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Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock.

Weird, right? What's up with them?

by Anonymousreply 354May 23, 2023 11:30 AM

Don't come to, or in, my house.

by Anonymousreply 1August 29, 2015 11:19 AM

Tops?

by Anonymousreply 2August 29, 2015 11:26 AM

Every top who ever got inside me went down on me first, and liked it.

by Anonymousreply 3August 29, 2015 11:34 AM

Fucking is more fun.

by Anonymousreply 4August 29, 2015 11:35 AM

Im a top and not really into sucking dick or getting mine sucked. Let's get to the main event please, when I tear that ass up on high speed!

by Anonymousreply 5August 29, 2015 11:36 AM

I like you, r5!

by Anonymousreply 6August 29, 2015 11:37 AM

gay men who won't rim

by Anonymousreply 7August 29, 2015 11:49 AM

I used to hate sucking cock but meth changed all that

by Anonymousreply 8August 29, 2015 11:50 AM

I would never rim. Fuck it...oh wait I already did.

by Anonymousreply 9August 29, 2015 12:07 PM

Last time I sucked was when Poppers were popular.

by Anonymousreply 10August 29, 2015 12:13 PM

gay men who won't let guys cum in their mouths

by Anonymousreply 11August 29, 2015 12:19 PM

If they're middle-aged, they might not have recovered from bathing hype.

In the early 90s, a lot of us pre and post bathed thinking it would help prevent AIDS.

That left you sucking on soap dick or condom dick. Neither was as bad as the Le Male dick that would follow.

by Anonymousreply 12August 29, 2015 12:30 PM

"Top" and "bottom" refer to fucking. I've been with dozens of tops who happily and enthusiastically sucked cock.

A gay man who doesn't like dick is like a straight man who doesn't like breasts: EXTREMELY ODD, TO THE POINT OF DYSFUNCTION. I mean, really, can you imagine a straight guy who was like "I love women and pussy, but keep your gross tits away from me, ew." That would be seen as strange, right? Someone with some sort of "issues," correct?

by Anonymousreply 13August 29, 2015 12:32 PM

R12 - in the early 90's??? the early 90's you were taking baths against the AIDS?

Hello, we had safe sex techniques info in the mid 80's!!!

by Anonymousreply 14August 29, 2015 12:34 PM

They don't like to? Who cares?

by Anonymousreply 15August 29, 2015 12:38 PM

What does "pre and post bathed" mean?

by Anonymousreply 16August 29, 2015 12:41 PM

R14, perhaps you're much older than middle-aged.

Overly safer sex involved lots of bathing and ruined the taste of dick.

by Anonymousreply 17August 29, 2015 12:42 PM

I totally get gay guys who don't do anal...I'm not that big of a fan myself. But how can you be gay and like dick but not want to taste any?

Boggles the mind.

I can't stand that macho "top" nonsense where they're all about using the bottom either. If you don't want to pleasure me back, fuck off.

by Anonymousreply 18August 29, 2015 1:08 PM

Let Male dick. Hahahaha. Totes

by Anonymousreply 19August 29, 2015 1:16 PM

For many years, I was one of those guys who didn't like to suck nor be sucked. It just didn't do anything for me. And I have to day, I never had a guy get upset that I wouldn't suck him. But I had PLENTY of guys get upset when I told them I didn't want to be sucked.

by Anonymousreply 20August 29, 2015 1:21 PM

What changed, R20? Did you see the light?

by Anonymousreply 21August 29, 2015 1:39 PM

My boyfriend really isn't into sucking dick. I was kind of surprised at first since I have not really encountered this before. He still does it, probably because I like it, but not at length and never till I cum. He really fetishizes ass over all else, I guess at the expense of dick on some level. Everybody's got their thing. I don't think it's internalized homophobia or disgust. (Aren't there lots of straight guys who are not into eating pussy?) It's preference, and who knows where the fuck all that comes from.

by Anonymousreply 22August 29, 2015 2:12 PM

I'm not fan of oral sex. I doesn't turn me on to suck a guy's cock. In my sexual fantasies sucking cock doesn't cross my mind. In my case, it probably stems from the fact that I feel inferior having to stand on my knees and I don't like to feel like I am not an equal in sex. I don't like to feel used either and many times guys who want to receive oral, in a way, they use their partner as a tool.

I love the cock, but oral sex is my thing.

We are all different, some are turned on by sucking cock and others aren't. That's diversity.

by Anonymousreply 23August 29, 2015 2:27 PM

Sometimes dick is just not hot enough that I'd want to put it in my mouth. Mostly it's because I don't have connection with the guy it's attached to, or I just don't fancy him. But I've still sucked dicks like that. It's only when you get to suck the dick of someone you really have hots for you realize how awesome a dick can be.

I really wish I could suck my own. I've even dreamt of it.

by Anonymousreply 24August 29, 2015 2:39 PM

Maybe it's just the dicks that this guy has come up against, so to speak. Let me illustrate with a tale of two fuckbuddies. One, his dick was rock hard from the moment he took off his undies (well, after a bit of foreplay while clothed...) and his dick has a slight upward curve. Awesome, awesome for fucking as that fat head scraped right up against my prostate and made me leak precum the whole time he fucked me, but impossible to really suck.

Guy two is a slow riser. Always starts out with barely semi-hard, which is good because he's huge. The first time we hooked up, I thought something might be wrong or he wasn't into me, and didn't seem to be into getting his dick sucked all that much, but I asked him if I could anyway. He said he was so big that most guys couldn't do much orally for him. So I went down on him, and while he was still in that state of semi-softness, I swallowed his dick and it immediately got rock hard. He was so turned on when he felt me swallow that he nearly shot right then, and in fact, when I'm in the mood for a quickie (and I do mean like I have 5 minutes and have to go), I'll just blow him and tell him to go for it. He tells me I'm the best cocksucker he's ever had, and before me, he didn't really even enjoy oral. Now, he wouldn't miss it. And has he learned a thing or two from me along the way! His oral skills are 100 times what they were when we met. We've been fuckbuddies now for about 15 years.

by Anonymousreply 25August 29, 2015 2:51 PM

[quote]Aren't there lots of straight guys who are not into eating pussy?

Yes, and most progressive women would consider them sexual chauvinists and poor lovers.

by Anonymousreply 26August 29, 2015 3:10 PM

I just like ass way more. I get off on pleasing guys that need to have their holes beat in so they can feel sexually satisfied. And its a plus if they are pretty and have a big soft hairy ass. I guess its all about making another man feel submissive right?

by Anonymousreply 27August 29, 2015 3:30 PM

I'm not a huge fan of getting sucked, I'd rather you jack me off and finger bang my hole.

by Anonymousreply 28August 29, 2015 3:54 PM

Lots of "trade tops" in porn don't suck (although eventually longtime holdout Paddy O'Brien did.) What's odd is that there are few guys who'll bottom but have never sucked.

by Anonymousreply 29August 29, 2015 5:22 PM

Not worth knowing. Not worth blowing.

by Anonymousreply 30August 29, 2015 5:42 PM

r29, think of it this way. As a homo, would you rather eat pussy or fuck it?

by Anonymousreply 31August 29, 2015 6:02 PM

i dont understand that analogy

by Anonymousreply 32August 29, 2015 6:03 PM

I'd rather have a deep meaningful connection with my partner, and rape his ass.

by Anonymousreply 33August 29, 2015 6:44 PM

I don't do it either

by Anonymousreply 34June 7, 2016 9:03 AM

Bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 35June 7, 2016 9:16 AM

Sucking cock is overrated (for me anyway) ...

by Anonymousreply 36June 7, 2016 9:33 AM

Sucking cock is what I live for.

I can't even imagine being with a hot guy and not wanting his penis in my mouth.

by Anonymousreply 37June 7, 2016 10:02 AM

Sucking cock feels uncomfortable to me unless I'm really into the guy. My mouth gets dry and my jaw starts to ache,. I'm trying to get more into it...as I become more of a bottom

by Anonymousreply 38June 7, 2016 10:26 AM

There was a big thread on rimming and tons of people said they weren't into that. Sucking Dick is different though. I was born a cocksucking slut so I can't imagine not liking it. I have encountered a dozen guys who won't reciprocate. It's weird but whatever. I usually get off more on sucking. And I am so good at it cuz I love it. Guys constantly say I give the best head. I think my last relationship was largely based on my bj skills. It lasted over a year too... But he had such a big thick perfect cock, how could I not suck it like a pro?? Mm. Makes me hard just thinking about it.

All that being said, I usually don't swallow. The taste and texture of cum just grosses me out. There's a lot of food I don't eat...so there's that.

by Anonymousreply 39June 7, 2016 10:41 AM

I had a hookup who won't even toich my cock!

by Anonymousreply 40June 7, 2016 10:43 AM

Only onereason why a queen wouldn'n smoke pole: it's not big enough!

by Anonymousreply 41June 7, 2016 10:44 AM

Not even one toich?

by Anonymousreply 42June 7, 2016 10:50 AM

Problem is that most tops love getting their cock sucked, but some of us bottoms don't fantasise about sucking cock. I have done it, but it is not something that turns me on.

by Anonymousreply 43June 7, 2016 11:37 AM

I once had a fuck buddy who was into only frottage. He was hot, but the lack of oral or anal sex activity frustrate me. Still, it was definitely low-risk sex.

by Anonymousreply 44June 7, 2016 11:46 AM

R44:

How is that a 'fuck buddy'?

by Anonymousreply 45June 7, 2016 5:32 PM

R5 is a winner.

by Anonymousreply 46June 7, 2016 5:41 PM

It's gross to me. The passive role

by Anonymousreply 47June 7, 2016 6:13 PM

I've never cared for it, OP. I'm a top, the guys I sleep with don't seem to mind, really.

by Anonymousreply 48June 7, 2016 8:04 PM

Yep, there are so many total bottoms looking for Alpha total tops

by Anonymousreply 49June 7, 2016 11:56 PM

But why do tops like oral sex so much? Is it simply because it feels good to have a mouth around your dick or is it that you like to see your partner in such submissive position?

by Anonymousreply 50June 8, 2016 12:35 AM

Paddy O'Brien

by Anonymousreply 51June 8, 2016 12:40 AM

Sucking cock is one of the great pleasures in life, swallowing is the second. :-P

by Anonymousreply 52June 8, 2016 12:45 AM

It makes me gag and want to vomit.

by Anonymousreply 53June 8, 2016 12:52 AM

hmmmm

by Anonymousreply 54November 29, 2016 1:06 AM

[quote]But why do tops like oral sex so much? Is it simply because it feels good to have a mouth around your dick

Are you female? Have you never had a blowjob? Most guys love them. Yes, it "simply" feels good, and the same exact concept sums up 99% of male sexuality. I don't care what position someone is in or who feels more submissive or controlling or whatthefuckever, I like getting head because it feels good.

by Anonymousreply 55November 29, 2016 1:13 AM

Hee Hee!

by Anonymousreply 56November 30, 2016 12:19 AM

80% of the guys on the DL hate sex of any kind.

by Anonymousreply 57November 30, 2016 12:24 AM

I WANT to talk about Susan Powter!

by Anonymousreply 58November 30, 2016 12:37 AM

I know.

by Anonymousreply 59November 30, 2016 4:28 AM

I like to fuck but I'll be and do anything you want including suck but your cock should be pretty and intact preferably.

by Anonymousreply 60November 30, 2016 6:02 AM

Uh mmmm

by Anonymousreply 61November 30, 2016 8:34 AM

Never sucked, never will. Penis aint my thing bro

by Anonymousreply 62December 21, 2016 2:45 AM

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock won't/don't deserve to live.

by Anonymousreply 63December 21, 2016 4:24 AM

usually british

by Anonymousreply 64December 21, 2016 4:26 AM

They love pussy.

by Anonymousreply 65December 21, 2016 5:04 AM

Okay by me. Love sucking but don't wanna get sucked.

by Anonymousreply 66December 21, 2016 5:30 AM

There are tons of dudes like r66 seeking guys who dont suck

by Anonymousreply 67December 21, 2016 5:27 PM

I'm impressed by their willpower.

by Anonymousreply 68December 21, 2016 6:03 PM

I won't suck dick if it's small. If it's normal+ then I'm good to go.

by Anonymousreply 69December 21, 2016 6:16 PM

Uh huh

by Anonymousreply 70December 21, 2016 8:54 PM

Women are reviled and ridiculed when they won't suck cock.

by Anonymousreply 71December 24, 2016 3:31 PM

Good for them

by Anonymousreply 72January 27, 2017 9:20 PM

Hnmmmm

by Anonymousreply 73June 1, 2017 2:22 PM

What does it barter? Clearly a lot of guys are into dudes who don't reciprocate

by Anonymousreply 74June 20, 2017 9:22 PM

R74 I'm one of them.

by Anonymousreply 75June 20, 2017 9:49 PM

deserve to die

by Anonymousreply 76June 20, 2017 10:43 PM

This is not new nor rare. Ads are filled with "no reciprocation " desires

by Anonymousreply 77June 20, 2017 11:31 PM

Love sucking cock but one of my first outings as a gay teen turned me against it. Met this handsome executive, mid-30s, driving a top of the range BMW at a cruising ground near my college. Went for a drive, were making out, when he whips out his cock, and asks me to suck. As I went in a strong smell of unwashed uncut dick hit my nostrils, and I pulled back. He pushed my head into his lap, but I couldn't hold back and promptly puked into his lap. I legged it from the car as fast as I could. Several years before I would go down on a guy again.

by Anonymousreply 78June 20, 2017 11:39 PM

That's smegma, R78, not cock.

by Anonymousreply 79June 21, 2017 12:27 AM

cheapskates

by Anonymousreply 80June 21, 2017 12:27 AM

I am not uncharitable in bed, but I've never enjoyed sucking cock. I don't have any sort of fever for it. Oh, well.

by Anonymousreply 81June 21, 2017 2:54 AM

I don't approve of guys who won't suck but the apps are filled with men who don't want reciprocation. And versatile, but feel like bottoming today. And every day.

by Anonymousreply 82June 21, 2017 3:19 AM

Yep it turns many on to have a guy who is all-top, oral and analyst

by Anonymousreply 83June 21, 2017 3:25 AM

Anal

by Anonymousreply 84June 21, 2017 3:25 AM

R79 Same thing as ketchup on fries-either you like it or not.

by Anonymousreply 85June 21, 2017 7:56 AM

R8 LOL

by Anonymousreply 86June 21, 2017 8:07 AM

Good

by Anonymousreply 87June 21, 2017 12:38 PM

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock should be sentenced to having sex with women only.

by Anonymousreply 88June 21, 2017 12:39 PM

Anal is so much more exciting. Time is valuable, let's cut to the main event, your asshole.

by Anonymousreply 89June 21, 2017 8:39 PM

Shut up

by Anonymousreply 90June 21, 2017 10:02 PM

Oral bores me giving or receiving. I don't particularly like the sensation of getting sucked to tell the truth.

by Anonymousreply 91June 21, 2017 11:35 PM

I feel sorry for the many men here who have never got lost in the bliss of 69 with a guy you care about and are in tune with.

I love sucking it and I'm good at it. A guy who is not interested in sucking my dick is straight up useless to me sexually. He should want to shove it down his throat. If he doesn't want to challenge himself with it I will get bored and impatient with him.

I don't understand the stuff about submission, makes no sense to me. To me it's like saying you submitted to the button you pushed to cross the street, doesn't make sense. Seems to me like you are missing out on a lot of good fun for the sake of playing a theatrical role. Well, whatever tickles your pickle, and it's great that there are compatible guys out there for you.

by Anonymousreply 92June 22, 2017 12:24 AM

Straight Homeboy Said: I Ain’t Gay But Head Is Head Iramcito!
I Said: Imma Swallow The Cum Out That Dick Dude! No Hands!!
He Said: Yeah We’ll See That ,, That’s Not Possible & This Better Stay Between Us!
& 15 Mins Later He’s At My House Instagram: iamiramcito Snapchat: iramcito20

by Anonymousreply 93August 5, 2017 3:24 PM

I was like that. Then I discovered uncut cock while traveling in Europe. Now I love sucking. Still prefer fucking though.

by Anonymousreply 94August 5, 2017 4:01 PM

Hmmm

by Anonymousreply 95August 5, 2017 4:26 PM

Cool

by Anonymousreply 96August 5, 2017 11:37 PM

Hmmm

by Anonymousreply 97August 6, 2017 2:03 PM

I have the world's worst gag reflex so it's a non-starter for me. Just can't do it.

by Anonymousreply 98August 6, 2017 2:49 PM

R47 Then you're not doing it right. They're only submissive in my mouth. Spent to the point of resembling melted butter, no matter how hard they fought liking it.

by Anonymousreply 99August 6, 2017 3:06 PM

Not for nothing, apparently, I already had r47 on ignore. Bet he's one of my 12 bromosexuals.

by Anonymousreply 100August 6, 2017 3:12 PM

R47 has no reason to live, no reason to be let into anyone's home who has an ounce of decency, let alone anyone's bed. Die, R47, so your poison will not affect anyone with whom you might come in contact in the future.

by Anonymousreply 101August 6, 2017 3:29 PM

I am glad the myth that all gay dudes are into penis is being dispelled. Obviously, throughout history, many gay men were strictly ACTIVE/ACTIVO and did not handle penis during sexual encounters. Strictly dominant dudes are real.

by Anonymousreply 102August 9, 2017 11:14 AM

[quote]Strictly dominant dudes are real pieces of shit who don't deserve to draw their next breath.

Fixed.

by Anonymousreply 103August 9, 2017 1:58 PM

[quote]throughout history, many gay men were strictly ACTIVE

You would have to go back in history to find a time when gay men were strictly ACTIVE.

by Anonymousreply 104August 9, 2017 1:59 PM

I don't like sucking or being sucked. Just never done anything for me. I can get off rimming someone but like to plough most of all.

by Anonymousreply 105August 9, 2017 2:17 PM

[quote]Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock...

... are completely irrelevant.

by Anonymousreply 106August 9, 2017 2:19 PM

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock belong in a concentration camp, where they can just stare at each other until they die. Leave the rest of us alone to enjoy each other to the fullest.

by Anonymousreply 107August 9, 2017 2:24 PM

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock deserve equally unrequited sex. And no love at all.

by Anonymousreply 108August 9, 2017 6:07 PM

Men who don't reciprocate are very popular on m4m dating sites. They are viewed as more masculine, manly, Alpha, overall hotter. So, those who object to them are not hurting these Alpha bros.

by Anonymousreply 109August 10, 2017 11:51 AM

Good for them. I have never sucked a penis, and never will. Now, I will let a guy or chick suck me all night...

by Anonymousreply 110August 10, 2017 11:37 PM

Yepp

by Anonymousreply 111August 11, 2017 2:56 AM

[quote]Love sucking cock but one of my first outings as a gay teen turned me against it. Met this handsome executive, mid-30s, driving a top of the range BMW at a cruising ground near my college. Went for a drive, were making out, when he whips out his cock, and asks me to suck. As I went in a strong smell of unwashed uncut dick hit my nostrils, and I pulled back. He pushed my head into his lap, but I couldn't hold back and promptly puked into his lap. I legged it from the car as fast as I could. Several years before I would go down on a guy again.

Sounds like my dream man. I can't fid any one to feed cheese :(

by Anonymousreply 112August 11, 2017 3:39 AM

Lots of het men don't like big boobs and go for teeny weeny Asian girls with flat chests. And no, they don't really wish they were with men. The girls they go weigh about 90 pounds and are very delicate and dainty looking.

by Anonymousreply 113August 11, 2017 3:42 AM

Remember when Robert Repulveda didn't wash for three months to build up dick cheese for a client?

by Anonymousreply 114August 11, 2017 3:43 AM

The only time I ever puked on someone, it was because he'd snapped a popper open under my nose. I was young, and had no idea what they were, or what was happening to me. I was riding him, and threw up all over his face and chest.

by Anonymousreply 115August 11, 2017 1:55 PM

I wasn't into the idea of being sucked....until I met the right partner that showed me what a mouth is capable of doing fellatio wise. It was amazing!!!! You just have to relax and really get into the sensory sensations of getting sucked. Once that happens, you start precuming, and that's when the guys usually really start to suck!!!

by Anonymousreply 116August 11, 2017 2:21 PM

Certainly makes gay guys want you more

by Anonymousreply 117August 11, 2017 11:37 PM

Different strokes

by Anonymousreply 118August 12, 2017 4:50 PM

I don't suck cock because I need more cock in my ass

by Anonymousreply 119August 12, 2017 5:18 PM

I like being sucked. I don't like to suck really. And anal doesn't do much for me. I'm all about kissing and sensuality. Ultimately there can be cumming but it's the build-up to that I really like. I guess I'm a freak who deserves to die, according to this thread.

by Anonymousreply 120August 12, 2017 6:13 PM

Hmmmm

by Anonymousreply 121September 1, 2017 2:37 PM

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock might as well be straight.

by Anonymousreply 122September 1, 2017 2:44 PM

Whatever r122. Grow up dude

by Anonymousreply 123September 1, 2017 2:48 PM

fuck off

by Anonymousreply 124September 1, 2017 3:21 PM

ITS just not something I even desire to do, man.

by Anonymousreply 125November 13, 2017 12:18 PM

R122 speaks the truth. If one doesn't suck cock, one cannot be gay. You have to be straight. Go fuck women.

by Anonymousreply 126November 13, 2017 12:27 PM

Like R91, oral bores me to tears, both giving and receiving. I can only stand it while 69ing, especially when that turns into mutual ass eating. Could swallow a load anytime, though.

by Anonymousreply 127November 13, 2017 1:02 PM

Uh okay

by Anonymousreply 128November 13, 2017 2:39 PM

To answer OP's question:

90% of them are full of shit. They just don't want to suck YOUR cock. I'll admit to pulling this with guys I don't find all that attractive. Sometimes you're just horny and if the guy is into "no recip" head, you just say "I don't suck" and you get an awesome blowjob while you fantasize about some new Instaho or Zac Efron who whatever gets you off. Or just watch porn.

The other 10% are head cases who think that somehow only being on the receiving end makes them not-gay. Which is the case is a lot of cultures where it is considered somehow okay for straight guys to get head from or fuck another guy.

by Anonymousreply 129November 13, 2017 2:55 PM

I lot Of dudes just wanna he serviced. And many find this a turnon

by Anonymousreply 130November 13, 2017 4:15 PM

I won't put my mouth near dirty, ragged, smelly dicks with rags of flesh on it.

There are wondrous rich full dicks which are like alabaster rods. I will put my lips around them.

But I don't let them explode in my mouth

by Anonymousreply 131November 13, 2017 5:04 PM

[quote] I lot Of dudes just wanna he serviced. And many find this a turnon

See that's a classic bottom error.

These guys look at you and make the call that you're not hot enough for them to actually have sex with, but they are horny, and since you're okay with just being a service bottom, everyone wins.

But if those guys are with a guy they really like and find attractive, they will gladly kiss him and suck his dick. So don't deceive yourself into thinking they only like to get serviced. They only want to get serviced [italic] by guys who look like you. [/italic]

by Anonymousreply 132November 13, 2017 5:12 PM

Good for them

by Anonymousreply 133November 30, 2017 11:47 AM

[quote] Several years before I would go down on a guy again.

The nastiest cock I ever sucked was a cut guy who was a flight attendant. Looked perfectly presentable but his cock and balls smelled rancid. I thought I was going to vomit so i stopped sucking and just jerked him off. Couldn't wait to get out of there and back to my hotel and take a shower to get his smell off me.

But, unlike you, I went out and picked up another guy that same night. I had to remind myself of the joys of cocksucking and get that horrible experience out of my mind. Luckily I was in my 20s and picking up willing men was easy. These days not so much

by Anonymousreply 134November 30, 2017 1:34 PM

R134, don’t advocate slutiness or whoredom, dude.

by Anonymousreply 135November 30, 2017 2:26 PM

I don't but will if you ask. And you'll get the best blow of your life

by Anonymousreply 136November 30, 2017 3:01 PM

I'm homosexual and bottom and I don't really fantasise about sucking penis. Sucking cock doesn't appeal to me. The only descripto for homosexuality is attraction to the same sex; not everybody is into the same sexual stuff.

by Anonymousreply 137November 30, 2017 3:11 PM

Having a big cock in my mouth is one of the great joys in life. I love it. But it has to be thick. I've had some dicks that weren't thick, and they aren't satisfying at all. At the same time, I've had some five or six inchers, but they were thick, and it was lovely. But seven or eight or nine thick inches - that's bliss time

by Anonymousreply 138November 30, 2017 3:34 PM

To each his own. But for me a cock needs to be pretty, and clean. In other words, desiresble. I have no time or inclination for a smelly, nasty dick. It's called HYGIENE people! (i.e. straight guys)

by Anonymousreply 139November 30, 2017 3:53 PM

VEINS! What is it about a thick, hard dick with the veins protruding? Mmmm Mmmm GOOD!

by Anonymousreply 140November 30, 2017 3:55 PM

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock have nothing to offer.

by Anonymousreply 141November 30, 2017 3:58 PM

Well if they aren't into it, they aren't into it. Why ask why? It's sex.

Having said that, is this really a thing?

I've had sex with a lot of men. I have never been in bed with a man, gay or bi, who wasn't in to sucking my cock. Maybe it's just that I'm a good looking man with an extraordinarily large penis. But I still doubt that there are that many men who want to sleep with a man (no matter how attractive or attractively endowed that man is) and are opposed to going downtown.

by Anonymousreply 142November 30, 2017 4:23 PM

[quote]Well if they aren't into it, they aren't into it. Why ask why? It's sex.

No, actually it's the [italic]absence [/italic] of sex. Wherein lies the problem.

by Anonymousreply 143November 30, 2017 4:57 PM

It's all that and more!

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by Anonymousreply 144November 30, 2017 5:07 PM

Yeah I hate the ignorant presumption being a gay or bi male means you like or suck dick. It’s just erroneous and much more complex than that archaic sweeping generalization.

by Anonymousreply 145November 30, 2017 5:21 PM

The only posters I put on ignore are those of the "bro" class. Not surprisingly, ignore-dar reveals most of them to be cock haters.

I really wish they'd go to DataBro.

by Anonymousreply 146November 30, 2017 5:25 PM

These men have some kind of issue and should see a shrink.

Instant break up or kick out of bed. Waste of time.

I heard that a lot of Muslim guys are like this.

by Anonymousreply 147November 30, 2017 5:29 PM

hear*

by Anonymousreply 148November 30, 2017 5:29 PM

It's not weird it's their preference.

I have a friend that's a gay man and he told me how he does not like to suck cock at all and he only does it to a partner/husband and only does it before getting anal sex as that's what he likes as a total bottom.

I am more into oral sex and like to give it, or 69. But I am very picky who I give it to as I don't have the best dental health like my gums will sometimes bleed when I brush or floss them, and I've heard about people getting infected with HIV this way so I am just picky who I give oral sex to.

by Anonymousreply 149November 30, 2017 5:30 PM

You don't want to suck cock for a while after brushing or flossing, R149, no matter how into it, or your partner, you happen to be.

by Anonymousreply 150November 30, 2017 5:32 PM

R147 Some guys don't like anal. Some don't like oral.

I might add that many bottoms I met don't like to get sucked. I'm happy not sucking so they are my match.

by Anonymousreply 151November 30, 2017 7:34 PM

Oral sex spreads oral cancer

by Anonymousreply 152November 30, 2017 7:35 PM

It's a preference.

Me? I'm vers. I love to suck cock and swallow. A little thicker is nice. A vertical cock, and holding the back of my head to control pace/depth, are major turn ons.

The sensation of being sucked is stimulating enough to keep me hard and throbby, but usually not enough to make me cum without a hand assist. If I do cum from just being sucked, I'll probably be deep in my partner's throat and will cum a lot.

by Anonymousreply 153November 30, 2017 8:15 PM

Blowjobs are what it's all about. From my head down to my toes. And yours, too.

by Anonymousreply 154November 30, 2017 8:38 PM

If I suck I prefer uncut. Silky smooth and soft cockhead. Not rough and dry cut cock.

by Anonymousreply 155November 30, 2017 8:44 PM

So many judgmental bitches on here.

If someone doesn't like to suck, or doesn't like to get fucked, or {FILL IN THE BLANK}..... and you DO, don't sleep with them! No one should be judging other people's sexual preferences, least of all gay men.

by Anonymousreply 156November 30, 2017 8:48 PM

What other men are going to judge the sexual performance of other men, R156, if not gay men?

by Anonymousreply 157November 30, 2017 8:53 PM

You would think gay men would appreciate people not judging one;s sexual preferences, since most of the world judges theirs.

by Anonymousreply 158November 30, 2017 8:58 PM

If I bring you home and you don't want to suck my dick, I am going to wish I had not brought you home. For some reason, these things didn't happen in the '70s and '80s, at least not to me.

by Anonymousreply 159November 30, 2017 9:00 PM

R159, we’ve evolved

by Anonymousreply 160November 30, 2017 11:39 PM

There are lesbian and apparently some bisexual women who don't eat pussy, so why wouldn't there be bisexual and gay men who don't or won't suck cock?

by Anonymousreply 161December 1, 2017 3:39 AM

TRue

by Anonymousreply 162December 1, 2017 3:40 AM

I don't mind a sexless marriage filled with love.

by Anonymousreply 163December 1, 2017 8:42 AM

Okay man

by Anonymousreply 164December 1, 2017 8:45 AM

[quote]Oral sex spreads oral cancer

HPV erasure!!!

by Anonymousreply 165December 1, 2017 8:48 AM

R144, do you know what brand of mascara he uses?

by Anonymousreply 166December 1, 2017 9:44 AM

[quote]why wouldn't there be bisexual and gay men who don't or won't suck cock?

Because it makes no sense.

by Anonymousreply 167December 1, 2017 10:32 AM

Not everyone does or likes the same things sexually R167.

by Anonymousreply 168December 2, 2017 5:39 PM

R167, your illogic makes no sense dude

by Anonymousreply 169December 2, 2017 6:30 PM

Wouldn't want to know you, R168.

by Anonymousreply 170December 2, 2017 6:36 PM

Gay guys who won't kiss are even weirder.

by Anonymousreply 171December 2, 2017 8:35 PM

R155. I'm with you. Same for jacking off; much prefer an uncut cock.

by Anonymousreply 172December 2, 2017 8:37 PM

Uh okay dude

by Anonymousreply 173December 3, 2017 12:46 PM

[quote] These guys look at you and make the call that you're not hot enough for them to actually have sex with, but they are horny, and since you're okay with just being a service bottom, everyone wins.

[quote] But if those guys are with a guy they really like and find attractive, they will gladly kiss him and suck his dick. So don't deceive yourself into thinking they only like to get serviced. They only want to get serviced by guys who look like you.

This.

R132 nails it and how do the rest of you not know this?

I know DL is mostly older femme bottoms, but still ... you've never figured out that all those guys telling you they don't kiss or suck cock just don't want to kiss you or suck you?

I'm reading all this "it's a preference" shit in disbelief.

by Anonymousreply 174December 3, 2017 2:44 PM

Hmmm

by Anonymousreply 175December 3, 2017 5:11 PM

R132 is correct.

by Anonymousreply 176December 4, 2017 8:08 PM

As far as I know, the mouth is not a sex organ so sucking cock doesn't stimulate you sexually.

I don't suck cock and sucking isn't part of my sex fantasies.

by Anonymousreply 177December 4, 2017 8:14 PM

So, r177, you don't enjoy kissing or doing anything else with your mouth? And for something to be sexually stimulating it nec. has to directly involve a reproductive organ? You have no other erogenous zones?

I don't judge you. But I wish you knew what it was like to experience pleasure from other parts of your body.

by Anonymousreply 178December 7, 2017 7:49 PM

Not everybody feels sexually aroused from sucking cock. That's how it is. Why can't you understand that? R178

by Anonymousreply 179December 8, 2017 1:30 AM

Exactly

by Anonymousreply 180December 8, 2017 1:54 AM

Sucking dick is my favorite activity, bar none. I estimate that I have sucked off over 1500 men in my lifetime. Fucking, OTOH, is not something I enjoy unless the emotional connection is deep. I top more than I bottom.

I could tell stories about nasty crotches that would make your toenails curl, but I prefer to remember the hundreds of beautiful men whose cocks I have worshiped and ecstatically swallowed.

by Anonymousreply 181December 8, 2017 2:20 AM

R174, you're so right. Tom,Chase always tops, but in California Kings, he lets Mike Branson fuck him.

by Anonymousreply 182December 8, 2017 2:54 AM

They should have their slingbacks confiscated.

by Anonymousreply 183December 8, 2017 7:11 AM

TOm Chase was very effeminate and stereotypically gay. Mike Brandon was very masculine and had no observable gay mannerisms or attributess. He was an Alpha, Chase is not.

by Anonymousreply 184December 8, 2017 7:14 AM

The continuous precummers can be a bit much. Swallowing lots of precum or cum in one sitting makes me nauseous sometime. Does this happen to anyone else?

by Anonymousreply 185December 8, 2017 7:59 AM

Branson

by Anonymousreply 186December 8, 2017 8:19 AM

R185, pre lube with Pepto Bismol.

by Anonymousreply 187December 8, 2017 8:50 AM

Oh wow

by Anonymousreply 188December 9, 2017 5:22 AM

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock consider themselves "bros." They are the only posters I block, and two or three of them in my "Ignored Poster" list are responsible for at least 60% of the posts in this thread.

by Anonymousreply 189December 9, 2017 12:26 PM

Fnice

by Anonymousreply 190December 26, 2017 9:34 PM

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock are better than Donald Trump.

by Anonymousreply 191December 26, 2017 11:05 PM

I applaud them for not fitting into an erroneous archaic stereotype

by Anonymousreply 192December 26, 2017 11:14 PM

Their loss.

by Anonymousreply 193December 26, 2017 11:14 PM

Cocksucking is my favorite sexual activity, but I still wonder why I and many other gay men prefer a sexual activity that does not result in an orgasm (for us). It's weird.

by Anonymousreply 194December 26, 2017 11:37 PM

You hear that? Sucking cock enforces an "erroneous archaic stereotype". Think about that the next time you get a hot piece in your mouth.

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by Anonymousreply 195December 26, 2017 11:43 PM

[quote]Sucking cock enforces an "erroneous archaic stereotype".

What an idiot. These people should go to No Cock Lounge. Or a concentration camp.

by Anonymousreply 196December 26, 2017 11:47 PM

Why would you care what others like?

by Anonymousreply 197December 27, 2017 12:15 AM

Says the guy who is paranoid about what is too gay/prissy/effeminate/queeny/unmanly/unmasculine.

I think I got them all, please feel free to fill in any other adjectives I might have missed.

by Anonymousreply 198December 27, 2017 12:20 AM

R194, don't you jerk off when you're sucking?

by Anonymousreply 199December 27, 2017 3:57 AM

r194 It's nice to get a guy off, to be responsible for it. It's a mental thing for me. It's why I also like to give backrubs. That and you get to appreciate a hot guy's body.

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by Anonymousreply 200December 27, 2017 4:04 AM

YOu see lots of ads from guys who want guys who do not reciprocate

by Anonymousreply 201December 27, 2017 4:08 AM

So insecure some of you.

Some of us are not turned on by the idea of sucking cock. Deal with it.

by Anonymousreply 202December 27, 2017 5:15 AM

Exactly

by Anonymousreply 203December 27, 2017 9:12 AM

Diversity of tastes is a great thing.

by Anonymousreply 204December 27, 2017 3:13 PM

Then stop calling yourself "gay," r202. Or are you "queer"? Or "bi" (even better)?

by Anonymousreply 205December 27, 2017 3:15 PM

You get to decide who is gay R205?

You’re hilarious. Please go on embarrassing yourself.

by Anonymousreply 206December 27, 2017 3:19 PM

If you are gay, you suck cock.

by Anonymousreply 207December 27, 2017 3:22 PM

Homosexuality is attraction to the same sex, but it doesn't dictate what forms of sexual interaction one has to like mandatorily R205

The mouth is not a sex organ so while you may feel sexually gratified by having your cock stimulated the mouth doesn't function like sex organs do.

by Anonymousreply 208December 27, 2017 4:00 PM

FELLATING a Man is not a part of the definition of being gay, or bisexual. It’s defined by attraction to the same sex. The attraction can be to different attributes of maleness, from physique to booty to faces to masculine personality. It can be expressed in different ways, from crushes to falling in Love to oral sex to anal sex to frontage to kissing. Throughout human history, many or most men who had sex with men did so in rigid roles wherein they were either strictly passive or strictly active for life. Even today, in most of the world, a man who has sex with men likely does so as a strict active or passive. Versality is not the historic or global norm in male homosexuality.

by Anonymousreply 209December 27, 2017 4:32 PM

If a guy tells you he's not into sucking it probably means you smell. Learn to clean yourself properly.

by Anonymousreply 210December 27, 2017 5:00 PM

Uh no. Many ads specify a guy is a total top of total bottom or seeking one or the Either.

by Anonymousreply 211December 27, 2017 5:02 PM

The other

by Anonymousreply 212December 27, 2017 5:02 PM

I enjoy being sucked, but not sucking. Topping is okay, but I hate bottoming. Eating ass? Gross. The sexual Stuff generally doesn't thrill me. I like kissing, touching, sensuality, romance.

by Anonymousreply 213December 27, 2017 7:33 PM

ME too! And muscle adoration

by Anonymousreply 214December 27, 2017 8:20 PM

[quote]The mouth is not a sex organ so while you may feel sexually gratified by having your cock stimulated the mouth doesn't function like sex organs do.

So which sex organ do you use when presented with a cock?

by Anonymousreply 215December 27, 2017 10:34 PM

I don’t touch it. They touch mine

by Anonymousreply 216December 27, 2017 10:41 PM

I don’t

by Anonymousreply 217January 27, 2018 2:19 PM

[quote]FELLATING a Man is not a part of the definition of being gay

The fuck it isn't.

by Anonymousreply 218January 27, 2018 2:26 PM

I usually don't suck. But if asked I do. I'm pretty damn good I'm told. It's just that I'm so in rimming and fucking ass, I have to be reminded to suck. But to tell the truth, many bottoms don't want to be sucked, in my experience.

by Anonymousreply 219January 27, 2018 3:02 PM

[quote]many bottoms don't want to be sucked

retards

by Anonymousreply 220January 27, 2018 3:05 PM

Smegmaphobia?

by Anonymousreply 221January 27, 2018 3:30 PM

Not if there's no smegma, dumbass.

by Anonymousreply 222January 27, 2018 3:34 PM

I’m a bottom and I haven’t been with many guys but only one didn’t go down on me before we had sex.

I guess he was bi....

by Anonymousreply 223January 27, 2018 3:41 PM

To be gay and not suck dick is to not get the full, fine experience of being gay. I don't feel it's correct to call those people gay, and I do not want them within a mile of my bed.

by Anonymousreply 224January 27, 2018 3:50 PM

Nonsense R224, someone can be gay/homosexual and just not into sucking cock. Not everyone is into the same things sexually.

I know gay men who are bottoms who really do not like to suck cock but they only do before getting fucked or for a partner who wants it done.

by Anonymousreply 225January 27, 2018 6:46 PM

R225 retards

by Anonymousreply 226January 27, 2018 6:48 PM

There should be a separate name for them other than gay. Like "gay minus" or "ungay."

by Anonymousreply 227January 27, 2018 6:52 PM

I only became interested in sucking cock after decades of MM relationships and hookups. Part of it was my lack of interest, and part of it was my not being very good at it. Making up for lost time in the interest and skill departments now, though.

by Anonymousreply 228January 27, 2018 7:00 PM

Sexual orientation doesn't define the sex acts that you will like.

How about gay men who don't like to bottom and only like topping? They are homosexual; it is simply that they enjoy giving pleasure by taking the active role.

by Anonymousreply 229January 27, 2018 8:06 PM

[quote] There should be a separate name for them other than gay. Like "gay minus" or "ungay."

Gay adjacent.

by Anonymousreply 230January 28, 2018 8:01 AM

It does not mean someone's not gay, or not bisexual or that they are bisexual if they do not like to suck cock.

I have a friend that's a queen, and a total bottom and loves being fucked to the point where he only will suck when he knows he will get fucked and will suck off a partner even though he really does not like doing this, since he would rather just get fucked.

by Anonymousreply 231January 30, 2018 6:54 PM

I love it that younger gay and bi dudes are shattering old overbroad stereotypes. There have always been guys who didn’t fellate, but now gay men are educating the public of their existence

by Anonymousreply 232January 31, 2018 12:03 PM

Boom

by Anonymousreply 233January 31, 2018 8:28 PM

What makes you homosexulis your attraction to the same sex; not sex acts. Different people enjoy different sexual acts.

This is like when some equate effeminacy with homosexuality. "True gays" are effeminate.

by Anonymousreply 234February 9, 2018 12:53 AM

Yeah

by Anonymousreply 235March 2, 2018 4:42 PM

I’m not into dick. I like ass.

by Anonymousreply 236March 7, 2018 3:08 AM

[quote]I’m not into dick. I like ass.

Ass is where it's at!

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by Anonymousreply 237March 7, 2018 4:00 AM

Yepp

by Anonymousreply 238March 7, 2018 11:24 AM

If you don’t suck dick you’re missing 60% of the fun.

by Anonymousreply 239March 7, 2018 11:27 AM

R236 do you love to eat ass?

by Anonymousreply 240March 9, 2018 8:54 PM

Never encountered one in my life!

by Anonymousreply 241March 9, 2018 9:04 PM

[quote]Never encountered one in my life!

I've only met one out of hundreds of guys. I otherwise never heard of it until the internet.

by Anonymousreply 242March 9, 2018 9:14 PM

R242, I know Many, although they tend not to identify as “gay” despite messing w dudes

by Anonymousreply 243March 9, 2018 10:43 PM

Why dotops like getting their dick sucked? Doesit feel better than penetrating the butthole?

by Anonymousreply 244March 17, 2018 2:18 AM

I’ve never sucked penis (why do white gays say “Cock”?). Trust me, there are a lot of passive men out there who find this a huge Turnon. Total tops are the most desired guys on social media and dating apps.

by Anonymousreply 245March 17, 2018 1:55 PM

[quote]Total tops are the most desired guys on social media and dating apps.

By those who desire them. Those of us who don't find them of no value whatsoever.

by Anonymousreply 246March 17, 2018 2:00 PM

Fortunately, I've never met one.

by Anonymousreply 247March 17, 2018 2:14 PM

I don't consider them gay, and don't want anything to do with them.

by Anonymousreply 248March 17, 2018 2:15 PM

Let them eat vagina.

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by Anonymousreply 249March 17, 2018 2:17 PM

R246, but you’re not relevant to total tops or total Alphas.

by Anonymousreply 250March 17, 2018 2:35 PM

r250 And I would therefore not make claims about my having near-universal desirability, unlike the fatuous r245.

by Anonymousreply 251March 17, 2018 2:38 PM

May the cockless ungays live long lifetimes of licking Lidia's labia.

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by Anonymousreply 252March 17, 2018 5:00 PM

If you say "total top" then you're obviously gay based on your mannerisms and lingo.

Tops suck dick. Sucking dick is the equivalent of eating a chick out. Are straight men that don't do that bottoms?

by Anonymousreply 253March 17, 2018 5:07 PM

Gay men who won't suck cock = muslims.

by Anonymousreply 254March 17, 2018 5:08 PM

Thank god I've never encountered a bottom who won't suck cock. That would be pointless.

by Anonymousreply 255March 17, 2018 5:09 PM

Alpha Tops only penetrate. Never penetrated in any way

by Anonymousreply 256March 17, 2018 5:15 PM

They also never use the word "alpha" and don't care how people see them.

by Anonymousreply 257March 17, 2018 5:18 PM

Never met even a so-called top who didn't suck dick.

by Anonymousreply 258March 17, 2018 6:21 PM

Lots of tops don't suck dick. And lots of bottom desire them. Some of y'all are very sheltered

by Anonymousreply 259March 17, 2018 6:47 PM

And we could not be happier about our "sheltered" status, r259, you fucking ninny, "y'all."

by Anonymousreply 260March 17, 2018 7:47 PM

R244, as a man that is bisexual and a top, yes, but I am personally way more into oral sex than anal sex, and I always use condoms even for vaginal sex. I am not cut so maybe that's why I prefer oral sex? I like vaginal sex but with women prefer to give them oral sex or 69, and with men I like to get oral sex, and if they are a partner/boyfriend I will give it or 69.

by Anonymousreply 261March 17, 2018 8:08 PM

[quote]And we could not be happier about our "sheltered" status, [R259], you fucking ninny, "y'all."

How limited

by Anonymousreply 262March 17, 2018 8:59 PM

HOW could you never encounter bi/gay guys who don’t suck dick? Do you only hang in gay ghettoes or with gold star precessional gay guys? Do you hang with or encounter urban men, down low guys, bisexual, strictly dominant gays, or Arab/Latin men? If not, you are only encountering a slice of the overall number of men who are into men.

by Anonymousreply 263March 17, 2018 9:09 PM

Total absolute Tops are so popular on dating apps and Craigslist because there are so many total bottoms pulsating for that fantasy Alpha male to ravage them

by Anonymousreply 264March 17, 2018 9:11 PM

Do you all live in a fantasy world?

Alpha tops treating the men they have sex with like pets.

Ritualistic bathing before and after sex.

Men wanting to have their cock sucks but willing forgoing the pleasure.

Kind of a sad world you live in

by Anonymousreply 265March 17, 2018 11:34 PM

R265 it's a lot more common than you want to admit. I have met many bisexual and gay men who when we were talking about sex and what we like to do said how they live to suck cock and were/are into being on their knees at glory holes, and love to suck and swallow cum more than they get sucked.

by Anonymousreply 266March 18, 2018 12:19 AM

Ewww

by Anonymousreply 267March 18, 2018 12:56 AM

What do you care what other people do or dont' want to do?

by Anonymousreply 268March 18, 2018 1:05 AM

I'm a top who has never been fucked or sucked a dick. I suspect I get more than my share of action. This week alone, I got at least 5 phone numbers from guys begging to get fucked.

R253, to a top, sucking dick is not the equivalent of eating pussy. Eating ass is. Turn in your gay card.

by Anonymousreply 269March 18, 2018 8:16 AM

Why discuss anything, r268?

by Anonymousreply 270March 18, 2018 8:16 AM

Why is that your reaction R267?

by Anonymousreply 271March 18, 2018 8:32 AM

Oh wow

by Anonymousreply 272March 18, 2018 10:20 AM

R272 ???

by Anonymousreply 273March 18, 2018 11:13 PM

I will never perform fellatio on a guy. It's not my thing, it would go against my nature or desire. But I will let a dude suck me, as long as I am sure he doesn't have any STDs and is discreet. I'm glad there are plenty of guys that seek guys like me.

by Anonymousreply 274March 19, 2018 12:53 AM

Child please. All you dick suckers are getting left for the ass eaters. If you want to make a man your slave, you gotta eat ass. Watch this fat hoe take command of this big dicked top, who turns into a complete bitch once he gets his hole worked on

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by Anonymousreply 275March 19, 2018 1:24 AM

R274 not even if he was your partner/boyfriend, or husband, and wanted it?

I know guys who are total bottoms and only mainly into being fucked and being rimmed/rimming like R275 said, and they really do not like to suck cock, but they will suck off their boyfriend/partner/husband if he wants it, and will suck off a guy when it means they will get fucked up the ass.

by Anonymousreply 276March 19, 2018 1:51 AM

[quote][R253], to a top, sucking dick is not the equivalent of eating pussy. Eating ass is. Turn in your gay card.

A dick is made out of a clit. Turn in your education and intelligence card you fucking construction site drop out.

by Anonymousreply 277March 19, 2018 1:55 AM

[quote]A dick is made out of a clit.

In a T dick factory?

by Anonymousreply 278March 19, 2018 1:57 AM

R277, yeah but dudes don’t think of it that way. Not at all

by Anonymousreply 279March 19, 2018 2:02 AM

Neither, r279, do men who don't call themselves "dudes."

by Anonymousreply 280March 19, 2018 2:05 AM

Uh okay

by Anonymousreply 281March 19, 2018 2:48 AM

When watching porn, I skip though all the dick sucking scenes. Its rare to see a bitch suck dick with enough skill to actually turn me on.

by Anonymousreply 282March 19, 2018 4:23 AM

I can't stand the noise made when sucking dick. It gets on my nerves >.<

by Anonymousreply 283March 19, 2018 4:35 AM

Put them on a boat bound for nowhere. Let it sail into the sunset. They can comfort each other by not sucking each other's dicks as they fall off the horizon, never to be seen or heard from again.

by Anonymousreply 284March 19, 2018 9:22 AM

Yo, R284 is triggered

by Anonymousreply 285March 19, 2018 9:24 AM

recalcitrant fuckers

by Anonymousreply 286March 19, 2018 9:29 AM

R275 I am not sure why the guy being rimmed/sucked would have sex with someone morbidly obese like that?

by Anonymousreply 287March 19, 2018 9:32 AM

ME neither

by Anonymousreply 288March 19, 2018 11:48 AM

I don't like to suck cock, but it isn't because of the implied reasons in this thread. I don't consider myself a 'bro' or have internalized homophobia. I don't think sucking cock is degrading or makes you less of a man. I just simply don't like doing it.

That doesn't mean that I have never sucked cock or that I won't ever do it in the future. In longterm relationships, if that is something the person I love really, really wants, then yeah, I'll man up and do it. That doesn't mean I'll enjoy it! And that doesn't mean I want to do it. We all do things in the bedroom that we don't exactly love doing because we love the person we are doing it with.

In my 30 years on this earth, I have simply never had a desire to suck cock or get fucked. I guess I am what most people would call a "total top" but I'm not some super macho action hero. I'm not an alpha, though I like to play one in the bedroom sometimes. I'm just a guy, a gay guy, who has things he likes doing in the bedroom and things he doesn't like doing in the bedroom.

I don't think it is fair that people say I HAVE to like particular sex acts to be gay. I am gay because I love men. I'm into asses and I love the way a man's ass looks. It looks strikingly different than a woman's, you have to admit. A man's ass is gorgeous, a man's penis is ... well... there. It's definitely there! You can say that about it!

I like the facial structure of men, the relationships I have with men, and I really, really like fucking men. Fucking men is awesome. Men can take it so much harder and with so much more passion than women. Heck, I'll gladly rim a guy I find hot as long as he's clean, smooth and all that. I'm not against giving back. But, I just don't like sucking cock.

Claiming that tops who don't want to bottom or suck cock aren't gay because we don't embrace the full experience makes no sense. Would you claim that bottoms who never want to top can't be gay because they don't embrace the full experience? Of course not.

Different people like different things. In the bedroom, I tend to be the dominant one and my partners tend to be submissive. I don't expect everyone to like what I like, but I wish that people on DL would be a little more open-minded toward pure tops. We aren't homophobes, we aren't bros, we don't think we're better than you, and we don't think sucking cock/getting fucked is shameful. We're just gay guys, like everyone else here, trying to enjoy our time in the bedroom.

by Anonymousreply 289March 20, 2018 8:18 AM

R282 - are you posting form 1960? Here is a book, I know it's about women, but it might give you some insight into how to treat other people, especially sex partners.

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by Anonymousreply 290March 20, 2018 5:38 PM

WHy do people get offended about other peoples’ Preferences?

by Anonymousreply 291March 20, 2018 5:59 PM

I'm strictly into mutual oral. Never had a guy turn me down because of it. I've mastered the art of being able to cum totally in sync with my partner, so a hot, wet, intense 69 works out perfectly.

by Anonymousreply 292March 20, 2018 11:35 PM

Umm 😐okay Dude

by Anonymousreply 293March 29, 2018 6:43 AM

I can't even imagine. I've been told lot's of straight women on't suck cock or if they do hey act all bitchy about it.

by Anonymousreply 294March 29, 2018 6:46 AM

a thread that should not need to exist.

by Anonymousreply 295March 29, 2018 10:47 AM

Yeah

by Anonymousreply 296March 29, 2018 12:20 PM

It’s nothing new nor rare. In fact, in the past, a huge number of men who had sex NEVER did anything passive (oral or anal) with a man. They were strictly serviced. It’s like that in most of the world still today. Strict roles are not some relic from the past, nor are they some new hipster trend.

by Anonymousreply 297March 30, 2018 10:02 PM

Bye, r297.

by Anonymousreply 298March 30, 2018 10:06 PM

[quote]It’s nothing new nor rare.

No, but it's worthless. Gay men who refuse to pleasure their partners are not deserving of having sex.

by Anonymousreply 299March 30, 2018 10:12 PM

r299 for President of the Gays

by Anonymousreply 300March 30, 2018 10:13 PM

I just sucked an Indian cock. Thick uncut brown delicious. There's nothing like an uncut cock, the way it's soft yet hard, it's mobility when hard. It's enough to marvel at the way it has been designed. Those who never suck cock are missing out major.

by Anonymousreply 301March 30, 2018 10:22 PM

I feel sorry for anybody who doesn't love sucking cock. They're cheating themselves out of one of life's greatest gifts. I love swallowing a load too or having is shot all over my face.

by Anonymousreply 302March 30, 2018 10:41 PM

Why feel sorry for people who naturally don’t desire what you desire? Appreciate that people are very different

by Anonymousreply 303March 31, 2018 2:33 AM

[quote] When watching porn, I skip though all the dick sucking scenes. Its rare to see a bitch suck dick with enough skill to actually turn me on.

Hot only when thebottom is cute with sexy lips.

by Anonymousreply 304March 31, 2018 8:36 AM

It's understandable. What is in it for me? I'll only suck cock if I'm in love. Otherwise nope, I want to be pleasured, not servicing another person's pleasure.

by Anonymousreply 305March 31, 2018 8:41 AM

R302 It gets boring ,your mouth gets tired and you feel nothing from it, it is totally over rated and I find that Most cum tastes disgusting. I find guys who are obsessed with sucking cock and nothing else weird, I figure they are too lazy to douche to get fucked.

by Anonymousreply 306March 31, 2018 8:53 AM

R306 But those are two completely different things. When you fuck or get fucked, you are being stimulated directly.

by Anonymousreply 307March 31, 2018 8:57 AM

Oral sex can be direct stimulation, too.

by Anonymousreply 308March 31, 2018 9:53 AM

I guess, but not the kind that motivates me

by Anonymousreply 309March 31, 2018 11:09 AM

What a joy it would have been to bring r305 home from a bar, back in the "bring someone home from a bar" day.

by Anonymousreply 310March 31, 2018 11:35 AM

Grindr is a cesspool of people with STDs and sketchy lives

by Anonymousreply 311March 31, 2018 11:38 AM

r310. Probably. But it weeds out defectives like r305, whom I would not want in my home.

by Anonymousreply 312March 31, 2018 11:43 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 313May 30, 2018 11:09 AM

Fascinating

by Anonymousreply 314May 30, 2018 5:43 PM

I agree with r5 all the way (and r18 sounds like he might be a bossy bottom), a cock is not an ass and men's asses are where it's at. I have sucked cock a few times but get nothing out of it and have never swallowed cum. Similarly I definitely don't care to have my dick sucked. I have had a number of guys at the baths first sort of give me a hand job first then start sucking on my dick and my main thought is "how do I politely get out of this situation". Usually the guys have realized I'm not into it and stop and we part amicably but often not before I get a nice feel of his ass. I recall seeing in the sauna a very tall, good looking guy on his knees getting violently skull fucked--I couldn't help but wonder how he could be enjoying it. I later saw the tall guy in the TV room and told him he was gorgeous as I played with his ass all I wanted. He seemed a little diffident about that. All this said, I do love to suck a guy's nipples while playing with his ass. So there is no accounting for taste, no pun intended....

by Anonymousreply 315May 30, 2018 6:09 PM

I like threesomes where I can team up with a cocksucker who sucks a goodlooking guy's dick while I suck his nipples and play with/finger his ass. I have noticed the cocksucker/assman "divide" in the gay world and it's a situation where the "twain" does not meet very often.

by Anonymousreply 316May 30, 2018 6:16 PM

Bi guys too

by Anonymousreply 317May 30, 2018 6:49 PM

That's hot R301.

by Anonymousreply 318June 1, 2018 9:21 PM

As evidenced by many of these comments, there's a lot of lousy lays out there.

by Anonymousreply 319June 1, 2018 10:23 PM

r315 = a good reason for tattoos

by Anonymousreply 320June 1, 2018 10:34 PM

Hehe 😜

by Anonymousreply 321June 2, 2018 3:26 AM

How about bi dudes?

by Anonymousreply 322June 6, 2018 10:23 AM

R274 "I will let a dude suck..."

That's really big of you.

by Anonymousreply 323June 6, 2018 6:14 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 324May 2, 2020 11:32 AM

vicious face slaps

by Anonymousreply 325May 2, 2020 11:36 AM

Downlow

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by Anonymousreply 326November 13, 2020 8:33 PM

I think it’s awesome that some or many gay men don’t fit into the stereotype

by Anonymousreply 327February 6, 2021 11:55 AM

There are : TOTAL BOTTOMS, BOTTOMS, VERSITLE BOTTOMS, VERSITLES, VERSITLE TOPS, TOPS, TOTAL TOPS

Total tops don't suck and don't get fucked they only FUCK.

by Anonymousreply 328February 6, 2021 12:10 PM

I have an FB like this. Works for us.

by Anonymousreply 329February 6, 2021 12:15 PM

If a guy doesn't want to suck your dick it means your dick is too small or there's something wrong with it.

by Anonymousreply 330February 6, 2021 12:59 PM

Not really

by Anonymousreply 331February 6, 2021 2:21 PM

Sucking cock is for the ladies and I'm a lady.

by Anonymousreply 332February 6, 2021 2:50 PM

I enjoy sucking cock. The rhythmic action and load swallowing relieves my anxiety. I won’t clean off a cock that has been in anyone’s ass including mine.

by Anonymousreply 333February 6, 2021 2:52 PM

R12 Maybe they were taking baths to clean themselves. It's not like bathing and showering became passe after the 90s!

by Anonymousreply 334February 6, 2021 2:57 PM

Ummmm 🙀🙄

by Anonymousreply 335February 6, 2021 2:57 PM

I knew this was a 2015 bump post even before I opened it.

by Anonymousreply 336February 6, 2021 2:59 PM

I don't think its any weirder than most of the other stuff we all do...

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by Anonymousreply 337February 6, 2021 3:01 PM

F&F the 2015 Thread Bumper

by Anonymousreply 338February 6, 2021 3:04 PM

[quote] There are : TOTAL BOTTOMS, BOTTOMS, VERSITLE BOTTOMS, VERSITLES, VERSITLE TOPS, TOPS, TOTAL TOPS

So in other words there are total bottoms, delusional bottoms, delusional bottoms, delusional bottoms, delusional bottoms, delusional bottoms, and tops.

by Anonymousreply 339February 7, 2021 7:52 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 340May 9, 2022 12:49 PM

My favorite thing is getting sucked. I will only suck once in a BLUE MOON 🌚.

It has to be a VERY nice penis.

by Anonymousreply 341May 9, 2022 12:56 PM

(quote)A gay man who doesn't like dick is like a straight man who doesn't like breasts: EXTREMELY ODD, TO THE POINT OF DYSFUNCTION. I mean, really, can you imagine a straight guy who was like "I love women and pussy, but keep your gross tits away from me, ew." That would be seen as strange, right? Someone with some sort of "issues," correct?

Absolutely agree with you. Something is very wrong with these people. You comment made me remember that I read that Clooney said in an old interview: I am not a boob man.

by Anonymousreply 342May 9, 2022 12:57 PM

(quote)Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock should be sentenced to having sex with women only.

Exactly. Make them lick pussy.

by Anonymousreply 343May 9, 2022 1:10 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 344September 12, 2022 2:59 PM

too buys with

earrings

caftans!

by Anonymousreply 345September 12, 2022 3:00 PM

What is up?

They just don't want a dick in their mouth. Next?

by Anonymousreply 346September 12, 2022 3:06 PM

There is someone for everyone

by Anonymousreply 347September 28, 2022 9:12 PM

I don't understand gay men who just suck a cock with no reciprocation. What's the appeal?

by Anonymousreply 348September 28, 2022 10:38 PM

Frottage only for me. But I’m very handsome, with a good body. And a huge dick. No takers?

by Anonymousreply 349September 28, 2022 10:42 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 350December 21, 2022 5:21 PM

It was the first gay sexual act that I ever did. I was 12.

by Anonymousreply 351December 23, 2022 5:04 PM

I love dick and sucking, any size dick, but I don't really like getting sucked myself.

by Anonymousreply 352December 23, 2022 5:39 PM

R348 : They have low self esteem

by Anonymousreply 353December 23, 2022 8:40 PM

Liking penis is not necessary to be gay. Duh

by Anonymousreply 354May 23, 2023 11:30 AM
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