Horse-drawn carriages
Passenger pigeons
Bloodletting
Laudanum
Male-only suffrage
Child labor
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Horse-drawn carriages
Passenger pigeons
Bloodletting
Laudanum
Male-only suffrage
Child labor
by Anonymous | reply 462 | February 21, 2019 11:52 PM |
Outhouses
by Anonymous | reply 1 | January 13, 2019 1:27 PM |
Open drains
by Anonymous | reply 2 | January 13, 2019 1:29 PM |
Those cute but crazy Brontes.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | January 13, 2019 1:35 PM |
No morbidly obese people
by Anonymous | reply 5 | January 13, 2019 1:36 PM |
Fainting couches and country estates stuffed with servants.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | January 13, 2019 1:37 PM |
The smell of horse manure wafting through the open windows in Spring...and the flies that come with it.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | January 13, 2019 1:59 PM |
[quote]Male-only suffrage
We could vote
by Anonymous | reply 8 | January 13, 2019 2:00 PM |
Smegma Cheese
Toe jam
Using corn Cobb's
REAL COKE COLA
by Anonymous | reply 9 | January 13, 2019 2:17 PM |
[quote] No morbidly obese people
Bugger off, peasant!
by Anonymous | reply 10 | January 13, 2019 2:20 PM |
Walt Whitman's blowjobs.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | January 13, 2019 4:40 PM |
Consumption
by Anonymous | reply 12 | January 13, 2019 4:43 PM |
Sleeping in the Lincoln Bedroom. With Lincoln.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | January 13, 2019 4:45 PM |
Patent medicines loaded with cocaine, morphine, and opium!!!
by Anonymous | reply 14 | January 13, 2019 5:26 PM |
I don't miss people emptying bedpans out windows.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | January 13, 2019 6:03 PM |
wood burning stoves
lice
the bathtub in the kitchen on Saturday night and Aunt Minnie pouring hot water on Uncle Stump's back.
watching Granny pop those big pussy boils on Grandpa's back.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | January 15, 2019 1:15 AM |
Bank failures and Great Depressions every decade or so.
Orphan trains.
Dead horses in the street, blowing up in the heat.
Surgery without benefit of anesthesia.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | January 15, 2019 1:26 AM |
The laudanum made everything else much easier to take.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | January 15, 2019 1:27 AM |
Stinky linky, R21.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | January 15, 2019 1:30 AM |
Opium dens
Those darling Victorian values
Cholera
by Anonymous | reply 24 | January 15, 2019 1:43 AM |
Whites only toilets
by Anonymous | reply 25 | January 15, 2019 1:56 AM |
I MISS THE MUSCULAR LADS AT THE GENTLEMEN’S COMMUNITY LEISURE CLUB WHO TAUGHT ME VARIOUS ATHLETIC ENDEAVORS SUCH AS BARE-HANDED FISTICUFFS AND INTRODUCED ME TO THE DELIGHTS OF THE BOTTLE UNTIL I HAD SUFFICIENT.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | January 15, 2019 2:02 AM |
Corsets
Petticoats
Dark night skies
Ormolu
by Anonymous | reply 28 | January 15, 2019 2:04 AM |
That hottie who was one of the Lincoln assassination conspirators! If only he had gotten life those other prisoners would have known how to handle him!
Sigh.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | January 15, 2019 2:06 AM |
The singular bath day of the week on the prairies where every member in the family used the same fetid water, except for Pa who got to enjoy his first and be the only one who really bathed clean. (Not that he ever filled the tub nor heated water in the kettle, nor carried the buckets from the stream; nor emptied the damn thing when everyone was done.)
by Anonymous | reply 30 | January 15, 2019 2:06 AM |
Mixed-race Native Americans trying to pass as “white” with no clue that their great great great grandchilden would one day try to do the exact opposite.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | January 15, 2019 4:23 AM |
The one drop rule... back then it meant something.
Whale oil lamps
Duels
by Anonymous | reply 32 | January 15, 2019 4:33 AM |
Pinafores
by Anonymous | reply 33 | January 15, 2019 4:34 AM |
Petticoats
Hoop skirts
Fans
by Anonymous | reply 34 | January 15, 2019 4:42 AM |
Colonies, white power and slavery
by Anonymous | reply 36 | January 15, 2019 6:11 AM |
Chamber pots under the bed.
And a maid to empty it, who got paid nothing but her meals and some old clothes.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | January 15, 2019 6:11 AM |
Robbers who would break into your home and bludgeon you and your whole family to death with the blunt side of an axe - YOUR axe - the one you carelessly left sitting on top of the woodpile.
Gilbert and Sullivan musicals.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | January 15, 2019 6:34 AM |
Stuffed birds decorating wide brimmed hats
Dingleberries stuck between your teeth
Love letters by telegraph
by Anonymous | reply 39 | January 15, 2019 6:48 AM |
The better servants.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | January 15, 2019 7:13 AM |
Child labor, and child servants working in your home.
People retiring at forty, because they were too old and broke down to keep working.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | January 15, 2019 7:34 AM |
I miss the smell of chamber pots,
The midnight shrieks of Ripper wenches,
The penny dreadfuls' lurid plots,
Be-wigged lords damning from their benches.
I miss the tune of fetid gas
That whistles from a rotting crook,
Dangling forlornly as its ass
Is pecked at by some sassy rook.
Gone are the days of filth and gore.
Sadly, those days will come no more.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | January 15, 2019 7:58 AM |
R38 - To be fair, we still have G&S operettas.
But I do miss the theatres with real torches circling the stage, risking stampedes after the curtains catch.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | January 15, 2019 12:50 PM |
Serialisation of "Sherlock Holmes" in The London Illustrated.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | January 15, 2019 12:57 PM |
Pellagra
Dropsy
Rickets
Scurvy
by Anonymous | reply 45 | January 15, 2019 2:25 PM |
The Pre-Raphaelite Brotherhood
by Anonymous | reply 46 | January 15, 2019 3:30 PM |
Thomas Hardy novels
by Anonymous | reply 47 | January 15, 2019 3:37 PM |
Real Kings and Queens.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | January 15, 2019 4:14 PM |
Regency everything.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | January 15, 2019 4:27 PM |
Reports from Darwin's voyages.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | January 15, 2019 4:29 PM |
Men who had sex with other men getting the death penalty! Those were the good old days!
by Anonymous | reply 51 | January 15, 2019 4:37 PM |
The higher child mortality rate.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | January 15, 2019 4:40 PM |
No Top 40 vapid pop music.
Fruit and vegetables probably tasted better - no GMOs
No shopping malls, parking lots, McMansions, freeways...
by Anonymous | reply 53 | January 15, 2019 4:43 PM |
Leeching as a medical treatment.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | January 15, 2019 4:44 PM |
Leather bars.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | January 15, 2019 4:45 PM |
Slavery
by Anonymous | reply 57 | January 15, 2019 4:46 PM |
Leprosy.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | January 15, 2019 4:48 PM |
Surgery done with (very flammable) ether and saws of various sizes.
Wait - I was in Africa about 20 years ago and observed surgery under ether, not a pretty sight.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | January 15, 2019 4:50 PM |
Literature - real literature: the Brontes, Hardy (mentioned above, credit where due), Eliot, Dickens (all right, maybe not Dickens), Carroll, Thackeray (has Vanity Fair EVER seemed more relevant?!), Stevenson . . . and abroad, Hugo, Dumas, Tolstoy, Zola, Balzac . . .
by Anonymous | reply 60 | January 15, 2019 5:23 PM |
Little girls being named Marigold, Pansy, Drusilla, Alice, Prudence, and Henrietta.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | January 15, 2019 6:10 PM |
Little boys dressed as little girls.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | January 15, 2019 6:25 PM |
Boys named Vivian, Evelyn, and Beverly.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | January 15, 2019 6:39 PM |
Dolls and other playthings that looked like they would kill you in your sleep.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | January 15, 2019 6:45 PM |
Ripper Terror.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | January 15, 2019 7:02 PM |
Castor oil as the cure all for all of life's ills.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | January 15, 2019 7:03 PM |
Dying of Tetanus or Rabies!
by Anonymous | reply 67 | January 15, 2019 8:20 PM |
The rise of psychology.
The rise of all that Occultism and the Oxford Golden Dawn Society.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | January 15, 2019 8:28 PM |
The clop of horses hooves on the streets.
Fireplaces actually being used to heat living spaces.
Coal hods.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | January 15, 2019 8:39 PM |
Organ grinders with monkeys.
And don't forget vendors calling out their wares in the streets - through streets broad and narrow.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | January 15, 2019 8:40 PM |
This thread has unearthed all the goths lurking on DL.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | January 15, 2019 9:03 PM |
Smelling salts.
Fans.
Watch brooches nestled in the lace of ladies' dresses.
Velvet ribbons around the throat.
White gloves for men going to a ball.
R71 - Oh, dear, and I thought we were being so clever!
by Anonymous | reply 72 | January 15, 2019 9:10 PM |
Neo-Gothic architecture.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | January 15, 2019 9:15 PM |
"Dropsy" is my favorite name for a disease, R45.
It sounds both cute and lethal.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | January 15, 2019 9:27 PM |
Consumption
Rats
Plague
People coughing up bloody mucus and running fevers dropping dead in the streets.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | January 15, 2019 9:30 PM |
Post-mortem photos of loved ones posed in lifelike positions with eyes painted on the eyelids.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | January 15, 2019 9:32 PM |
Fig leaves over genitalia in museums and art galleries.
The fracas over Turner's work.
Top hats and frock coats.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | January 15, 2019 9:35 PM |
Madonna's early albums.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | January 15, 2019 9:49 PM |
R78 - Meowwwwwwww!
by Anonymous | reply 79 | January 15, 2019 9:56 PM |
The waltz, the quadrille, the mazurka, and the two-step.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | January 15, 2019 9:59 PM |
Going to the seaside to take the "waters" for one's health.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | January 15, 2019 10:13 PM |
Swallowing one's earrings as a method of committing suicide.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | January 15, 2019 10:23 PM |
My laudanum craving is off the charts. I also want some of that cough syrup r86
by Anonymous | reply 87 | January 15, 2019 10:39 PM |
Children routinely eaten by wolves
Jewelry made out of human hair.
Being able to dress as a Moor for Hallowe’en.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | January 15, 2019 10:45 PM |
Using newspapers before toilet paper came along.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | January 15, 2019 11:51 PM |
Ladies carrying lace handkerchiefs al the time.
Laundresses.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | January 16, 2019 12:16 AM |
Dear Lord in Heaven!
by Anonymous | reply 91 | January 16, 2019 12:18 AM |
Coffins with bells attached in case the person about to be buried is still alive.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | January 16, 2019 12:20 AM |
Daguerreotype porn.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | January 16, 2019 12:29 AM |
Belief in faeries at the bottom of the garden. And along those lines;
a great flowering of children's lit in England: MacDonald, Burnett, Kipling, Pyle, and E. Nesbit (although her stuff bled over into the Edwardian era).
by Anonymous | reply 94 | January 16, 2019 1:19 AM |
Long earrings.
Caftans over corsets.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | January 16, 2019 1:20 AM |
Oh Mother! You’re so 19th Century!
by Anonymous | reply 96 | January 16, 2019 1:23 AM |
Boot scrapers, butter churns, bidets and bustles
Taffeta petticoats, crinoline rustles
Chamber pots gleaming, to welcome my piss
These are a few of the things that I miss...
by Anonymous | reply 97 | January 16, 2019 1:26 AM |
All that Guards cock in late night Hyde Park.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | January 16, 2019 1:29 AM |
Unburying a relative to wash the bones and find the body contorted as they had been buried alive and had not been saved by the bell.
As I guess somebody forgot it. I mean you really have to have a check list to avoid these mishaps.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | January 16, 2019 1:38 AM |
R98, no need to miss that. Just go to Hyde Park.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | January 16, 2019 1:39 AM |
R97 a catchy cadence!
by Anonymous | reply 101 | January 16, 2019 1:41 AM |
The Vapours
Female Hysteria
Slave auctions ( Mandingo etc.)
by Anonymous | reply 102 | January 16, 2019 1:55 AM |
Poll taxes to stop black people from voting
by Anonymous | reply 103 | January 16, 2019 2:59 AM |
R103 - Oh, we took a stab at that here in the 20th century for different reasons - it was intended to make rates more fair but actually stuck it to the less well off (naturally, and who told them they should have it easier?!).
Bloody rioters.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | January 16, 2019 6:27 PM |
No ban on ivory.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | January 16, 2019 8:48 PM |
Homes decorated with framed photographs of deceased family members, taken after they had died.
by Anonymous | reply 106 | January 16, 2019 8:51 PM |
Nothing
by Anonymous | reply 107 | January 16, 2019 9:21 PM |
John Gielgud asked his mother what she missed most about the 19th Century and she said the food. Though looking today at those menus and recipes it seems unappealing to our palates.
by Anonymous | reply 109 | January 16, 2019 9:25 PM |
Being able to use up your wife's assets before the advent of the Married Women's Property Act in the later part of the century.
by Anonymous | reply 110 | January 16, 2019 9:49 PM |
Steam without punk.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | January 16, 2019 9:51 PM |
R111 - The Empire.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | January 16, 2019 9:53 PM |
R111 - Apologies, that was meant to be a solo post, not a reply to yours.
R112
by Anonymous | reply 113 | January 16, 2019 9:53 PM |
Duels (suspect this faded after the first half, though)
The rise of Romanticism in music.
by Anonymous | reply 114 | January 16, 2019 9:55 PM |
Limited war.
Places one could not reach.
Terra incognita.
Seasonal fruit ONLY.
Black armbands.
Women who spoke intelligently, conversed with interest and care, avoided topics concerning their menstrual issues, and listened to what others said.
Affordable street hustlers/naive and eager lads.
by Anonymous | reply 115 | January 16, 2019 9:56 PM |
DataLounge: The Telegraph Years
by Anonymous | reply 116 | January 16, 2019 9:56 PM |
Cocaine and opiates being available through the Sears and Roebuck catalog that also served the bathroom.
Muffs, bustles and parasols
Wax roll phonographs
by Anonymous | reply 117 | January 16, 2019 9:58 PM |
The irony of Her Majesty Victoria, by the Grace of God, of the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Ireland Queen, Defender of the Faith, Empress of India, expecting women to know their place.
by Anonymous | reply 118 | January 16, 2019 9:59 PM |
Tops.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | January 16, 2019 9:59 PM |
Passenger pigeons and Carolina parakeets.
No starlings in the Western Hemisphere.
Old San Francisco.
Gunts from having 12 children and not from being worthlessly obese owing to chocolate doughnuts.
Madras as it was!
by Anonymous | reply 120 | January 16, 2019 10:02 PM |
r102 But don't you have all of those things now, Miss Lindsey?
by Anonymous | reply 121 | January 16, 2019 10:12 PM |
Prussia
The Kingdom of the Two Sicilies
54-40 or Fight!
The Ottoman Empire
Maximilian and Carlota
by Anonymous | reply 122 | January 16, 2019 10:14 PM |
old Erna still had her own teeth
by Anonymous | reply 123 | January 16, 2019 10:17 PM |
Social salons where the intelligentsia gathered to smoke and sort out the world.
by Anonymous | reply 124 | January 16, 2019 10:18 PM |
Popular culture that did not include Bonnie Franklin or "One Day at a Time."
by Anonymous | reply 125 | January 16, 2019 10:22 PM |
Tiger caps, snow leopard jackets and cheetah muffs.
by Anonymous | reply 126 | January 16, 2019 10:23 PM |
Jack the Ripper.
by Anonymous | reply 127 | January 16, 2019 10:23 PM |
People who actually remembered the Alamo.
by Anonymous | reply 128 | January 16, 2019 10:24 PM |
Seeing the South burning and utterly destroyed.
by Anonymous | reply 129 | January 16, 2019 10:25 PM |
Yellow Jack!
by Anonymous | reply 130 | January 16, 2019 10:25 PM |
Ante bellum barbecues with handsome strapping young men in their tailcoats and boots.
by Anonymous | reply 131 | January 16, 2019 10:33 PM |
Benjamin Disraeli
Bloomsbury when it really felt like Bloomsbury
by Anonymous | reply 132 | January 16, 2019 10:34 PM |
Opening night at the Met. I mean literally opening night at the Met.
by Anonymous | reply 133 | January 16, 2019 10:38 PM |
R133 - And latching on to your post:
Women draped in jewels and gowns at the Opera (I assume you meant the Metropolitan Opera at its first location in New York City).
Lorgnettes
Edith Wharton's New York.
by Anonymous | reply 134 | January 16, 2019 10:42 PM |
The opening of the Pinkerton's Detective Agency
Beaver hats and then silk hats
by Anonymous | reply 135 | January 16, 2019 10:47 PM |
Ear trumpets. I could use one.
by Anonymous | reply 136 | January 16, 2019 11:19 PM |
R131 and nothing else
by Anonymous | reply 138 | January 16, 2019 11:49 PM |
Separate bedrooms for marrieds.
by Anonymous | reply 139 | January 17, 2019 12:21 AM |
"Women who spoke intelligently, conversed with interest and care, avoided topics concerning their menstrual issues, and listened to what others said."
Spoke intelligently? Many women couldn't even read back then. I see the Republicans have weighed in.
by Anonymous | reply 140 | January 17, 2019 1:39 AM |
Trepanning.
by Anonymous | reply 141 | January 17, 2019 1:50 AM |
Married people still have separate bedrooms. There's also the couch for men.
by Anonymous | reply 142 | January 17, 2019 2:53 AM |
Fainting couches
by Anonymous | reply 143 | January 17, 2019 2:55 AM |
Oil lamps at the top of the stairs.
Seven-course dinners for the upper classes.
Pigeon pie.
by Anonymous | reply 144 | January 17, 2019 8:14 PM |
Women's fashion covering them from neck to ankles. And no, I'm not a misogynist . I've just always found this style of dress to be the most flattering on women.
by Anonymous | reply 145 | January 17, 2019 8:19 PM |
"Many women couldn't even read back then."
Not true at all. Literacy rates were in fact probably higher than they are now.
by Anonymous | reply 146 | January 17, 2019 10:17 PM |
R145 - LOL - probably covered a multitude of flaws.
The term paterfamilias when it still meant something benign.
Parasols as a de rigueur item of dress in the summer
Letter writing as the primary form of long-distance communication.
by Anonymous | reply 147 | January 17, 2019 10:18 PM |
Debtors Prison
by Anonymous | reply 148 | January 17, 2019 10:19 PM |
Arranged marriages.
Families of 10 or 20 children.
Being treated to a "Grand Tour" of Europe by your parents when you were young, so you could become familiar with all the places a gentleman ought to be familiar with.
Women putting their hair up when they were old enough to look for a husband.
And "coming out" meaning that a girl was leaving the nursery and entering adult life, and looking for a husband.
by Anonymous | reply 149 | January 17, 2019 11:07 PM |
Another nod to the now extinct Carolina Parakeet.
by Anonymous | reply 150 | January 17, 2019 11:15 PM |
The names Maria and Sophia, pronounced with a long-I.
by Anonymous | reply 152 | January 18, 2019 12:13 AM |
Child living spaces in middle-class households being called "the nursery".
Nursery maids taking childen in little hats and capes out to places like Kensington Gardens.
The tenants tugging their forelocks when the Lord of the Manor comes by. (The male ones, that is.)
Men actually wearing deerstalker hats out in the country, just like Sherlock.
by Anonymous | reply 153 | January 18, 2019 12:29 AM |
Workhouses
Insane asylums
by Anonymous | reply 154 | January 18, 2019 1:06 AM |
Olive Oatman and her tragic tattoo. It's a wonderful (but very sad) story and book. I always enjoy chatting with the British and Irish members of DL. Every now, and then, I can't help wishing one of them would read a story from US history. I know our crap dominates the airwaves and all, but a very real, authentic story of American life (to be honest, most Americans need to read something like that). I actually do read British histories, now and then.
by Anonymous | reply 155 | January 18, 2019 1:12 AM |
"Not true at all. Literacy rates were in fact probably higher than they are now."
Wrong.
by Anonymous | reply 156 | January 18, 2019 2:33 AM |
Piano keys made of actual ivory.
by Anonymous | reply 157 | January 18, 2019 5:29 AM |
Literacy rates in the 19th century were probably higher than ours today.
by Anonymous | reply 158 | January 18, 2019 6:23 AM |
Duels Andrew Jackson style - if your opponent took their shot and didn't kill you, he'd have to stand there while you took yours.
Your ancestors standing still for five minutes in their best outfit for the one photograph taken in their lifetime - and they still have a greasy slicked-down mop of hair.
by Anonymous | reply 160 | January 18, 2019 8:48 AM |
Lard, for cooking.
Butter, for eating.
No antibiotics.
A (male) life expectancy of 45.
Sterile procedures, including washing of hands, mostly unheard of.
Death in childbirth rampant.
by Anonymous | reply 161 | January 18, 2019 10:40 AM |
Living in a sod house and liking it.
by Anonymous | reply 162 | January 18, 2019 12:27 PM |
R161 - Departure for factoid here on the childbirth issue: although ether was available, it was generally withheld from women in childbirth, as the dim idea from the Old Testament "in sorrow shalt thou bring forth children" still held some force. Queen Victoria, however, said, "Bollocks to that, bring that ether or you'll find your head on a spike on the entrance to the Tower." So they did, and when she did it, it be came "acceptable" for other women to have their labour pain relieved, as well.
Telling time by real clocks that chimed.
by Anonymous | reply 163 | January 18, 2019 1:18 PM |
Seeing the night skies blanketed by stars.
No rap music.
by Anonymous | reply 164 | January 18, 2019 5:51 PM |
US Weekly has Meghan on the cover with the title "Her Side of the Story", but above it are the words, Shallow? Greedy? Social Climber?
Don't doubt that inside they line up with Meghan, but I wonder if they realise that a good many people who don't read US as they move through the checkout line will only remember Meghan's face with Shallow? Greedy? Social Climber? above it.
Wonder if it's deliberate.
by Anonymous | reply 165 | January 18, 2019 11:03 PM |
Well, damn it all to hell I've posted on the wrong thread, again.
Apologies, again, for posting on the wrong thread.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | January 18, 2019 11:04 PM |
I thought you missed the nonexistence in the 19th century of US Weekly.
by Anonymous | reply 167 | January 18, 2019 11:25 PM |
Trips to the woodshed. Being seen and not heard. The swimming hole.
by Anonymous | reply 168 | January 18, 2019 11:46 PM |
lethal syphilis
by Anonymous | reply 169 | January 19, 2019 12:01 AM |
R164 Thanks for the memory. The night sky full of stars persisted into my childhood living on the Canadian prairies and I have encountered it since : in the Darien region of Panama, but it's becoming a rare phenomenon. Where I live now I'm lucky if I can see Venus.
by Anonymous | reply 170 | January 19, 2019 12:16 AM |
Boys wearing short pants until puberty.
by Anonymous | reply 171 | January 19, 2019 12:20 AM |
I've seen in old movies (costume dramas) young unmarried women being completely covered up while older women (eg. in their fifties, sixties) wore low cut gowns -- a frightening fashion trend if it was real.
by Anonymous | reply 172 | January 19, 2019 12:29 AM |
Pffft. No internet in the 19th century. I don't know how people survived.
by Anonymous | reply 173 | January 19, 2019 12:35 AM |
Not having a wise mammy who knows my foibles but loves me and cares about me all the same.
by Anonymous | reply 174 | January 19, 2019 12:46 AM |
R167 - LOL. More than compensated by the Illustrated London News.
by Anonymous | reply 175 | January 19, 2019 2:16 AM |
R155, thanks for the recommendation, and if you'd like to add any others, please do.
by Anonymous | reply 176 | January 19, 2019 11:45 PM |
The unquestioned class system.
Men not expected to be sensitive alphas.
Hard boundaries between public and private life.
John Ruskin
Queen Victoria
by Anonymous | reply 177 | January 20, 2019 3:24 PM |
Men not leaving the house without jackets. Watch the very great Coleman in The Late George Apley.
by Anonymous | reply 178 | January 20, 2019 4:33 PM |
Nobody leaving the house without a hat, ever, under any circumstances.
Not just because sunglasses and sunblock hadn't been invented, but because a bare head made you underdressed. Of course in earlier centuries, a bare head was thought of as indecent.
by Anonymous | reply 179 | January 20, 2019 6:40 PM |
Wearing ten layers of clothing including a wool jacket, at the height of summer.
by Anonymous | reply 180 | January 20, 2019 6:42 PM |
Jim Crow
by Anonymous | reply 181 | January 20, 2019 8:07 PM |
Coca Cola with real coke.
by Anonymous | reply 182 | January 20, 2019 8:16 PM |
Going to the outhouse in January.
by Anonymous | reply 183 | January 20, 2019 8:19 PM |
Waiting for the next serialized installment of one of Mr. Charles Dickens's sensational novels.
by Anonymous | reply 184 | January 20, 2019 9:24 PM |
God forbid a woman was without a hat. That meant she was fast. And not in a good way.
by Anonymous | reply 185 | January 20, 2019 9:43 PM |
Exclaiming," Oh, Fiddledeedee"! after looking at the result of sashaying across the street in a hoop skirt, ankle deep in horse shit.
by Anonymous | reply 186 | January 20, 2019 9:47 PM |
Real tea time, by the fireside.
by Anonymous | reply 187 | January 21, 2019 3:58 PM |
r186, I still do that.
by Anonymous | reply 188 | January 21, 2019 3:59 PM |
R188 - Where did you come by it? The hooped skirt I mean, not the horseshit.
by Anonymous | reply 189 | January 21, 2019 4:37 PM |
Bathing once a month.
by Anonymous | reply 190 | January 21, 2019 5:07 PM |
Fireflies lighting up the night sky in summer,
by Anonymous | reply 191 | January 21, 2019 5:54 PM |
Cowboy square dances by the campfire. And then the orgy following it.
by Anonymous | reply 192 | January 21, 2019 6:04 PM |
Needing a ladies' maid just to get your hair up properly.
by Anonymous | reply 193 | January 21, 2019 6:19 PM |
Buttonhooks.
by Anonymous | reply 194 | January 21, 2019 7:02 PM |
Whalebone corsets
by Anonymous | reply 195 | January 21, 2019 7:04 PM |
Constantly having to revive fainting women and being expected to carry smelling salts, because no woman of fashion could breathe.
by Anonymous | reply 198 | January 21, 2019 7:18 PM |
All the women having marvellous complexions.
by Anonymous | reply 199 | January 21, 2019 7:26 PM |
Moor murders.
by Anonymous | reply 200 | January 23, 2019 6:40 PM |
Discovering gold.
by Anonymous | reply 201 | January 24, 2019 3:13 AM |
R201 - Following your lead: the creation of pinchbeck so the middle-classes could wear lower priced jewellery that looked like gold.
And natural rather than cultured pearl jewellery.
by Anonymous | reply 202 | January 24, 2019 3:17 PM |
Hats with ostrich plumes.
No ban on ivory.
by Anonymous | reply 203 | January 24, 2019 3:44 PM |
One room school houses.
by Anonymous | reply 204 | January 24, 2019 4:27 PM |
Separation of the sexes after Dinner.
by Anonymous | reply 205 | January 24, 2019 4:49 PM |
Town criers.
by Anonymous | reply 206 | January 24, 2019 5:50 PM |
Widows wearing black for a year with those little veils at the back of their hats. (The way Gene Tierney looks when she first looks at the house in "The Ghost and Mrs Muir").
After one year, they can move on to lilac and lavender and mauve.
by Anonymous | reply 208 | January 25, 2019 12:17 AM |
Women who liked sex being thought of as inherently immoral.
by Anonymous | reply 209 | January 25, 2019 12:23 AM |
Actresses and dancers costumes catching fire and burning to death in front of a live audience, which is what happens when your footlights are open gas flames and the ladies onstage are wearing huge full skirts.
No, really! It happened!
by Anonymous | reply 211 | January 25, 2019 4:04 AM |
Milk in glass bottles (although we did have that well into the 20th century).
Rules about what one wore in the country as opposed to the city (as Lady Bellamy's rule had it, "No diamonds in the country.")
The lack of a need for gun laws.
Respect for rural life.
Belief in the power of "the waters".
by Anonymous | reply 212 | January 25, 2019 3:50 PM |
One thing I didn't like: Hordes of subhuman Irish and Italians flooding this great country with their popish ways.
by Anonymous | reply 213 | January 25, 2019 4:22 PM |
INCESTUOUS RAPE IN THE WILDERNESS
TUBERCULOSIS ASYLUMS
BORDELLOS
OCTOROONS
by Anonymous | reply 214 | January 25, 2019 5:22 PM |
HAVING A WHORE WASH YOUR COCK TO CHECK FOR STD'S,
by Anonymous | reply 215 | January 25, 2019 5:25 PM |
"Belief in the power of "the waters".
A lot of these places where one went to "take the waters" offered mineral water which contained sulfur, among other elements. In the days before antibiotics, drinking water containing sulfur or bathing in sulfur water might have been a help in fighting any bacterial infections one had. Some bacteria are sensitive to sulfur, and there's an entire class of sulfanilamide antibiotics in use today.
by Anonymous | reply 216 | January 25, 2019 7:06 PM |
Sunday dinner.
by Anonymous | reply 217 | January 27, 2019 5:51 PM |
Help who would work for room and board and a dollar a day.
by Anonymous | reply 218 | January 27, 2019 6:01 PM |
Ah yes, Sunday dinner, a big meal taken on the Lord's Day, a mandated day of rest and prayer... except for the servants who had to cook it! Nah, those servants got their half-day off on Wednesday or Thursday, and worked dawn to bedtime on the Lord's Day.
Jewish families at least had their servants rest on the Shabbat (except for the odd Shabbas Goy), and meals were actually prepared beforehand. Look at any traditional Jewish cookbook and you'll see recipes for slow-cooked stews and things that could be kept overnight warm for Saturday lunch.
by Anonymous | reply 219 | January 27, 2019 6:25 PM |
White Britain.
by Anonymous | reply 220 | January 29, 2019 8:57 PM |
Separation of the upper class from the servant class.
by Anonymous | reply 221 | January 29, 2019 9:14 PM |
Buggery in the stables of an English Country House
by Anonymous | reply 222 | January 29, 2019 9:50 PM |
No income taxes, no real estate taxes.
by Anonymous | reply 223 | January 29, 2019 9:57 PM |
R223 - That alone is worth investing in a Time Machine.
by Anonymous | reply 224 | January 29, 2019 10:11 PM |
Upper-class boys' boarding schools, where buggery, "fagging", and corporal punishment abounded.
by Anonymous | reply 225 | January 29, 2019 11:40 PM |
Really nice china, silver, and napery, and no paper plates and napkins and cups.
by Anonymous | reply 226 | January 30, 2019 7:54 PM |
Bearding in a sham marriage was acceptable as long as you had children to continue the family line.
by Anonymous | reply 227 | January 30, 2019 11:32 PM |
Arsenic in my cupboard.
by Anonymous | reply 228 | January 30, 2019 11:51 PM |
R228 - And laudanum.
by Anonymous | reply 229 | January 31, 2019 1:05 AM |
Patent medicines guaranteeing to cure you of many ills but do absolutely northing.
by Anonymous | reply 230 | January 31, 2019 11:10 AM |
When all the women who wore silk or velvet knew all the other women who wore silk or velvet, and everybody knew everybody else’s family horse and carriage.
by Anonymous | reply 231 | January 31, 2019 11:49 AM |
Calling cards if the person you wanted to visit was not home or indisposed you could leave your card with a brief message.
by Anonymous | reply 232 | January 31, 2019 3:54 PM |
r232 But only if they were placed on a silver salver presented by one's butler.
by Anonymous | reply 233 | January 31, 2019 4:30 PM |
Ladies who couldn't afford silk petticoats shoving sheets of newspaper under their skirts, because that'd make a rustling sound similar to that of genuine silk petticoats.
These days, that'd be called a "life hack for the aspirational".
by Anonymous | reply 234 | January 31, 2019 6:36 PM |
R232 - On "at home" days only, of course!
by Anonymous | reply 235 | January 31, 2019 9:41 PM |
I love you, R231.
by Anonymous | reply 236 | January 31, 2019 9:49 PM |
Smoking opium in the opium den.
by Anonymous | reply 237 | February 1, 2019 6:25 PM |
Steerage Class
by Anonymous | reply 238 | February 1, 2019 6:48 PM |
A set of matching monogramed luggage from steamer trunks down to hat boxes all with the same design and engraved with your initials.
by Anonymous | reply 239 | February 1, 2019 6:55 PM |
R239 - Add handkerchiefs and in some cases bed linen and foundation garments labelled with embroidered initials. (Cf. the First Mrs De Winter's knickers preserved and as proudly displayed by Mrs Danvers to the demoralised Second Mrs De Winter).
by Anonymous | reply 240 | February 1, 2019 9:26 PM |
The men were hotter back then.
by Anonymous | reply 241 | February 1, 2019 10:14 PM |
R241 There were more uncut men back then.
by Anonymous | reply 242 | February 2, 2019 12:18 PM |
If you were a part of the small middle class you could still afford a few servants such as a cook and a house maid.
by Anonymous | reply 243 | February 2, 2019 12:43 PM |
Ah the good old days. Any body need a camel jockey? I'm good.
by Anonymous | reply 244 | February 2, 2019 1:01 PM |
R244 -The modern Republic of Sudan was founded in 1966, inheriting Anglo-Egyptian boundaries established in1899. But Sudan, the region, was founded in the 16th century. It's probably a safe bet that your basic South Sudanese child was better off in 1819 than 2019, before Europe got there and it was entwined politically instead with Egypt. Life was probably never easy in the area, but maybe you should rethink your post.
by Anonymous | reply 245 | February 2, 2019 3:11 PM |
I miss the Pony Express riders. They had nice asses.
by Anonymous | reply 246 | February 2, 2019 4:10 PM |
Water so foul it required whiskey to be potable.
Ringworm that made bare feet winters tolerable.
by Anonymous | reply 247 | February 2, 2019 4:22 PM |
The Great Auk
by Anonymous | reply 248 | February 2, 2019 4:25 PM |
I miss the technology.
by Anonymous | reply 249 | February 2, 2019 4:27 PM |
Le Lounge au Data - originally chalk marks left near a latrine - tracking size and girth.
It was in bad French - and required too much space. Ex: “#sixty thirteen - 😲
by Anonymous | reply 250 | February 2, 2019 4:36 PM |
I miss sleeping five to a bed.
by Anonymous | reply 251 | February 2, 2019 4:43 PM |
No tighty whities and high wasted pants, every man showed a basket. This is why when you bought a suit the tailor asked if you "dressed on the right or left" depending on which pant leg you let it hang.
by Anonymous | reply 252 | February 2, 2019 4:47 PM |
Carriage houses.
by Anonymous | reply 253 | February 2, 2019 5:12 PM |
I miss making out with the hot daddy next door over by the pump house.
by Anonymous | reply 254 | February 2, 2019 5:59 PM |
Yes, R252, elastic had yet to be invented and everything was held up with laces and buttons. Everything was... looser.
by Anonymous | reply 255 | February 2, 2019 6:10 PM |
Patriotism
by Anonymous | reply 256 | February 2, 2019 6:24 PM |
Velvet smoking jackets.
Braiding.
by Anonymous | reply 257 | February 2, 2019 6:50 PM |
Bunting.
by Anonymous | reply 258 | February 2, 2019 6:58 PM |
Wow, DLers are younger than I thought.
by Anonymous | reply 259 | February 2, 2019 6:59 PM |
Oratory
by Anonymous | reply 260 | February 2, 2019 7:00 PM |
With the exception of the very rich, people owned less stuff but what they had was of the best quality they could afford.
by Anonymous | reply 261 | February 2, 2019 7:05 PM |
People who put on their long john under wear at the first frost and took them off again in the spring. It was heaven for a stank queen!
by Anonymous | reply 262 | February 2, 2019 7:05 PM |
I miss Martin Van Buren.
by Anonymous | reply 263 | February 2, 2019 7:09 PM |
I miss Gladstone and Disrael and Queen Victoria and seeing early photos of her and her daughter in law, Princess Alexandra, draped in enough diamonds and pearls to sink the Titanic a short time later.
by Anonymous | reply 264 | February 2, 2019 7:50 PM |
*Disraeli
by Anonymous | reply 265 | February 2, 2019 10:45 PM |
That approach to architecture which consisted of throwing the last 500 years to a wall and seeing what stuck.
by Anonymous | reply 266 | February 3, 2019 2:08 AM |
Barnum' s Museum
Lillian Russell
Sarah Berndhardt
Minstrel shows
Smelling salts
Fainting couches
Tent revival meetings and plays
Vaudeville
The dodo bird
Gilbert and Sullivan
Uncle Tom's Cabin (the book and many plays)
by Anonymous | reply 267 | February 3, 2019 2:32 AM |
Velocipedes
by Anonymous | reply 268 | February 3, 2019 4:16 AM |
[quote]If you were a part of the small middle class you could still afford a few servants such as a cook and a house maid.
You needed them because keeping even a modestly nice house involved a lot of manual labor. There were a lot of needy single women out there to take on the role of cook or maid just to be able to eat and live indoors.
by Anonymous | reply 269 | February 3, 2019 4:23 AM |
Clothes were tailored to your dimensions there were no racks of standard size clothes. Custom tailoring was the norm not the exception.
by Anonymous | reply 270 | February 3, 2019 10:44 AM |
R267 I'm afraid the dodo had already gone the way of the dodo by the 19th century.
by Anonymous | reply 271 | February 3, 2019 1:25 PM |
Being able to randomly clobber other people's kids in the street.
by Anonymous | reply 272 | February 3, 2019 1:28 PM |
Mule trains. They had great asses.
by Anonymous | reply 273 | February 3, 2019 1:42 PM |
Everything was hand crafted and very affordable.
by Anonymous | reply 274 | February 3, 2019 4:29 PM |
Illiterate servants. If you wanted the cook to learn a new recipe, you had to read it to her.
by Anonymous | reply 275 | February 3, 2019 8:28 PM |
Discussing the operas of that new composer Verdi and how he was stealing from Meyerbeer and Donizetti.
by Anonymous | reply 276 | February 3, 2019 9:18 PM |
People knowing their place.
Men of the church knowing what was best because they got it direct from God.
Slapping children around because well they deserve it no matter what they did or because you were in a lousy mood and the concept of child abuse not existing.
Being very poor and maiming your child so that when you begged for alms you'd get a better take.
by Anonymous | reply 277 | February 3, 2019 9:26 PM |
I miss the spiritualists who helped me contact my deceased little brother who died of red measles.
by Anonymous | reply 278 | February 3, 2019 9:55 PM |
White Privilege
by Anonymous | reply 279 | February 3, 2019 9:59 PM |
Whist tournaments. Horehound hard candies. Whale oil lamps.
The ribbon clerk at Whitney's Notions that would meet me behind the gasometer at the edge of town...
by Anonymous | reply 280 | February 3, 2019 10:01 PM |
Mens Clubs that did not permit women on the premises.
by Anonymous | reply 281 | February 3, 2019 10:14 PM |
Beautiful hats made from the corpses of rare birds.
by Anonymous | reply 283 | February 3, 2019 11:41 PM |
I miss the overall sassiness of the century. A certain naughtiness, if you will.
by Anonymous | reply 284 | February 3, 2019 11:46 PM |
Really? Well I found it all rather common and too often lugubrious.
by Anonymous | reply 285 | February 4, 2019 1:59 AM |
R274 -
"The golf links lay so near the mill
That almost every day
The labouring children can look out
And see the men at play."
Sarah Cleghorn
by Anonymous | reply 286 | February 4, 2019 2:44 AM |
[quote]Male-only suffrage
Like Republicans a lot, do ya?
Oh, and fuck you.
by Anonymous | reply 287 | February 4, 2019 3:09 AM |
I miss my wild weekends with Walt Whitman.
by Anonymous | reply 288 | February 4, 2019 12:05 PM |
R287 - Good God, get over yourself - this thread is loaded with ironic comments. The state of 19th cyentury dentistry alone would stop most of us from using a time machine to go back there - really, the title of the thread should have told you something.
I mean, did you really think people were missing outdoor lavs, cholera outbreaks, etc.?!
by Anonymous | reply 289 | February 4, 2019 12:39 PM |
OP you listed in the Guinness Book of Records?
by Anonymous | reply 290 | February 4, 2019 12:45 PM |
The constant tours of Our American Cousin which I saw many times. It was hilarious. Of course Abe getting himself knocked off ruined that but once the country moves on it will again take its place as a comic staple.
by Anonymous | reply 292 | February 4, 2019 6:19 PM |
Our American Cousin was one of those naughty but nice sex comedies where the heroine pushing 30 realizes that marriage with someone she loves is more important than losing her virginity to a wealthy middle aged roué. Lots of double entendres and a tired businessman's idea of an entertaining show which his wife wouldn't object to. I'm not sure if it would be successful today.
by Anonymous | reply 293 | February 4, 2019 6:36 PM |
[quote]The constant tours of Our American Cousin which I saw many times.
Do you think it would work as a rap musical?
by Anonymous | reply 295 | February 4, 2019 7:28 PM |
Can we do a "Things you miss about the 14th century" thread after this? (or 15th, 16th, whatever)
by Anonymous | reply 296 | February 4, 2019 9:08 PM |
Beethoven. He (and Mozart) died way too soon. Think of all of the beautiful music we missed out on.
by Anonymous | reply 297 | February 4, 2019 9:30 PM |
Burning one's under garments.
by Anonymous | reply 298 | February 4, 2019 9:32 PM |
Crinoline hoop skirts were the height of fashion for a while.
by Anonymous | reply 299 | February 4, 2019 9:34 PM |
R297 - Mozart was 18th century, he died before 1800. (And, we're still listening to him.)
But we got the rise of Brahms (my man - he looked like Viggo Mortensen when young, no, he really did!), Mendelssohn, Schumann, Schubert, Dvorak, the Russians - in short, the rise of Romanticism as Europe's music broke away from the domination of the German standard of "pure" music (i.e., non-programmatic, except for opera).
The flowering of art, music, and literature in the 19th century has, in my opinion, never been matched.
by Anonymous | reply 300 | February 4, 2019 9:42 PM |
Hastening to add re my tag line that I know Prokofiev died in the 20th century, along with Stravinsky. But they were still rooted in the 19th century musically - I count them as bridges between the two centuries.
R300
by Anonymous | reply 301 | February 4, 2019 9:44 PM |
R300 Of course, I know Mozart died in the 18th century - which is why I just said Beethoven. Mozart was part of the parenthetical to convey how he was lost too soon nonetheless.
by Anonymous | reply 302 | February 4, 2019 10:47 PM |
I do love Brahms though (Hungarian Dance No. 5 is one of my favorite songs). I am partial to Baroque and Classical composer though (Bach, Haydn, Beethoven, Mozart).
by Anonymous | reply 303 | February 4, 2019 10:51 PM |
Adding: going to start listening to more Prokofiev and Stravinsky - haven't really given the late 19th century/20th century a chance. Thanks for the inspiration!
I almost fully agree about the greatness of 19th century, but Mozart, Rembrandt (17th century), and some 20th century literature/writers are, in my opinion, unparalleled.
by Anonymous | reply 304 | February 4, 2019 11:05 PM |
All those Royals, in their delightful little postage stamp countries
by Anonymous | reply 305 | February 4, 2019 11:23 PM |
Goofy travelling snake oil salesmen. They had a certain flair to separate fools from their money.
We have tRump but it's just not the same...
by Anonymous | reply 306 | February 5, 2019 12:10 AM |
R304 - Oh, I don't think anyone would give you an argument about the standing of Mozart - or Rembrandt. I certainly won't.
R300
by Anonymous | reply 307 | February 5, 2019 12:35 AM |
Science was fashionable!
No, really. It was. Being an amateur scientist was all the rage for the educated, and ladies and gentlemen attended scientific lectures for fun.
by Anonymous | reply 308 | February 5, 2019 1:14 AM |
People walking around with saddle nose because there was no cure for syphilis then and that was one of the signs of end-stage syphilis.
by Anonymous | reply 309 | February 5, 2019 3:14 AM |
Washable sanitary pads for one's monthly visitor.
by Anonymous | reply 310 | February 5, 2019 3:25 AM |
R301 You could easily say that about Schoenberg and Berg whose earlier works were rooted in 19th Century romanticism. They were products of the 1800s.
by Anonymous | reply 311 | February 5, 2019 12:10 PM |
R311 - True - but Schoenberg's later work really diverged at some point. Transfigured Night is one of my favourite piecesand is from his earlier phase. DId you know the string orchestra version was premiered in Newcastle, of all places? I suppose that saying about standing on the shoulders of giants remains true and simply goes on and on.
by Anonymous | reply 312 | February 5, 2019 12:45 PM |
Oh they both certainly diverged as did Prokofiev and Stravinsky.
Yes Transfigured Night is beautiful and Karajan's version on DG is a recording I listen to often.
by Anonymous | reply 313 | February 5, 2019 12:50 PM |
Istanbul was a great party town.
by Anonymous | reply 314 | February 5, 2019 12:54 PM |
R313 - At the risk of further hijacking this thread - that's the recording I have. I've also seen Pillar of Fire, the ballet that was done to it by Antony Tudor. I don't think it's been done in some time.
Apologies if the thread seems hijacked, but this does in some way relate to 19th century culture . . .
by Anonymous | reply 315 | February 5, 2019 1:13 PM |
Wow. You guys really make me appreciate these days vs those days.
by Anonymous | reply 316 | February 5, 2019 1:31 PM |
Churning butter
by Anonymous | reply 318 | February 5, 2019 3:29 PM |
Bathing once a month whether you needed it or not.
by Anonymous | reply 319 | February 5, 2019 3:59 PM |
Dying from a cut finger.
by Anonymous | reply 320 | February 5, 2019 6:04 PM |
The Absolute Apex of The Empire . . .
And in that connection, news from the Boer War front, although admittedly that was at the tag end.
by Anonymous | reply 321 | February 5, 2019 6:34 PM |
The grass seemed greener back then.
by Anonymous | reply 322 | February 5, 2019 7:38 PM |
Indentured servants, the next best thing to slavery.
by Anonymous | reply 323 | February 5, 2019 11:22 PM |
Droit de seigneur
by Anonymous | reply 324 | February 5, 2019 11:23 PM |
R320 Or a blister.
by Anonymous | reply 325 | February 5, 2019 11:48 PM |
R324 - Wrong century.
by Anonymous | reply 326 | February 6, 2019 12:35 AM |
I was like how did the 18th century get in here?
by Anonymous | reply 327 | February 6, 2019 12:42 AM |
Hansen’s Disease, “Leprosy”
by Anonymous | reply 328 | February 6, 2019 12:57 AM |
The long boat trips.
by Anonymous | reply 329 | February 6, 2019 12:59 AM |
The chocking stench of animal and human waste on city streets
by Anonymous | reply 330 | February 6, 2019 1:01 AM |
R330 - Is "chocking" something we all missed about the 19th century?
by Anonymous | reply 331 | February 6, 2019 1:13 AM |
R327 - 13th, more like.
by Anonymous | reply 332 | February 6, 2019 1:14 AM |
Sorry...shocking
by Anonymous | reply 333 | February 6, 2019 1:30 AM |
Beautiful penmanship.
Sundays were a day of rest and a fine afternoon meal was enjoyed. People spent time with each other.
Excellent manners.
Afternoon Tea.
by Anonymous | reply 334 | February 6, 2019 1:41 AM |
People writing charming, literate letters to one another.
by Anonymous | reply 335 | February 6, 2019 1:50 AM |
The 19th century was better for men than for women. Women who got pregnant had a 50/50 chance of dying in childbirth. Babies and children died of childhood diseases that we have vaccines for now.
by Anonymous | reply 336 | February 6, 2019 1:58 AM |
Formal dinners with service a la Russe, and six wineglasses and ten forks all in a row!
Sure, it was a social minefield likely to leave anyone crushed if they didn't know exactly what the seventh fork was for, and must have been interminable if you found yourself sitting next to a door, but still! It was a ritual celebration of elegance and luxury, and I'd have liked to enjoy it once in my life. Modern informal dinners just aren't the same.
by Anonymous | reply 337 | February 6, 2019 2:26 AM |
R336, most centuries were.
by Anonymous | reply 338 | February 6, 2019 10:44 AM |
Passage on a clipper ship around Cape Horn to California.
by Anonymous | reply 339 | February 6, 2019 11:10 AM |
Notes taken around by servants rather than post.
by Anonymous | reply 340 | February 6, 2019 12:38 PM |
New huge luxury steamships to the continent that can carry 4000 people.
by Anonymous | reply 341 | February 6, 2019 2:54 PM |
I miss the morning dew.
by Anonymous | reply 342 | February 6, 2019 3:01 PM |
The 'Vapors'.
by Anonymous | reply 343 | February 6, 2019 4:40 PM |
Swimming in the Hudson.
by Anonymous | reply 344 | February 6, 2019 5:19 PM |
Pestilence.
by Anonymous | reply 346 | February 6, 2019 5:31 PM |
Choice
by Anonymous | reply 347 | February 6, 2019 5:38 PM |
Two observations from R345's link:
Cars are... ugly, aren't they?
("I'm not sure George is wrong about automobiles. With all their speed forward they may be a step backward in civilization. May be that they won't add to the beauty of the world or the life of the men's souls, I'm not sure. But automobiles have come and almost all outwards things will be different because of what they bring. They're going to alter war and they're going to alter peace. And I think men's minds are going to be changed in subtle ways because of automobiles. And it may be that George is right. May be that in ten to twenty years from now that if we can see the inward change in men by that time, I shouldn't be able to defend the gasoline engine but agree with George - that automobiles had no business to be invented.")
No one was walking a dog in the 1870s footage.
by Anonymous | reply 348 | February 6, 2019 5:55 PM |
Only the very rich - usually ladies, had pet lap dogs they would carry in their carriages to parade in pleasure gardens rather than dirty streets. Most other hounds kept then were working dogs and did not get to go out walkies on a lead.
by Anonymous | reply 349 | February 6, 2019 6:09 PM |
Anonymity
by Anonymous | reply 351 | February 6, 2019 6:34 PM |
Summer meadows in wildflower bloom with twittering skylarks high above.
by Anonymous | reply 352 | February 6, 2019 6:41 PM |
59 Amazing Photos Showing Life in the 1850s
People were more distinctive looking in the mid 1800's
by Anonymous | reply 353 | February 6, 2019 6:52 PM |
R351 - An astute mention, if I may say so. You actually could live a private life, and the boundaries between private and public life were firm. No satellite surveillance, chips in the phones and GPS devices, MI6 tracking code words in your emails . . . no sense that if you went out for a pint you should let everyone on FB know what the weather was like and whether the local was crowded . . .
by Anonymous | reply 354 | February 6, 2019 6:56 PM |
Being able to start a new life under a new name with no trouble at all!
Really, you just went to another town where nobody knew you and nobody who knew you was likely to go, and said your name was... whatever you liked. That was all, you were now Bob Schmidt or Sam Gunderson, and tough shit on all the relatives you left behind! Nowadays you can't just become someone else, the IRS and credit industry won't allow it.
by Anonymous | reply 355 | February 6, 2019 7:01 PM |
R355 - We have forgotten what real privacy was like.
by Anonymous | reply 356 | February 6, 2019 8:05 PM |
Walking 10 miles to school.
by Anonymous | reply 357 | February 6, 2019 10:51 PM |
...in the snow.
by Anonymous | reply 358 | February 6, 2019 10:52 PM |
Sternwheelers. The hight of technology . Close the patent office!
by Anonymous | reply 359 | February 7, 2019 1:40 AM |
Being able to go out in seedy districts with a gun in your pocket in order to look for trouble as an excuse to beat up or kill bastards from a specific group you dislike and come across as manly.
by Anonymous | reply 360 | February 7, 2019 1:45 AM |
Fashion. The ease of running away and starting over.
by Anonymous | reply 361 | February 7, 2019 1:47 AM |
A fascinating film. Thanks for sharing. It's great to see that horse-drawn fire engine at 3:43.
by Anonymous | reply 363 | February 7, 2019 2:29 PM |
Wiener Staatsoper gefolgt von Abendessen, Champagner und Sodomie
by Anonymous | reply 366 | February 7, 2019 10:31 PM |
I miss only having two genders.
by Anonymous | reply 367 | February 7, 2019 10:39 PM |
Grand hotels that really were grand rather than pretentious minimalist jokes.
by Anonymous | reply 368 | February 7, 2019 10:57 PM |
The yearning for space travel.
by Anonymous | reply 369 | February 7, 2019 11:40 PM |
Ah yes, "The Grand Tour". Oh, to be a wealthy young man in the era when it was expected that any unmarried young man of good family get a lengthy all-expenses paid trip to Europe, while he was still college age! It was considered normal to pay for your kid to spend months traveling, and staying at the best hotels at his family's expense, because that was where he'd meet the best people, see all the appropriate sights, and acquire the sophistication and polish that would make him into a true gentleman.
Girls didn't get grand tours, of course.
by Anonymous | reply 370 | February 7, 2019 11:46 PM |
The absence of social media and the frantic pace the future.
by Anonymous | reply 371 | February 8, 2019 12:22 AM |
Amazing to think that when people went out, even during the day, they were dressed in their best clothes, now look at us. We're slobs.
by Anonymous | reply 372 | February 8, 2019 3:42 AM |
Of course girls got grand tours with family members or chaperones. You know to forget the man they were in love with that their father detested. Have you heard of Henry James?
by Anonymous | reply 373 | February 8, 2019 4:04 AM |
[quote]You know to forget the man they were in love with that their father detested. Have you heard of Henry James?
Marriages were arranged by the parents, the girls was married off to a suitor with money, political or social connections to improve the standing of her family in society.
by Anonymous | reply 374 | February 8, 2019 10:41 AM |
Beautiful Elm trees lining every street. Too bad about the disease and lack of diversity in the plantings.
But I would miss Elm trees.
by Anonymous | reply 375 | February 8, 2019 10:55 AM |
Bleeding Kansas
Sherman's March to the Sea
Upper and Lower Canada
Saloons
Salons
Saint-Saens
by Anonymous | reply 376 | February 8, 2019 11:57 AM |
R373 - Grand Tours were also popular as honeymoons.
by Anonymous | reply 378 | February 8, 2019 2:13 PM |
I miss the tea dances.
by Anonymous | reply 379 | February 8, 2019 2:14 PM |
The Klondike gold rush. There's gold in them thar hills.
by Anonymous | reply 380 | February 8, 2019 2:34 PM |
Westward expansion as more people moved west for land, the Federal Gov't. continued to break their promises to the Indians and forced them off their lands.
by Anonymous | reply 381 | February 8, 2019 2:41 PM |
The presentation of debutantes to the Queen (although to be fair this continued into the 20th century until it was discontinued after Edward VIII).
by Anonymous | reply 382 | February 8, 2019 2:51 PM |
[quote]Amazing to think that when people went out, even during the day, they were dressed in their best clothes, now look at us. We're slobs.
Yeah, but we're comfortable. I cannot imagine having to wear those kinds of clothes --- and without air conditioning.
by Anonymous | reply 383 | February 8, 2019 2:58 PM |
You see people out and about on summer days or on boardwalks or even sitting on lawns for picnics fully covered and they don't look at all uncomfortable. I mean we today would be so miserable.
by Anonymous | reply 384 | February 8, 2019 3:12 PM |
Getting away for the summer to your cottage in Newport, RI
by Anonymous | reply 385 | February 8, 2019 8:35 PM |
There's a woman (probably more than one) on YouTube whose hobby is dressing in the style of different eras. Even though she shows all the layers worn my women in the past, she emphasizes how comfortable the clothing is because all the layers worn in the warm months are light cotton. Just because something's bulky doesn't make it hot.
by Anonymous | reply 386 | February 8, 2019 9:09 PM |
R386 - forgot that there would be no synthetic materials, which of course would make the materials more breathable.
by Anonymous | reply 387 | February 9, 2019 1:04 AM |
Most of the Newport mansions were achieved about 1900 or so, including the pictured Rosecliff.
by Anonymous | reply 388 | February 9, 2019 1:08 AM |
Isn't 1900 still the 19th Century?
by Anonymous | reply 389 | February 9, 2019 1:10 AM |
Mistaking the arsenic for sugar.
by Anonymous | reply 390 | February 9, 2019 1:31 AM |
Arguably 1900 only not 1901.
by Anonymous | reply 391 | February 9, 2019 1:32 AM |
Realistic and entertaining deadly mishaps in the modern Victorian home.
by Anonymous | reply 392 | February 9, 2019 1:35 AM |
Harpsichords
by Anonymous | reply 393 | February 9, 2019 5:02 AM |
I miss the penny dreadfuls.
by Anonymous | reply 394 | February 9, 2019 10:45 AM |
Confederate "General" Julius Howell Recalls the 1860s
by Anonymous | reply 395 | February 9, 2019 11:31 AM |
^^ they even talked different, more formal.
by Anonymous | reply 396 | February 9, 2019 11:41 AM |
I miss the shoes. They lasted forevah!
by Anonymous | reply 397 | February 9, 2019 2:35 PM |
Learning the newest songs from sheet music playing them on the piano.
by Anonymous | reply 398 | February 9, 2019 6:31 PM |
"I miss the shoes. They lasted forevah! "
No, but you kept them forever whether they lasted or not, because all shoes were handmade and much more comparatively expensive than today's shoes. If you couldn't afford a new pair of shoes you wore them while the heels were worn to a 45 degree angle and there were gaping holes in the soles, if you could afford to have them re-soled you did, and if not you just used cardboard as an insole to keep some of the snow out.
People just had fewer clothes and things, before the day of cheap mass production.
by Anonymous | reply 399 | February 9, 2019 8:13 PM |
No cure for STDs
by Anonymous | reply 400 | February 9, 2019 8:16 PM |
Actually, they used mercury to treat STDs, imagine dying of mercury poisoning too.
by Anonymous | reply 401 | February 9, 2019 10:28 PM |
Pining for the 18th century.
by Anonymous | reply 402 | February 9, 2019 10:28 PM |
People working to help the poor by visiting hospitals and orphanages and going around asking men like Ebenezer Scrooge for donations.
by Anonymous | reply 404 | February 10, 2019 4:01 PM |
I’m the typhus that deprived your family of life. They still live in the house by the railroad station.
by Anonymous | reply 405 | February 10, 2019 5:10 PM |
Climate change hadn't fucked things up yet.
by Anonymous | reply 406 | February 11, 2019 7:24 PM |
Irish roughs down at the New York docks.
by Anonymous | reply 407 | February 11, 2019 7:32 PM |
People who knew better trying to be better than their betters.
by Anonymous | reply 409 | February 11, 2019 10:14 PM |
Sunday in the park with George.
by Anonymous | reply 411 | February 11, 2019 11:56 PM |
People who speak English with a heavy Yiddish accent.
by Anonymous | reply 412 | February 12, 2019 12:06 AM |
The wild frontier.
by Anonymous | reply 413 | February 12, 2019 2:26 AM |
When the winters were cold enough to skate on the lakes in Central Park.
by Anonymous | reply 414 | February 12, 2019 11:37 AM |
And even the Hudson would freeze over.
by Anonymous | reply 415 | February 12, 2019 11:46 AM |
Ambrose Bierce, the original grammar-troll.
by Anonymous | reply 416 | February 12, 2019 12:08 PM |
Bitching about Prince Albert marrying into the royal family instead of Meghan Markle.
by Anonymous | reply 417 | February 12, 2019 12:58 PM |
R395, General Howe is a bore!
by Anonymous | reply 418 | February 12, 2019 1:24 PM |
The Ottoman Empire and sizemeat from the Levant!
by Anonymous | reply 419 | February 12, 2019 1:31 PM |
Celebrating Christmas before it became a commercial and retail holiday.
by Anonymous | reply 420 | February 12, 2019 3:38 PM |
Rap music 150 years away.
by Anonymous | reply 421 | February 12, 2019 7:12 PM |
I miss the crisp breeze.
by Anonymous | reply 422 | February 12, 2019 7:33 PM |
Band concerts in the public gardens.
Ladies trying to shade their complexions rather than tanning them.
by Anonymous | reply 423 | February 12, 2019 7:34 PM |
figgy pudding
by Anonymous | reply 425 | February 12, 2019 7:52 PM |
Canning beets.
by Anonymous | reply 426 | February 12, 2019 8:12 PM |
R424 No wonder there are so many homely people today. I was wondering where they all came from.
by Anonymous | reply 427 | February 12, 2019 8:28 PM |
Making your own headcheese from the head of a real pig.
by Anonymous | reply 428 | February 12, 2019 8:31 PM |
The Early American antiques. They had so many back then!
by Anonymous | reply 429 | February 12, 2019 8:32 PM |
Seances
by Anonymous | reply 431 | February 13, 2019 9:51 PM |
The Crystal Palace Exhibition celebrating the industrial progress of mankind.
by Anonymous | reply 433 | February 15, 2019 1:33 AM |
Young ladies being taught to play the piano and sing as a matter of course.
by Anonymous | reply 435 | February 17, 2019 3:03 PM |
Being able to say Pshaw ! when vexed.
by Anonymous | reply 437 | February 17, 2019 10:20 PM |
No fucking productions of King Lear with everyone in leather jackets.
by Anonymous | reply 438 | February 17, 2019 11:23 PM |
I agree. No Shakespeare history plays in which the nobility wear suits, ties and carry attache cases and smart phones.
by Anonymous | reply 439 | February 18, 2019 1:47 PM |
R439 - Too right. And not having to read claims by the directors that having an all-female cast of Julius Caesar and updating Richard III to fascist Germany will reveal tremendous new insights into the plays after 450 years that we didn't already know.
by Anonymous | reply 440 | February 18, 2019 2:06 PM |
The seasons-long all-male exploratory adventures in the uncharted territories that became total fuckfests.
by Anonymous | reply 441 | February 18, 2019 2:11 PM |
Boudoirs as normal retreats for the lady of the house.
by Anonymous | reply 442 | February 18, 2019 2:49 PM |
I miss all that good fiddle music.
by Anonymous | reply 443 | February 18, 2019 2:57 PM |
Manifest Destiny a widely held belief in the United States that its settlers were destined to expand across North America. ... The special virtues of the American people and their institutions.
by Anonymous | reply 444 | February 18, 2019 4:17 PM |
The White Man's Burden
by Anonymous | reply 445 | February 18, 2019 7:27 PM |
Grand staircases for making grand entrances at your party.
by Anonymous | reply 446 | February 19, 2019 3:09 PM |
Capital punishment.
by Anonymous | reply 447 | February 19, 2019 6:56 PM |
Public hangings
by Anonymous | reply 448 | February 20, 2019 12:34 PM |
R448 - Not in Britain, just to be accurate.
by Anonymous | reply 449 | February 20, 2019 12:40 PM |
I miss the silence.
by Anonymous | reply 450 | February 20, 2019 1:05 PM |
The pain and the shame of a good old-fashioned public horse-whipping.
by Anonymous | reply 451 | February 20, 2019 1:58 PM |
Taking the horse and buggy out for a Sunday ride.
by Anonymous | reply 452 | February 20, 2019 3:23 PM |
Being ridden hard and put away wet.
by Anonymous | reply 453 | February 20, 2019 5:33 PM |
I miss taking brisk walks with Father.
by Anonymous | reply 454 | February 20, 2019 5:38 PM |
The stars at night were big and bright.
by Anonymous | reply 455 | February 20, 2019 6:43 PM |
Stereopticons
by Anonymous | reply 456 | February 20, 2019 10:53 PM |
Playing Puss in the Corner late into the night in the parlor with the family.
by Anonymous | reply 457 | February 20, 2019 11:06 PM |
Long tedious evenings spent at house parties, playing charades and other children's games. Because one had to spend a certain amount of time with the company, before pretending to retire and fucking whoever you weren't supposed to fuck.
by Anonymous | reply 458 | February 20, 2019 11:21 PM |
Old-timey first (aka Christian) names - for example -
Girls: Dorcas, Drusilla, Griselda, Dymphna
Boys: Ebenezer, Gaylord, Chauncey, Cuthbert
by Anonymous | reply 459 | February 21, 2019 2:09 PM |
I miss the first snows of winter.
by Anonymous | reply 460 | February 21, 2019 2:16 PM |
Political cartoons that were better done than they are today.
Royal mistresses being no biggie.
by Anonymous | reply 461 | February 21, 2019 3:03 PM |
R455 I agree. How great to spend some time after night fall pointing out the various constellations. I haven't been able to see the big dipper for years because of the light pollution in my region.
by Anonymous | reply 462 | February 21, 2019 11:52 PM |
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