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My BF wet the bed last night

He's almost 50 years old. He took an Ativan to help sleep and did THIS.

I had to sleep on the sofa. I am DISGUSTED.

by Anonymousreply 8811/30/2014

As you grow even older, OP, and encounter even more unpleasantness and illness, more aches and discomfort, you may want to consider that relationships are about love.

by Anonymousreply 109/28/2013

Take him back to the shelter where you got him!

by Anonymousreply 209/28/2013

OP, honey, this is when you step up to the plate and say, "I'll do the sheets, lover."

by Anonymousreply 309/28/2013

Positively piggley!

by Anonymousreply 409/28/2013

A good huswife would have immediately washed the sheets, mattress pad and his pajamas.

by Anonymousreply 509/28/2013

R5 is spot-on.

How old are YOU OP??

by Anonymousreply 609/28/2013

OP, pls try to be a better and more thoughtful partner going forward.

by Anonymousreply 709/28/2013

How long have you been together, OP?

by Anonymousreply 809/28/2013

Adult bed-wetting, like a lot of things most folks won't cop to, is more common than you would think. And it doesn't wait around for middle-age, either. Trust me on this.

A good investment to consider is a moisture-resistant mattress pad. They're very effective and far better than they used to be in years past-mine is perfectly quiet and has no heat build-up. They're a good idea anyway, as urine isn't the only (ahem)contaminant your mattress is at risk from. Chuck it in with your whites and bleach and all's well.

Don't wait until it happens to you..

by Anonymousreply 909/28/2013


No dear, it must be moisture-PROOF or it will get into the mattress. Gross. There has to be a complete barrier and that usually means some sort of plastic or rubber that does get hot and make crinkling noises when you move. Oh well.

The main reason most healthy adults who aren't 80+ y/o wet the bed is because they are either black out drunk or have taken drugs, including sleep aids.

by Anonymousreply 1009/28/2013

I don't understand the problem.

by Anonymousreply 1109/28/2013

This is a serious matter, original poster. Hence, you may have to prepare yourself to take further action.


by Anonymousreply 1209/28/2013

You've sucked his dick and eaten his ass and a little piss on the sheets disgusts you? You're BF has a bitch for a partner. I'd piss the bed to if I was sleeping next to your sorry ass.

by Anonymousreply 1309/28/2013

I knew an exhausted 25 year old to wet the bed, no drugs were involved. Totally unexpected and it didn't happen again.

by Anonymousreply 1409/28/2013

Buy a plastic mattress cover.

by Anonymousreply 1509/28/2013

If you are "disgusted," then you are a piece of shit and I hope your BF leaves you. Seriously.

by Anonymousreply 1609/28/2013

I pissed the sheets at the Four Seasons in Bangkok after taking an ativan. My partner was cool with it but the hotel staff gave me the stink-eye for a week.

by Anonymousreply 1709/28/2013

If it happens once, it's a side effect.

If it happens multiple times, it's a sign of a more serious medical issue and your partner needs to go see a urologist. Immediately.

by Anonymousreply 1809/28/2013

Usually pisses in your mouth?

by Anonymousreply 1909/28/2013

As a bed wetter who finally grew out of it, I had incredibly patient and understanding parents. Plastic cover under sheet and daily washing. No criticism. I guess love or, at least duty and compassion, was there. It can be a problem in youth and old age.

by Anonymousreply 2009/28/2013

With a partner like OP, it's no wonder the BF needs Ativan.

by Anonymousreply 2109/28/2013

R17, Jeremy! Is that you?

by Anonymousreply 2209/28/2013

Fine then, R10 Dahlink.."PROOF". Mine is moisture-proof, but it doesn't feature any of the annoyances you and I both described.

I won't pretend to posess sufficient medical knowledge to state with assurance exactly why adults wet the bed, but chronic, life-long insomnia was a large part of my problem. As early morning came around, I'd be too exhausted to be roused in time by the urge to go. An M.D. pal of mine told me that starchy foods too close to bedtime and/or coffee consumption aggravate the problem. Something about insulin levels dropping as you sleep and your tissues releasing fluids? Again, I can't be certain And caffeine is a suspected diuretic.

At any rate, I am happy with the mattress pad. It's insurance against many kinds of mishaps.

by Anonymousreply 2309/28/2013

My brother wet the bed as a kid. My parents didn't make a big deal out of it. He seemed to grow out of it. He has had a few isolated instances of it as an adult. Usually after drinking too much.

by Anonymousreply 2409/28/2013


by Anonymousreply 2509/28/2013

Gadzooks, if some old geriatric pissed in my bed, I'd leap up and piss on THEM.

The nerve by golly

by Anonymousreply 2609/28/2013

Was he drunk? I only wet the bed when I'm drunk.

by Anonymousreply 2709/28/2013


by Anonymousreply 2809/28/2013

Feed him some pineapple, break his hymen with your fingers, hit him over the head and finish him off with a garrotte!

by Anonymousreply 2909/28/2013

Wasn't there an afternoon special about this topic?

The climax is that the young man runs away to a mattress store, falls asleep on one of the displays, and soils it.

by Anonymousreply 3009/28/2013

Hang the sheet out the window so all of his friends can see.

by Anonymousreply 3109/28/2013

Better get grampa some Depends, OP.

by Anonymousreply 3209/28/2013

Drop him off at Sunrise, OP

by Anonymousreply 3309/28/2013

Rub his face in the sheets while screaming "dirty boy! dirty boy!".

by Anonymousreply 3409/28/2013

You'll need some oranges and a tube sock...

by Anonymousreply 3509/28/2013

I have urge incontinence, to the point that I have to wear a pad when I'm out of the house. Lately, though, it's getting harder to hold my urine during the night. I wake up and it's already coming out and it's incredibly hard to stop the flow.

I have 3-4 waterproof pads that I rotate, that lay on top of the sheets. I also have a large waterproof mattress pad directly on top of the mattress, as backup. I've been experimenting with those disposable chux pads, but they move and bunch up too much.

Oh, the body... she do betray ye.

by Anonymousreply 3609/28/2013

This can be a useful opportunity to administer corrective discipline, although I caution you about becoming overenthusiastic.

by Anonymousreply 3709/28/2013

A long term relationship implies changing sheets and lovingly handling your partner's overflowing diapers.

by Anonymousreply 3809/28/2013

How old are you, r36? I'm wondering how much longer I will have control.

by Anonymousreply 3909/28/2013

What piss poor excuse to break up with him,op!

by Anonymousreply 4009/28/2013

Whisper in his ear as he is falling asleep: "Shady Pines, Ma!"

He will get the picture.

by Anonymousreply 4109/28/2013

Pissy sissies

by Anonymousreply 4209/28/2013

Urine trouble now!

by Anonymousreply 4309/28/2013

It happens.

by Anonymousreply 4409/28/2013

He's such a fucking dick. FUCK HIM

by Anonymousreply 4509/28/2013

I love R27:)

by Anonymousreply 4609/28/2013

Too bad you weren't lying there with your silly mouth open, OP.

by Anonymousreply 4709/28/2013

Best. Thread. Ever.

by Anonymousreply 4809/28/2013

I bet I can guess what was on his iPod!

by Anonymousreply 4909/28/2013

(R21) Love it. & OP--your partner is 50.He maybe having prostate issues. I love my partner so i'd drag him to get a check-up & not worry about a little piss on the sheets !!

by Anonymousreply 5009/28/2013

[quote]Wasn't there an afternoon special about this topic?

"Mother, May I Soil the Linens?"

by Anonymousreply 5109/28/2013

Are you no longer curious yellow?

by Anonymousreply 5209/28/2013

Are you dating zombie Michael Landon?

by Anonymousreply 5309/28/2013

My ex BF used to sleep walk piss. He once came into our home office where I was seated at the desk, pulled the monster from his pajamas and targeted the waste basket. He then returned to bed without a word. Remembered nothing the next day. He did something similar during a party that went into the wee hours only that time in a corner of the kitchen.

Piss happens.

by Anonymousreply 5409/28/2013

(R54) Could your BF be an alcoholic ? Because that sounds like a black-out

by Anonymousreply 5509/28/2013

I'm a 38 year old man and over he last summer I wet my twice. The first time was just out of the blue. The second time I remember dreaming that I had to pee and then I woke up! It hasn't happened again but I'm pretty sure the first instance was also because of dreaming about peeing. Now I make a point to pee before going to bed and have experienced it again.

by Anonymousreply 5609/28/2013

R44 No he doesn't drink - never did. He's a health nut.

He claims he doesn't do it anymore but how can he be sure? I worried he'd fall off a balcony or down the stairs.

by Anonymousreply 5709/28/2013

R54's BF is probably not an alcoholic, R55. It can be a part of sleep walking. I used to sleep walk when I was young, and one time I went outside and took a piss off of the porch. I went back to bed and never realised what I had done. My da followed me outside to make sure I didn't do anything dangerous. I also used to sleep eat occasionally, too.

by Anonymousreply 5809/28/2013

When I have to pee whilst asleep I often dream that I have a bladder infection, because I keep dreaming that I have already peed but I still have to. The worst was when I dreamt that I was standing in front of the toilet and I actually started to go. I woke up immediately and stopped myself before I totally wet myself.

by Anonymousreply 5909/28/2013

Piss. Never. Happened.

by Anonymousreply 6009/28/2013

Try pelvic floor exercises; might ameliorate the problem.

by Anonymousreply 6109/28/2013

[quote] The worst was when I dreamt that I was standing in front of the toilet and I actually started to go. I woke up immediately and stopped myself before I totally wet myself.

I have that dream too and I'm afraid I'm going to pee my bed one night

by Anonymousreply 6209/28/2013

Who's giving him Ativan for insomnia? I don't think that's appropriate.

If it happens more than once or twice, he should sleep with one of those disposable chux pads under him. Or Depends.

by Anonymousreply 6309/28/2013

I Love R63 :)

by Anonymousreply 6409/28/2013

He pissed at a cocktail party, r53? Maybe he is becoming possessed.

by Anonymousreply 6509/29/2013

I took an Ambien once and did the same thing. Shit happens, OP. No reason to put Old Yeller down just yet.

by Anonymousreply 6609/29/2013

Pick up some puppy pads at the PetSmart.

by Anonymousreply 6709/29/2013

(R58) Yea, I guess it could be a number of things. But my ex-brother-in-law is a raging alcoholic & would black out, walk around naked, piss anywhere & eat...I guess it's really not the samething.

by Anonymousreply 6809/29/2013

Thank you, R10. What is it about you wussies that won't allow you to try to sleep without a drug? Grow up.

by Anonymousreply 6909/29/2013

Careful. There is still potential that he might turn into a serial killer! Watch out for him torturing small animals next.

by Anonymousreply 7009/29/2013

People who have an exaggerated horror of body functions or physical problems (such as tooth decay) are themselves disgusting to me.

by Anonymousreply 7109/29/2013

R71 is toothless and smells funny

by Anonymousreply 7209/29/2013

[quote]My BF wet the bed last night

Wow. Now THAT'S a lot of pre-cum.

by Anonymousreply 7309/29/2013

R72 is mentally and morally challenged. Probably an unsuccessful lawyer.

by Anonymousreply 7409/29/2013

I've peed the bed a little bit several times in the past few years.

It has ALWAYS happened when I dreamed that I had to piss, and in the dream I would sit on the toilet (I'm a chick) and next thing I know, I wake up and I'm peeing.

But I've gotten better at recognizing when I'm dreaming, and now usually manage to wake myself up if I need to pee in a dream.

by Anonymousreply 7509/29/2013

What if you dream that you have to make a doodie??

by Anonymousreply 7609/29/2013

OP = part of the reason his boyfriend needs an Ativan to help sleep

by Anonymousreply 7709/29/2013

Bet wetting can be a sign of undiagnosed diabetes.

by Anonymousreply 7809/29/2013

Pretty sure that it is peeing while you are asleep that causes you to dream about peeing.

Not dreaming about peeing causing you to pee the bed.

by Anonymousreply 7909/29/2013

hahahaha that is hilarious!!!

by Anonymousreply 8009/29/2013

OP, wait until he begins shitting the sheets at night. Time for I-Just-Crapped-My-Pants diapers.

by Anonymousreply 8109/29/2013

Who does that?! I haven't wet the bed since I was a young child. Sent him to the Island of Misfit Toys.

by Anonymousreply 8209/29/2013

Thanks R63 you made me realize our sex life is officially fucking OVER.

I can't give a blowjob to a dude who has to lay in a diaper. I love my BF more than anything. I'm not going to leave him over it...but the thrill is gone!

by Anonymousreply 8309/30/2013

I dreamed that I was on the toilet and I made the most amazing bm in the shape of a Jimmy Choo shoe in the bed!

by Anonymousreply 8409/30/2013

at least you have a bf

by Anonymousreply 8509/30/2013

For richer or poorer, for better or worse.

Deal with it

by Anonymousreply 8610/01/2013

I have dreams where I have to go to the bathroom, try to pee but can't, and then wake up. I always have to run to the toilet.

by Anonymousreply 8710/05/2013

wow dude

by Anonymousreply 8811/30/2014
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