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Do you think it's cheating when you...

look at pron on the internet?

Chat with people via email or chat room just to get off at the moment?

Flirting with someone in person with no intention of taking in anywhere?

by Anonymousreply 1610/20/2013

Releases the tension, it's not exactly starting off another relationship.

Then again I don't believe in monogamy.

by Anonymousreply 110/20/2013

NEXT!

by Anonymousreply 210/20/2013

Only some some dumb girls think it is cheating to look at porn. All guys enjoy some porn, even a lot of girls do now.

The others get a little more grey. Everyone person wants to feel desirable, I get that, so flirting or online flirting is validation. But eh, not sure I am comfortable with that.

by Anonymousreply 310/20/2013

Yeah, to me if you're online flirting it says something more is going on in somebody's mind or relationship, probably not something that's greatly helpful to the relationship or reflects well on it.

by Anonymousreply 410/20/2013

What if it is that you love your partner but just need a bigger dick to fuck you? A human dick not a rubber one.

by Anonymousreply 510/20/2013

Then you are fairly stupid.

by Anonymousreply 610/20/2013

If you look at pron doesn't it mean you are not satisfied in the relationship?

by Anonymousreply 710/20/2013

Yes, you whore!

Even looking at someone on the streets is cheating.

by Anonymousreply 810/20/2013

You can't be serious or you can't be a guy R7. No, no, and no.

[quote]What if it is that you love your partner but just need a bigger dick to fuck you? A human dick not a rubber one.

Being pathetic and undeserving of your partner or any partner.

by Anonymousreply 910/20/2013

1) No.

2) Magic 8 Ball says yes.

3) No.

by Anonymousreply 1010/20/2013

r9, girls are made to feel, from somewhere, that if their man is looking at porn it is because she is not enough for her man. I don't know if this is a universal truth but there is an undercurrent that if men look at porn it is because the woman is not satisfying them.

by Anonymousreply 1110/20/2013

It varies, I have a recurring dream that my partner is cheating on me and sometime leaves me. Always one a month and sometimes twice a month. It's unsettling.

Sometimes I wonder if he did cheat on me for real.

by Anonymousreply 1210/20/2013

Porn is nothing, it's a movie. You can see stuff near that on HBO now. Looking is natural, something people don't even think about at the time. Flurting on the other hand can be ok if it's really mild and not going anywhere. But actually wanting someone else is cheating. You'd be disrespecting your partner.

by Anonymousreply 1310/20/2013

"Mama, he's flurting with me! I can see it in his eyes!"

by Anonymousreply 1410/20/2013

Wanting someone else is not cheating unless you actually have sex with them. You can want someone and do nothing about it.

We are all human and each human has different needs and wants. It all depends if you act on it.

I am sure many people have cheated once and wish they had not... we are only human.

by Anonymousreply 1510/20/2013

[quote]Do you think it's cheating when you...look at pron on the internet? Chat with people via email or chat room just to get off at the moment?Flirting with someone in person with no intention of taking in anywhere?

We're gay men, OP. Do we look like needy, controlling twats to you?

by Anonymousreply 1610/20/2013
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