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Why Can’t I Stop Fantasizing About Being Raped By Muscular Straight Men?

What’s wrong with me, DL?

by Anonymousreply 156Last Sunday at 2:15 PM

Oh, honey, I don't have the time nor inclination to begin to answer that, but good luck to you.

by Anonymousreply 112/02/2017

Someday your hormones will calm down and you'll wonder what all the craziness was about.

by Anonymousreply 212/02/2017

I’ll join you for sloppy seconds..

by Anonymousreply 312/02/2017

John, get the fuck off the computer.

by Anonymousreply 412/02/2017

Maybe because you're emotionally disturbed?

by Anonymousreply 512/02/2017

I want this guy to rape me.

by Anonymousreply 612/02/2017

easy...you are a woman.

by Anonymousreply 712/02/2017

there is a book out now called "everybody lies" the author had unlimited access to google search data. women's #1 search was "how to tell if my pussy stinks" and the 2nd was searches for "rape porn". go figure. excellent book btw.

by Anonymousreply 812/02/2017
by Anonymousreply 912/02/2017

Like “rape” rape?

by Anonymousreply 1012/02/2017

I don't know what's wrong with you but you might ring up Matt Lauer. He's got lots of time on his hands now and he's an abusive asshole so he might really be able to deliver a good rapin.

by Anonymousreply 1112/02/2017

Yeah “rape” rape.

by Anonymousreply 1212/02/2017

[quote]"Why can't I stop fantasizing about being raped by muscular straight men?"

Because you're Angela Lansbury?

by Anonymousreply 1312/02/2017

...all together now.... you’re a whore, darling...

by Anonymousreply 1412/02/2017

You're not alone OP.

But please, for your sake, keep it in the realm of fantasy.

by Anonymousreply 1512/02/2017

Nothing a Craigslist and can't cure!

by Anonymousreply 1612/02/2017

Lots.

by Anonymousreply 1712/02/2017

Is this what you want?

by Anonymousreply 1812/02/2017

I have the same fantasy about my dentist. It started when he asked me if I like hard candy.

by Anonymousreply 1912/02/2017
by Anonymousreply 2012/02/2017

Because you want them but can't imagine them making contact with you by normal means.

by Anonymousreply 2112/02/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymousreply 2212/02/2017

FRAU ALERT!

by Anonymousreply 2312/02/2017

When I worked in children’s publishing I had a colleague who was very serious, extremely over educated and a committed and very vocal feminist. We got rip roaring drunk one night and she stunned me by telling me nothing turned her on more than being carried off kicking and screaming to be raped by a huge powerful man.

As the gay on here might say, momma’s muzzy got decidedly moist as she picturesquely described her dream scenario, as it was easy to insert oneself into the image ....

by Anonymousreply 2412/02/2017

Sorry, I should have said nothing turned her on more than FANTASIES of that, lol!

by Anonymousreply 2512/02/2017

Serious answer- because you subconsciously are afraid that if you are bottoming and enjoying it, you’ll be taking the feminine role that gays/society/gay society looks down on in a man. By having the choice taken away from you by having someone force you into that position, it removes the responsibility from you of actually enjoying the submissive role.

Unserious answer- you’re just gagging for a shag.

by Anonymousreply 2612/02/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymousreply 2712/02/2017

Sure Jan.

by Anonymousreply 2812/02/2017

[quote]I have the same fantasy about my dentist. It started when he asked me if I like hard candy.

That's enough about you, Marcia.

by Anonymousreply 2912/02/2017

The key word here is “straight”, right?

by Anonymousreply 3012/02/2017

I want to go back to college so this guy can get drunk and rape me at a frat party.

by Anonymousreply 3112/03/2017

Enjoy it as fantasy. You will have many in your lifetime, depending on where you are emotionally. Fantasies are healthy and free!

by Anonymousreply 3212/03/2017

I hope you keep your anus sparkling clean at all times.

by Anonymousreply 3312/03/2017
by Anonymousreply 3412/03/2017

#metoo

by Anonymousreply 3512/03/2017

Rape me.

by Anonymousreply 3612/03/2017

Rape me.

by Anonymousreply 3712/03/2017

Rape me.

by Anonymousreply 3812/03/2017

[QUOTE]Serious answer- because you subconsciously are afraid that if you are bottoming and enjoying it, you’ll be taking the feminine role that gays/society/gay society looks down on in a man.

Well I do consider myself a dom top so that would make sense. Still I have no desire to bottom.

by Anonymousreply 3912/03/2017

As a rapist, I find the idea of anyone fantasizing over me raping them to be offensive.

by Anonymousreply 4012/03/2017
by Anonymousreply 4112/03/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymousreply 4212/03/2017

So you said at r27.

by Anonymousreply 4312/03/2017

If you want it and are looking for it, it ain't rape.

You are unrape-able.

by Anonymousreply 4412/03/2017

You can’t be offended by someone fantasizing about being raped, repetitive frau. But I think the rapist at R40 makes a good point.

by Anonymousreply 4512/03/2017

Sick people.

by Anonymousreply 4612/03/2017

Rape should only be used as a word outside its normal meaning if it's really, really funny, or if it annoys someone a lot.

by Anonymousreply 4712/03/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymousreply 4812/03/2017
by Anonymousreply 4912/03/2017

In my fantasies, the sex is consensual.

by Anonymousreply 5012/03/2017

[quote] As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

Who gives a shit how you find it?

by Anonymousreply 5112/03/2017

[QUOTE]In my fantasies, the sex is consensual.

Not in mine.

by Anonymousreply 5212/03/2017

OP thinks he's Edith Bunker

by Anonymousreply 5312/03/2017

Consensual rape?

by Anonymousreply 5412/03/2017

[quote]OP thinks he's Edith Bunker

To think that could have been me!

by Anonymousreply 5512/03/2017

[QUOTE]Consensual rape?

[QUOTE]Consensual non-consent, also called meta-consent and blanket consent, is a mutual agreement to be able to act as if consent has been waived. It is an agreement where comprehensive consent is given in advance, with the intent of it being irrevocable under most circumstances. This often occurs without foreknowledge of the exact actions planned.

by Anonymousreply 5612/03/2017

A friend of mine had a rape fantasy, and left his door unlocked one night so another friend could come over and "take" him. But when the visitor crawled into bed with him, my friend woke up, disoriented, and punched him in the face.

It didn't work out.

by Anonymousreply 5712/03/2017

The visitor’s mistake was crawling into bed and awakening him. He should’ve tied your friend’s hands behind his back, gagged him, and proceeded to give him the pounding he asked for.

by Anonymousreply 5812/03/2017
by Anonymousreply 5912/03/2017

Instead of raped, say ravished.

by Anonymousreply 6012/03/2017

I think the fantasy of being overpowered by a stronger man is kinda common in the gay world, and there’s rape and then “rape.”

I’m an older burly nicely hung guy and I’ve had a few younger twink types who’ve wanted a “rape” type encounter - we talk it out before hand, set the limits, agree on a safe word, and then have fun with it. It’s just another flavor of sex play - and a way to scratch that itch.

by Anonymousreply 6112/03/2017

[QUOTE]Instead of raped, say ravished.

No thanks. “Ravished” sounds like something out of a frau romance novel.

by Anonymousreply 6212/03/2017

Don't you have work to do this weekend, Senator McConnell?

by Anonymousreply 6312/03/2017

The bottom in r52 looks like Obama.

by Anonymousreply 6412/03/2017

I'd say its because you're one of the agents provocateurs that now infest this site.

by Anonymousreply 6512/03/2017

It's not rape if you want him to have sex with you

by Anonymousreply 6612/03/2017

I want to be the brutalized one in this movie. Taken over, dominated and hunted by a handsome, aggressive, sexually ambiguous "straight" man who has some sort of weird fixation on me.

But only in the movie.

by Anonymousreply 6712/03/2017
by Anonymousreply 6812/03/2017

As a rape fantasy, I find the idea of a woman personally offensive.

by Anonymousreply 6912/03/2017

Hormones = whore moans

by Anonymousreply 7012/03/2017

You can't get over your crush on the high school jock who wouldn't fuck you. The straight white one.

Also, you consider yourself weak, so you think that having someone around who fucks you like they're raping you--which to you is a sign of strength and masculinity--will afford you some sort of protection, when all it's really going to afford you is a trip to the emergency room.

Clearly, you have never been a victim of rape.

by Anonymousreply 7112/03/2017

There's a difference between rape and rough sex

by Anonymousreply 7212/04/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymousreply 7312/04/2017
by Anonymousreply 7412/04/2017

[quote] As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

Lucky for you all my fantasies are about men.

by Anonymousreply 7512/04/2017

AND THE WOMAN TROLL, SHE IS SERVED

by Anonymousreply 7612/05/2017

There’s plenty of stuff online about frauen rape fantasies, but nary a discussion about gay men who have them. We’re two completely different animals.

by Anonymousreply 7712/05/2017

Of course there's a kinkipedia 😏

by Anonymousreply 7812/05/2017

As a woman, I am turned on by the FANTASY of being forced. I don't want it to actually happen but I cannot deny it's there. But always being done by an incredible attractive man or woman or both at the same time.

by Anonymousreply 7912/05/2017

Y'all need to seek out a psychoanalyst ASAP! Run, don't walk.

by Anonymousreply 8012/05/2017

Did this porno have anything to do with it OP?

by Anonymousreply 8112/05/2017

You people are icky. Rape? Forced sodomy? Who raised you people? Do you have parents? Keep your vile fantasies to yourselves. Ugh!

by Anonymousreply 8212/05/2017

I have a fantasy about being kidnapped by the cartel in Mexico and being forcibly used by 4-5 hot, muscular, well-hung studs for a week until my ransom is paid.

In reality I hate bottoming. Last tried it a few years ago and still hated it.

by Anonymousreply 8312/05/2017

Wow I can't believe how pigs with vile, disgusting gay fantasies post on this board. I find these posts personally offensive, and I'd like this to become more of a family-friendly board that I can invite the DH and kiddos to view. As it is now, I wouldn't let them near this.

by Anonymousreply 8412/05/2017

I'm ashamed that I got a boner reading all of this.

by Anonymousreply 8512/05/2017

Well, you should be, r85. Imagine! Getting aroused by violence. It is truly unfathomable.

by Anonymousreply 8612/05/2017

[QUOTE]I have a fantasy about being kidnapped by the cartel in Mexico and being forcibly used by 4-5 hot, muscular, well-hung studs for a week until my ransom is paid.

Omg that is so fucking hot. Those horny sicarios would rape you nonstop. You’d never get any sleep.

by Anonymousreply 8712/05/2017

Guys, these images are really, really offensive to me. Let's try and clean this board up and make it family friendly, ok? What do you say? You are better than this.

by Anonymousreply 8812/05/2017

As a gay man, I consider all heterosexual sex rape.

by Anonymousreply 8912/05/2017

R88: If you want family-friendly, then drive down the 5 until you reach Disneyland.

by Anonymousreply 9012/05/2017

[quote]R76 AND THE WOMAN TROLL, SHE IS SERVED

Don't you get a sense it's one uptight queen who detests women that makes all those posts, tho? It's the same poster who's all ferklempt about Rose McGowan and has all the "frau hate", etc. (In fact, are you this same poster's sock, replying to itself?)

The thing is, most real women have bigger and better things to do than rattle some cages at DL, for goddess' sake.

by Anonymousreply 9112/05/2017

Angela Lansbury thinks only women who make efforts to make themselves attractive get raped....and they must share in the blame.

by Anonymousreply 9212/05/2017

So maybe I should start dressing like a whore.

by Anonymousreply 9312/05/2017

[quote] R93 So maybe I should start dressing like a whore.

You could start with this (?)

by Anonymousreply 9412/05/2017

What's wrong with Disney-fying this board a bit, making it family-friendly, and dare I say, and Jesus-friendly? We should strive to be better than common animals. Our sexuality is a gift that should be treasured, and not treated like just another bodily function akin to tinkling.

by Anonymousreply 9512/05/2017

[quote] What’s wrong with me, DL?

You have more issues than a lifetime subscription to Frau Wear Daily.

by Anonymousreply 9612/05/2017
by Anonymousreply 9712/05/2017

Unless you find me a picture of Jesus tongue-kissing Ricky Schroder, you can shove your holier-than-thou crap up your unwashed ass from whence it came.

by Anonymousreply 9812/05/2017

Wii get rid of the fantasy?

by Anonymousreply 9912/05/2017
by Anonymousreply 10012/05/2017

Anthony Perkins could afford this fantasy.

Pay for it, you lazy whore.

by Anonymousreply 10112/05/2017

[quote] Anthony Perkins could afford this fantasy.

Not at my price, he couldn't.

by Anonymousreply 10212/05/2017
by Anonymousreply 10312/05/2017

[quote]R95 You have more issues than a lifetime subscription to Frau Wear Daily.

by Anonymousreply 10412/05/2017

Do you people have parents? Seriously, who raised you to have such thoughts and seek out such filth and debauchery? I'm just intellectually curious. Jesus did warn against this, ya know.

by Anonymousreply 10512/05/2017
by Anonymousreply 10612/05/2017

[quote]R105 Do you people have parents? Seriously, who raised you to have such thoughts and seek out such filth and debauchery? I'm just intellectually curious. Jesus did warn against this, ya know.

everyone knows this is a gay male posting this stuff, rite?

by Anonymousreply 10712/05/2017

r105. You are a parody right?

by Anonymousreply 10812/05/2017
by Anonymousreply 10912/05/2017

[quote]R108 You are a parody right?

It's some lame gay male who has a fixation on putting down women, and tries to come off like their an uptight mom, so DLers will get into the same tizzy they are.

You'll see this poster bashing Rose McGowan, too. And talking about how wise Angela Lansbury is for telling women they've set themselves up for rape.

It's sad.

by Anonymousreply 11012/05/2017

Because it means you don't need to assume the responsibility of consent even in your mind. The decision is made for you. You can also fantasize you are highly desirable, so highly desirably that you attract straight guys who cannot control themselves and must teach you a lesson or whatever.

It's a fantasy. Real life rape is something quite different.

by Anonymousreply 11112/05/2017

[QUOTE]You can also fantasize you are highly desirable, so highly desirably that you attract straight guys who cannot control themselves and must teach you a lesson or whatever.

I can assure you that this has nothing to do with it.

by Anonymousreply 11212/05/2017

Ok. I took a shot. So you are a dominant gay male? Is it a pure violent fantasy or is any aspect at all erotic?

by Anonymousreply 11312/05/2017

I am a dominant gay male and it’s mostly erotic with some violence mixed in. Just enough to make it dangerous. So I know it’s real. It’s not like I fantasize about the guy killing me afterward or anything.

by Anonymousreply 11412/05/2017
by Anonymousreply 11512/05/2017

The clip at R81 seriously has some of the best acting I've seen in a porno. For a second I thought it was a scene from an actual movie or show.

by Anonymousreply 11612/05/2017

Sometimes a fantasy is more about psychological domination as well as physical...but not necessarily rape. More like extreme bullying and brutalization at the hands of a conflicted, handsome and domineering man.

I guess I need to work out WHY this intrigues me.

by Anonymousreply 11712/05/2017

I want to be his cell mate so he can rape me every night.

by Anonymousreply 11812/05/2017
by Anonymousreply 11912/06/2017

I'm a gay male with lots of fantasies- cute doctor, cute coach...but being forced to have sex with them is not one of them. I wouldn't need to. I would be happy to comply.

And those porn fantasies are not really about rape they are wild hot violent sex which is a very different thing.

If you were actually raped by that hot stud meaning you genuinely do not want him to take you by force it would be anything but hot.

It would really be humiliating and creepy.

by Anonymousreply 12012/06/2017
by Anonymousreply 12112/08/2017

Willing and ready (in more ways than one) to be taken advantage of.

by Anonymousreply 12212/08/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymousreply 12312/08/2017

VILE and reprobate

by Anonymousreply 12412/09/2017

HOT!!!

by Anonymousreply 12512/09/2017

Heterosexuality is the systematic raping and imprisonment of women.

Heterosexual "men" are the ones who should be raped as punishment. I don't fucking care what offends oppressor classes or makes them uncomfortable. They need to pay for their crimes against humanity and corrective rapes for MRApes is a step in that direction.

by Anonymousreply 12612/09/2017

An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a hole for a hole.

by Anonymousreply 12712/09/2017

There is no such thing as "rape" or "sexual harassment" when an oppressed class turns the tables on its oppressor. Gay men have earned the right to give heterosexual males a dose of their own medicine after the way they have treated women and gay men since time immemorial.

Rape is a mechanism by which heterosexual men oppress both women by forcing sex onto them and gay men by denying us sex and projecting their rapist status onto us for expressing interest, even when seeking consent. There is no such thing as consent in a world where heterosexual men are allowed to get away with the systematic oppression of women and gay men. There are no "female rapists." There is no such thing as "gay rape." Consent is a social construct a bunch of misandrists invented to demonize male sexuality while claiming entitlement to men's bodies. Rape is a means of enforcing heterosexual male supremacy. And the only just punishment for rape is for the rapist to receive the same treatment.

by Anonymousreply 12812/09/2017

[quote]As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

Prepare to be verbally raped for posting such a message on a gay male-dominated board.

by Anonymousreply 12912/09/2017

As a gay man, I consider heterosexuality to be the mechanism by which rape culture is enforced. What feminists forget when condemning the patriarchy is that the patriarchy would not exist if not for the straightriarchy that gives special privileges to heterosexuals over homosexuals. Thus the only kind of sex that can ever be consensual is gay sex.

by Anonymousreply 13012/09/2017

[quote]There is no such thing as "rape" or "sexual harassment" when an oppressed class turns the tables on its oppressor

You, sir, are full of shit.

by Anonymousreply 13112/09/2017

[quote] You, sir, are full of shit.

You, r131, have got to do better than that. Why should those who deprive others of consent have it for themselves?

by Anonymousreply 13212/09/2017

[quote]Why should those who deprive others of consent have it for themselves?

Why don't you get a life? You choose to be a spineless worm. Try being a man for a change.

by Anonymousreply 13312/09/2017

Straight men don’t smell that good, I assure you.

by Anonymousreply 13412/09/2017

[quote]A friend of mine had a rape fantasy, and left his door unlocked one night so another friend could come over and "take" him. But when the visitor crawled into bed with him, my friend woke up, disoriented, and punched him in the face.

Omg!

by Anonymousreply 13512/09/2017

[quote]Try being a man for a change.

I don't have to try. I am a man. You I'm not so sure about

by Anonymousreply 13612/09/2017

It's instink. Alpha male, dominance, right to breed, etc.

by Anonymousreply 13712/09/2017

[quote] Straight men don’t smell that good, I assure you.

Can't be worse than some of the guys I've been with who actually are gay.

by Anonymousreply 13812/09/2017

[quote]I don't have to try. I am a man. You I'm not so sure about

You are a man who sees himself as a victim his whole life. You were born oppressed. You live oppressed. You will die oppressed. You fantasize about turning the tables on your oppressors, but you can't because they are a fantasy too.

by Anonymousreply 13912/09/2017

I'm a worthless f@ggot bottom. I was made to be a cumdump for STR8 MEN. I am not a man. My puny fag clit is irrelevant. My mancunt exists to be plowed by a MAN's master rod of pain and pleasure. My belly exists as a storage space for STR8 MALE piss and shit. I am a worthless spermtank, who deserves only to be queerbashed by SIR.

by Anonymousreply 14012/09/2017

I see R140's fantasy machine has gone into double overtime.

by Anonymousreply 14112/09/2017

My inferior faggot hole begs for SIR'S poz cum. A f@ggot cannot be raped. All f@ggots are open manholes. Consent is inherent in our f@ggotry. Any ALPHA MALE does not need to ask. He simply fucks the f@ggot's shit out of him. CONSENT IS A FUCKING MYTH.

by Anonymousreply 14212/09/2017

[QUOTE]You’re right.

by Anonymousreply 14312/09/2017

Any sex involving an erect male penis is RAPE!

- Andrea Dorkin talkin

by Anonymousreply 14412/09/2017
by Anonymousreply 14512/09/2017

Fred Currry is Hot

by Anonymousreply 14612/09/2017

OP, I'm a gay man. I've been assaulted by another gay man (he didn't succeed, though). If you've actually experienced what it's like to be assaulted, you'll never fantasize about it, again (I hope).

by Anonymousreply 14712/09/2017

R147 more details please.

by Anonymousreply 14812/09/2017

Suddenly my crush on Rick Schroder seems about 50% less pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 14912/09/2017

R148, I posted about this on DL already. I was in my early 20s, and accepted an invite to an older guy's home. He had a remodeled townhouse, and I really just wanted to see the house. He took me up to the third floor, and then pushed me down, and proceeded to rip open my shirt, and grab my crotch. He was a much bigger guy, and I was only able to defend myself with a well-placed knee to his crotch, and made a run down the stairs, and then had to walk home, while he kept driving around, following me, telling me to "share the hurt" with him. He kept stopping by my apartment building after that, calling me on the intercom. It was terrifying to me. Sexual assault isn't restricted to women. And I think lots of people have no idea how disorienting it can be. I wasn't raped, but I almost was.

by Anonymousreply 15012/09/2017

Did you marry him?

by Anonymousreply 15112/09/2017

As a gay man, I totally believe the other gay man's story!

by Anonymousreply 15212/09/2017

R151, If your question was meant for me, then NO! I later found love with a very sweet, gentle guy, although we're no longer together. There's a lot of hostility here on DL for the #metoo movement, but I just can't. If you've never experienced what it's like to be assaulted (I'm short, and probably only weighed 150 lbs at the time), the feeling of being afraid to leave your apartment is something that's very tangible, and stays with you for some time. I honestly didn't know how to react when he ripped my shirt open, but I finally reacted when he grabbed my crotch, and told me how he was going to fuck me with his big dick (I'm not a bottom).

by Anonymousreply 15312/09/2017

Fucking hot, R150. Was he tatted and muscled? Could you feel his rape muscles straining against your body when he had you pinned against the wall?

by Anonymousreply 15412/09/2017

[quote]R128 immemorial

Angela?

by Anonymousreply 15512/09/2017

Was fulling around with a friend who was much older and stronger. When he started to enter me, I told him that it hurts too much, and told him to “stop”! He didn’t, and held me down till he came inside me. I thought he was using a condom, but he wasn’t. I’m okay, and was able to deal with the experience, but still feel anal sex is very painful. And, I’m extremely lucky not to have a sexual disease.

Guys, you have to be very careful these days.

by Anonymousreply 156Last Sunday at 2:15 PM
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