Sexual assaulted by a woman

Men are just better at sexual assault. You hardly ever take years to recognize a man's raped you.

Why can't men say no?

He's just bitter she didn't give him a job.

I find stories like this make light of the problem of assault - whether by men or women against men or women. It comes across as so infantile and helpless, as well as lacking any common sense or ability to handle oneself in social situations.

Sure, if the woman had said to him, "fuck me or you're fired" or any number of similar situations, that would be different. Or, if she had done it in private where she might claim that he was the aggressor, fine. But, if you can't handle a situation like this, you're simply not equipped to deal with life and should get thee to a nunnery.

He was traumatized by her red tsunami!

R4, you're so hardcore! I'm sure you know by now that nunneries are dens of deplorable decadence. Perhaps you didn't know and are consigning this poor man to more of the same....

He was assaulted, it was of a sexual nature, and no, it's not ok. The very reason you dismiss this man is why he also dismisses this behavior. Not everyone is thick-skinned enough to deal with shit like this, and particularly from a colleague. He finally recognized he was affected and took action.

Just because YOU see it as a minor occurrence in life doesn't mean it didn't have an impact upon HIM.

One of the worst things we can do as human beings is ascribe our behavior and reactions to others. Holding others to your standards of behavior or perceptions will only get you the miserable life you deserve.

[QUOTE]After what I’d generously estimate to be 90 seconds of small talk, she leaned forward and stuck her tongue down my throat. I pulled back. She proceeded to do it again twice more. I made a clumsy exit from the interaction, but periodically throughout the night she’d find me again and make further drunken passes at me, both physical and verbal.

This is the sexual assault that haunts him til this day? A tongue kiss?

Rape! RAPE!!!!

He didn't want it, R7. What about that do you not understand? He was in denial about how it made him feel, and it was downright uncomfortable for him to be in the same room with her afterwards.

Not rape, fool, an ASSAULT - which is a violation of your physical integrity, no matter where or how it happens. Someone puts their hand on your ass and you don't want it? That's an assault. Just because our culture has allowed this as a 'normal' part of life doesn't mean it was right.

Your words are sexually assaulting my brain right now.

He's another attention whore. How bout a simple "back off, lady,."

Sounds like he would have been a lousy lay anyway.

A tongue in his mouth. What a wimp.

I think the definition of assault is getting pretty flexible. When I was young I had men and women hitting on me constantly, grabbing my ass, making comments etc. I was so insecure I enjoyed it to a point but it was also scary at times. I never felt intimidated by a woman because I knew a woman couldn't and wouldn't even try to force me into something.

Men on the other hand, could be VERY scary and threatening.

If he's getting panic attacks cos a woman tried to kiss him, I'd say he was fucked up way before that incident.

What a pussy.

Must have led her on.

He was probably wearing a tight shirt. He was begging for it.

If the reports are true that he was wearing a tight shirt then he’s a WHORE!

Men are such trollops!

He has to have other issues-- I can't imagine something like this causing me anxiety... and I'm a gold star g!! MARY!

I agree R21. I felt the same way after reading the article.

[quote]One of the worst things we can do as human beings is ascribe our behavior and reactions to others. Holding others to your standards of behavior or perceptions will only get you the miserable life you deserve.

Really? It's one of the worst things we can do? One of the WORST things?

Okay, sure.