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Do you ever wonder what your BF does and never tells you...

like going to a movie with friend or dinner? If it's innocent why would they bring it up at the end of the day. Like today I went to lunch with so and so from my hometown etc.

NO YOU DON'T HAVE TO KNOW EVERYTHING THEY DO... but if there is nothing to it then why not chat about it when asked how was your day.

by Anonymousreply 2310/20/2013

I don't have a BF, so FUCK YOU!

by Anonymousreply 110/19/2013

I know my boyfriend is on Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 210/19/2013

op= high maintenance and should be dumped

by Anonymousreply 310/19/2013

My partner went out lunch with this guy and never told me. I think he was a friend or ex from back in the day. I found out because a friend was passing the place they ate and saw them.

I never said anything to him about it... but wondered why he never told me.

by Anonymousreply 510/19/2013

R4, are you single and available? Perhaps you can take me out and buy me dinner. You sound hot.

by Anonymousreply 610/19/2013

OP is a deceitful person who is worried the BF will catch on to all of his bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 710/19/2013

Lying by omission – I hate it.

by Anonymousreply 810/19/2013

It's happened to me in the past. I did not like that side of myself. I worked hard not be that guy who has to know everything he did. Also explained to him that, no matter how innocent it was, finding out about from someone else hurts and feals like he lied. There is still a bit of it left but it doesn't make me crazy anymore.

I figure if he's going to cheat he'll do no matter how much of his day to day life I know about

by Anonymousreply 910/19/2013


by Anonymousreply 1010/19/2013

OP you sound like a straight woman

by Anonymousreply 1110/19/2013

[quote] feals

Oh, dear.

by Anonymousreply 1210/19/2013

[all posts by tedious, racist idiot removed.]

by Anonymousreply 1310/19/2013 sound like my douche of an ex. It has nothing to do with obsesssion. Example: My ex and I rented some movies...I returned them the next day. Several days later I went to rent some more movies and was informed that I had movies out already. The SAME movies I returned a few days earlier. I asked when they were checked out and was informed they were taken out the day before at a store across town...across the street from the guy my ex claimed he wasnt screwing. I never said anything, but why would he go across town to rent the SAME movies we just watched. If he wanted to watch them again he could have said to not return them yet. Like r8 stated...its the lying by omission.

by Anonymousreply 1410/20/2013

Why would you not say anything r14? You just let yourself get played?

by Anonymousreply 1510/20/2013 was one of the final nails in the coffin of our then I had bigger things to question...I was gone a week later.

by Anonymousreply 1610/20/2013

btw r15...the reason for my response at r14 was because every time I would question such behaviour, I was told I was obsessive and dilusional. Ironic that in the end I was right all along.

by Anonymousreply 1710/20/2013

Conversations about the minutiae of someone else's day are so tiresome. I don't need to hear about the lunch he had with his queeny little friends unless he wants to tell me for some reason.

by Anonymousreply 1810/20/2013

[all posts by tedious troll removed.]

by Anonymousreply 1910/20/2013


by Anonymousreply 2010/20/2013

Me and my partner use to share everything, including the same computer. Now he has his own computer, when ever I walk in the room you can tell by the light shinning from the screen he closes off whatever he is looking at.


by Anonymousreply 2210/20/2013

Midget porn, R22.

by Anonymousreply 2310/20/2013
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