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Things you miss about the 19th century

Horse-drawn carriages

Passenger pigeons

Bloodletting

Laudanum

Male-only suffrage

Child labor

by Anonymousreply 462February 21, 2019 11:52 PM

Outhouses

by Anonymousreply 1January 13, 2019 1:27 PM

Open drains

by Anonymousreply 2January 13, 2019 1:29 PM

The slave roller coaster

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by Anonymousreply 3January 13, 2019 1:34 PM

Those cute but crazy Brontes.

by Anonymousreply 4January 13, 2019 1:35 PM

No morbidly obese people

by Anonymousreply 5January 13, 2019 1:36 PM

Fainting couches and country estates stuffed with servants.

by Anonymousreply 6January 13, 2019 1:37 PM

The smell of horse manure wafting through the open windows in Spring...and the flies that come with it.

by Anonymousreply 7January 13, 2019 1:59 PM

[quote]Male-only suffrage

We could vote

by Anonymousreply 8January 13, 2019 2:00 PM

Smegma Cheese

Toe jam

Using corn Cobb's

REAL COKE COLA

by Anonymousreply 9January 13, 2019 2:17 PM

[quote] No morbidly obese people

Bugger off, peasant!

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by Anonymousreply 10January 13, 2019 2:20 PM

Walt Whitman's blowjobs.

by Anonymousreply 11January 13, 2019 4:40 PM

Consumption

by Anonymousreply 12January 13, 2019 4:43 PM

Sleeping in the Lincoln Bedroom. With Lincoln.

by Anonymousreply 13January 13, 2019 4:45 PM

Patent medicines loaded with cocaine, morphine, and opium!!!

by Anonymousreply 14January 13, 2019 5:26 PM

I don't miss people emptying bedpans out windows.

by Anonymousreply 15January 13, 2019 6:03 PM

wood burning stoves

lice

the bathtub in the kitchen on Saturday night and Aunt Minnie pouring hot water on Uncle Stump's back.

watching Granny pop those big pussy boils on Grandpa's back.

by Anonymousreply 16January 15, 2019 1:15 AM

Me, natch.

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by Anonymousreply 17January 15, 2019 1:19 AM

Redcoats

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by Anonymousreply 18January 15, 2019 1:22 AM

Bank failures and Great Depressions every decade or so.

Orphan trains.

Dead horses in the street, blowing up in the heat.

Surgery without benefit of anesthesia.

by Anonymousreply 19January 15, 2019 1:26 AM

The laudanum made everything else much easier to take.

by Anonymousreply 20January 15, 2019 1:27 AM

The old swimming hole.

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by Anonymousreply 21January 15, 2019 1:28 AM

Stinky linky, R21.

by Anonymousreply 22January 15, 2019 1:30 AM

Oops, trying again.

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by Anonymousreply 23January 15, 2019 1:35 AM

Opium dens

Those darling Victorian values

Cholera

by Anonymousreply 24January 15, 2019 1:43 AM

Whites only toilets

by Anonymousreply 25January 15, 2019 1:56 AM

The hoop skirt.

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by Anonymousreply 26January 15, 2019 1:57 AM

I MISS THE MUSCULAR LADS AT THE GENTLEMEN’S COMMUNITY LEISURE CLUB WHO TAUGHT ME VARIOUS ATHLETIC ENDEAVORS SUCH AS BARE-HANDED FISTICUFFS AND INTRODUCED ME TO THE DELIGHTS OF THE BOTTLE UNTIL I HAD SUFFICIENT.

by Anonymousreply 27January 15, 2019 2:02 AM

Corsets

Petticoats

Dark night skies

Ormolu

by Anonymousreply 28January 15, 2019 2:04 AM

That hottie who was one of the Lincoln assassination conspirators! If only he had gotten life those other prisoners would have known how to handle him!

Sigh.

by Anonymousreply 29January 15, 2019 2:06 AM

The singular bath day of the week on the prairies where every member in the family used the same fetid water, except for Pa who got to enjoy his first and be the only one who really bathed clean. (Not that he ever filled the tub nor heated water in the kettle, nor carried the buckets from the stream; nor emptied the damn thing when everyone was done.)

by Anonymousreply 30January 15, 2019 2:06 AM

Mixed-race Native Americans trying to pass as “white” with no clue that their great great great grandchilden would one day try to do the exact opposite.

by Anonymousreply 31January 15, 2019 4:23 AM

The one drop rule... back then it meant something.

Whale oil lamps

Duels

by Anonymousreply 32January 15, 2019 4:33 AM

Pinafores

by Anonymousreply 33January 15, 2019 4:34 AM

Petticoats

Hoop skirts

Fans

by Anonymousreply 34January 15, 2019 4:42 AM

Elegantly riding side saddle:

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by Anonymousreply 35January 15, 2019 5:57 AM

Colonies, white power and slavery

by Anonymousreply 36January 15, 2019 6:11 AM

Chamber pots under the bed.

And a maid to empty it, who got paid nothing but her meals and some old clothes.

by Anonymousreply 37January 15, 2019 6:11 AM

Robbers who would break into your home and bludgeon you and your whole family to death with the blunt side of an axe - YOUR axe - the one you carelessly left sitting on top of the woodpile.

Gilbert and Sullivan musicals.

by Anonymousreply 38January 15, 2019 6:34 AM

Stuffed birds decorating wide brimmed hats

Dingleberries stuck between your teeth

Love letters by telegraph

by Anonymousreply 39January 15, 2019 6:48 AM

The better servants.

by Anonymousreply 40January 15, 2019 7:13 AM

Child labor, and child servants working in your home.

People retiring at forty, because they were too old and broke down to keep working.

by Anonymousreply 41January 15, 2019 7:34 AM

I miss the smell of chamber pots,

The midnight shrieks of Ripper wenches,

The penny dreadfuls' lurid plots,

Be-wigged lords damning from their benches.

I miss the tune of fetid gas

That whistles from a rotting crook,

Dangling forlornly as its ass

Is pecked at by some sassy rook.

Gone are the days of filth and gore.

Sadly, those days will come no more.

by Anonymousreply 42January 15, 2019 7:58 AM

R38 - To be fair, we still have G&S operettas.

But I do miss the theatres with real torches circling the stage, risking stampedes after the curtains catch.

by Anonymousreply 43January 15, 2019 12:50 PM

Serialisation of "Sherlock Holmes" in The London Illustrated.

by Anonymousreply 44January 15, 2019 12:57 PM

Pellagra

Dropsy

Rickets

Scurvy

by Anonymousreply 45January 15, 2019 2:25 PM

The Pre-Raphaelite Brotherhood

by Anonymousreply 46January 15, 2019 3:30 PM

Thomas Hardy novels

by Anonymousreply 47January 15, 2019 3:37 PM

Real Kings and Queens.

by Anonymousreply 48January 15, 2019 4:14 PM

Regency everything.

by Anonymousreply 49January 15, 2019 4:27 PM

Reports from Darwin's voyages.

by Anonymousreply 50January 15, 2019 4:29 PM

Men who had sex with other men getting the death penalty! Those were the good old days!

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by Anonymousreply 51January 15, 2019 4:37 PM

The higher child mortality rate.

by Anonymousreply 52January 15, 2019 4:40 PM

No Top 40 vapid pop music.

Fruit and vegetables probably tasted better - no GMOs

No shopping malls, parking lots, McMansions, freeways...

by Anonymousreply 53January 15, 2019 4:43 PM

Boy brothels patronized by aristocrats

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by Anonymousreply 54January 15, 2019 4:43 PM

Leeching as a medical treatment.

by Anonymousreply 55January 15, 2019 4:44 PM

Leather bars.

by Anonymousreply 56January 15, 2019 4:45 PM

Slavery

by Anonymousreply 57January 15, 2019 4:46 PM

Leprosy.

by Anonymousreply 58January 15, 2019 4:48 PM

Surgery done with (very flammable) ether and saws of various sizes.

Wait - I was in Africa about 20 years ago and observed surgery under ether, not a pretty sight.

by Anonymousreply 59January 15, 2019 4:50 PM

Literature - real literature: the Brontes, Hardy (mentioned above, credit where due), Eliot, Dickens (all right, maybe not Dickens), Carroll, Thackeray (has Vanity Fair EVER seemed more relevant?!), Stevenson . . . and abroad, Hugo, Dumas, Tolstoy, Zola, Balzac . . .

by Anonymousreply 60January 15, 2019 5:23 PM

Little girls being named Marigold, Pansy, Drusilla, Alice, Prudence, and Henrietta.

by Anonymousreply 61January 15, 2019 6:10 PM

Little boys dressed as little girls.

by Anonymousreply 62January 15, 2019 6:25 PM

Boys named Vivian, Evelyn, and Beverly.

by Anonymousreply 63January 15, 2019 6:39 PM

Dolls and other playthings that looked like they would kill you in your sleep.

by Anonymousreply 64January 15, 2019 6:45 PM

Ripper Terror.

by Anonymousreply 65January 15, 2019 7:02 PM

Castor oil as the cure all for all of life's ills.

by Anonymousreply 66January 15, 2019 7:03 PM

Dying of Tetanus or Rabies!

by Anonymousreply 67January 15, 2019 8:20 PM

The rise of psychology.

The rise of all that Occultism and the Oxford Golden Dawn Society.

by Anonymousreply 68January 15, 2019 8:28 PM

The clop of horses hooves on the streets.

Fireplaces actually being used to heat living spaces.

Coal hods.

by Anonymousreply 69January 15, 2019 8:39 PM

Organ grinders with monkeys.

And don't forget vendors calling out their wares in the streets - through streets broad and narrow.

by Anonymousreply 70January 15, 2019 8:40 PM

This thread has unearthed all the goths lurking on DL.

by Anonymousreply 71January 15, 2019 9:03 PM

Smelling salts.

Fans.

Watch brooches nestled in the lace of ladies' dresses.

Velvet ribbons around the throat.

White gloves for men going to a ball.

R71 - Oh, dear, and I thought we were being so clever!

by Anonymousreply 72January 15, 2019 9:10 PM

Neo-Gothic architecture.

by Anonymousreply 73January 15, 2019 9:15 PM

"Dropsy" is my favorite name for a disease, R45.

It sounds both cute and lethal.

by Anonymousreply 74January 15, 2019 9:27 PM

Consumption

Rats

Plague

People coughing up bloody mucus and running fevers dropping dead in the streets.

by Anonymousreply 75January 15, 2019 9:30 PM

Post-mortem photos of loved ones posed in lifelike positions with eyes painted on the eyelids.

by Anonymousreply 76January 15, 2019 9:32 PM

Fig leaves over genitalia in museums and art galleries.

The fracas over Turner's work.

Top hats and frock coats.

by Anonymousreply 77January 15, 2019 9:35 PM

Madonna's early albums.

by Anonymousreply 78January 15, 2019 9:49 PM

R78 - Meowwwwwwww!

by Anonymousreply 79January 15, 2019 9:56 PM

The waltz, the quadrille, the mazurka, and the two-step.

by Anonymousreply 80January 15, 2019 9:59 PM

Going to the seaside to take the "waters" for one's health.

by Anonymousreply 81January 15, 2019 10:13 PM

Inclines

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by Anonymousreply 82January 15, 2019 10:17 PM

Swallowing one's earrings as a method of committing suicide.

by Anonymousreply 83January 15, 2019 10:23 PM

Consumptives playing at their sanatorium.

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by Anonymousreply 84January 15, 2019 10:28 PM

Pogroms against Jews in Eastern Europe.

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by Anonymousreply 85January 15, 2019 10:30 PM

Effective cough syrup.

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by Anonymousreply 86January 15, 2019 10:32 PM

My laudanum craving is off the charts. I also want some of that cough syrup r86

by Anonymousreply 87January 15, 2019 10:39 PM

Children routinely eaten by wolves

Jewelry made out of human hair.

Being able to dress as a Moor for Hallowe’en.

by Anonymousreply 88January 15, 2019 10:45 PM

Using newspapers before toilet paper came along.

by Anonymousreply 89January 15, 2019 11:51 PM

Ladies carrying lace handkerchiefs al the time.

Laundresses.

by Anonymousreply 90January 16, 2019 12:16 AM

Dear Lord in Heaven!

by Anonymousreply 91January 16, 2019 12:18 AM

Coffins with bells attached in case the person about to be buried is still alive.

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by Anonymousreply 92January 16, 2019 12:20 AM

Daguerreotype porn.

by Anonymousreply 93January 16, 2019 12:29 AM

Belief in faeries at the bottom of the garden. And along those lines;

a great flowering of children's lit in England: MacDonald, Burnett, Kipling, Pyle, and E. Nesbit (although her stuff bled over into the Edwardian era).

by Anonymousreply 94January 16, 2019 1:19 AM

Long earrings.

Caftans over corsets.

by Anonymousreply 95January 16, 2019 1:20 AM

Oh Mother! You’re so 19th Century!

by Anonymousreply 96January 16, 2019 1:23 AM

Boot scrapers, butter churns, bidets and bustles

Taffeta petticoats, crinoline rustles

Chamber pots gleaming, to welcome my piss

These are a few of the things that I miss...

by Anonymousreply 97January 16, 2019 1:26 AM

All that Guards cock in late night Hyde Park.

by Anonymousreply 98January 16, 2019 1:29 AM

Unburying a relative to wash the bones and find the body contorted as they had been buried alive and had not been saved by the bell.

As I guess somebody forgot it. I mean you really have to have a check list to avoid these mishaps.

by Anonymousreply 99January 16, 2019 1:38 AM

R98, no need to miss that. Just go to Hyde Park.

by Anonymousreply 100January 16, 2019 1:39 AM

R97 a catchy cadence!

by Anonymousreply 101January 16, 2019 1:41 AM

The Vapours

Female Hysteria

Slave auctions ( Mandingo etc.)

by Anonymousreply 102January 16, 2019 1:55 AM

Poll taxes to stop black people from voting

by Anonymousreply 103January 16, 2019 2:59 AM

R103 - Oh, we took a stab at that here in the 20th century for different reasons - it was intended to make rates more fair but actually stuck it to the less well off (naturally, and who told them they should have it easier?!).

Bloody rioters.

by Anonymousreply 104January 16, 2019 6:27 PM

No ban on ivory.

by Anonymousreply 105January 16, 2019 8:48 PM

Homes decorated with framed photographs of deceased family members, taken after they had died.

by Anonymousreply 106January 16, 2019 8:51 PM

Nothing

by Anonymousreply 107January 16, 2019 9:21 PM

Wearing your hair in curls.

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by Anonymousreply 108January 16, 2019 9:23 PM

John Gielgud asked his mother what she missed most about the 19th Century and she said the food. Though looking today at those menus and recipes it seems unappealing to our palates.

by Anonymousreply 109January 16, 2019 9:25 PM

Being able to use up your wife's assets before the advent of the Married Women's Property Act in the later part of the century.

by Anonymousreply 110January 16, 2019 9:49 PM

Steam without punk.

by Anonymousreply 111January 16, 2019 9:51 PM

R111 - The Empire.

by Anonymousreply 112January 16, 2019 9:53 PM

R111 - Apologies, that was meant to be a solo post, not a reply to yours.

R112

by Anonymousreply 113January 16, 2019 9:53 PM

Duels (suspect this faded after the first half, though)

The rise of Romanticism in music.

by Anonymousreply 114January 16, 2019 9:55 PM

Limited war.

Places one could not reach.

Terra incognita.

Seasonal fruit ONLY.

Black armbands.

Women who spoke intelligently, conversed with interest and care, avoided topics concerning their menstrual issues, and listened to what others said.

Affordable street hustlers/naive and eager lads.

by Anonymousreply 115January 16, 2019 9:56 PM

DataLounge: The Telegraph Years

by Anonymousreply 116January 16, 2019 9:56 PM

Cocaine and opiates being available through the Sears and Roebuck catalog that also served the bathroom.

Muffs, bustles and parasols

Wax roll phonographs

by Anonymousreply 117January 16, 2019 9:58 PM

The irony of Her Majesty Victoria, by the Grace of God, of the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Ireland Queen, Defender of the Faith, Empress of India, expecting women to know their place.

by Anonymousreply 118January 16, 2019 9:59 PM

Tops.

by Anonymousreply 119January 16, 2019 9:59 PM

Passenger pigeons and Carolina parakeets.

No starlings in the Western Hemisphere.

Old San Francisco.

Gunts from having 12 children and not from being worthlessly obese owing to chocolate doughnuts.

Madras as it was!

by Anonymousreply 120January 16, 2019 10:02 PM

r102 But don't you have all of those things now, Miss Lindsey?

by Anonymousreply 121January 16, 2019 10:12 PM

Prussia

The Kingdom of the Two Sicilies

54-40 or Fight!

The Ottoman Empire

Maximilian and Carlota

by Anonymousreply 122January 16, 2019 10:14 PM

old Erna still had her own teeth

by Anonymousreply 123January 16, 2019 10:17 PM

Social salons where the intelligentsia gathered to smoke and sort out the world.

by Anonymousreply 124January 16, 2019 10:18 PM

Popular culture that did not include Bonnie Franklin or "One Day at a Time."

by Anonymousreply 125January 16, 2019 10:22 PM

Tiger caps, snow leopard jackets and cheetah muffs.

by Anonymousreply 126January 16, 2019 10:23 PM

Jack the Ripper.

by Anonymousreply 127January 16, 2019 10:23 PM

People who actually remembered the Alamo.

by Anonymousreply 128January 16, 2019 10:24 PM

Seeing the South burning and utterly destroyed.

by Anonymousreply 129January 16, 2019 10:25 PM

Yellow Jack!

by Anonymousreply 130January 16, 2019 10:25 PM

Ante bellum barbecues with handsome strapping young men in their tailcoats and boots.

by Anonymousreply 131January 16, 2019 10:33 PM

Benjamin Disraeli

Bloomsbury when it really felt like Bloomsbury

by Anonymousreply 132January 16, 2019 10:34 PM

Opening night at the Met. I mean literally opening night at the Met.

by Anonymousreply 133January 16, 2019 10:38 PM

R133 - And latching on to your post:

Women draped in jewels and gowns at the Opera (I assume you meant the Metropolitan Opera at its first location in New York City).

Lorgnettes

Edith Wharton's New York.

by Anonymousreply 134January 16, 2019 10:42 PM

The opening of the Pinkerton's Detective Agency

Beaver hats and then silk hats

by Anonymousreply 135January 16, 2019 10:47 PM

Ear trumpets. I could use one.

by Anonymousreply 136January 16, 2019 11:19 PM

Male bonding

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by Anonymousreply 137January 16, 2019 11:37 PM

R131 and nothing else

by Anonymousreply 138January 16, 2019 11:49 PM

Separate bedrooms for marrieds.

by Anonymousreply 139January 17, 2019 12:21 AM

"Women who spoke intelligently, conversed with interest and care, avoided topics concerning their menstrual issues, and listened to what others said."

Spoke intelligently? Many women couldn't even read back then. I see the Republicans have weighed in.

by Anonymousreply 140January 17, 2019 1:39 AM

Trepanning.

by Anonymousreply 141January 17, 2019 1:50 AM

Married people still have separate bedrooms. There's also the couch for men.

by Anonymousreply 142January 17, 2019 2:53 AM

Fainting couches

by Anonymousreply 143January 17, 2019 2:55 AM

Oil lamps at the top of the stairs.

Seven-course dinners for the upper classes.

Pigeon pie.

by Anonymousreply 144January 17, 2019 8:14 PM

Women's fashion covering them from neck to ankles. And no, I'm not a misogynist . I've just always found this style of dress to be the most flattering on women.

by Anonymousreply 145January 17, 2019 8:19 PM

"Many women couldn't even read back then."

Not true at all. Literacy rates were in fact probably higher than they are now.

by Anonymousreply 146January 17, 2019 10:17 PM

R145 - LOL - probably covered a multitude of flaws.

The term paterfamilias when it still meant something benign.

Parasols as a de rigueur item of dress in the summer

Letter writing as the primary form of long-distance communication.

by Anonymousreply 147January 17, 2019 10:18 PM

Debtors Prison

by Anonymousreply 148January 17, 2019 10:19 PM

Arranged marriages.

Families of 10 or 20 children.

Being treated to a "Grand Tour" of Europe by your parents when you were young, so you could become familiar with all the places a gentleman ought to be familiar with.

Women putting their hair up when they were old enough to look for a husband.

And "coming out" meaning that a girl was leaving the nursery and entering adult life, and looking for a husband.

by Anonymousreply 149January 17, 2019 11:07 PM

Another nod to the now extinct Carolina Parakeet.

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by Anonymousreply 150January 17, 2019 11:15 PM

And lest we forget : The Great Auk

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by Anonymousreply 151January 17, 2019 11:20 PM

The names Maria and Sophia, pronounced with a long-I.

by Anonymousreply 152January 18, 2019 12:13 AM

Child living spaces in middle-class households being called "the nursery".

Nursery maids taking childen in little hats and capes out to places like Kensington Gardens.

The tenants tugging their forelocks when the Lord of the Manor comes by. (The male ones, that is.)

Men actually wearing deerstalker hats out in the country, just like Sherlock.

by Anonymousreply 153January 18, 2019 12:29 AM

Workhouses

Insane asylums

by Anonymousreply 154January 18, 2019 1:06 AM

Olive Oatman and her tragic tattoo. It's a wonderful (but very sad) story and book. I always enjoy chatting with the British and Irish members of DL. Every now, and then, I can't help wishing one of them would read a story from US history. I know our crap dominates the airwaves and all, but a very real, authentic story of American life (to be honest, most Americans need to read something like that). I actually do read British histories, now and then.

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by Anonymousreply 155January 18, 2019 1:12 AM

"Not true at all. Literacy rates were in fact probably higher than they are now."

Wrong.

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by Anonymousreply 156January 18, 2019 2:33 AM

Piano keys made of actual ivory.

by Anonymousreply 157January 18, 2019 5:29 AM

Literacy rates in the 19th century were probably higher than ours today.

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by Anonymousreply 158January 18, 2019 6:23 AM

Fanology

"Pressed to the lips: Kiss me"

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by Anonymousreply 159January 18, 2019 8:19 AM

Duels Andrew Jackson style - if your opponent took their shot and didn't kill you, he'd have to stand there while you took yours.

Your ancestors standing still for five minutes in their best outfit for the one photograph taken in their lifetime - and they still have a greasy slicked-down mop of hair.

by Anonymousreply 160January 18, 2019 8:48 AM

Lard, for cooking.

Butter, for eating.

No antibiotics.

A (male) life expectancy of 45.

Sterile procedures, including washing of hands, mostly unheard of.

Death in childbirth rampant.

by Anonymousreply 161January 18, 2019 10:40 AM

Living in a sod house and liking it.

by Anonymousreply 162January 18, 2019 12:27 PM

R161 - Departure for factoid here on the childbirth issue: although ether was available, it was generally withheld from women in childbirth, as the dim idea from the Old Testament "in sorrow shalt thou bring forth children" still held some force. Queen Victoria, however, said, "Bollocks to that, bring that ether or you'll find your head on a spike on the entrance to the Tower." So they did, and when she did it, it be came "acceptable" for other women to have their labour pain relieved, as well.

Telling time by real clocks that chimed.

by Anonymousreply 163January 18, 2019 1:18 PM

Seeing the night skies blanketed by stars.

No rap music.

by Anonymousreply 164January 18, 2019 5:51 PM

US Weekly has Meghan on the cover with the title "Her Side of the Story", but above it are the words, Shallow? Greedy? Social Climber?

Don't doubt that inside they line up with Meghan, but I wonder if they realise that a good many people who don't read US as they move through the checkout line will only remember Meghan's face with Shallow? Greedy? Social Climber? above it.

Wonder if it's deliberate.

by Anonymousreply 165January 18, 2019 11:03 PM

Well, damn it all to hell I've posted on the wrong thread, again.

Apologies, again, for posting on the wrong thread.

by Anonymousreply 166January 18, 2019 11:04 PM

I thought you missed the nonexistence in the 19th century of US Weekly.

by Anonymousreply 167January 18, 2019 11:25 PM

Trips to the woodshed. Being seen and not heard. The swimming hole.

by Anonymousreply 168January 18, 2019 11:46 PM

lethal syphilis

by Anonymousreply 169January 19, 2019 12:01 AM

R164 Thanks for the memory. The night sky full of stars persisted into my childhood living on the Canadian prairies and I have encountered it since : in the Darien region of Panama, but it's becoming a rare phenomenon. Where I live now I'm lucky if I can see Venus.

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by Anonymousreply 170January 19, 2019 12:16 AM

Boys wearing short pants until puberty.

by Anonymousreply 171January 19, 2019 12:20 AM

I've seen in old movies (costume dramas) young unmarried women being completely covered up while older women (eg. in their fifties, sixties) wore low cut gowns -- a frightening fashion trend if it was real.

by Anonymousreply 172January 19, 2019 12:29 AM

Pffft. No internet in the 19th century. I don't know how people survived.

by Anonymousreply 173January 19, 2019 12:35 AM

Not having a wise mammy who knows my foibles but loves me and cares about me all the same.

by Anonymousreply 174January 19, 2019 12:46 AM

R167 - LOL. More than compensated by the Illustrated London News.

by Anonymousreply 175January 19, 2019 2:16 AM

R155, thanks for the recommendation, and if you'd like to add any others, please do.

by Anonymousreply 176January 19, 2019 11:45 PM

The unquestioned class system.

Men not expected to be sensitive alphas.

Hard boundaries between public and private life.

John Ruskin

Queen Victoria

by Anonymousreply 177January 20, 2019 3:24 PM

Men not leaving the house without jackets. Watch the very great Coleman in The Late George Apley.

by Anonymousreply 178January 20, 2019 4:33 PM

Nobody leaving the house without a hat, ever, under any circumstances.

Not just because sunglasses and sunblock hadn't been invented, but because a bare head made you underdressed. Of course in earlier centuries, a bare head was thought of as indecent.

by Anonymousreply 179January 20, 2019 6:40 PM

Wearing ten layers of clothing including a wool jacket, at the height of summer.

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by Anonymousreply 180January 20, 2019 6:42 PM

Jim Crow

by Anonymousreply 181January 20, 2019 8:07 PM

Coca Cola with real coke.

by Anonymousreply 182January 20, 2019 8:16 PM

Going to the outhouse in January.

by Anonymousreply 183January 20, 2019 8:19 PM

Waiting for the next serialized installment of one of Mr. Charles Dickens's sensational novels.

by Anonymousreply 184January 20, 2019 9:24 PM

God forbid a woman was without a hat. That meant she was fast. And not in a good way.

by Anonymousreply 185January 20, 2019 9:43 PM

Exclaiming," Oh, Fiddledeedee"! after looking at the result of sashaying across the street in a hoop skirt, ankle deep in horse shit.

by Anonymousreply 186January 20, 2019 9:47 PM

Real tea time, by the fireside.

by Anonymousreply 187January 21, 2019 3:58 PM

r186, I still do that.

by Anonymousreply 188January 21, 2019 3:59 PM

R188 - Where did you come by it? The hooped skirt I mean, not the horseshit.

by Anonymousreply 189January 21, 2019 4:37 PM

Bathing once a month.

by Anonymousreply 190January 21, 2019 5:07 PM

Fireflies lighting up the night sky in summer,

by Anonymousreply 191January 21, 2019 5:54 PM

Cowboy square dances by the campfire. And then the orgy following it.

by Anonymousreply 192January 21, 2019 6:04 PM

Needing a ladies' maid just to get your hair up properly.

by Anonymousreply 193January 21, 2019 6:19 PM

Buttonhooks.

by Anonymousreply 194January 21, 2019 7:02 PM

Whalebone corsets

by Anonymousreply 195January 21, 2019 7:04 PM

Handmade shoes

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by Anonymousreply 196January 21, 2019 7:06 PM

Fashionable Sideburns

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by Anonymousreply 197January 21, 2019 7:10 PM

Constantly having to revive fainting women and being expected to carry smelling salts, because no woman of fashion could breathe.

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by Anonymousreply 198January 21, 2019 7:18 PM

All the women having marvellous complexions.

by Anonymousreply 199January 21, 2019 7:26 PM

Moor murders.

by Anonymousreply 200January 23, 2019 6:40 PM

Discovering gold.

by Anonymousreply 201January 24, 2019 3:13 AM

R201 - Following your lead: the creation of pinchbeck so the middle-classes could wear lower priced jewellery that looked like gold.

And natural rather than cultured pearl jewellery.

by Anonymousreply 202January 24, 2019 3:17 PM

Hats with ostrich plumes.

No ban on ivory.

by Anonymousreply 203January 24, 2019 3:44 PM

One room school houses.

by Anonymousreply 204January 24, 2019 4:27 PM

Separation of the sexes after Dinner.

by Anonymousreply 205January 24, 2019 4:49 PM

Town criers.

by Anonymousreply 206January 24, 2019 5:50 PM

The good old-fashioned carnival midway

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by Anonymousreply 207January 25, 2019 12:06 AM

Widows wearing black for a year with those little veils at the back of their hats. (The way Gene Tierney looks when she first looks at the house in "The Ghost and Mrs Muir").

After one year, they can move on to lilac and lavender and mauve.

by Anonymousreply 208January 25, 2019 12:17 AM

Women who liked sex being thought of as inherently immoral.

by Anonymousreply 209January 25, 2019 12:23 AM

Lamplighters

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by Anonymousreply 210January 25, 2019 1:43 AM

Actresses and dancers costumes catching fire and burning to death in front of a live audience, which is what happens when your footlights are open gas flames and the ladies onstage are wearing huge full skirts.

No, really! It happened!

by Anonymousreply 211January 25, 2019 4:04 AM

Milk in glass bottles (although we did have that well into the 20th century).

Rules about what one wore in the country as opposed to the city (as Lady Bellamy's rule had it, "No diamonds in the country.")

The lack of a need for gun laws.

Respect for rural life.

Belief in the power of "the waters".

by Anonymousreply 212January 25, 2019 3:50 PM

One thing I didn't like: Hordes of subhuman Irish and Italians flooding this great country with their popish ways.

by Anonymousreply 213January 25, 2019 4:22 PM

INCESTUOUS RAPE IN THE WILDERNESS

TUBERCULOSIS ASYLUMS

BORDELLOS

OCTOROONS

by Anonymousreply 214January 25, 2019 5:22 PM

HAVING A WHORE WASH YOUR COCK TO CHECK FOR STD'S,

by Anonymousreply 215January 25, 2019 5:25 PM

"Belief in the power of "the waters".

A lot of these places where one went to "take the waters" offered mineral water which contained sulfur, among other elements. In the days before antibiotics, drinking water containing sulfur or bathing in sulfur water might have been a help in fighting any bacterial infections one had. Some bacteria are sensitive to sulfur, and there's an entire class of sulfanilamide antibiotics in use today.

by Anonymousreply 216January 25, 2019 7:06 PM

Sunday dinner.

by Anonymousreply 217January 27, 2019 5:51 PM

Help who would work for room and board and a dollar a day.

by Anonymousreply 218January 27, 2019 6:01 PM

Ah yes, Sunday dinner, a big meal taken on the Lord's Day, a mandated day of rest and prayer... except for the servants who had to cook it! Nah, those servants got their half-day off on Wednesday or Thursday, and worked dawn to bedtime on the Lord's Day.

Jewish families at least had their servants rest on the Shabbat (except for the odd Shabbas Goy), and meals were actually prepared beforehand. Look at any traditional Jewish cookbook and you'll see recipes for slow-cooked stews and things that could be kept overnight warm for Saturday lunch.

by Anonymousreply 219January 27, 2019 6:25 PM

White Britain.

by Anonymousreply 220January 29, 2019 8:57 PM

Separation of the upper class from the servant class.

by Anonymousreply 221January 29, 2019 9:14 PM

Buggery in the stables of an English Country House

by Anonymousreply 222January 29, 2019 9:50 PM

No income taxes, no real estate taxes.

by Anonymousreply 223January 29, 2019 9:57 PM

R223 - That alone is worth investing in a Time Machine.

by Anonymousreply 224January 29, 2019 10:11 PM

Upper-class boys' boarding schools, where buggery, "fagging", and corporal punishment abounded.

by Anonymousreply 225January 29, 2019 11:40 PM

Really nice china, silver, and napery, and no paper plates and napkins and cups.

by Anonymousreply 226January 30, 2019 7:54 PM

Bearding in a sham marriage was acceptable as long as you had children to continue the family line.

by Anonymousreply 227January 30, 2019 11:32 PM

Arsenic in my cupboard.

by Anonymousreply 228January 30, 2019 11:51 PM

R228 - And laudanum.

by Anonymousreply 229January 31, 2019 1:05 AM

Patent medicines guaranteeing to cure you of many ills but do absolutely northing.

by Anonymousreply 230January 31, 2019 11:10 AM

When all the women who wore silk or velvet knew all the other women who wore silk or velvet, and everybody knew everybody else’s family horse and carriage.

by Anonymousreply 231January 31, 2019 11:49 AM

Calling cards if the person you wanted to visit was not home or indisposed you could leave your card with a brief message.

by Anonymousreply 232January 31, 2019 3:54 PM

r232 But only if they were placed on a silver salver presented by one's butler.

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by Anonymousreply 233January 31, 2019 4:30 PM

Ladies who couldn't afford silk petticoats shoving sheets of newspaper under their skirts, because that'd make a rustling sound similar to that of genuine silk petticoats.

These days, that'd be called a "life hack for the aspirational".

by Anonymousreply 234January 31, 2019 6:36 PM

R232 - On "at home" days only, of course!

by Anonymousreply 235January 31, 2019 9:41 PM

I love you, R231.

by Anonymousreply 236January 31, 2019 9:49 PM

Smoking opium in the opium den.

by Anonymousreply 237February 1, 2019 6:25 PM

Steerage Class

by Anonymousreply 238February 1, 2019 6:48 PM

A set of matching monogramed luggage from steamer trunks down to hat boxes all with the same design and engraved with your initials.

by Anonymousreply 239February 1, 2019 6:55 PM

R239 - Add handkerchiefs and in some cases bed linen and foundation garments labelled with embroidered initials. (Cf. the First Mrs De Winter's knickers preserved and as proudly displayed by Mrs Danvers to the demoralised Second Mrs De Winter).

by Anonymousreply 240February 1, 2019 9:26 PM

The men were hotter back then.

by Anonymousreply 241February 1, 2019 10:14 PM

R241 There were more uncut men back then.

by Anonymousreply 242February 2, 2019 12:18 PM

If you were a part of the small middle class you could still afford a few servants such as a cook and a house maid.

by Anonymousreply 243February 2, 2019 12:43 PM

Ah the good old days. Any body need a camel jockey? I'm good.

by Anonymousreply 244February 2, 2019 1:01 PM

R244 -The modern Republic of Sudan was founded in 1966, inheriting Anglo-Egyptian boundaries established in1899. But Sudan, the region, was founded in the 16th century. It's probably a safe bet that your basic South Sudanese child was better off in 1819 than 2019, before Europe got there and it was entwined politically instead with Egypt. Life was probably never easy in the area, but maybe you should rethink your post.

by Anonymousreply 245February 2, 2019 3:11 PM

I miss the Pony Express riders. They had nice asses.

by Anonymousreply 246February 2, 2019 4:10 PM

Water so foul it required whiskey to be potable.

Ringworm that made bare feet winters tolerable.

by Anonymousreply 247February 2, 2019 4:22 PM

The Great Auk

by Anonymousreply 248February 2, 2019 4:25 PM

I miss the technology.

by Anonymousreply 249February 2, 2019 4:27 PM

Le Lounge au Data - originally chalk marks left near a latrine - tracking size and girth.

It was in bad French - and required too much space. Ex: “#sixty thirteen - 😲

by Anonymousreply 250February 2, 2019 4:36 PM

I miss sleeping five to a bed.

by Anonymousreply 251February 2, 2019 4:43 PM

No tighty whities and high wasted pants, every man showed a basket. This is why when you bought a suit the tailor asked if you "dressed on the right or left" depending on which pant leg you let it hang.

by Anonymousreply 252February 2, 2019 4:47 PM

Carriage houses.

by Anonymousreply 253February 2, 2019 5:12 PM

I miss making out with the hot daddy next door over by the pump house.

by Anonymousreply 254February 2, 2019 5:59 PM

Yes, R252, elastic had yet to be invented and everything was held up with laces and buttons. Everything was... looser.

by Anonymousreply 255February 2, 2019 6:10 PM

Patriotism

by Anonymousreply 256February 2, 2019 6:24 PM

Velvet smoking jackets.

Braiding.

by Anonymousreply 257February 2, 2019 6:50 PM

Bunting.

by Anonymousreply 258February 2, 2019 6:58 PM

Wow, DLers are younger than I thought.

by Anonymousreply 259February 2, 2019 6:59 PM

Oratory

by Anonymousreply 260February 2, 2019 7:00 PM

With the exception of the very rich, people owned less stuff but what they had was of the best quality they could afford.

by Anonymousreply 261February 2, 2019 7:05 PM

People who put on their long john under wear at the first frost and took them off again in the spring. It was heaven for a stank queen!

by Anonymousreply 262February 2, 2019 7:05 PM

I miss Martin Van Buren.

by Anonymousreply 263February 2, 2019 7:09 PM

I miss Gladstone and Disrael and Queen Victoria and seeing early photos of her and her daughter in law, Princess Alexandra, draped in enough diamonds and pearls to sink the Titanic a short time later.

by Anonymousreply 264February 2, 2019 7:50 PM

*Disraeli

by Anonymousreply 265February 2, 2019 10:45 PM

That approach to architecture which consisted of throwing the last 500 years to a wall and seeing what stuck.

by Anonymousreply 266February 3, 2019 2:08 AM

Barnum' s Museum

Lillian Russell

Sarah Berndhardt

Minstrel shows

Smelling salts

Fainting couches

Tent revival meetings and plays

Vaudeville

The dodo bird

Gilbert and Sullivan

Uncle Tom's Cabin (the book and many plays)

by Anonymousreply 267February 3, 2019 2:32 AM

Velocipedes

by Anonymousreply 268February 3, 2019 4:16 AM

[quote]If you were a part of the small middle class you could still afford a few servants such as a cook and a house maid.

You needed them because keeping even a modestly nice house involved a lot of manual labor. There were a lot of needy single women out there to take on the role of cook or maid just to be able to eat and live indoors.

by Anonymousreply 269February 3, 2019 4:23 AM

Clothes were tailored to your dimensions there were no racks of standard size clothes. Custom tailoring was the norm not the exception.

by Anonymousreply 270February 3, 2019 10:44 AM

R267 I'm afraid the dodo had already gone the way of the dodo by the 19th century.

by Anonymousreply 271February 3, 2019 1:25 PM

Being able to randomly clobber other people's kids in the street.

by Anonymousreply 272February 3, 2019 1:28 PM

Mule trains. They had great asses.

by Anonymousreply 273February 3, 2019 1:42 PM

Everything was hand crafted and very affordable.

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by Anonymousreply 274February 3, 2019 4:29 PM

Illiterate servants. If you wanted the cook to learn a new recipe, you had to read it to her.

by Anonymousreply 275February 3, 2019 8:28 PM

Discussing the operas of that new composer Verdi and how he was stealing from Meyerbeer and Donizetti.

by Anonymousreply 276February 3, 2019 9:18 PM

People knowing their place.

Men of the church knowing what was best because they got it direct from God.

Slapping children around because well they deserve it no matter what they did or because you were in a lousy mood and the concept of child abuse not existing.

Being very poor and maiming your child so that when you begged for alms you'd get a better take.

by Anonymousreply 277February 3, 2019 9:26 PM

I miss the spiritualists who helped me contact my deceased little brother who died of red measles.

by Anonymousreply 278February 3, 2019 9:55 PM

White Privilege

by Anonymousreply 279February 3, 2019 9:59 PM

Whist tournaments. Horehound hard candies. Whale oil lamps.

The ribbon clerk at Whitney's Notions that would meet me behind the gasometer at the edge of town...

by Anonymousreply 280February 3, 2019 10:01 PM

Mens Clubs that did not permit women on the premises.

by Anonymousreply 281February 3, 2019 10:14 PM

The quagga.

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by Anonymousreply 282February 3, 2019 11:02 PM

Beautiful hats made from the corpses of rare birds.

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by Anonymousreply 283February 3, 2019 11:41 PM

I miss the overall sassiness of the century. A certain naughtiness, if you will.

by Anonymousreply 284February 3, 2019 11:46 PM

Really? Well I found it all rather common and too often lugubrious.

by Anonymousreply 285February 4, 2019 1:59 AM

R274 -

"The golf links lay so near the mill

That almost every day

The labouring children can look out

And see the men at play."

Sarah Cleghorn

by Anonymousreply 286February 4, 2019 2:44 AM

[quote]Male-only suffrage

Like Republicans a lot, do ya?

Oh, and fuck you.

by Anonymousreply 287February 4, 2019 3:09 AM

I miss my wild weekends with Walt Whitman.

by Anonymousreply 288February 4, 2019 12:05 PM

R287 - Good God, get over yourself - this thread is loaded with ironic comments. The state of 19th cyentury dentistry alone would stop most of us from using a time machine to go back there - really, the title of the thread should have told you something.

I mean, did you really think people were missing outdoor lavs, cholera outbreaks, etc.?!

by Anonymousreply 289February 4, 2019 12:39 PM

OP you listed in the Guinness Book of Records?

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by Anonymousreply 290February 4, 2019 12:45 PM

Fabulous dinners with Jane Austen

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by Anonymousreply 291February 4, 2019 5:50 PM

The constant tours of Our American Cousin which I saw many times. It was hilarious. Of course Abe getting himself knocked off ruined that but once the country moves on it will again take its place as a comic staple.

by Anonymousreply 292February 4, 2019 6:19 PM

Our American Cousin was one of those naughty but nice sex comedies where the heroine pushing 30 realizes that marriage with someone she loves is more important than losing her virginity to a wealthy middle aged roué. Lots of double entendres and a tired businessman's idea of an entertaining show which his wife wouldn't object to. I'm not sure if it would be successful today.

by Anonymousreply 293February 4, 2019 6:36 PM

The Carolina Parakeet

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by Anonymousreply 294February 4, 2019 7:00 PM

[quote]The constant tours of Our American Cousin which I saw many times.

Do you think it would work as a rap musical?

by Anonymousreply 295February 4, 2019 7:28 PM

Can we do a "Things you miss about the 14th century" thread after this? (or 15th, 16th, whatever)

by Anonymousreply 296February 4, 2019 9:08 PM

Beethoven. He (and Mozart) died way too soon. Think of all of the beautiful music we missed out on.

by Anonymousreply 297February 4, 2019 9:30 PM

Burning one's under garments.

by Anonymousreply 298February 4, 2019 9:32 PM

Crinoline hoop skirts were the height of fashion for a while.

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by Anonymousreply 299February 4, 2019 9:34 PM

R297 - Mozart was 18th century, he died before 1800. (And, we're still listening to him.)

But we got the rise of Brahms (my man - he looked like Viggo Mortensen when young, no, he really did!), Mendelssohn, Schumann, Schubert, Dvorak, the Russians - in short, the rise of Romanticism as Europe's music broke away from the domination of the German standard of "pure" music (i.e., non-programmatic, except for opera).

The flowering of art, music, and literature in the 19th century has, in my opinion, never been matched.

by Anonymousreply 300February 4, 2019 9:42 PM

Hastening to add re my tag line that I know Prokofiev died in the 20th century, along with Stravinsky. But they were still rooted in the 19th century musically - I count them as bridges between the two centuries.

R300

by Anonymousreply 301February 4, 2019 9:44 PM

R300 Of course, I know Mozart died in the 18th century - which is why I just said Beethoven. Mozart was part of the parenthetical to convey how he was lost too soon nonetheless.

by Anonymousreply 302February 4, 2019 10:47 PM

I do love Brahms though (Hungarian Dance No. 5 is one of my favorite songs). I am partial to Baroque and Classical composer though (Bach, Haydn, Beethoven, Mozart).

by Anonymousreply 303February 4, 2019 10:51 PM

Adding: going to start listening to more Prokofiev and Stravinsky - haven't really given the late 19th century/20th century a chance. Thanks for the inspiration!

I almost fully agree about the greatness of 19th century, but Mozart, Rembrandt (17th century), and some 20th century literature/writers are, in my opinion, unparalleled.

by Anonymousreply 304February 4, 2019 11:05 PM

All those Royals, in their delightful little postage stamp countries

by Anonymousreply 305February 4, 2019 11:23 PM

Goofy travelling snake oil salesmen. They had a certain flair to separate fools from their money.

We have tRump but it's just not the same...

by Anonymousreply 306February 5, 2019 12:10 AM

R304 - Oh, I don't think anyone would give you an argument about the standing of Mozart - or Rembrandt. I certainly won't.

R300

by Anonymousreply 307February 5, 2019 12:35 AM

Science was fashionable!

No, really. It was. Being an amateur scientist was all the rage for the educated, and ladies and gentlemen attended scientific lectures for fun.

by Anonymousreply 308February 5, 2019 1:14 AM

People walking around with saddle nose because there was no cure for syphilis then and that was one of the signs of end-stage syphilis.

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by Anonymousreply 309February 5, 2019 3:14 AM

Washable sanitary pads for one's monthly visitor.

by Anonymousreply 310February 5, 2019 3:25 AM

R301 You could easily say that about Schoenberg and Berg whose earlier works were rooted in 19th Century romanticism. They were products of the 1800s.

by Anonymousreply 311February 5, 2019 12:10 PM

R311 - True - but Schoenberg's later work really diverged at some point. Transfigured Night is one of my favourite piecesand is from his earlier phase. DId you know the string orchestra version was premiered in Newcastle, of all places? I suppose that saying about standing on the shoulders of giants remains true and simply goes on and on.

by Anonymousreply 312February 5, 2019 12:45 PM

Oh they both certainly diverged as did Prokofiev and Stravinsky.

Yes Transfigured Night is beautiful and Karajan's version on DG is a recording I listen to often.

by Anonymousreply 313February 5, 2019 12:50 PM

Istanbul was a great party town.

by Anonymousreply 314February 5, 2019 12:54 PM

R313 - At the risk of further hijacking this thread - that's the recording I have. I've also seen Pillar of Fire, the ballet that was done to it by Antony Tudor. I don't think it's been done in some time.

Apologies if the thread seems hijacked, but this does in some way relate to 19th century culture . . .

by Anonymousreply 315February 5, 2019 1:13 PM

Wow. You guys really make me appreciate these days vs those days.

by Anonymousreply 316February 5, 2019 1:31 PM

Thomas Nast cartoons in Harper's Weekly

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by Anonymousreply 317February 5, 2019 1:48 PM

Churning butter

by Anonymousreply 318February 5, 2019 3:29 PM

Bathing once a month whether you needed it or not.

by Anonymousreply 319February 5, 2019 3:59 PM

Dying from a cut finger.

by Anonymousreply 320February 5, 2019 6:04 PM

The Absolute Apex of The Empire . . .

And in that connection, news from the Boer War front, although admittedly that was at the tag end.

by Anonymousreply 321February 5, 2019 6:34 PM

The grass seemed greener back then.

by Anonymousreply 322February 5, 2019 7:38 PM

Indentured servants, the next best thing to slavery.

by Anonymousreply 323February 5, 2019 11:22 PM

Droit de seigneur

by Anonymousreply 324February 5, 2019 11:23 PM

R320 Or a blister.

by Anonymousreply 325February 5, 2019 11:48 PM

R324 - Wrong century.

by Anonymousreply 326February 6, 2019 12:35 AM

I was like how did the 18th century get in here?

by Anonymousreply 327February 6, 2019 12:42 AM

Hansen’s Disease, “Leprosy”

by Anonymousreply 328February 6, 2019 12:57 AM

The long boat trips.

by Anonymousreply 329February 6, 2019 12:59 AM

The chocking stench of animal and human waste on city streets

by Anonymousreply 330February 6, 2019 1:01 AM

R330 - Is "chocking" something we all missed about the 19th century?

by Anonymousreply 331February 6, 2019 1:13 AM

R327 - 13th, more like.

by Anonymousreply 332February 6, 2019 1:14 AM

Sorry...shocking

by Anonymousreply 333February 6, 2019 1:30 AM

Beautiful penmanship.

Sundays were a day of rest and a fine afternoon meal was enjoyed. People spent time with each other.

Excellent manners.

Afternoon Tea.

by Anonymousreply 334February 6, 2019 1:41 AM

People writing charming, literate letters to one another.

by Anonymousreply 335February 6, 2019 1:50 AM

The 19th century was better for men than for women. Women who got pregnant had a 50/50 chance of dying in childbirth. Babies and children died of childhood diseases that we have vaccines for now.

by Anonymousreply 336February 6, 2019 1:58 AM

Formal dinners with service a la Russe, and six wineglasses and ten forks all in a row!

Sure, it was a social minefield likely to leave anyone crushed if they didn't know exactly what the seventh fork was for, and must have been interminable if you found yourself sitting next to a door, but still! It was a ritual celebration of elegance and luxury, and I'd have liked to enjoy it once in my life. Modern informal dinners just aren't the same.

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by Anonymousreply 337February 6, 2019 2:26 AM

R336, most centuries were.

by Anonymousreply 338February 6, 2019 10:44 AM

Passage on a clipper ship around Cape Horn to California.

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by Anonymousreply 339February 6, 2019 11:10 AM

Notes taken around by servants rather than post.

by Anonymousreply 340February 6, 2019 12:38 PM

New huge luxury steamships to the continent that can carry 4000 people.

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by Anonymousreply 341February 6, 2019 2:54 PM

I miss the morning dew.

by Anonymousreply 342February 6, 2019 3:01 PM

The 'Vapors'.

by Anonymousreply 343February 6, 2019 4:40 PM

Swimming in the Hudson.

by Anonymousreply 344February 6, 2019 5:19 PM

New York in the 1870-80's and now.

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by Anonymousreply 345February 6, 2019 5:22 PM

Pestilence.

by Anonymousreply 346February 6, 2019 5:31 PM

Choice

by Anonymousreply 347February 6, 2019 5:38 PM

Two observations from R345's link:

Cars are... ugly, aren't they?

("I'm not sure George is wrong about automobiles. With all their speed forward they may be a step backward in civilization. May be that they won't add to the beauty of the world or the life of the men's souls, I'm not sure. But automobiles have come and almost all outwards things will be different because of what they bring. They're going to alter war and they're going to alter peace. And I think men's minds are going to be changed in subtle ways because of automobiles. And it may be that George is right. May be that in ten to twenty years from now that if we can see the inward change in men by that time, I shouldn't be able to defend the gasoline engine but agree with George - that automobiles had no business to be invented.")

No one was walking a dog in the 1870s footage.

by Anonymousreply 348February 6, 2019 5:55 PM

Only the very rich - usually ladies, had pet lap dogs they would carry in their carriages to parade in pleasure gardens rather than dirty streets. Most other hounds kept then were working dogs and did not get to go out walkies on a lead.

by Anonymousreply 349February 6, 2019 6:09 PM

Female boxers wearing appropriate attire.

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by Anonymousreply 350February 6, 2019 6:28 PM

Anonymity

by Anonymousreply 351February 6, 2019 6:34 PM

Summer meadows in wildflower bloom with twittering skylarks high above.

by Anonymousreply 352February 6, 2019 6:41 PM

59 Amazing Photos Showing Life in the 1850s

People were more distinctive looking in the mid 1800's

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by Anonymousreply 353February 6, 2019 6:52 PM

R351 - An astute mention, if I may say so. You actually could live a private life, and the boundaries between private and public life were firm. No satellite surveillance, chips in the phones and GPS devices, MI6 tracking code words in your emails . . . no sense that if you went out for a pint you should let everyone on FB know what the weather was like and whether the local was crowded . . .

by Anonymousreply 354February 6, 2019 6:56 PM

Being able to start a new life under a new name with no trouble at all!

Really, you just went to another town where nobody knew you and nobody who knew you was likely to go, and said your name was... whatever you liked. That was all, you were now Bob Schmidt or Sam Gunderson, and tough shit on all the relatives you left behind! Nowadays you can't just become someone else, the IRS and credit industry won't allow it.

by Anonymousreply 355February 6, 2019 7:01 PM

R355 - We have forgotten what real privacy was like.

by Anonymousreply 356February 6, 2019 8:05 PM

Walking 10 miles to school.

by Anonymousreply 357February 6, 2019 10:51 PM

...in the snow.

by Anonymousreply 358February 6, 2019 10:52 PM

Sternwheelers. The hight of technology . Close the patent office!

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by Anonymousreply 359February 7, 2019 1:40 AM

Being able to go out in seedy districts with a gun in your pocket in order to look for trouble as an excuse to beat up or kill bastards from a specific group you dislike and come across as manly.

by Anonymousreply 360February 7, 2019 1:45 AM

Fashion. The ease of running away and starting over.

by Anonymousreply 361February 7, 2019 1:47 AM

Traveling to Paris on a grand tour.

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by Anonymousreply 362February 7, 2019 10:56 AM

A fascinating film. Thanks for sharing. It's great to see that horse-drawn fire engine at 3:43.

by Anonymousreply 363February 7, 2019 2:29 PM

Luxury travel before airplanes.

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by Anonymousreply 364February 7, 2019 4:02 PM

Street Life in London, 1876-1877

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by Anonymousreply 365February 7, 2019 9:32 PM

Wiener Staatsoper gefolgt von Abendessen, Champagner und Sodomie

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by Anonymousreply 366February 7, 2019 10:31 PM

I miss only having two genders.

by Anonymousreply 367February 7, 2019 10:39 PM

Grand hotels that really were grand rather than pretentious minimalist jokes.

by Anonymousreply 368February 7, 2019 10:57 PM

The yearning for space travel.

by Anonymousreply 369February 7, 2019 11:40 PM

Ah yes, "The Grand Tour". Oh, to be a wealthy young man in the era when it was expected that any unmarried young man of good family get a lengthy all-expenses paid trip to Europe, while he was still college age! It was considered normal to pay for your kid to spend months traveling, and staying at the best hotels at his family's expense, because that was where he'd meet the best people, see all the appropriate sights, and acquire the sophistication and polish that would make him into a true gentleman.

Girls didn't get grand tours, of course.

by Anonymousreply 370February 7, 2019 11:46 PM

The absence of social media and the frantic pace the future.

by Anonymousreply 371February 8, 2019 12:22 AM

Amazing to think that when people went out, even during the day, they were dressed in their best clothes, now look at us. We're slobs.

by Anonymousreply 372February 8, 2019 3:42 AM

Of course girls got grand tours with family members or chaperones. You know to forget the man they were in love with that their father detested. Have you heard of Henry James?

by Anonymousreply 373February 8, 2019 4:04 AM

[quote]You know to forget the man they were in love with that their father detested. Have you heard of Henry James?

Marriages were arranged by the parents, the girls was married off to a suitor with money, political or social connections to improve the standing of her family in society.

by Anonymousreply 374February 8, 2019 10:41 AM

Beautiful Elm trees lining every street. Too bad about the disease and lack of diversity in the plantings.

But I would miss Elm trees.

by Anonymousreply 375February 8, 2019 10:55 AM

Bleeding Kansas

Sherman's March to the Sea

Upper and Lower Canada

Saloons

Salons

Saint-Saens

by Anonymousreply 376February 8, 2019 11:57 AM

Musical recitals in the parlor

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by Anonymousreply 377February 8, 2019 1:08 PM

R373 - Grand Tours were also popular as honeymoons.

by Anonymousreply 378February 8, 2019 2:13 PM

I miss the tea dances.

by Anonymousreply 379February 8, 2019 2:14 PM

The Klondike gold rush. There's gold in them thar hills.

by Anonymousreply 380February 8, 2019 2:34 PM

Westward expansion as more people moved west for land, the Federal Gov't. continued to break their promises to the Indians and forced them off their lands.

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by Anonymousreply 381February 8, 2019 2:41 PM

The presentation of debutantes to the Queen (although to be fair this continued into the 20th century until it was discontinued after Edward VIII).

by Anonymousreply 382February 8, 2019 2:51 PM

[quote]Amazing to think that when people went out, even during the day, they were dressed in their best clothes, now look at us. We're slobs.

Yeah, but we're comfortable. I cannot imagine having to wear those kinds of clothes --- and without air conditioning.

by Anonymousreply 383February 8, 2019 2:58 PM

You see people out and about on summer days or on boardwalks or even sitting on lawns for picnics fully covered and they don't look at all uncomfortable. I mean we today would be so miserable.

by Anonymousreply 384February 8, 2019 3:12 PM

Getting away for the summer to your cottage in Newport, RI

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by Anonymousreply 385February 8, 2019 8:35 PM

There's a woman (probably more than one) on YouTube whose hobby is dressing in the style of different eras. Even though she shows all the layers worn my women in the past, she emphasizes how comfortable the clothing is because all the layers worn in the warm months are light cotton. Just because something's bulky doesn't make it hot.

by Anonymousreply 386February 8, 2019 9:09 PM

R386 - forgot that there would be no synthetic materials, which of course would make the materials more breathable.

by Anonymousreply 387February 9, 2019 1:04 AM

Most of the Newport mansions were achieved about 1900 or so, including the pictured Rosecliff.

by Anonymousreply 388February 9, 2019 1:08 AM

Isn't 1900 still the 19th Century?

by Anonymousreply 389February 9, 2019 1:10 AM

Mistaking the arsenic for sugar.

by Anonymousreply 390February 9, 2019 1:31 AM

Arguably 1900 only not 1901.

by Anonymousreply 391February 9, 2019 1:32 AM

Realistic and entertaining deadly mishaps in the modern Victorian home.

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by Anonymousreply 392February 9, 2019 1:35 AM

Harpsichords

by Anonymousreply 393February 9, 2019 5:02 AM

I miss the penny dreadfuls.

by Anonymousreply 394February 9, 2019 10:45 AM

Confederate "General" Julius Howell Recalls the 1860s

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by Anonymousreply 395February 9, 2019 11:31 AM

^^ they even talked different, more formal.

by Anonymousreply 396February 9, 2019 11:41 AM

I miss the shoes. They lasted forevah!

by Anonymousreply 397February 9, 2019 2:35 PM

Learning the newest songs from sheet music playing them on the piano.

by Anonymousreply 398February 9, 2019 6:31 PM

"I miss the shoes. They lasted forevah! "

No, but you kept them forever whether they lasted or not, because all shoes were handmade and much more comparatively expensive than today's shoes. If you couldn't afford a new pair of shoes you wore them while the heels were worn to a 45 degree angle and there were gaping holes in the soles, if you could afford to have them re-soled you did, and if not you just used cardboard as an insole to keep some of the snow out.

People just had fewer clothes and things, before the day of cheap mass production.

by Anonymousreply 399February 9, 2019 8:13 PM

No cure for STDs

by Anonymousreply 400February 9, 2019 8:16 PM

Actually, they used mercury to treat STDs, imagine dying of mercury poisoning too.

by Anonymousreply 401February 9, 2019 10:28 PM

Pining for the 18th century.

by Anonymousreply 402February 9, 2019 10:28 PM

Traveling to the Subcontinent.

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by Anonymousreply 403February 9, 2019 11:59 PM

People working to help the poor by visiting hospitals and orphanages and going around asking men like Ebenezer Scrooge for donations.

by Anonymousreply 404February 10, 2019 4:01 PM

I’m the typhus that deprived your family of life. They still live in the house by the railroad station.

by Anonymousreply 405February 10, 2019 5:10 PM

Climate change hadn't fucked things up yet.

by Anonymousreply 406February 11, 2019 7:24 PM

Irish roughs down at the New York docks.

by Anonymousreply 407February 11, 2019 7:32 PM

Knitting circles.

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by Anonymousreply 408February 11, 2019 9:31 PM

People who knew better trying to be better than their betters.

by Anonymousreply 409February 11, 2019 10:14 PM

Union Suits

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by Anonymousreply 410February 11, 2019 11:22 PM

Sunday in the park with George.

by Anonymousreply 411February 11, 2019 11:56 PM

People who speak English with a heavy Yiddish accent.

by Anonymousreply 412February 12, 2019 12:06 AM

The wild frontier.

by Anonymousreply 413February 12, 2019 2:26 AM

When the winters were cold enough to skate on the lakes in Central Park.

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by Anonymousreply 414February 12, 2019 11:37 AM

And even the Hudson would freeze over.

by Anonymousreply 415February 12, 2019 11:46 AM

Ambrose Bierce, the original grammar-troll.

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by Anonymousreply 416February 12, 2019 12:08 PM

Bitching about Prince Albert marrying into the royal family instead of Meghan Markle.

by Anonymousreply 417February 12, 2019 12:58 PM

R395, General Howe is a bore!

by Anonymousreply 418February 12, 2019 1:24 PM

The Ottoman Empire and sizemeat from the Levant!

by Anonymousreply 419February 12, 2019 1:31 PM

Celebrating Christmas before it became a commercial and retail holiday.

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by Anonymousreply 420February 12, 2019 3:38 PM

Rap music 150 years away.

by Anonymousreply 421February 12, 2019 7:12 PM

I miss the crisp breeze.

by Anonymousreply 422February 12, 2019 7:33 PM

Band concerts in the public gardens.

Ladies trying to shade their complexions rather than tanning them.

by Anonymousreply 423February 12, 2019 7:34 PM

Family portraits

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by Anonymousreply 424February 12, 2019 7:49 PM

figgy pudding

by Anonymousreply 425February 12, 2019 7:52 PM

Canning beets.

by Anonymousreply 426February 12, 2019 8:12 PM

R424 No wonder there are so many homely people today. I was wondering where they all came from.

by Anonymousreply 427February 12, 2019 8:28 PM

Making your own headcheese from the head of a real pig.

by Anonymousreply 428February 12, 2019 8:31 PM

The Early American antiques. They had so many back then!

by Anonymousreply 429February 12, 2019 8:32 PM

Insane Asylums

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by Anonymousreply 430February 13, 2019 8:37 PM

Seances

by Anonymousreply 431February 13, 2019 9:51 PM

Traveling circuses

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by Anonymousreply 432February 14, 2019 9:12 PM

The Crystal Palace Exhibition celebrating the industrial progress of mankind.

by Anonymousreply 433February 15, 2019 1:33 AM

Passing though Donner Pass before winter

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by Anonymousreply 434February 16, 2019 5:26 PM

Young ladies being taught to play the piano and sing as a matter of course.

by Anonymousreply 435February 17, 2019 3:03 PM

The Medicine Show coming to town.

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by Anonymousreply 436February 17, 2019 9:37 PM

Being able to say Pshaw ! when vexed.

by Anonymousreply 437February 17, 2019 10:20 PM

No fucking productions of King Lear with everyone in leather jackets.

by Anonymousreply 438February 17, 2019 11:23 PM

I agree. No Shakespeare history plays in which the nobility wear suits, ties and carry attache cases and smart phones.

by Anonymousreply 439February 18, 2019 1:47 PM

R439 - Too right. And not having to read claims by the directors that having an all-female cast of Julius Caesar and updating Richard III to fascist Germany will reveal tremendous new insights into the plays after 450 years that we didn't already know.

by Anonymousreply 440February 18, 2019 2:06 PM

The seasons-long all-male exploratory adventures in the uncharted territories that became total fuckfests.

by Anonymousreply 441February 18, 2019 2:11 PM

Boudoirs as normal retreats for the lady of the house.

by Anonymousreply 442February 18, 2019 2:49 PM

I miss all that good fiddle music.

by Anonymousreply 443February 18, 2019 2:57 PM

Manifest Destiny a widely held belief in the United States that its settlers were destined to expand across North America. ... The special virtues of the American people and their institutions.

by Anonymousreply 444February 18, 2019 4:17 PM

The White Man's Burden

by Anonymousreply 445February 18, 2019 7:27 PM

Grand staircases for making grand entrances at your party.

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by Anonymousreply 446February 19, 2019 3:09 PM

Capital punishment.

by Anonymousreply 447February 19, 2019 6:56 PM

Public hangings

by Anonymousreply 448February 20, 2019 12:34 PM

R448 - Not in Britain, just to be accurate.

by Anonymousreply 449February 20, 2019 12:40 PM

I miss the silence.

by Anonymousreply 450February 20, 2019 1:05 PM

The pain and the shame of a good old-fashioned public horse-whipping.

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by Anonymousreply 451February 20, 2019 1:58 PM

Taking the horse and buggy out for a Sunday ride.

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by Anonymousreply 452February 20, 2019 3:23 PM

Being ridden hard and put away wet.

by Anonymousreply 453February 20, 2019 5:33 PM

I miss taking brisk walks with Father.

by Anonymousreply 454February 20, 2019 5:38 PM

The stars at night were big and bright.

by Anonymousreply 455February 20, 2019 6:43 PM

Stereopticons

by Anonymousreply 456February 20, 2019 10:53 PM

Playing Puss in the Corner late into the night in the parlor with the family.

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by Anonymousreply 457February 20, 2019 11:06 PM

Long tedious evenings spent at house parties, playing charades and other children's games. Because one had to spend a certain amount of time with the company, before pretending to retire and fucking whoever you weren't supposed to fuck.

by Anonymousreply 458February 20, 2019 11:21 PM

Old-timey first (aka Christian) names - for example -

Girls: Dorcas, Drusilla, Griselda, Dymphna

Boys: Ebenezer, Gaylord, Chauncey, Cuthbert

by Anonymousreply 459February 21, 2019 2:09 PM

I miss the first snows of winter.

by Anonymousreply 460February 21, 2019 2:16 PM

Political cartoons that were better done than they are today.

Royal mistresses being no biggie.

by Anonymousreply 461February 21, 2019 3:03 PM

R455 I agree. How great to spend some time after night fall pointing out the various constellations. I haven't been able to see the big dipper for years because of the light pollution in my region.

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