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When two homosexualists get engaged, who usually pops the question - top or the bottom?


by Anonymousreply 1412/07/2017

The top

by Anonymousreply 112/06/2017

In true heteronormative fashion it's the top, who incidentally also picks up the tab on all dates.

by Anonymousreply 212/06/2017

What if both are sexually fluid ?

by Anonymousreply 312/06/2017


by Anonymousreply 412/06/2017

R3 The vers top proposes, You wanna? Vers bottom accepts with, Dunno how about you?

by Anonymousreply 512/06/2017

The power bottom

by Anonymousreply 612/06/2017

I have a feeling it's usually the bottom who proposes (or at least forces his partner into proposing). Since 90 % of gay population consists of bottoms they usually panic and try to get a ring on their top's finger before they find some younger and fitter ass to bang.

by Anonymousreply 712/06/2017

The one with the ring silly!

by Anonymousreply 812/07/2017

The top proposes. And once they're married, sometimes the bottom takes the top's last name.

by Anonymousreply 912/07/2017

That’s a stupid question OP.

by Anonymousreply 1012/07/2017

In theory, it should be the top. But in practice, it's usually the bottom.

by Anonymousreply 1112/07/2017

This question is like that episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation "Darmok"

In that episode, the crew meets a race who seem to speak in gibberish. The words all make sense, but without a common frame of reference, are meaningless.

OP - you ask a question using all the right words - engaged, top, bottom, and such - but you string them together in a manner which is simply gibberish to actual gay men.

It's as if you're not really gay, but are trying to speak our language.

Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra, OP.

Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra.

by Anonymousreply 1212/07/2017

Thomas of PJ and Thomas did take his husband's last name. There's something subtly dominant about PJ, he made the proposal, and the way they interact leads me to believe that Thomas is most likely the bottom in that relationship.

by Anonymousreply 1312/07/2017

Did no one else notice that OP's cake topper looks like two butch lesbians in tuxes?

by Anonymousreply 1412/07/2017
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