Sex with strangers at rest stops.

The rest stop as gay cultural space. Sad and pathetic.

"In the winter, men trudge through snow to be with each other, in the summer, men leave the woods with ticks clinging to their legs."

Sounds so romantic...

This article is 3 years old, I should point out. Also, I think this kind of 'underground' sex will die out eventually.

I love, love, love sex on the sly with a stranger. Nothing hotter. If he's wearing a wedding ring... now that's the BEST.

I cringed about the guy going back to his car where his kids were waiting. Nice.

The whole piece had this weird intensity to it, trying to normalize or even romanticize getting off in a public toilet. Then at the end it says the author does porn, so it makes sense.

What's wrong with it?

Gross and sad. No wonder people are still getting infected. No self respect or morals.

He says a dude tried to come on to in. A restroom when he was 15. Way to perpetuate the stereotype of gay men as predatory pedophile freaks.

R8 and he "ran out of there"? Yeah right, he sucked the jizz out of that man's cock. Porn stars are liars!

[quote]The rest stop as gay cultural space. Sad and pathetic.

Oh now, it would take a very short memory and a good bit of selectivity to view gay cultural space as tuxedoed men at HRC fundraisers (the organization or the candidate); or the smartly composed NYT gay wedding photos of the well-heeled and well-scrubbed; or those dickless, sexless buffoons on Modern Family; on some post-gay gathering where race and ethnicity and age and class and sexual orientation have no bearing, like the photoshoot of a launch for some new Apple product.

You don't think you have to go too many chapters or even pages back in gay history before "sad and pathetic" notes start cropping up?

I don't think this is that much different from online hookups, just less judgmental in terms of the factors listed by r10.

The necessary furtiveness of yesteryear still exists for some men; for others, it holds an element of excitement. Conner Habib (see link) taps into both facets in this piece, which I rather enjoyed for its honesty.

I gotta say, though, that complaining about the cops is too much. Kids use the restrooms and shouldn't have grown men wagging their dicks around at the urinal. Vulnerable adolescents may be hot and horny, but they are still kids, and public restrooms shouldn't be the site of implicitly condoned seduction of them.

I guess I find the idea of a rest stop hookup kind of hot in a taboo way, but then, I find crawling around on a public bathroom floor too yucky, and I don't have a thing for outdoor sex.

NSFW link to pic of author Conner Habib getting fucked.

Don't you think it has a rough glamor to it?

I just LOVE the new DL format where there is NO MORE NSFW feature. Every picture loads automatically.

The scent of stale urine. The wafting perfume of fecal matter pervading the room. The billions and billions of germs crawling over every surface of the bathroom. Sounds really hot.

r10, I am so glad that was before my time, dude. Sounds gross and pathetic. No wonder so many suicides.

Marylin Monroe ate me out in a public restroom in 1958. Top that, bitches.

I don't see a problem

Texas bathrooms have NO STYLE! But, they're clean.

Many years ago in college, i did a roadtrip from Boston to Oklahoma. I made a pit stop at a rest stop in OH or MO, and did my business. While i was washing my hands, i noticed a guy looking at me and beating off. The restroom was not crowded but i wasn't really into him so i left to get myself a soda or something. When i got to my car I saw the man getting into driver's seat of his car and there they were - his wife and kids (i'm assuming). There was something really sad and tragic about that mental picture in my head. I don't cruise restrooms. Ever.

There IS something really sad and tragic about that.

It's one thing if it's just a single horny guy, but when it's a closet-case who's married ...?

PATHETIC.

My friend Tommy was 30 when he was shot in the head and murdered in a Tennessee rest stop. He was born & raised nearby. Perhaps this was the only place to meet guys in the area, but I have no idea. I don't know much about it, other than this. I still have his letters.

[quote] I cringed about the guy going back to his car where his kids were waiting. Nice.

Years ago I worked in the mens department of a large department store. One morning some guy came in and went to try on a pair of swimming trunks. He asked me to get him another color, and when I did, he opened the door to reveal his fully erect dick. I got down on my knees and took his load within minutes.

While he was getting dressed, I went back out onto the sales floor, and down the escalator into my department comes a woman with two small kids. I asked if she needed help and she said she was looking for her husband.

Out of the fitting room comes the the guy, greets his wife, hands me back the swim trunks, and says, I'll take the blue ones, as if nothing had happened.

I played it cool, as did he, but I had to shake my head, watching as the happy family walked away, and one of the kids reached up and took daddy's hand...the same hand that, minutes before, had been on the back of my head.

I judge him not you.

What an ass.

Has anyone seen Marcus? Golly, I've been waiting in the car TWO hours! Jiminy Crickets!

R22 It sounds great.

Who cares if they are married? They are victims of society, biphobia, homophobia, and are repressed as a result. Bisexuals should marry other bisexuals or understanding hetero women, but those are far and few between.

Where AM I?

Shame, blame, victimhood, wives and children.

MURDER!!

Good christ, it's only sex. Even our Victorian great-grandparents weren't this bad.

R27 I'm also surprised by all the puritanical Church ladies posting here.

So what? A man cheats on his wife. It happens. Big deal. Maybe has a double life but manages it all.

The Walt Whitman on I-95 in NJ has the added bonus of Cinnabon wafting through the HVAC. Old Walt would approve of rest stop "adhesiveness."

Well, judge all you want, but this used to be one of the ways men connected, and in isolated places that aren't gay-friendly, it still is one of the few outlets.

I did similar things at college, though not a hundred times. Straight people do similar things in millions of small towns and even call it "cruising" but because it's boy/girl and happens in the back seats of cars (after they drive around in a circle for hours) it's OK.

Some men are wired to chase this, just as some straight men are wired to do the strip-bar and motel-by-the-hour thing. I'll leave them to their humanity.

I *will* say that I am glad that the world no longer thinks this is what ALL gay men do. We are not a monolith. Taken as a group, we're as diverse, quirky and flawed as everyone else.

The New Jersey Turnpike is considering changing the Vince Lombardi Rest Stop to honor Jim McGreevey, since it was his favorite.

[quote] I'm also surprised by all the puritanical Church ladies posting here.

In the last few years, the prime DL demographic has somehow become the caftan wearing fifty-something queen, who lives in a modest studio or in her mother's basement, shops at Aldi's, "treats" herself to McDonald's once a week, and still has all her favorite 70s and 80s TV on VHS.

This is a person who never, ever, EVER got laid with any consistency -- if ever -- so their only possible reaction to someone having sex, especially doing it WITH THE LIGHTS ON, is a hissing, pearl-clutching condemnation worthy of Sister June, the Church Secretary and Usher Board Deaconess.

This phenomenon has existed since the beginning of time, and it will last forever. It satisfies a need.

Go ahead and form a committee to shut down your local tragic, disgusting location. They will find another one, probably by sunset.

I find it gross, DANGEROUS and absolutely disgusting but, hey, to each his own. You risk being murdered, AIDS, STD's, being stabbed, getting lice or god knows what. Some crazy man could just bite your dick right off, too. AND you risk it being a vice cop and getting arrested. Charged with solicitation or some trumped up charge. Public indecency. Even if it turned me on, I would never take that risk. Jeez, if you are that horny, just jack off at home. Then again, different strokes...

SHRIEEE EEEEEEEE EEEEEEEE EEEEEEEE EEEEEEE EEEEEEK!!!

R9 That would be Ohio. It got so bad here in the Buckeye state that all the roadside rest stops were remodeled, no privacy to suck. If you want public bathroom sex in ohionow you have to go to Beachwood Place Mall. THe bathrooms are very predatory, which is why I stay out of that mall.

urf.

Oh, piss off you uptight bitches. Just because you hook up in a bar or online and the guy is SUPER CUTE doesn't mean you can't catch something if you're not careful.

I'm a SINNER AND A SEX FREAK AND I LOVE IT.

There used to be a website that listed all the places for public sex in the U.S. by state, and the world by nation. It was a fascinating read about men's experiences in rest stops, adult book stores, parks, etc. It also provided some good tips on where to hook up. Is the website still around?

Also from the 1970's, a friend of mine worked one summer for the Ogunquit, Maine police force and he told me of a married man in his thirties with nine(9) kids being arrested one night for soliciting an undercover cop on a beach.

Along Rte. 3 in MA, from Burlington to Nashua, NH, there were several rest areas in the 1990's that were extremely popular for cruising. No matter when you pulled in to one, there would be guys there looking to play, many of them hot.

R39 There still is a site. Looking for Sex? Cruising for Sex? Something like that.

It gives the rundown of cruising places, and used to give little warnings if the cops were busting a particular place.

There was guy who used to collect urine from public urinals so that he could drink it. He believed that drinking urine (from young men) would keep him young and virile.

New Canaan rest stop on the Merritt parkway in CT was NOTORIOUS for hooking up.

Here is a short film called Caught highlighting the risks of rest area hookups. The kind of thing that reinforces the fear of r34.

It is set in the early 60s, but if you update the car models, it has a familiar look. I know at least 2 rest areas where there are always at least a couple cars scattered across the lot with single men sitting/chilling in them.

Which one of you bitches did this?

If it makes you feel better to believe that, R32, et al, go ahead and believe it.

Some of us have self respect. Some of us are reclaiming it. Some of us understand that how we treat each other and how other people treat one another actually matters a great deal. You lot are probably the first to scream about the wealthy paying their fair share of tax, yet you demonstrate no understanding that how we treat one another matters as much in what we don't pay for as what we do.

Why are the "sex positive" whores so rude? You'd think being friendly would come naturally to them.

I guess I don't much care. If man want to get off this way...go for it. For married men it sounds like it works.

Why are so many of you worried about what other men do with their wiggly bits?

...because we have empathy for the people in their lives they are lying to (and quite possibly endangering health wise)... single men, who cares? go for it.

but married?

Ugh.

[quote]Also from the 1970's, a friend of mine worked one summer for the Ogunquit, Maine police force and he told me of a married man in his thirties with nine(9) kids being arrested one night for soliciting an undercover cop on a beach.

Repressed Catholic.

[quote] Some of us have self respect. Some of us are reclaiming it. Some of us understand that how we treat each other and how other people treat one another actually matters a great deal.

So you think sending negative energy out to people in challenging situations is somehow a good thing?

I'm sorry, you have no standing or credibility as a moral authority. Pretzel logic is not applicable in that realm.

R50...you disguise judgment as empathy?

R49, but we have morals, dude.

R49, but we have morals, dude.

With so many apps available and gay sex less stigmatized, having sex in these rest stops will go away.

They reek of desperation and gay men, in big cities at least, are no longer so desperate.

I find it fascinating, r53, that your (I assume) misogyny prevents you from having an ounce of empathy for a clueless woman, married to one of these guys, being fundamentally cheated on, lied to, and possibly exposed to a communicable disease.

And yes, I am judging you now.

R52, you missed my point entirely. I was posting at posters like R32 who seem to think any kind of self restraint is prudishness. You want bad logic, start with R32.

It is not "empathy" for a lied-to wife to not have sex with her husband. Hell, the more positive gay role models he encounters, the more likely it is he will release her. Some of you cannot be trusted to live ethically because you never had the ability to think.

[quote]Hell, the more positive gay role models he encounters, the more likely it is he will release her.

It's hard to argue he'll find any of those stroking at a rest stop.

Indeed.

In the early 90's when Connie Chung had steady work, she did a segment on rest stop sex and cruising. She and her camera man were running through the woods w/microphone in hand yelling 'excuse me, sir, can you tell me why you are out here in the woods at a rest stop?' I don't know which news magazine show it was. She seems to have moved around a lot in her career.

Cruising public parks is fine, but rest stops? That's just nasty.

don't forget me at griffith park!

Did something similar to this, all throughout my twenties.

Never once used a condom. How I ever managed to avoid getting HIV, or Hep C, or any other STD, I will never know. But I did.

Never again. Never.

I'm glad you're okay, r65.

The real enemy is urinal dividers. I hate those little fuckers. Public pissing is for men to be with other men. Urinal dividers steal our soul.

Have you seen some of the nasties online?

Understall at the university was a good time! Good memories.

Except, R32, it's not the caftan-wearing elder gays that are being so judgmental here. Quite the opposite.

R39 - it's cruisingforsex.com. It's still there - but really out of date. I don't think anybody's contributed to it since 2009.

I heard that the original webmaster of that site has since died of AIDS.

R69 Was this you?

(NSFW)

I know of at least one male celeb who used to post at cruisingforsex.com

YASSSSSS HUNTY

Conner Habib and any of you who support/take part in his love of rest stop hookups are disgusting, pathetic and trashy. Talk about negative stereotypes.

Clearly those of you who engage in or love the fantasy of it don't have enough fulfillment in your lives and feel that "being dangerous" is the only way to get a thrill. How is a dirty, germ-filled environment appealing? You don't know if the stranger you're anonymously hooking up with is infected with any diseases or is some kind of killer etc. There's also the notion that some of these men are closeted homos with wives and kids. Just pathetic.

Habib's attempt to romanticize rest stop hookups shows that he is nothing more than a sick freak who is mentally disturbed. I guess we can't be surprised given that he's a porn actor.

I avoid public restrooms if at all possible. They're disgusting. I can't believe people who have sex in them. I don't even like touching the door knobs.

[quote]I don't even like touching the door knobs.

That was last century. Haven't you left home in the past 20 years?

They don't build public restrooms with doors. After you wash your hands you turn two or three corners and walk out to the parking lot.

Some people have the morals of sewer rats. Also, a lack of self esteem And healthy family upbringings can make people live on such a low level. Sad

Thanks, R66. Nice of you to say.

[quote]That was last century. Haven't you left home in the past 20 years?

[quote]They don't build public restrooms with doors. After you wash your hands you turn two or three corners and walk out to the parking lot.

I'm sorry I don't keep up with public restroom technology. But I can guarantee you there are plenty of public restrooms that still have doors.

[quote]I find it fascinating, [R53], that your (I assume) misogyny prevents you from having an ounce of empathy for a clueless woman, married to one of these guys, being fundamentally cheated on, lied to, and possibly exposed to a communicable disease.

What a lot of assumptions you are making.

How do you know they don't have an open relationship?

You ASSume the wife does not know, many do, in open relationships it is not cheating. In open relationships there is no lying.

You have decided the back story of these men...hmmm. I have not. Their lives are their own, their arrangements with their wife are theirs along to decide, not mine.

I still do not care what they do with their bits, not mine to judge or assume.

R75

MARY!

I have no problem judging them for both us then, r81.

[quote]I'm sorry I don't keep up with public restroom technology.

So, in order to avoid a public restroom when driving on an interstate, you just shit your pants. You must have one hell of a laundry bill along with messy car seats.

I'm not sure where R84 came up with that leap of logic. Must be a scat queen.

The act of playing with oneself at a urinal can have consequences other than immediate. Playing with ones privates, fools the body into preparing for the sex act. When there is none, there may be prostate problems later. This is what I wonder: Do the officers tell the young entrapment cops about this?

All you have to do is type "understall" into myvidster.com or pornmd.com to see that this culture is alive and well.

There was a link to a blog about a guy posting about his university bathroom hookups across the country. He posted for three years and it was a pretty hot read.

Public sex is a fetish. And like all fetishes, the majority of people will never understand. I get it. I find it hot. I don't necessarily play with other guys, but there is a rush seeing a guy into showing off his cock. There is a rush the moment you realize a guy's not just shaking the piss off his dick but flashing it wanting you to see it. And even in this Grindr age, I defy you to find one bathroom at a gay club where this doesn't happen.

This guy has a whole series of videos of hidden cam bathroom sex.

Tell me about it.

Trashy.

R87 bankers are literally wankers

ha

R87, THANK YOU.

Those British banker wanking videos on Pornhub are so hot. I've shot twice, over my head, watching them. This will be j/o material for me for months to come.

Thanks for showing where they were!

Fun times.

works for me

R86 the old-timer officers already have a 'remedy' waiting for the entrapment cops.

years ago got arrested getting a blowjob in a park, that unbeknownst to me was crawling with undercover cops posing as gay men. as i was getting head, this pair came up (had seen them earlier acting like a couple) and arrested us.

the grumpy and dumpy one was probably assigned there as punishment, but the buffed chatty one was obviously there as 'bait'

chatty one was getting on my nerve, so in the middle of one of his casual bro monologues I let out a "you know why they picked you for this, right?"

that shut him up. found out the next day they had over 40 police in this park, so most of the people I saw that day were entrapment cops.

spent the night in jail, was grateful that at least I'd be getting out, instead of having to report to work there day after day.

Habib is a sociopath. Don't say I didn't warn you. As I mentioned in the CH thread, he's pretentious and a liar. He probably got tossed around that night at 15(!) which is why he's so creepy now.

I knew this thread would have a Joan Crawford reference before clicking on it. I was not disappointed. Post #6.

R73, Which celebrity?

This is so silly. all humans are so closely related genetically it's really a bunch of relatives stroking their dorkes together. All the intrigue is really quite artificial and due to ignorance.

George Maharis, who played Buz on Route 66, before most of you were born, was arrested for this in the 1960s. When I was young, it was very common for straight truck drivers to get blow jobs. But the AIDS epidemic together with the backlast against the gay political movement has made that mostly a thing of the past. I am a truck driver and a closet queer, but I won't let anyone give me head in a rest room. If they are good-looking, I will tell them they can come to my truck sleeper. Some will, but some say they only do it in the shit-house stall.

R62, that's a funny story.

R100, with all due respect, if you were getting your dick sucked in the '60s, I don't see how cocksuckers coming on to you at truckstops could be much of a problem now.

R102, you have trouble comprehending the English language. My reference to the 1960s was to actor George Maharis, after reading a post asking about a celebrity. As for as me, I was born in 1956, and am 59 years old. I got my first blowjob when I was 13 in 1969, when I blackmailed an older boy into doing me, after I became aware that he had been sucking off my older brother. (I never let my brother know that I was aware that he get used to get sucked off when he was a teen.) I also mentioned that cocksuckers cruising at rest areas and truck stops is not as common anymore. It's true that I'm old now, but there are a lot of daddy-seekers out there, and when I have a layover and post on craigslist, it doesn't take long until I have someone coming to my truck sleeper to suck me off.

I can't name names, obviously, but some of the biggest classical names in acting used to go into the woods. My reason is that it might cause a storm of controversy. and I don't care to participate in it. It would take a lot of research, and talking to people who are/were in show business to find out more.

But there are their acquaintances who are willing to spill, now that they are long gone. This was long before the cell phone, where current cop partners report to their nearby partner.

Sorry about the incomplete signature. I meant that if I thought I was no longer gay, Stewart Granger, in "The Far North" cured me of that notion. And Wendell Corey, as his adventurous partner was just fine. The dialogue has near homosexual overtones. And the film is from the early '50s.

Caught most of it on TCM today.

I have no proof or statistics to back it up, but I would assume that some guys who live in more rural communities probably hang out at truck stops, rest areas, etc looking for action. Those who live closer to major metropolitan areas have more access to other guys and therefor don't need to cruise rest stops.

I've been cruising restrooms and rest areas since I got my first blowjob- at 13 in the mens' room of our church basement. Looking at cocks pissing at urinals was my favorite pastime. I could do it all day and knew how to not be detected. Id go to the mall with my mother and she'd let me wander off with a preset meet up time. I' head straight for the mens' room. Or Id ask to go to the movies and never make it to the theater. I was fascinated at the variety, and tried to predict how a guys cock would look before he pulled it out. I was often correct but there were always surprises. Often you'd see a guy get hard. If I liked it, I'd show back. If not, just pretend cluelessness and ignore. I'd go to their cars, a changing room, back row of the theater, rarely a stall and we'd get off. Just j/o and oral. It was such a rush and I became quite addicted to it. When I started driving a car, I found every cruising place in a 50 mile radius. I loved every minute of it. I was deeply closeted, in denial, still thought I'd eventually have the picket fence. I didn't like gay bars and the way people treated each other there. I was scared of people seeing me enter or exit porn shops and theaters. But everyone has to use the restroom. There's no stigma being there. Your father could walk in and it would just be a coincidence. I was totally comfortable in that environment. This was the 70s and there were many many many fellow cruisers. There werent many alternatives for sex. To this day, I check out the restroom wherever i go and still peek at urinals. Not that I get much at my age now, but I still hope. Urinal dividers are a curse.

sad.

I second r67. Only pansy-assed degenerates need a piss divider.

Pathetic, desperate sluts, who will most likely contract AIDS or an STD, and pass it along. Or get murdered buy a homophobic psycho, but only after he cuts of your dick first. And he'll probably never get caught.

Still willing to take that chance, rest stop whore?

I wonder if all you holier than thou prisspots make the same judgments about hooking up in gaybars, off Craigslist or grindr, etc. Do you really think it's much safer?? I don't.

R110 shrEEEEEEEEkHarmony dot calm down already

Sex in public toilets? Gross! I would never even touch anything in public restrooms without a paper towel. Why can't they just have sex in a steam room like normal people?

R110 - the virgin living in his grandmother's basement with the biggest dildo collection in the nation.

[quote]buy a homophobic psycho

How much?

I prefer 'vista points' and 'text stops'

in my pick up last year, going through upstate New York, I was just about chased by a trucker into this new-to-me thing called a text stop (no AC, so I drive shirtless). if I hadn't already been in a hurry, I would have checked the guy out.

I did pull in, but this other guy came out of his car and started adjusting his fly area, so I took off.

dayum.

There is nothing wrong with it at all.

Typically you meet at the rest stop and then drive off to the vista point. Really, some of your are completely unfamiliar with the culture and you just buy the lies in police reports.

r119, I don't care WHERE you go or WHAT you do, except when there is a clueless wife & a lying closet-case involved.

R120 we're right there with you, sister!

No big deal

R100, I may read too fast sometimes, but I assure you I have no trouble with reading comprehension. You, however, are a somewhat rude closet case. We are the same age and there's no reason to be closeted at your age.

At his age, what's the point either way? Unless, of course, it would deprive us of the hectoring wisdom of a gelder.

It's hot. Just don't get caught.

Right

ewwwwwwwwwwww grody! sex! I simply COULDN'T

r127.

Re-read r120.

What part of "lying closet-case" do you not understand?

[quote]Really, some of your are completely unfamiliar with the culture

I'm gutted about this. I won't sleep tonight.

Oh, what a night!

[quote]I don't care WHERE you go or WHAT you do, except when there is a clueless wife & a lying closet-case involved.

Why, R120?

R120 it is NOT your business.

I wuz lookin fo recamendayshuns.

But they're not strangers for long...

My friend Mark, who passed away in the 90s, told me how he lost his virginity, age 15, in a public bathroom to a man in his 30's. He went looking for that experience. It troubled me, the thought of this older guy picking him up when he was that young, but he saw it as a positive experience. He just wanted to get it over with, with an older gay guy, and this in the 80's, before the internet. And he came from a small town, he didn't know any other gay guys his age in HS that he could approach.

The posters in here squealing in disgust can just fuck off. What part of 'sex with strangers at rest stops' disgusts you so much that you have to click and read on? Just wanting to double check that it really does disgust you huh?

In any case, here's a fun fact: straight people have a sub-culture in the UK known as 'dogging'. They drive up to pre-arranged places like rest stops at night and couples start fucking in their car for voyeurs to watch. They also 'take requests' according to a coding system, the voyeurs will use their headlights in some combination to tell the couple to do whatever. Group sex ensues sometimes.

I know a straight woman who was married with a nice husband, a kid, and she was fucking this married guy at work, he had two kids, and they would be into this dogging scene. They would perform for strangers in their car, in a field one time.

So stop with the bullshit homophobic shrieking over 'EWWW- REST STOPS!' and grow up.

r136, in what you're talking about the wife is a knowing, willing participant.

In the case of a closet-case sneaking off to have sex with strangers at rest stops, that is not the case.

NO FANK YOU!

[quote]in what you're talking about the wife is a knowing, willing participant.

Comprehension problems, R137. What part of the story of the wife going dogging with a married guy from work do you not understand?

R137, last time I checked, this was a site for gay people to share their experiences, not a pity party for straight women married to closet cases. If you are hoping for a moralising coffee klatch type online experience. Datalounge is not for you.

In many cases, it's NOT a married closet case sneaking off to rest stops. It's often a frigid frau who causes her totally straight husband to seek a mouth at a gloryhole. A mouth has no gender for men like that. They want a quick blowjob, not a romantic relationship. That's far beyond the comprehension of frigid fraus.

Sickos and perverts do this

I agree, R142.

"So stop with the bullshit homophobic shrieking over 'EWWW- REST STOPS!' and grow up."

There's nothing "homophobic" about being disgusted by rest stop sex, you stupid shit. It's just plain nasty and very dangerous. But hey, if assholes like you adore swallowing the jizz of homely, desperate strangers in a place where all manner of flotsam piss and shit and fart and beat off, the by all means go for it. Just don't be surprised if you get a disease, or beaten up, or robbed, or killed, or arrested. Don't be surprised if you get more than you bargained for. Think of that while you're sucking a stranger's smegma-encrusted cock, or licking a hairy asshole or getting your butthole pounded by somebody some creep whose wife and kids are waiting for him in the car.

I can't bring myself to care too much either way about this topic, but, R141, you're pathetic. Can you not get it up unless you tell yourself the cock you're sucking belongs to a straight guy and not a closet case?

[quote] but, R141, you're pathetic. Can you not get it up unless you tell yourself the cock you're sucking belongs to a straight guy and not a closet case?

Why would you stupidly assume that I'm ever going to a rest stop when I only provided the reason that straight men go to rest stops. Damn, you're ignorant. People can't have a discussion without some idiot like R145 twisting everything around.

The frigid fraus in this thread are too stupid to understand how the result of their sexless marriage sends their husbands wandering off to find a mouth for a blowjob. Since you're so upset and are jumping to ignorant conclusions, I'll use your mental gymnastics and figure that you're one of the frigid fraus who thinks hubby is going to the home improvement center to get some screws.

As Joan would say, "grow up". This has been going on forever. Men are pigs, always have been, always will be, and God love 'em for it as far as I'm concerned. People who focus their disdain on matters like this are looking for turds in dark places for kicks. You don't like it? Don't do it. You think if kids catch two guys going at it they will go blind? Meanwhile they play video games where men tear each other apart. Meanwhile their Dads pack rapid firing guns in their cars and homes.

Got some pearls to clutch anyone?

zzzzzzzzzz

R141, stop blaming women for the shit men do. And very few totally straight men seek out sex with men

[quote] And very few totally straight men seek out sex with men

Exactly! And that's why I carefully stated the straight married men in this instance are looking for a "MOUTH." They are NOT looking for a man. That's something that frigid fraus, and you, are unable to comprehend.

Please repeat ten times: "A mouth at a gloryhole has no gender."

R11 and everyone else clucking about NSFW pics, why are you on Datalounge at work or some place where you care?

R144, that's a very lively and detailed imagination you have going on there.

I've never sought sex at rest stops, but I don't judge those who do, and I suggest your turn your lurid fantasies into reality, if only to make you less moody for your colleagues / wife / kids.

There's a time and a place for judging.

I went into this resturant about three pm and went up to the counter and ordered a number 2 meal, but substitute the drink for a medium vanilla milkshake and an extra cheeseburger because the two that come with the meal are never enough and two cherry pies. and paid for the meal and told them id be back. in my arnold voice, as i was going to see a man about a horse. so i went into their rest room and had washed my hands and stepped into the handy stall when themost attractive japanese, or chinese, or south korean or Laotion guy stepped in and said sir , sir. i was about ready to let out about a liter of hot piss from my semi hard member. when i turned around and caught him look at my member i immediately got erect and the piss now went everwhere all over him and it would stop. he immediately got out of the path and went to wash up telling me they were out of cherry and would apple ok. i told him to finish cleaning up as i had soaked him and id tell them. i shook off and packed up my thick member and they gave me a parfait to make it up for not having cherry. after i ate my meal i noticed he finally made it out of the rest room and he walked by the table with his number that said he had a great time. i never did call £%}¥%~€, but often wonder about him.

Way too much detail, dude

Anyone who is interested in sex at a rest stop/urinal/bathroom with strangers is just disgusting, perverted, freakish and pathetic. It's not the old days anymore. You can meet guys properly for dates via dating sites if you aren't into bars or clubs. There's no justification for rest stop hookups anymore.

Fuck off you freaks. I wish we normal gays could send you fools to ISIS-controlled territory.

you're a horrible person, I hope you're die in a grease fire you puritan idiot!

R149, your frigid Frau crap is silly. Straight men seek out sex from women, they don't go to gloryholes. And guys cheat even when their wives are not frigid

Don't you get the feeling that guys that call women "fraus" are the most miserable nasty effeminate stereotype imaginable? Their misogyny is born of their jealously of women. Dude, they seem like pure nasty you know whats.

nope say it r158. nasty know whats, just say it putz. btw i disliked logan on gilmore gals

If it were left to the lavender hankie-waving, chaise-longue swooners on this thread, DL would be reduced to cup-cake recipes, dog grooming tips and advice on hanging curtains.

R160 and gossip about whether or not the curtains matched the carpet

[quote]Don't you get the feeling that guys that call women "fraus" are the most miserable nasty effeminate stereotype imaginable? Their misogyny is born of their jealously of women. Dude, they seem like pure nasty you know whats.

It seems to me that guys at DataLounge who refer to "fraus" are guys who enjoyed this gay forum prior to the married FRAU invasion. The "frau" title is deliberately used in DL threads that get overrun with FRAU posts ---- like many posts in this thread.

R162 Seems kind of pointless to complain about something you could never prove.

R163 Seems kind of pointless to respond to a post that's almost 5 years old.

I was 20. Driving with my buddy across country. I had to shit. We go to a rest stop. I get into a stall & started going. A guy in the next booth is watching me through the glory hole. I put my hand over the hole & he licks my hand. Ugh. I yell at him & he goes. So no. Not into it at all

Hey R164! I figure better late than never!

Unleashing your cuntiness on a five year old post. So sad. And so laughable. I hereby bestow you a medal for the loneliest DL cunt ever.

R167 I thought I was just wasting time until I got this stylish medal!

I've read stories about gay sex in bygone eras. Basically, men would seek it out anywhere...including in public restrooms. That's so sad and pathetic, but I guess they way things were then gay sex had to be kept furtive and secret and anonymous and quick. I guess some people still do it that way. Seems pretty awful to me.

I don't think this ever goes on anywhere anymore. Over the years they've changed the areas to make them less conducive to any kind of criminal activity. I travel a lot on the interstates in the northeast for work at all hours and I never notice anything.

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Don't see a problem with restroom sex

These threads are always magnets for the nellie prisspots who hiss at anyone who dares to enjoy looking at or touching a penis in broad daylight/with the lights on.

[quote] I don't think this ever goes on anywhere anymore. Over the years they've changed the areas to make them less conducive to any kind of criminal activity. I travel a lot on the interstates in the northeast for work at all hours and I never notice anything.

I don't know about "never" but yeah, it's certainly dropped.

The straight world is way more aware of this, or what it used to be....but sites like Cruising For Sex actually had the opposite effect that I think was intended and killed a lot of those spots.

Also, it's easy to use apps these days, so that has a part in it, too, obviously.