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Model/Actor Zander Hodgson comes Out

"I wanted to tell everyone that I am gay, and although that doesn't change anything for me, and hopefully not for you, I just thought it was a really important thing to share with everyone.

"Although sexuality is a small part of someone, if you shut it off, then you don't allow yourself to be fully known. If you shut off one thing of yourself, then you shut off so many other things.

"I wanted to do this video as well, because when I think about all the kids out there that are being bullied, or are really struggling with their sexuality, even teenage or adults, I just want you to know that you are not alone."

He then goes on to say why he hadn't come out in the past and said it was because the acting industry "isn't very welcoming".

"There aren't many gay actors out there in my age range that I feel I can relate to. I don't think there are many opportunities out there for gay men to play straight roles," he added.

"While I love watching gay films about gay relationships, where straight actors have taken on the role, I'm also questions more and more why is a straight actor in that role when there are so many gay actors out there?"

He also admitted that coming out to his family was difficult but most of them have accepted it and still love him "regardless".

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by Anonymousreply 287October 21, 2021 3:05 AM

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by Anonymousreply 1April 17, 2018 12:07 PM

What does he act in?

by Anonymousreply 2April 17, 2018 12:17 PM

Good for him!

r2 Three credits to his name.

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by Anonymousreply 3April 17, 2018 12:23 PM

He has gay voice. Good for him.

by Anonymousreply 4April 17, 2018 12:24 PM

congrats! we luv u bb. have wonderful fun life...

by Anonymousreply 5April 17, 2018 12:25 PM

We clocked her tea like a year ago. Honestly you can’t miss it with that voice.

by Anonymousreply 6April 17, 2018 12:28 PM

R6, DONT call gay dudes female gender markers

by Anonymousreply 7April 17, 2018 12:29 PM

r7 Or what?

by Anonymousreply 8April 17, 2018 12:34 PM

god these stupid names these kids have now

by Anonymousreply 9April 17, 2018 12:35 PM

R7, DONT mark dude gays gender female callers

by Anonymousreply 10April 17, 2018 12:37 PM

So sick of girl, gurl, or the twit that incessantly uses, "girls, girls, girls, I think one ought to reserve that merde for those he knows personally likes it, rather than applying to anonymous men here. It's tired, and it is homophobic to mentally castrate a man. Not all gay men here are female pronoun loving queens either. I'm with R7 ALL THE WAY. Please stop. You are annoying.

by Anonymousreply 11April 17, 2018 12:43 PM

Yeah...BIG surprise.

by Anonymousreply 12April 17, 2018 12:44 PM

Verificatia Sizemeat

by Anonymousreply 13April 17, 2018 12:45 PM

r11 Holy tirade!

by Anonymousreply 14April 17, 2018 12:48 PM

He's ugly.

by Anonymousreply 15April 17, 2018 12:52 PM

[quote]It's tired, and it is homophobic to mentally castrate a man.

Except we're exalting femininity by doing so, not using it to denigrate gay men. To think otherwise is misogynistic in itself. You're probably a walking, talking toxic masculinity, i.e. the source of all homophobia. Just stop it with that macho bullshit as it does way more harm than playfully calling someone a girl to welcome them to our tribe or affirm their membership.

by Anonymousreply 16April 17, 2018 12:52 PM

R16 It isn't for you to make the call blindly over the internet R16, without meeting a person; that is why it is disrespectful. Furthermore many young boys were bullied and called girl, lady part names, or referred to with female pronouns when young. Whether a man is really butch, or feels macho isn't the point. Emasculating a man does not in any way, shape , or form "exalt femininity". We are not women. I said PLEASE in my post, so perhaps you should take others' points of view in consideration. We as gay men ate all different. You shouldn't accuse me of toxic masculinity either. You don't know me. Not cool.

by Anonymousreply 17April 17, 2018 12:58 PM

Who is she?

by Anonymousreply 18April 17, 2018 1:07 PM
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by Anonymousreply 19April 17, 2018 1:10 PM
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by Anonymousreply 20April 17, 2018 1:11 PM

He is a young gay man with a few acting credits. Follow the IMDb link for more.

by Anonymousreply 21April 17, 2018 1:11 PM
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by Anonymousreply 22April 17, 2018 1:13 PM

R11 is correct. Misgendering causes dissension and tension amongst gay men.

by Anonymousreply 23April 17, 2018 1:14 PM

Well, smell her at r7 and r11

Calm down and get a grip.

The majority of times people use "girl" or "gurl" or female pronouns on the DL is ironic, satiric, or sarcastic.

They are making a very specific commentary about the person, the situation, or the usage itself.

by Anonymousreply 24April 17, 2018 1:15 PM

Wow, a young person using the "g word" (as opposed to the"q word"). Mighty refreshing.

by Anonymousreply 25April 17, 2018 1:15 PM

R16, you’re presuming most men or most gay men share your gender or sexuality philosophy. It’s arrogant and rude to impose your gender sensibilities on men who don’t share them. Stay in your lane, man.

by Anonymousreply 26April 17, 2018 1:16 PM
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by Anonymousreply 27April 17, 2018 1:16 PM

I’m SO surprised.

by Anonymousreply 28April 17, 2018 1:18 PM

R16, except a huge number of bi and gay men are not welcomed by Calling them she/her/girl. They are insulted or angered by it. You can’t make people adopt your gender identity fluidity who don’t want to.

by Anonymousreply 29April 17, 2018 1:18 PM

He's really not all that good looking. In fact he looks kind of odd.

by Anonymousreply 30April 17, 2018 1:22 PM

R24 et al Why can't you reserve these monikers for your close intimate friends who you know appreciate them as compliments? Wouldn't they be more special as pet names or nicknames?

by Anonymousreply 31April 17, 2018 1:23 PM

Young sexy out guy.

Of course Datalounge hates him.

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by Anonymousreply 32April 17, 2018 1:26 PM

I think he's handsome, and though yes obviously gay, not feminine at all. I think he has a boyish charm. He may not relish being called she or girl either, I suspect!

by Anonymousreply 33April 17, 2018 1:26 PM

R33, I think he obviously effeminate, but that’s cool.

by Anonymousreply 34April 17, 2018 1:28 PM
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by Anonymousreply 35April 17, 2018 1:28 PM

[quote][R24] et al Why can't you reserve these monikers for your close intimate friends who you know appreciate them as compliments? Wouldn't they be more special as pet names or nicknames?

I 'm really hoping that r11/17/31 is just jerking our collective chains. Otherwise, it makes me ineffably sad that something as silly and common, not to mention editorial, would cause such a meltdown.

And by the way, when used ironically, satirically, or sarcastically, it's not meant as a compliment or endearment. It's meant to be biting or at least played for laughs.

Toughen up and grow a pair, Nancy.

by Anonymousreply 36April 17, 2018 1:30 PM

I'm perfectly calm here R36. Just trying to get across a different POV. I'm not toxic macho, but perfectly happy being a man. So do my friends. NONE of us appreciate the liberty of applying the female pronouns or girl/gurl indiscriminately. It's actually quite simple really. I was born in the 60's so you don't need to repeat how it has been used throughout history either, as that doesn't cause me to like it more.

by Anonymousreply 37April 17, 2018 1:35 PM

"amongst", R23? Gorl!

by Anonymousreply 38April 17, 2018 1:39 PM

Whazzat on his lip?

by Anonymousreply 39April 17, 2018 1:43 PM

I have never heard of this person.

by Anonymousreply 40April 17, 2018 1:47 PM

[quote]I'm perfectly calm here [R36]. Just trying to get across a different POV. I'm not toxic macho, but perfectly happy being a man. So do my friends. NONE of us appreciate the liberty of applying the female pronouns or girl/gurl indiscriminately. It's actually quite simple really. I was born in the 60's so you don't need to repeat how it has been used throughout history either, as that doesn't cause me to like it more.

I'm going to stick with "toughen up and grow a pair, Nancy."

[quote]I'm not toxic macho, but perfectly happy being a man.

Well, we're all so glad that you are not part of the white male oppressive patriarchy. "Toxic male" - lol. "Misgendering" - smirk.

You may not need a history lesson, but you certainly do need reading comprehension lessons. Using those phrases as irony or satire is hardly indiscriminate. As for the rest of the folks who fling it around as a verbal tick, meh. Not my favorite, but not the worst thing to be called.

by Anonymousreply 41April 17, 2018 1:48 PM

Good for her. Nice message, too.

by Anonymousreply 42April 17, 2018 1:48 PM

He's very attractive. Definitely an "A-gay."

He'll probably end up with a super hot boyfriend, and live happily ever after.

Sigh.

by Anonymousreply 43April 17, 2018 1:54 PM

R41.... I'm not the only bloke objecting here. The misgendering comment was made by one of my allies here. I do believe the first post of his was R7. There may actually three of us here. It is RATHER bitchy though to keep shoving it down people's throats. If you really do celebrate and respect diversity, just acknowledge some of us do find it offensive.

by Anonymousreply 44April 17, 2018 1:58 PM

R44, someone in the world finds everything offensive. Is it best that we all just remain silent?

by Anonymousreply 45April 17, 2018 2:01 PM

R45 No, but insulting those who object is a form of bullying and not cool. Trust me, if you met me in person, you'd never think to try it once, let alone masturbate a dead horse like this.

by Anonymousreply 46April 17, 2018 2:06 PM

Oh he's British is he? From Market Drayton, Shropshire, which is like coming from a midwestern town in the states.

I just had to google him to see that he headed off to the states to find his fame and fortune then.

As has been said, he's had a few bit parts and is looking to expand his fame.

I would mark him in the upper quartile of attractiveness for me.

by Anonymousreply 47April 17, 2018 2:07 PM

[quote][R41].... I'm not the only bloke objecting here. The misgendering comment was made by one of my allies here. I do believe the first post of his was [R7]. There may actually three of us here. It is RATHER bitchy though to keep shoving it down people's throats. If you really do celebrate and respect diversity, just acknowledge some of us do find it offensive.

Misgendering? Respect and celebrate diversity? Toxic male?

Who, other than SWF SWJ editors at Huffpo, talks like this?

by Anonymousreply 48April 17, 2018 2:08 PM

He has a surfer/skaterboy look which I really like.

by Anonymousreply 49April 17, 2018 2:09 PM

People who get that irrationally upset about the playful use of the word girls need to find real problems to concern themselves with. And also probably ask themselves why they are that insecure in their masculinity.

by Anonymousreply 50April 17, 2018 2:09 PM

No but annoying people who refuse to consider the other side are arrogant twits. You just keep insulting and repeating the same merde. Grow up!

by Anonymousreply 51April 17, 2018 2:12 PM

Okay, back to ZANDER, please!

Anywho, this kid is THICK, but in a very fit way.

He is seriously rivaling Garrett Clayton in the butt department!

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by Anonymousreply 52April 17, 2018 2:12 PM

[quote]Definitely an "A-gay."

He is a nobody, how on earth is he an A-gay?

by Anonymousreply 53April 17, 2018 2:13 PM

He could crack a coconut with those thighs!

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by Anonymousreply 54April 17, 2018 2:14 PM

[quote] how on earth is he an A-gay?

On looks alone, he can probably get in anywhere.

And guys will be crawling all over him.

This guy could probably be a "kept boy" for the next 10 years or longer, if he wanted to.

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by Anonymousreply 55April 17, 2018 2:16 PM

He sounds like a gay Jackie Onassis.

by Anonymousreply 56April 17, 2018 2:17 PM

I can't get over those massive thighs!

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by Anonymousreply 57April 17, 2018 2:17 PM

R48, Now you are making sport of the younger bloke who had initially raised the objection again. Obviously HE speaks that way.. He prob was the wiser, as he left. I'm sure he had better things to do with his time than get sucked into your hissy fit.

by Anonymousreply 58April 17, 2018 2:18 PM

"So do my friends. NONE of us appreciate the liberty of applying the female pronouns or girl/gurl indiscriminately. It's actually quite simple really."

Yes, it is.

You and your friends need to come down off that macho-ass high horse, accept who you really are, and stop being so homophobic. It's actually quite simple, really.

Referring, humorously, to gay men with female pronouns causes no harm whatsoever. Unless, of course, you make it an issue.

by Anonymousreply 59April 17, 2018 2:18 PM

[quote]On looks alone, he can probably get in anywhere.

He has a nice body, you can find a million young hunks in LA who have a nice body.

by Anonymousreply 60April 17, 2018 2:18 PM

I wonder if he works out, or if he's naturally thick?

It kind of looks to me, like that's his natural body type.

by Anonymousreply 61April 17, 2018 2:26 PM

Well R44 I didn’t insult you, but good luck enforcing your personal view of what’s offensive on the DL...

by Anonymousreply 62April 17, 2018 2:26 PM

Who IS she?

Who WAS she?

Who does she hope to be?

by Anonymousreply 63April 17, 2018 2:27 PM

R59 You are a bloody Bully-queen! Your way no matter what eh? Just accept there are different types of gay men! We all don't find you funny, and when you continue to do it, we find you oddly socialised, not well-mannered, and quite frankly, a bit "off"! (Tacky too!)

by Anonymousreply 64April 17, 2018 2:27 PM

Oh shit, the "bully-queen" bomb!

by Anonymousreply 65April 17, 2018 2:30 PM

Sad story about Zander being attacked in LA.

It wasn't a case of gay bashing, just some crazy person who came out of nowhere.

Sounds really fucking scary!

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by Anonymousreply 66April 17, 2018 2:30 PM

Damn, he's showing pubes!

Guess he's not a natural blond.

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by Anonymousreply 67April 17, 2018 2:31 PM

It was probably an effeminate bully-queen, jealous of his dripping masculinity and thick thighs, who attacked him.

by Anonymousreply 68April 17, 2018 2:32 PM

I know you are making joke, but having checked out a video of this guy calling him masculine is a laugh. He does indeed have obvious gay voice.

by Anonymousreply 69April 17, 2018 2:35 PM

Real men don’t pick on girls.

Or Gurls who calll queens girls!

by Anonymousreply 70April 17, 2018 2:35 PM

"[R59] You are a bloody Bully-queen! Your way no matter what eh? Just accept there are different types of gay men! We all don't find you funny, and when you continue to do it, we find you oddly socialized, not well-mannered, and quite frankly, a bit "off"! (Tacky too!)"

MARY!!!!!

Calm down, gurl!!!!

by Anonymousreply 71April 17, 2018 2:36 PM

Lol at the thread, the cuntessence of DL!

by Anonymousreply 72April 17, 2018 2:58 PM

And fem and stereotypical gays have nerve to question why regular masculine guys can’t get along with or hang with them. Mainstream guys naturally don’t take kindly to being misgendered or called a female. Heck a lot of fem guys find it offensive too.

by Anonymousreply 73April 17, 2018 3:06 PM

I’m as masculine as you’ll find and I don’t mind being called “girl” in a friendly manner. I don’t see why anyone would take great offense to it. It’s harmless. It’s not like the person is purposely trying to insult my manhood.

by Anonymousreply 74April 17, 2018 3:18 PM

He looks like a male version of Cindy Crawford with that visible mole.

by Anonymousreply 75April 17, 2018 3:24 PM

R74, most of the time they are precisely trying to insult a guy’s manhood. That’s why it’s done by catty men trying to be sarcastic or nasty

by Anonymousreply 76April 17, 2018 3:27 PM

Would he appeal to any of DL’s know trolls?

by Anonymousreply 77April 17, 2018 3:42 PM

Would he appeal to any of DL’s known trolls?

by Anonymousreply 78April 17, 2018 3:46 PM

He’s hot with really nice legs. That’s how you can tell he’s gay. A straight boy would not have worked out on their legs.

by Anonymousreply 79April 17, 2018 4:10 PM

R79, are you posting from 1971? Do you not know about all the fitness #LegDay bros on Instagram and social media?

by Anonymousreply 80April 17, 2018 4:24 PM

Quiet, gurl.

by Anonymousreply 81April 17, 2018 4:27 PM

Not all of us are queens living on Instagram.

by Anonymousreply 82April 17, 2018 4:28 PM

He needs to tighten up that body, I see fat

by Anonymousreply 83April 17, 2018 4:37 PM

He is a great and hot guy.

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by Anonymousreply 84April 17, 2018 4:39 PM

In some pictures he looks like Belami's Dolph Lambert.

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by Anonymousreply 85April 17, 2018 4:43 PM
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by Anonymousreply 86April 17, 2018 4:48 PM

I believe we have yet another thread started by an overzealous Insta-whore fan of someone who no one knows but the OP.

by Anonymousreply 87April 17, 2018 4:50 PM

I so much want to say something snarky, but I'm afraid that Miss R7 or one of her subsequent allies, friends, blokes will hit me with her purse.

by Anonymousreply 88April 17, 2018 4:50 PM

It's not a purse, it's a GYM BAG, brah!

by Anonymousreply 89April 17, 2018 4:53 PM

Holy crap. No comment of mine has ever caused this much drama. I’m so hard right now.

by Anonymousreply 90April 17, 2018 4:53 PM

^ WERQ, Miss Gurl!

by Anonymousreply 91April 17, 2018 4:55 PM

I don't know. It was the dudebro troll getting triggered over female pronouns that really started the fire.

You work miss dudebro troll, otherwise known as Troll 5029.

by Anonymousreply 92April 17, 2018 5:00 PM

Must be some real cray cray on this thread because I can't see 1/3 the posts.

by Anonymousreply 93April 17, 2018 5:05 PM

I hope the dudebro troll wasn't serious about gay men being humorously referred to with female pronouns.

What a terrible way to go through an adult gay life, being "offended" by something so innocuous.

by Anonymousreply 94April 17, 2018 5:08 PM

Did he reveal if he is cut or uncut?

by Anonymousreply 95April 17, 2018 5:08 PM

He is not American or Jewish, so odds are he is uncut.

by Anonymousreply 96April 17, 2018 5:09 PM

R94, he's too busy playing basketball with, and then sucking off, 'heteroflexible' black guys to get offended.

by Anonymousreply 97April 17, 2018 5:10 PM

People here act all naive and indignant about why guys dont want to come out and identify with gay, or are embarrassed to be associated with gay men. Come on, most men do not find it amusing or acceptable to call him by a female name or pronoun. It's considered as supremely insulting and emasculating. AND, whether it's right or not, it can get you beat up or killed if you do it to the wrong person. It's one thing for you to do with people who are okay with that crap, but don't expect most guys to be cool with it.

by Anonymousreply 98April 17, 2018 5:23 PM

Miss Mary at r98 needs to calm down.

It is just a silly term of endearment among gay men.

by Anonymousreply 99April 17, 2018 5:30 PM

He’s right. If many bi and gay men find the fem practice offensive, you assume the risk when you use it towards them nonetheless.

by Anonymousreply 100April 17, 2018 5:32 PM

What risk? Referring to a guy as girl entitles him to assault you?

by Anonymousreply 101April 17, 2018 5:33 PM

It happens.

by Anonymousreply 102April 17, 2018 5:33 PM

R16 The only thing it does is reinstate the ancient stereotype that if you like fucking men, you must be female.

by Anonymousreply 103April 17, 2018 5:34 PM
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by Anonymousreply 104April 17, 2018 5:34 PM

[quote]It happens.

Yes, I've been at tons of gay bars where vicious fights have broken out over someone using the world girl. I barely escaped with my life!!!

by Anonymousreply 105April 17, 2018 5:38 PM

Most bi and gay men don’t live or even frequent gay bars in 2018, ya know.

by Anonymousreply 106April 17, 2018 5:42 PM
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by Anonymousreply 107April 17, 2018 5:42 PM

My bitches call me Sir.

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by Anonymousreply 108April 17, 2018 5:45 PM

[quote]People here act all naive and indignant about why guys dont want to come out and identify with gay

Didn't stop the subject of this thread though.

by Anonymousreply 109April 17, 2018 5:48 PM

He didn’t assert all guys, just some. Actually, it’s a lot.

by Anonymousreply 110April 17, 2018 5:50 PM

[quote]Most bi and gay men don’t live or even frequent gay bars in 2018, ya know.

So where is this epidemic of mainstream masculine men being callously and cruelly called gurl by queens happening then?

by Anonymousreply 111April 17, 2018 5:51 PM

Tempest, meet teapot

by Anonymousreply 112April 17, 2018 5:52 PM

I think her hair is her best feature.

by Anonymousreply 113April 17, 2018 5:56 PM
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by Anonymousreply 114April 17, 2018 5:56 PM

[quote]Actually, it’s a lot.

You know this how? Personal testimonials?

by Anonymousreply 115April 17, 2018 6:12 PM

[quote]You know this how? Personal testimonials?

All the hot buff bi bros tell him so! Man, they would love to come out if those guys didn't use the word girl. Now let's go give each other some manly brojobs!

Typical day in the life really the dudebro troll really.

by Anonymousreply 116April 17, 2018 6:17 PM

His fantasies are not real life.

by Anonymousreply 117April 17, 2018 6:21 PM

When I put Nellie on ignore, a great number of posts disappeared.

And she's such a she. What could be queenier than spelling "nelly" n-e-l-l-i-e?

by Anonymousreply 118April 17, 2018 6:39 PM

Over 100 posts and no mention of his bf? Y'all bitches be slippin'.

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by Anonymousreply 119April 17, 2018 6:41 PM

Boring, he doesn't even have an entry on Wikipedia.

by Anonymousreply 120April 17, 2018 6:44 PM

R119 I love this comment below that pic "How many times i told you guys troy is not gay! So stop shipping him with @zanderhodgson bcuz theyre not dating and theyre not gay!!!"

by Anonymousreply 121April 17, 2018 6:50 PM

This pale, odd-faced, Truman-Capote-voiced model provides some semi-nude decoration in a TV drama called "Ray Donovan" 5 years ago.

Bear-faced Liev Schreiber is playing a tough guy in the foreground and the model is playing at being penetrated on stage in the background.

Google it.

by Anonymousreply 122April 17, 2018 6:51 PM

Lol, he is effeminate 😂. Some gay men dont go to gay bars because you will find some "gurls".

by Anonymousreply 123April 17, 2018 6:54 PM

Yeah, and they think they are not like the men who go there.

by Anonymousreply 124April 17, 2018 7:10 PM

Here's Zander with his obviously gay model friend Troy. I think Troy has the hots for Zander but not vice versa

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by Anonymousreply 125April 17, 2018 7:30 PM

Well he certainly has hella good hair, I'll give him that.

by Anonymousreply 126April 17, 2018 7:31 PM

She has a cute butt.

by Anonymousreply 127April 17, 2018 7:36 PM

He definitely looks great, no doubt about it -- but that is not an actor's voice. I guess he can do "Eating Out 5" but not much else...

by Anonymousreply 128April 17, 2018 7:39 PM

The clip at R125 has been brought to you by Miss Clairol.

MARY!

by Anonymousreply 129April 17, 2018 7:50 PM

Pretty sure there’s a minor speech disorder at work.

by Anonymousreply 130April 17, 2018 7:52 PM

Well there's always OnlyFans.

by Anonymousreply 131April 17, 2018 7:55 PM

R118 I had intentionally left out "Nellie" so as not to inflame you; no pun intended. You still are acting like an immature bully nonetheless. Funny how tiny your worldview that because I object to calling all men, STRANGERS no less, I'm a buff "dudebro". Far from it! You need to get with the times and learn better manners. This is not why people hate us, thos is why people hate bitch nellie bully-queens like yourself! It's human nature if you continue to call someone a name that they do not like or find funny, they fight back. Just as you take such umbrage to Nellie and Bully-queen. You trolls started it, don't forget. If you don't like the monikers I apply to you, then cease and desist. A British man in his 50's is hardly a "dudebro". Respect your fellow gay men and perhaps try harder to be more attractive. You type fugly.

by Anonymousreply 132April 18, 2018 12:24 AM

To defend the bloke who was quizzed on how he knows most gay men object to She, Her, Girl, Gurl, etc, ad nauseum..... There was such a DL poll taken here. Look it up! The verdict was most don't enjoy it. Juvenile twits. You are the sort who probably have no straight male friends either, and are limited by your ghetto-ised lives. Funny many of you mention you still hang at gay bars too. You are all relics of a bygone era.

by Anonymousreply 133April 18, 2018 12:31 AM

Just when I thought she'd gone away...

by Anonymousreply 134April 18, 2018 12:31 AM

" ad nauseum"

Oh, Dearie!

by Anonymousreply 135April 18, 2018 12:33 AM

R134 Just learn a lesson. Be nice too. It doesn't cost anything to be FRIENDLY.

by Anonymousreply 136April 18, 2018 12:34 AM

R134/R135 Look up the bloody thread, rather than spinning your wheelhouse to come up with more tres gay trite clichés.

by Anonymousreply 137April 18, 2018 12:36 AM

Enough with these NOBODIES! Let's see some STAHS!

by Anonymousreply 138April 18, 2018 12:38 AM

[quote]Look up the bloody thread

I'd rather look you out of it.

You seem awfully pissed about the "girl" thing consider you hang out on a board where the male webmaster goes by a female name. Though you also use the fact that some guys would actually go to a gay bar as an insult, so you got more issues than national geographic, girl.

by Anonymousreply 139April 18, 2018 12:39 AM

lock*

by Anonymousreply 140April 18, 2018 12:39 AM

YR139 ou trolls keep it up though, don't you, as I have been away ten hours, but the storm continued here w/out me! Just learn to take constructive criticism like a man, and let it go. You don't have to agree, but you should strive to treat people better. You may even finally make some real friends in the world outside datalounge, once you learn how to really respect people. Or just stay within your hive of bitchy queen bees here, your choice mate.

by Anonymousreply 141April 18, 2018 12:47 AM

Zing!

by Anonymousreply 142April 18, 2018 1:23 AM

Yup, 'Nellie bully-queen' is still a hilarious put-down, for all the unintended reasons.

by Anonymousreply 143April 18, 2018 1:28 AM

Called this months ago.

by Anonymousreply 144April 18, 2018 2:13 AM

His boyfriend has a nice butt too.

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by Anonymousreply 145April 18, 2018 12:26 PM

I'm shocked that there was any question about either one of them being gay. Troy (which is not his real name) left his boyfriend in Australia a few years ago to move to LA. As soon as he got there he seemed to hook up with Zander and they apparently have been together ever since.

They make a cute couple.

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by Anonymousreply 146April 18, 2018 1:44 PM

I want to fuck them both.

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by Anonymousreply 147April 18, 2018 2:05 PM

Him and Troy confirm their relationship.

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by Anonymousreply 148May 2, 2018 2:33 PM
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by Anonymousreply 149May 2, 2018 2:56 PM

R148 the BF is ugly and looks like Tommy Lee

by Anonymousreply 150May 2, 2018 3:15 PM

Zander looks like Jordan Barret

by Anonymousreply 151May 2, 2018 3:28 PM

[quote] [R7], DONT mark dude gays gender female callers

Mary!

by Anonymousreply 152May 2, 2018 3:31 PM

Which is the lady abd which is the man?

by Anonymousreply 153May 2, 2018 3:55 PM

I doubt think either is the man. They just take turns being the lady.

by Anonymousreply 154May 2, 2018 4:14 PM
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by Anonymousreply 155May 2, 2018 4:15 PM

Has anyone inquired about sizemeat verificatia yet?

by Anonymousreply 156May 2, 2018 4:30 PM

🍰🍰 @ R155

by Anonymousreply 157May 2, 2018 4:36 PM

Troy is more my type. Zander looks better in photographs than videos.

by Anonymousreply 158May 2, 2018 4:36 PM

Great body... doofy face, awful bottle blond hair...

he's an inspiration to me!

by Anonymousreply 159May 2, 2018 4:39 PM

Troy is everybody’s type.

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by Anonymousreply 160May 2, 2018 4:39 PM

Ostensibly they're here legally....but how? What do they do that makes them useful to the US and therefore suitable for immigration here?

"Oh, yea, so then I moved from [insert non-American place] to [NYC or LA typically] to [explore, find myself, other nonsense]."

How?

by Anonymousreply 161May 2, 2018 4:43 PM
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by Anonymousreply 162May 2, 2018 4:46 PM

R161, I came here as a model of “extraordinary merit and ability.”

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by Anonymousreply 163May 2, 2018 4:49 PM
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by Anonymousreply 164May 2, 2018 7:15 PM

They sure are advertising their cakes

by Anonymousreply 165May 2, 2018 7:16 PM
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by Anonymousreply 166May 2, 2018 8:34 PM

This kid won't be so pretty when he inevitably loses his hair.

He'll look like Jack Palance (with a very big mole)

by Anonymousreply 167May 2, 2018 9:35 PM

Have we established what his next career move will be?

by Anonymousreply 168May 3, 2018 10:12 AM

^ I can’t imagine

by Anonymousreply 169May 3, 2018 11:44 AM

Okay

by Anonymousreply 170May 4, 2018 2:07 AM

You already have enough selfies in your room!!! Get out there and make some cute memories around this sexy planet

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by Anonymousreply 171May 4, 2018 2:35 AM
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by Anonymousreply 172May 4, 2018 3:14 PM

I think that cactus is aroused.

by Anonymousreply 173May 4, 2018 3:17 PM

Well there's a shock.

by Anonymousreply 174May 4, 2018 3:24 PM

Zander has quite a nice ass on him.

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by Anonymousreply 175May 4, 2018 10:42 PM

It must be so much fun nowadays to be young, successful, gorgeous and coupled with another stud

by Anonymousreply 176May 4, 2018 10:59 PM

Do y'all ever womder who's taking the photo of them? Especially when it's a road trip, middle of nowhere shot. Talk about thitd wheel...

by Anonymousreply 177May 4, 2018 11:09 PM

Christ, there must be so much semen on their bed sheets.

by Anonymousreply 178May 4, 2018 11:17 PM

Cool dude

by Anonymousreply 179May 5, 2018 8:26 PM

The love

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by Anonymousreply 180May 5, 2018 9:17 PM

R177 It looks as though they're being photographed by a professional photographer supplied by an agency called HGGuyz.

by Anonymousreply 181May 5, 2018 9:45 PM

His physique is goals yo

by Anonymousreply 182May 6, 2018 11:54 AM

[quote] His physique is goals yo

Translation please.

by Anonymousreply 183May 6, 2018 2:16 PM

Can the sex tape be too far behind?

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by Anonymousreply 184May 12, 2018 6:34 PM

Ok that's both cute and extremely hot R184

by Anonymousreply 185May 12, 2018 6:36 PM

Poor things. It so hard to be yourselves under the white-hot glare of Instaho fame. I hope they don’t crack under the pressure.

by Anonymousreply 186May 12, 2018 6:45 PM

Young love ... and a little social media fame hoing.

by Anonymousreply 187May 12, 2018 7:19 PM

Has h modeled for A & F? He has that WASPY look.

by Anonymousreply 188May 12, 2018 7:25 PM

Of course he has R188

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by Anonymousreply 189May 12, 2018 7:26 PM

R186 It isn't a 'LITTLE social media fame hoing'.

This corporation spent thousands on stylists, lighting men and photographers on this jaunts through the desert towns manufacturing this successful public-relations 'romnce'.

71,618 people have watched this miniature movie in the last 23 hours.

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by Anonymousreply 190May 12, 2018 7:28 PM

😮 wow

by Anonymousreply 191May 19, 2018 4:53 AM

Zander and Troy have been together for a long time. They just recently revealed their relationship but there are photos and Instastories of them together that go back probably over a year now.

by Anonymousreply 192May 19, 2018 4:57 AM

Does it really count when nobody knows who the hell he is in the first place?

by Anonymousreply 193May 19, 2018 4:59 AM

Zander's career will vanish when he loses all that wavy hair.

by Anonymousreply 194May 19, 2018 5:02 AM

Before Troy revealed he was dating Zander he was posting cryptic pics of him lying in bed with a genderneutral person for weeks. I'm glad he finally revealed it.

by Anonymousreply 195May 19, 2018 5:03 AM

His boyfriend has an onlyfans account ,why date a whore?

by Anonymousreply 196May 19, 2018 5:06 AM

I want to see their sex tape.

by Anonymousreply 197May 19, 2018 2:19 PM

Which one is the top?

by Anonymousreply 198May 19, 2018 2:30 PM

Haz el amor, no la guerra

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by Anonymousreply 199May 19, 2018 7:21 PM

As long as they're still hot, I support it.

by Anonymousreply 200May 19, 2018 7:30 PM

Feel free to join

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by Anonymousreply 201May 28, 2018 6:04 PM

Whores in Nature!

by Anonymousreply 202May 28, 2018 6:05 PM

So wait... are they both bottoms?

by Anonymousreply 203May 28, 2018 6:09 PM

Has anyone here subscribed to Troy's OnlyFans? 87% of his uploads are photos so it'll probably all be very tame, but you never know.

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by Anonymousreply 204May 28, 2018 6:22 PM

R190 I feel like some couples on ig are fake

by Anonymousreply 205May 28, 2018 6:28 PM

Between the voice and the mole I foresee a brilliant career.

by Anonymousreply 206May 28, 2018 6:42 PM

Nice bros

by Anonymousreply 207May 28, 2018 7:08 PM

Built like brick houses

by Anonymousreply 208May 29, 2018 1:50 AM

He looks so masculine but that voice is so MTF 😲

by Anonymousreply 209May 31, 2018 8:50 PM

True

by Anonymousreply 210June 1, 2018 1:15 AM

It's a generic English gay voice.

by Anonymousreply 211June 1, 2018 1:16 AM

It’s generic bottom slut voice

by Anonymousreply 212June 1, 2018 1:31 AM

Not generic

by Anonymousreply 213June 1, 2018 2:15 PM

#BottumzRool

by Anonymousreply 214June 1, 2018 2:40 PM

Cutie pie

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by Anonymousreply 215June 2, 2018 2:38 AM

That’s a cute butt in R215.

by Anonymousreply 216June 2, 2018 2:39 AM

Just guys being guys

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by Anonymousreply 217June 16, 2018 2:31 AM

Nice ass.

by Anonymousreply 218June 16, 2018 2:37 AM

Stop buying plastic?

How about [italic]stop being plastic.[/italic]

by Anonymousreply 219June 16, 2018 2:40 AM

a lot of posts for two people I have never heard of.

by Anonymousreply 220June 16, 2018 2:43 AM

Who took the photo at R217? Did they set up the timer on the camera? Or ask a stranger walking by to take a picture of them kissing while shirtless which is a totally normal thing to ask a stranger to do?

by Anonymousreply 221June 16, 2018 3:01 AM

Who is attracted to him?

by Anonymousreply 222June 16, 2018 3:04 AM

[quote] zanderhodgson Planning mine and @troypes travels... so far we’re heading to London, Paris, Tuscany, Venice, Morroco! Let me know if u have any suggestions of places to visit or things to do while we’re there!

Hmmmm. Wonder who is footing the bill for all this world travel.

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by Anonymousreply 223June 16, 2018 3:24 AM

Hot dude

by Anonymousreply 224June 16, 2018 3:28 AM

both their asscunts are as magnificent as u can imagine

the cost to fuk them is high, but clearly worth every franklin...

by Anonymousreply 225June 16, 2018 5:34 AM

This guys voice is so stupid though.

by Anonymousreply 226June 16, 2018 5:40 AM

It sounds like a little girl voice.

by Anonymousreply 227June 16, 2018 5:45 AM

Referring to gay men as "she." is misogynist. It's not done lovingly, but disparagingly. Another male denigration of women.

by Anonymousreply 228June 16, 2018 6:11 AM

To the contrary, R228. Most of us are femme to some degree of another. Calling another feminine gay man "she" isn't simply a means of othering, but a complex, ambivalent expression of solidarity. It says "deep in your heart, you're one of us."

by Anonymousreply 229June 16, 2018 6:47 PM

It’s a vile and repugnant practice by effeminate gays who have a lot of internalized hatred. It’s one legitimate reason why many guys don’t want to associate with effeminate gay dudes.

by Anonymousreply 230June 16, 2018 6:51 PM

It's only seen as vile and repugnant by unfledged dude bros deeply insecure about their own fragile, tenuous sense of masculinity. Basic reaction formation.

by Anonymousreply 231June 16, 2018 6:59 PM

r231, don’t be a nasty stereotype

by Anonymousreply 232June 16, 2018 7:07 PM
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by Anonymousreply 233June 16, 2018 7:15 PM

DL's brodude should be outside playing a sport or something....

by Anonymousreply 234June 16, 2018 7:17 PM

Joshua Tree California - Favourite spots

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by Anonymousreply 235June 17, 2018 3:09 AM

Boom

by Anonymousreply 236June 17, 2018 10:45 PM

Looks like he blew his crotch out in OP's picture.

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by Anonymousreply 237June 18, 2018 1:07 AM

Have these two found a pair of "Don Burns" to... sponsor them? Note fellow... traveller Dillon Gike.

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by Anonymousreply 238June 20, 2018 12:03 AM

Boss

by Anonymousreply 239June 20, 2018 12:08 AM

I refer to my closest family members and friends as “she.” I don’t have a hang-up about gender.

by Anonymousreply 240June 20, 2018 12:10 AM

Good for you, but realize most people do, especially. Males. Respect means not imposing your own personal preferences on others.

by Anonymousreply 241June 20, 2018 12:11 AM

You might do, R241, but somehow I doubt Miss Zander would.

by Anonymousreply 242June 20, 2018 12:20 AM

I dunno, but until you know for sure, it’s presumptuous and disrespectful to call him outside his gender identity

by Anonymousreply 243June 20, 2018 12:34 AM

Sweetie, I think you're on the wrong forum. Presumption and disrespect are our common currency.

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by Anonymousreply 244June 20, 2018 1:00 AM

[quote] Have these two found a pair of "Don Burns" to... sponsor them? Note fellow... traveller Dillon Gike.

The IG videos from one of the three of them (Zander, Troy, or Dylan) showed all of them on a private jet being flown from London to Paris.

So, I guess we know the answer about how they can afford all of this lovely travel.

by Anonymousreply 245June 20, 2018 12:33 PM

I how Troy’s ‘stop buying plastic’ as it’s bad for the environment posts from last week are followed this week by selfies in a helicopter to and from Heathrow, private jet to Paris and another helicopter trip to Ascot.. !

by Anonymousreply 246June 21, 2018 9:46 PM

Xander looks like...

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by Anonymousreply 247June 21, 2018 10:47 PM

Or rather will, when time's tide smothers him.

by Anonymousreply 248June 21, 2018 11:03 PM

Who is that dude?

by Anonymousreply 249June 22, 2018 12:00 AM

Charles Bronson...

by Anonymousreply 250June 22, 2018 12:02 AM

R250 It's actually Charlie Buchinsky.

by Anonymousreply 251June 22, 2018 12:59 AM

His bod is goals

by Anonymousreply 252June 22, 2018 4:30 PM

[quote] His bod is goals

Is that a World Cup reference?

by Anonymousreply 253June 22, 2018 4:36 PM

Oh look. A private jet probably paid for by a horny old gay man

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by Anonymousreply 254June 23, 2018 6:13 PM

I'm getting a bit tired of his over-tousled mop-head.

Jilly Cooper referred to it as the 'Just-Raped Look'. Does this model ever appear in a suit or properly combed, neat hair?

by Anonymousreply 255June 23, 2018 7:33 PM

[quote] "No Gender"

What the fuck. "No gender." Get real. How about no bullshit nonsense.

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by Anonymousreply 256June 25, 2018 12:48 AM

It’s the thing now

by Anonymousreply 257June 25, 2018 12:51 AM

Doesn't that just mean "love knows no gender"? Like men can love men, women can love women?

by Anonymousreply 258June 25, 2018 1:16 AM

Does it, R258? If that's the case it is hardly a model of clarity Because, it sounds like some trans-queer non-binary agenda item.

by Anonymousreply 259June 25, 2018 2:26 AM

R11 Thanks gurl!

by Anonymousreply 260June 25, 2018 2:32 AM

Is this Z?

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by Anonymousreply 261August 4, 2018 2:26 PM

That's Daniel Peyer R261

by Anonymousreply 262August 4, 2018 4:41 PM

They look similar

by Anonymousreply 263August 4, 2018 4:47 PM

Not really. Zander's not as muscular and his hair is more out of control.

by Anonymousreply 264August 4, 2018 4:53 PM

I lovE ZANDER

by Anonymousreply 265August 4, 2018 8:32 PM

Poor Troy

[quote]All the comments on my Attitude Magazine feature are negative and destructive. It’s like we just want to kill each other and be by ourselves in this world.... almost like people just need to say bad things and only bad things about others before...

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by Anonymousreply 266August 23, 2018 1:45 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 267August 25, 2018 12:19 PM

Troy is correct. The internet exposes the evil in peoples’ heart.

by Anonymousreply 268August 25, 2018 12:19 PM

He’s aesthetically incredible

by Anonymousreply 269September 22, 2018 3:31 PM

It appears that the two of them just lay around in tropical locations. Who pays them to be so indolent?

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by Anonymousreply 270November 7, 2018 4:10 AM

Slow news day

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by Anonymousreply 271January 26, 2019 8:43 PM

I'd love to hear from someone on in the inside in fashion: does stuff like this hurt him in terms of bookings, etc.? I don't mean morally but is the argument still that the mystery is ruined? Would CK book him? Versace? Are we way past that these days? Really curious.

by Anonymousreply 272January 26, 2019 8:58 PM

The Jane Fonda hair isn’t working for her.

by Anonymousreply 273January 27, 2019 3:35 PM

Cool bro

by Anonymousreply 274January 27, 2019 4:36 PM

Oof, that mug. Good thing she’s gotyouth and muscles cuz her face is busted.

by Anonymousreply 275January 27, 2019 9:59 PM

Beautiful bro

by Anonymousreply 276May 14, 2019 7:06 PM

He's so brave.

by Anonymousreply 277May 14, 2019 7:11 PM

His physique is goals

by Anonymousreply 278May 15, 2020 10:59 PM

Whats that thing by his lip?

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by Anonymousreply 279May 15, 2020 11:15 PM

And just like that the two of them — Troy and Zander — became three and their thouple was born. Welcome, Jerreths!!!

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by Anonymousreply 280October 13, 2020 4:15 PM

Oh! Is Colton okay?

by Anonymousreply 281October 13, 2020 4:20 PM

It’s always nice to involve the elderly in your lives. We can learn so much from them.

by Anonymousreply 282October 13, 2020 4:54 PM

Troy

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by Anonymousreply 283January 30, 2021 1:50 PM

[quote] Toughen up and grow a pair, Nancy.

Why don't you reattach yours? You're an embarrassment to all gay men who like being men.

by Anonymousreply 284January 30, 2021 6:10 PM

[quote] There may actually three of us here.

Count me in. I've been WWing most of the posts on your side.

by Anonymousreply 285January 30, 2021 6:15 PM

‘A friend of Anthony Watson’

by Anonymousreply 286January 30, 2021 6:20 PM

Sex scene

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