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What vibes do you get from a straight guy that would lead you to believe that he would be open to gay sex?

I see many straight guys when I am out and about and I always wonder who would be open to a gay trist. I fantasize about that often and want to hear if any of you guys were successful. Tell us your stories.

by Anonymousreply 8110/05/2013

This will not end well.

by Anonymousreply 110/04/2013

The straight guy would be bisexual. Sorry to turn you off. But, he would be. Or, gay.

by Anonymousreply 210/04/2013

Gurl, we do this every week. Im interested to see what we will come up with this week.

by Anonymousreply 310/04/2013

Well, when the guy thrust his crotch against me, I had sort of an inkling. But I pretended to ignore it. So, imagining that I'd missed the point, he held his hands against his trousers, outlining his erection. I explained that I liked him, but wasn't interested in that sort of thing with anyone who wasn't openly gay. He insisted that he was straight. Okay. So we didn't do anything. Well, he sort of did; he pushed his crotch against me, after all, then more or less exhibited himself. But there was no other physical contact.

by Anonymousreply 410/04/2013

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by Anonymousreply 510/04/2013

OP, straight guys are not open to gay sex. Give it a rest.

by Anonymousreply 610/04/2013

Tryst

by Anonymousreply 710/04/2013

When he's your roommate and he has to wear a bathrobe in the morning to disguise from you the fact that since you told him you were gay he has always had a hardon when he goes to get dressed in front of you.

by Anonymousreply 810/04/2013

"Do you wanna SMD!" is usually an indication.

by Anonymousreply 910/04/2013

[quote]Say that to the self-confessed gay guys who experiment with pussy. Fucking hypocrites.

Gay men don't "experiment" with pussy. They are desperate to not be gay and feel pussy will "cure" them. The two are not comparable. Straight men do not fantasize about other men.

by Anonymousreply 1010/04/2013

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by Anonymousreply 1110/04/2013

A lot of straight guys are not creeped out by gay sex, it is the kissing and holding hands stuff which freaks them out.

by Anonymousreply 1210/04/2013

All men/people fantasize at one time or another about everything thing they know to exist. Most never act on these imaginings. It's only human nature for all of us to "explore" within the safety of our minds.

There are few actual physical experiments by gay or straight people, but there are some. There is nothing that people haven't tried and that includes sex.

by Anonymousreply 1310/04/2013

[quote]Says who? You?

Yes. If a straight thinks about another man sexually, he is not straight. He is bisexual or gay. I know that too many prostitutes on this site, bisexual and gay is considered disgusting and "straight" is considered "hot"...but, I'm sorry to ruin your party.

by Anonymousreply 1410/04/2013

[quote]All men/people fantasize at one time or another about everything thing they know to exist.

Not me.

by Anonymousreply 1510/04/2013

A college acquaintance, jock, frat, pussy hound for sure and I were stuck in long, slow moving line, in noisy hall. With nothing better to do we had to chat. "What kinda things do you do?" "Oh, the usual, I guess." "Suck, fuck; that shit?" "I like to tie guys op and get them off but really slow. I don't care if they do me." "Yeah?"

A month later in small bar near campus, he was with buds and some girls. I was alone at the bar. We nodded. After a while he came up. "That thing you said you do, I've been thinking about it?"

"You sure it wouldn't freak you out? I really tie a guy up." "Nah, I can take care of myself. I got my car." We went back to my room; I got my rope, hog tied him first and played with him, sucked his toes, teased his dick, swatted his ass. Then tied him tight to a chair and very, very slowly sucked him off, stopping every time he was about to come. After a few passes of this he started to moan, so I gagged him. Finally I let him explode. First shots hit the ceiling. I told him rope marks would start to fade in about an hour and be gone the next day. They were,

He came over a few times after that.

He had a steady girl after a while. But came over for a final round about two months before graduation. Was he straight but curious/kinky? Was he bi? Was he gay?

I don't know or care. I had a good time.

by Anonymousreply 1610/04/2013

Don't you look at gay porn OP? All straight guys want to do is have gay sex.

Yep, every straight guy is just waiting for the right offer and he'll spread em like butter.

by Anonymousreply 1710/04/2013

Dude, they're STRAIGHT. That means they like PUSSY, not other guys. Stop trying to make a straight conquest. Stick to your own kind if you want to have a good sexual experience. Curious straight guys have issues. You'll get creeped out by their paranoia and fear of AIDS and their paranoia about anal sex and the smell, etc. It's just not worth the effort.

by Anonymousreply 1810/04/2013

I had sex with a "curious" straight guy once. It was fucking awful. He wanted to try kissing, sucking, and fucking.

Bad kisser. Couldn't suck because of the continuous gag reflex he had getting near a cock, and screamed and whimpered when I attempted to stick a finger up his ass.

But he did cum when I sucked him off........

Never again. Too much work, too much trouble for little value in return.

by Anonymousreply 1910/04/2013

That homophobic gay 4 pay porn as destroyed lonely and desperate gay men.

by Anonymousreply 2010/04/2013

You sit around fantasizing about trying to hook up with straight men? OP, you should try spending your time trying to figure out how to meet and ask out gay men.

Trust me, you will be infinitely happier.

by Anonymousreply 2110/04/2013

Honestly, some DL posters are some of the most fucktarded people ever to walk the earth.

Straight men are STRAIGHT. They like women. They do not fuck men - ever, ever, EVER. Not out of boredom, not just because. NO.

There are certainly men who are BISEXUAL who are attracted to women abd men.

But sad DL queens seem to only value straight men and the straight world - which makes them 1000 times more toxic than any "frau" made fun of here.

by Anonymousreply 2210/04/2013

Bravo, R21, bravo.

by Anonymousreply 2310/04/2013

{R22] Many of us know better. What is in it for you, to continue to post your bull shit? It just is not true. Most men like getting their dicks sucked and many men are curious about getting fucked. That is straight men also.

by Anonymousreply 2410/04/2013

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by Anonymousreply 2510/04/2013

[quote]Wrong.

Whatever helps get you off.

by Anonymousreply 2610/04/2013

If the original posters in these threads would say "straight-identified" instead of "straight" then maybe would could have some rational conversation around here.

Like this: If a guy is socially straight, and presents himself as straight, and has a girlfriend or girlfriends, then what vibes do you get that would lead you to believe that he would be open to gay sex?

See? Now lets have THAT conversation, instead of the endless loop of guys-who-have-sex-with-other-guys-are-not-straight ad nauseum.

by Anonymousreply 2710/04/2013

Gays who think straight guys are open to gay sex are like vegetarians who eat steak, only more so.

by Anonymousreply 2810/04/2013

OP---why don't you just go out and buy a copy of Penthouse Forums like all the other pervs?

by Anonymousreply 2910/04/2013

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by Anonymousreply 3010/04/2013

Bull -shit. Str8 men don't want any dick except their own stop deluding yourself its shameful.

Bi and queer men want dick. Give it a rest.

by Anonymousreply 3110/04/2013

No one knows who really is straight and who may be concealing things.

by Anonymousreply 3210/04/2013

I would 'experiment with pussy', and not for the negative reasons listed upthread.

But apparently that's not allowed in some people's brains.

by Anonymousreply 3310/04/2013

I've done both -- had sex with girls under pressure in high school, and then later for fun, but only in a threesome with another guy.

by Anonymousreply 3410/04/2013

Be careful what you wish for OP. When I was in college and came out to my roommates they immediately started treating me like a MAID whose only function was to clean up after them. I had seen them dump girls after one-night stands but it never occurred to me how much hatred and entitlement they felt for the female gender until they decided that as a gay I was a de facto female. Wow. Those poor ladies.

by Anonymousreply 3510/04/2013

The arguments over what defines Gay, Bi and Straight are pointless. Every person is different. I defer to the person's self-identification unless I have evidence to the contrary.

by Anonymousreply 3610/04/2013

Straight guys are not as straight as their girlfriends think. It is a very common illusion.

by Anonymousreply 3710/04/2013

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by Anonymousreply 3810/04/2013

Well, I don't know...then what? I probably wouldn't do so that often...

It seems like people use all these terms in such an absolute way, yet we haven't even *precisely* defined what they mean.

by Anonymousreply 3910/04/2013

It has to happen over time. They need to enjoy your admiration- you need to make the friendship important to them. A few months down the road get drunk with them and you'll fool around. Not saying fucking or anything, but touching and jerking off to straight porn. It might really test your friendship though.

by Anonymousreply 4010/04/2013

By definition, I get a bi vibe from guys who prefer women but are at times interested in sex with men.

by Anonymousreply 4110/04/2013

[quote]Then you're not gay, [R33]

Bullshit. There is a difference between curiosity and desire. If these labels are of any use, they have to address a person's desires, not their actual experiences. The idea that a gay man touches pussy once and [poof!] he's no longer gay, deserves its own MARY! Especially when the same person would probably insist that a married closet case is really gay.

by Anonymousreply 4210/04/2013

How do you know they prefer women, R41? If they preferred women, wouldn't that be enough? I prefer men. That's enough.

by Anonymousreply 4310/04/2013

Any straight woman wondering similarly about me would be wasting her time -- and my patience. To assume that straight men spend their days speculating on what it's like sucking dick with a gay friend seems, well, a little speculative on the part of a gay man.

The sensible thing to do with "straight" men (and much younger men) is to ignore the question in your mind that you think mind be in his mind. Until he comes right out and says, "Wanna fuck?", it's best not regarded as a possibility.

by Anonymousreply 4410/04/2013

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by Anonymousreply 4510/04/2013

If you lick your lips while looking at him and say "Yummmmmm"... seductively, then throw your caftan over your head and he DOESN'T bash your face in, he's probably game.

by Anonymousreply 4610/04/2013

Why are some gay men so intent on believing or wanting straight men to have gay sex? Go seek the gay or bisexual men out there that are available to you...for relationships. For something stable.

by Anonymousreply 4710/04/2013

How do you know who's gay or straight unless they tell you? And even then it might not be the complete truth.

by Anonymousreply 4810/04/2013

Thanks, R27. That's it exactly.

by Anonymousreply 4910/04/2013

To all the gay men here that think some straight men are open to gay sex, think of why under any circumstances you would have straight sex.

And I am not talking about if you were in the closet or were trying to be straight out of self loathing or anything like that. But imagine under what circumstances you would have sex with a woman. When have you ever "fantasized" of having sex or even kissing a woman??

by Anonymousreply 5010/04/2013

Every straight guy is just a six pack away from some man-on-man action!

by Anonymousreply 5110/04/2013

Well, the wedding ring is usually a dead give away. Means that they aren't getting enough at home probably, or are tired of what they are getting, so they're horny.

A row of empty beer bottles on the bar, while he's sitting by himself, that's your second sign.

If the bar in question is a hotel or airport bar, you're usually golden. If not, the big test is when you take the stool right next to him. Straight away you'll either get a 'get the fuck away, leave me alone' or a 'how you doin' vibe.

From there, depending on his level of past experience, it's usually formalities. Something of a Kabuki dance. If he's inexperienced though he might be thick headed about it, or just plain nervous.

by Anonymousreply 5210/04/2013

My only experience with a straight guy was in college. I was closeted at the time but knew what I liked/wanted and had had some experiences by that point, but other than those "fellow travelers" (we were all closeted back then lol) as far as anyone else knew, I was still the jock pussy hound. lol

#1 - freshman year, back to the dorm with one of my buddies after an off campus party, both pretty toasted. His roommate had hooked up, my roommate was home for the wknd. He asked if he could crash at mine - sure no problem. We strip down to undies, in the beds we go. I'm in my bed, he's my roomie's bed across the room. He starts making comments about some of the girls at the party, I'm agreeing (while thinking about some of the guys lol) he says he needs to jack off, I tell him not to mess up my roomies bed. He's like "OK" - gets up, pulls back my covers and sees me stroking, laughs and says - "move over, lets get sticky together" WHAT?!? We jo'd side by side, jo'd each other and more licked than sucked each other's dicks a little. Both came buckets. He laughed, gave me a punch and a "dude!", I gave one back - used his tee to clean us, he went back to the other bed and was snoring in minutes while I was in a panic over what just happened. I needn't have worried, he never mentioned it again and it was never weird between us. He's married with 3 or 4 kids now out West, volunteers as kids soccer coach, still plays in a league and is still a real looker. I don't think he was bi at all - totally straight guy. What we did was just getting off to him I think - bros being bros. Nevertheless, very hot experience to look back on.

#2 - My roommate junior and senior year. Senior year, we were sharing an off campus house together, set up one bedroom as a "study" and shared the other bedroom (looking back, that seems odd now - why didn't we have sep rooms?) so needless to say we saw each other in all states - dressed, undies, naked, morning wood, etc. He was a hot hairy muscle guy - much more muscle than usual swimmer. I fully admit to lusting after him then and now. Anyway, we had a party, feeling toasty - all good. He was having some problems at home that were really getting to him and he kind of lost it towards the end of the party . I got everyone out and on their way to the bars, he's a mess, sobbing, making no sense. I just rub his back, he calms down and is like "lets go". We leave and he breaks down again - now he's worried he'll be seen - I take him to the side gate going to the yard to get off the street. As soon as I shut the gate he's hugging me and sobbing on my shoulder. I'm hugging him back, rubbing his back, listening to him. About 10-15 mins into this, he's calming down, his hands lower on my back, and there it was, his crotch into mine - and he was hard! WHAT?? Just feeling his bone and I'm on brick and I know he can feel it, that's when I feel the kiss on my neck. I kinda pull back he looks as me smiles and comes in for a real kiss. So we make out and humped crotches till we both came in our briefs. So fucking hot. We look at each other, laugh a bit, hug again and he whispers in my ear "I love you" and I whispered back "I love you too". We head out, all good. Later at home we both make fun of each other's sticky briefs "Look what you made me do!" I slip into bed naked, he says "That looks like the right idea" and slips off his briefs and gets in his and says again "Remember man - I love you" and I'm "Me too". That was that. Never weird with us after, only thing that changed is we kiss hello and goodbye since.

Tidbit - #2 guy, all our mutual college buddies and some of the girls then and now think he's gay. He may be married, but I do agree - and no, that's not just my lust for him talking.

I also did pussy post college - an alumni weekend 3-way with this chick I hooked with in college and her BF who was a year older than us. Very hot time. I think she knew about me - got off on watching us do things with each other. But despite what has been said, still gay! :-)

by Anonymousreply 5310/04/2013

That was really hot R53. Why didn't you ever "go for it" with guy #2? It seems as if he would've been willing.

by Anonymousreply 5410/04/2013

I love how this thread pisses off the housewives. Guess they'll be tagging along on the next business trip! Actually, the cool ones are usually like 'Go on, get some dick! Just wrap your shit up and don't bring home any diseases.' They like it because A) it takes some pressure off of them to have sex so often, and B) they usually don't care so long as it isn't another woman.

by Anonymousreply 5510/04/2013

I'm sure R53 is a cut and paste job from Nifty.org.

Yawn.

by Anonymousreply 5610/04/2013

There used to be a married guy on the subway who was on my train once in a while. Decent enough looking, though his hairline might have been just starting to go. When the train was crowded he cornered me against the door a couple of times. I'd try to get away because I was embarrassed I was chubbing up, but he just kept rubbing his ass against my crotch. First time it happened he ran like hell when we got to his stop. Second time things thinned out some before there, and he struck up a conversation, got my number. Saw him twice after that, both times early on a Saturday morning. Said his wife thought he was going to play golf. He showed up with this really nice spread of danishes and stuff both times. I expected a straight married guy to be more rough/less kissing in bed, but not this one. He was all into it being gentle and loving and stuff. When he left the second time he seemed upset, said he didn't know if he could see me again, that he was getting attached and he knew that he had to stay married, he couldn't ever come out as gay. Never heard from him after that. Never saw him on the subway again.

Here's a question, have any of you ever ended up in a catfight with the wife of a guy you slept with?

by Anonymousreply 5710/04/2013

Does sort of a cat fight count? I had a married fuck buddy. Met up with the guy twice at his house. The second time we take pics of our dicks together, cum on his belly. I email them to him when I get home. Time passes. We email a bit, then I get this email from an address I don't recognize. It's from his wife. She's fucking berserk. She threatens me, threatens to sue me, says she knows who I am and where I live, the works. I don't reply to it. I don't hear from him after that. Well, not for a while anyway. Then, out of the blue I get an email from him. He has opened up a new email account, promises it's safe, password protected, etc. He shows up at my house twice after that. Hot sex. Haven't seen or heard from him since.

by Anonymousreply 5810/04/2013

R57 Your boyfriend is not straight. He's just lying to his wife.

by Anonymousreply 5910/04/2013

Bored straight Married guys are likely to find an outlet in homosex.

by Anonymousreply 6010/04/2013

Straight men aren't "curious" about sex with other men. They have absolutely no interest in it at all. That's why they're straight.

It's funny as hell to see these threads where poor fools insist that they've fucked "straight" guys, that "straight" guys DO enjoy getting their cocks sucked and their butts plowed by other men.

I do agree that if a straight guy gets fucked up enough by drugs and alcohol he might engage in sex play with another male. And I would imagine if he remembered the incident he'd pray daily that no one ever, ever finds out about it.

by Anonymousreply 6110/04/2013

That's a foolish outlook R61. Sexuality is a spectrum. There are men who identify as "straight" because, in their minds, they have sex primarily (or perhaps exclusively, for the meantime anyway) with women.

This does not necessarily mean that they have never--or will never--have sex with one or more men. Those who never have a same-sex experience in their entire lifetime are rare indeed.

Same goes for men who identify as gay.

by Anonymousreply 6210/04/2013

R62 is mentally challenged, or has problems with word comprehension.

Straight means you have sex with the opposite gender.

by Anonymousreply 6310/04/2013

[quote]The straight guy would be bisexual. Sorry to turn you off. But, he would be. Or, gay.

This. Much the same way the gay guy who fucks women would be bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 6410/04/2013

Whenever they ask you to cuddle, OP. That's what straight guys really want.

Doofus.

by Anonymousreply 6510/04/2013

ree r27. Stop being so rigid just to be disagreeable.

by Anonymousreply 6610/04/2013

R27 is a bit much, but for those of us who hear "straight" and think "somewhere on the scale and as affected by time-and-place issues as anyone," it's not so much an issue of semantics and categorizing as it is ignoring the basics of male (and human) sexuality.

With that said, here are my experiences.

Cuddling, head on my shoulder, questions about anal sex. Asking for a drink. Deep eye contact. (Friend of my younger brother, who came by and found my brother wasn't around. Yes, I fucked him. A one-time thing. He later married.)

Head on my shoulder, hand on my thigh, deep eye contact. (a guy 24 at a party with his wife. I hadn't met him before. We had a spontaneous grope session and he pleaded to let him "put it in his mouth." He turned out to be a low-IQ, completely ingenuous sweetheart.

Married coworker - I was a contractor for a couple months there. He complained about a stiff neck. I gave him a neck and shoulder massage. It wasn't sexual on my part. It was in his office. He got a hard-on, got embarrassed, said he didn't know "where that came from" and then said his wife had been having problems and they hadn't been having sex. I made a suggestion. He said no. And at the end of the day he came by and asked me if I wanted to go get a drink. Lots of eye contact in the bar. Blow job in the car.

Straight friend. His girlfriend working out of town. He brought over pot and wine. No eye contact. Clumsy conversation. Finally he said, "So I was thinking we could just fuck each other, because I don't want to cheat on (girlfriend) and this would just be to get off. I said no. He came over the next night and apologized and asked again. He said I could go first. I said no.

At 17. Friends of family. I stayed there for a week - long story. The son was 17, too. Built like a gymnast, taller than I. He was a jerk, punching and pushing and wrestling and being verbally abusive. Then the wrestling got odd, with friction. Then he quit being a jerk, and was very nice. And at night all he'd talk about was wanting to know what being with a girl was like. "I'd give anything to know." And one night - we slept in the same bed - I woke up with him patting my face and head gently. I slowly reached over, touched him, and eventually blew him. And in an hour he was savagely fucking me on the floor (bed springs). And he went back to being a jerk the next day. I told him "Does the term reciprocity ring any bells?" He didn't know the word. He did let me try, but he was too tight. So I jerked off on his face and he fucked me. He later married and has three kids.

Another co-worker. Married. Showed up at my door on a Saturday morning. Body builder. "I heard you were gay, and I'm horny this morning." I laughed in his face. My phone rang. I answered it. He sprang over and buried his face in my crotch. I got off the phone, told him off, and then fucked him. After he said he had just wanted to know what it felt like.

So, based on these and other anecdotes, I'd say that straight guys wanting sex with another guy show overt interest/kindness, or show their cocks and act like that's all there is to it, or try to treat you like a girl/woman, or try to get you to make the first move through innuendo, body language, and booze and substances to loosen up.

And that's my too-long post on the subject.

by Anonymousreply 6710/04/2013

R63, read R63 again. S-L-O-W-L-Y this time, to give your second brain cell a chance to get revved up.

by Anonymousreply 6810/04/2013

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by Anonymousreply 6910/04/2013

What about a straight guy who doesn't want to have sex, he just wants blowjobs? When we first were dating we had a lot of sex but now he just wants me to blow him. Seriously.

by Anonymousreply 7010/04/2013

R70 Go buy some FDS.

by Anonymousreply 7110/04/2013

And no I am not Cheryl. Personally I think it's laziness.

by Anonymousreply 7210/04/2013

I think you're right, R70. Have you asked him why he's stopped pumping?

by Anonymousreply 7310/04/2013

Sorry to take over this thread, he says he is not young anymore. Maybe he doesn't want the pressure to perform? Thanks for the reply

by Anonymousreply 7410/04/2013

One last post from the straight chick. Don't glorify straight guys, most of them are not that great in the sack.

by Anonymousreply 7510/04/2013

OP is a psychotic freak. Straight men are straight.

by Anonymousreply 7610/04/2013

Okay, I lied I have to say one more thing. I think a lot of straight guys are married to dumpy women because it's easy for them to be lazy with them. That's why I like being single (and I keep myself in shape).

by Anonymousreply 7710/04/2013

R77 = Proud owner of a thighmaster.

by Anonymousreply 7810/04/2013

R77, I think you have a good handle on things. I'd say good luck but I think you'll be fine.

by Anonymousreply 7910/04/2013

Delusional sows.

by Anonymousreply 8010/04/2013

Straight men are very complex. They do not realize it. They are also completely under the control of their dicks. Okay, start there.

by Anonymousreply 8110/05/2013
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