Fuck buddies: Do you currently have one?

Not for want of trying I can say that much!

Wanna be mine? 💗

"One"???

No fuck buddy. I live just a few blocks from the local bath house. Any time I feel the urge, I just waddle over git ta work.

Yes.

Married, younger, straight, and only into mutual masturbation. Come to think of it, does that count as a fuckbuddy?

I had one for a while....if you live in NY, you probably read his column in the NYTImes. That ended when I paired off with my SO.

It's David Brooks, isn't it, R6?

No, I seem to live in a gay free zone...well except for me.

R5, if you ask me, I'd say he sounds like more of a jack-off buddy.

Once. I made the mistake of falling for him. Obviously didn't end well. It does give me comfort that he can't stay in any relationship for more than a month or two. I also discovered that, usually, his fuck buddies were fairly disposable and only made it a few weeks-3 months at the most with him. I felt lucky that he kept me around for almost a year. At least maybe I did have something more to offer.

In my experience, the only real fuckbuddies that are worth it are with couples who want you for threesomes. There's always an understanding that nothing will ever get romantic and you always get to be the guest of honor. It's not bad at all.

Yes I have a very sexy younger fuck buddy - muscular hung black gay (yes, I'm bragging)

He's dumb dumb dumb - I would never date him. But the sex is fun.

[quote]In my experience, the only real fuckbuddies that are worth it are with couples who want you for threesomes. There's always an understanding that nothing will ever get romantic and you always get to be the guest of honor. It's not bad at all.

I've heard other single guys say the same about hooking up with couples, but for me, I don't know what I'd do if I was to find myself more attracted to one than the other. Short of ending the relationship, what does one do in that situation? Especially if the one you're least attracted to begins to notice that you make a difference between them.

[quote] only into mutual masturbation. Come to think of it, does that count as a fuckbuddy?

That's a wankbuddy.

I'm jealous, R11! Enjoy!

I need one.

I've never had one.

I want one.

R15, sometimes I wonder if it's harder now to find a regular fuck buddy living in the age of all these fuck-n-go apps. I'm sure many guys feel why get with the same guy twice a week, which bores them after a while, when you can swipe left and hook up with a different one every night.

Married with kids Fireman. Last 20 years!

Another person who thinks R6's fb is David Brooks.

[quote] if you live in NY, you probably read his column in the NYTImes.

Ross Douthat? Ewww....

I've never been able to do it but tried several times. After the first couple encounters I'd get bored. Or it would bring-up feelings of wanting The Real Thing.

Also I'm kinda old fashioned. I didn't want a future relationship to know I used to hook-up with strangers for shallow fucky suckies.

R20, I have no potential for a future relationship at this point. I just need an occasional release. Human contact.

Bittman or Frank Bruni.

I'm in a LTR but would love a FB, and BF would be ok with it.

I've got three!

I had one years ago I called Michael Mohawk. He was a skinny bleach blond punker skate dude, and I was anything but that. But we had great sex on a regular basis for three or four years. He loved getting his hole banged.

Yes, a few actually. End up seeing them once a month or so, so each week I get a night at least. Usually we do a date and spend the night. I find its easier when they're in couples though. In 2 cases, the bfs live elsewhere, they know about me, met me, played together, but they don't travel here really. Theirs bfs only do for work. Fuck buddies are always on time and don't cancel unlike those fickle "dating-only" guys.

I'd be happy with a buddy at this point.

Had one but presently fuck buddy-less.

Yep...on my hockey team. Construction worker, Italian macho jock.... If only other's knew he sucked my cock and let me fuck him .... We've been hooking up for 3 years now.

I can't see Frank Bruni as a fuck buddy. He always seems so busy being... concerned.

I have 4. I hope I still have at least 2 in 4 years when I'm 60. I suppose I should make an effort to date but none of these guys want to date.

Yup- 24 y.o. pinoy/ caucasian mix. Been going on for 5 years. he was questioning when we met and is now officially 'straight'. We were friends first and his drunken 1am calls to get fucked -- then disappear for a month drove me crazy. We let the friendship end and now it's just about sex and a cuddle. He gets what he wants and I get 2/3 of what I want, so it works.

Sounds hot, R28. You, too, R31.

Yep. Its not super regular but about every two months. Its nice to have someone “on call” but who isnt clingy ... he looks great in a jock and gives amazing head.

It's Maureen Dowd isn't it???