It wounds.
He makes a pretty weak case
by Anonymous | reply 1 | October 1, 2018 1:49 PM |
It should be called "the Q word."
by Anonymous | reply 2 | October 1, 2018 2:27 PM |
My problem is that it's rather meaningless.
Into leather? You're queer!
Asexual? You're queer!
Gay man? You're queer!
Use "they/them" pronouns? Queer!
Rinse and repeat.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | October 1, 2018 2:30 PM |
We're here!
We're QUEER!
Deal with it!
by Anonymous | reply 4 | October 1, 2018 2:35 PM |
R4, that was used by gay activists desperate to save lives during the gay plague.
Nowadays, it’s for kinky straights.
It means “sex pervert.”
homosexuality =/= queer
Don’t let the non-homos decide our nomenclature. Only gays can decide what we are to be called, and the vast majority of us recognize “queer” as a slur. And we are silenced & ignored. We have no self-determination.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | October 1, 2018 4:22 PM |
Queer is everywhere now. Gay is nowhere. Gay is being left off of minority groups. It’s queer now. I don’t want to be a queer. I’m gay.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | October 22, 2018 8:11 PM |
So does that mean that LGBTQ wounds?
by Anonymous | reply 7 | October 22, 2018 8:13 PM |
LGBTQ is questioning, right?
by Anonymous | reply 8 | October 22, 2018 8:15 PM |
r5, your arrogance wounds. You're telling an ELDERgay he's no longer allowed to self-describe using a term he embraced before you were born --- because a bunch of younger people who are devoid of history or dictionaries have latched onto the same term and are *misidentifying* themselves with it. No one has to rebrand themselves because of other people's stupidity.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | October 22, 2018 8:16 PM |
Please, stop trying to control everybody with P.C. zeal. You're never going to win and it's long overdue for you to LET GO.
We queers who have reclaimed the word are not using it in a derogatory manner, so you've convicted the innocent and missed the target.
You don't get to force other people to talk like you or withhold truths and words you don't like. The only person in this world you get to force is yourself.
Now go force yourself Straight Down the Shitter.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | October 22, 2018 8:16 PM |
Has anybody ever been asked if they were “queer” by someone?
by Anonymous | reply 11 | October 22, 2018 8:17 PM |
Queer is not my preference. I don't and probably wouldn't refer to myself that way; I'd use gay. But it makes no difference to me if others want to use it. I don't get why everyone gets all worked up if people don't act and think exactly as they do.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | October 22, 2018 8:20 PM |
I don’t believe R12 at all.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | October 22, 2018 8:23 PM |
I always say queer. I like it.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | October 22, 2018 8:24 PM |
I have to admit I do sometimes use it in a derogatory way-as in “some fat queer ahead of me in line was taking forever to scan his groceries.”
by Anonymous | reply 15 | October 22, 2018 8:26 PM |
“Are you a queer?”
by Anonymous | reply 16 | October 22, 2018 8:26 PM |
Will faggot be next?
“Are you a faggot?”
by Anonymous | reply 17 | October 22, 2018 8:27 PM |
We’ve come so far in gay rights. We now identify as slurs. Good for us.
Cue the “queer isn’t a slur!” queerplorable.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | October 22, 2018 8:31 PM |
R10 YOU don’t get to tell anyone they have accept the word queer either.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | October 22, 2018 8:33 PM |
I don't use the word but it doesn't bother me to hear it, nor do I use the word "f_gg_t" and that one I don't like to hear. However I have always thought that us using those words takes much of the power away from the bigots who use them to hurt us.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | October 22, 2018 8:35 PM |
“Queer” is a slur. It’s vulgar.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | October 22, 2018 8:37 PM |
I was under the impression that "queer" is similar to the n-word. If an African American says the n=word it's ok; if a white person says it it's bigotry. Same with "queer"; if a gay says it it's ok, but if a straight says it it's homophobic.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | October 22, 2018 8:38 PM |
I mean, going to High School in the 00's the word "Gay" hade much more of a slur vibe to it to me. Nobody called me queer to be mean but walking down the hall the word gay was always paired with some sort of violent threat; to use a "bad" word like queer willingly had some empowering effect. I do think that there is a generational conflict here.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | October 22, 2018 8:38 PM |
People can define themselves any way they want as long they return the favor and let others define themselves the way they want. Love and let live. Problem solved.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | October 22, 2018 8:41 PM |
How about the word queen? That’s a slur, right?
by Anonymous | reply 25 | October 22, 2018 8:42 PM |
r25, it's a *title*!
by Anonymous | reply 26 | October 22, 2018 8:47 PM |
Does this mean we can call trannies “trannies”...?
by Anonymous | reply 27 | October 22, 2018 8:49 PM |
Remember the trolling about white gay men appropiating sassy black women attitude? Same divide and conquer scheme. Like this one about that isn't about the word queer but really about Millennials (using queer) and eldergays (using gay). Divide and Conquer scheme using / taking advantage of the age gap divide.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | October 22, 2018 8:52 PM |
We used to use the word queer for people who wore green on Thursdays. We also used the word "straight" to mean gay, even though we knew it was the opposite. This is in elementary school in the San Fernando Valley in the 60's.
Recently, in SF, everyone who was tranny was a tranny because of Tranny Shack. It is nice and cozy word.
I suggest using whatever person you are talking to is most comfortable with. I like to use "gay" for everybody.
I think it depends on where you live and whether your micro-culture is hyper-sensitive or flexible.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | October 22, 2018 8:53 PM |
Queer, nigger, kike, etc. These are words that 'empower' idiots not authentic people.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | October 22, 2018 8:55 PM |
I'm as queer as a cat fart!
by Anonymous | reply 31 | October 22, 2018 8:55 PM |
[quote] It’s vulgar.
It's not.
Language changes, and most people under 40 prefer to be called queer, because it describes them better than gay or lesbian (or bisexual).
by Anonymous | reply 32 | October 22, 2018 8:57 PM |
The Huffington Post is very Far Left so of course they are going to make stupid, so-called trendy choices like the use of this outdated word. They're queer themselves and not in a good way.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | October 22, 2018 8:59 PM |
It's tired terminology.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | October 22, 2018 9:00 PM |
Eldergay tells news organization that he's wounded by the Q word
by Anonymous | reply 35 | October 22, 2018 9:05 PM |
Baby gays are so easily offended these days. I guess it comes from growing up sitting in front of their computers rather than having to go out and actually engage with other human beings face to face. The internet has raised billions of kids the world over in the last 30 years.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | October 22, 2018 9:10 PM |
[quote] Baby gays are so easily offended these days.
But it's not the baby gays that are being hysterical, shrieking prisspots about the use of the "Q" word........
by Anonymous | reply 37 | October 22, 2018 9:13 PM |
Queer is regression
by Anonymous | reply 38 | October 22, 2018 10:13 PM |
CALL ME BY YOUR NAME!!!!!!!!!!
by Anonymous | reply 39 | October 23, 2018 1:31 AM |
R32, it is vulgar.
Imagine corporations using it. Medical doctors. Police officers. Judges. Elementary school teachers.
Not. Gonna. Happen.
Kids will continue to use it as a slur. They just won’t be scolded for it in woke households.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | October 24, 2018 12:02 AM |
r5 the only people who are se queer are pathetic straights trying to find something interesting about themselves.
Other than miniature golf and hummel figures, they’ve coopted lesbian and gay rights. They’re the Pat Boones copying black singers in the 1950s.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | October 24, 2018 12:10 AM |
As a gay man of color I grant you all permish to call me a queegger.
But only to my face.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | October 24, 2018 12:14 AM |
Whatever this nice queer couple decides is good enough for me!
by Anonymous | reply 43 | October 24, 2018 1:10 AM |
I remember in the early days of their decline, HuffPost Gay Section, despite the protests from many readers, decided to ban Gay and replace it with Queer, which rubbed my sensibilities raw. It took a lot of years for us to scrub Queer away and replace it with a kinder, gentler Gay. To this day, my brain/emotions refuse to accept Queer in a positive way. I also hope we don't add any more letters to the LBG alphabet soup. Old folks like me can't remember them. Jeez, it took a long time to get it right. And while we're here, what about the rainbow flag? Are we going to be inclusive and add the brown and black stripes?
by Anonymous | reply 44 | October 24, 2018 1:37 AM |
It bothers me that even if only a few gays oppose being called “queer,” people want to force it on us.
Even if just one gay person expressed trauma from the word “queer” should be enough for us to pause.
Nobody should be called anything they don’t like. We have a right to express our name preference.
Not only should we be totally united on our name, it should naturally spring forward from us. It should just...bubble up. Make sense to all of us.
I can’t believe people are really trying to force gay people to call themselves a gay slur against their wills. I can’t believe people are defending “queer.”
R44, I agree with most of your post but the flag is not about race. At all. Don’t lay race on it. It will lose its meaning. It will no longer be a fucking rainbow.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | October 24, 2018 1:49 AM |
Good point, R44. I've always wondered who the green and purple stripes represent.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | October 24, 2018 1:50 AM |
It's a word for the age of irony that we're in. Very knowing and with it. Sucks.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | October 24, 2018 2:18 AM |
If some guy's online profile said he 'identified as queer' I would lose interest immediately.
Actually, where did this bullshit about 'I identify as...' come form anyway? It's everywhere. I don't 'identify as gay', I am gay.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | October 24, 2018 2:46 AM |
It’s heading back to the “choice” thing, R48. I was going to post that.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | October 24, 2018 3:18 AM |
I'm an older gay man. I've pretty much used gay all my life but lately it does feel passé. I'm getting used to queer but too much baggage - I only use in fun with friends. Lately I've been saying homosexual a lot. I like the formality. I usually say penis now for the same reason.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | October 24, 2018 3:22 AM |
I’m so sad that gay people are wrapped in all of this. It’s a web of...shit.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | October 24, 2018 3:24 AM |
[quote]I’m so sad that gay people are wrapped in all of this. It’s a web of...shit.
I somewhat agree with you but it was inevitable. Every generation puts their own name on things. I try to not to yell at the kids on the lawn.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | October 24, 2018 3:34 AM |
So, what did Jewish people call themselves 50 years ago?
by Anonymous | reply 53 | October 24, 2018 3:45 AM |
[quote] Actually, where did this bullshit about 'I identify as...' come form anyway? It's everywhere. I don't 'identify as gay', I am gay.
This is actually a very good point. The 'identification' is a result of denial. It's like rednecks identifying with wealthy republicans. Or what's her name the trans-racialist. I don't blame anyone for being sickened by their peers: most people are sickening. They'll sabotage their own team for a chance to drink with the winners at the bar.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | October 24, 2018 4:53 AM |
I hate the word queer. It's insulting, and I don't want to own it. I'll stick with gay. And I wish you would too.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | October 24, 2018 5:41 AM |
did the “identity” thing come from academics?
People blame feminists for it...like they do everything. Perhaps the early ‘identity’ feminists meant it in a way to include the female gaze & experience to culture which largely was recorded & defined by only a male POV?
The 1970s feminists valued women & children. No way they would have accepted a transsexual in the women’s resrooms much less their mental space.
Transwomen have invaded & are dominating feminists & the gay community. They insist on being the center of everything. And they’re just cross-dressers.
A man cannot identify as a woman. That’s insane. Seriously, mentally ill. A man cannot have a woman’s identity. He has no access to it. No idea what it’s like to be born female. No idea what intercourse is like. Or pregnancy. Or even menstruating. And so forth...there are a gazillion components to the female identity. But it is uniquely female. Just like the male identity is for men only.
It’s insulting to assume any man can just be a woman. They are invaders & they are dominating us. They’re crossdressers. The gay community is catering to crossdressers. Gays all over the world are still getting killed. Two lesbians & their son were brutally murdered by a T activist...a straight man who “identified” as a lesbian. It was prosecuted as a domestic dispute rather than a hate crime becuse they were all lesbians. 2016 Oakland, I think. And not a peep from the gay community. As if lesbians would be in a love triangle with a straight man. It’s crazy.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | October 24, 2018 2:13 PM |
[quote]I hate the word queer. It's insulting, and I don't want to own it. I'll stick with gay. And I wish you would too.
Don't use it you don't want - but don't be so rigid -the train has already left the station ..
by Anonymous | reply 57 | October 24, 2018 2:24 PM |
yea - that's pretty dated. Things change. Words come and go
by Anonymous | reply 59 | October 24, 2018 2:45 PM |
Only gay people put up with this. No other group.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | October 24, 2018 2:57 PM |
Gays should not be called what we don’t want to be called. Quit trying to convince us that queer is not a slur designed to keep us on the fringe & inhuman.
Why is that so difficult? Why the investment in trying so hard to call us queer when we don’t want to be called queer? I honestly don’t get it.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | October 24, 2018 3:33 PM |
I think it's overwhelming younger gays that are using "queer." I've never heard a straight person use it. I don't like it either- too much baggage. I don't know why some people in the gay community want to "reclaim the word." seems misguided. I don't use and none of my friends use so I've decided to stop bitching about it. I try to pick my battles - there are so many things awful right now starting with Trump.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | October 24, 2018 6:26 PM |
r5 according to whom? Was there a vote - or just a bunch of entitled millennial pricks?
by Anonymous | reply 63 | October 24, 2018 6:31 PM |
Definitely wounds. Malicious little creep in boarding school from across . the hall never stopped uttering it to me. Left deep and lasting wounds.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | October 24, 2018 6:31 PM |
Seriously the people on this thread saying we need relax and take the queer would never dare say Chinese people should take a word like chink or black people the N word.
I’d bet you some if these same people are joining the call for the football team to change the Redskins name. Which they should because it has a history as a slur just like queer.
Honestly, queer doesn’t bother me personally that much but I won’t be told I should use it.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | October 24, 2018 6:31 PM |
[quote]Definitely wounds. Malicious little creep in boarding school from across . the hall never stopped uttering it to me. Left deep and lasting wounds.
Well I'm an older gay guy - and I'm an out gay man - and I've had plenty of homophobic insults hurled at me over the years. My response depends on my mood. But yeah - it usually pisses me off. I'm way past feeling wounded - I would rather get angry.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | October 24, 2018 6:57 PM |
If queer bothers you, do not, I repeat, DO NOT enter a humanities or social sciences graduate program/department.
It's all queer, only queer, all the time. (Or else it's trans* -- when queer takes a day off)
by Anonymous | reply 67 | October 24, 2018 7:01 PM |
I’ve called a queer—as a slur.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | October 24, 2018 7:10 PM |
As in called on the phone?
by Anonymous | reply 69 | October 24, 2018 7:13 PM |
Yes, R69
by Anonymous | reply 70 | October 24, 2018 7:16 PM |
But did you dial with a pencil, r68?
by Anonymous | reply 71 | October 24, 2018 7:17 PM |
Queer is homophobic. End of story.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | October 24, 2018 7:18 PM |
This we must know^^^^^^^
by Anonymous | reply 73 | October 24, 2018 7:18 PM |
^Meant for R71^
Fits both posts though.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | October 24, 2018 7:19 PM |
by Anonymous | reply 75 | October 24, 2018 7:19 PM |
I did, R71.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | October 24, 2018 7:20 PM |
by Anonymous | reply 78 | October 24, 2018 7:23 PM |
What should the Q in LGBTQ stand for: questioning? quidnunc? quisling? Quentin? quack? qiviut? quasar? quaint (think Irene Coles)?
by Anonymous | reply 79 | October 24, 2018 7:31 PM |
Shouldn't be there, anymore than "T" should.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | October 24, 2018 7:37 PM |
r46 Frogs. And queens.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | October 24, 2018 8:15 PM |
For those not old enough to remember, June 28, 1969 was the day things really changed for the gay community, which we were referred to back then. We began to come together and amass power. We began to shed the "queer" stigma. We became prideful as time went on.
Then the lesbians weren't happy to be gay. And these people who couldn't commit still wanted part of the power and henceforth were known as the bis. So we amalgamated as the LGBs. Pretty soon the transitionalists wanted to be a part, and the malcontents insisted on being queer. Let's see, that's LGBQT, but is that enough? Who else is going to come along, wanting to dilute the power? Hmm. LGBQT/METOOS/NEERDOWELLS/BORDERCROSSERS... Once there's enough of them, they'll want to change the name so no one is offended. GAY won't be a part of it. We will have lost our identity--even more!
Let's go back to the gays and the gay community. Either you're part of the 10% core, or you're not.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | October 24, 2018 8:23 PM |
[quote]Queer is homophobic. End of story.
No r72 - that's NOT the end of the story. I don't like the word but a lot of people do - and it's new meaning (for these people) is more benign. Words mutate all the time. What was a commonplace word yesterday is a very smutty word today. And vice versa.
So time will tell if queer reverts to it's old mean as being something unusual (that's the way my grandmother used it. Or it remains a gay slur. Or become something altogether different.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | October 24, 2018 9:08 PM |
Part of the issue is that queer is not used as synonymous with gay. Queer can mean gay, or bi, or agender, or into a weird fetish (but straight). It basically covers everything that doesn't fall under vanilla, missionary sex with the lights off between a biological male and a biological female.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | October 24, 2018 9:13 PM |
Well - it's a queer word. I'ts like someone trying to write Queen but their handwriting wasn't good.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | October 24, 2018 9:28 PM |
I agree R84. And that’s one of the annoying things about it. ‘Queer’ doesn’t explain or define you; it’s a nebulous term used specifically to avoid being defined. It’s useless in that regard as it purports to be a rejection of the terms it also claims to encapsulate. To be ‘queer’, in the current vernacular, is to reject any terminology that confers status. In layman’s terms, it’s most useful to those who are too ‘complex’ to be described using specific language.
You can’t reclaim the word if you’ve never experienced the crushing oppression from those who slung it at us for decades, been beaten up while someone shouts the word at you over and over, been spit on after someone calls you it. I’ve experienced all of those. I’m gay. I’m not queer. If you call me a queer, you’re the antagonist.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | October 24, 2018 9:29 PM |
I don't mind the word, but I agree with R86 about everything else. Perhaps I'm slightly too young to have experienced "queer" as the slur some others did - I don't recall that being used very frequently as I was growing up.
But, "queer" does seem to be an umbrella term for people who think they're unique. I know this young woman, who is married to a man. She calls herself "queer", although everything about her read "straight woman" - I have no idea why. She likes wearing quirky hats, maybe that's why.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | October 24, 2018 11:15 PM |
[quote]Perhaps I'm slightly too young to have experienced "queer" as the slur
Lie.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | October 24, 2018 11:17 PM |
DL is full of pussies.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | October 24, 2018 11:22 PM |
FF r83, the q word.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | October 24, 2018 11:27 PM |
[quote] I'm an older gay guy and I've had plenty of homophobic insults hurled at me over the years.
I don't ever recall being called "queer" that much. Mostly "fag." But queer was always in the background as in "he's a fucking queer." But fag was always the go-to word for bashers.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | October 24, 2018 11:33 PM |
[quote]One of the annoying things about it. ‘Queer’is it doesn’t explain or define you; it’s a nebulous term used specifically to avoid being defined
I think it's a generational thing. Boomer gays have so much history and so much drama (good and bad) and dominated the gay scent for so long - that the following generations wanted to claim their own identity, And also a stick to the old guys a little. Young people are always a little ageist - just the way thing work.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | October 24, 2018 11:39 PM |
[quote]FF R83, the q word.
Hey that's cool r72 - sorry, I didn't mean to insult you ..
by Anonymous | reply 93 | October 24, 2018 11:42 PM |
^^ dominated the gay scent
They also dominated the gay scene.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | October 24, 2018 11:44 PM |
It’s a mellow soothing scent with just a hint of drama.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | October 24, 2018 11:50 PM |
It seems that it's mostly used by those who grew up hearing the insult "that's so gay" for years and years. Thus, the word "gay" is a loaded word for them.
"LGBTQ" and "queer" is much more sterilized to them, and don't carry the baggage of "gay". The problem is that the previous generation, who regard "queer" as an insult that they themselves heard as kids, is very much still around and were clearly not consulted with this switch, in the media and beyond, to these new terms, which are sterile to some but not all. And "queer" is much easier to say than the tongue twisting list of letters.
Me, I'll stick with "gay", thank you.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | October 24, 2018 11:55 PM |
I'm a queer, a bender, a poufter, a knobshiner
by Anonymous | reply 97 | October 25, 2018 12:00 AM |
Queer= put down, abnormal. The Trans LOVE this word.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | October 25, 2018 12:03 AM |
[quote]It seems that it's mostly used by those who grew up hearing the insult "that's so gay" for years and years. Thus, the word "gay" is a loaded word for them."LGBTQ" and "queer" is much more sterilized to them, and don't carry the baggage of "gay".
Totally interesting comment and I'd never thought about"gay" being a loaded word for younger homosexuals.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | October 25, 2018 12:05 AM |
don’t you know what the queers are doing to the soil?!?
by Anonymous | reply 100 | October 25, 2018 12:09 AM |
I've used "gay" for years but lately it feels passé ... I don't like "queer" so I'm starting to use "homosexual" ... and I'm finding I like it !! It suits my personality - I like all the vowels and the syllables. You can really drag it out.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | October 25, 2018 12:13 AM |
If you went to high school and graduated in the early 2000s, then you absolutely heard "that's so gay" on a regular basis. I've seen campaigns to try and get kids to stop using the word in that way... maybe 10-12 years ago?
I've had to ask co-workers and subordinates that were only slightly younger than me, but definitely in the millennial demographic, to stop saying "gaaaay" or "that's so gay" as a response to things they don't want to hear.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | October 25, 2018 12:13 AM |
Fuck off, r83.
It’s a dehumanizing slur.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | October 25, 2018 12:27 AM |
r103 - have a good life !!
by Anonymous | reply 104 | October 25, 2018 12:31 AM |
Grow up, r104.
Why are you coercing gays to be called something they don’t want to be called? Why so invested in this? People don’t like it. Why force it?
by Anonymous | reply 105 | October 25, 2018 12:33 AM |
What's wrong with 'sexual minority community'? I cringe when a politician has to say "LGBTQIXYZ".
by Anonymous | reply 106 | October 25, 2018 12:41 AM |
Fuck you r105 - you just want to be insulted. You are very dim watt light bulb. The following is the posting you are so incensed about. I don't see any coercion. Again - fuck off you stupid troll
[quote]I don't like the word but a lot of people do - and it's new meaning (for these people) is more benign. Words mutate all the time. What was a commonplace word yesterday is a very smutty word today. And vice versa. So time will tell if queer reverts to it's old mean as being something unusual (that's the way my grandmother used it. Or it remains a gay slur. Or become something altogether different.
by Anonymous | reply 107 | October 25, 2018 12:53 AM |
r105 = attention troll
by Anonymous | reply 108 | October 25, 2018 12:55 AM |
R101, I'm a lesbian in her 30s, and I've started using "homosexual" more often, as well. I like the directness and precision of it. "Gay" is also a comfortable term, and one I'm proud to use.
But I never use "queer" for myself or other gay people, for all the reasons already outlined on this thread, particularly its popularity among straight- or mostly-straight people who want to be seen as sexually edgy.
by Anonymous | reply 109 | October 25, 2018 3:06 AM |