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Who did Sara Gilbert date when she first came out?

She talks about dating a "woman in the public eye" who was 18 years her senior, while she was still on Roseanne and supposedly courting Jonny Galecki. Who?

by Anonymousreply 10412/30/2014


by Anonymousreply 109/13/2013

No I don't think so R1. In the early 90s, after becoming a two time Oscar winning movie star Jodie was screwing any bi-curious actresses and models who crossed her path. Why would she bother with Sara?

In the Sara Gilbert thread we discusses that the Gogo's Gina Schock was likely the woman she was dating.

by Anonymousreply 209/13/2013

Who cares? Do we have a Sara Gilbert troll on our hands?

by Anonymousreply 309/13/2013

so far by age and time period, we have it narrowed down to Gina Schock, Ellen Degeneres and Sandra Bernhard. Based on Sara's personality, I think Gina would be more her type. Any other 18 year older-than Sara famous or semi-famous lesbians in the mid 90s?

by Anonymousreply 409/13/2013

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by Anonymousreply 509/13/2013

Gina Schock is the only one listed who's 18 years older than Sara. Sandra Bernhard is 20 years older. Jodie Foster is 12 years older.

by Anonymousreply 609/13/2013

Alright then it's Gina.

Thread closed?

by Anonymousreply 709/13/2013

Could still be Ellen, she's only 17 years older today but could be 18 years older later.

by Anonymousreply 809/13/2013

At the time of her coming out she was dating TV producer Alison Adler for 9 years already and they had two children ,a son (2004,by Adler) and a daughter(2007,by Gilbert).however,they split in 2011.

by Anonymousreply 909/13/2013

Did Gina date Sara after Jodie?

by Anonymousreply 1009/13/2013


by Anonymousreply 1109/13/2013

how did they even meet. schock is a closet case and gilbert was what? 20? how does schock come on to a kid almost 20 years younger. she could't just have gone to a gay bar or something like that. it's hard to date as a general closet lesbian but a celebrity? don't get it. especially without internet, cell phones,..

did she say how long they dated for?

by Anonymousreply 1209/13/2013

R12, Rosie talked to Andy Cohen about the 90s lesbian clique she ran with. It was Rosie, Ellen, KD Lang, Melissa Etheridge, and others plus Sara Gilbert. Rosie specifically mentioned that she was very protective of Sara and was like "hey you're just a kid, you shouldn't be here." So if Sara hung out with Ellen's clique, then it's an easy connection from there. Assuming Gina wasn't part of the clique herself, she was in a band with Ellen's brother, so Sara meeting Gina wouldn't be a stretch.

by Anonymousreply 1309/13/2013

I thought she was married to Leonard Daniels?

by Anonymousreply 1409/13/2013

Never knew Gina was a closet case? Seemed pretty open with Jodie Foster

by Anonymousreply 1509/13/2013

When was she open about it R15?

by Anonymousreply 1609/13/2013

Fuck fugly Sara, give us the dish in Jodie r15. Get back here and sit next to us.

by Anonymousreply 1709/13/2013

interesting where is that rosie interview? also, does anyone know how she met ali and what the deal is with her now? she doesn´t have a thread?

by Anonymousreply 1809/13/2013

Here's a clip about the lesbian cliques:

by Anonymousreply 1909/13/2013

R13 I always heard Gina hung out with Jodie's crowed and her own, never with Ellen and the rest. Ellen's brother has years of no longer being in her band by this timeline.

Jodie never hung out with Rosie, Ellen or Melissa but she should have going by your way of logic.

by Anonymousreply 2009/13/2013

Sandra Bernhard.

by Anonymousreply 2109/13/2013

Fine, then what do you want R20? Gina and Sara met somehow, end of story.

by Anonymousreply 2209/13/2013

Etheridge is kind of a ho...I totally wouldn't put it past her.

And they're both fug...hence the attraction.

by Anonymousreply 2309/13/2013

thank you for the rosie link, i had never seen this. how did they even set up these secret parties with no internet, cell phones and the likes? and how did 19yr old gilbert get there. sounds very interesting

by Anonymousreply 2409/13/2013

Gilbert is not Sara's legal surname. It is a stage name.

by Anonymousreply 2509/13/2013

gina is the only one who is exactly 18 years older, right? can only be her.

by Anonymousreply 2609/13/2013

What about Sally Hershberger?

by Anonymousreply 2709/13/2013

Lesbians in the entertainment industry never date women who work in other fields. They are very insular, cliquey, and image obsessed.

Counter that with gay men, who frequently date outside the industry, in fact, often preferring it.

Many women seem to get stuck in a perpetual adolescence, with backstabbing, snobbery, and rejection as part of their social habituation.

by Anonymousreply 2809/13/2013

it's an incestual hotbed of mostly unattractive women

by Anonymousreply 2909/13/2013

Oh you're full of crap R28.

by Anonymousreply 3009/13/2013

Because she's the only one to ever have 18 year old age difference to Sara?

What kind of logic is that r26?

by Anonymousreply 3109/13/2013

R30 sounds like Darlene herself talking.

by Anonymousreply 3209/13/2013

Janet Reno

by Anonymousreply 3309/13/2013

R22 just because they met doesn't mean anything. She knows Sandra, Melissa, Rosie and Ellen. The point in r20 is that it's a jump to say just because Ellen's brother was in her band years before it doesn't automatically makes it her. It could very well be but that's a pretty thin as evidence.

I have a hard time believing Gina, who is pretty closeted, being ok with Sara saying this if its her.

From the clip, it looks like Sara is horrified at being in that relationship.

by Anonymousreply 3409/13/2013

Dating people who work in the entertainment business is a lesson in anxiety, insecurity, envy, and sarcasm.

by Anonymousreply 3509/13/2013

Seriously where's r15? You can't keep us hanging this way. Lets hear some Jodie/Gina gossip, that seem to be the only relationship without a doubt.

by Anonymousreply 3609/13/2013

HOLY HELL which one was the butch, or the femme?

by Anonymousreply 3709/13/2013

Well she didn't name her R34. The general public would never guess (or care).

by Anonymousreply 3809/13/2013

There were rumors about Gina and Sara years ago. Someone claimed to have seen them kissing during one of the Go-Go's reunion tours in the early 1990s.

by Anonymousreply 3909/13/2013

Who was eating Sarah Gilbert's grape?

by Anonymousreply 4009/13/2013

That's true r38 but it made a bunch of people question who it is( a quick search picks up this site). Sara probably should have thought of it better but I'm sure she meant no harm just a little thoughtless.

ugh r37, I wish you wouldn't have put that image in my head.

by Anonymousreply 4109/13/2013

Sara Gilbert has a cute, albeit boyish figure and dates other women with cute, boyish figures. Why??

Are titties to be scorned? Are these lesbians really misogynists in disguise?

Are they closet trannies?

by Anonymousreply 4209/13/2013

42, the pussy wants what the pussy wants. don't try to figure it out.

by Anonymousreply 4309/13/2013

so she was even 16-17? where were her parents when she went to these secret parties?

by Anonymousreply 4409/13/2013

the same place every parent of teenagers are.

if small town hillbillies can find a way to party, don't you think teens in Hollywood can, too???

by Anonymousreply 4509/13/2013

Listen people, these weren't the hot secret parties in LA at the time.

Those chicks weren't/are not considered hot.

My sister lived in LA and let me tell you, better looking and more famous women were up for fun.

by Anonymousreply 4609/13/2013

I find it hilarious that the bigger more successful lesbians in Hollywood had better things to do then attend Rosie's closeted parties.

by Anonymousreply 4709/13/2013

Like MTM.

by Anonymousreply 4809/13/2013

Thinking about r15 post made conclude two things :

Jodie = bragging point Sara = embarrasing hide this shit (if its her)

Can't say I would blame her.

by Anonymousreply 4909/13/2013

Sara has a cute, tiny figure that Gina would envy.

by Anonymousreply 5009/13/2013

[quote]I find it hilarious that the bigger more successful lesbians in Hollywood had better things to do then attend Rosie's closeted parties.

According to that Rosie clip, they were technically Ellen's closeted parties, but it's hilarious either way. This must've been the B-, C-, and D-yke, list parties.

R46, you can't come in, drop that teaser and leave without naming names or clues at least.

by Anonymousreply 5109/13/2013

What about Michael Steele from The Bangles?

by Anonymousreply 5209/13/2013

It was Gina Schock. Why is this so difficult to grasp?

by Anonymousreply 5309/13/2013

Michael Steele is the former chairman of the RNC, r52.

by Anonymousreply 5409/13/2013

When you search for Gina Schock, Google suggests "Gina Schock Jodie Foster".

by Anonymousreply 5509/13/2013

Because r53 she wasn't around during Ginas gogo days.There's plenty of us around during those times still kicking. Why is it so hard for you to grasp that?

by Anonymousreply 5609/13/2013

I think it was Linda Perry

by Anonymousreply 5709/13/2013

R54, that's what I thought too at first!

by Anonymousreply 5809/13/2013

Plenty of people on various forums claim to have seen it, R56.

by Anonymousreply 5909/13/2013

And there's plenty that refute it. What's your point? What multiple forums are you speaking of?

If it was Gina it wasn't during the GoGo time but afterwards. Years after.

by Anonymousreply 6009/13/2013

The Go-Go's had a couple reunion tours during the 1990s. That fits the Gilbert timeline. Just google "Gina Schock" and "Sara Gilbert." Plenty will pop up.

Why are you so against this? Just curious - it seems you have an emotional investment in this.

by Anonymousreply 6109/13/2013

Oh god are you going to pull out that card r61? Seriously? If you cannot show any forums except for a throw away comment on a tennis related forum, which I know is the only place that is mentioned, just say so. Don't do this lame emotionally invested post, its childish. God forbid there's a back and forth discussion.

Look, you've made up your mind and nothing, even doubts from various people will make an impact. That's fine but that's one perfect way in not getting new gossip. I'll let you be with your new favorite couple.

by Anonymousreply 6209/13/2013

Did anyone guess Kelly McGillis? The ages work. Gilbert is 38, Kelly, 56.

by Anonymousreply 6309/13/2013

Not really a fan of either, R62. I just don't get why you're so angry?

by Anonymousreply 6409/13/2013

Oh please r64 stop already. Troll-dar me if you want. You are the one who started with the 'why is it so hard to grasp' I simply threw it back to you. And I challenged your multiple forum claim. I'm I not allowed to do so?

Either put up or stop. Don't get defensive if someone disagrees. All threads get claims and challenges you aren't special.

by Anonymousreply 6509/13/2013

All I'm saying is that over the past 15 to 18 years I've seen the Schock-Gilbert rumor over and over again across a wide variety of forums. I'm asking why anyone is so incredulous over the possible coupling. It's a whole lot more logical than Gilbert-McGillis or Gilbert-Bernhard.

by Anonymousreply 6609/13/2013

I do not believe you are r66. You are stating final fact even with counters or other possibles like Sandra B. Then you claim evidence but don't show it. Is it possible? Of course, but you started out with stomping your feet and then throwing these questionable posts as a way to side step questions.

Is it possible? Absolutely. Could very well be Sure! But please don't get mad when your own 'hard to grasps' quote returns or when you get asked for evidense. Nothing worse in a gossip forum then someone who takes all posts at face value.

Now, I've said my piece and will go. I can take one fug lesbian but not two. This is a dead unresolvable end anyways. Two fucked up in the head people have to at least be sexy enough to look at. End

by Anonymousreply 6709/13/2013

What the hell are you talking about, R67? Your post makes no sense whatsoever. (By the way, Sandra B.'s and Gilbert's age difference doesn't equal 18, so it's not a very good "counter.")

by Anonymousreply 6809/13/2013

Martina was in the 90s lesbian clique also,yes? I remember she was fucking anything with a cunt back then.

by Anonymousreply 6909/13/2013

R68 are you slow? R67's post made sense but you don't seem to want to understand. Honestly, you do come off as the emotional one who really wants this to be true.

Regarding the topic, you cannot be so literal with the 18 years. It could be accurate or it could be ball park figure. You cannot possibly take it as purely fact.

There are other things to consider like the reported denial from Gina herself and others. Why dont you take that into account? Another consideration is that most fans say they don't know. I call bullshit on the comment you made of how it's common knowledge and widely reported. You are full of it there. You painted yourself into a corner with those comments.

Think about this, the relationship of Gina and Jodie Foster isn't argued at all. I have not seen any fan of the group, or casual observers of them, ever dispute it. Now THAT rumor is known and wide spread for years and years. This rumor isn't treated the same way. That should tell you a great deal, don't you think? No one knows for sure. Do you see how different the Jodie rumor is from the Sara one? Undesputed vs ??? (Maybe?)

You are passionate about this and you could be correct in your belief but it's not above question. You shouldn't hang your hat on the old "their lesbians so they can't be friends!" line. If you say you have seen it in multiple forums, show it because like the Queen above, I've only ever seen one and the rest in private forums do not believe its her.

Just my 2 cens.

by Anonymousreply 7009/13/2013

Hey, that's a good guess r69. I can see that old girl go after her. Sara said she was a public figure and Martina would fit the bill since she was part of that clique.

by Anonymousreply 7109/13/2013

To make r68 happy, Martina is exactly 18 years older then Sara. Lets throw this one in the ring of strong contenders.

by Anonymousreply 7209/13/2013

R70, don't misquote me. I didn't say it was common knowledge. I said it's been quoted on a number of forums over the years.

by Anonymousreply 7309/13/2013

It's "hard to grasp" because you wouldn't expect someone to use the term "in the public eye" to describe a has-been from The Gogo's. The average person doesn't even know who Gina Schock is? She's not exactly a household name. It would be presumptuous to say the general public was 'that' aware of her.

"In the public eye" doesn't even sound like someone in the entertainment industry. More like a journalist or politician. Or, as R69 suggests, a famous athlete.

by Anonymousreply 7409/13/2013

Cynthia Mort.

Age, behind the scene of Roseanne, in the lesbian clique, close to sara and she's in the public eye and crazy to boot

public eye starting with Jodie's affair,Tilda debacle and the upcoming shit storm film of Nina Simone.

by Anonymousreply 7509/13/2013

Besides Mort, I really like r69's guess. Turns it all in its head.

by Anonymousreply 7609/13/2013

"Courting"? Is OP 10,000 years old?

by Anonymousreply 7709/14/2013

[quote]r70 You shouldn't hang your hat on the old "their lesbians so they can't be friends!" line.

Oh deer.

by Anonymousreply 7809/14/2013

Navratilova was on the road 48 weeks of the year back in the early '90s and had her home base in Florida. I don't see her as a contender, let alone strong.

by Anonymousreply 7909/14/2013

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by Anonymousreply 8009/14/2013

What a coinky dink! I lit up a troll on the GZ thread...and apparently r80 is a racist POS:

[quote]Zimmerman is a hero

[quote]by: Anonymoustreply 128t09/14/2013 @ 11:23AM

[quote]Zimm looks like a typical Mexican to me! So happy he offed that tray goon

[quote]by: Anonymoustreply 129

by Anonymousreply 8109/14/2013

She briefly dated Helen Lawson. It broke up over drinking, though. Sara didn't, and Helen did.

by Anonymousreply 8209/14/2013

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by Anonymousreply 8309/14/2013

Are you really shocked R81? It's usually the case when someone is prejudiced against one group of people, it's highly likely they have plenty of other prejudices.

Back on topic, R75, that's the first person I thought of, but I discounted her because Sara said she was in the public eye and I took it to mean she was in the public eye then, not now.

But yeah Cynthia Mort would fit the age difference and she began working on Roseanne in 1994.

They're apparently still on good terms though. Here's a pic of them during one of Sara's pregnancies.

by Anonymousreply 8409/14/2013

Martina didn't settle in Florida til she hooked up with that troll Toni Layton in 2000.

by Anonymousreply 8509/14/2013

She never lived in California.

by Anonymousreply 8609/14/2013

Sara is really getting on my nerves with this "woe-is-me" nonsense. It reminds me of Ellen with that ridiculous dog crying thing.

by Anonymousreply 8709/14/2013

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by Anonymousreply 8809/15/2013

how many lesbian celebs are there who are currently between the ages of 55-57? I say this because you have to give some room for the months of the year. They could have been 18 years older while dating Sara but after breaking up had a birthday or something.

Remember, it could be someone who was either out or closeted back then.

Just based on personalities I can't see Martina with Sara. Martina looks pretty, more feminine types.

by Anonymousreply 8909/15/2013

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by Anonymousreply 9009/15/2013

I heard it was Gina Schock.

by Anonymousreply 9110/29/2013

I did heard it was Gina Schock of the Go-Gos.

by Anonymousreply 9210/29/2013

I heard it was Gina Schock of the Go-Go's.

by Anonymousreply 9310/29/2013

I heard it was Gina Schock of the Go-Go's. A lady told a friend of mine she saw them two together back stage at a Go-Go concert.

by Anonymousreply 9410/29/2013

i think its sandra bernhard

by Anonymousreply 9511/18/2013

Sandra would put me of lady loving if she was my first turn at bat.

by Anonymousreply 9612/31/2013

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by Anonymousreply 9712/31/2013

What's up with R90? Comments reported to ISP? That serious shit.

by Anonymousreply 9812/31/2013

nasty of an older woman to take advantage of a young girl like that.

by Anonymousreply 9901/01/2014

I quite agree.


by Anonymousreply 10001/01/2014

It is NOT nasty for an older woman to date someone who is 18 years her junior! You make it seem as though Gina Schock has one foot in the grave! If she really did date Sara Gilbert back in the day then good for her!!!!

by Anonymousreply 10108/05/2014

I know this old, but it couldn't have been Gina. She's only 16 years old, not 18. Sara was clear and specific when she said she dated someone 18 years older than her, and it's a big of enough age difference that her memory wouldn't be clouded with time.

by Anonymousreply 10212/30/2014

I think it's Ellen D. for sure. They are 18 years apart by one day!!

by Anonymousreply 10312/30/2014

So did he.

by Anonymousreply 10412/30/2014
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