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Is Matt Bomer feminine?

If so, how?

by Anonymousreply 34711/02/2013

The teeniest slap, he screams like a girl.

by Anonymousreply 109/21/2013

He's not more feminine than a lot of men who claim to be straight

by Anonymousreply 209/21/2013

It comes through loud and clear off set. I was actually surprised. We used to have this huge debate about Matt being a top, then we saw him and talked to him in person and, well...we figured it out.

by Anonymousreply 309/21/2013

He bruises like a chick.

by Anonymousreply 409/21/2013


by Anonymousreply 509/21/2013

Does OP look better with or without a wig?

by Anonymousreply 609/21/2013

I told him he walks like a girl, and he hit me with his purse!

by Anonymousreply 709/21/2013

I'd say he was more of a benign "dandy" than feminine.

Albeit a handsome, benign dandy.

by Anonymousreply 809/21/2013

I saw him play a celebrity football game with some dudes that were actual football players. You could tell he actually played football a lot before. He held his own as a jock. He even had jock swag.

by Anonymousreply 909/21/2013

he looks smashing in a caftan

by Anonymousreply 1009/21/2013

Too much makeup there r8.

by Anonymousreply 1109/21/2013

If Bomer is not feminine then which famous guys are and why?

by Anonymousreply 1209/21/2013

He is very good looking. I would say he has fine features than feminine ones.

by Anonymousreply 1309/21/2013

Do you think R12 is a drag queen or just a femmy guy?

by Anonymousreply 1409/21/2013

He is not feminine. But I agree that he is a little bit dandy.

by Anonymousreply 1509/22/2013

absolutely fem. i clocked her, the minute she opened her mouth.

i'm guess that miss bomer thinks she can "pass" as straight, but she's quite fooling herself.

by Anonymousreply 1609/22/2013

[quote]i'm guess that miss bomer thinks she can "pass" as straight, but she's quite fooling herself.

This doesn't even make sense, let alone the whole Oh, Dearness of it.

by Anonymousreply 1709/22/2013

R16 What do you want to tell us? That Bomer is a lesbian?

by Anonymousreply 1809/22/2013

Crazy eyes Boomer is a wild ass ride. Very sweet guy, not feminine. We enjoyed him.

Colton Haynes was more girly and pushy. Things got a bit rough.

by Anonymousreply 1909/22/2013

R19 More details. When, where, how? Bottom, top, versatile? Details.

by Anonymousreply 2009/22/2013

Matt Bomer could become a beautiful woman with the right wig, makeup and clothes. He could even pass. But if he passes me, I will pick him up in my van.

by Anonymousreply 2109/22/2013

Yes, please, R19. It'll no doubt be an Extremely Scintillating Tale. Or maybe Tail.

by Anonymousreply 2209/22/2013

[quote] More details. When, where, how? Bottom, top, versatile? Details

Serious, R20? Bomer is the BOTTOMIEST bottom that ever bottomed.

by Anonymousreply 2309/23/2013

Top acting Matt Bomer needs to come out as bottom.

by Anonymousreply 2409/23/2013

[all posts by flame bait troll #11 removed (violent racist homophobic right-wing misogynist), ISP notified with full text of all posts.]

by Anonymousreply 2509/23/2013

Does OP wear a feather boa to work?

by Anonymousreply 2609/23/2013

R23 Some people claimed that he is versatile. He might be bottom with exclusive tops.

by Anonymousreply 2709/23/2013

So that's saying that he's an overrated bottom?

by Anonymousreply 2809/23/2013

Matt is half feminine. On his mother's side.

by Anonymousreply 2909/23/2013

He is a rough top who only fucks butch gays!

by Anonymousreply 3009/23/2013

He's a regular Twinkie.

by Anonymousreply 3109/23/2013

OP,suck a camel`s cock!

by Anonymousreply 3209/23/2013

Isn't Colfer actually supposed to be a rough top?

by Anonymousreply 3309/23/2013

Oh for fuck's sake.

by Anonymousreply 3409/23/2013

Dude's a chick.

by Anonymousreply 3509/23/2013

I've met Bomer. On the one hand, he's not the least bit "feminine." On the other hand, I don't see how any gay man with reasonably well-functioning gaydar could possibly avoid getting an immediate RED ALERT after 30 seconds of conversation with him. He's not "nelly" per se ... he's just clearly not heterosexual, at least when he isn't putting up some sort of front (and he wasn't when I met him - and btw this was after he and Simon were basically married but before he came out publicly). It's a little hard to explain, I guess, but the descriptor of him being a "dandy" pretty much fits.

As for this top/bottom bullshit: please. It's 2013. Why some of you still insist on placing such rigid labels on someone's position preference is fucking ridiculous - equally as bad as some clueless straight asshole asking a gay couple "which one of them is the wife."

by Anonymousreply 3609/23/2013

R36, clearly you aren't acquainted with the Feminine Features Troll. Play along.

by Anonymousreply 3709/23/2013

I'm a bi woman and don't think he's feminine at all. He does have this metrosexual look. Maybe some people tend to see femininity in him because he's as beautiful as a woman. His features aren't rugged and they are quite perfect.

Anyway, he's stunning.

by Anonymousreply 3809/23/2013

Forgot to say something. Being on the DL for so long I tend to think everybody might be gay until proven otherwise but the only reason I first thought he might be gay when I first saw him was the fact that he was so incredibly beautiful! Prejudiced, I know but it turned out to be true.

by Anonymousreply 3909/23/2013

Call me old fashioned, but the only reason I first thought he might be gay was when I first saw photos of Matt and his then boyfriend on the beach.

by Anonymousreply 4009/23/2013

When he deep throats an 8 incher it's very feminine.

by Anonymousreply 4109/23/2013

r41 Simon, is that you?

by Anonymousreply 4209/24/2013

R40 Is his then boyfriend someone famous? When was that?

by Anonymousreply 4309/24/2013

[quote]Colton Haynes was more girly and pushy. Things got a bit rough.

Details, please

by Anonymousreply 4409/26/2013

Which beach pictures do you mean ?

The one with that ugly blue batic speedo or the one, when "he" is on the beach with Zachary Quinto. Because, if 2nd, I'm pretty sure that this was NOT Matt Bomer, but just someone that looks like him. Yes, I've been unsure a while, tto, but some parts of the body and face just aren't Bomer's. AND - Quinto and Bomer went studying at CMU at the same time. OK, that's no proof, they never had something going on, but I'd say they're just friends (may be with benefits from time to time, who knows ???)

And: There was an interview with Bomer at 2013 USA network upfront and he talked about some of his fav TV shows. Unfortunately he let his 'mask' fall down for a minute and you could see: Gay ! Bottom ! Sorry!

May be he might be in the top position in bed from time to time. But when you count "bottom" as more as a description to a sex position, but as a position in a relationship, then Matt is a BOTTOM.

by Anonymousreply 4509/27/2013

Maxima is that you?

by Anonymousreply 4609/27/2013

In real life? I have no idea. He doesn't come across as especially feminine onscreen.

by Anonymousreply 4709/27/2013

R12, I personally consider the baseball player Anthony Recker to have a rather womanly body.

by Anonymousreply 4809/27/2013

Yeah, after passing a 4 years studies on a country's top drama school, that costs today about 40 grand a year and more than 15 years of acting experience I think, that one can expect, someone is NOT exactly the same person on screen than in real life !!!!

by Anonymousreply 4909/27/2013

In what ways, R48?

by Anonymousreply 5009/27/2013


by Anonymousreply 5109/28/2013

Hi R50. Well in my opinion, Anthony Recker's buttocks are of a womanly size and shape. I would recommend you check out some threads about him here, and you will see that Recker has an unusually large and prominent buttocks of the kind rarely seen on either gender, but especially rarely seen on men. The womanliness of Recker's buttocks is due to a combination of its essential roundness, its protruding shelf-like quality, and the sheer size of his butt cheeks. Hope this helps in some way.

by Anonymousreply 5209/28/2013

Matt Bomer vs. Colton Haynes post going down.....

by Anonymousreply 5309/29/2013

yes. He breast feeds all the children.

by Anonymousreply 5409/29/2013

R54 But his tits are so perky! Wouldn't that have made them slightly droopy by now?

by Anonymousreply 5509/30/2013

R 54

I always knew it: Matt Bomer is a marvel of nature. Breastfeeding! If someone can do it, it's Matt Bomer !

by Anonymousreply 5609/30/2013

It was his birthday yesterday.

by Anonymousreply 5710/12/2013

Love you Matt!

by Anonymousreply 5810/12/2013

It's so much "feminine" as "mild", unthreatening etc. Looks aside, he's the kind of gay guy teenage girls crush on.

by Anonymousreply 5910/12/2013

He looks gorgeous in this pic.

by Anonymousreply 6010/12/2013

Matt Bomer jogs shirtless to pick up 'White Collar' season 4 on DVD -- EXCLUSIVE VIDEO

by Anonymousreply 6110/12/2013

Kelli Ripa just said he was so gorgeous he could easily be a woman.

by Anonymousreply 6210/14/2013

He said he needs to lose 35 pounds for THE NORMAL HEART film.

by Anonymousreply 6310/14/2013

Why is Bomer so attractive to straight men and not gay men?

The no of tweets I've read from straight guys saying they would go gay for him is quite huge.

by Anonymousreply 6410/14/2013

Kelly, get in line. I'm picking him up first.

by Anonymousreply 6510/14/2013

He has lost 10 pounds so far.

by Anonymousreply 6610/14/2013


It's the docile quality he has.

by Anonymousreply 6710/14/2013

35 pounds? It was supposed to be only 25.

by Anonymousreply 6810/14/2013

Since Simon has taken up spinning, he is able to go an extra half an hour chasing Matt around the house with the paddle, so they decided to up it to 35.

by Anonymousreply 6910/14/2013

Halloween 2011

by Anonymousreply 7010/14/2013

Just watched it. He said 32 pounds, not that it makes much of a difference.

He doesn't look as if he lost 10 pounds already. The weight loss looks good on him. He should stay this way. When it's all over, he shouldn't try to get back all the 32 pounds back. Maybe 20.

He looked very relaxed. And it is the first time when he has shown picture of Simon and kids on any show. I guess they heard about the split rumours and wanted to deny them as soon as possible without making any official statement.

by Anonymousreply 7110/14/2013

I'm done with this world. That picture in r70. I just can't...

by Anonymousreply 7210/14/2013

Even though Mr Bomer is a Data Lounge icon, I had never seen him speak or act prior to his appearance on Kelly and Michael Lee this morning.

He is certainly very pretty, but I found him to be quite girlish. Kelly behaved as if he was sex on a stick...probably to garner favor with her BFF Andy?

by Anonymousreply 7310/14/2013

HIS EYES! WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO meh I need a new angle.

by Anonymousreply 7410/14/2013

Boardshorts ought to be outlawed, especially for someone as gorgeous as Mr Bomer.

by Anonymousreply 7510/14/2013

R75 Americans are prudes.

by Anonymousreply 7610/14/2013

That Halloween picture is adorable. (But where is the Womanly Hips Troll to point out that he's carrying his son on his hip, in a very womanly way?)

by Anonymousreply 7710/14/2013

Good God, can you ka-weens stop being obsessed with this shit for like 30 fucking SECONDS?

by Anonymousreply 7810/14/2013

[quote] Good God, can you ka-weens stop being obsessed with this shit for like 30 fucking SECONDS?

Hall Monitor Alert!

by Anonymousreply 7910/14/2013

Matt really takes his 'motherly role' seriously. The way he interacts with the kids when they all go out shows this. Carrying the kid on his hip looks a bit funny, but sweet at the same time.

I read somewhere that Simon is a Buddhist, and in buddhisim, roles in relationships are spelt out clearly. So maybe Matt doesn't mind being the passive one at home.

Cute family though!

by Anonymousreply 8010/14/2013

Simon is actually Hindu.

He couldn't resist a deity with six raised, open palms.

by Anonymousreply 8110/14/2013

[R80]: No, Buddhism is very humane and stresses that all sentient beings are equal, so it's not at all true that 'in buddhisim, roles in relationships are spelt out clearly'. Interdependence is emphasised, and so is compassion.

by Anonymousreply 8210/14/2013

Buzz and Woody! I always thought they had sex and now Halls Bomer confirmed yet!

The kids wanted Bomer to dress in Zombie Lunch Maid. He is playing mommy's role pretty damn well!

And look, he even got the hip for it!

by Anonymousreply 8310/14/2013

"Kelli Ripa just said he was so gorgeous he could easily be a woman"

Did she indicate in which ways he's like a woman?

by Anonymousreply 8410/14/2013

They read Datalounge. They read this thread and the locked Is Simon Halls suddenly single thread. Matt should do a drag movie, like Cillian Murphy did.

by Anonymousreply 8510/14/2013


Straight guys are so terrified that if they wear more revealing or form-fitting clothes or swim wear they will be perceived as gay....I'm surprised they just don't start wearing THESE again at the beach:

by Anonymousreply 8610/14/2013

"Why is Bomer so attractive to straight men and not gay men? The no of tweets I've read from straight guys saying they would go gay for him is quite huge."

Why, specifically, is that indeed?

by Anonymousreply 8710/14/2013

It’s probably impossible to maintain long-term (especially with kids), but the weight loss looks good on him. He looked unbelievably young on Kelly & Michael. I’d never have guessed that he’s 36.

by Anonymousreply 8810/14/2013

Botox, to get rid of the crying lines.

by Anonymousreply 8910/14/2013

R86 Why straight guys in Europe are not afraid of this?

by Anonymousreply 9010/14/2013


I should have specified AMERICAN men.

by Anonymousreply 9110/14/2013

Has anyone ever seen him with his friend Victor together? They're usually so cute and Victor is quite protective of Matt.

I just love how Matt likes being around these huge guys. He's even said that he felt comfortable filming Magic Mike because Joe was there. Same with how he talks about Tim Dekay

Such a baby!

by Anonymousreply 9210/15/2013


by Anonymousreply 9310/15/2013

Matt has no intention to play Christian Grey: “In case that’s not enough to convince fans he’s out, however, yesterday a source close to Bomer confirmed to Yahoo Movies that the blue-eyed thesp has absolutely no interest in the role. As in, none. As in, it’s not happening.”

by Anonymousreply 9410/15/2013

I actually want him to take on the role (if asked), because it will change perceptions about marketability of out actors in Hollywood.

He needs a major leading role and has everything required for it. The fact that he's a fan fav for this film, must have made the studios' execs pay attention to him, and his huge fan base.

Yes the book was stupid, but that doesn't mean that the film will be automatically bad. A well written script could actually save the it, and they could use a body - double for him when shooting the sex acts.

He should think hard about this.

by Anonymousreply 9510/15/2013

Whoever takes the role is going to be a walking punchline (probably for years), so I don't want to see Matt in the movie. Then again, if he were cast, Bret Easton Ellis would probably drop dead, so it might be worth it!

by Anonymousreply 9610/15/2013

I don't think he would need a body double.

by Anonymousreply 9710/15/2013

R97 Just in case he's uncomfortable.

by Anonymousreply 9810/15/2013

FOAD, r73!

As for r80, I have seen many straight men hold their kids in the way Matt is holding the little boy in that Halloween pic. Nothing "motherly" in the gesture. Why does DL persist in femininizing Matt?

by Anonymousreply 9910/15/2013

R98 I don't think he would feel uncomfortable doing those scenes. Have you seen the Dr. Love scene from Magic Mike? He had no problems grinding his junk in that woman's face.

by Anonymousreply 10010/15/2013

I get the feeling that Matt can be feisty if need be.

by Anonymousreply 10110/15/2013

Who has that video of Matt and Jessie (from Modern Family) at the red carpet of a certain event - I think the theatre production of '8' -being all so girly together?

That's when Matt's femininity really came through. He can queen it up like the best of them i'm sure.

by Anonymousreply 10210/15/2013

Is Matt being feisty? My palms got hot all of a sudden.

by Anonymousreply 10310/15/2013

R99, I don't think anyone is trying to "feminize" Matt but rather are asking whether people think he's "feminine" and why he is perceived as such, whether physically or in behavior.

by Anonymousreply 10410/15/2013

Very cute family pic!

by Anonymousreply 10510/15/2013

I agree with r99. How would you carry the child in a masculine way?

by Anonymousreply 10610/15/2013

Simon Halls carry a child in manly way, on his arm while Matt carries them like mothers do, on his hip.

by Anonymousreply 10710/15/2013

DL hate Matt because he is out and the women love him . Gay hate gay .Jealousy

by Anonymousreply 10810/16/2013

R108 Exactly!

Straight guys love him too, and he's not a walking stereotype - that also fuels the jealousy.

by Anonymousreply 10910/16/2013

Matt's feminine + masculine beauty is what makes him so attractive. He has feminine eyes, nose and lips on a masculine face.

Plus he's also very sweet but masculine at the same time

by Anonymousreply 11010/16/2013

Halls carries the children as if they are potential blunt-force objects.

by Anonymousreply 11110/16/2013

R110, I see nothing feminine in Matt's eyes lips or nose.

by Anonymousreply 11210/16/2013


by Anonymousreply 11310/16/2013

Don't forget, Matt's on Rachael Ray's show tomorrow.

by Anonymousreply 11410/16/2013

I honestly still think sth happened between Matt and Joe M while in college. I read in an earlier thread that Matt's friend Quinaz joked that he always thought they would do a sex tape together.

And the constant rumours about Joe's bisexuality adds fuel those thoughts.

I'm I the only one?

by Anonymousreply 11510/17/2013

Matts reaction when Joes dick was mentioned in a Magic Mike interview was quite funny.

by Anonymousreply 11610/17/2013

Interesting choices!

I knew he liked to tease men. Look at how Tim Dekay suffers in WC.

Sexual tension indeed!!!

by Anonymousreply 11710/17/2013

R115 R116 And Joe confessing to being super anxious to see Matt's dance routines when filming Magic Mike.

by Anonymousreply 11810/17/2013

You clean your cookies and ask the same thing in every Bomer thread, often multiple times.

Yes, they fucked. Does that make your fat frau fingers tingle with inspiration?

by Anonymousreply 11910/17/2013

R119 Yes!

by Anonymousreply 12010/17/2013

Rachel Ray interview.

by Anonymousreply 12110/17/2013


by Anonymousreply 12210/17/2013

Joe and Matt are buddies only.

by Anonymousreply 12310/17/2013

He is not overly feminine. By DL standards and practices he is a "frau" though. He is kind of dull and dresses weirdly suburban. Dad suits. Calculated maybe, but I get the feeling he is just a handsome guy who is not into being viewed as only that. He likes to talk about how the kids love quinoa and broccoli. Some y'all would label his life hetero-normative, while jerking off to a short gif of his soft plump ass in a thong. That is a bit womanly for all concerned.

He is a gay man, not hiding. Maybe he wears some better clothes in private life. He is a bit silk socks and no sex, and a bit absent minded himbo. No harm. No hunk. No shoulders.

by Anonymousreply 12410/17/2013

He looked good on Rachael Ray. I like it when he shared tidbits about the kids.

Did I see correctly that he and DeKay have producer credit on WC now?

by Anonymousreply 12510/17/2013

"Some y'all would label his life hetero-normative, while jerking off to a short gif of his soft plump ass in a thong. That is a bit womanly for all concerned."

What's womanly: his hetero-normative life, jerking off to a short gif, or his soft plump ass in a thong?

by Anonymousreply 12610/17/2013


I ain't takin' the bait.

You understood me the first time.

by Anonymousreply 12710/17/2013

r125 makes it sound like jerking off to a soft, plump ass in a thong is a bad thing.


by Anonymousreply 12810/18/2013

Apologies to r125. r124 is the crazy who thinks we should be deprived of round, plump asses in thongs.

by Anonymousreply 12910/18/2013

So is Bomer's soft, plump ass womanly?

by Anonymousreply 13010/18/2013

Has anyone ever seen Matt's uvula? Is it womanly? What are its features that you would describe as feminine?

by Anonymousreply 13110/18/2013

You saw it correct r125.

by Anonymousreply 13210/18/2013

Gif I hadn't seen of his ass in Magic Mike.

by Anonymousreply 13310/19/2013

Gif #2

by Anonymousreply 13410/19/2013

[quote]“Glee” creator Ryan Murphy admitted “White Collar” actor Matt Bomer is at the top of his list. “I love Matt, I think he’s a great actor and the fans want him.”

by Anonymousreply 13510/19/2013

[quote]Sweet! Ryan Murphy just walked in and gave big hug to Simon before sitting at their table at GLSEN awards. @loulou_grace 2 tables over.

by Anonymousreply 13610/19/2013

The dowry negotiations must be going well.

by Anonymousreply 13710/19/2013

So Matt wasn't at the GLSEN awards?

by Anonymousreply 13810/19/2013

R137 Doesn't Ryan Murphy need the blood of young children to stay youthful?

by Anonymousreply 13910/19/2013

R139, don't be ridiculous. Everyone knows that the baby's blood is used to summon Satan.

Though technically, in this case, Satan would use it to summon Ryan Murphy.

by Anonymousreply 14010/20/2013

R138 No, he wasn't. He is probably too skinny to show up in public.

by Anonymousreply 14110/20/2013

Ohh, my baby boy!

by Anonymousreply 14210/20/2013

Could he have really have lost that much weight in the week since all his TV appearances?

by Anonymousreply 14310/23/2013

Those TV appearances were pre-recorded. Kelly & Michael was recorded on September 5. Rachel Ray probably around the same time.

by Anonymousreply 14410/23/2013

Looking very thin. Losing weight for The Normal Heart.

by Anonymousreply 14510/24/2013

Oh, you fat (American) fraus. He does NOT look 'very thin', just thinner than before.

by Anonymousreply 14610/25/2013


by Anonymousreply 14710/25/2013

I don't think i'll watch that Normal Heart movie. Seeing Matt like that puts me off.

I just hope that this is not another one of Ryan Murphy's sick joke to destroy Matt's looks because he can't have him.

Ryan is a jealous BITCH. The fact that he said Matt would love to do 50shades and we know that's not true, struck me as odd. He wanted Matt to be seen as desperate, and then ridiculed for having lost it.

Can't stand him!

by Anonymousreply 14810/25/2013

sorry if i offended you @146. I should have said looking thinner than before.

by Anonymousreply 14910/25/2013

Don't blame Ryan Murphy. Bomer accepted the role a long time ago, even before he was out of the closet, when it was still going to be a theatrical film. He probably thought he was going to get an Oscar nomination.

He still might get an Emmy nom, although it's a longshot given that even Halls says he expects the movie to suck.

by Anonymousreply 15010/25/2013

How do you know that Halls expects the movie to suck?

by Anonymousreply 15110/25/2013

Why do actors destroy their bodies like this, just because of some stupid movie? If they're guaranteed an award like Tom Hanks, Charlize Theron and their Oscars, yes. But if not, like Matt, no!

Matt's acting is good, but it's his looks and fit body, that are getting him fans everywhere. The minute he loses that, that will be it for him esp with his young female fans.

They'll never giver him an award for acting so I don't know why he bothers. He should leave such roles for the not so cute actors like Gylenhall, Matt Damon, McConnaghey, etc

He's too beautiful to destroy his looks like this, and esp for a TV movie.

by Anonymousreply 15210/25/2013

Matt is no 16 on IMDb, wow!

by Anonymousreply 15310/25/2013


by Anonymousreply 15410/25/2013

"sorry if i offended you @146"

How passive aggressive of you.

Also, you have no idea what the word 'offended' means.

by Anonymousreply 15510/25/2013

[all posts by tedious troll removed.]

by Anonymousreply 15610/25/2013

He still looks great in that pic!

by Anonymousreply 15710/25/2013

R157 No, he doesn't!

Mcconaughey never recovered his good looks once he drastically lost weight, and Matt Damon swore never to do it again - his heart almost stopped.

Tom hanks even admitted to getting type 2 diabetes because of losing so much weight. So I don't know why Matt would do it.

I honestly used to think that Matt was smart because of his academic history and all, but of late I've had my doubts about this. For example when he does interviews for a project, he repeats the same answers to questions to a point that he sounds dumb.

And now losing so much weight for a tv movie just because his friend the director asked him, dumb! dumb! dumb!

by Anonymousreply 15810/25/2013

[quote] Tom hanks even admitted to getting type 2 diabetes because of losing so much weight

More like from too much cake.

by Anonymousreply 15910/25/2013

Simon Halls physically attacked an entertainment reporter!


by Anonymousreply 16010/25/2013

R160 Thanks!

I read here that his ex actually admitted to being hit by him several times, and I doubted it until now, eek!

Anyway, he does have a temper and is nicknamed 'The rottweiler' for obvious reasons.

Watch out Bomer!

by Anonymousreply 16110/25/2013

No but his buttocks are.

by Anonymousreply 16210/25/2013

R152 because he doesn't have options? This is the last role he took before confirming hes gay and ended his chances at other movie work.

by Anonymousreply 16310/25/2013

R162 True, he does have the juiciest tush. I just love how it shakes when he moves


by Anonymousreply 16410/25/2013

R163 You wish!

by Anonymousreply 16510/25/2013

"No but his buttocks are"

In what ways and compared to whom?

by Anonymousreply 16610/25/2013

R161 Thanks for the heads up, man!

by Anonymousreply 16710/25/2013

I wish Matt would promote his show WC more. The show is actually suffering when it comes to ratings, which is sad.

This guy would be very far now in Hollywood if he wasn't so private to a fault, even when not necessary. He's the most popular cast member on that show and would do wonders to it if he agreed to promote himself more.

We are always complaining that out actors don't get the same treatment as the straight ones, but fail to say that the out actors feel so special and expect Hollywood to come knocking at their doors. Hiding away and expecting people to remember you won't work. I'm not saying they go the Joe Manganiello route of unnecessary publicity, but at least remind people that you exist and have talent.

I was hoping that Matt would break that barrier but I don't think he has it in him to do it. With the popularity he got from the 50 shades fiasco almost fading away, I wonder whether he can still retain the fans he got, esp since he's such a recluse.

And now with this weight loss thing affecting his whole sexy look, I'm afraid for him.

by Anonymousreply 16810/25/2013

White Collar hitting series lows. Could be officially cancelled soon.

by Anonymousreply 16910/25/2013

White Collar is usually on in the summer and in the dead of winter when nothing else is on. It was a bad move to run it this time of year. I guess they thought Matt would bring in a bigger audience.

by Anonymousreply 17010/25/2013

R160, R161 Quite contrary now. Publicists are known as communication POLICE. I'm not surprised that Simon might have behaved so aggressively and he might have behaved more rudely with other media personnel too. But I think he has changed a lot since being with Matt. His way of handling things, tone of communication has become softer, not quite harsh anymore. Most publicists are still rough and rude but Simon has changed and his way of dealings things have become more "humane" from the perspectives of general people like us. I doubt he is capable of hurting Matt. And that incident of scratches, it either looks like an accident caused by a tree branch or their puppy. Do you if it was a domestic violence, he's stupid enough to allow the photos to be published? No.

by Anonymousreply 17110/25/2013

*Do you think if it was a domestic violence, he's stupid enough to allow the photos to be published? No.

by Anonymousreply 17210/25/2013

R171 is me R172

by Anonymousreply 17310/25/2013

The only way Lucky the dog could have caused that scratch is if Simon decided to use him as a blunt-force object.

by Anonymousreply 17410/25/2013

Looks pretty similar.

by Anonymousreply 17510/25/2013

The guy blocked hotlinking. So read the entire dog-scratch post instead.

by Anonymousreply 17610/25/2013

You are overdramatizing. Matt will gain the weight back and look as great as before. Matt McC looked like shit beforehand. And don't you think that TNH is a story that is somehow close to Matt And that's why he has chosen to do it. Stop with the ridiculousness that Ryan Murphy wants to ruin Matts look bs.

by Anonymousreply 17710/26/2013

Matt's new fans are not the type to enjoy a show like WC. It's too 'complicated' for them.

by Anonymousreply 17810/26/2013

I see that Bomer troll didn't get any better and still hears voices in his head and believes that Halls is talking directly to him through DL. Oh dear, you must be really important, no? (Maybe in your head)

Anyway, I wonder if Matt would accept the role in TNH if it was a TV movie from the beginning. It's one thing to lose all that weight for a feature and another for TV project. It seems that after it became a TV movie he really had no good choice. If he decided to continue with the project he has to lose the weight and potentially risk his health and losing his good looks, all of this just for TV. If he decided to leave he would get an opinion of primadonna who thinks he is too good for TV, especially if others, like Ruffalo and Roberts are still on. Of course they are not risking anything by doing it, but who cares. Everybody would jump on Bomer and laugh that he hoped for a career break and maybe an Oscar and now when there is no chance for it he is jumping the ship.

Whatever he decided, it was a no win situation.

So he probably just decided to stay hoping that maybe it will give some boost to his TV career at least.

But something tells me he would not take the role if it was a TV movie from the beginning. Probably most of actors would not decide to do it just for TV and would face the same dilemma, what to do, if things turned the way they did.

by Anonymousreply 17910/26/2013

R179 I'm just hoping that he doesn't overdo it (losing weight)!

by Anonymousreply 18010/26/2013

There is an interview where Bomer is asked if he thinks he would get an Oscar nomination for "The Normal Heart" (when it was still a planned theatrical release) and rather than at least feigning modesty, he says "From your lips to God's ears." That more or less tells you everything you need to know.

by Anonymousreply 18110/26/2013

Mark Sheppard's man crush on Matt is so sweet. He just admitted that (for the tenth time) at an event he was at today.

by Anonymousreply 18210/26/2013

R181 I just hate that he's doing this for some Tv movie that won't even reward him with anything. It will all be about Mark Ruffalo and Julia Roberts anyway.

McConnaughey just admitted to having health problems because of his drastic weight loss

Bomer is a fool for agreeing to do this!

by Anonymousreply 18310/26/2013

When WC ends, do we think Bomer will come to the Broadway?

by Anonymousreply 18410/26/2013

Which one, R184?

by Anonymousreply 18510/26/2013

R184 I hope not. He needs to star in big movies hopefully as a lead.

by Anonymousreply 18610/26/2013

There's only one the Broadway!

by Anonymousreply 18710/26/2013

Nice quotes from 'Mozzie' about Matt.

by Anonymousreply 18810/26/2013


by Anonymousreply 18910/26/2013

R181 All actors want an Oscar, no matter what they say. At least he is not faking some false modesty.

by Anonymousreply 19010/26/2013

"From your lips to God's ears" interview. He was all modest first.

by Anonymousreply 19110/26/2013

Awwwww. He thought he'd get an Oscar for acting in a Ryan Murphy movie.

by Anonymousreply 19210/26/2013

Very good interview.

You can see that he is joking a little bit about that Oscar and other awards thing. The interviewer was really pushing hard that subject, so what he was supposed to say. He just agreed and laughed about it.

by Anonymousreply 19310/26/2013

It's rather stupid to push the Oscar angle when the movie hasn't even been preview screened.

by Anonymousreply 19410/26/2013

That interview was from before the movie had started filming.

by Anonymousreply 19510/26/2013

Silly reporter.

by Anonymousreply 19610/26/2013

Well, what was he supposed to answer. The reporter meant to be nice but he made Matt really uncomfortable.

by Anonymousreply 19710/27/2013

Ugh. That photo posted a bit up-thread of Matt after all that weight loss looks like what he has lost already is PLENTY! I hope they are finishing filming that shit now, and he doesn't have to lose any more. He already looks quite sick enough in that photo.

by Anonymousreply 19810/27/2013

He said they will finish just before Thanksgiving. They will be filming for a week. So I guess they will not start filming earlier than about two weeks from now. Which means he is probably still going to lose more weight.

by Anonymousreply 19910/27/2013

He'll make a good wishbone.

by Anonymousreply 20010/27/2013

I hate [R200] for making me lauch.

by Anonymousreply 20110/27/2013

He is so [italic]over.[/italic]

by Anonymousreply 20210/27/2013

Happy Hallsoween!

by Anonymousreply 20310/27/2013

I'm afraid you're right:

WC has constant "low" rates. But USA network has low rates in general. The other shows don't run much better. I think they also have budget problems, too, because of less commercial income. So they reduced the budget of all shows and show more NCIS repeats. He has a seven years contract and maybe they'll give him a short sixth season to finish that show without loosing to much face.

Matt will loose his beauty soon. You can already see him getting deep wrinkles. Then he won't get much more offers after, neither TV nor movies.

Maybe even Simon leaves him afterwards for a newcomer babyface, that looks as hot as hell like Matt when turning 30.

Then Matt will continue live on the Hollywood's left over sale.

Loosing weight only worked for high class actors like Christian Bale or Tom Hanks. And " Xor Y is working on that movie, too" already didn't work with Steven Soderbergh's Magic Mike movie.

I just hope he stays healthy, eventhough he might ruin his health anyway when taking drugs after a time of no succsess.

To take that role was the most stupid decision to do for a man who is more or less defined by his looks and the fact he's gay (and people give a shit about his CMU Bachelor!)

But Ryan is a good client and friend to Simon and I guess he didn't want to dissapoint them.

I can see him praying secretly every evening: Please, God, please..if you exist......

by Anonymousreply 20410/27/2013

You're stupid. The Normal Heart is a great play.

by Anonymousreply 20510/27/2013

He's had a good run with the show though, hasn't he?

by Anonymousreply 20610/27/2013

Maxima, I love your name but your analysis is so over the top that even Matt will ROFL.

Matt is here to stay. Simon and Matt will grow old together. I am just keeping fingers crossed for a beautiful autobiography after the kids graduate high school at least.

by Anonymousreply 20710/27/2013

R206 he has had a good run and he should always be able to find some work based on his success with WC, but I sense from now on it will be largely gay roles or small supporting roles, or whatever work Ryan Murphy offers him.

Something like the new Sean Hayes show is not out of the realm of possibility.

by Anonymousreply 20810/27/2013

I think he'll have a Tom Wopat/John Schneider career. And that's only a bad thing if you want to him be a gay DiCaprio.

by Anonymousreply 20910/27/2013

I see him more as a Jameson Parker type. Or maybe Parker Stevenson. I forget which is which.

by Anonymousreply 21010/27/2013

Fisher Stevens?

by Anonymousreply 21110/27/2013

Fisher Stevens actually has an Oscar, so no.

by Anonymousreply 21210/27/2013

Did he buy it on ebay?

by Anonymousreply 21310/27/2013

Documentary Feature.

by Anonymousreply 21410/27/2013

"One night, Joanna was at a premiere party. She'd had a great conversation with Paul Schrader, who wrote "Taxi Driver" and directed "Patty Heart." But a publicist from LA, Simon Halls, refused to let her talk with his client, Skeet Ulrich. She really didn't care. She turned to chat with a friend. But then Simon Halls came over and said, "What are you still doing here?" Joanna joked, "I'm reading your client's lips." Halls grabbed her by the arm, pulled her through the restaurant, and shoved her out into the rain. Peggy Siegal, the venerable and not-to-be-trifled-with-publicist, ran after her and tried to get her to come back. Peggy said, "He can't do that! This is my party!" When Joanna came home and told me what had happened, I drove over to the restaurant. I was going to punch this flack out but by the time I got there, he'd left. We didn't write a word about the premiere and it was years before we mentioned Skeet Ulrich."

by Anonymousreply 21510/30/2013

That assssssssss!!!

by Anonymousreply 21610/30/2013

Joanna's lucky. Simon could have easily slapped her to the ground, in front of a room full of people, without a second thought.

It's happened before.

by Anonymousreply 21710/31/2013

I think it's strange we haven't gotten any pap shots of Matt, seems like there are usually a few when he gets back to LA and/or while WC is running.

by Anonymousreply 21810/31/2013

Bomer has clocked out of promoting White Collar for whatever reason (I have my suspicions), so there's no reason to see him papped and on the gossip sites.

by Anonymousreply 21910/31/2013

Maybe he doesn't want to get papped because he looks like death now.

by Anonymousreply 22010/31/2013

[all posts by tedious troll removed.]

by Anonymousreply 22110/31/2013

He also makes a great skeleton for our Halloween display!

by Anonymousreply 22210/31/2013

How did this become "the" Matt Bomer thread? "Noone" really discuss the subject of this thread.

by Anonymousreply 22310/31/2013

R219 This is a gossip thread so tell us your suspicions.

Is it his separation from Simon ?

No, please don't tell me about that Hallowwen picture breadcrump. The show was recorded at the beginning of september.

Simon was ALONE on GLSEN gala, he didn't go to the ALS gala of his death friend Kitty (10 years jubilee) and Simon didn't run rocknroll marathon on 27th.

I still say, they broke up !!!

I just ask my self why Simon kicked him out??? Usually Simon slapps the people until they do what he wants !!!

by Anonymousreply 22410/31/2013

Fucking speak English, R224.

And R219, that's bullshit. Matt did two morning talk shows to promote WC's premiere, which is the same as he's done for the past couple of seasons. If he's doing any less publicity for the show, it's because USA aren't bothering to push it because they're looking to cancel it. It's more likely he's doing less publicity because the show is finishing, and both he and USA know it, than anything to do with his personal life.

And R220 is quite likely on to something. I doubt Matt will go out much, if at all, until he's back to his normal weight. He may not be horrendously vain, but he has the natural vanity of someone who has always been beautiful, and it's extremely likely he wouldn't want to be seen (or possibly photographed) in public looking like he's been spending time in a concentration camp.

by Anonymousreply 22510/31/2013

Actually my thoughts were also that Bomer was not promoting WC because USA is canceling it, although a split from Halls is plausible.

by Anonymousreply 22610/31/2013

Can we speculate on who he'd date if he and Halls split up.

I'll start: The owner of that NBA team (can't remember which one), who came out two yrs ago. He's the right age and super wealthy.

by Anonymousreply 22710/31/2013

Somebody with very small hands. Maybe an amputee.

by Anonymousreply 22810/31/2013

That guy who's with/was with Tom Ford.

by Anonymousreply 22910/31/2013

I'd rather go for romantic: Lee Pace.

Or dirty: someone from the zachary quinto circle.

Or one of the actors from white collar set (I mean one of the guest)

by Anonymousreply 23010/31/2013

He's going to go for another older man with connections.

by Anonymousreply 23110/31/2013

Joe Manganiello

They actually briefly dated in college.

by Anonymousreply 23210/31/2013

[quote]He's going to go for another older man with connections.

You got it right. None of these actors would date Bomer. Lee Pace is not out, Zachary Quinto is into twinkie models, and Joe Manganiello is too ambitious to have a Matt Bomer's career.

by Anonymousreply 23310/31/2013

[R224], I assume you saw a list of the finishers for the marathon? But how do you know Simon didn't go to the ALS gala? It seems like it would be a big deal for him not to go to that.

by Anonymousreply 23410/31/2013

Jude Law is one a Simon's clients and had a movie premiere in London on the 28th. Simon could have been with him.

by Anonymousreply 23510/31/2013

Perhaps he was having the fat sucked out of his stomach, and inserted into his palms.

by Anonymousreply 23610/31/2013

Matt will definitely gravitate toward someone older, wealthy, and able to assist his career. His ideal mate would be Geffen.

His role as consort to DG would be largely symbolic: no, or very little, sex--at least with each other. They'd be like Vercase and his boyfriend who would line up a group of the prettiest young rent boys in Miami each night and take their pick.

In time--probably sooner rather than later--Geffen will kick the bucket and Matt could play the merry widow, eventually taking a young lover of his own to raise.

by Anonymousreply 23710/31/2013


by Anonymousreply 23810/31/2013

Oops. That should read Versace, not Vercase.

by Anonymousreply 23910/31/2013

Hey, wanna have a bite of Simon informations ?

His father is James M Halls, Professor of Radiology at USC. He comes from England, London, and went to Los Angeles later. Simon has his eyes.There is a picture of him at USC Radiology page.

Simon's mother or stepmother is named Melinda.

Simons father's income is estimated by an internet page between 500.000 to 1.000.000. $.

So, yes, Simon comes from England and comes from money.

Simon's son Kit is named after him (Christopher James Halls) and Simon studied at USC, too.

by Anonymousreply 24011/01/2013

R240 Wow, thanks for that. It's nice to get to know Simon's history for once. I figured that he was from a wealthy family because baby likes them older and wealthy (at least from what I've heard and can see).

Anyway, does Matt come from money too?

by Anonymousreply 24111/01/2013

So now you're stalking Matt Bomer's in-laws?

What a bunch of creepy fucks you lot are. No wonder he's so hesitant to reveal information.

by Anonymousreply 24211/01/2013

R242 Get off your high horse Missy, that info is public knowledge. And Matt's fans are hardly Bielibers or Twiherds.

Thanks again R240.

by Anonymousreply 24311/01/2013

I would hardly call that coming from money. Coming from money means the kind of wealth where you'd expect the kids to have a chunk of family money too. I never hear doctor's kids referred to as coming from money.

by Anonymousreply 24411/01/2013

R244 Enough!

With that income, yes he comes from money. Just because you hate Matt, doesn't mean you can just erase facts about his life, eish!

by Anonymousreply 24511/01/2013

I just want to say it took me 5 minutes on google to get all those informations.

I do have a job, a life, a family and hobbies besides Matt Bomer.

May be I know better where to search than others, but with a little use of brain every person could have figured that out. Those were all public informations in the end.

And looking at a picture of Simons dad, I was thrilled by the family likeness.

Coming from money: His father is around 80 years old and has that income and I guess he has had that income for years. The family also has a family trust (besides Simon's own family trust). I don't know anything about Simons grandparents, but I do know that NOT everyone could go for academic degrees after second world war in Europe, especially NOT in the in the class orientated British society.

Anyway, coming from money is of course a question of your personal point of view.

by Anonymousreply 24611/01/2013

It doesn’t matter how long it took you to find it. That you would even think to do it tells us everything about you.

And that others in the thread see no problem tells us everything we need to know about them, too.

by Anonymousreply 24711/01/2013

Actually I had read that Simon grew up in Canada, and the father's CV does show Canadian affiliations.

The super-intelligent, high-achieving father does not surprise me.

by Anonymousreply 24811/01/2013

Matt is hot. I remember when he was still somewhat in the closet (though an open secret like Wentworth) and he came in to read. Locked eyes with the dude - confirmed. LOL. So cute. I don't care if he's a little on the fem side (though in bed would order him to butch it up full disclosure) lol.

by Anonymousreply 24911/01/2013

Simon's father is indeed a high-profiled doctor and researcher. He is Professor and Chair of Radiology, Keck School of Medicine Chief of Staff, University Hospital Member, USC/Norris Comprehensive Cancer Center Medical Staff. As a doctor he does a lot of important stuff and fights cancer. So this impresses me indeed. And he has done a lot of research work. Simon's mother is married to her husband ever scince ( at least it seems like that). So I wonder where those violental tendencies, Simon is rumored to have, come from. Okay, you can become an asshole in every class or family, but the estimation for Simon being violent just decreased in my head.

btw: Simon's middle name starts with a J and his mothers middle name with a B. I haven't found anything about brothers or sisters.

by Anonymousreply 25011/01/2013


I guess you are one of those Saints who never read people magazine at the hairdresser and you are just at datalounge, to discuss epic philosophical topics. Human rights, children in know. You might failed to notice, but as the head of a research center Simon's dad is in press too. Ups. And he gets officially introduced at his universities homepage. ups. And he look exactley like his son and grandchild Henry!!!

by Anonymousreply 25111/01/2013

No, an esteemed doctor and surgeon was never a strict and demanding autocrat at home. Never happened.

by Anonymousreply 25211/01/2013

You are a fucking piece of shit for posting Simon's father's information here. You cunt!

by Anonymousreply 25311/01/2013

I agree, Maxima is a cunt, but her crazy writings make my heart smile.

by Anonymousreply 25411/01/2013

[quote]Okay, you can become an asshole in every class or family, but the estimation for Simon being violent just decreased in my head.

You must be American. Traditionally, the British have considered birching and caning to be punishments for the upper classes. In the US, corporal punishment is associated with the poor and underprivileged.

by Anonymousreply 25511/01/2013

I don’t pretend that I’m on DL to discuss deep, philosophical topics, douchebag at r251. But I understand the difference between gossiping about what a celebrity who put himself in the public eye chooses to reveal publicly, and tracking down the in-laws of that celebrity.

[quote] As a doctor he does a lot of important stuff and fights cancer. So this impresses me indeed.

You sound like an idiot.

by Anonymousreply 25611/01/2013

r242 r247 you sound like a hypocrite. why are you here? this is a gossip site. you seem like a person who openly berate people for the same things you do in private. what's your twitter handle?

r250 "So I wonder where those violental tendencies, Simon is rumored to have, come from."

'those violental tendencies' are made up RIGHT HERE ON THIS SITE.

so, let's see him.

by Anonymousreply 25711/01/2013

R255 exactly. Remember how Lane Price's father struck his adult son with his cane?

by Anonymousreply 25811/01/2013

First of all, this post by Maxima is going to Simon Halls. And then an IP search will be requested. Have fun with whatever piece of info you are posting in a public stalkers board for now.

Pathetic morons.

by Anonymousreply 25911/01/2013

And you weren't able to discuss that with an admin? That is poor !!!

Maybe an admin of this site is of the opinion that I overshot the market. Then they are free to delete this post or thread and I WILL RESPECT THAT and never talk about this again.

Maybe some guys think that this stuff doesn't belong here,okay, but I neither broke a law !!! (I did not hack!!! but just posted information I found on google) nor did I post defamatory statements like the Simon is an abuser troll (who is the one whose IP adress should be checked, if you want to start that game).

This forums rules do not forbid to post those informations. And the first person to talk to is the admin of this forum.

by Anonymousreply 26011/01/2013

R260 Sweetheart, ignore that troll and thanks for the tidbit on Simon.

This vapid troll is just jealous that she wasn't the first to discover and bring that information here, and you beat her to it.

by Anonymousreply 26111/01/2013

Did anyone else watch this week's episode of WC (S5E3)? Something about Matt's acting was just a bit off for me. I wonder whether he was going through something, or he is just bored with the series now.

by Anonymousreply 26211/01/2013

you did not show any respect when you pulled out the info and posted it HERE, the land of anonymous stalkers and trolls! why whine now? worried about your own privacy? you idiot. it's one thing to know something or found something and it's completely something else when you post info of a celeb's in-laws. i hope you are exposed cause i have a feeling you are the same person writing horrible things about Simon Matt and their family all this time.

Anyways i won't be wasting my time here anymore. i have real work to do in real life to make a real difference. spend your low life on celebs in-laws.

by Anonymousreply 26311/01/2013

I watched it, r262. I didn't notice anything off about his acting. In fact, I thought he displayed more range in the past couple of episodes than he has in the past couple of years, but maybe I'm still bowled over by the good job everyone did in the first two episodes. Can you point to specific scenes?

by Anonymousreply 26411/01/2013

I agree that things like these shouldn't be posted here. It's true that the info isn't difficult to find, and some fans (including me) have known it for quite some time, but wouldn't have posted it here.

by Anonymousreply 26511/01/2013

r253 r259 "You are a fucking piece of shit for posting Simon's father's information ***HERE***. You cunt!"

***emphasis mine

oh, i know your type. you are in the closet about the magnitude of your fanaticism.

you are *SO* curious about matt and simon's private life you are deathly afraid 'they' will put a stop on it and you will never find out anything new ever again.

so you talk/gossip/fantasize in private, over chat, dm's, etc. but if some poor soul on twitter or elsewhere report matt/simon/kids sighting you leach on them immediately and beg/harass them to tell you everything. of course since you're in the closet you will probably ask them to follow you and do it over dm's so outside world will not find out what a stalker you are.

well, boo-hoo for you.

p.s. i don't like people in the closet. to everyone else: whatever you find out post it here.

by Anonymousreply 26611/01/2013

R264 His scenes with Mozzie are usually ok but on this particular episode (esp in the beginning), the banter between them was kinda off. You could tell that he had just 'crammed' his parts and was just unleashing words without any emotion.

Also the chemistry between him and Warren Kole was so bad, it killed the vibe of the whole episode for me. Thank God he's back with Peter again.

by Anonymousreply 26711/01/2013


so you're coming here for new information but don't wanna share? well fuck you then.

by Anonymousreply 26811/01/2013

I am NOT the person who post shit about their family here like the abuser troll or one of the guys who makes the photoshop stuff.

Look on the description under the datalounge symbol that says: DataLounge get your fix of gay gossip, news and pointless bitchery. Look at the terms of use.

If you can't deal with that, you should indeed stay away.

I don't feel I did anything wrong. If I did, then I want to read that from an admin. I don't need education or rebuke from a guy that doesn't dare to post with a name.

I'm open minded and open for criticism. If the admins think I misbehaved, they are free to delete and I will never post this again here or in any other forum. You can tell them about my post if you worry sooo much about the Bomer - Halls families' privatesphere.

Anyway, all my informations were no secret, not sensitive and all public.

The only mistake I've made indeed is NOT to stay on topic. But I didn't want to open a new thread because I didn't thought these informations were that curious, new or spectacular.

by Anonymousreply 26911/01/2013

Simon is not some kind of a secret agent with Govt secrets to hide, he's the other half of a celeb coupling that not many people care about.

Any gossip about him and Matt will excite only their fans because there's nothing else to talk about when it comes to them.

Infact, they should be grateful that fans actually care about Matt and what's going on in his life. He's a celeb and this is part of celeb culture.

by Anonymousreply 27011/01/2013

R269 Excellent post!

by Anonymousreply 27111/01/2013

R249 More please!!!

by Anonymousreply 27211/01/2013

Everyone giving Maxima grief needs to STFU. Jesus.

by Anonymousreply 27311/01/2013

maxima, there you go. you said you "didn't want to open a new thread". You are the same person opening these crazy threads indeed.

by Anonymousreply 27411/01/2013

[all posts by tedious troll removed.]

by Anonymousreply 27511/01/2013

I need stories from fans who've seen Matt and hubby together holding hands, staring at each other longingly, hands on the waist,...... anything.

by Anonymousreply 27611/01/2013

for r276:

I briefly spotted Matt, Simon, and their three boys in NY not that, that long ago. I was in NY on vacation, and just randomly saw them on the street. There are no other words to use to paint their family other than precious. I only observed them for a few minutes from a decent distance, because I didn’t want to be that super creepy person staring at them like a stalker, or the paparazzi, but- I almost couldn’t tear my eyes away.

They have THE most beautiful family EVER. Pictures do NONE of them justice. I mean, how is that possible they’re even cuter in person?! Simon and their kids… Gorgeous overload. I can’t really describe it, but… Simon seemed… so regal in a larger than life way, and just super handsome in person. From the view I had, the kids all look like mini-Simon’s in their own way. The prettiness of this family cannot be stressed enough.

I know Matt’s the celeb, and this will sound odd, but Simon was really the one I found so interesting to watch. Seriously. I mean, he was doing so much, and he was doing it so seamlessly, for lack of a better word. I just remember walking away thinking… “I want a Simon!” Lol.

From a distance, he just seemed like such a caregiver, really attentive, and extra kind and loving but also protective. Simon was carrying the blonde twin, Walker, not Henry? If so, Walker was borderline death gripped to Simon’s shirt. Lol. Adorable the way he was holding on to Simon. Simon was also wearing some type of backpack that looked like it was filled with stuff, and it seemed as if Simon was holding Matt’s glasses, because Matt reached for them and used them for a second, at one point, and then handed them back to Simon, and Simon was holding and sharing a water bottle with Matt, and he had the darker haired twin, Henry? walking at an odd pace in front of him, and bumping in to him, and Simon didn’t even break a stride.

He’s definitely the epitome of the guy who can walk, talk, chew bubble gum, juggle, and never break stride or a sweat.

As a casual observer, from a distance, Simon just seemed to be really, really, really attentive to Matt and the kids, and also really cognizant of everything that was going on around them, protective, cautious, maybe, I mean, at least in the few minutes I observed them … and I can’t stress enough how kind and good he was to them. Any husband who shares his water with you, while holding your glasses, all while carrying one of the kids, and carrying a backpack full of stuff, and making sure one of the kids doesn’t walk too far ahead? WINS. Lol. You could hear Simon say, “Hey Buddy” when making sure Kit? the oldest one, didn’t walk too far ahead because he and Matt wanted Kit to stay close to them.

The twin with the darker hair, Henry, was fun to watch too, because he was trying to sort of slip away from Matt and Simon to keep up with Kit, who was walking just a few steps ahead, but he kept veering to the side when he walked, and Matt kept saying something like, “Hey Buddy, stay close to me,” and eventually, the little guy wound up holding on to Matt’s pant leg while they were walking, and Matt did not miss a beat and was not phased by the twin having a death grip on his pant leg, although Matt eventually reached for Henry’s hand to keep him with him, because Matt had to walk with a borderline limp to walk with Henry holding on to his pant leg. Lol. This family is just a whole bunch of super cute moments. And their kids were so good, at least in this little window I saw… If Matt or Simon said something… They did it.

The last little thing I saw of them… Simon stopped with Walker, it looked like he was showing him something, and after Matt made sure Kit stopped walking, Matt leaned his face in to the side of Simon’s neck for a second as Simon was showing Walker whatever it was, and Simon touched the side of Matt’s face with his really not so free hand, and then I literally wanted to “aww” all over the place, and then I also wanted to know how Simon juggles alllll of that. Lol. It was just all really sweet, particularly because I think we see a more guarded side of them as far as the public goes.

But, anyway, then I realized, I really was observing their private moments, and this was real life, not tv, and that if I moved any further beyond the few minutes of people watching of them that I’d already borderline creepily done, I really was going to be THAT girl borderline stalking them, and kept it moving, but for real, I could have watched their little family all day, and they are my new favorite celeb couple/family. There are no words for how awesome Matt and Simon are with their kids. And I’m not joking… I want a Simon. Need a Simon. Lol.

by Anonymousreply 27711/01/2013

Awwwwwww, I think i'm going to cry. Thanks R277

by Anonymousreply 27811/01/2013


You lost all credibility by describing Halls as gorgeous. He's not bad looking by any means, but gimme a break.

by Anonymousreply 27911/01/2013

[quote]From the view I had, the kids all look like mini-Simon’s in their own way.

Oh, dear.

by Anonymousreply 28011/01/2013

R277 didn't write the post, she/he is quoting from the link.

It is entirely possible, in fact probable, that Halls wrote that missive himself.

by Anonymousreply 28111/01/2013

R281 You're right. Especially the description of Simon being gorgeous and all.

Rgardless, i'll still wear my rose-tinted glasses and believe it because I want to so bad.

Any other fan stories?

by Anonymousreply 28211/01/2013

[quote] because I want to so bad.

Why? Is it a vicarious thing?

by Anonymousreply 28311/01/2013

The post at R277 also is reminiscent of the Halls-Bomer tumblr that posted private pictures of the kids from their school. The language was similar: Simon was handsome, regal, etc. etc.

That was also probably Halls.

I assume he was entering the "Roses's Turn" stage of the svengali-protege relationship.

by Anonymousreply 28411/01/2013

[quote] Matt is hot. I remember when he was still somewhat in the closet (though an open secret like Wentworth) and he came in to read. Locked eyes with the dude - confirmed. LOL. So cute. I don't care if he's a little on the fem side (though in bed would order him to butch it up full disclosure) lol.

R249 What part was Matt reading for? And did he strike you as being feminine when he came in to read?

by Anonymousreply 28511/01/2013

Who here has that pic of Matt and his bf Quinaz at an Olympics event?

If you've never seen Matt looking feminine, that pic is it.

by Anonymousreply 28611/01/2013

Got it!

by Anonymousreply 28711/01/2013

R286 R287 I guess you mean the thing with his hands.

But how does he present himself when he shows up to read for a part?

by Anonymousreply 28811/01/2013

[quote]and it seemed as if Simon was holding Matt’s glasses, because Matt reached for them and used them for a second, at one point, and then handed them back to Simon


by Anonymousreply 28911/01/2013

Seriously, I never felt so unbelievably ashamed and embarrassed of my own fandom before. I regret being part of it. His owns fans post gossips and anonymous shits here instead of considering to protecting or defending him. Never felt so ashamed before in any of my other fandoms. I am so fucking truly sorry for them and I hope neither Simon or Matt has time to read this crap here. I am just appalled that the Webmaster keeps this stuff going when these should be immediately deleted.


by Anonymousreply 29011/01/2013


Get yo' life, girl.

by Anonymousreply 29111/01/2013

[quote]Never felt so ashamed before in any of my other fandoms

FandomS as in plural? You should be ashamed.

by Anonymousreply 29211/01/2013

Oh honey, this isn't the fandom. This is the Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 29311/01/2013

Yes that is what I'm going to do now. I will go and have a life! Something that you all don't have here and are not capable of having either. Rot here with your trashy gossips while Matt and Simon are having their good life too.

by Anonymousreply 29411/01/2013

Who are you writing as me R 294?

by Anonymousreply 29511/01/2013

[quote] Rot here with your trashy gossips while Matt and Simon are having their good life too.

That makes me sad. Be your own Matt/Simon!

by Anonymousreply 29611/01/2013

[quote]That makes me sad. Be your own Matt/Simon!

But I don't want to scratch myself.

by Anonymousreply 29711/01/2013

Although there is photographic evidence of Simon holding Matt's glasses, that entire account sounds like the made-up delusions of a fangirl.

by Anonymousreply 29811/01/2013

Matt and Simon with the family at the grove

by Anonymousreply 29911/01/2013

He still looks very good.

by Anonymousreply 30011/01/2013

Thanks R299. I was really worried about his looks after the weight loss, but he's still yummy though a bit fragile. And I can't wait for him to fill those jeans again.


by Anonymousreply 30111/01/2013

He looks 10 years older.

by Anonymousreply 30211/02/2013

Simon, eat something daddy!

by Anonymousreply 30311/02/2013

[all posts by tedious troll removed.]

by Anonymousreply 30411/02/2013

lost the weight for a movie he is currently doing. The Normal Heart.

by Anonymousreply 30511/02/2013

Shit, Simon looks incredible hot! But Matt doesn't look that bad either. Other actors look worse after weight loss. He is natural beauty.

by Anonymousreply 30611/02/2013

No ring for Matt, but maybe its too loose now. They don't look happy, but may be it's because of the paps or the weather.

by Anonymousreply 30711/02/2013

Simon always looks grumpy. Has he forgotten that he's sleeping with the world's most beautiful man? lol!

by Anonymousreply 30811/02/2013

Crap, Halls looks SCARY. He looks like the one getting ready to play an AIDS patient.

Maybe they can suck the fat out of his stomach and put it into his cheeks.

by Anonymousreply 30911/02/2013

On the first pictures they look pissed, like they are going to the dentist. Soon after they see the paps, they get more space between them, but when Henry jumps into the picture both have a warm something in their eyes. Especially Matt looks sort of melancholic after his son. Maybe they pulled theirself together for a daddy date.

by Anonymousreply 31011/02/2013

[quote]Although there is photographic evidence of Simon holding Matt's glasses, that entire account sounds like the made-up delusions of a fangirl.

I'm convinced Halls wrote it. Fangurls are in love with Matt, not Simon.

As in "Gypsy", the Svengali, having watched the protégé achieve fame and adoration, becomes jealous and resentful.

"I MADE YOU! And you wanna know why? Because I was born too soon and started too late!"

by Anonymousreply 31111/02/2013

R310 The first pictures when they look pissed are after they already noticed paps. That's why they are pissed. They didn't try to get more space between them, actually they got closer. If you look at those pictures closely you will see that they are posted in reverse order to when they were taken. Pictures with Henry are actually first.

by Anonymousreply 31211/02/2013

R311 You would be surprised how many fangurls are in love with Simon. There are some crazies who call themselves fans, but really they care more about Matt being gay than about him being an actor. They follow almost every gay actor that exists and they swoon over boyfriends and partners of those actors even more than the actors themselves. I swear it's like some sort of crazy subculture obsessed about celebs sexuality. I'm sure that account was posted by one of those fangurls.

by Anonymousreply 31311/02/2013

r313 has it. A lot of those who claim to be fans of Matt spend all their time obsessing over Simon and how attractive and wonderful Simon is. When that Laura person got kicked off set, she even made a public post about how she might be done with Matt, but she still loved Simon and would continue to be a fan of his.

by Anonymousreply 31411/02/2013

When are they filming TNH again?

I just want to see Matt looking healthy again. The thought of him losing that juicy ass freaks me out.

by Anonymousreply 31511/02/2013

Thank you for the pictures, r299. They both look good. Matt looks older, but still very attractive, and Simon in particular looks ready to cut a bitch.

by Anonymousreply 31611/02/2013

The fangurls don't write like that. The "all three kids look like mini-Simons" gives it away. It's consistent with the Halls Datalounge postings.

Skeletor wrote it.

by Anonymousreply 31711/02/2013

Do straight girls really find this pair hot?

by Anonymousreply 31811/02/2013


by Anonymousreply 31911/02/2013

A subset of fangurls fetishize the power relationship more than they do the actual physicality. Pretty feminine Matt goes into fragile mode, and daddy Simon becomes so attentive and protective. This sends their frau fingers south.

by Anonymousreply 32011/02/2013

I like to see Simon's ripped body.

by Anonymousreply 32111/02/2013

Crazy eyes big time!

by Anonymousreply 32211/02/2013

Simons jeans there are the biggest tragedy...are those from 1992? Poor guy...doesn't make you Butch by "having no fashion sense." And the new balance shoes. Talk about a frau.

by Anonymousreply 32311/02/2013

I assume he leaves the belt unlooped like that for easy access.

by Anonymousreply 32411/02/2013

Let's reminisce. Skinny Simon in 1999.

by Anonymousreply 32511/02/2013


by Anonymousreply 32611/02/2013

Simon in 1989.

by Anonymousreply 32711/02/2013

So he dated Nathan Lane too? Gross.

by Anonymousreply 32811/02/2013

Getting back on topic (if that's possible): how is Matt Bomer feminine precisely?

by Anonymousreply 32911/02/2013

As r2 said: He's not more feminine than a lot of men who claim to be straight.

by Anonymousreply 33011/02/2013

r329 "how is Matt Bomer feminine precisely?"

he's gay. being male and liking males in *that* way is a feminine quality.

by Anonymousreply 33111/02/2013


by Anonymousreply 33211/02/2013

Simon looks like he spent some time in the gym, he looks great.

And it's nice to see them together, after all the rumours here.

by Anonymousreply 33311/02/2013

[R328] He didn't date him, he's his publicist.

by Anonymousreply 33411/02/2013

I wonder if they still use condoms when making love.

by Anonymousreply 33511/02/2013

Is Matt doing Kabbala ? Or what does that red bracelet mean ?

by Anonymousreply 33611/02/2013

Battered husband solidarity?

by Anonymousreply 33711/02/2013

Research for red bracelet:

a) Kabbala


In Hindu tradition, sacred red string bracelets are known as "kalava" or "mauli," which translates to "above all." Stephen Knapp, author, notes that the kalava is tied onto a man's right wrist and a woman's left wrist at the beginning of a ceremony. It is worn for and symbolizes blessings to the wearer. It also can be used in different rituals of worship (or "puja") to Hindu deities, and can be considered as goodwill to a person who offers it to another.

c)Tibetan Buddhism

Red strings are also associated with Tibetan Buddhism in traditional ceremonies of tying on holy cotton threads. According to an article by Sannyasi Shraddhamurti in the September 2008 newsletter of the Shraddha Yoga Healing Centre, in this ceremony, "This practice restores the natural order of things and brings people closer together." It is rooted in Hindu tradition and has been practiced by Buddhists for more than 500 years. During the ceremony, a monk lights the candles of a centerpiece and chants scriptures while guests hold a piece of thread tied to the centerpiece. Afterward, the monk and guests tie the threads onto one another's wrists. The threads' colors carry different meanings. Red represents bravery, white is for friendship, black for sympathy and yellow for faith. The belief is that the body and soul are firmly tied together.

d)support AIDS research

e)The red jelly bracelet says that the person is willing to give a lap dance. Many teenage girls wear jelly bracelets and claim that each different color holds a different meaning. Red means the wearer is willing to give lap dances. Orange means they are willing to kiss.

by Anonymousreply 33811/02/2013

R336 Looks like Kabbala bracelet. It's like a trendy thing in Hollywood. Madonna, Britney Spears, Paris Hilton, Lindsey Lohan wore it before. He was wearing an ion healing bracelet before. See the link.

by Anonymousreply 33911/02/2013

The link

by Anonymousreply 34011/02/2013

So I guess it simply means "support AIDS research" in this case.

Although some will probably insist that it means "ready to give a lap dance".

Anyway, R315 they finish filming TNH just before Thanksgiving.

by Anonymousreply 34111/02/2013

And I hoped so much for the lap dance thing.....

by Anonymousreply 34211/02/2013

[quote]In contrast, some Kabbalists have said red strings are a myth. The website for the Bnei Baruch Kabbalah Education and Research Institute, the largest group of Kabbalists in Israel, states that, "There is no connection. Red strings, holy water and other products are a lucrative commercial invention created in the past two decades."

by Anonymousreply 34311/02/2013

AIDS Research Support Bracelet:

by Anonymousreply 34411/02/2013

Kabbalah Bracelet:

by Anonymousreply 34511/02/2013

It's similar to Kabbalah bracelet.

by Anonymousreply 34611/02/2013

Simon is Buddhist, so I think it has something to do with Buddhisim.

Perhaps they even got married, and the bracelet/string symbolizes that.

by Anonymousreply 34711/02/2013
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