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How did you first learn about sex?

I was 12 or 13 when I found my dad's "Everything you wanted to know about sex" book in the basement. It read it cover to cover and finally learned the basics of sex.

I recall reading the section about masturbation and wondering what that was. I rubbed my cock just as it described and suddenly thick cum came out. I thought I had peed but it smelled more pungent and was sticky. (I have never had a wet dream). After that I'd do it every day. First with two hands, rubbing back and forth like I was churning butter. After a while I learned to do it with one hand.

Many complain that that book had misleading and incorrect info about homosexuality but I didn't realize it at the time.

by Anonymousreply 37February 19, 2015 9:35 PM

My cousin showed me porn and made me suck him off.

Still love the taste of cock and cum

by Anonymousreply 1February 15, 2015 11:52 PM

I was 11 ,he was the few years older neighbor,it started as "I'll show you how to jack off" and went to "Just put your mouth on it" in about 5 seconds flat. We fooled around every chance we could,but school started and that was that. He taught me EVERYTHING about sex.

by Anonymousreply 2February 16, 2015 3:16 AM

R1 I hope you send your cousin a thank you note anc flowers every year.

by Anonymousreply 3February 16, 2015 3:26 AM

At a Bryan Singer pool party. Didn't everyone?

by Anonymousreply 4February 16, 2015 3:26 AM

A very special episode of Blossom

by Anonymousreply 5February 16, 2015 3:27 AM

finger fucking

by Anonymousreply 6February 16, 2015 3:28 AM

(Apologies to OP for interrupting)

Don't Ride With Strangers: Rone's CRAZY Story

Can someone start a thread for me about this clip at link that just got uploaded on-line. Some straight hottie recounts being in Toronto and accepting a ride to the airport from some guy passing by and then the guy ended up trying to hit on him for sex.

Don't Ride With Strangers: Rone's CRAZY Story

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by Anonymousreply 7February 16, 2015 3:36 AM

My dad had a book called What Turns Women On.

Women were very graphic about sex with men.

I learned a lot from that

by Anonymousreply 8February 16, 2015 5:08 PM

Internet porn.

by Anonymousreply 9February 16, 2015 5:12 PM

Did you parents ever talk to you about sex?? Mine never did!

It wasn't until after high school that I first noticed an adult bookstore. My first experience was getting sucked off there. It was there that I read about bathhouses so searched out one. I went to the bathhouse about once every few months and learned so much there.

Unfortunately, it's tough to find love when a bathhouse is your introduction to being gay.

by Anonymousreply 10February 16, 2015 5:12 PM

Reading "Anne of Green Gables" by L. H. Montgomery as a child. It is shockingly explicit.

by Anonymousreply 11February 16, 2015 5:15 PM

Everything you Wanted to Know about Sex is a crock of shit. Very anti-female and anti-homo. If Fox news wrote a sex book this would be it.

by Anonymousreply 12February 16, 2015 5:19 PM

We had an after-school circle jerk group that gathered in the sand dunes near the football field. We were all 8, 9, 10 years old. No one quite knew what they were doing. But it sure as fuck felt good.

by Anonymousreply 13February 16, 2015 5:25 PM

A friend whose parents were more progressive than mine bought him What's Happening To Me?. It's a good book. Anyhow i knew something was up when I was more interested in the drawings of the developing male body than the female.

by Anonymousreply 14February 16, 2015 5:49 PM

It was the Summer of '42 on Nantucket Island.

Sadly, nowadays they arrest women who deflower young boys. But back then, during the war, we became men.

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by Anonymousreply 15February 16, 2015 6:01 PM

I think I was born knowing except I didn't understand about erections.

by Anonymousreply 16February 16, 2015 6:06 PM

I got no sex ed at home or in Catholic. I looked up naught words in the dictionary and pieced it all together. I found my dads porn mags in the basement which horrified me. I learned a lot from the erotic stories though!Later found a video tape in his VCR which was black chicks with white guys. I guess my dad had a secret fetish!

When I was about 16 my parents started to say adult jokes around me, where they thought I learned the birds and the bees I don't know.

by Anonymousreply 17February 16, 2015 6:16 PM

r17, my catholic parents also never mentioned it. Such a huge failure as a parent IMO.

If i had kids I'd be sure to tell them all about it when they were 10 or so.

by Anonymousreply 18February 16, 2015 7:06 PM

Woods Porn. Black garbage bag filled with Penthouse and Hustler. I got the gist of how everything worked.

by Anonymousreply 19February 16, 2015 7:24 PM

If your gay then someone molested you as a child.

That, and/or having a weak father and domineering mother, causes it.

by Anonymousreply 20February 16, 2015 7:28 PM

Didn't everyone learn from watching porn on the internet? It's really the easiest way. Just always had to remember to scrub the browser history!

by Anonymousreply 21February 16, 2015 7:32 PM

Someone I met on the street gave me a Rosary job.

by Anonymousreply 22February 16, 2015 9:22 PM

R21. Honey, there was no internet in the 1960s and '70s.

There was Playboy Magazine. And for us gays of a certain age, that was hardly enough. But we managed.

by Anonymousreply 23February 16, 2015 9:28 PM


Straight sex? THE GODFATHER

by Anonymousreply 24February 16, 2015 9:42 PM

I'm glad I didn't have Internet porn. With pictures and words I could use my imagination to fill in the blanks and I jerked off every night with no visual aid so I was able to create 'fantasies' in my head. I've date a couple of younger guys who cannot jerk off without some form of porn and because it's so available they have never even thought about using their imagination to get turned on. I found that they had the same lack of imagination during sex. I'm 36 and the sex Ive had with guys in their early 20s has been very porny. Almost mechanical. Maybe Ive just had bad luck but I can't imagine it's not effecting most young guys.

It's funny how uptight straight people are about sex. Kids can pick up on their embarrassment even if they never say anything. At 8 or 9 I had no idea what sex really was but I knew by my parents reaction to kissing scenes on TV that it was something really secret and shameful. Sadly my brother never learned a lesson because he has never spoken about sex with his kids (16 and 13). He thinks if he says anything they will go out and do it.

by Anonymousreply 25February 16, 2015 9:58 PM

I hope you're joking, R20. Otherwise we have now found the stupidest fucking cunt in the universe.

by Anonymousreply 26February 16, 2015 10:15 PM

R24 - YEP.

by Anonymousreply 27February 16, 2015 10:21 PM

That Everything you ever wanted to know book (which my sister had, and I secretly read as a 8-9 year old) was terrible and the bullshit chapter on homosexuality in that book affected me a lot. It still pisses me off. I wonder if the author ever knew how damaging that crap was for kids growing up gay.

by Anonymousreply 28February 16, 2015 10:33 PM

When I was about 12 my best buddy and I found his parents' copy of the Joy of Sex. When I was 16 his dad fucked me.

by Anonymousreply 29February 16, 2015 10:48 PM

Deborah Kerr, the wife of a coach at my prep school, taught me all about sex (including anal) on the golf course near the sixth tee one night. I'll never forget what she said to me afterward, "Years from now, when you talk about this, and you will, be kind."

by Anonymousreply 30February 17, 2015 1:00 AM

Penthouse Forum

by Anonymousreply 31February 18, 2015 3:31 PM

I grew up during the birth of the bikini--that side-to-side bit of cloth around the waist. I had seen photos of mothers holding their new babies horizontally and thought that the bikini bottom must conceal some kind of horizontal "flap" that would flip-up and reveal a horizontal baby to hold horizontally.

My best friend, dirty Jonathan in 3rd grade, said no. He said the mother shits the baby out. I was absolutely appalled at this.

by Anonymousreply 32February 18, 2015 4:01 PM

In the 1970s as a kid, my brother, who was older than me, was friends with two brothers who had a porn addict father. That guy had all kinds of porn in his work shed out back. The brothers would take several of the magazines to show to me and my brother. They said their father had so many, he never knew that they took some. The magazines were very graphic. I was only about 6-7 years old. Of course I was appalled at that age. But I saw every position imaginable in these magazines and my brother and his friends would talk about it.

Side story: The wife of the porn addict divorced him because he spent all his time jacking to porn. There was a rapist in that area of town who spent years terrorizing the city, and she suspected it was her husband since some of his porn mags had rape fantasies. She was wrong, but it ruined their marriage. After the divorce, the brothers moved away to another city with their mother and we saw far less porn after that. '

My friend and I actually discovered who the rapist was. I was staying over at a friend's house and we decided to sneak outside after his parents went to sleep. We were only 10 years old. We were in the woods near a path that bordered a field on one side and a residential area on the other. We were right in between both in the woods. We heard a scream and were scared shitless. We started to sneak toward the area where we heard the scream and we saw a nurse run out of the path from the woods which emerged onto the residential street and she was yelling help. Right near us headed toward the field I saw the rapist, and he was the son of some elderly neighbors of ours. I heard him say, "Shit!" and then he took off across the field. Neither one of them saw us. We were so scared we couldn't even move.

My friend and I agonized for days about what to do. Being 10 year olds, we were worried about getting in trouble for sneaking out. Then we decided to anonymously report the address of the rapist. I called the police from a pay phone (remember those?) and reported it quickly, then hung up. I watched for days and the police finally showed up at the house. I guess the elderly mother lied and said the son was home. The local cops, who were incompetent, never followed up. They never caught him. About 2-3 years later (and a couple other reported rapes or rape attempts later), the parents died and the son disappeared. We never found out what happened to him, but the rapes stopped after he left town. I still get chills to this day thinking about that.

by Anonymousreply 33February 18, 2015 4:14 PM

[quote]My best friend, dirty Jonathan in 3rd grade, said no. He said the mother shits the baby out. I was absolutely appalled at this.

That's hysterical!!!!

by Anonymousreply 34February 18, 2015 4:21 PM

[quote]My best friend, dirty Jonathan in 3rd grade, said no. He said the mother shits the baby out. I was absolutely appalled at this.

Well, it does explain how Kim Kardashian got here.

by Anonymousreply 35February 18, 2015 4:30 PM

Great comment R35!

by Anonymousreply 36February 19, 2015 9:17 PM

When my Dad and his brothers fucked me in the ass.

by Anonymousreply 37February 19, 2015 9:35 PM
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