Do you find it diminishes over time like I do? How do you keep things fresh in the bedroom? PS-It's sad that I had to put that disclaimer in my thread title on a gay website
Relationship Sex (GAY MEN ONLY)
by Anonymous | reply 149 | June 13, 2018 2:28 AM |
Of course it does, gay people aren't immune from the same issues that have always plagued straight marriages. The sex life starts dying off over time.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | February 10, 2017 6:09 PM |
I have been so much hornier for my partners in years five, seven and 10 than I ever was in year one. I don't think that's the way it works for most men, though -- it certainly wasn't true of my bfs.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | February 10, 2017 9:48 PM |
Stop with all the porn!
by Anonymous | reply 3 | February 12, 2017 2:41 PM |
Three ways while on vacation does wonders.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | February 12, 2017 3:09 PM |
r4 especially when you get crabs
by Anonymous | reply 5 | February 12, 2017 3:39 PM |
sex haters hate.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | February 12, 2017 3:40 PM |
Have you tried role playing games?
by Anonymous | reply 7 | February 12, 2017 3:42 PM |
The only SEX we have is when we go to a hotel.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | February 13, 2017 11:38 AM |
Happy Valentine's Day.....16 years together...I was hoping for chocolate or a handjob. Nuthin.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | February 14, 2017 10:35 AM |
I'm meeting my man in the shower for some before work Cupid fun.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | February 14, 2017 10:51 AM |
25 years together. He still screams when he cums. Not all of have problems in the sack, OP
by Anonymous | reply 11 | February 14, 2017 11:00 AM |
r11 yes but are you with him when he cums or is he flying solo?
by Anonymous | reply 12 | February 14, 2017 11:03 AM |
He is fucking my tight ass. Ok, well almost tight ass
by Anonymous | reply 13 | February 14, 2017 11:05 AM |
r13 Atta boy. Just do your kegels and give him viagra. Ride em cowboy!
by Anonymous | reply 14 | February 14, 2017 11:07 AM |
r13 Awesome! I'm jealous. Been together 9 years and in my bed there needs to be a camshow or porn playing before I get any!
by Anonymous | reply 15 | February 14, 2017 11:10 AM |
Happy Valentimes Day. I'm hoping for some too; 11 years.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | February 14, 2017 11:11 AM |
My (ex) partner and I had a sex life that only improved over the years. But, after we separated, he went on to two other partners, and now isn't interested in sex with me anymore (although I still want him all the time). I have no idea what our sex life would be like now. He still looks the same to me after 30 years, and I want him as much as I ever did, but I never try to seduce him anymore, not after seeing the look of disgust in his eyes (when he thought I wasn't looking) the last time I tried.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | February 14, 2017 12:18 PM |
Human beings aren't programmed to pair up. Gay men were heading away from artificial social diktats toward a brave new world of sexual expression and interaction, until Marriage Equality reduced them to het adjacents.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | February 14, 2017 12:30 PM |
My partner and I had amazing sex, after we we're done I think that was better than the time before. We'd do it again the next day and I'd think the same thing. Now that we are Eldergays we don't have sex anymore but we have great memories.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | February 14, 2017 12:41 PM |
Threads like these make me so glad I'm single.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | February 14, 2017 12:52 PM |
r10 How nice for you! I got nothing. No Cupid, no candy, no flowers, no sex.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | February 15, 2017 10:49 AM |
r 21 Maybe this weekend he will make it up to you?
by Anonymous | reply 22 | February 18, 2017 12:12 PM |
If he's not touching you, he has a sex buddy or he prefers jerkin it. You need to address it.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | February 18, 2017 6:05 PM |
How long have you been together? Maybe YOU are bad in bed!
by Anonymous | reply 24 | February 19, 2017 12:52 PM |
It ebbs and flows. My husband and I have been together fifteen years and we've always have standard issue sex at least once or twice a week. But then there are some spurts of time where we have crazy monkey sex four times or more in a given week. Sometimes we bring in toys, cock rings, and very occasionally porn, and an on eve rarer occasions poppers. We role play on occasion. It's important to keep it interesting.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | February 19, 2017 1:17 PM |
r25 I hear that!
by Anonymous | reply 26 | February 19, 2017 1:58 PM |
Same here R25. Many many times we just get each other off and cuddle and sleep. Other times, it's hot sweaty monkey sex.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | February 19, 2017 4:16 PM |
r27 Sounds good. Usually we just watch a porn video and jerk off. Sigh.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | February 20, 2017 1:50 PM |
Weekend fun! And.....
by Anonymous | reply 29 | February 25, 2017 3:07 PM |
Did you get any?
by Anonymous | reply 30 | February 27, 2017 11:03 AM |
Been together 10 years...used to be hot all the time. Now it's hotter. Mutual masturbation always wins.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | March 5, 2017 1:53 PM |
I'm smitten with a guy and he's smitten with me. Six months. The sex is fantastic. He's a bottom. He makes me cum no problem. He loves the way I fuck him. But for him, as much as he's into me—and he is—he has to watch porn and beat off, and it takes him a while. I sit next to him and then it dawns on me it's not even necessary, so I get up and do other stuff.
Is this a bad sign?
by Anonymous | reply 32 | March 5, 2017 2:43 PM |
My longest monogamous relationship was 4 years. It would have lasted longer but he had to move back to his hometown when his father died unexpectedly. I didn't find anyone that I'd consider settling down with until 20 years later. I was with him for 2 passionate years before he died of a blood clot a year ago.
Had the relationships lasted longer, I would have made the passion remain by keeping the sex from becoming routine and monotonous. Role/cos play, spontaneous fucks in different locations. Shake things up and keep it fun and interesting.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | March 5, 2017 2:49 PM |
It ain't a good sign, R32. I'd ask how old you are, because it seems younger guys have been really affected by being saturated Internet porn from a young age but a relative of mine who works as a therapist says it affects older guys too now. People know intellectually it's not real life but it seems to short circuit the brain wiring, warp your idea of what's attractive and make it harder to deal with a flesh and blood man. I'm no saint myself and look at it now and then, but not with my partner right there.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | March 5, 2017 3:46 PM |
[quote] How do you keep things fresh in the bedroom?
by Anonymous | reply 35 | March 5, 2017 5:07 PM |
As part of our couples counseling we were told we had to have sex or the relationship would falter. So even though we thought it was contrived to set down a schedule we started having sex every Tuesday at 7:30 PM and it really has made a difference. Its led to more sex between us and the old feeling of being a committed couple has returned.
Obviously counseling in other areas of life has probably contributed to our better situation .
by Anonymous | reply 36 | March 5, 2017 6:28 PM |
^^^I agree with that, I think with work and other stressors it's easy to fall into a roommate situation. This hasn't happened to us so far because we're in a long distance relationship, but also after 4 years of a comfortable, old married type of relationship that was more about companionship than passion, I found somewhere along the line I'd really fallen in love with him. Maybe I needed all that time plus the space to ponder that the distance provided to let my defenses down, but it's been an exciting development at age 54. I never got to have that teenage hand holding and gazing into each others eyes thing that straight people have, and now I'm experiencing it well into middle age. So my thought for the day is, dont think that's behind you just because youth is.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | March 5, 2017 8:13 PM |
Thanks R34 you nailed it. I'm 56 and he's 35.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | March 6, 2017 12:58 AM |
I am always shocked by how many married or partnered gay guys are on Grindr all the fucking time looking for extracurricular sex
I get the once every few months urge, but these dudes are super thirsty, they are on there at all hours and always hitting on younger guys.
They all say their husband is cool with it ("Open relationship") but I'm not buying that.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | March 6, 2017 1:13 AM |
I tell my husband that he can beat off all he likes BUT when he is ready to nut, it must be on my face. So he will come running in the living room while I am watching tv and say OPEN YOUR MOUTH NOW! It works.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | March 7, 2017 10:59 AM |
r 40 hot
by Anonymous | reply 41 | March 10, 2017 3:32 AM |
r40 I like your thinking! We have been together 9 years. Seeing if I will get laid this weekend.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | March 11, 2017 12:08 PM |
r42 Did you get any? or just watch him jerk off again?
by Anonymous | reply 43 | March 14, 2017 9:11 PM |
Got laid during the blizzard. YEAH!
by Anonymous | reply 44 | March 16, 2017 11:39 AM |
You need to work in time for a quickie before work. We do and it starts the day off perfectly! Been together 16 years.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | March 21, 2017 10:32 AM |
Quickies are fun.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | March 24, 2017 11:15 AM |
Been together for 17 years. Top is insatiable. I'm the bottom.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | April 1, 2017 2:11 PM |
I rather eat ice cream
by Anonymous | reply 48 | April 1, 2017 2:36 PM |
R47 how many times per week?
by Anonymous | reply 49 | April 1, 2017 2:43 PM |
r49 Top jerks off daily. Sometimes calls me into the bathroom before he nuts to take the load. We have sex twice a week.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | April 1, 2017 3:19 PM |
Another weekend and I'm still waiting for it........11 years together.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | April 2, 2017 2:21 PM |
I hear that
by Anonymous | reply 52 | April 2, 2017 3:07 PM |
R45 I have to agree, we love morning sex. I can't explain it, but the fact that we are rushed is what makes it so good. I enjoy it most when I've woken up a few minutes before the alarm goes off and started fantasizing. He wakes up to me stoking him and it quickly goes from there.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | April 2, 2017 3:25 PM |
And we've been together almost 10 years.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | April 2, 2017 3:27 PM |
My partner and I have been together 17 years. When we first got together we had amazing sex for 14 years, as we got older our sex life diminished mainly due rot age, reduced testosterone levels, diminished energy. While it has diminished greatly I feel lucky that we had such an amazing sex like for so long.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | April 2, 2017 4:34 PM |
Morning is better because testosterone levels are higher
by Anonymous | reply 56 | April 3, 2017 4:24 PM |
r56 Agreed!
by Anonymous | reply 57 | April 6, 2017 11:10 AM |
Bump
by Anonymous | reply 58 | April 9, 2017 7:32 PM |
I dunno, but it would be nice to find out.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | April 9, 2017 7:44 PM |
The ideal situation is to have money by the time you both reach your 50s, so you can focus your energies into buying and decorating homes, and traveling. It's what all couples do, gay or straight. Your priorities change over time.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | April 9, 2017 7:56 PM |
r60 Agreed. Travel and mutual jo.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | April 11, 2017 2:57 PM |
17 years and we rarely have butt fucking anymore. Mostly jacking off to porn. However I still love him to pieces and we have lots of back and foot rubbing. More in love than ever.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | April 11, 2017 5:25 PM |
r62 Same here . 15 years together. Lots of porn watching fun and on vacation we hire a couples masseur for fun.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | April 13, 2017 1:24 PM |
Why did you have to specify men? Because everyone has heard of "Lesbian Bed Death"?
by Anonymous | reply 64 | April 13, 2017 2:03 PM |
Sad. My husband is 12 years older. I beg for it and he just tells me to watch porn.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | April 16, 2017 1:18 PM |
r32, your guy is addicted to porn and should really take proper steps to get off of it. He shouldn't "need" porn to cum if the sex is so hot. My generation (under 35) has been exposed to high speed internet porn since the beginning of our sexual lives and they're just now discovering how it's hurt us. Do some googling or read "your brain on porn."
by Anonymous | reply 66 | April 16, 2017 1:28 PM |
Humans are not made for 'til death do us part monogamy. Marriage is one of the biggest industry scams there is (expensive wedding and even more expensive divorce) and it drains you physically, mentally and emotionally. Of course there are exceptions.
How do you keep things exiting in the bedroom? Live an exiting life. Duh.Boring, normal life leads to boring, normal sex. Find what you and your partner find exiting. If both or one of you look for reasons to resist being exited it's a pretty good sign that the relationship is over.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | April 16, 2017 1:49 PM |
Exiting or exciting?
by Anonymous | reply 68 | April 16, 2017 3:09 PM |
Should I dress up like the Easter bunny? Cover myself in chocolate? Just trying to get some action.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | April 16, 2017 3:50 PM |
r69 Anything work?
by Anonymous | reply 70 | April 17, 2017 11:11 AM |
Perhaps get PSA test done?
by Anonymous | reply 71 | April 26, 2017 10:46 AM |
R67 hasn't been touched by any man in at least fifteen years.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | April 26, 2017 12:12 PM |
Agree with r60. Sex stops and a lovely life sets in. Sometimes a little downlow fun on the side if needed, but keep it discreet.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | April 26, 2017 2:01 PM |
R73,
By keeping is discreet, do you mean that you shouldn't tell your partner? Telling the other one could jeopardize the relationship? Or do you mean not to broadcast the downlow fun to your friends?
by Anonymous | reply 74 | April 26, 2017 2:08 PM |
R74, don't tell the partner. Don't throw it in his face. But yes, we also all blab to a girlfriend when we do get lucky.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | April 26, 2017 2:15 PM |
R40 Even with company over?
by Anonymous | reply 76 | April 26, 2017 2:37 PM |
Why do bottoms fart so much after sex? wait wrong thread sorry.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | April 26, 2017 2:42 PM |
Thanks for the advice R73/R75
For the most part, my friends are either open (meaning they have lots of sex with lots of people) or fully monogamous. It's good to know it doesn't have to be so black and white.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | April 26, 2017 2:45 PM |
I don't agree with bragging to your friends when you get some on the side. That disrespectful to your partner.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | April 26, 2017 4:22 PM |
I just think my partner prefers porn to having sex with me. And FYI I'm not fat or a troll.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | April 27, 2017 10:20 AM |
R80, porn can become a habit. I stopped watching it about 3-4 years ago and think my sex life is better with my BF now. Your BF may not prefer porn to having sex with you, but may watch out of habit... and then he has decreased sex drive since he's coming all time on his own. Something to consider
by Anonymous | reply 81 | April 27, 2017 2:23 PM |
r81 Thanks I think this is the case
by Anonymous | reply 82 | April 28, 2017 11:00 AM |
It's very hard for gay men to understand, but life is not all about sex all the time. Sex is probably the single most overrated thing on the planet.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | April 28, 2017 11:27 AM |
Overrated? I am not going to deny your experience but that has not been relationship to sex at all. It can be amazing.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | April 28, 2017 12:02 PM |
I'm well aware, R84. I've had a lot of sex. A lot of good and great sex. A lot of mediocre sex. Sex of all types. Multiple partners, polyamory, sex on excellent drugs that seemed like nirvana at the time. I've been in a relationship for a quarter of a century. My breadth of experience is very broad.
And I'm telling you, it's not all that. But like I said, gay men obsess over it like it's the end. It's not. Gay men need to grow up. They are very immature sexually.
R84 is exactly what I'm talking about.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | April 28, 2017 12:35 PM |
Some nice stories on here, good on you guys
by Anonymous | reply 86 | April 28, 2017 1:00 PM |
Getting older and dealing with partner's ED
by Anonymous | reply 87 | May 1, 2017 10:35 AM |
Hmmm r85. Your inability to to understand that someone else might feel differently than you do about it makes me wonder why you are so insistent that is is "not all that." I actually said I didn't want to deny your experience but mine was different . You were quick to deny mine. Maybe this tells us exactly what kind of lover you were and why you feel this way.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | May 1, 2017 10:59 AM |
R85 The sex I've had with my partner is the best I've ever had. We are very compatible and the sex is amazing, I've often wondered if we will ever get bored with it but we never do. If you are fortunate to find someone who can be the best sex/life partner like you will understand what I am saying.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | May 1, 2017 11:54 AM |
Dealing with prostate cancer is not fun for us. We have been together 17 years.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | May 4, 2017 10:39 AM |
I've with my partner for more than 10 years and the sex is getting better with time. Last night was probably the best sex I've had in my life. We're both still young and healthy, and I know there will come a time when sex becomes less pleasurable. That's why it's so important to really love your partner and have strong connections that go beyond sex.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | May 4, 2017 2:08 PM |
[quote]And I'm telling you, it's not all that. But like I said, gay men obsess over it like it's the end. It's not. Gay men need to grow up. They are very immature sexually.
Blame society for making it such a big deal that it's important enough to make the distinction between traditional, heterosexual family values and depraved sodomy.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | May 4, 2017 2:32 PM |
r90 Sorry for you.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | May 6, 2017 12:38 PM |
bump
by Anonymous | reply 94 | May 18, 2017 10:48 AM |
r90 I am dealing with prostate cancer now but I don't have a partner. I'm shocked that this topic does not have it's own thread.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | May 20, 2017 5:30 PM |
I am bored by the third month, always. It doesn't hamper the relationship, or the sex, but it is the truth.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | May 20, 2017 5:41 PM |
Actually, this is a topic for lesbians too. I hv been with my wife almost 20 years. It is tough to keep the passion. Life becomes hectic, and it is very difficult. Date nights are great. Walks, talks, and adding humor. Make your spouse feel special. Be naked when they come home.
by Anonymous | reply 97 | May 20, 2017 5:53 PM |
27 years. Sex became formulaic. Not bad, but average and we did it about once a week. Then one day 5 years ago, we were in bed and he started to kiss me. I mean tongue washing aggressive kissing. I about blew a gasket and came so hard and loud that I suspect we woke up the neighbors and scared the wildlife. I've never found "kissing sex" to be of interest to me, but I did that back to him (which I rather enjoyed) and for the first time in over 15 years, he came all over me and him. Now, we mix it up a bit with things we see on porn sites just to see if we can do it.
most of the time, we're laughing too much to get hard or cum, but it's fun.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | May 28, 2017 8:47 PM |
He stopped being interested in sex a few years ago, blames himself not me. Then he got uncomfortable if I just played with his big cock. Right now we are down to nothing and it's going to end soon. I feel bad because we are good friends but I think he won't want to continue being friends. I asked why he was still with me when he wasn't interested sexually and he said he didn't want to see me with someone else. I won't get anyone else when it ends because I have lost so much self esteem in the last few years that I won't go looking. Over 50 here so I'm done with it all anyway. I resent people who have a great sex life, I can't help it.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | May 28, 2017 9:57 PM |
R99 Why do you feel that way about yourself? :( Is he behind your loss in self esteem?
by Anonymous | reply 100 | May 28, 2017 9:59 PM |
R100, I have always had esteem problems based on several factors. It was just his losing interest in me sexually that really bruised my self esteem and other little things that not associated with him that also factored in.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | May 28, 2017 11:27 PM |
R99, Have you tried to understand what his fantasies are? We've gone through some rough patches and I found out (through some of his porn history) that he was viewing cum swapping videos (yuk I know). So, I blew him and had him cum all over my face and gave him some sloppy swap'n and he blew an amazing fuse. Don't do it much, but, when he seems bored, I have 2 or 3 drinks and make his evening.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | May 29, 2017 6:23 PM |
Surprise him! I walked into the shower today. Fun.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | June 3, 2017 1:01 PM |
bump
by Anonymous | reply 104 | June 13, 2017 10:43 AM |
So? Suggestions?
by Anonymous | reply 105 | June 16, 2017 11:48 AM |
What about after prostate cancer surgery? Anyone?
by Anonymous | reply 106 | June 24, 2017 12:05 PM |
OP, this an LGBT website, NOT gay.
by Anonymous | reply 107 | June 24, 2017 12:23 PM |
I find R65's story to be the saddest.
by Anonymous | reply 108 | June 24, 2017 12:25 PM |
r108 Thanks. :(
by Anonymous | reply 109 | June 26, 2017 1:19 PM |
We have been together 12 years. He much prefers jerking it to porn and when I try to join him or get romantic, he zips up and walks away.
by Anonymous | reply 110 | August 3, 2017 3:20 PM |
Hugs to those who have been hurt through love and sex...
by Anonymous | reply 111 | August 3, 2017 3:40 PM |
How do you keep the music playing?
by Anonymous | reply 112 | August 3, 2017 4:17 PM |
It's a LG and occasionally B website R107. It is most certainly not a T website by any means. Nor does anyone here want it to be.
by Anonymous | reply 113 | August 3, 2017 4:18 PM |
R113 - How come no T?
by Anonymous | reply 114 | August 3, 2017 4:33 PM |
Because it's not G (see the thread title).
Apples and oranges.
Want to discuss the logistics of sex with surgically approximated genitalia (or how you like to surprise your partners with your mangina)? Please start your own thread.
by Anonymous | reply 115 | August 3, 2017 4:39 PM |
I've been with the partner for decades. Sexual attraction remains, but intense enthusiasm subsides. Aging has much to do with it. Also, relationships build in other dimensions including economic factors, social and recreational activities, newer lifestyle developments, household routines, coping with the unexpected, other mutual support, etc.
by Anonymous | reply 116 | August 3, 2017 4:47 PM |
r 116 is right. And clearly a top.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | August 4, 2017 5:38 AM |
We have been together 17 years. He gained a lot of weight and the dr said this causes testosterone levels to decrease. But he won't go on any meds so........sigh
by Anonymous | reply 118 | August 15, 2017 12:54 PM |
My husband and I have been together for 14 years and while I still enjoy our sex life, the frequency of sex has diminished a lot. I'd say on average we have sex twice a week. The wild, hot sex we had in the earlier years of our relationship has been replaced with a more tender, emotional kind of sex.
We have a pair of friends who have been together for nearly 20 years and they fuck like rabbits still. They tell me their secret is that they've never formally lived together. They might spend several days a week at each other's places but they both prefer their own space. I don't know if that's for me, but I can sometimes see the appeal of that arrangement.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | August 15, 2017 1:13 PM |
Anyone use trimix?
by Anonymous | reply 120 | August 15, 2017 1:25 PM |
r120 My urologist gave trimix to me when Viagra was not working at all. It was a miracle! Still use it today.
by Anonymous | reply 121 | August 21, 2017 1:39 PM |
r121 I'm guessing you are a top?
by Anonymous | reply 122 | August 23, 2017 10:58 PM |
Anyone else use trimix?
by Anonymous | reply 123 | October 11, 2017 10:44 AM |
I use bimix.
by Anonymous | reply 124 | November 2, 2017 11:17 AM |
what is the difference?
by Anonymous | reply 125 | November 7, 2017 11:17 AM |
[quote]set down a schedule we started having sex every Tuesday at 7:30 PM
7.30pm?! I'd rather die.
by Anonymous | reply 126 | November 7, 2017 11:31 AM |
Termite sex is beautiful sex R18! So I've been told...
by Anonymous | reply 127 | November 7, 2017 11:39 AM |
Bimix does not need to be refrigerated
by Anonymous | reply 128 | November 17, 2017 10:41 AM |
Almost cheating or slight cheating every couple of years does wonders for my sex life. I end up realizing I still want him.
by Anonymous | reply 129 | November 17, 2017 11:15 AM |
What if one of you isn't horny when 7:30 rolls around?
by Anonymous | reply 130 | November 17, 2017 11:21 AM |
I fart way too goddamn much to be in a relationship. I mean it's constant...no one's gonna put up with this shit! I'm ready to breakup with myself.
by Anonymous | reply 131 | November 17, 2017 11:25 AM |
[quote]slight cheating every couple
R129 Intriguing. What constitutes "slight cheating"?
by Anonymous | reply 132 | November 17, 2017 11:40 AM |
Sex is best between people who are strangers. Let's face it.
If you believe anything else you are either a victim of the church or the victim of some frau.
by Anonymous | reply 133 | November 17, 2017 2:49 PM |
i slap faces more often now
by Anonymous | reply 134 | November 17, 2017 2:52 PM |
Kris Jenner will always find a way to make money!
by Anonymous | reply 135 | November 17, 2017 2:55 PM |
We go for couples massage. Fun!
by Anonymous | reply 136 | November 19, 2017 11:10 PM |
r 136 Two separate masseurs or one guy?
by Anonymous | reply 137 | December 28, 2017 2:00 PM |
No. ours is getting better and better. 4 years going on 5. We care more and more about each other and communicate very straightforwardly about what we want in bed.
by Anonymous | reply 138 | December 28, 2017 2:39 PM |
We get off strokin and lickin.
by Anonymous | reply 139 | January 14, 2018 10:41 PM |
We love massage
by Anonymous | reply 140 | March 26, 2018 11:22 AM |
I have an older friend who is in a longterm relationship. Once he said to me "while sex is nice, it's highly overrated. Companionship and support is much more important when you are heading towards a fragile state". I can't imagine the fear one must feel when he's alone and too fragile to take care for himself (shopping, cooking, doing chores, driving, etc.) and has to rely on outside help and with outside help I mean nurses and other paid help.
by Anonymous | reply 141 | March 26, 2018 11:40 AM |
Whhoo boy, OP. Are you in for some dissapointment. “Do you think sex diminished over time?” Oh, my. You are just precious. 😂😂😂
We’ve been together almost 20 years and he’s the greatest, but the sex, like everything else, changed along the way. For starters we are both 20 years older. For most, your body, mind and libido all change over 20 years.
Sex is great, and if your can keep it being great long term, more power to you. But it really doesn’t define a long term relationship to me. Respect, honesty and committment are more important aspects, and companionship is the biggest reward, imo.
by Anonymous | reply 142 | March 26, 2018 12:03 PM |
Partner and I have been together 22 years. Last summer at a neighborhood dinner party, two other couples (millennial gays, baby boomer straights) and us decided to have a contest to see if each couple could have sex every day for a month. The winner got dinner at nice restaurant. We blogged our journey. Within 24 hours, the uptight millennials dropped out because they didn't want to disclose their frequency. That left the straights and eldergay couple. Both couples were good for about 2 weeks until the married straight husband and one of the gay husbands commiserated over drinks about how their dicks were going to fall off if this continued. So, we mutually agreed to end the tortuous contest. After that, we returned to our 1-2 times per week routine.
by Anonymous | reply 143 | March 26, 2018 12:26 PM |
Once a week.
by Anonymous | reply 144 | April 7, 2018 6:13 PM |
OP? Lesbians are gay too. Just sayin'.
by Anonymous | reply 145 | April 7, 2018 6:15 PM |
We go to couples massage. Rekaxing and great foreplay
by Anonymous | reply 146 | June 3, 2018 1:25 PM |
R146. Hop up on that massage table!
by Anonymous | reply 147 | June 11, 2018 12:10 PM |
I couldn't be less interested in sex with my partner of 25 years. He's old. He's fat. He's hairy in all the wrong places. Jerking off to porn is so much more enjoyable and efficient.
by Anonymous | reply 148 | June 11, 2018 1:14 PM |
Time has stood still for you though I take it, R148?
by Anonymous | reply 149 | June 13, 2018 2:28 AM |