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What do you think the ratio of tops to bottoms is in NYC?

I moved here last year. I'm mostly a bottom, and I've found the pool of tops here is very small. And if your looking for big-dicked tops, it's is even smaller. Maybe that's just my experience, but every hookup site contains a ton more adds from guys looking to get their holes torn up than ads from tops. Can anyone offer a ballpark ratio? Just curious.

by Anonymousreply 3210/17/2013

OP just managed to be every tired stereotype of who gay men are in one post.

by Anonymousreply 109/21/2013

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by Anonymousreply 209/21/2013

Mmm, sounds like I need to move to NYC.

by Anonymousreply 309/21/2013

About 1 top for every 50 bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 409/21/2013

Sounds like OP will have a lot of time on his hands. Perhaps it would be well spent learning the difference between "you're" and " your." I assume that "adds" was a typo, since "ads" was spelled correctly later in the sentence.

by Anonymousreply 509/21/2013

Every citizen of NYC is a bottom. We're constantly getting fucked by the city.

by Anonymousreply 609/21/2013

I don't think about NYC. Ever.

by Anonymousreply 709/21/2013

You can't spell.

by Anonymousreply 809/21/2013

I don't get it. My last boyfriend broke up with me because I wouldn't bottom. He said it was a power trip on my part. I told him I just never liked it and it hurt. He said you just don't want to make yourself vulnerable in that way. I never knew I was in such high demand.

by Anonymousreply 909/21/2013

If you want to to attract a gorgeous top, then become a top yourself! Seriously!

by Anonymousreply 1009/21/2013

I really want a gay historian to write an article or book on when gay men became obsessed with identifying as tops and bottoms, Then when exactly behavioral traits became associated with being a top or bottom.

It is like the ultimate attempt at heterosexual imitation.

by Anonymousreply 1109/21/2013

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by Anonymousreply 1210/16/2013

80% bottoms AT LEAST

by Anonymousreply 1310/16/2013

A decent top doesn't have to bother with hook-up ads, OP.

by Anonymousreply 1410/16/2013

They actually surveyed this, and I think Chicago had the most tops, and LA the most bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 1510/16/2013

NYC is 95% bottoms.

Thus, NYC has over 400 rentboys/escorts in the NYC area.

by Anonymousreply 1610/16/2013

[quote]because I wouldn't bottom... I never knew I was in such high demand.

True tops are in demand, R9. Not bottoming is NOT the same as being a top.

by Anonymousreply 1710/16/2013

what r4 said.

by Anonymousreply 1810/16/2013

[quote]but every hookup site contains a ton more adds from guys looking to get their holes torn up than ads from tops

You go to New York and still use hook up sites? Don't you ever just meet you go about your daily life?

by Anonymousreply 1910/16/2013

The Bronx is full of tops.

by Anonymousreply 2010/16/2013

I remember an incident that illustrated how in demand tops are. It was outside a bar in SF. A very cute preppie twink pulled up in a Benz convertible and went into the bar. He came out 5 mins later, alone. A grungy looking meth head, in need of a bath, cruised him while he getting into his car and said, "Take me home and I'll fuck you all night."

The guy said "Get in!"

And this guy looked like a serial killer.

by Anonymousreply 2110/16/2013

Exclusive top.

by Anonymousreply 2210/16/2013

When I lived in NY I seemed to only hook up with tops...who never seemed to want to use condoms and it was the EIGHTIES!

by Anonymousreply 2310/16/2013

Lots more tops in NYC than Philly, DC, or Boston.

by Anonymousreply 2410/16/2013

Tops are straight

Bottoms are gay

by Anonymousreply 2510/16/2013

Boy, I'm a big-dicked top (past his prime) and when I was young and hot in NYC, I kept running into fussy bottoms who kept thinking that someone better was just around the corner, if they'd just hold out. I got tired of the games, and so when I went out, I looked for guys who were obvious tourists (love the brits and the aussies) or who wren't so obviously good-looking/hot. Great times were had by all, and the common comment from my partners was "I can't believe you picked me!"

From what I can tell, those fussy guys are still waiting...

by Anonymousreply 2610/16/2013

Top and bottom are so last century. You need to get with the times. Plus, every top is another man's bottom. Our sexuality is mercurial, not rigid and fixed like the straights. I personally don't fuck with strict tops or bottoms. They're too caught up in the straight paradigm.

by Anonymousreply 2710/16/2013

Are you a lesbian R27? Some guys don't like to take it up the ass. It has nothing to do with politics or power trips. They just...don'

by Anonymousreply 2810/16/2013

It may have had to do with you using terms like "fussy," R26.

by Anonymousreply 2910/17/2013

They are all bottoms!

by Anonymousreply 3010/17/2013

Boston is bottom city. Even the ugliest, fattest, oldest nastiest tops get laid non-stop because of the dearth of tops.

by Anonymousreply 3110/17/2013

R10 is right.

I went through a bottom phase a few years back and every hot guy I met back then was also a bottom. Now, I attract hot tops all the time, except I have no interest in bottoming at this point in my life. I think most hot tops want the challenge of topping a top. It's also hot to team up with another top. Two great tops=feeling like a God since that's the fantasy of every bottom. I also get really gorgeous bottoms now.

Also, when you're a top, on a scale from 1-10, you can be a 5-7 looks-wise, and attract 9/10's. Whereas if you're a bottom, even if you're a 9, you realize all the other 9's are bottoms too. Tops don't have to try as hard to look good as bottoms do.

by Anonymousreply 3210/17/2013
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