imagination.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||01/30/2019|
That is seriously disgusting. Gross.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||01/30/2019|
Why the fuck can't Dan drive? Also, in the day of Uber and Lyft and I'm sure Dan could afford to hire a driver for longer hauls if he wanted, why does he rely on Terry? Jesus they are both totally fucked up, but Dan comes off looking worse, frankly.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||01/30/2019|
^^Well, he has to give him something to do.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||01/30/2019|
R41 I thought that's what Terry's bf, Tom, was for
|by Anonymous||reply 42||01/30/2019|
Dan is a writer, I do not think he has any actual counseling certification.
His comments about intergenerational sex in The Stranger still squick me out.
They are both freaks. How long until Terry has a heart attack or stroke at this rate?
|by Anonymous||reply 43||01/30/2019|
It rhymes with “Bristol Death”.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||01/30/2019|
I fucking love Terry.
I want to do him and I hope I look that good when I reach his age.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||01/30/2019|
Was Terry "plainer" before and maybe the less 'famous" out of this couple and is experiencing "from duckling to swan" syndrome? I haven't seen that type of shredding that isn't a result of "interfering with nature" aside of doing exercise and not being a glutton.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||01/30/2019|
No one knows why Dan Savage still does not know how to drive.
Yes, Terry was plainer in the past.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||01/30/2019|
He was really cute when he did his "reveal" however many years ago. Dan got a ton of attention for having such a hot husband. He looked sort of...wholesome...with a lovely naturally worked out body. Total fucking opposite from the mess he is now.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||01/30/2019|
so... is Dan dating Tom, too?
|by Anonymous||reply 49||01/30/2019|
Is The Attic still open for business?
|by Anonymous||reply 50||01/30/2019|
[quote]Hubby was on Maher's show last night, dressed in a tight, form fitting tee. The other male panelist/guest/host were all dressed in shirts and ties. Gay perpetual adolescence is so endearing, no?
OMG that was not a tight form fitting tee, that's a normal size fit for anyone who buys for their size. The oversized tee died out decades ago you silly old queens. Pretentious gays living in an age bubble is endearing, no?
|by Anonymous||reply 51||01/30/2019|
He's on: Test. Probably trt doses. A dry compound: perhaps Mast, Tren if he's on cycle (trying to grow bigger), maybe Bold or Primo, but he looks "full" and sculpted (meaning his muscles are retaining glycogen stores) so I'm willing to bet Mast.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||01/30/2019|
Agree with R52. This pic suggests even more. And probably a diuretic. Even when he shouldn’t be taking it.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||01/30/2019|
I thought Mugler had been a sufficient morality lesson years ago.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||01/30/2019|
I still like Terry's nipples a lot.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||01/31/2019|
r51, I think the point was that all the other panelists and the host were dressed like grownups.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||01/31/2019|
I would imagine some type of PReP and other anti-virals from the looks of things.
|by Anonymous||reply 57||01/31/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 58||01/31/2019|
steroids dissolves all the skin fat to get that muscle definition. It looks awful when you go to extremes
|by Anonymous||reply 59||01/31/2019|
Does not what she's talking about ^
A DL specialty
|by Anonymous||reply 60||01/31/2019|
You are beautiful, keep it up Terry!
However, I am worried about the chemicals.
Go back to natural Terry.
Terry, you are a Sigma male therefore, you will go your own way.
But droids are not your friend. Peace to you both. Xoxo
|by Anonymous||reply 61||01/31/2019|
Terry is a classic Sigma male who unobtrusively dominates the relationship. Dan, believe it or not, is the submissive or 'beta' partner.
It works well for them. Best of luck to you guys.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||01/31/2019|
OP's photo reminds me: are they ever going to bring back that special beef jerky at Trader Joe's?
|by Anonymous||reply 63||01/31/2019|
r59 you don't know what you're talking about, dear.
|by Anonymous||reply 64||01/31/2019|
Def HGH look at his face - HGH gives you cromag forehead.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||01/31/2019|
R61 That would be, "peace to all three of you" Incredibly privileged and heteronormative of you to refer to them being in a two person relationship when they're obviously not
|by Anonymous||reply 66||01/31/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 67||01/31/2019|
He looks like really self-absorbed beef jerky!
|by Anonymous||reply 68||01/31/2019|
But you don't single out the so many heerosexual compeitive male bodybuilders over 45 who live their lives obsessed with their looks. They outnumber gay muscle men by far. R4
What is this need to pathologise gay men?
|by Anonymous||reply 69||01/31/2019|
R69 One could argue that he gets extra scrutiny as a cofounder of a nationwide campaign for LGBT youth. And for being married to a celebrity.
|by Anonymous||reply 70||01/31/2019|
And for dressing like a 20-year-old club kid from a small town.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||01/31/2019|
Nailed it R71, lol.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||01/31/2019|
There is nothing sexier than a guy completely covered in veins.
It’s great to see the body’s inner workings on the outside, like those anatomical models that have a top you can lift off and all the guts are showing. Leaving things to the imagination is for other people that are not as cool as me.
|by Anonymous||reply 73||01/31/2019|
R69 In a word: jealousy
|by Anonymous||reply 74||01/31/2019|
R74 Doubt it.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||02/02/2019|
T-shirts and singlets should not be worn beyond 40 for a man. Maybe at home and the yard, but otherwise, no.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||02/02/2019|
The arms look like veiny over circumcised penii.
|by Anonymous||reply 77||02/02/2019|
Heterosexual bodybuilder, but it is only gay men who are pathologised.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||02/02/2019|
[quote]T-shirts and singlets should not be worn beyond 40 for a man.
Are you 89 years old and obsessed with the antique fashion rules of you long dead mother r76?
|by Anonymous||reply 79||02/04/2019|
I seriously wonder if anyone, anywhere finds Mrs. Savage desireable or sexy? 10 years ago he was just barely do-able. Well, if it makes him happy I guess there’s no harm. Question for any DL docs- is there anything detrimental to his health from the diet and supplements required to look this way?
|by Anonymous||reply 80||02/04/2019|
Mrs. Dan goes for a walk in his Seattle neighborhood this weekend.
At this point he's basically a human Sasha Baron Cohen character.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||02/04/2019|
Dumb steroid soaked attention whore.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||02/07/2019|
I suppose he looks better than that Beefy Noodles dude who injects silicone into his monster balls. But not by much.
I doubt he has a clue how awful he looks to normal people. Whenever I see that I think: meth, steroids, HIV. Sorry, but that is the damn truth.
|by Anonymous||reply 83||02/07/2019|
[quote]I seriously wonder if anyone, anywhere finds Mrs. Savage desireable or sexy?
I do. To this day I just don't understand the DL hatred of him. He looks GREAT! Especially for his age!
I just chalk the hatred up to the caftan girls being annoyed and jealous because they can't purchase the latest earrings from HSN due to their limited monthly check.
|by Anonymous||reply 84||02/07/2019|
Terry is a naturally attractive man and if he were to forgo whatever pharmaceuticals are giving him those disgusting popped veins and scaly skin, he would still look great. In fact I think he once had the kind of classic corn-fed looks that would have kept him looking sexy well into his later years. But he's ruined all that, and if he keeps on his current path, he's going to look absolutely horrific by his early 50s.
His taste in clothes I can forgive, because he clearly enjoys outrageous couture, so why not?
|by Anonymous||reply 85||02/07/2019|
[quote]Terry is a naturally attractive man and if he were to forgo whatever pharmaceuticals are giving him those disgusting popped veins
Actually, that's achieved through water deprivation. Bodybuilders do that before a show or a picture shoot. You don't like the look. But, there are many others who do.
|by Anonymous||reply 86||02/07/2019|
Wait. He's not in his early 50's yet?
|by Anonymous||reply 87||02/07/2019|
[quote]By drinking a higher amount of water you trick your body into flushing more when you cut back, which results in your muscles looking tighter. The combined effects of carb-loading, salt avoidance, and water depletion will suck as much fluid into the muscle tissue as possible.
|by Anonymous||reply 88||02/07/2019|
He looks every day of 60.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||02/07/2019|
Aww... Terry's bf is making Instragram stories about how much they love each other
|by Anonymous||reply 90||02/10/2019|
Dan's writing God-awful opinion pieces in the NYT. Using this logic he should release dick pics of himself, Terry and Tom. Also how ridiculous to say that everyone should do it, except him cause he's not famous enough. Oh, and why not mention the Tumblr page? It seems relevant
|by Anonymous||reply 91||02/10/2019|
He's entering Madonna territory.
|by Anonymous||reply 92||02/10/2019|
Ageing is especially hard for people who have lived superficial lives.
|by Anonymous||reply 93||02/10/2019|
R93 that's what is weird. He has raised a child and started a widely acclaimed advocacy org. Then seemed to have some bdsm/queer liberation midlife crisis
|by Anonymous||reply 94||02/10/2019|
"Then seemed to have some bdsm/queer liberation midlife crisis."
|by Anonymous||reply 95||02/10/2019|
Dan's made it pretty clear he doesn't want a fat man, so he's probably the one pressuring Terry to roid himself up and get bigger as he started getting older and saggier. So he knows Dan is constantly looking at his waistline and he's the less successful one in the marriage, so he tried to break out of that by becoming this aged manwhore.
|by Anonymous||reply 96||02/10/2019|
So Dan is sizephobic? That's as violent as rape and racism. How does he still have a career and an intact reputation?
|by Anonymous||reply 97||02/10/2019|
The OPs picture look like something lying in a tray in a butcher-shop window.
|by Anonymous||reply 98||02/10/2019|
R98: Are you saying he needs to be stamped with an expiration date?
|by Anonymous||reply 99||02/10/2019|
[quote] You don't like the look. But, there are many others who do.
I love that look!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 100||02/10/2019|
Terry dresses like an extremely low-rent version of David Rose in "Schitt's Week" (except with more color).
|by Anonymous||reply 101||02/10/2019|
[quote] OMG that was not a tight form fitting tee, that's a normal size fit for anyone who buys for their size.
|by Anonymous||reply 102||02/10/2019|
R101 LMAO! spot on!
|by Anonymous||reply 103||02/10/2019|
What is the point of all the effort?
Does it make the man more alluring?
Does one masturbate into it? Or have a conversation?
|by Anonymous||reply 104||02/10/2019|
He makes me sad.
|by Anonymous||reply 105||02/10/2019|
Dan has talked about being overly casual. He lives in Seattle, a city known to be extremely casual. He's also never worked anywhere except the Seattle Weekly. It's probably a very casual work place. I know someone who worked at The Bay Guardian and people came to work in pajamas and wetsuits. He's like those straight guys who wear sports branded clothing everywhere or the women who wear yoga pants everywhere. We live in a world full of slobs. I wish it weren't so, but I don't think it's proof of arrested development.
|by Anonymous||reply 106||02/10/2019|
Dan, Terry and the twunk bf should start an OnlyFans page where they take turns fisting each other. It's what all the sex positive people are doing!
|by Anonymous||reply 107||02/10/2019|
Oh please r106. He started wearing tight t-shirts that showed off his biceps as soon as he and Terry hit their 40s and started working out and seeing results. Terry, of course, went the roids route to get even bigger, whereas I think Dan just likes having some muscle.
Dan's commented on his show MANY times about how he thinks if you're fat you should just go on a diet and lose weight because no one wants to date you otherwise.
|by Anonymous||reply 108||02/10/2019|
R107 is Dan involved with Tom? It looks like Terry is dating Tom but I don't think Dan is romantically involved with Tom
|by Anonymous||reply 109||02/10/2019|
Who said anything about romance?
|by Anonymous||reply 110||02/10/2019|
Terry is a dumb attention whore and Dan is just an asshole who thinks casual sex fixes everything.
|by Anonymous||reply 111||02/10/2019|
R110 ok. I'm not convinced all three have sex together. I think Tom and Terry's thing is seperate even though he lives with them
|by Anonymous||reply 112||02/10/2019|
So Dan likes to watch? I think it's one big dogpile
|by Anonymous||reply 113||02/10/2019|
Dan has a problem with fat people? He needs to get over it and make love to fat people.
|by Anonymous||reply 114||02/10/2019|
He finds them disgusting.
|by Anonymous||reply 115||02/10/2019|
I like guys to be fit, but that veiny, 0% body fat look is just gross.
|by Anonymous||reply 116||02/10/2019|
[quote]Dan has a problem with fat people? He needs to get over it and make love to fat people.
[quote]He finds them disgusting.
Ahhhh.... so THAT'S why he is so hated her on Datalounge.
|by Anonymous||reply 117||02/10/2019|
r117 have you gained weight?
|by Anonymous||reply 118||02/10/2019|
Dan doesn't just have a problem with fat people, he seems to have a problem with anyone who isn't what he finds attractive.
|by Anonymous||reply 119||02/10/2019|
Fatties are the WORST
I applaud Dan for having standards
|by Anonymous||reply 120||02/10/2019|
I hope you get sat on by a fat person, r120
|by Anonymous||reply 121||02/10/2019|
You're a fattie aren't you R121
I work out daily and every hour I say to myself "you can't eat that".....over and over and over.
You can do the same.
|by Anonymous||reply 122||02/10/2019|
Savage uses roids too, but still looks older than his supposed age of 54...
|by Anonymous||reply 123||02/10/2019|
I think he’s tremendous!
|by Anonymous||reply 124||02/11/2019|
Savage is much hotter than the other one, who looks like stale trade.
|by Anonymous||reply 125||02/11/2019|
Daddies don't cradle their mugs.
|by Anonymous||reply 126||02/11/2019|
This will be sad when senility hits.
|by Anonymous||reply 127||02/11/2019|
sad, he hot w/o the roid mess, he mus know they kill the liver and heart, theyr like speed, bummer to get off of, …. he mus be off the deep end. thought dan was more smart than to let terry go that way......is dan ok?
|by Anonymous||reply 128||02/11/2019|
R128 Can you imagine living with Terry? He seems ridiculously high maintenance. I'm sure Dan is happy that he stays busy posing naked and having a much much younger boyfriend to occupy his time and leave Dan alone to write
|by Anonymous||reply 129||02/11/2019|
Mmmmm my pussy is dripping
|by Anonymous||reply 130||02/11/2019|
R127 Who cares about senility when you've got great tits?
|by Anonymous||reply 131||02/11/2019|
I've always found Dan Savage to be a smug jerk. Also, I can't stand his lisp. If you're going to be in public speaking, go to a fucking speech therapist and correct your speech impediment! Those who feel already "too special" to need to fix anything are always monsters. See: Barbara Walters and Rudy Giuliani for example.
|by Anonymous||reply 132||02/11/2019|
Does Dan still do drag? Or did he just use that as a gimmick early in his career then drop it and become butch when he no longer needed its shock value.
|by Anonymous||reply 133||02/12/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 134||02/19/2019|
I'm sorry, but this is pretty desperate behavior.
|by Anonymous||reply 135||02/19/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 136||02/19/2019|
He has over done the muscle building obviously but you bitches would still do him and you know it.
|by Anonymous||reply 137||02/19/2019|
Leather daddy or leather MARY!?
|by Anonymous||reply 138||02/19/2019|
Nice bod, but the Narcissistic Personality Disorder ruins the look for me.
|by Anonymous||reply 139||02/20/2019|
I think it's time he lets us all see his porn work in the purportedly destroyed Boat Daddy.
|by Anonymous||reply 140||02/20/2019|
R129 My ex-husband frequently embarrassed me too. But what can I do? I don't own him.
|by Anonymous||reply 141||02/20/2019|
lucky fukker, gets to suk on that hot cunt of his blonde tom Finlandia lover.
|by Anonymous||reply 142||02/20/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 143||02/20/2019|
Grandpa's piles are itching.
I am SERIOUS, y'all!
|by Anonymous||reply 144||02/20/2019|
ide trade my poodle to suk on the voluptuous tittys and floppy asshole of miss terry....YOWZA
|by Anonymous||reply 145||02/21/2019|
He’s so embarrassing. I guess Dan was secretly hoping Terry would be dead by now. You just know Terry’s not the type to go away easily....maybe Dan could slip some antifreeze in Terry’s protein shakes.
|by Anonymous||reply 146||02/21/2019|
So much jealousy here on this thread. Why don't many of you get a life, (YOUR OWN LIFE) rather than criticizing someone else's and the choices/decisions that they have made for themselves. He's LIVING his life and dreams while many of you waste yours clacking on a keyboard and eating bon-bons.
|by Anonymous||reply 147||02/21/2019|
Terry, call me back bb, I need to eat the inner lining of ur anus really bad, for its soft and famous, k?
|by Anonymous||reply 148||02/21/2019|
60 will be rough for Terry.
|by Anonymous||reply 149||02/21/2019|
When mutton poses as lamb, mutton would do well not to pose next to lamb.
|by Anonymous||reply 150||02/21/2019|
in above pic, is that terry's adopted son?
|by Anonymous||reply 151||02/22/2019|
No it isn't
|by Anonymous||reply 152||02/22/2019|
R150, I want to slap the gay out of that tongue.
|by Anonymous||reply 153||02/22/2019|
I actually think Terry looks really hot - although he could do with a couple of % higher bodyfat to lose that 'extreme' ripped look, it would actually make him look better. And his nipples ARE sensational (nice dick too).
However he just comes across as such a desperate attention whore and that is really NOT hot. I would love to know what his son thinks of his dad flashing his tits 'n' ass all over instagram.
I do really like Dan Savage - listened to his podcast for years now and I almost always agree with what he says. However I do find it annoying that he never seems to acknowledge his 'thruple' relationship, even when it's pertinent to the calls on SavageLove. I feel like perhaps he's not into it as much as Terry is.
|by Anonymous||reply 154||02/22/2019|
R154 I don't think they are a throuple. Terry and Tom have both acknowledged that Tom is his BF. But never include Dan in that. Terry and Dan have a monogamish marriage plus Terry has a live in BF. I also find Dan's refusal to talk about it irratating. Especially because he always tells others to "come out" as poly.
|by Anonymous||reply 155||02/23/2019|
His teats are just as real as Christina Hendricks dammit.
|by Anonymous||reply 156||02/23/2019|
Him and danny boy are the most awesome couple in Gaytown….
|by Anonymous||reply 157||02/24/2019|
Elegance has a name!
|by Anonymous||reply 158||02/24/2019|
Now he thinks he's Christ?
|by Anonymous||reply 159||02/24/2019|
the best guess I can come up with is that he is using play-dough to get the look he has acquired.
|by Anonymous||reply 160||02/24/2019|
He drinks 6 raw eggs and half a pint of bull semen each morning. He also injects himself with HGH before bed each night.
|by Anonymous||reply 161||02/24/2019|
He eats rainbows and unicorns.
|by Anonymous||reply 162||02/24/2019|
Wonder if his adopted son will comment on Insta at R158.
What happens in the next stage of a midlife crisis of such proportions?
Are they actually legally married? Sometimes people say they are when they are not. So T stays for the attention of being the Mrs. and Dan keeps him around cuz he is cheap? Does Tomboy pay rent in cash or just with his body?
|by Anonymous||reply 163||02/24/2019|
I'm sure Tomboy just pays rent with his ass.
|by Anonymous||reply 164||02/24/2019|
Dan Savage is snotty, judgemental and a bully. In the documentary-Do I Sound Gay?- he said that any gay male that's not attracted to effeminate gay males is misogynistic.
|by Anonymous||reply 165||02/24/2019|
Every leather daddy needs a tasteful tote/murse!
|by Anonymous||reply 166||02/25/2019|
It looks like Dan's tanktop at OP was designed by Vonda and Shonda from "Super Showcase" on SNL
|by Anonymous||reply 167||02/25/2019|
I like me a muscular man, but the "ripped beef jerkey" look is a bit...much.
|by Anonymous||reply 168||02/25/2019|
Terry must be a gaping sinkhole of attention seeking neediness, I wouldn't be surprised if Dan hooked him up with that equally narcissistic twunk just to get away Terry away from him.
|by Anonymous||reply 169||02/25/2019|
Terry's teeth are nasty looking. He seriously needs braces.
|by Anonymous||reply 170||02/26/2019|
He has mule teeth.
|by Anonymous||reply 171||02/26/2019|
The typical DL'er. Especially posting on this thread...
|by Anonymous||reply 172||02/26/2019|
Ol' Jerky Nips is back ...
|by Anonymous||reply 173||02/26/2019|
watch out boys. Terry and his BF are in Palm Springs and posting thirst trap photos on Insta
|by Anonymous||reply 174||03/01/2019|
I want to lick every inch of Terry's body.
|by Anonymous||reply 175||03/01/2019|
Too many veins.
|by Anonymous||reply 176||03/01/2019|
When I think "leather daddy," I think "Bea Arthur goes to International Male"
|by Anonymous||reply 177||03/01/2019|
I'm afraid it's quite obvious that, to resort to a DLism, a lot of posters on this thread type fat.
Whatever Terry's neediness, in a world where far too many people let themselves go to seed after 50 or even 40, his work (and it's hard, hard work) to stay in shape is to be applauded. He and Dan look good in t-shirts? Great. I'm sure they enjoy a lot more hot sex than those bagging them.
|by Anonymous||reply 178||03/01/2019|
I doubt Terry enjoys anything R178 I imagine the constant desperate attempts to cling to his fading youth and beauty are pretty much all consuming now.
|by Anonymous||reply 179||03/01/2019|
"Whatever Terry's neediness, in a world where far too many people let themselves go to seed after 50 or even 40, his work (and it's hard, hard work) to stay in shape is to be applauded."
It's not like he's got anything else to do with his time. He doesn't have a fucking job (other than being a paid shill for shit on Instagram), hubby makes good money, baby boy has fled the coop and how many times can you redecorate the house before it gets boring. He's like some wealthy suburban haus frau: nothing but time on his hands.
|by Anonymous||reply 180||03/02/2019|
R180 I heard Dan on an interview recently saying their son still lives with them. I think Terry's Bf lives there too
|by Anonymous||reply 181||03/02/2019|
The things their poor son must see and hear living in that house.
|by Anonymous||reply 182||03/02/2019|
Hysterical frau ^
|by Anonymous||reply 183||03/02/2019|
Dumb Fuck ^
|by Anonymous||reply 184||03/02/2019|
Dora Dumbfuck ^
|by Anonymous||reply 185||03/02/2019|
He's spending the weekend with pornstars at a porn event
|by Anonymous||reply 186||03/02/2019|
It's a sobering moment when one's trainer goes to seed. But life moves on!
|by Anonymous||reply 187||03/03/2019|
trentons hot as fuk, u nuts?
|by Anonymous||reply 188||03/03/2019|
I would suk Millers asshole and tits off any damn day.
|by Anonymous||reply 189||03/03/2019|
Terry hanging out with a human garbage bag like Trenton Ducati is yet more proof he's a dumb slut.
|by Anonymous||reply 190||03/03/2019|
Dora Dumbfuck ^
|by Anonymous||reply 191||03/03/2019|
jus by looks, ducati is hawt as fuk
most of the beautys are horrid inside, yes
|by Anonymous||reply 192||03/03/2019|
R191 Don't troll because you're obviously no good at it. Depending on who you ask and believe Trenton may be an actual monster.
|by Anonymous||reply 193||03/03/2019|
I've never understood the hate for Dan Savage. Reminds me of our current climate of the extreme left hating the left (instead of focusing on all the fuckfaces on the right).
|by Anonymous||reply 194||03/03/2019|
dan and his hubby miller are divine fun guys.
jealousy is a hideous animal.
|by Anonymous||reply 195||03/03/2019|
This is 500x more attractive than his usual You're So Vain, You're So Veiny look.
|by Anonymous||reply 196||03/05/2019|
Oh hey look, he can wear clothes.
|by Anonymous||reply 197||03/05/2019|
How do we tell ms Miller to stay off social media? No one wants to see that. I’m guessing the followers are there to ridicule. Maybe suicide is an option🤞
|by Anonymous||reply 198||03/05/2019|
jealous ones: he is where he is cause so many men want to eat him....
|by Anonymous||reply 199||03/06/2019|
I thought Terry was super hot when he first started his midlife crisis, but now he looks gross.
|by Anonymous||reply 200||03/06/2019|
love is love, i guess
|by Anonymous||reply 201||03/08/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 202||03/08/2019|
There's nothing more cringy than a parent having a public midlife crisis
|by Anonymous||reply 203||03/08/2019|
dam, ide eat his tits and asshole till the clouds cum rollin by
they say he hella fun in public toilets, buck nekkid, takes all mouths and cocks
|by Anonymous||reply 204||03/08/2019|
Or Anonymous In Kansas City has returned
|by Anonymous||reply 205||03/08/2019|
I could care less bout his hemmy roids, his body is hot and ide feast on it all nite.
mind ur own business jealous haters....u look bittter
|by Anonymous||reply 206||03/08/2019|
R206 I support Terry, and the hate against him, from bitter unfuckable old queens, is hilarious and tragic. But it doesn’t blind me to the fact that Terry frequently looks ridiculous and cringy.
AIKC...so glad your back, spreading your butt corn craziness around DL. It’s obvious that you have gone off your meds...don’t kill any of your patients
|by Anonymous||reply 207||03/08/2019|
[quote]watch out boys. Terry and his BF are in Palm Springs and posting thirst trap photos on Insta
Isn't Terry afraid he'll be confused with Tom Bianchi if he goes there....because he IS going there....soon.
|by Anonymous||reply 208||03/09/2019|
hanging with all the porn boys in palm springs
|by Anonymous||reply 209||03/09/2019|
^ He looks great!
|by Anonymous||reply 210||03/09/2019|
We all know where this is headed, He's gonna do porn.
|by Anonymous||reply 211||03/09/2019|
his tits and ass still command top dollar. awesome to fuk
|by Anonymous||reply 212||03/10/2019|
If he's hanging out with Trenton Ducati it will be bareback porn probably with some message about how if you don't bareback with poz guys you're a terrible person.
|by Anonymous||reply 213||03/10/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 214||03/10/2019|
where how do I hire terry?
|by Anonymous||reply 215||03/10/2019|
Would be an honor to rim ur dirt ass out sir....I do anything u demand.
|by Anonymous||reply 216||03/10/2019|
Someone’s been skipping leg day.
|by Anonymous||reply 217||03/10/2019|
Even with those muscles she still looks nellier than a fruitcake.
|by Anonymous||reply 218||03/10/2019|
A completely candid shot — I wonder if Terry even knew there was a camera in the room.
|by Anonymous||reply 219||03/10/2019|
Those chicken legs are just bizarre. Yuck.
|by Anonymous||reply 220||03/10/2019|
Gross, has he starting inflating his nuts like those creepy bear guys that were big news a few months ago?
|by Anonymous||reply 221||03/10/2019|
His giant nipples make my pussy excitation yesss mommy
|by Anonymous||reply 222||03/11/2019|
more titty and hole pix plz sir, more.
|by Anonymous||reply 223||03/11/2019|
I must admit, he is a bit handsome, and bold for being so out there sexually and hot.
|by Anonymous||reply 224||03/11/2019|
His face is changing from the steroids, you can see it.
|by Anonymous||reply 225||03/11/2019|
Love the tits, im all about that, bigger nips the better.
|by Anonymous||reply 226||03/11/2019|
New to this individual. What does he do for a living? Does he had a regular job to go to?
I’m worried that this young man won’t have earned all his social security quarters at retirement.
|by Anonymous||reply 227||03/11/2019|
he can retire, he is very well off from his....clients.
|by Anonymous||reply 228||03/11/2019|
That isn’t just hgh . Lots of normal people use hgh and don’t look like freaks . He’s clearly using anabolic steroids and testosterone . hgh probably too , but that’s not why he looks like that . In massive doses hgh gives the cro magnon look but that’s not what he’s got going on . He’s aging and destroying his body and it’s sad .
|by Anonymous||reply 229||03/11/2019|
why is his skin business booming then?
|by Anonymous||reply 230||03/11/2019|
lol @ r227
(But in case you’re serenely unaware, “young” Terry is 48.)
|by Anonymous||reply 231||03/11/2019|
He has good muscle tone for his age. But it just proves that sexual attraction is based on many elements.
Terry's self-awareness is a bit of a buzz kill.
|by Anonymous||reply 232||03/11/2019|
Terry in 2011:
|by Anonymous||reply 233||03/11/2019|
I'll give him this, his kept boy is a hot piece of ass.
|by Anonymous||reply 234||03/11/2019|
Terry went to the symphony in this.
Does Tom of Finland have a spring Bea Arthur collection now?
|by Anonymous||reply 235||04/06/2019|
He's just a few years away from entering his Advanced Style phase.
|by Anonymous||reply 236||04/06/2019|
He looks like beef jerky left out in the sun.
|by Anonymous||reply 237||04/06/2019|
Terry in five years?
|by Anonymous||reply 238||04/06/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 239||04/06/2019|
I guess it is an addiction to, in addition to the steroids, etc, an addiction to attention and some sort of inner need to know that people are noticing and commenting on him. Well, Marion, if that is the kind of attention you wanted, you sure got some..
|by Anonymous||reply 240||04/06/2019|
So arrogant and vain and so deluded.
|by Anonymous||reply 241||04/06/2019|
It’s sad to see someone who can’t handle aging.
|by Anonymous||reply 242||04/07/2019|
TrimSpa - definitely TrimSpa.
|by Anonymous||reply 243||04/07/2019|
[quote]It’s sad to see someone who can’t handle aging.
I think it is even sadder to see how so many give up after a certain age, and yet, criticize those who want to live their life and be the best that they can be at any age.
|by Anonymous||reply 244||04/07/2019|
Without the support of his husband, would Terry have become a webcam sex worker?
|by Anonymous||reply 245||04/07/2019|
Nothing says "leather daddy" like a Tom of Finland murse
|by Anonymous||reply 246||04/07/2019|
R244 There are men who age well without looking like a funhouse mirror
|by Anonymous||reply 247||04/07/2019|
[quote][R244] There are men who age well without looking like a funhouse mirror
You see? The operative word is FUN. A plant ages well.
|by Anonymous||reply 248||04/07/2019|
For people here over 40 and hating, may I ask why you don't work out?
|by Anonymous||reply 249||04/07/2019|
R249 - I’m over 40 and work out. I just don’t take all the supplements, testosterone, HGH. There’s a difference in being fit and healthy and then looking like this bulging, veiny nitwit crying for attention.
|by Anonymous||reply 250||04/07/2019|
Do you think he's dying his body hair yet?
|by Anonymous||reply 251||04/07/2019|
I bet he smokes a lot of pot.
|by Anonymous||reply 252||04/07/2019|
He's got a great bod. But it's pics like this that make you want to punch him in the face.
|by Anonymous||reply 253||04/07/2019|
That's actually pretty mild for him, R253.
Not getting the logic of anyone being critical of his narcissism must come from someone who "doesn't work out".
|by Anonymous||reply 254||04/07/2019|
Why, R253? What is it about that image that you don't like?
|by Anonymous||reply 255||04/07/2019|
"For people here over 40 and hating, may I ask why you don't work out?"
What Mrs. Savage does has nothing to do with health, R249. Like so many other roided out idiots out there, there's a very real and distinct possibly the roid usage, yoyo dieting, and deliberate liquid deprivation may be causing him irreparable harm, maybe even leading to premature death.
Just because someone "looks good" in your eyes and being an extremely photogenic Instaho, R249, doesn't automatically make them hale healthy. Bitches be droppin' like flies.
|by Anonymous||reply 256||04/07/2019|
It's because he looks stunted. Peter Pan-ish.
You would think at his age, having raised a child, that his pursuits in life would be a bit more elevated.
|by Anonymous||reply 257||04/07/2019|
[quote]You would think at his age, having raised a child, that his pursuits in life would be a bit more elevated.
Maybe, it gas always been a dream of his to be a fashion model? I mean... President Daddy Bush was skydiving well into his 80's and 90's. There are a lot of seniors who are taking ballet classes and performing. Older men have had dreams of becoming porn stars--and are doing that. On and on....
They're actively living their lives. What should they be doing? Only going to libraries and museums?
|by Anonymous||reply 258||04/07/2019|
"gas" s/b "has"
|by Anonymous||reply 259||04/07/2019|
R258 - I hear ya. Terry's living out loud. But he's painted himself into a corner by making sexual attractiveness his defining quality.
If only he did try skydiving or ballet. That would at least give him a skill-based talent.
|by Anonymous||reply 260||04/07/2019|
I wish he would skydive without a parachute.
|by Anonymous||reply 261||04/07/2019|
Is this him?
|by Anonymous||reply 262||04/14/2019|
R235: Do NOT sully the good name of Bea Arthur with Mrs. Savage and her TERRIBLE fashion choices. I won't have IT!
|by Anonymous||reply 263||04/14/2019|
Terry is our Jackie O.
|by Anonymous||reply 264||04/15/2019|
She's so EDGY!
|by Anonymous||reply 265||04/20/2019|
Terry must be so exhausting to be around.
|by Anonymous||reply 266||04/20/2019|
He could be Andy Cohen's hot mess brother. Or maybe alter ego. Have they ever been seen at the same time?
|by Anonymous||reply 267||04/20/2019|
R266 probably why Dan likes that he has a boyfriend. Lwt someone else deal with his ego
|by Anonymous||reply 268||04/20/2019|
R268: I've always said Tom's a husband sitter so Dan can get shit done.
|by Anonymous||reply 269||04/20/2019|
Terry's tailleur in R265 would fabulous on a 30 something.
|by Anonymous||reply 270||04/20/2019|
R269 LOL That is probably pretty accurate.
|by Anonymous||reply 271||04/20/2019|
Have not been following Savage's exploits. From what I'm reading on this thread it appears he and his husband have taken on a younger guy to be a "thruple"?
As for the husband, that's likely HGH and/or a really strict diet. It's an "I lift weights" body not an "I am an athlete" body, which you do see, naturally, on plenty of guys his age.
The difference is that 90% of those guys are not on IG. Or not showing off on IG, anyway. They may have accounts the way everyone else does, to take photos of pretty sunsets or their kids, wives and dogs and all that.
It takes a high level of narcissism to be that old and doing that shit. It's like the 23 year olds, they think they're going to get discovered and become big time models or actors so you can forgive them.
But this dude knows better.
|by Anonymous||reply 272||04/20/2019|
But he was "discovered" by gays, and has become a gay "circuit" celebrity, for a certain crowd, and gets plenty of endorsement offers, so I guess his mid life narcissism flip-out has worked.
|by Anonymous||reply 273||04/20/2019|
R272 Dan's relationship to the 20 something boytoy seems unclear. He apparently lives with them but doesn't really ever mention Dan on social media, but Terry and Tom are always expressing their love for each other online. I think it's not a throuple, but Dan's husband got himself a boyfriend. He refers to Tom as his boyfriend but Dan never does.
|by Anonymous||reply 274||04/20/2019|
Terry and Tom have been boyfriends for a couple years now. Even have matching tattoos. Funnily enough, Dan feels like the third wheel now.
|by Anonymous||reply 275||04/20/2019|
Dan beefed up a lot and seems to take an interest in staying fuckable. So who has HE been fucking the last years while Terry fucks Tom?
|by Anonymous||reply 276||04/20/2019|
R276 rando pornstars and gogo boys that recognize him as a gay celebrity? or Jake Shears?
|by Anonymous||reply 277||04/20/2019|
[quote]But this dude knows better.
Changing times, R272. We older guys are not going out the way that many of our fathers did. We want to live life to its fullest to the very last second. That would include remaining fit and having sex. There are at least a few threads on her about buff seniors, etc. Are some going overboard? Maybe.
|by Anonymous||reply 278||04/20/2019|
Kill it with fire
|by Anonymous||reply 279||04/20/2019|
Their poor kid. When is it going to come out as trans?
|by Anonymous||reply 280||04/20/2019|
I think it's weird that Dan's entire brand is confessional personal stories. About his Marriage and his family. About being monogamous. And then about not. And about being monogamish. Urging poly people to talk about multiple partners to lessen the stigma. And railing about monogamy being a harmful expectation. But he has been completely silent about his personal life in the last two years. He doesn't mention his husband has a boyfriend. Or that they are a throuple, or not. He doesn't talk about how they let their son know that Daddy's new boyfriend was moving in with them. It's just super weird. Why be quiet now?
|by Anonymous||reply 281||04/20/2019|
Your own lack of respect for the son. It? Really? And what would make him trans? Just dumb on your part.
|by Anonymous||reply 282||04/20/2019|
The kid coming out as trans is the only way it can get more attention than his slut parents, idiot.
|by Anonymous||reply 283||04/20/2019|
Obviously the son wants no attention because we know nothing about him and he has no public profile.
|by Anonymous||reply 284||04/20/2019|
R283 Have you seen what his dad wears in public and online? I think there's probably a reason he has never been photographed with them in public as an adult. Pretty sure it's comfortable staying away from the attention. He is in his early 20s in living at home with all of them. But he's never in any Instagram photos etc
|by Anonymous||reply 285||04/20/2019|
After all the attention and fanfare, Dan and Terry are exposed as two basic narcissists who adopted an innocent kid and pulled him into their failed social experiment. I actually feel for the kid. But at this point, it's more than likely the kid grew up to be a budding narcissist himself. What a fucked up household.
|by Anonymous||reply 286||04/20/2019|
Is it true that bodybuilders eat sugary things before a competition because sugar makes their veins pop out more?
|by Anonymous||reply 287||04/20/2019|
R286 They (especially Terry) have become laughable in their middle ages, with the sudden muscle gain and the Narcissistic ego trip and exhibitionism. Also, Terry's thin skin and self importance is funny. but they seem like they were good dads in their kid's formative years
|by Anonymous||reply 288||04/20/2019|
"...they seem like they were good dads in their kid's formative years"
Okay. I'll give them the benefit of the doubt there.
|by Anonymous||reply 289||04/20/2019|
[quote][R286] They (especially Terry) have become laughable in their middle ages
Laughable? Terry still gets paid bookings. It even looks as if they are increasing. Dan is still booked pretty much everywhere. They're constant conversation here on DL. If anyone is laughing I'd say that they were. They're laughing all the way to the bank.
|by Anonymous||reply 290||04/20/2019|
R290 That's "Sure, Jan" worthy
|by Anonymous||reply 291||04/20/2019|
That's what makes it especially sad. With all that success, they both seem sad and desperate.
|by Anonymous||reply 292||04/20/2019|
I find Dan Savage to be snotty and judgemental anyway. He has said that gay males that are NOT attracted to effeminate gay males are MISOGYNISTIC.
|by Anonymous||reply 293||04/20/2019|
R196 : This is how you dress for an office if you have skills to pay the bills and aren't geriatric.
|by Anonymous||reply 294||04/20/2019|
The constant need for validation is exhausting. And sad.
|by Anonymous||reply 295||04/20/2019|
I feel like Dan has lost a lot of his magic. He was legit a superstar in the gay world. But his reactions and work over the last several years have been off. He is no longer shocking and his insight into gay life seems less on point than it used to be.
|by Anonymous||reply 296||04/20/2019|
[quote]The constant need for validation is exhausting. And sad.
Alas,,, everyone wants to feel loved and be desired...
|by Anonymous||reply 297||04/20/2019|
R297 I guess some of us just try to find that closer to home than a public instagram thirst campaign
|by Anonymous||reply 298||04/20/2019|
Dan Savage's own narcissism is displayed by his insistence on a career in public speaking without ever bothering to go to a speech pathologist to fix his lisp/speech impediment! It's really hard for me to listen to him.
Barbara Walters and Rudy Giuliani are two other monsters with noticeable speech impediments who must feel too brilliant and special to work at getting rid of their AWFUL vocal production!
|by Anonymous||reply 299||04/20/2019|
I wesent your wepulsive wefewence to my disabiwity, w299! What a wetched wevolting wesponse!
|by Anonymous||reply 300||04/22/2019|
Child Protective Services will hopefully take the son away. No child should be subjected to that narcissism and neglect. I always thought when you had a kid that they became the center of your world. I didn’t realize they were “parents” but that’s truly disturbing, and I’m a gay man with a general disdain for little kids.
|by Anonymous||reply 301||04/22/2019|
Their son is in his 20s
|by Anonymous||reply 302||04/22/2019|
Oh I didn’t know the son was that old. I wonder if he’s embarrassed by Dan and Terry.
|by Anonymous||reply 303||04/22/2019|
when their son was young Terry looked completely different, he wasn't working out all the time and they were in a monogamous relationship. Terry didn't want to be photographed or talked about a lot by Dan. As soon as their son became a teenager Terry went through some kind of midlife crisis and start living like a 20-year-old. He started working out nonstop. They became open sexually. They started getting into BDSM. Terry started posting photos of him in their attic with porn stars on to Tumblr. And he started modeling and becoming an Instagram ho. Then they started dating 20 year olds
|by Anonymous||reply 304||04/22/2019|
Gross, he's gone way past looking good into freakish. Classic body dismorphia. Husband needs to sit him down and have an intervention.
|by Anonymous||reply 305||04/22/2019|
R304 they were never in a monogous relationship, and Dan's always been kind of domineering, so maybe it's Terry coming into his own. Dan was in his early 30s and Terry only 23 when they met and instantly became a couple. Dan writes in his book(s) of telling him early on that he planned to adopt a baby in a year or two so Terry better get on board or get out, and how he pressured Terry to make their relationship open early on -- even though it made Terry sad.
Dan also wrote about how his friends disrespected Terry and gossiped about him being a golddigger. Gorgeous Terry, finally fed up, said, "Dan. If I were a golddigger, you'd need a lot more gold."
|by Anonymous||reply 306||04/23/2019|
R306, coming into his own? It's a classic midlife crisis. Terry was, for all intents and purposes, a housewife and stay at home dad. The kid grew up and Terry turned into an instaho with body issues and a boytoy his kid's age.
I have a friend who has a stepmother younger than us (her dad manufactures airplane parts so $$$$$ and this is wife #4). It's awkward as fuck between them. DJ must be so happy his dad is shacked up with someone his age.
|by Anonymous||reply 307||04/23/2019|
R306 maybe he is lying, but Dan said they were monogamous the first 10 or so years. then just a handfull of threesomes. then monogamish. then full on open. and now poly
|by Anonymous||reply 308||04/23/2019|
Terry was such an iconic 90s boy, PNW style. Gorgeous beautiful guy. Still super young looking in his early 40s. Maybe at that point he decided muscled & polished would ultimately age better than his lifelong granola look? Cute guy nonetheless
|by Anonymous||reply 309||04/23/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 310||04/23/2019|
R309 i thought he was super hot until about 5 years ago
|by Anonymous||reply 311||04/23/2019|
Gotta scroll down, but drop dead adorable pre-muscle little-seen Terry pic here. He's always been absolutely stunning.
|by Anonymous||reply 312||04/23/2019|
R312 very hot there!
|by Anonymous||reply 313||04/23/2019|
uh oh. did something happen? Terry's boy just put his instagram on private
|by Anonymous||reply 314||04/27/2019|
Maybe Terry replaced him with a younger dumber model.
|by Anonymous||reply 315||04/27/2019|
Well, Terry IS a model, r272.
|by Anonymous||reply 316||04/27/2019|
Wow! He really ruined himself with the steroids! He was passable as cute before, now he’s a monster. Maybe he’ll die soon.....that heart could give out on a strenuous work out or steroid binge.
|by Anonymous||reply 317||04/28/2019|
R285: Go back 2 years on Instagram and one does slip through. He still lives at home, the only requirement according to Dan is that DJ HAS to vote while he lives with his parents still.
|by Anonymous||reply 318||04/28/2019|
I’d do the son any day!! But the dads are just gross now.
|by Anonymous||reply 319||04/28/2019|
Dan writing another pro-poly piece where he tells people to "come out" as poly. But he's not doing it himself. Not talking about his husbands long term partner
|by Anonymous||reply 320||05/09/2019|
R320 - He's trying so hard to stay relevant. Do most Millennials see Savage as a dinosaur now?
|by Anonymous||reply 321||05/09/2019|
Dan is 54. He would stay relevant to young people (not Millennials - who are not young) by being their college professor (and good at it) or by having a big fat dick and being a daddy to fuck them.
|by Anonymous||reply 322||05/09/2019|
Terry is beautiful, I wish he lived in my neighborhood.
Seriously, the man puts in the work to look like a damn God and does it with humor and spirit.
I remember Dan and Terry from the Center meetings and they look better as they age.
|by Anonymous||reply 323||05/09/2019|
R323 Center meetings?
|by Anonymous||reply 324||05/09/2019|
center of The Attic?
|by Anonymous||reply 325||05/09/2019|
Dan is starting to approach his creepy husband's level of tediousness.
|by Anonymous||reply 326||05/09/2019|
I don't have a problem with his age, however his style in exhibitionism may be a litttle distateful... If he worked on it he could make more easy on the eye.
|by Anonymous||reply 327||05/15/2019|
Headed to the opera with a T friend
|by Anonymous||reply 328||05/15/2019|
If that couple walked into the Grand Tier I would never go back to the MET. It would be the last straw, destroying any lingering class to the whole fragile affair.
|by Anonymous||reply 329||05/15/2019|
When you see bodybuilders showing off or drawing attention towards their crotches they make it in a way that makes them look empowered; they lead and we drool over their masculine figure. This man does the opposite, he looks a little desperate for attention; he gives away too much and puts his crotch anywhere he is. He loses power that way.
|by Anonymous||reply 330||05/15/2019|
good news, boys. he will be at IML next weekend! If you want to hook up with the most uninterested throuple ever then you know where to be.
|by Anonymous||reply 331||05/16/2019|
At least we don't have to weep for the future... this guy is more representative of the past....
|by Anonymous||reply 332||05/18/2019|
Well, that's not leather but.... He's got balls rocking that!
|by Anonymous||reply 333||05/18/2019|
he is on brand this weekend
|by Anonymous||reply 334||05/24/2019|
Humorless Dan and the walking piece of aged out beef jerky he shares his 401k with. Tragic cautionary tale.
|by Anonymous||reply 335||05/24/2019|
I recognize that tattoo
|by Anonymous||reply 336||05/24/2019|
At this point, I recognize that flaccid cock
|by Anonymous||reply 337||05/24/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 338||05/24/2019|
That Kyle Brandon dude is twisted as fuck so on top of being a pretentious asshole Terry is into some weird shit!
|by Anonymous||reply 339||05/25/2019|
Terry's version of leather always takes place in a setting as sterile as a hospital theater.
I imagine if one of his "bois" got a spot of cum on his leathers he'd freak out.
|by Anonymous||reply 340||05/25/2019|
Looks like he's having fun at IML
|by Anonymous||reply 341||05/26/2019|
Part 2 of the video
|by Anonymous||reply 342||05/26/2019|
Let's be the milking session.
I am the Ibiza Del Mar lounge mix.
|by Anonymous||reply 343||05/26/2019|
I don't care how sex-positive they raised their son to be knowing there's a video online of his dad being tied up and machine milked (and who knows what else) by an S&M psycho must be humiliating for him.
|by Anonymous||reply 344||05/26/2019|
Aaaand this is why I always refer to that shop as “Mrs. Leather.”
|by Anonymous||reply 345||05/26/2019|
How long till the Onlyfans/JustForFans cameos or even her own personal porn fan site endorsed by her husband?
|by Anonymous||reply 346||05/26/2019|
I noticed Dan isn't at IML. In the past Dan wrote about them always going together and it being a big part of Dan's sense of community. Or something like that.
|by Anonymous||reply 347||05/26/2019|
Hanging with pornstars
|by Anonymous||reply 348||05/26/2019|
Porn slag describes both of those plastic trash bags now R348
|by Anonymous||reply 349||05/26/2019|
R348 - Which one is the porn star?
|by Anonymous||reply 350||05/26/2019|
The milking machine seems 1 malfunction too close to castration.
|by Anonymous||reply 351||05/26/2019|
That may be another kink for that freakshow Kyle Brandon R351 I just hope someone let Terry know...not really.
|by Anonymous||reply 352||05/27/2019|
R350 After seeing the milking video, I'd say they both are.
|by Anonymous||reply 353||05/27/2019|
Previously unreleased security footage of Mrs. Dan at IML.
|by Anonymous||reply 354||05/27/2019|
Is that actually Terry hooked up to the milking machine?
|by Anonymous||reply 355||05/27/2019|
R355 Yes. His tattoos are visible. Also he liked the tweets from his personal Twitter account
|by Anonymous||reply 356||05/27/2019|
I'm no prude, but this is a bit unseemly.
|by Anonymous||reply 357||05/27/2019|
Terry seems to be the poster boy for unseemly these days R357.
|by Anonymous||reply 358||05/28/2019|
What's he gonna post next? A proctology exam?
|by Anonymous||reply 359||05/28/2019|
I have read DL for years (it started with a Kay Lenz thread) This Dan Savage Terry Miller saga has put me over the edge. My gay brothers, why do feel the need…they love each other, have a son, are open books, loud and proud. Look at your cattiness, trumps rednecks aren't killing America, it's your privileged judgementalness that has killed America, gay pron, done with DL
|by Anonymous||reply 360||05/29/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 361||05/29/2019|
I am simply concerned for his fat dick in a cow milking apparatus. I mean, really. Safe?
|by Anonymous||reply 362||05/29/2019|
Terry jumped the shark.
|by Anonymous||reply 363||05/29/2019|
I proudly voted for Donald Trump and adore these guys. Would I live like them? No way.
Do I think they are campy and cool? Hell yeah!
|by Anonymous||reply 364||05/29/2019|
campy and cool?
|by Anonymous||reply 365||05/29/2019|
You sound "special" R364
|by Anonymous||reply 366||05/29/2019|
What Would Kay Lenz Do?
|by Anonymous||reply 367||05/29/2019|
I love Terry and his get -ups.
Again, not my lifestyle, but so what.
I like looking at them.
|by Anonymous||reply 368||05/29/2019|
Speaking of grossly depraved behavior, R364...
|by Anonymous||reply 369||05/29/2019|
I know that Terry was bullied when young, as was I, and I think his spirit resonates with me.
Question : why doesn't our bullying ever end? It seems as if we are permanently targeted.
|by Anonymous||reply 370||05/29/2019|
R370. I think more of the hate comments come from triggered women who can’t shut the fuck up. They come on DL, comment on everything gay and how disgusting and perverted we are. They are obsessed with Dan and Terry.
Really, if you’re a gay man with issues over Dan or Terry, you’re probably pathetic enough to make up threads about your tiresome family or why can’t you sell your awful second hand furniture at top dollar.
Jesus Christ, stop being tedious old queens.
|by Anonymous||reply 371||05/29/2019|
Terry just put a pic of Tom on his instagram stories and called him his "super cute boyfriend" I guess they are out of the poly closet now? they are officially a throuple
|by Anonymous||reply 372||05/29/2019|
R372 they've been less closeted than Clay Aiken
|by Anonymous||reply 373||05/29/2019|
They are both phony, vain, and gross. I once met them both at a book signing for their "It Gets Better" book that my friend wrangled me into going to. They both struck me as insincere and elitists. This same friend once ran into Dan in Seattle at a shop and told him she was a fan of his column/podcast, and he was a complete asshole to her.
|by Anonymous||reply 374||05/29/2019|
Terry's escalating hunger for attention and sexual stimulation is eventually going to annoy Dan and/or draw enough unwanted attention that he'll bail.
|by Anonymous||reply 375||05/30/2019|
R375 Oh no, Dan lives for this stuff. He is a kingster and a sex columnist after all. He's just also an introvert and prefers to do it from the sideline. But he gets off on all of Terry's antics and porn and hooking up with other people. I don't think Dan is dating Terry's new boyfriend as well, I think he just loves that his husband has a boyfriend.
|by Anonymous||reply 376||05/30/2019|
there were a bunch of photos from Folsom years ago with Terry dressed in leather Daddy drag and walking two subs around. One of them was a young guy the two of them were fucking at the time, their short term boyfriend. And the other one was a guy in complete rubber gimp suit including mask but he was the exact same height and weight and body type is Dan. I'm pretty sure Dan was being led around in a gimp suit. He's not this innocent straightlaced guy that this thread is making him out to be. He was in a couple of the hard-core bondage group sex attic for men pictures too
|by Anonymous||reply 377||05/30/2019|
Dan enjoys being the main attention whore R376 if Terry starts to get too much attention Dan will start to resent the sideshow attraction stepping in the ring master's spotlight.
|by Anonymous||reply 378||05/30/2019|
This is how two narcissists conduct a relationship.
It must be exhausting.
|by Anonymous||reply 379||05/30/2019|
R376: Husband sitter, folks. Husband sitter. Get your husband one today!
|by Anonymous||reply 380||05/30/2019|
I think the worst thing Dan ever did was to stigmatize PrEP when it was first being rolled out. He said you would have to be an idiot to take it. It is upsetting that a young gay men probably heard him say that and then decided against taking PrEP. And then Terry posts the photo below a year or so ago. What happened? Not idiots anymore? And Dan has never really atoned for that terrible, terrible advice. And he's a sex columnist? He sames like a judgmental asshole obsessed with money.
|by Anonymous||reply 381||05/30/2019|
Let's face it Terry is most likely a cumdump for his porn star buddies a few of which are openly poz so PrEP may be a necessity in his case.
|by Anonymous||reply 382||05/31/2019|
I still think R177 has the most under-rated comment/photo on this thread...
[quote]When I think "leather daddy," I think "Bea Arthur goes to International Male"
|by Anonymous||reply 383||05/31/2019|
Then you'll love today's photo entry, r383.
|by Anonymous||reply 384||06/02/2019|
Why does that outfit seem somehow offensive?
|by Anonymous||reply 385||06/03/2019|
Terry looks FUNin his mid-life crisis sex gear. His dress-up outfits for the opera and red-carpet are equally tacky as the fetish wear but, unfortunately, all pathetic and not fun. He looks like the aging queen one would avoid at such events.
|by Anonymous||reply 386||06/03/2019|
R384 - Did they finally put him in a padded cell?
|by Anonymous||reply 387||06/03/2019|
Terry doing his part to celebrate the progress the gay community has made and is continuing to make.
|by Anonymous||reply 388||06/08/2019|
What he’s doing is a middle age gay syndrome. I have a friend who has abandoned a lot of activities to spend endless time working out and posting up to 5 shots a day on Instagram where he has a considerable following. I suspect he is using androgenic aides as well. My arm chair analysis is that it’s an obsession and denial mechanism akin to the basics of substance abuse. He and those who support and enable him seem to think he’s some kind of role model and looks great. I think he’s in trouble.
|by Anonymous||reply 389||06/08/2019|
Is your friend's name Jake, R389, and is he a doctor?
|by Anonymous||reply 390||06/08/2019|
r389 it happens because they (Jake and Terry) weren't able to be the objects of desire whores back in their 20s because they were too busy staying in the closet and being nerdy.
Now that they have muscles and some validation from followers, they're acting out
|by Anonymous||reply 391||06/08/2019|