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Are straight people attracted to stereotypical gay people?

What I mean is, I have yet to meet a straight man who lusts after a butch lesbian or a straight chick who finds a flaming gay man hot. That is because they are opposite sex attracted.

Does it not make perfect sense that a same sex attracted individual would not find someone who looks and acts like the opposite sex attractive? If I was attracted to masculine buzz cut women, I would be straight!

by feminine lesreply 12701/05/2015


by feminine lesreply 109/28/2013

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by feminine lesreply 209/28/2013

Are you trying to find some rationalization for why "stereotypically gay," men are just wrong for supposedly "looking" like women?


by feminine lesreply 309/28/2013

r3, no, not at all. I am just puzzled at why so many gay and lesbians impersonate traits and appearances of the opposite sex

by feminine lesreply 409/28/2013

Many straight men are attracted to, and marry, butch straight women. They are a dime a dozen where I grew up (the Netherlands). It's not much of a stretch to think they could potentially be attracted to a butch lesbian. Likewise straight women who like androgynous/femmy men.

by feminine lesreply 509/28/2013

I know exactly what you mean OP.

There was some study a few years back about female sexuality and they are very into being "wanted." that may be why they don't tend to fall madly in lust with people unattracted to women (ie, obviously gay men).

Conversely, men are very into visuals sexually, and are attracted to stereotypical gender displays. So many gay men love so-called "manly men" and many straight men love so-called "girly-girls."

by feminine lesreply 609/28/2013

[quote] I am just puzzled at why so many gay and lesbians impersonate traits and appearances of the opposite sex.

They don't impersonate. They are who they are. If you don't like it, don't associate with them. Easy breezy.

by feminine lesreply 709/28/2013


Can someone explain to me why losers on chat boards think they's just that clever?

Honestly, can someone help me, I'm just so confused.

by feminine lesreply 809/28/2013

r7, can see his flames from heaven

by feminine lesreply 909/28/2013

Just FF this troll.

by feminine lesreply 1009/28/2013

It's a good thing yours are keeping hell alight.

by feminine lesreply 1109/28/2013

Newbie here, what does the FF do?

by feminine lesreply 1209/28/2013

OP, go hang out at L Chat or Afterellen.

by feminine lesreply 1309/28/2013

Everyone is different. Attempts to squeeze attraction into some kind of formula are foolish.

by feminine lesreply 1409/28/2013

I'm Dutch too (man). It's true that a lot of women here give off a butch vibe, for instance once they reach a certain age, they like to cut their hair real short and dye it red; they love wearing huge, 'difficult' looking glasses and they tend to henpeck their husbands. Go visit that Tumblr blog Loldutchpeople and you'll see what I mean.

by feminine lesreply 1509/28/2013

I think a lot of straight men are attracted to soft butches or as they are commonly referred to, tomboys. But these women are thin and conventionally attractive, probably not the Chaz Bono lookalikes you're thinking of.

by feminine lesreply 1609/28/2013

" I am just puzzled at why so many gay and lesbians impersonate traits and appearances of the opposite sex"

Because they're masculine women and feminine men, and they're being true to themselves. Duh.

What the fuck has that got to do with attracting straight people?

by feminine lesreply 1709/28/2013

My point r17 is as a same sex attracted lady I am attracted to women feminine women!!!

by feminine lesreply 1809/28/2013

What r7 said.

[quote]Many straight men are attracted to, and marry, butch straight women. They are a dime a dozen where I grew up (the Netherlands).

This is also true of where I grew up (Wisconsin). If you didn't know better, you'd think the women of my hometown were about 85% lesbian. In addition, yes, OP, I can think of at least 2 straight guys I've known who were totally turned on by butch dykes. Unusual perhaps, but hardly unheard of, and no, I don't think those guys are really gay men.

And good lord, who DOESN'T know some straight chick who's always crushing on so-gay-it's-visible-from-space gay men?

Why are you so obsessed with other people's gender presentations, anyway (because we all know you are the same silly twat who has posted a million threads on this topic)? Are you really so insecure and fucked up about your identity as a femme lez who digs other femme lesbians that you need the whole world to agree that bull dykes are icky and a different species from you? Live and let live, sugar pie.

by feminine lesreply 1909/28/2013

[quote]My point [R17] is as a same sex attracted lady I am attracted to women feminine women!!!

Goody for you, Esmerelda, but what on earth makes you think every other "same sex attracted lady" in the world has to like exactly the same kind of women you like? What a stupid expectation.

by feminine lesreply 2009/28/2013

With the younger gays and lesbians, I am in the majority with this view

by feminine lesreply 2109/28/2013

"I'm at least thirty pounds overweight, but I try to distract from that fact by shopping in the juniors section (because while I may not be an icky butch, I'm still a cheap lesbian with no fashion sense!) and wearing too much (inexpertly applied) makeup. My much vaunted femininity does not include the ability to keep my shitty rented house clean or to show ladylike restraint in the face of vodka coolers."

by feminine lesreply 2209/28/2013

Some straight dudes are attracted to men with feminine features or soft features, which is why transgender male-to-female persons often date and encounter men who identify as straight. moreover, tranny porn is supported by heterosexual-identified men, not gay/bi dudes. further, heterosexual men are the clients of ladyboys and tranny prostitutes.

by feminine lesreply 2309/28/2013

r22, a bulldyke who resents the fact that girls she fancies do not want her masculine ass!

by feminine lesreply 2409/28/2013

What "younger" gays and lesbians are you hanging out with, R21? Based on young queers I know in several US cities, you're either on Mars or in some fundamentalist backwater where gay kids have to stay invisible to survive.

by feminine lesreply 2509/28/2013

r23, that is because straight men are attracted to femininity. Gay men do not find flamers or trannies desirable

by feminine lesreply 2609/28/2013

And you wonder why so many gays and lesbians crush on straights!!

by feminine lesreply 2709/28/2013

Uh, R1, R4, R9, R18, R21, R24, R26? We get that you're a homophobic troll.

Hit the flames & freaks button and move on, folks. Nothing to see here but putrid roadkill.

by feminine lesreply 2809/28/2013

r28 likes to censor those he disagrees with! Fascist !

by feminine lesreply 2909/28/2013

My straight bro friend says if he were to go for a dude, it would be a dude like Emile Hirsch. I Googled his pic and looked at my friend like "okay, dude." We came to the conclusion that straight dudes are most apt to find feminine dudes with soft features attractive. Emile Hirsch by no means is transgender looking but he is not very masculine-featured. He has softer male features, longer hair, and seems sort of gentle in demeanor. He is not a square-jawed jock type with a buff muscular bod. Gay and bi guys like masculinity in males, physically and demeanor.

by feminine lesreply 3009/28/2013

Gay and bi guys like masculinity in males, physically and demeanor.

And real gay or bi women like femininity, physically and demeanor

by feminine lesreply 3109/28/2013

[quote][R28] likes to censor those he disagrees with! Fascist !

Such irony, coming from someone who thinks she is the arbiter of who's a "real" lesbian or gay man.

by feminine lesreply 3209/28/2013

I'm a very femme woman primarily attracted to very butch females. Masculinity as expressed by a female gets me hot.Masculinity as expressed by males is interesting and frequently nice to look at but it doesn't excite me. My sexual orientation is to women. My erotic identity is for glorious, sexy butches. What difference is it to the gay police what turns me on? We're queer because we're queer.

by feminine lesreply 3309/28/2013

HOT, R33!

by feminine lesreply 3409/28/2013

I think some femme lesbians are upset that other femme lesbians might be paired up with butch lesbians. Hence the seething and accusations of lesbians trying to "act straight." Get over it. Some women are naturally masculine, and some lesbians-- femme or butch are attracted to butch women

by feminine lesreply 3509/28/2013

r22 LOL

by feminine lesreply 3609/28/2013

[quote]Newbie here, what does the FF do?

Nothing. It used to signal the webmaster that someone was posting threats or homophobic rants. Instead, morons hit the "Flames & Freaks" link for anything posted that they don't agree with. As a result of the fools who announce "Hit the flames & freaks button" it is ignored by the webmaster. They should remove it since it's useless.

by feminine lesreply 3709/28/2013

Go suck a dick op.

by feminine lesreply 3809/28/2013

If I found ALL of the traits that my spouse possesses in a woman I MIGHT want to date her to see how I would react to her. However, I'm sure that will never happen.

by feminine lesreply 3909/28/2013

r33, you are right. I will go to a masculine affluent man!!!

by feminine lesreply 4009/28/2013

r33, is a butch dyke fronting!!!

by feminine lesreply 4109/28/2013

Of course us straight men aren't attracted to stereotypical butch lesbians because they are unfeminine and unattractive! Duh!

by feminine lesreply 4209/28/2013

Love r42

by feminine lesreply 4309/28/2013

Is ANYONE attracted to OP?

by feminine lesreply 4409/28/2013

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by feminine lesreply 4509/29/2013

FF entire thread for high moronics.

by feminine lesreply 4609/29/2013

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by feminine lesreply 4709/29/2013

I'm straight woman and while I don't look "butch" (I am thin, wear make up and have long hair) I have always had masculine personality and I have always been exclusively attracted to feminine men. Macho guys are big turn-off. So yes, I am attracted to stereotypical gay men (as long as they arent the bitchy, narcissistic type). I tend to end up dating a lot of bisexual guys. No interest toward women, although many seem to think I must be lesbian with the way I carry myself. I know some other straight/bi women like myself, it's not common but we exist.

by feminine lesreply 4809/29/2013

You are a crazy closet-case defender OP. CRAAAAZY!

(not even American, are you?)

by feminine lesreply 4910/01/2013

r48, you are the exception.

by feminine lesreply 5010/01/2013

I know straight gals who LOVE nelly men, LURVE them

by feminine lesreply 5110/01/2013

Have you never met a gay guy's female best friend who's clearly in love with him? These gay guys don't tend to be dudebros, OP.

by feminine lesreply 5210/01/2013

I hate the "feminine lez" troll. She's as bad as the anti-fem gay men. Just fuck off you useless ass-kisser. Straight homophobes hate you just as much as those "butch" lezzes, and all the makeup and heels in the world won't change that.

I naturally pass for straight all the time, but I love and respect my gender-non-conforming friends. United we stand, divided we fall.

by feminine lesreply 5310/01/2013

I agree with r53.

by feminine lesreply 5410/01/2013

r53, you say that, but everyone knows there is a hierarchy of hate for most homophobes. yeah, they may dislike all bi/gay people, but they especially hate feminine men and masculine women. In fact, many of them will say that outright. Doesn't make it right, but let's not pretend there is equal hate for all bi/gay people.

by feminine lesreply 5510/01/2013

Is "fem lez" a Log Cabinette? A GOProuder? A Randian libertarian asshat? A tea bagger? Which brand of Daddy-worshiping, self-loathing, sycophantic conformity does this backstabbing nutcase subscribe to?

by feminine lesreply 5610/01/2013

You're delusional, R55. How long have you been on this earth? You sound very, very naive.

by feminine lesreply 5710/01/2013

"Although studies have shown that gay and lesbian persons are confronted with different levels of minority stress, it is not clear why some of them are more affected than others. This is notable, because homosexuality, unlike race or physical handicaps, is usually understood as a concealable stigma (Herek & Capitanio, 1996), which implies that gay and lesbian persons can avoid being stigmatized by not disclosing their sexual orien- tation. It may be, however, that for some the stigma of homosexuality is less concealable than for others. This may especially be true for homosexual people who are gender-atypical or gender-nonconforming (Bailey, 1999; Brooks, 2000; Wyss, 2004), a condition that is more prevalent in homosexual than heterosexual persons, especially during childhood (Bailey & Zucker, 1995). Gender nonconformity is the expression of char- acteristics that are socially and culturally associated with the opposite gender (Bailey & Zucker, 1995). Given the strict norms guarding gender conformity, gender- atypical homosexual persons are more likely targets for discrimination or other negative experiences than homosexual persons who do not openly deviate from gender norms. Stigma surrounding breaking gender norms may be present during the early stages of one’s development, increasing the likelihood of developing more problems in psychosocial well-being in adulthood (Zucker, 1994). Adult mental health may also be affected by current gender nonconformity. It is an open question as to what extent homosexuality-related discrimination is due to someone’s homosexuality or gender noncon- formity (cf. Freund & Blanchard, 1983, who found that gender-atypicality and not homosexuality explained the distant relationship between fathers and their homosex- ual sons; see also Isay, 1989)"

See Gender Nonconformity, Homophobia, and Mental Distress in Latino Gay and Bisexual Men Theo G. M. Sandfort HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies, New York State Psychiatric Institute and Columbia University Rita M. Melendez Human Sexuality Studies and the Center for Research on Gender & Sexuality, San Francisco State University Rafael M. Diaz Cesar Chavez Institute and Professor of Ethnic Studies, San Francisco State University. Journal of Sex Research (2007)

by feminine lesreply 5810/01/2013

I have an interesting take on this. I'm not that old and have seen OP's scenario happen in both orientations.

I know more men who turned out gay, though, who would seduce every pretty girl they saw when younger--always initiated by the gay guys. They were obviously attracted enough to maintain erections because I know that at least two of them would regularly take virginities. Their girls always seemed happy to have the attention, though these guys clearly acted "stereotypically gay." As far as I know, none of them so much as touch women any longer.

And as for a straight man being attracted to a gay woman with buzz cut and all, I actually saw it happen just a few weeks ago. The guy was ruined over it.

I don't think it happens as often this way, because it's still a woman...often unfortunately seen as a "failed woman." Biological men have the upper hand in society. They just do.

by feminine lesreply 5910/01/2013

"Effeminate men were more likely than non-effeminate men to report having been sexually abused as a child, verbally/physically abused by relatives, and having been raped by relatives and or by a lover. Effeminate men also reported more experiences with homophobia than non-effeminate men. Gay and bisexual Latino men who con- sidered themselves effeminate also had higher levels of mental distress. These higher levels of mental distress in effeminate men seemed to primarily result from more experiences of homophobia, as suggested by the out comes of our mediation analysis."

by feminine lesreply 6010/01/2013

"We examined whether, due to men’s desire to reject stereotypically feminine traits in themselves, a masculinity threat would elicit negative affect toward effeminate, but not masculine gay men. Fifty-three male undergraduates from the United States received bogus feedback that they had either a “masculine” or “feminine” personality before rating affect toward two “types” of gay men: effeminate and masculine. Results were consistent with the notion that defensive reactions target groups stereotyped as having the specific traits perceivers wish to deny in themselves: masculinity threat selectively increased negative affect toward effeminate, but not masculine, gay men. Thus, gay men who exhibit feminine traits may be at particular risk from men whose masculinity is threatened." See Defensive Reactions to Masculinity Threat: More Negative Affect Toward Effeminate (but not Masculine) Gay Men

Peter Glick, Candice Gangl, Samantha Gibb, Susan Klumpner, Emily Weinberg (2007)

by feminine lesreply 6110/01/2013

R60 is a moron.

by feminine lesreply 6210/01/2013

But, R60's quote sounds at least feasible for Latino men. The "machismo" is heavily stressed in cultures therein. Like, really stressed. There have been many anthropological studies of it. Discussing the sexual abuse issue will only cause a greater stir of ruthless opinions, insults, and name-calling on this thread.

by feminine lesreply 6310/01/2013

r62, I would not expect you to understand or value scholarly research and authority. You just like to make erroneous stuff up, dude.

by feminine lesreply 6410/01/2013

the OP of this thread is a whackjob for days. and likely lives in europe, given the timing of her postings.

by feminine lesreply 6510/02/2013

I met a guy yesterday who was working at a store I went to. He came in wearing shorts and a tank top, and he was so muscular, I was sure he was a dancer (I was at a Starbucks near the campus of a university known for its performing arts programs). And indeed he was. He was utterly beautiful, charming, personable. Eminently fuckable, IOW.

After we chatted, I couldn't help but think how there are people out in the world who, because they consider themselves "masculine" or "bras," would turn this beautiful guy down because he was more than a little FMN8.

What a loser you'd have to be to reject this guy.

by feminine lesreply 6610/02/2013

R66, it is a matter if personal taste and attraction. It is okay for people to have individual preferences than you have. Tolerance.

by feminine lesreply 6710/02/2013

Tolerance includes accepting people who don't gender-conform and not trumpeting those who do as superior, more desirable or more palatable to homophobes.

This thread and the thoughts it expresses are a glaring example of intolerance. R66's post is not.

by feminine lesreply 6810/02/2013

[quote] After we chatted, I couldn't help but think how there are people out in the world who, because they consider themselves "masculine" or "bras," would turn this beautiful guy down because he was more than a little FMN8.

[quote] What a loser you'd have to be to reject this guy.

Don't worry: hot trumps femme.

by feminine lesreply 6910/02/2013

I think Michelle Rodriguez is pretty butch, and I know straight guys who are attracted to her. And in college, I knew a guy who was totally into the wrestler Chyna (who I thought was a MTF tranny).

by feminine lesreply 7010/02/2013

PS: Matt Bomer is stereotypically gay and he has a large female fanbase (both figuratively and literally).

by feminine lesreply 7110/02/2013

r71, in what way is he stereotypical?

by feminine lesreply 7210/06/2013

[quote] in what way is he stereotypical?

1. Yellow Skin

2. Womanly Butt

3. Etc.

by feminine lesreply 7310/06/2013

yellow skin is a gay stereotype?

by feminine lesreply 7410/06/2013

OP, go away. No one cares what you think.

by feminine lesreply 7510/06/2013

Straight men may be secretly attracted to some gay men that have feminine vibes, but they rarely want to be publicly associated with them. Straight men tend to be viscerally annoyed or embarrassed by feminine males, sometimes violently. Many will befriend masculine gay dudes as bros because such guys are perceived as manly and not embarrassing to be seen in public with.

by feminine lesreply 7610/06/2013

Most men don't want to be seen around non-masculine men. Like dogs, men tend to run in packs, and they want to be associated with manly Alpha Males. Heterosexual men especially are atuned to the masculinity of the dudes they hang with. I hear straight dudes say that they are cool being buds with gay or bi dudes who are masculine, just as long as "they act like normal dudes."

by feminine lesreply 7710/06/2013

R77, same with straight chicks and femme lesbians

by feminine lesreply 7810/06/2013

true, r78. For all the talk about women being more tolerant, heterosexual women don't exactly flock to hang out and associate with very masculine women either. At least men are more honest about their aversion to feminine men.

by feminine lesreply 7910/07/2013

Bulldykes suck

by feminine lesreply 8010/07/2013

R79 Who do so many women have gay male buddies?

by feminine lesreply 8110/16/2013

r81, because flaming gay men WORSHIP women!!

by feminine lesreply 8210/16/2013

some people

by feminine lesreply 8310/16/2013

I thought it was because there have much more in common with women than men and women just like a bit of diversity in their friends.

by feminine lesreply 8410/16/2013

r81, women rarely are close to masculine gay men and almost never close to bisexual men. They like girly guys because they are amused by their femininity and non-normative gender behavior. They tend to find mainstream masculine gay guys threatening or boring.

by feminine lesreply 8510/16/2013

Women often think of fully masculine gay/bi men who are attractive as a "waste."

by feminine lesreply 8610/16/2013

Mick Jagger, androgynous male, never has had a problem attracting women.

Bruno Mars, kind of fem looking straight man, has mostly women fans.

These guys are known to be "straight", but are not, strictly speaking, macho men. But they attract the opposite sex.

by feminine lesreply 8710/16/2013

They are exceptionally rich and famous rock/pop stars.

by feminine lesreply 8810/16/2013

r85 Is it so much straight women avoiding them or is it that masculine gay men are avoiding/indifferent to women? I think it is mostly femme gay men that initiate friendship with straight women. Be it simply going to places and having hobbies that will force them to interact with straight women.

by feminine lesreply 8910/16/2013

good point, r89. I think completely masculine gay/bi men have the same attitude with women as their straight brethren, with respect to platonic friendship.

by feminine lesreply 9010/17/2013

Then what's the attraction to Bill Kaulitz by both straight men and women?

by feminine lesreply 9110/17/2013

The more masculine the dude, the less likely he has close platonic female friends. Masculine dudes may have female friends, but there is usually a gender gap between them that keeps them from being best friends or hanging buddies. Masculine bisexual and gay guys are very much like heterosexual dudes in their interests, activities, and hobbies, and therefore, tend not to find much in common with females that would make them best friends or hanging friends. They often have affection for their female friends, but the gender gap keeps them from being best friends.

by feminine lesreply 9210/17/2013

Maybe you might want to limit that to straight women, R92? I have plenty of masculine straight male friends.

by feminine lesreply 9310/17/2013

alright, r93

by feminine lesreply 9410/17/2013

I am a lipstick les and I have straight female friends, gay male friends(mostly masculine) and straight male friends and some lesbians friends

by feminine lesreply 9510/18/2013

Do lipstick lesbians tend to be friends with heterosexual women more than masculine lesbians?

by feminine lesreply 9610/18/2013

Do black patten leather shoes really reflect up?

by feminine lesreply 9710/19/2013

r96, Of course! i have nothing in common with butches. I have everything in common with straight girls except the sexual attraction for men

by feminine lesreply 9810/19/2013

interesting r98. that similar reasoning to masculine gay/bi dudes who say they hang with straight dudes because they can't relate to feminine or stereotypical gay dudes.

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by feminine lesreply 10111/20/2013

I like my ladies feminine and nice!

by feminine lesreply 10211/23/2013

God, you're an asshole, OP.

For the record, I am a very feminine bisexual lipstick female (dominant in bed, though, which you'd no doubt consider "masculine", as you're so hung up on gender roles), who pretty much exclusively is attracted to a) soft butch women and b) submissive feminine straight or predominately straight men. I guess that makes me a gender transgressor by your standards, since I'm not fancying the "right" kind of woman (feminine, under your terms) or man (masculine, under your terms).

by feminine lesreply 10311/23/2013

All I know is when I was (much) younger,I was a flaming queen,and most of my sexual partners were "straight" or "bi" macho men.Yes,they were attracted to my feminine characteristics,and that was FINE by me!But,as Ive aged,I encounter more derision and patronizing from the gay world than I ever did the straight world,and Im not nearly as nelly as I was.Go figure.

by feminine lesreply 10411/23/2013

[quote] I encounter more derision and patronizing from the gay world than I ever did the straight world,and Im not nearly as nelly as I was.Go figure.

That's because you were fucking the exceptions. How can you be less nelly? Were you "performing" more back then?

by feminine lesreply 10511/23/2013

[quote] I encounter more derision and patronizing from the gay world than I ever did the straight world

That is only because the straights laugh at you behind your back. I'm sorry, but it's the truth. You are deluding yourself if you believe differently.

by feminine lesreply 10611/23/2013

r104, how old are you, man?

by feminine lesreply 10712/10/2013

I'm FLAMING. I make Carson Kressley look like Thor and I get masculine guys who are interested in me all the time.

by feminine lesreply 10812/10/2013

[quote] only because the straights laugh at you behind your back. I'm sorry, but it's the truth. You are deluding yourself if you believe differently.

This must happen to you a lot. Hostile and angry.

by feminine lesreply 10912/10/2013

r108, tell us your best stories. paint a picture, dude.

by feminine lesreply 11012/10/2013

One tory I can get out pretty quick was when pool guys installed my parent's in-ground pool two summers ago and I went out in the back and told them I had a cooler of water for them and more water or pop in the garage if they wanted and to help themselves and to come in and use the bathroom if they wanted too.

Well, long story short, I had threesome with the two guys a few times and they brought a third guy from the pool place. It was awesome sex. I have their numbers and we get together individually now. But, those guys are the only guys I get together with like that.

by feminine lesreply 11112/10/2013

Adam Lambert has lots of straight girl fans.

In fact his fanbase is almost all female. It's not gay men who downloaded his music and watched his videos.

And yes, if you hear what they say about him, many of them do find him sexy. Really and truly. They genuinely find him hot.

Mark Simpson who coined the term "metrosexual" has a lot of interesting shit to say about this. With more and more metresexual straight guys the gender lines become blurred.

In a more metrosexualized culture than ever before, gay men can easily become objects of desire for straight girls even if they are a bit nelly, because quite a few straight guys these days are just as nelly as they are! i.e. they can't fix a car, change a flat, they're not a handyman, but they're up on fashion, they manscape, tweeze, listen to Lady Gaga on their ipod, use beauty products etc. etc.

by feminine lesreply 11212/10/2013

More of the straight girls than the gay guys I know are into feminine guys.

As a dykey bi chick, I've gotten the occasional straight guy comment on me being boyishly cute but women tend to make that comment more often.

by feminine lesreply 11312/10/2013

I'm attracted to cute athletic lesbian chicks, aka, studs. I am talking about the type that look like a cute jockish dudes, who shoot hoops with the fellas, and lift weights.

by feminine lesreply 11412/10/2013

Someone just told me New Jersey is a state, not a city like New York.

by feminine lesreply 11512/10/2013

The neighbor girl Karen was my childhood best friend. She must haved jonesed after sissies. Once she developed a crush on this much older guy "Leonard". She took me to the diner where he was a short order cook or something, and he was a flaming nelly. He hated me on sight (meow! hiss!).

Then she crushed on a guy a couple blocks away named James. He was plump and blond and lisped. If you asked him anything about his absent father, he'd get angry and chase after you.

Years later I saw her wedding pics in the small town rag and she married a fish-lipped guy who looked a lot like director Todd Solondz.

She died of ovarian cancer.

by feminine lesreply 11612/10/2013

[quote] If you asked him anything about his absent father, he'd get angry and chase after you.

What are you both, 12?

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by feminine lesreply 11912/23/2013

"Women often think of fully masculine gay/bi men who are attractive as a 'waste.'"

Well, R86, that's the same thing some straight men think about some gay women they find attractive-- a 'waste.'

by feminine lesreply 12012/23/2013

yeah, women get very upset to see a masculine goodlooking gay dude. It is very disturbing to them.

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by feminine lesreply 12210/12/2014

The only thing that gets women very upset is when someone else finishes the bag of Doritos.

by feminine lesreply 12310/15/2014

R121, i think that women are more jealous of other women. They would feel less upset if their man cheated them with another man. With a woman, it would be poignant.

by feminine lesreply 12410/15/2014

Not really, dude

by feminine lesreply 12510/17/2014

not men

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