Will you take advantage of a drunk but a very good looking man?

That's referred to as a Reverse Bill Cosby.

I did this once in high school. He shouldn't have called that guy on TV a fag in front of me.

I'd be drunk as well so any sex would be taking advantage of each other.

A couple weeks ago I apparently hooked up with someone I didn't remember.

No. I don't service. I get served.

I've had that happen to me several times. Never had a problem with it.

Op is a rapist

Been there, done that, had some of the best sex I'd had since I broke up with my ex.

Hell no. That is called rape.

r2 So as revenge, you desperately lap up his cock while he's sleeping, give him a free orgasm, and he never has any idea about the "Wrath" you exacted upon him?

Okay.

Yep. Also been there done that. Had the hots for a straight guy. Waited until he was drunk and did not care.. Sucked him dry.

It's happened to me, I was never the instigator. I can't say I didn't enjoy it.

It's only polite to remove his clothes. He could strangle himself on a too-tight shirt collar or get thrombosis from snug pants.

He wasn't sleeping, R9.

Agreed r13. When I was a teenager and hadn't come to grips with being gay I'd regularly "pass out" and my friend would blow me. I'm sure he knew I was faking it but it worked just fine for both of us

OP, do you know how to form conditionals?

Get thee to an ESL class, STAT!

Without his consent, it is rape.

No OP, I don't do rape.

If he wakes up and doesn't beat the living shit out of you, it is no long rape. :-)

God, some of you here are just as disgusting as straight men who think this shit is OK.

Rape doesn't appeal to me.

[quote]Been there, done that, had some of the best sex I'd had since I broke up with my ex.

Really? Raping someone passed out stone cold is better sex than with an active, willing participant? Uh, okay.

That's how I my first boyfriend and I cemented our relationship. He was a straight friend for years. Everbody told me he had the hots for me ("No straight guy hangs around a gay guy so much,", yadda, yadda, yadda).

We got drunk and I started kissing his lips and strokong him....

I'll never forget how, after 20 minutes or so of this - he suddenly and gently flipped me on my back, removed my pants and fucked me on the carpeted floor. I wrapped my gymnast's legs around his waist, grabbed his firm yet plump ass and sucked on his tongue as his bslls gently slapped against my ass.

We fell in love and went on a cross-country road trip.

In my top 5 sexual experiences ever. I was 22.

One of my t

Sure, Jan

This happened in the apartment of our fabulous Trans eldersister.

She noted that the pinga was rock hard though the number was asleep.

When she got down and applied her lips the pinga wilted!

^ forgive the typos

R23 Girl....

No, because I never want to go to prison and especially to prison for gay rape.

As he groggily awakened, Josh suspected something might be amiss, but he wasn't quite sure at first. Until--

OP not only is mentally ill (People using the DL to puddle out their personal scenarios always deserve a good beating, unless that's what they want), but commits the mortal sin of TWICE misusing the word "in," when "into" is the proper word for the act of moving something from the outside to the inside. "In" refers to the act of moving something already inside.

Being a rapist fantasist is one thing. Being an illiterate rapist fantasist is quite another.

R21, apparently Ted Bundy thought so. No, wait, they weren't drunk, they were dead.

No. I would not sexually violate someone against their will while they were unconscious.

It's called rape and you could go to prison, think I'll pass.

Mmm. I love the taste of whiskey dick. With just the right amount of fire water, that cock will get hard as a fucking rock and the heat radiating from it is liable to scorch your tongue. And you can get a buzz from the warm jizz shooting down your throat.

He'll sleep like a baby afterward.

[bold] This is why they hate us.

It's nor rape if you use a condom.

Hell to the yes, OP. But he needs to be mind-blowingly good-looking. To justify the inevitable consequence of agonizing death (when he wakes up & strangles me in revenge).

This is why gun control will never happen

what about poops?

It's called rape OP, so no.

In the olden days when people met hook ups in bars, I would see this tall, gorgeous, blond hunk who always showed up toward the end of happy hour, had one or two drinks, and didn't socialize at all. I suspected that he was married but one evening I sided over to him and bought him a drink, and another, and another and another. At a certain point I invited him over as we were making out I got him into my bedroom and out of his clothes. Then he threw up. Then he passed out.

I slept in the guest room that night, and when I woke up, he was gone. Lesson learned. Never saw him again.

Why does my hiney hurt?

I woke up once with sticky wet hole. Felt it, smelled it and knew it was cum.

I was staying in the guest room of the house of a couple who were friends. To this day I don't know which one or if both did it. But it's a favorite jerkoff memory

Kind of off-subject, but reminds me of a funny story. Something that happened to me over 20 years ago.

I was very young, just coming out, (actually, still closeted). I went to Uncle Charlie's in NY. Gorgeous blond guy, very drunk, a few years older. I was shy, but he was coming on to me big time. I couldn't believe my luck. He lived a few blocks away. We got to his place, got undressed in his bed. He grabbed my hard dick and it was obvious he wanted to suck. I put it in his mouth. He passed out asleep right then. LIke my dick was a pacifier. The guy was totally out. I dressed and left.

About a year later, I'm back at Uncle C's. I see the same guy. . He was close, a couple bar seats away, but I purposely tried to avoid him. He came over. I thought it he remembered me, maybe to apologize. Nope. No recognition. Very drunk. But charming and more gorgeous. Yep, I went home with him again. YEP, he fell asleep with my dick in his mouth.

That sound like narcolepsy.

[quote]I woke up once with sticky wet hole. Felt it, smelled it and knew it was cum.

Are you sure you didn't just burp, whore?

I've never done it, but it was done to me by two guys who had just finished a bartending course.

His feet smelt of purple jelly beans.

I'd tuck him into bed.

Loosen his collar if he has a dress shirt on.

I'd make sure his shoes were off.

Gently rest his head on the pillow.

Tip toe out the door, turning out the light as a I leave.

Maybe...[italic] maybe [italic] I'd give him a dry peck on the forehead.

If that makes me a monster, then that's what I am.

It's a common porn scenario (NSFW esp. with the reaction noise).

by not closing the italics have I doomed the rest of this thread to be in italics?

[italic] I guess not [italic]

Let me help you out OP.......

"Are you a rapist?"

There. Fixed it for you.

No because I would never commit rape. And I advise you don't either OP unless you want the living shit beat out of you and to spend time in prison. Then again you are considering rape so you might enjoy the latter.

[quote]Yep, I went home with him again. YEP, he fell asleep with my dick in his mouth.

You should offer your services to insomniacs.

Fantasies are just that. I know many gay men AND heterosexual women fantasize about rape. But I think it should remain an itch you don't scratch. It's way too Jeffrey Dahmerish for me to even fantasize about...what's next entertaining/fantasizing about cannibalism and then acting on it!? Not humane, certainly not gay...just criminal and abuse of power...sober over drunk!

I would just cuddle and spoon.

R55, I would too. that's all I really want.

But even that I'd feel I was stealing from him.

I was hanging out with some friends and the three of us were all pretty drunk. One guy passed out and his boyfriend took his pants off. He blew him for a bit while I watched and then told me I could blow his boyfriend if I wanted to. Which I did.

If it's a Christopher Meloni or John cena type, I'd probably just spoon

R57 did he get hard?

I had an experience with a friend I now regret, though we were both drunk. He considered himself straight though he said he'd once fooled around with another boy in boarding school.

He and I had lots of intimate moments when we were smoking and drinking, and occasionally sober, that was mostly nuzzling and hair stroking. No sex or kisses on the mouth.

Anyway, I blew him. We never talked about it again but I left his pants and underwear down so he'd never deny to himself what happened. He passed out on the couch and I slept in his bed. I don't remember much about the next morning except we didn't discuss it it again.

I aint going to lie,I did it to a guy once.He got hard but he never came,I sucked that thing for an hour ! He was well and truly out of it,a combo of booze and xanax will do that. It started out feeling hot and nasty,but I cant say it felt that way when I stopped. That was the one and only time I tried something like that.

I'd try to get him hooked on Oxy first, then, if he was upset I'd offer him a job.

I had the opportunity to do this years ago with a closeted, very hot personal trainer from the gym I went to at the time. It's covered 'at length' in another thread somewhere on DL.

I passed on it. As hot as he was, it was too sad and tawdry to go through with it. And it was something he would conveniently 'not remember' the next day.

OP I think it would depend on whether he was hitting on you beforehand. If he was then go for it. If not then take your chances. If he's that drunk he probably won't remember anything.

Mary r39 forgot to menta that she spent the entire night with her tongue deeply inserted into the hot number's bung-hole!

I see no problem with this.

[quote]I've had that happen to me several times. Never had a problem with it.

Can't rape the willing.

Hmmm… tough call. I’d just flip a coin.

i wouldn't even take his clothes off.

So disrespectful of another human being.

I didn't stop one time when the guy asked me too.

It's disturbing not because it's someone's weird fantasy but because people get raped in situations like this all the time, and that it's very unlikely that there are not actual rapists on this board.

Helping him out of his clothes, a little jacking and a little oral are all just a way of making him more comfortable for the evening. I'd be more concerned about whether the back door area was clean and ready to accept visitors.

It depends on how much handsomeness is involved.

Rapist should just be murdered, rape is a violation of another being, even if it's from another gay man. No wonder heterosexuals don't want us near their children.

I might consider doing it. But, I'd think better of it and just make them comfortable and leave a bucket.

Actually, I might at least check out their cock and feet as I'm really into that.

No.

Leave the unconscious alone!!

R78 = Goop

[quote]It's disturbing not because it's someone's weird fantasy but because people get raped in situations like this all the time, and that it's very unlikely that there are not actual rapists on this board.

Assuming the double negative is intentional in "it's very unlikely that there are not actual rapists on this board," I do wonder how many people are just talking and how many would actually do something.

I think the history and context are important. A stranger in your bed (which begs the question of how he got there) is different than someone you have a sexual history with.

[quote]. A stranger in your bed (which begs the question of how he got there) is different than someone you have a sexual history with.

A court of law would beg to differ with this.

Even a spouse can be raped by the other spouse.

This happened to my partner many years ago, he was drunk one time another time a dentist took advantage of him when he was anesthetized.

Too risky; you could get poo on your penis. Drunken folks are incontinent sometimes.

Sad!

Happened to a jock in high school. The perp ended up with a concussion and broken bones

Only if he promises not to go around town afterwards carrying a mattress.

R87 wins.

Honestly, I couldn't; I don't think I could even 'seduce' anyone. It feels too manipulative.

It's almost better to go commercial because then you both know what you're getting.

If you're not emotionally prepared then don't have sex.

Wow, R71. Are you kidding?

I was barely ready for this hookup with a guy; I'm older by 10 years at least but he was the man; he was the guy. I suggested a safe word (he's much bigger physically)

He smiled and looked at me and shrugged, "Stop?"

I knew I'd be safe.

God, I love indignation on the Datalounge!

Most guys would love to be woken up by sex. Stop with the nonsense that they're rape victims.

This happened to my "straight " brother in high school. He had a friend who was in the closet, hung out at his house getting drunk and passed out.

He woke up to this guy sucking his dick so what did he do ? he pretended to go back to sleep so his friend could finish . he actually admitted it .

Fast forward 20 years and even though my brother is married he still got arrested outside of bookstore to a guy sucking his dick in the alleyway. I had to bail him out of jail .

Leaning ever slightly towards "no". As I'd loathe wearing orange all the time, and eating NON-ORGANIC (gasp!) for years…

R93, Wow you are so selfish. Why don't you help your brother out? He has to go out in the unsafe dark alley for a mere blowjob when he can have your safe mouth in safety of your home.

R93 here. I'M selfish?! He's straight! He would never return the favor!

Heading right for the butthole is risky, unless it's just the tongue. Some oral sex or rimming first is a safer plan and rarely unwelcome

[quote]Most guys would love to be woken up by sex. Stop with the nonsense that they're rape victims.

The delusion is strong with that one.

Spoiler alert, you aren't a cute girl, so straight guys don't want to have sex with you.

It sucks, but quit living in your fantasy world.

Sorry r98 but the original question made no mention of the handsome guy being straight. So by default considering the context of DL he is gay.

Most gay guys WOULD like to be woken up with sex. If you're not into the guy you laugh and push him aside. If you are into him then fantasy fulfilled.

You're all nasty. dirty whores. And I like that.

R99 keeps her window open every night and prays...

Taking sexual advantage of a drunken individual is sexual assault.

Not only did I take advantage of the situation, I contacted a FB and we tag-teamed him together. Unbelievably hot.

Woof, r103

How would you know if the person has a full bladder or even worse, a full rectum?

Men have been convicted of taking sexual advantage of other boys and men while unconscious or highly ineberated.

It has happened in hospital situations whereby a medical staff member sexually assaulted a sedated patient.

If one can't get sex unless the target is passed out, the culprit must be one damn ugly rapist.

I would not but, I once pretended I was asleep so that my then-closeted best friend could suck me off. We laugh about it now.

I did what r107 did many many times

Replace "take advantage of" with "rape".

Here's a visual:

As if any gay man wouldn't want to be wakened by a cock in his ass. Save this victim shit for SVU.

The thrill of the chase and foreplay are a must for me to get aroused. I'm kinda conceited, I like hard to get types that require me to use my charming wit, good looks, and maybe a relaxing drink or two (not a roofie) to get a guy in the sack.

If a hot guy passed out in my bed (my Italian friend's hot nephew did just that, after I hosted a Chiefs party last year) he'd be safe. I'd take his shoes off and properly tuck him in. Accidental spooning while sleeping in the same bed are an innocent probability. I always sleep naked , so hopefully the intimate body contact might get my new bedmate hot 'n bothered enough to explore our situation further.

Dear Lord in heaven!

I'd do it but only if the drunk guy is straight.

They say the older you get, what you'll regret the most are the things you didn’t do.

Bump

I think it's rude not to show a little interest in a visitor. Removing clothes is a bare minimum of politeness. How upsetting for the gentleman if he were to think he was not appealing

Oh hell yes, OP!

Hot, r112.

No, I prefer someone to be awake. I'm not Dahmer.

i would cover him with a blanket.

that is what Joel did to Mitzi

I could never do that. However, if he was drunk, conscious, and trying to initiate--maybe.

I don't let drunks fall asleep in my house.

I don't like drunks.

20 yrs ago Miami bch south beach was really getting going and I was coming back from Fort Lauderdale but I lived on the West Coast so I was just visiting for Christmas and I pull down an alley way to park to go to my hotel and this super hot guy was staggering and I pulled alongside him and asked if he needed a ride he said sure we went to my room we got nudeI gave him head and then he staggered out nothing great the next day around 11 I was getting ready to leave my room to go to the beach and I looked out the window and two blocks away this very angry guy was pounding the pavement towards my hotel I didn’t want to see him in the hallway so I just stayed in my room he pounded for about 15 minutes on my door and then he went outside on one of those benches and waited in the park in front of the hotel I just stayed there for a couple hours LOL also he had a really little dick I remember but he was so hot looked just like Sophia Vega husband

R125 is a rapist.

R125 Did you think he was mad? Or that he was looking for more?

Trump bumper. Block and delete these threads.

One night, I literally picked a guy up off the sidewalk who was passed out face down stone cold drunk and WeHo, dragged him back to my bungalow and let him sleep it off on my sofa. Something terrible would have happened to him, if I'd left him there, like that.

If you just mean shit-faced, sure, I've been the taker and the taken, there, many times.

Oh fuck off R128 ! What the hell else do we have to do ? Heres my story ... one night when I was a teen my brother had been out partying with his friend and they staggered in about 2 am and passed out. The friend in question was smoking hot and I had long lusted after him . I already knew all about his big dick as my girl cousin had dated him for awhile , so i was super intrigued . She also said he loved for you to moan and groan about how big his dick was and how it hurt when he fucked you . I slide up in the guest room and hes laying on his back wearing only his boxers . I shake him and try to wake him up , but he was truly out so I proceed to fish out his cock. My cousin wasnt kidding,that thing was huge ! I start sucking away and he gets rock hard . After a few minutes of this and no sign hes remotely aware , I decide I have to have that thing inside me . I very carefully position myself and work it in until Im all the way on it and start slowly riding it . After a good 10 minutes of this I start to lose my nerve because I was afraid he'd wake up and raise a stink and the whole house would hear. I start to work myself off , then all of a sudden I feel his hands reach around and grab my ass and spread my cheeks wide ! He never "woke" up ,but that was my cue to start the filthy talk and I let the filth fly ! "OMG ,its so big! It hurts !" etc . He shoots a huge load , never uttering a sound ,I slide off and go to my room fully fucked and quite satisfied. The next morning he was gone when we got up and NEVER came to our house again !

HOT, r130!

I'd loosen his collar if it were too tight.

I'd make sure he was tucked into bed and that the pillow looked properly adjusted.

I'd kiss him on the forehead, dim the lights and tiptoe out the room, closing the door softly.

So, yes, I'd take advantage.

R132, you're a freak.

Never, ever. That’s rape.