Columnist can't get a man, blames porn

She’s right.

Yes, R1. Porn is not good for women because men who've grown up with it have no idea what real sex with an actual human is about.

It also contributes to bizarre sexual positions that are meant for the camera, not real life.

Guys are lazy.

I think it's just an excuse because women don't want to shave their legs and wax their brow ridges and they don't want a man to be grossed out when they take a dump with the bathroom door open.

Women just want to be natural and not have to do themselves up for a man!

Porn does fuck up the reality of sex, for sure.

It's worse in the str8 world but gay men get it twisted, too.

She’s right, and it applies to gay men, too.

Gay men keep everything in perspective. Don't all penises look like this?

Where in the article does the author say that she can’t get a man?

It's implied by the "porn objectifies women" Designing Women-esque comment.

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That gay for pay porn makes gay men believe that straight men will have gay sex. But, these men in that porn aren’t straight, but they think they are, and this translates into the real world.

r14 and arguing that all men in porn are only there for the money allows the women to pretend they can have them, too.

R2 A female friend of mine told me that sex with older guys is way different than ones her own age, because the younger ones do "porny moves."

R10, OP assumes that because he's is a porn addicted adolescent who doesn't know what sex with another human is about.

Just get in top of me and do your thing then get off of me so I can go back to sleep.

Maybe they are just not that into her.

Straight guys CAN be bought. G4P is not a fantasy, but a reality.

Can gay men be bought by old, middle aged, heavy set women for sex, and oral, and vaginal, etc?

Oh I admit it; I very rarely ejaculate when having sex with actual men. I have to be on my back watching porn. My feet need to be crossed at the ankle.

On Grindr I just say I want to do the servicing; sometimes they are confused. A guy blowing me or licking my ass does absolutely nothing for me. I always say "oh that's ok, I don't mind it. You would think gay guys would love to JUST be serviced, but no! I make it simple. If you expect me to cum, I won't come.

It is 100% due to my 30+ year porn hobby.

r20 how much do you have to pay them? They come to me for free.

r11 when it's two guys fucking each other, how is a woman being objectified?

"Yes, [R1]. Porn is not good for women because men who've grown up with it have no idea what real sex with an actual human is about. "

This has got to be true. Porn bears no resemblance to real life, and anyone who grows up on porn and tries to translate what they learned from porn to real life, is going to have trouble adapting to reality.

I bet I could get every man at this barbecue!

R25 that's crapz because if EVERYONE'S watching porn they will know what is expected because they've seen it all!

In porn, people don't stop to go pee.

I think porn is fine in moderation, like everything else. I've had some creepy experiences where I'm hooking up with a guy and he HAS to have porn on. Sometimes that's hot, but it was every time with this guy. I have str8 female friends that tell me some creepy shit about their husbands/bfs being too into porn.

Broads are such control freaks

She's right

P o r n is where I learned about women cumming all over a guy's face, just like a guy does.

Hmmm, I like that, r12

I mean the term not the behavior

r33 = Gloria Steinem

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My female friend tells me that porn is so fake. She says there is no way thrusting so fast and jamming their fingers in the vag is pleasurable.

Women don't pay for enough porn for the porn producers to take their likes and dislikes into account, R37.

I hope the straight men who support the industry realize that, but I doubt it.

Maybe your cunt is too loose, bitch!

Porn is like fast food, alright in a pinch but not for every day. And most guys that watch porn do it a lot, which makes porn unhealthy.

Guys born after 1984 don't know how to fuck.

Correct, R37, but that's been a male fantasy forever - way before porn. They want so bad to believe it's true. :(

Okay.

I agree with r39.