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Turn ons

What are some major turn ons for you? What gives you instant wood? Personally, Im a sucker for a nice ass. In the bedroom, I love it when my partner wears a jock strap and we play coach/quarterback.

by Anonymousreply 134August 19, 2020 7:10 PM

Dark pubic hair, lots of it. When someone stares me down and doesn't break eye contact.

Stop shaving down there, god damn it.

by Anonymousreply 1February 4, 2017 5:06 AM

A good looking man who's gentle, sweet, humble. Just had a guy over yesterday for some work, who I first hired 4 years ago: he was clean-shaven then, now has a nice little moustache and beard, just as black and glossy as the rest of his hair. Compact, tight little body, but all those, "nice to see you again, Sir", and "what else can I do now, Sir", just had me salivating and trying not to betray myself. A handsome man who doesn't know he's hot is the most desirable thing I know.

by Anonymousreply 2February 4, 2017 5:40 AM

Hairy chest on my back, husky breathing in my ear, weiner rubbing between my oiled buns (but no entry!).

by Anonymousreply 3February 4, 2017 6:18 AM

Optimistic smiling uncynical young men with boundless energy.

Mature men with confidence, contentment, good energy and athletic bodies.

by Anonymousreply 4February 4, 2017 11:20 AM

sexy voices

by Anonymousreply 5February 4, 2017 11:33 AM

A guy with hair billowing over the top of his open shirt or tee shirt.

by Anonymousreply 6February 4, 2017 11:41 AM

White Rasta boys. I'm too old to fuck them, but I like running across the in daily life. I see that its lame but they are doll like when young and pretty and smiling.

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by Anonymousreply 7February 4, 2017 11:48 AM

Quarantine Bump:

Fight videos. Not all fights just street fights with bros. I don't like seeing kicks to the face and I don't jerk off to them, but I get aroused. Very odd and against my nature. I don't like MMA, Boxing, or anything. I just get turned on by a guy that heated and takes on another.

by Anonymousreply 8April 1, 2020 12:08 AM

When a guys got that good manly smell. You know the ones that smell sort of good after a long workday.

by Anonymousreply 9April 1, 2020 12:09 AM

I love it when a man’s dick is the darkest part of his body

by Anonymousreply 10April 1, 2020 12:12 AM

I love it when a man’s dick is the darkest part of his body

by Anonymousreply 11April 1, 2020 12:12 AM

I like when you can make a guy moan during a blowjob.

by Anonymousreply 12April 1, 2020 12:18 AM

Precummy foreskin on an overly hairy man. Mmmmmm........

by Anonymousreply 13April 1, 2020 12:43 AM

A nice patch of hair above a nice, muscular ass so I can rub my face in it before I rim them.

by Anonymousreply 14April 1, 2020 12:47 AM

Hot older guys with slender twinks

by Anonymousreply 15April 1, 2020 12:52 AM

Woof woof, r8

by Anonymousreply 16April 1, 2020 12:52 AM

OP=Tim Tebow

by Anonymousreply 17April 1, 2020 12:55 AM

For sex, rough trade

by Anonymousreply 18April 1, 2020 1:12 AM

Big thick dark eyebrows

Long eyelashes

Nice noses- Aran like features

Accents

Wierd guttural laughs-. I met a hot guy from Spain that laughed just like Seth rogan he even mentioned it because it’s hard to miss, sexy

Great fashion sense in terms of wearing clothes that have nice shape, but an effortless attitude

Venice beach looking bro surfer looking guys

Shoes with no socks or no show socks look

Cologne and underarm funk

Guys that pop their gum loud when they chew gum

by Anonymousreply 19April 1, 2020 1:18 AM

Cleft chin. Sexy.

by Anonymousreply 20April 1, 2020 1:25 AM

[quote] Nice noses- Aran like features

The Aran Islands?

by Anonymousreply 21April 1, 2020 1:27 AM

A nice ass while immediately turn me on. Str8 boys with nice asses that don’t seem to realize it in particular.

A muscular, hairy chest will do it as well.

If I can see a man’s bulge while walking. Ugh.

Lastly, a guy with a nice beard. Beards are extremely sexy to me. Maybe that’s a little cain since I’m a beardsman, but a guy with a nice beard and a nice haircut is very handsome to me.

by Anonymousreply 22April 1, 2020 1:33 AM

R21. Meant Arab. Love Arab looking guys

by Anonymousreply 23April 1, 2020 1:42 AM

Big dumb jock bros who know when to shut up and fuck.

by Anonymousreply 24April 1, 2020 1:52 AM

Genuinely quick-witted without being mean. I'm a smartass, so it always piques my interest when I meet a guy who can spitball with me.

by Anonymousreply 25April 1, 2020 2:42 AM

Twinks with deep voices.

by Anonymousreply 26April 1, 2020 2:50 AM

People passionate about politics that don't mind an intelligent debate. This is very hard to find because it requires active listening. But when you can really exercise the braincells it makes me want to fuck afterwards.

People that can be dominate or submissive depending on the mood.

That short walk form your car to hookups door where you try to keep you boner down. That anticipation as you wait for them to answer the door.

by Anonymousreply 27April 1, 2020 3:34 AM

Smooth latinos who have measured facial expressions in casual conversation and emotive faces and voices (dirty talker) when they get fucked.

Guys with bowed legs, as they tend to have big dicks but like being fucked.

Casual, clueless nudity.

Men who strike up conversation with the waitstaff and tip well.

by Anonymousreply 28April 1, 2020 6:28 AM

Fingering the bottom while both of you kiss.

by Anonymousreply 29April 1, 2020 6:34 AM

Hair in (r7) looks like a rat's nest. Gross.

by Anonymousreply 30April 1, 2020 6:42 AM

Hairy chest and ass makes me hard instantly.

by Anonymousreply 31April 1, 2020 11:12 AM

R26 Ahh yes, the elusive Deep Voiced Twink.

R27 You’re right about intelligent political conversation. Can’t say it makes me want to fuck afterward, but wanting to fuck is kinda baked into the cake with me.

by Anonymousreply 32April 1, 2020 11:22 AM

Athletic legs

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by Anonymousreply 33April 1, 2020 11:33 AM

Laughter.

by Anonymousreply 34April 1, 2020 11:58 AM

saddle soap

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by Anonymousreply 35April 1, 2020 12:06 PM

$$$$

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by Anonymousreply 36April 1, 2020 12:22 PM

A guy that rolls his Rs gets my dick hard.

by Anonymousreply 37April 1, 2020 12:27 PM

Asian guys who aren't thin as a reed

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by Anonymousreply 38April 14, 2020 8:26 PM

White guys with meaty thighs, bubble butt in biker shorts. They cannot be ugly however.

by Anonymousreply 39April 14, 2020 8:28 PM

[quote]People that can be dominate or submissive depending on the mood.

That's "dominant," dear. "Dominate" is a verb.

by Anonymousreply 40April 14, 2020 8:36 PM

A nice butt

An ability to laugh at himself, doesn't take himself too seriously, a man who can have a deep conversation about any number of issues, but who can talk sports or nonsensical matters.

Goes with the arse, but nice athletic legs.

Broad shoulders and a muscular chest with a beautiful treasure trail.

A good haircut and a well trimmed beard

Confidence and a man who treats the cleaning lady the same way he treats the CEO of his company

Kissing...two men kissing is an instant hard-on.

by Anonymousreply 41April 14, 2020 9:20 PM

Slobs. Not bums, but bedroom hair, a day or two without shaving, flip flops and sweat pants with no underwear. Oscar Madison-ish.

by Anonymousreply 42April 14, 2020 9:45 PM

Gay voice

Smooth, slim but soft bodies

Pretty, fey, guys that arent very masculine or butch

by Anonymousreply 43April 14, 2020 10:14 PM

Fresh shit 💩

by Anonymousreply 44April 14, 2020 10:19 PM

You can never have enough hats, gloves and shoes

by Anonymousreply 45April 14, 2020 10:21 PM

Guys that are take-charge but also affectionate.

Who know how to be verbal and even a bit cocky/teasing without being ugly about it.

In other words: confidence.

The package is almost secondary.....but body wise, I always like maturity and a hairy man. Nice eyes, too.

by Anonymousreply 46April 14, 2020 10:23 PM

Dark chest hair billowing over the top of a white Tee shirt.

by Anonymousreply 47April 14, 2020 10:26 PM

R20, God created the Cleft Chin to rest the balls.

by Anonymousreply 48April 14, 2020 10:28 PM

Nice hairy forearms. The nape of a guy's neck. A nice back.

by Anonymousreply 49April 14, 2020 10:58 PM

Boring. Nobody cares!!!

by Anonymousreply 50April 14, 2020 10:58 PM

Asian muscled guys. Foreskin and precum. Smooth chests. Dark hair and green eyes.

by Anonymousreply 51April 14, 2020 11:03 PM

r50 = Trump, who never has sex

by Anonymousreply 52April 14, 2020 11:04 PM

Hairy eyebrows, a muscular hairy chest and a large thick bush. Instant turn-on.

by Anonymousreply 53April 14, 2020 11:17 PM

Where are you hair-loving guys on the apps???

by Anonymousreply 54April 14, 2020 11:22 PM

The view of a muscular back with huge lats in a tight tshirt.

Large and nice looking hands and feet.

by Anonymousreply 55April 14, 2020 11:53 PM

Pint-sized harlots

by Anonymousreply 56April 14, 2020 11:56 PM

I think most of us who like hairy guys are older, growing up at a time no one groomed their body hair. It was a mark of masculinity to have a hairy chest and/or crotch. I paid attention to those guys, who loved to show it off.

I'm too old for apps. I have my sources online. I still have most of the skin magazines I collected in the 80s and 90s, including Playgirl, which never disappointed.

by Anonymousreply 57April 15, 2020 12:15 AM

I spent many a day looking at Playgirls I hid in the fraternity house in the late 70s and early 80s. To my knowledge, no one else discovered them. It was a bold step to pick up my first Playgirl from a grocery stand and take it to the register. I laugh about it now.

by Anonymousreply 58April 15, 2020 12:20 AM

Beefy average looking guys with THICK asses who love being fucked.

by Anonymousreply 59April 15, 2020 12:32 AM

Masculine cocksuckers without gag reflexes

Twink tops and muscle bottoms

Tops who eat ass like they're starving

Bubble butts in jockstraps, spread open and fucked doggie style

by Anonymousreply 60April 15, 2020 12:51 AM

Guys that have bohemian style, or unique style. Accents. Smiles that they can’t control. Thick eybrows. Don’t have an Instagram account.

by Anonymousreply 61April 27, 2020 12:17 AM

Hairy chests and asses. Deep voices. Sense of humor.

by Anonymousreply 62April 27, 2020 12:19 AM

Good kissing.

by Anonymousreply 63April 27, 2020 12:27 AM

Good kissing is key. Huge. Number one. Chemistry is inside saliva

by Anonymousreply 64April 27, 2020 12:30 AM

Confidence / cockiness if the guy is muscular and understands that his showing off, flexing is turning me on

Big pecs that can bounce on command

Backward baseball caps

Hairy strong legs / hairy pubes

White old school briefs like hanes, bvds, Ftl

No deodorant / ripe scent

Verbal guys during sex & who moan loudly when they cum

gold chains with a crucifix or italian horn

“Wife beaters” tank tops or shirts with the sides cut off.

Straight guys who nonchalantly free ball in public

Lean guys with “sleeves” (arms covered in tats)

by Anonymousreply 65April 27, 2020 12:34 AM

Sweat pants or gym shorts with no underwear

Well defined pecs

A strong, shapely ass

A smooth body (not much body hair)

Someone who's not shy about getting wood or a semi

by Anonymousreply 66April 27, 2020 1:02 AM

A man with nicely shaped feet. Must have a high arch, no flat footed Neanderthals here.

by Anonymousreply 67April 27, 2020 1:22 AM

Black hair and blue eyes. Emotionally distant. The Don Draper type.

by Anonymousreply 68April 27, 2020 1:27 AM

A curly mop of hair does it for me. a cute ass too.

Maybe because of my Mediterranean ancestry - in which I got wavy/slightly curly hair myself.

by Anonymousreply 69April 27, 2020 2:00 AM

Intelligence

by Anonymousreply 70April 27, 2020 2:09 AM

I don’t like that word “billowing” as it relates to chest hair. Seems affected.

by Anonymousreply 71April 27, 2020 2:10 AM

A man at the gym with a big chest who cannot hide the edges of both nipples at the same time in his string tank.

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by Anonymousreply 72April 27, 2020 2:23 AM

FOLLIES!

by Anonymousreply 73April 27, 2020 2:24 AM

Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens

by Anonymousreply 74April 27, 2020 2:34 AM

Strong jawline and prominent cheekbones.

by Anonymousreply 75April 27, 2020 2:42 AM

College wrestlers in the 140 to 180 lb range. I could never go to an actual match because they would throw me out for my pervy gazing.

by Anonymousreply 76April 27, 2020 2:59 AM

Intelligent men with big open smiles and straight white teeth.

by Anonymousreply 77April 27, 2020 3:33 AM

A nice speaking and singing voice

Hairy chest

Hairy pubes

Lean but muscular

Great sense of humor

Kindness

by Anonymousreply 78April 27, 2020 4:02 AM

Masculine black men with well trimmed beards and glasses

by Anonymousreply 79April 27, 2020 5:07 AM

This dude. You want to know my type? This dude is.

Only way he gets better is if he were uncut.

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by Anonymousreply 80May 8, 2020 3:39 PM

The pre-90s Playgirl models, with hair in all the right places.

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by Anonymousreply 81May 9, 2020 1:29 AM

A fantastic treasure trail is my weakness.

by Anonymousreply 82May 9, 2020 12:34 PM

Good eyebrows.

The only thing I like about him are his eyebrows and the color of his hair.

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by Anonymousreply 83May 9, 2020 2:45 PM

Looks, prefer cute boyish to handsome. Masculine but not put on. Considerate, affectionate. Dad bod to stocky. Vulnerable and not dramatic. Those all turn me on.

by Anonymousreply 84May 9, 2020 3:15 PM

Beefy, hairy men have always turned me on. R64, I'm with you on kissing. Bad kissers ruin the mood. Instant turn off. I like above average but not super hung--7-8 inches is my Goldilocks-just-right range. Also a huge turn on, tops who are affectionate, sweet and romantic in bed. Nothing worse than these "take charge" types who ruin the mood with their porn acting.

by Anonymousreply 85May 9, 2020 5:04 PM

Big butts and dad bods

by Anonymousreply 86May 9, 2020 5:06 PM

Cleft chins. I love to get in the groove and play around there.

by Anonymousreply 87May 9, 2020 5:11 PM

Guys who don't work "top" or "bottom" into every conversation.

by Anonymousreply 88May 10, 2020 4:18 AM

A bodybuilder with big pecs and nipples spread out.

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by Anonymousreply 89May 13, 2020 2:07 AM

Even better when he raised his arms over his head and his nipples stretch upward.

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by Anonymousreply 90May 13, 2020 2:11 AM

Obama’s smile ❤️

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by Anonymousreply 91May 13, 2020 2:23 AM

Backward baseball caps, pecs, hairy legs

by Anonymousreply 92May 13, 2020 4:19 AM

Fuck R80, he is stunning. Fight you for him 😉

Nice thighs and bum will do it for me every time.

Also during sex something that will make me fill with blood more than I think possible is the way some guys look up at me while I'm inside them. Some guys get this sweet, wide-eyed look on their face. It's hard to describe. I'm a people pleaser, and at those moments I know I'm in control of making this feel really good for them, and I have the responsibility to not hurt them, and they're trusting me with it, and it's so sexy to me.

by Anonymousreply 93May 13, 2020 4:31 AM

Guys like R92 are what draws me to the stands at major league baseball games. Even better when they take their shirts off during day games. Once I sat a few rows behind one of these guys. I could look up the leg of his shorts and see his junk enveloped by a loose mesh lining. Nick cock, big dark brown bush, nuts resting on the seat. I looked several times, good thing I was wearing sunglasses. He didn't suspect a thing.

by Anonymousreply 94May 14, 2020 12:23 AM

You're my kinda perve, R94!

by Anonymousreply 95May 14, 2020 12:58 AM

Tatted biker in leather.

by Anonymousreply 96May 14, 2020 12:59 AM

R4 is my ideal because he knows it's the person rather than the affect or props that make for real attractiveness.

Kisses wherever he wants them applied!

by Anonymousreply 97May 14, 2020 1:02 AM

Soft suckable intact penis

by Anonymousreply 98May 14, 2020 1:11 AM

Oh yeah and it's hair that I have to plaster down with gel to manage it.

by Anonymousreply 99June 1, 2020 2:18 AM

Latinos...I love them and nothing gets me harder.

by Anonymousreply 100June 1, 2020 2:20 AM

Big wide feet, white cut chicks 7”+

by Anonymousreply 101June 2, 2020 1:02 AM

White women with mutilated genitals? Really, [R101]?

by Anonymousreply 102June 2, 2020 1:03 AM

My bf just fucked my asshole with his big toe

by Anonymousreply 103June 3, 2020 1:57 AM

Pretty eyes (blue or hazel)

Nice teeth

Tall swimmer's body

5 o'clock shadow

Body hair in the right places (no back hair - ew!)

by Anonymousreply 104June 3, 2020 2:49 AM

R8 That sounds hot. Can you post a thread of such videos?

by Anonymousreply 105June 3, 2020 2:51 AM

Caftans.

Earrings.

by Anonymousreply 106June 3, 2020 2:54 AM

A man with a beautiful face, a muscled body and a big bush!

I hooked up with a military man who had a clean flattop haircut and an unruly thick bush. It was so striking. I came three times while I completely drained him.

by Anonymousreply 107June 3, 2020 8:12 AM

No tattoos. Hairy chest and ass. Hairy pubes. Fit, but not a muscle mary. Short, well-maintained beard.

by Anonymousreply 108June 3, 2020 8:17 AM

Coinslots with some wispy coppery anal hairs.

by Anonymousreply 109June 3, 2020 11:57 AM

A giant cock on a skinny fuck...like herion skinny with a fucking baby arm.

by Anonymousreply 110June 4, 2020 1:06 AM

A guy who spontaneously dives into a swimming pool fully-clothed and comes out with his shirt clinging to his body, nipples and body hair readily seen through it.

(It happened on a first date last year. We were busy while his clothes were hung to dry.)

by Anonymousreply 111June 4, 2020 5:39 AM

Hairy pits

by Anonymousreply 112June 4, 2020 7:26 AM

athletic, hairy legs

treasure trail

long eyelashes

quiet intelligence

sense of humor

and of course a great ass

by Anonymousreply 113June 4, 2020 11:40 AM

Prepuce.

by Anonymousreply 114June 4, 2020 1:38 PM

Hot, r111!

by Anonymousreply 115June 4, 2020 1:40 PM

Damn, r107! Sounds fun!

by Anonymousreply 116June 4, 2020 1:41 PM

[quote]Guys with bowed legs, as they tend to have big dicks but like being fucked.

I feel called out.

by Anonymousreply 117June 4, 2020 2:00 PM

No argument from me, R111.

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by Anonymousreply 118June 6, 2020 1:57 AM

A man with a sweet, boyish face on an Adonis body. A hairy chest, mustache and closely cropped beard, and longish sideburns are a must.

by Anonymousreply 119June 6, 2020 2:00 AM

Butch and sensual.

by Anonymousreply 120June 6, 2020 3:45 AM

Pale and weak with a round bum.

by Anonymousreply 121June 6, 2020 7:03 AM

Lacrosse, vpl

by Anonymousreply 122June 6, 2020 7:09 AM

Ripe pits, hairy legs, alpha jock bro in a basebal cap

by Anonymousreply 123July 26, 2020 2:19 AM

A hot guy wearing a cowboy hat and nothing else.

by Anonymousreply 124July 26, 2020 2:24 AM

A leather biker cap.

by Anonymousreply 125July 26, 2020 2:26 AM

Open or mostly-unbuttoned shirts

by Anonymousreply 126July 26, 2020 2:46 AM

Guys named Kevin.

by Anonymousreply 127July 26, 2020 2:49 AM

A beautiful extra-thick cock with a fat mushroom head and big heavy balls.

by Anonymousreply 128July 26, 2020 3:02 AM

A thick man - muscular arms and legs but a nice belly on him and hairy. I don't mind an instagram model but a fat hairy bear will fuck the living shit out of you.

by Anonymousreply 129July 26, 2020 3:35 PM

Like this

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by Anonymousreply 130July 26, 2020 3:38 PM

[quote] A beautiful extra-thick cock with a fat mushroom head and big heavy balls.

Go back to sleep, Rose.

by Anonymousreply 131July 27, 2020 4:34 AM

Not shaved. Not tattooed. Not superficial. Depth of character. Humor and intelligence. Ooh la la. Those guys always kiss well. Ooh lalalala lah!

by Anonymousreply 132July 27, 2020 6:09 AM

My Turn-Ons:

Intelligent

Polite towards others

Articulate

Smells good

Dark hair with either blue or green eyes

Nice looking hands and feet ( nothing is more than a turn off for me than ugly looking toes)

Well-groomed: Shorthair and clean-shaven

Looks amazing in a suit

by Anonymousreply 133July 27, 2020 6:53 AM

Straight white teeth.

by Anonymousreply 134August 19, 2020 7:10 PM
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