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Just got home after a night of insanely amazing sex.

Slept about an hour, but am so totally wired at the moment. Met this couple at an HK bar. Went back to their place, where I was the party favor for a couple of hours. After that they called couple they know who also plays to come over and join us. They arrived with a couple of friends. For the next four hours, the seven of us (at least I think there were seven...I was so out of it by this point) went at it. I have no idea how many of these guys were in my mouth and ass, or how many times I's all so hazy. I should probably hate myself, but all I feel is amazingly exhilirated with the mindset that I can conquer the world.

by Anonymousreply 12510/01/2013


by Anonymousreply 109/29/2013

better get tested.

by Anonymousreply 209/29/2013

The first time I went to the tubs, I had a 15-way. Of course, that was in 1977.

by Anonymousreply 409/29/2013

OP, you sound fat.

by Anonymousreply 609/29/2013

OP, you're feeling desired and attractive right now. And very daring. Face it. You took a risk and it went well. OTOH, you could have ended up chopped in pieces and packed in several trash bags, and carefully distributed in anonymous trash receptacles spanning a ten mile radius.

You're looking forward to a next time. Take care.

by Anonymousreply 709/29/2013

Terrific! I miss those days!

by Anonymousreply 809/29/2013

Was double penetration involved?

by Anonymousreply 909/29/2013

Oh Cheyenne... stop spreading your warts.

by Anonymousreply 1009/29/2013

[quote]all I feel is amazingly exhilirated with the mindset that I can conquer the world.

Sounds like you still haven't come down from the cocaine. Tomorrow you'll want to kill yourself.

by Anonymousreply 1109/29/2013

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by Anonymousreply 1209/29/2013

You're a whore, darlin'

by Anonymousreply 1309/29/2013

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by Anonymousreply 1409/29/2013

This can't be for real, can it?

by Anonymousreply 1509/29/2013

[quote]This can't be for real, can it?

I'm sorry, Mrs. OP, but your son's a whore.

by Anonymousreply 1709/29/2013

May I speak at your memorial service?

by Anonymousreply 1809/29/2013

I went to bed early. And alone. Yet, for some strange reason, I don't envy you.

by Anonymousreply 1909/29/2013

Dirty sloppy-assed whore.

by Anonymousreply 2209/29/2013


by Anonymousreply 2309/29/2013

This thread is useless without a live cam feed.

by Anonymousreply 2409/29/2013

OP sounds old and the guys in this orgy are probably trolls who are about as attractive as the POZ creeps in a Treasure Island Media video. Next.

by Anonymousreply 2509/29/2013

We'll see who's envious when OP posts in several weeks, asking which HIV drugs are the most effective. Most of us have a healthy appreciation for sex without having to resort to being full-on whores.

by Anonymousreply 2709/29/2013

OP is your name tina?

by Anonymousreply 2809/29/2013

hope OP went to confessional today.

by Anonymousreply 2909/29/2013

Pretty responsible or responsible? That haze you are describing is not normal for a sober person to be experiencing and may be indicative of a mental illness. Do you have often have bouts of mania followed by selective retrograde amnesia? We might also want to work on those self esteem issues.

by Anonymousreply 3109/29/2013

I hope you saved one of those condoms for your scrapbook.

by Anonymousreply 3209/29/2013

OP= Jane Fonda in “The Morning After”.

by Anonymousreply 3409/29/2013

[quote]Still haven't slept...have this blissful exhiliration that I everyone should feel at least once.

I know, eh?

by Anonymousreply 3509/29/2013

No walls. And you GUESS they used protection?

by Anonymousreply 3609/29/2013

Admitting you have a problem is your first step. Here you go.

by Anonymousreply 3709/29/2013

Graduating from Oxford gives you the mindset that you can conquer the world. Getting a steady job gives you the mindset that you can conquer the world. Finding a good companion does it too. Being a cumbucket to a bunch of strangers should make you feel low and abused. If it doesn't you need help.

by Anonymousreply 3809/29/2013

Look chump, I just let the condom police think I was wearing one. Ya see, I don't like em and fucked you raw.

by Anonymousreply 3909/29/2013

Spiritual aspect of group emphatic interchange.

Technical explanation of exhilaration, current pleasurable feelings.

Just there. No valuation, moral or psychological.

by Anonymousreply 4009/29/2013

Does anybody know how they'll get those six guys out of there?

by Anonymousreply 4109/29/2013

Damn, is this or What's with all the sex-negativity? Lighten up, guys. It was just sex.

by Anonymousreply 4209/29/2013

Most people are gonna snark on you about it.

And six guys at once is skeevy, whether some of the kids are doing it or not.

If you don't have any self respect why are you whining?

by Anonymousreply 4309/29/2013

R42 Yes, this is Datalounge. But this DL in 2013, not 1977. Unprotected sex can kill and the stereotype gay fuck machine with no feelings is a thing of the past. Only losers who are trying to prove something, or hide something, do what you did.

by Anonymousreply 4409/29/2013

If it's that unimportant, OP, why the need to bore us with it?

by Anonymousreply 4509/29/2013

[quote] the stereotype gay fuck machine with no feelings is a thing of the past.

It is?

by Anonymousreply 4609/29/2013

Because clearly those voicing their concerns about you having anonymous sex with seven guys which may or may not have been protected (you are not sure) are the insane ones. Did you use another IP address to post that comment at R47, OP?

by Anonymousreply 4909/29/2013

What is your age, OP?

by Anonymousreply 5009/29/2013

Looking forward to next weeks thread detailing OP's meltdown when he bumps into last night's seed spreaders and they pretend to not know him and he doesn't get invited back for another pass around.

by Anonymousreply 5109/29/2013

OP and his friends are who we have to thank for drug-resistant strains of STDs.

by Anonymousreply 5509/29/2013

OP/R53 how do you know. You just said in your opening post you don't remember much of the night.

You do realize you can catch STI from sucking and crabs from body to body contact,

by Anonymousreply 5609/29/2013

[quote]As I said, as long as it's safe and mutual, WTF do you care what other people do?

OP invited opinion.

Sorry if it doesn't fit your narrative or his.

by Anonymousreply 5709/29/2013

"As I wrote above, there were a ton of condoms on the floor as I left the apartment, so I'm guessing they used protection on me. The first guys, the ones I picked up at the bar, 100% used protection. The second round of guys who showed up later, 95% sure they bagged it before taking me. Not concerned about HIV from it."

So, OP was a cum receptacle who "I'm guessing they used protection. "

I've had one night stands, and I've hooked up with guys I was attracted to that I barely knew. I'm not a frau or a virgin. But I'm finding your adventure just a little repulsive, OP.

Think about it. You talk about "the first group" and "the second group" and you even confirm that there was drug use, although not by you, and you say "things were hazy."

So, I'm concerned for you, OP. I'm not impressed. If you wanted to impress with your story, maybe you need to go to some porn forum or something.

by Anonymousreply 5809/29/2013

I had a friend who was so careful. One night he hooked up with a guy. And he made a mistake. He though the guy was putting on a condom, but in reality he was lubing up his cock, minus a condom.

He is now poz.

OP you don't know if every single person used a condom.

by Anonymousreply 5909/29/2013

"so I'm guessing they used protection on me. "

Oh God!! Meth is evil

by Anonymousreply 6109/29/2013

OP says in his own post "I should probably hate myself".

He came here looking for validation and didn't get it. You shouldn't hate yourself, OP, but if you really have questions about what you did last night, you should at least have a think about some stuff. And an STD panel.

by Anonymousreply 6209/29/2013

OP if you don't have a problem being bred with hiv, then you have nothing to apologize for.

To each his own.

by Anonymousreply 6309/29/2013

OP you have no way of knowing if you caught an STI or not, you should get regular tests if you are sexually active with more than one person. I do.

by Anonymousreply 6409/29/2013

Closing in on 10-90.

by Anonymousreply 6509/29/2013

Maybe OP wasn't high. He could just be lightheaded from blood loss from his ripped up shitter.

by Anonymousreply 6709/29/2013

r68 = Diseased Whore

by Anonymousreply 6909/29/2013

You could even fuck R68, OP, if you don't mind them that old.

by Anonymousreply 7009/29/2013

I am amending my post. R68 may not be old. Old school, for sure, but I don't know how old he is.

by Anonymousreply 7209/29/2013

Ok, i go out and get high and drunk and have a "great" time..... Poppers... luv 'um..... but I don't get fucked...... JUST.DON'T. GET. FUCKED... not interested. What should i think?...... been doing this 30 years. I'm 52 and "they're fabulous." Period (full stop)inside the quotation marks.

by Anonymousreply 7309/29/2013

Screw this 'was a whore' business, OP.

You are a whore.

by Anonymousreply 7409/29/2013

That care free attitude about being safe and getting tested is why HIV is still a serious epidemic among gay men.

And yes, it is, with rates of infection are in a slight increase among young guys right now.

by Anonymousreply 7509/29/2013

We each have to choose somewhere on the continuum between hedonistic pleasure and self-preservation.

Bottom line, everybody gradually gets old and dies anyway, best case scenario.

It's probably a mistake to take anything and everything up your ass raw, and become HIV+ and a half dozen other diseases by age 19.

It's probably also a mistake to go through life never having sex at all, or never having good sex. And I'd define sucking carefully on a condom-wrapped penis, the chemical taste of latex in your mouth, as NOT good sex.

It's interesting that a post like this prompts so much screeching from other posters.

by Anonymousreply 7709/29/2013

You do realize that HIV is very tough to get.


by Anonymousreply 7809/29/2013

[quote] and me turning up poz is more remote than Sarah Palin winning a two-term presidency with Sean Hannity as her VP.

OP read R59

by Anonymousreply 8009/29/2013

I don't believe your friend's story.

by Anonymousreply 8209/29/2013

Did you fall in love?

by Anonymousreply 8409/29/2013

This sounds just like the night you were conceived!

by Anonymousreply 8509/29/2013

R83, not so much a reflection of character. More likely mental or emotional health or even just maturity.

Most people don't pass themselves around like a pinata or have to rely on pretty sure to measure any health related consequences.

It's actually pretty easy to use the right word. Piety isn't it.

by Anonymousreply 8609/29/2013

OK, so you went to an orgy, OP. But you clearly either wanted to rile up the anti-sex posters or felt ambivalent about the experience, because you called yourself a noun ('party favor') and described yourself as being used, not as having had sex. Frankly, although you sound defensive, you don't sound as exhilarated as you think you do.

And for a bottom, HIV is not difficult to get. For a bottom who gets fucked by multiple strangers in one night, one might even call it easy to get (the more fucking, the more chance of anal tearing, and any positive guy infecting you). The haze and the blackout ('I barely remember the second set of guys') is all the more upsetting to anyone with a functioning brain, because 'stepping on condoms' doesn't ensure that every single guy used one. You must be smart enough to know that.

Certainly you're increasing your odds in the wrong direction, or so we were taught to tell you, in completely neutral, non-judgmental phraseology, on the AIDS hotline I manned in 1987.

by Anonymousreply 8709/29/2013

R87 nailed it.

Also, OP is changing his narrative from being probably sure to being almost 100% sure that the guys were using condoms. How a gay man this day and age can't be sure that he used condoms and has to use the condom wrappers on the floor as "evidence" that he played safe, is beyond troubling.

Also, R68 and R83 are idiots. OP brought this discussion on himself by posting on a public forum. He was expecting "high fives" and got a dose of reality. Given the poor judgment he described in his little story, it should come as no surprise that he misjudged the responses of the people in this forum. He clearly is not the sharpest knife in the drawer. If he didn't want to be "judged," he should have kept his "blissful" experience as a "party favor" between himself and the trolls who "used" him.

by Anonymousreply 8809/29/2013

R87 and R88 pretty much said all that needs to be said.

by Anonymousreply 8909/29/2013

Nothing has been nailed except the OP.

I have just begun to judge!

by Anonymousreply 9009/29/2013

The Lost Weekend.

by Anonymousreply 9109/29/2013

What did you honestly expect coming here with this story, OP? A bunch of people responding 'that sounds amazing' and 'you go girl"!

You WANT us all to call you a whore and slut shame you. You want to feel like you did something edgy and out there. The attention whoring here is more offensive than the actual whoring. Yawn. You're a dime a dozen, honey.

by Anonymousreply 9209/29/2013

I have to agree that if OP was barely conscious for parts of the group sex and was being "passed around and used" as everybody's fuck hole, there is no way OP can know the day afterward whether or not he got barebacked. Even if it looks like several condoms were used by some of the tops, at some points in the events.

by Anonymousreply 9309/29/2013

Just to I mention, the first round used condoms. I can say that with 100% confidence. Given that the floor was littered with condoms as I was leaving, I can say with 95% confidence that I was fucked with condoms. So, overall, I have nearly 100% confidence that everyone who got me in the ass bagged it.

by Anonymousreply 9409/29/2013

I'm constantly amazed at the attitudes to sex that other people have...

'fraid I'm a bit of a whore too - pushing fifty now - have been pretty promiscuous for the last twenty-five years or so - i'm a top when it comes to fucking - but love sucking dick - and really love threeways, gangbangs & group scenes -

Used to only like men in their thirties, firties & fifties - but as I've gotten older I must give off a bt of a daddy vibe and am increasingly hit on by twinks and twenty-somethings - bless 'em!

Anyway OP - your evening sounds great - and I only wish I coulda joined the party - my kind of night!

Ignore the negative prisses on here - sure most of 'em fantasize and jerk off to porn scenes like you describe - or much more extreme! - but just dont't get the opportunity to do it in real they'll never know what they're missing out on (and sure - getting an sti isn't fun - but other than the crabs a few times over a couple of decades - that's all i've caught - touch wood! sure - you could be unlucky - but having a random hookup occasionally really doesn't guarantee you'll end up infected with something).

by Anonymousreply 9509/29/2013

meant to write "...leaving, I can say with 95% confidence that I was fucked with condoms by the second round..."

by Anonymousreply 9609/29/2013

This never happened.

But for any tweaked twinks who see this scenario as ideal - if you can't remember whether you got fucked with a condom or not, just go to the ER and get PEP and don't troll the Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 9709/29/2013

OP -

I know the feeling. I had it hundreds of times, staggering out of the baths as the sun came up.

No regrets. None.

It's a wonderful life. ;-))

by Anonymousreply 9809/29/2013


I have no problem with someone having an adventurous sex life. I want all participants to be safe from any harm from the activity.

by Anonymousreply 9909/29/2013

Appreciate that, r99, but I'm confident that I didn't pick up an STI. This isn't my first time at the rodeo. At 36, I've done numeorus multiples since becomong sexually active. Nothing THIS adventurous, but close, and I have yet to get anything, even crabs. Sure, there might've been a remote risk of me picking up HIV from the encounter, but it's highly unlikely. It's also possible that I could walk down to the deli and get hit and killed by a cab, but that's highly unlikely.

by Anonymousreply 10009/29/2013

Speak for yourself, r101.

by Anonymousreply 10209/29/2013

Not all of us, r101, but OP certainly does!

by Anonymousreply 10309/29/2013

quote]all I feel is amazingly exhilirated with the mindset that I can conquer the world

I do hope "the world" includes the Free Clinic.

by Anonymousreply 10409/29/2013

"Met this couple at an HK bar."

Over 100 posts and NOT ONE OF YOU are curious about gay life in Communist China? Well I want to know what is gay life in Hong Kong really like?

by Anonymousreply 10509/29/2013

I'll tell you why I have such a strong negative reaction to OP's tale. It strikes a raw nerve with me. If a person's been bullied, and abused, and passed around, or if a person has a fear of being bullied, sexually abused, and passed around, basically being misused as a cum receptacle, then OP's post will tie your stomach in knots.

He describes a situation where he allowed himself to be used, and then embraces it, says he feels exhilarated, and he had a great time. I have to believe there's something perverse in that whole situation. Many of you will say that as long as it's consensual who cares if a person cuts loose and participates in an orgy.

But this didn't sound like an orgy for OP. He talks about how many people had him. He doesn't describe himself as an equal participant. I am not a prude, or old fashioned. But I do have a healthy sense of self worth, and it took me a long time to get there, so no, I can't celebrate with OP.

You got picked up in a bar and used as a sex toy for people who even called their friends over to dump on you. it's pretty sad. Get help, OP.

Reminds me of some 15 yr. old who goes to a house party and gets gang raped and then tells people what a great time she had being fucked by six different guys in every orifice she had available. She tries to make it sound like she's flattered.

by Anonymousreply 10609/29/2013

Sex is dirty!

by Anonymousreply 10709/29/2013

OP's self-loathing is deserved.

by Anonymousreply 10809/29/2013

R105 I think most of us assumed that HK=Hell's Kitchen.

by Anonymousreply 10909/29/2013

pquote] No, I'm not from NYC.

Really? It doesn't show.

by Anonymousreply 11009/29/2013

OP had a great night. Happy for you. It's good when it works out.

by Anonymousreply 11109/29/2013

Wish you many more OP. Enjoy.

by Anonymousreply 11209/29/2013

You guys aim so high.

by Anonymousreply 11309/30/2013

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by Anonymousreply 11409/30/2013

The gangbang and this post are proof positive that OP spends his every waking hour looking for validation. Pathetic.

And too his enablers: Sex is natural, sex is good, not everybody does it, but everybody should...we get it. However, there are certain sexual behaviors that clearly aren't healthy...and people are being Puritanical or sex negative by pointing out that FACT. So why don't you just get off the damn cross?

by Anonymousreply 11509/30/2013

[quote]For the next four hours, the seven of us (at least I think there were seven...I was so out of it by this point) went at it. I have no idea how many of these guys were in my mouth and ass, or how many times I's all so hazy.

I love how the OP kicks off with this tale of sloppy and semi-conscious "taking all comers" buttsex, as quoted above, and then he backpedals after reading critical replies and says "oh but i am SURE it was condoms all the way!" Hilarious and sad at the same time.

by Anonymousreply 11609/30/2013

You should probably hate yourself, OP?

Why exactly other than internalizing anti-sex Victorian idiocy, should you hate yourself for being human, sexual and having a great time?

by Anonymousreply 11709/30/2013

Now that another day has gone by OP, how do you feel about your night of sex? I certainly hope you were not infected. HIV may no longer be instant death sentence, but it is a chronic condition that you would have to live with and manage for the rest of your life if you end up infected.

Another concern I have, given that you said you were out of it for awhile--do you know at any time one of the guys got their phone out and recorded the orgy? YOu might be on a video on xtube right now.

by Anonymousreply 11809/30/2013

[quote]YOu might be on a video on xtube right now.


by Anonymousreply 11909/30/2013

Sounds fun OP, I hop in my time machine/transporter regularly and attend orgies at the Continental and St. Marks baths in New York in the '70s I've even seen Bette and Barry there a few times. BTW Barry is a pass around party bottom.

by Anonymousreply 12009/30/2013

what do you mean, R101?

by Anonymousreply 12109/30/2013

Anybody who would believe the OP's shit ("Happy for you" "Wish you many more" "Have fun") is an incredible fucking idiot.

by Anonymousreply 12209/30/2013

Exactly, R122.

Hey, OP. How did you get home if you were so out of it? Did you spend the night? Did they give you breakfast? You should've at least got paid.

by Anonymousreply 12309/30/2013

With Anderson away on assignment, Ben must be having the time of his life. For Anderson's sake, I just hope that Ben shows some discretion in his behivior.

by Anonymousreply 12410/01/2013

Read R100, it is clear that OP is trolling. Nobody is that stupid at 36.

by Anonymousreply 12510/01/2013
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