Regarding Woody's words from the article at R128:
[quote]I had been going out with Mia for 12 years and never in that time did she ever suggest to me anything resembling misconduct.
In her book, Mia said that Woody had already been in therapy for the way he behaved around Dylan. She could be lying, I realize, but she did publish the information in a book.
[quote]Now, suddenly, when I had driven up to her house in Connecticut one afternoon to visit the kids for a few hours, when I would be on my raging adversary’s home turf, with half a dozen people present, when I was in the blissful early stages of a happy new relationship with the woman I’d go on to marry
Woody, blissful? Sounds like he's trying too hard to legitimize his affair with Soon-Yi. And also to hurt Mia even more. Or make her cringe herself to death.
[quote]Justice Wilk was quite rough on me and never approved of my relationship with Soon-Yi, Mia’s adopted daughter, who was then in her early 20s. He thought of me as an older man exploiting a much younger woman, which outraged Mia as improper despite the fact she had dated a much older Frank Sinatra when she was 19. In fairness to Justice Wilk, the public felt the same dismay over Soon-Yi and myself, but despite what it looked like our feelings were authentic and we’ve been happily married for 16 years
Mia wasn't outraged because of the age difference, Woody, she was outraged because you were having sex with her daughter, and the sister of her and your children. (He's so willfully disingenuous!)
[quote]I felt guilty that by falling in love with Soon-Yi I had put Dylan in the position of being used as a pawn for revenge. Soon-Yi and I made countless attempts to see Dylan but Mia blocked them all, spitefully knowing how much we both loved her but totally indifferent to the pain and damage she was causing the little girl merely to appease her own vindictiveness.
1.) Taking pornographic pictures of a teenager isn't "falling in love". 2.) "Oh, come on Mia, Allow me and Dylan's sister to hang out together. She'll be quite comfortable with the guy who just cheated on her mother and the girl he cheated with, and never mind about the fact that I'm her father and my new lover is also her sister!"
Throughout that article his arrogance is obvious, but what's most telling (to me) is how he never acknowledges that Mia's pain and torment are valid and are understandable responses to the fact that she just found out that the man she loves has been having sex with one of her daughters, has taken nude photos of her, and he's just blindsided her and their children. He's incredibly disingenuous. We all know he's intelligent, so he actually does get it, he just doesn't care. Big difference. This all leads me to believe Mia's accusations regarding Dylan. Woody had and has no humility about what he did to Mia or their family; his calm self-righteousness is that of a guilty person, in my opinion.