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Bodybuilders flexing in front of the mirror at the gym

Don't they realize how gay they look?

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by Anonymousreply 37January 3, 2021 4:19 AM

They don't "look gay" to me. They look like young bodybuilders. Straight, gay, bi, there isn't much visual difference these days, nor is there much difference in behaviour.

Do you mean they look gay because preening is "gay"? It's not.

by Anonymousreply 1August 5, 2015 1:13 AM

They're not attractive and looking too desperate for people's attention makes their body even less interesting to look at.

I think I prefer pro bodybuilders, they know better how to exploit the erotic potential of the muscular body.

by Anonymousreply 2August 5, 2015 1:24 AM

Left hand side, dark hair, has a nice face!

by Anonymousreply 3August 5, 2015 1:29 AM

His Instagram is just one big essay on Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Oh, and he's a god botherer, as well. Someone needs to check the Bible on what it says about vanity.

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by Anonymousreply 4August 5, 2015 1:34 AM

Psychology defines narcissism as something more perverse and heavily related to sociopahty and psychopathy. We could instead call this vanity, shallowness and compensation.

by Anonymousreply 5August 5, 2015 1:41 AM

The blond so desperately wants to be handsome on his instagram pics. Lots of photoshop and careful posing. He's perfectly average in the face. But OK, enfin OP, yes he does look a bit gay. Nice bulge! Hope that's not faked, at least.

by Anonymousreply 6August 5, 2015 1:56 AM

I laughed at the pic mentioning god and people commenting on that god.

I mean, in biblical terms, what this guy does is a sin. The body should always be covered with clothes modestly. Abrahamic religions vilify the naked body for its potential to cause sexual arousal. That's exactly what the muscular body naturally causes on other people (sexual arousal). Also, promoting a body type as ideal only for the sake of aesthetics is also seen as sinful.

Selective christianity.

by Anonymousreply 7August 5, 2015 2:02 AM

girleenas

by Anonymousreply 8August 5, 2015 2:07 AM

Oh no, this doesn't look gay at all...

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by Anonymousreply 9August 5, 2015 3:09 AM

pretty ladies

by Anonymousreply 10August 6, 2015 2:45 AM

Don't you realize how jealous you look?

by Anonymousreply 11August 6, 2015 2:50 AM

delicate flowers

by Anonymousreply 12August 6, 2015 2:55 AM

They don't "look gay" to me either. THey look like hot dudebros and jocks. They look masculine. And narcissistic. Not gay though.

by Anonymousreply 13August 6, 2015 2:59 AM

As long as they don't let it go to fat because of an injury, or turn to opiates, or skip leg day I approve of what they are doing.

For some reason, seeing obscenely built shoulders and pecs makes my day. Knowledge of their orientation is not required.

by Anonymousreply 14August 6, 2015 3:08 AM

Hmmm...

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by Anonymousreply 15August 6, 2015 3:10 AM

R13, well, in the eye of the beholder I suppose. to me they look prissy and preening, girlish.

by Anonymousreply 16August 6, 2015 3:15 AM

To us it might look gay, but realize that each of those bodybuilders are only looking at themselves in the mirror - barely aware, most likely, of their proximity to another male body.

by Anonymousreply 17August 6, 2015 3:41 AM

I am not jealous. What I don't like about this is that it feels certain pressure to look like that. In a way, today more than ever, men are experiencing the imposition of certain beauty standards just like women have been experiencing it to date.

Most of these men suffere from different levels of low self-esteem so they rebuild a new self-esteem by building their bodies. They expose their bodies for reaffirmation and validation of their beings.

by Anonymousreply 18August 6, 2015 3:43 AM

R17, to me it seems girly, like playing kissy face in the mirror, girls aren't trying to make out with each other, they are just prissy little bitches, just like these guys.

by Anonymousreply 19August 6, 2015 3:47 AM

sweet

by Anonymousreply 20April 15, 2016 7:35 PM

Hawt

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by Anonymousreply 21August 31, 2016 1:26 AM

Does the confidence go away when they lose muscle?

by Anonymousreply 22September 9, 2016 4:05 AM

Uh yeah, of course

by Anonymousreply 23September 9, 2016 4:09 AM

I see. Bodybuilding is a double-edged sword.

by Anonymousreply 24September 9, 2016 8:12 PM

How so

by Anonymousreply 25September 9, 2016 8:46 PM

Because muscles are highly regarded as sexually appealing they make you more attractive. Muscles also give an appearance of strength that othe rmen may feel compelled to admire/respect. This may highly boost your self-esteem: everybody wants to be anf eel attractive as well as get some respect from others, in this case, due to a threatening appearance.

On the other hand, many of these men may be dependent on their new physical appearance to validate themselves and, when they lose all that mass their self-esteem may decrease again because all the attention they got for being perceived as more attractive is not there anymore and because they no longer give the strong appearance that makes others respect you.

This may be the reason why bodybuilding is addictive for most of these men, it boosts their sef-esteem greatly and this may explain why they love posting all sorts of kinky pics and video on instagram and youtube. Imagine you being a man who has always considered youtself as unattractive, then you start working out, you developn your muscles and suddenly people start to notice your gaiins, some start flirting eith you more than ever before. Getting that affirmation and approval from others is always ego boosting but it may create dependence that makes you validate yourself through the amount of muscle mass you achieve.

by Anonymousreply 26September 10, 2016 2:05 AM

Even when in the lift.

He has those varicose veins though.

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by Anonymousreply 27September 16, 2016 12:46 AM

Aren't they all latent faygulahs?

by Anonymousreply 28September 16, 2016 1:10 AM

I was molested in front of a mirror.

by Anonymousreply 29September 16, 2016 1:15 AM

The shaved armpits are the gayest thing I've ever seen.

by Anonymousreply 30September 16, 2016 1:25 AM

R27 disgusts me.

by Anonymousreply 31September 16, 2016 1:25 AM

sweet

by Anonymousreply 32September 17, 2016 1:22 PM

All of bodybuilding is extremely gay. It's all focused on appearance, physique, voyeurism and chasing an ideal. It's not stats and performance-obsessed like more jock-ish athletics. It's men judging other men's bodies, but also studying their techniques, rigidly enforcing aesthetics and obsessing over every detail, all in skimpy thongs and covered in oil. While posing. I know, MARY!

I'm not saying all bodybuilders are gay, but...it's a very gay sport. There is an obvious gay influence to it.

by Anonymousreply 33September 17, 2016 1:33 PM

I love all of the "You're just jealous" posts. I imagine they're posted by effeminate, straight-worshipping, old queens who only watch straight porn and dream of one day being swept off their feet by a G4P like at the end of a John Hughes' film.

by Anonymousreply 34September 17, 2016 2:00 PM

I think you have to be careful in the way you express the idea of bodybuilding being gay as people usually say because posts like that usually fall into the fallacy of equating homosexuality or being gay with narcissism or extreme preoccupation with looks. R33

Yes, the roots of bodybuilding are homosexual given that the exaltation of a muscular body as the ideal beauty for men was conceived in the context of same-sex attraction/desire, but preoccupation with looks is not a homosexual trait; it's a human one.

It is not because it is about physical appearance and gay men are more pretentious; it is about a body type that naturally stimulates men attracted to men. In this sense, bodybuiling is certainly gay.

by Anonymousreply 35September 17, 2016 2:34 PM

I love it

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by Anonymousreply 36September 9, 2020 7:12 PM

King

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by Anonymousreply 37January 3, 2021 4:19 AM
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