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When was the first time you saw two men kiss?

I walked into a porn store when I was in high school. I went in a booth, stuck in a quarter, and a video started playing with two rugged, mustached men deep kissing.

I got hard and came in seconds. I had never seen anything as erotic as that.

by Anonymousreply 17August 16, 2020 3:10 PM

In the movie "Maurice"

by Anonymousreply 1August 22, 2015 6:17 PM

I was 15 and at the airport. A guy was picking up his bf. The Bf got in the car a they kisses.

I was shocked and then titillated

by Anonymousreply 2August 23, 2015 11:59 AM

The film Beautiful Thing.

by Anonymousreply 3August 23, 2015 12:38 PM

When Don Rickles kissed Bob Newhart on the mouth as a "joke". Aside from porn, the second time was in 1985 on a tv show called Hometown. Two straight guys greeted each other with a kiss on the lips. I guess they wanted some controversy to bring in the viewers, but it went ignored.

by Anonymousreply 4August 23, 2015 12:55 PM

The first time I kissed a guy.

by Anonymousreply 5August 23, 2015 3:43 PM

Same as R5. The progression within an hour was kiss, get naked, stroke dicks, suck dick, bottom, top. I was 14 and so was my bf. We used the Vaseline in his mom's medicine cabinet. It was super hot, but real dirty. The mix of shit, Vaseline and cum took forever to wash off in the shower. Didn't stop us for doing it every day that summer.

by Anonymousreply 6August 23, 2015 4:14 PM

I am so jealous of guys who had sex in high school. I was a late bloomer and very sheltered and naive in high school.

by Anonymousreply 7August 23, 2015 4:25 PM

Either the film Midnight Express or Making Love when they would play on cable in the early 80s

by Anonymousreply 8August 23, 2015 4:30 PM

1982's Deathtrap with Michael Caine, Christopher Reeve, and Dyan Cannon. Saw it as a teenager in an LA suburb theater with my mother and grandmother. Entire theater was overcome with a wave of revulsion at the kiss, including, I have to admit, myself. Wasn't cognitive of being gay at the time, but, that was also a really lousy kiss...

by Anonymousreply 9August 23, 2015 5:22 PM

In the 70’s, my parents (Dorothy & Harold) came to visit me in NYC. I lived in the East Village and had a 9 to 5 job, so during the day, they would do touristy stuff like going to the Empire State Building, or taking the Circle Line around Manhattan.

We met up one evening for dinner, and I asked them what they had done during the day. My mother said “Oh, we walked all through Greenwich Village. It was fun. We had lunch at a nice restaurant (The Pink Teacup), we went to Washington Square Park, and saw lots of interesting people. We even saw two men kissing.”

I paused for a second, a bit surprised by the comment. “Oh really. What did you do?”

“What else could I do?” Dorothy responded. “I screamed, HAROLD, GET THE CAMERA!”

by Anonymousreply 10August 23, 2015 9:53 PM

The two leather guys that share a kiss in After Hours by Scorsese, i think was the first time i saw two men kissing. i must have been 10 or 12 yo. Great movie, btw

by Anonymousreply 11August 23, 2015 10:23 PM

Very nice r10!

by Anonymousreply 12August 23, 2015 10:45 PM

Can't remember for sure. But I think the first time I was aware of one man kissing another was the poster for a mafia movie called "The Brotherhood." The ad campaign consisted of a large photograph of Kirk Douglas holding Alex Cord's face with both hands and kissing him on the mouth.

A strange message, to be sure, since, in Mafia language, when a Don kisses another man on the mouth like this, it means he's going to kill him. So, inherent in the image of the two men kissing is the understanding that one of them is soon going to be killing the other. Which makes the image of them kissing deadly.

Love leads only to death, this poster seems to be saying. (Oh, sure, in the movie, they're brothers, but who could tell that from just looking at the poster? The poster is of two hot men kissing on the mouth. And, as I recall, Cord, is holding a shotgun while they're doing it. More symbolism!)

So, go ahead, it seemed to tell me, kiss a man. But you'll get killed for doing it.

It's small wonder I had conflicted feelings about loving men. For a long time, I was unable to kiss a man, and I have met many men who will gobble down my cock, who will want me to fuck them hard, but who turn their heads away when I try to kiss them. (Like one of the old adages I've heard about the Marines: "You can fuck a Marine, but you can't fuck with a Marine.")

Love to kiss a man now, one of life's greater pleasures.

Thank God I got over that phobia.

Interestingly, Al Pacino kissed John Casale, both also playing brothers, some years later, in "Godfather II," but they weren't nearly as hot as Douglas and Cord. And, their kiss certainly wasn't used as the ad campaign for the movie, not by a long shot...

by Anonymousreply 13September 2, 2015 2:52 AM

When I was captured in that photo kissing the pilot.

by Anonymousreply 14September 2, 2015 4:28 AM

I LOVE After Hours, r11. Such an underrated Scorsese.

by Anonymousreply 15September 2, 2015 4:58 AM

I don't remember. If it was in front of other people, I would have probably been embarrassed and looked away even though I really wanted to watch :(

by Anonymousreply 16August 16, 2020 3:03 PM

R16, what is your deal?

by Anonymousreply 17August 16, 2020 3:10 PM
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