I moved here last year. I'm mostly a bottom, and I've found the pool of tops here is very small. And if your looking for big-dicked tops, it's is even smaller. Maybe that's just my experience, but every hookup site contains a ton more adds from guys looking to get their holes torn up than ads from tops. Can anyone offer a ballpark ratio? Just curious.
What do you think the ratio of tops to bottoms is in NYC?
|by Anonymous||reply 32||10/17/2013|
OP just managed to be every tired stereotype of who gay men are in one post.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||09/21/2013|
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|by Anonymous||reply 2||09/21/2013|
Mmm, sounds like I need to move to NYC.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||09/21/2013|
About 1 top for every 50 bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||09/21/2013|
Sounds like OP will have a lot of time on his hands. Perhaps it would be well spent learning the difference between "you're" and " your." I assume that "adds" was a typo, since "ads" was spelled correctly later in the sentence.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||09/21/2013|
Every citizen of NYC is a bottom. We're constantly getting fucked by the city.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||09/21/2013|
I don't think about NYC. Ever.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||09/21/2013|
You can't spell.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||09/21/2013|
I don't get it. My last boyfriend broke up with me because I wouldn't bottom. He said it was a power trip on my part. I told him I just never liked it and it hurt. He said you just don't want to make yourself vulnerable in that way. I never knew I was in such high demand.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||09/21/2013|
If you want to to attract a gorgeous top, then become a top yourself! Seriously!
|by Anonymous||reply 10||09/21/2013|
I really want a gay historian to write an article or book on when gay men became obsessed with identifying as tops and bottoms, Then when exactly behavioral traits became associated with being a top or bottom.
It is like the ultimate attempt at heterosexual imitation.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||09/21/2013|
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|by Anonymous||reply 12||10/16/2013|
80% bottoms AT LEAST
|by Anonymous||reply 13||10/16/2013|
A decent top doesn't have to bother with hook-up ads, OP.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||10/16/2013|
They actually surveyed this, and I think Chicago had the most tops, and LA the most bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||10/16/2013|
NYC is 95% bottoms.
Thus, NYC has over 400 rentboys/escorts in the NYC area.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||10/16/2013|
[quote]because I wouldn't bottom... I never knew I was in such high demand.
True tops are in demand, R9. Not bottoming is NOT the same as being a top.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||10/16/2013|
what r4 said.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||10/16/2013|
[quote]but every hookup site contains a ton more adds from guys looking to get their holes torn up than ads from tops
You go to v.gay New York and still use hook up sites? Don't you ever just meet people...as you go about your daily life?
|by Anonymous||reply 19||10/16/2013|
The Bronx is full of tops.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||10/16/2013|
I remember an incident that illustrated how in demand tops are. It was outside a bar in SF. A very cute preppie twink pulled up in a Benz convertible and went into the bar. He came out 5 mins later, alone. A grungy looking meth head, in need of a bath, cruised him while he getting into his car and said, "Take me home and I'll fuck you all night."
The guy said "Get in!"
And this guy looked like a serial killer.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||10/16/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 22||10/16/2013|
When I lived in NY I seemed to only hook up with tops...who never seemed to want to use condoms and it was the EIGHTIES!
|by Anonymous||reply 23||10/16/2013|
Lots more tops in NYC than Philly, DC, or Boston.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||10/16/2013|
Tops are straight
Bottoms are gay
|by Anonymous||reply 25||10/16/2013|
Boy, I'm a big-dicked top (past his prime) and when I was young and hot in NYC, I kept running into fussy bottoms who kept thinking that someone better was just around the corner, if they'd just hold out. I got tired of the games, and so when I went out, I looked for guys who were obvious tourists (love the brits and the aussies) or who wren't so obviously good-looking/hot. Great times were had by all, and the common comment from my partners was "I can't believe you picked me!"
From what I can tell, those fussy guys are still waiting...
|by Anonymous||reply 26||10/16/2013|
Top and bottom are so last century. You need to get with the times. Plus, every top is another man's bottom. Our sexuality is mercurial, not rigid and fixed like the straights. I personally don't fuck with strict tops or bottoms. They're too caught up in the straight paradigm.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||10/16/2013|
Are you a lesbian R27? Some guys don't like to take it up the ass. It has nothing to do with politics or power trips. They just...don't...like...it.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||10/16/2013|
It may have had to do with you using terms like "fussy," R26.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||10/17/2013|
They are all bottoms!
|by Anonymous||reply 30||10/17/2013|
Boston is bottom city. Even the ugliest, fattest, oldest nastiest tops get laid non-stop because of the dearth of tops.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||10/17/2013|
R10 is right.
I went through a bottom phase a few years back and every hot guy I met back then was also a bottom. Now, I attract hot tops all the time, except I have no interest in bottoming at this point in my life. I think most hot tops want the challenge of topping a top. It's also hot to team up with another top. Two great tops=feeling like a God since that's the fantasy of every bottom. I also get really gorgeous bottoms now.
Also, when you're a top, on a scale from 1-10, you can be a 5-7 looks-wise, and attract 9/10's. Whereas if you're a bottom, even if you're a 9, you realize all the other 9's are bottoms too. Tops don't have to try as hard to look good as bottoms do.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||10/17/2013|