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Why do people from stable backgrounds go into porn?

I don't understand why someone would choose to do porn if there are other options available to them. I get if the person came from an unstable background or was desperate for money or even if they just like sex, but some of them are college educated and seem to have a brain. This one guy, Zeb from CF, is model gorgeous, seems to be from a close middle class family, college educated and even plays the violin. He seems very together and has his own business now and a wife and kids. So why the hell would someone like this decide to go into gay porn?

by Anonymousreply 4012/12/2017

Because they are studs.

by Anonymousreply 112/07/2017

Some folks ard exhibitionists who get a specific thrill by the idea of doing this kind of stuff.

by Anonymousreply 212/07/2017

Some people who you think have "a good brain" actually don't know how to use it to hold a job that pays anything and they hate school.

by Anonymousreply 312/07/2017

A superficially good background doesn't mean he wasn't sexually abused as a child.

by Anonymousreply 412/07/2017

[quote]some of them are college educated and seem to have a brain. This one guy, Zeb from CF, is model gorgeous, seems to be from a close middle class family, college educated and even plays the violin.

I think it's darling that you actually believe that his name is Zeb, he went to college, and plays violin - because they'd certainly never make up the backgrounds for these guys.

While I suppose ANYTHING is possible, what is more probable - that someone with that background does porn or that the background is made up fantasy?

Of course, there's always the random exception, people from relatively normal background become serial killers, but I think that is probably the explanation for the vast majority of people about whom you're wondering.

by Anonymousreply 512/07/2017

Just so they can have a bit of pin money.

by Anonymousreply 612/07/2017

R3 is right. I know a gogo boy who also escorts who's from an upper middle class family and who goes to a good college in the Los Angeles area. It's just about the quick cash.

by Anonymousreply 712/07/2017

Those sterling silver phone dialers aren't going to buy themselves.

by Anonymousreply 812/07/2017

Just because you are attending/attended college does not mean you have money. Is it 1980 where a college degree still meant a stable middle class life?

Sex addiction and exhibitionism is HUGE in the porn industry. They get off on people watching them have sex.

by Anonymousreply 912/07/2017

R5- of course I know his name isn't Zeb! The info is on Instagram under his real name. I won't post it here, but it's not hard to find.

He seems very dedicated to his business and not lazy at all. Would never in a million years think he ever did porn. I guess it is about the quick cash, but fuck, porn is something that will haunt you forever. Wonder what his family thinks and his wife.

by Anonymousreply 1012/07/2017

They don't. If they say their background was normal, they're lying.

by Anonymousreply 1112/07/2017

Great sex - and great drugs!

Fuck the stable background.

by Anonymousreply 1212/07/2017

Straight porn actor Johnny Sins always had it in his bio that he graduated with a business degree. It was hilarious to read that he gave up the business world for a career in porn. As if one day, he was trading Microsoft stock and the next day he was performing cunnilingus on some blonde with big tits.

by Anonymousreply 1312/07/2017

Who cares!

by Anonymousreply 1412/07/2017

OP there is no way for you to know how "stable" anyone's background really was. And financial stability does not necessarily = emotional stability.

by Anonymousreply 1512/07/2017

it's all about the ¢a$hola.

by Anonymousreply 1612/07/2017

R13 There's a similar story in this clip.

by Anonymousreply 1712/07/2017

Did you people learn nothing about pathological lying from Prince Truvada?

I know a few normalish college educated guys who turned tricks when young but none who ever did porn. Few people ever have to know someone screwed for money. But porn is uncontrollable. Very dumb move for someone on track for a middle class life.

by Anonymousreply 1812/07/2017

Here's a straight actor who also graduated from college and decided to do porn instead.

by Anonymousreply 1912/07/2017

Because being middle class doesn't mean anything in terms of "stability", "morality" or a lot of other things most people value. OP is simply a snob and clearly naive about the ways of the world.

by Anonymousreply 2012/07/2017

What about US? What does it say about us that we don't care that the people we get off on are being exploited? That we only expect people with a bad background to entertain us? Give up the vice.

by Anonymousreply 2112/07/2017

Porn performers get pissed off at your judging their choices and casting them as are victims who are ruining their lives r4. Many of them like doing porn y'know.

by Anonymousreply 2212/07/2017

Obviously that was aimed at R21*

by Anonymousreply 2312/07/2017

I'm watching this soap opera playing out on pornhub and twitter. They've been together since they were 15. Married at 18 as they started college. She's the girl next door and he's her cute but skinny boy husband. They throw some clumsy videos up and then decide to produce "romantic" videos. Then there are a few public place videos. How naughty.

Now she's 20 and they have dumped college to devote time to their "careers". She catches him secretly checking out their bank accounts. Then he leaves. She tries for a few weeks on her own with a new partner who wants his face blocked. She's getting nervous cause she's losing income because their public videos had to be taken down due to law suit threats. A week later her husband comes back and she stiffs the new co-worker. Takes those videos down because she doesn't want to pay him. Husband demands videos put up in his name and his account. This Christmas she's going to tell her parents about her "career"..

Can't take my eyes off of this real time, real life train wreck.

Oh and I think her husband might be gay.

by Anonymousreply 2412/07/2017

Carter Dane is very hot and seems sweet. Listening to him, you think he was working as a United Nations Nurse or something, everyone is so wonderful. Hmmm.

He has one of those delicious holes that sits high in the ass surface, not deep in the ass cheeks. Wonderful for eating out and fucking, I have seen.

by Anonymousreply 2512/07/2017

This video explains all you need to know. Questions will be answered at the end of the video.

by Anonymousreply 2612/07/2017

Melania used to pose naked kissing another woman in bed with her shaved vagina and is now the First Lady of the most powerful country in the world.

Kim Kardashian made a sex tape which propelled her family into creating a billion dollar empire for the past ten years.

The world has changed.

by Anonymousreply 2712/12/2017

"Why do people from stable backgrounds go into porn? "

They were groomed for it?

by Anonymousreply 2812/12/2017

They don't have the hangups OP does about porn and probably don't have a big problem with it. Not everyone sees it as exploitative or life nullifying.

by Anonymousreply 2912/12/2017

R7 So do you get a 'family and friends' discount or pay full price?

by Anonymousreply 3012/12/2017

[quote]What about US? What does it say about us that we don't care that the people we get off on are being exploited? That we only expect people with a bad background to entertain us? Give up the vice.

We don’t care BECAUSE we know this isn’t really “Exploitation” is it? The days of Traci Lords are over. The porn industry has been regulated so much since then I find it hard to believe that exploitation is even an issue. I’m not saying that it doesn’t happen in some form or another but all of these adults know what the fuck they're doing. I had a shitty childhood--like most people--and if I had the opportunity to monetize it, why shouldn't I?

Also, morality and porn don’t really mix well, so…..

by Anonymousreply 3112/12/2017

R20 But you need "unstable and immoral" middle class folks to pay for your Obamacare and your free phone.

by Anonymousreply 3212/12/2017

Mental issues. The guy from OP, with all he's got going for him, may also be mentally ill. It might not show yet (apart from the porn), but it will.

by Anonymousreply 3312/12/2017

R21 Are porn stars the new victims? The victim train is so long, I just can't keep up anymore. I often feel "exploited' after watching porn - where do I get my train ticket?

by Anonymousreply 3412/12/2017

Why do bears shit in the woods? Because they can.

by Anonymousreply 3512/12/2017

Wait a minute.... that guy at R26 is supposed to be straight? With a voice like that?

by Anonymousreply 3612/12/2017

This person named Zebediah claims to plays the violin while having the word F. O. R. Z. A. printed in a permanent skin-stain on his flesh.

by Anonymousreply 3712/12/2017

R27, You are obsessed with Melania. Are you male or female?

by Anonymousreply 3812/12/2017

$$$$

by Anonymousreply 3912/12/2017

Why do Zebediah and Caleb and Joshua and Jacob all have such Biblical names?

by Anonymousreply 4012/12/2017
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