Gay Man Turned Away From London Bear Club for Wearing High Heels

Does Big Ears Tovey own this club?

Fats but no femmes.

This is what passes for "news"? A bar/restaurant happens to have a dress code, and someone's upset about that?

Bear wearing high heels: The last frontier. When will discrimination against the most vulnerable minority even end?

Maybe the heals identified as loafers.

*heels

It's so that the club can stay a gay club and not be invaded by straight women. I do wonder though, would a super butch woman be allowed in? If the high heels man wants to troll the club he could find one and recruit her to try, lmao!

A few years ago friends of ours were turned away from a club in London for wearing sneakers. They didn't go crying about it to everybody online. They went to another club.

R8 sick of the whining about the whining/victim mentality.....

Tough shit, R9

Where else would you, r8 and r9, go to whine about anything, other than DL?

R10 eat shit

My Victimhood is BIGGER than yours.

Why are guys into kink always so whiney?

I used to work at this club. The owner is a total and utter cunt.

Is it a sex club?

Tired of inconsequential semi trans people trying to push their somewhat mentally questionable thought processes as discrimination.

I worked there 10 years ago. There was a backroom, but it's not a sex-club per se. There's far more space given over to dancing than fucking.

This proves guys into the whole leather/rubber scene are usually bitchy little girls playing macho dress up.

[quote]‘We don’t allow femininity.’

Then why is the music set a mash of Britney, Cristina, Gaga, Jessie J, and Kylie remixes that make the bears all squeal? I've never seen more incongruity between the clientele and the soundtrack in my gay clubbing life. The boys are XL, but the vibe is way too XX for me.

I get it. Take your fat femme self elsewhere!

LITERAL GENOCIDE.

I'm glad he is taking it ok, not like Sarah Sanders getting thrown out of a restaurant.

It's a massive non-story. Even he can see it was stupid to try to get into XXL in heels.

I wore a speedo, American flag t-shirt with sleeves cut off and white clogs to Les Alliés and they would not seat me. I was OK with that. Read more of my story here.

Is he a top?

This is major, and I'm surprised with Brexit and the potential forced euro bear migration back to the continent that it's not getting more coverage.

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First they came for the femmes...

Are R13 and R21 blank for everyone else? If so, why?

[quote] “Who says heels are just for women? You can be masculine and super buff and wear heels. I think it’s sexier. It’s not a written rule.”

Yes it is, you tranny freak!

Wearing heels does not make one a tranny, wtf! I feel like we are regressing so much.

The are really ugly shoes - If they were more fabulous I doubt there would have been any problem. I wonder what the rest of his outfit looked like.

This is not a new practice. In the 80s and 90s, leather clubs were routinely turning away guys wearing polo shirts, tennis shoes etc.

The whole thing is a costume party to begin with. No harm in requiring costumes of the appropriate theme.

I suspect as someone mentioned up thread that it is a way of turning away straight women on a night out. You wouldn’t be allowed to turn women away for the simple fact they are female but dress codes are allowed and if strictly adhered to would indeed stop many women from going in.

Many are easy bottoms, but many femmes are worthless, unsexy trash anyway.

I ♥ R1

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Tempest in a tea pot.

Just you, R33. It’s a shame as r13 and r21 are the highlights of the DL. I spit out my coffee twice!

No one likes a gentleman who dresses like a trollop.

Maybe they were just concerned that he'd trip in his heels, and sue the club.

Clubs can set their own rules, simple as that. And most have the list of no-no's posted at the entrance.

as well he should be.

Notice how those presumptuous people are almost always, MTF or feminine gay men. What the common link here?

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Stealth pro-T, woe is us thread.

Maybe the high-heel wearing guy should have told the bouncer that he was a member of the cast of Kinky Boots and he was wearing part of his show costume...