I have several friends who have done this in the last few years, and I don't understand it. I graduated from high school in 1989, and I paid for my college education with student loans (in my own name), pell grants, and money from working. I graduated with 90k in student loans, and finally got them paid off a few years ago. Almost all of my friends my age financed their education in a similar fashion. My neighbor just refinanced his house to pull out cash to pay for his kids college education. Another friend is 200k in debt to pay for his two kid's education, and both of those kids are barely making passing grades. They will be in school for at least another two years, so presumably he will be 400k in debt by the time they graduate with degrees in education (so they won't be making much). This is a guy who makes 70k a year. It is going to take him forever to pay that off. The kids take no responsibility...I don't get it.
When did parents start going hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt to finance their child's education?
|by Anonymous||reply 84||09/11/2013|
How difficult is it for you to Google the rise in education cost? I mean, you got to DL, so you must be able to type and use the internet; what else is the problem?
|by Anonymous||reply 1||09/09/2013|
I think the OP is asking why parents have taken on the responsibility. I, too, have wondered that. I worked my way through undergrad and took out loans. My graduate degrees and doctorate were covered by fellowships (anyone who pays for a PhD is a fool). It took my 17 years to pay off undergrad. But I never would have asked my parents to go into debt so I could go to school.
Also, if the parents were smart, they'd be asking why college is so damn expensive. As they continue to shell over $$, administrations have no incentive to lower costs. It's a variation on the Bennett Hypothesis.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||09/09/2013|
R1, I realize that the cost of education has increased. I am wondering why the students don't take out their own loans, instead of straddling their parents with debt that they will never be able to pay off.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||09/09/2013|
I was just talking to my partner about this last night.
Just another reason kids are so fucking entitled now. They expect everything to be handed to them. Most (not all) of the 20-somethings I work with are arrogant, entitled shits who would rather be on Twitter and Facebook instead of working. When questioned, they act horrified. How dare we cut in on their social media time! We fired 2 people for this last week. Unreal.
We also have a couple of guys at work who are around 23, that are amazingly hard workers.
Interestingly enough, they hard workers paid their own way through school, (one is still doing so) and the ones who were fired are both supported by their parents.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||09/09/2013|
It's something parents do for their kids, so that the kids aren't saddled with crippling debt before they even get started. If parents want to take out hundreds of thousands in loans, well, that sucks. But also consider that the parents already have a house (or houses) and a car (or cars) and have hopefully bought most of what they're going to buy.
A 25-year old with an average income will have an impossible time of trying to get a $200,000 mortgage if they're carrying hundreds of thousands in student loan debt.
Parents take the hit because oftentimes, while they can't necessarily afford it, they're better situated financially to handle it. They'd rather spend the next couple of decades making a payment they can afford than having their kids' lives ruined.
And while student loan debt is not dischargeable in bankruptcy, it is dischargeable in debt, so maybe the parents bank on only having to repay $150k of the $300,000 they'll owe, whereas their kids would have to repay the whole amount.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||09/09/2013|
No one, the parent or the student, should have to go so much in debt to get an education.
Keep feeling smug about the $90K you had to pay back, OP. What bullshit.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||09/09/2013|
Never went to college. Parents were too poor and Dad wanted to retire as soon as I turned 18. I got good grades in school but never lucked out on a scholarships and since they wanted to retire, I couldn't use them to secure a loan. Went into the Army and never looked back.
At 53, I think I did fairly well but in today's job market, no college, no job. I guess I'm the last of a generation that could get a good HS education and a good job. Retired from the Army, in Government now and married to my partner/husband and we are planning our retirement in the next 5 to 7 years.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||09/09/2013|
"dischargeable in debt" = "dischargeable in death"
|by Anonymous||reply 8||09/09/2013|
Why are students choosing such expensive colleges / universities in the first place? Why not go to a state college rather than a private one? Why aren't they going to a community college for the first two years which would save so much freaking money! Why are they majoring in English or Art and not in something they can get a good paying job in once they graduate?
|by Anonymous||reply 9||09/09/2013|
the only i would take out loans for my kids to go to college. is if they got into ivy league.
other than that they gotta pay for it themselves.
today one is better off going to trade school or community college.
30+ a year to party on campus is too much.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||09/09/2013|
I assume they are doing it because they can and want to.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||09/09/2013|
Taking on a ton of debt to finance an education for what???? To work part time in retail/fast food? There are virtually no good jobs open to the young in America today. Even graduating lawyers from top notch schools can't find jobs as attorneys.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||09/09/2013|
[quote] I am wondering why the students don't take out their own loans, instead of straddling their parents with debt that they will never be able to pay off
It's because kids don't do shit for themselves these days. They don't do anything. Their parents buy them cars, pay their car insurance, pay for their phones (the newest on the market), do their laundry and buy them everything under the sun.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||09/09/2013|
[quote]Also, if the parents were smart, they'd be asking why college is so damn expensive. As they continue to shell over $$, administrations have no incentive to lower costs. It's a variation on the Bennett Hypothesis.
Precisely. The cost of a college education is going up so fast because there is so much money out there. College loans are quick and easy. The kids (and parents) seem to think it's free money. They fall for it every fucking time.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||09/09/2013|
Attending an Ivy or "big name" school is actually great for one major reason: access to important networks. Some parents are willing to offer this to their kids if they have the means or the will. Or both.
For example, if your daughter is interested in publishing then spending $60K on Williams College or Bennington (for the really artsy types) will actually get the kid an opportunity to intern at places like Conde Nast or with The Paris Review. Now, your kid should be talented and driven and deserving of your money - which goes without saying. But the combination of talent, drive and access will ultimately offer a major leg up to those students who take advantage.
Full disclosure - I'm a State College grad who has done just fine, but know myriads of people who had the opportunity to use big name schools as a stepping stone. Some took great advantage, others didn't. If my parents could have afforded it I would have jumped at the chance.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||09/09/2013|
Don't parents have to co-sign for kid's loans, anyway? So odds are they'll be on the hook anyway.
I just read a report that the average college student now takes six years to get his or her degree.That's been the case for several of my co-workers' kids ... bouncing from major to major and school to school, and mom and dad pick up the tab for all of it.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||09/09/2013|
This is one of the huge problems of our time. Kids can no longer declare themselves independent from their parents to take out student loans. Student loans are not dischargeable in bankruptcy. Even getting some kind of disability waiver if something happens to you is next to impossible. Education costs have skyrocketed. There are tons of schools that shouldn't be allowed to exist, their degrees are worthless. Good schools churn out tons of students with degrees that won't result in jobs capable of repaying the cost of the education. And it's all government backed anyway. Obama has tried to take the private companies out of the equation. Up until now it has been quite the investment for them. You can't get out of it no matter what. If you die your parents are still on the hook. If they can't pay then the government steps up and pays the lender. They can't lose. It's quite the racket. But the bubble is going to burst. This modern day indentured servitude can't last. The government needs to step in and offer A) relief to people saddled with debt they'll never get out from under and B) restructure our education system to actually meet the needs of both our kids entering the workforce and to meet the needs of our modern tech oriented employers seeking people who can do this kind of work. Sorry for the long reply.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||09/09/2013|
Government is never going to be able to solve this problem, and is only making matters worse by flooding the system with loans. There is a solution at hand though. Georgia Tech is going to be offering a fully accredited Masters in Computer Science for $7,000.00 starting next year using Massive Online Open Courses. ("MOOC") Once this catches on the bottom will fall out of the massively over-inflated cost of higher education.
Unfortunately this will be of little help to all the fools who are currently saddling themselves with life-long debt for overpriced degrees.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||09/09/2013|
For many, higher education is a waste of money because employers will be bringing over workers from other countries who will do the work for nothing. Or outsourcing to their country. There's even a plan to park a cruise ship off San Francisco in international waters and have Indian and Asian programmers live on it so that they aren't working in the U.S. but they are close enough to meet with clients.
Time for the people to demand some protectionist laws from the government. Screw big corporations. Unfortunately our politicians are for sale to the highest bidder.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||09/09/2013|
The answer is for government to stop guaranteeing loans until colleges stop inflating costs. The 70s and 80s had low costs at the cost of large and necessary capital repairs and such in the 90s. Vanderbilt dorms and class buildings looked the same for twenty years, now the dorms look like palaces and each desk in a class room has a computer terminal.
Now it's just greed and availability of money.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||09/09/2013|
They need to let people include student loans in their bankruptcies again.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||09/09/2013|
I am guessing that would be disastrous for the creditors saved by their debtors inability to bankrupt their student loans.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||09/09/2013|
Rule of thumb should always be: people (individuals) come first. Companies (creditors) come second.
If people are under crushing debt that is ruining their lives because of an unfair system then you shouldn't just let them die. I, for one, would be perfectly ok with spreading the systemic loss across investors who knew the risk or across the whole populace through the government.
This isn't one person's bad decision. A whole generation is saddled with debt that they can't handle because of how our country structured things.
I guess you'd be that guy from the old Airplane! movie, the one on the talk show, "They bought their tickets, they knew what they were getting into, I say let them crash!"
|by Anonymous||reply 23||09/09/2013|
[quote]I, too, have wondered that. I worked my way through undergrad and took out loans.
We have this discussion here a lot, and it seems like the generation you are a part of has a time grasping that it takes MULTIPLE sources of funds to finance a degree today. A student has to work AND take out loans AND have money from parents AND have funds in the form of scholarships or grants.
Im 26, I worked my ass off in college (in a job with regular business hours), and started going to classes at night. I took out loans, had financial aid, and I still needed money from my parents to fill the gap.
Should it be like this? No. But as r17 said, higher education is glorified racket in the US. Most people my age know that universities design their programs now to keep you there way longer than you intended. They have horrible tactics and are fully aware that they are doing it. Its ok though, the bubble will burst soon and those corrupt administrators will be on the street.
I now have a government job, and plan on taking advantage of public service forgiveness in about 10 or 15 years. I'm not paying the full balance of my loans, no way. The government can pay my bills and my loans, just like they pay for wars, veterans expenses, and social security to baby boomers. My generation got a bad deal and Im not paying the rest of my life for it, just because you old bitches are so greedy.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||09/09/2013|
You gotta love DL'ers all born in the 80s who have yet to look at a calendar.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||09/09/2013|
[quote]There's even a plan to park a cruise ship off San Francisco in international waters and have Indian and Asian programmers live on it so that they aren't working in the U.S. but they are close enough to meet with clients.
I hope its set on fire or blown to smithereens.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||09/09/2013|
How does this government thing work? If you work for the government (is it state? local? fed?) for 10-15 years your debts are forgiven?
|by Anonymous||reply 27||09/09/2013|
When adjusted for inflation, the tuition at my Big 10 school is about twice what it was when I attended in the late '80s early '90s.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||09/09/2013|
Shit, for this issue and many others, we are way past time in this country to be lighting fires and flipping cars. But those in power have us fat and complacent enough that we'll stick to being sheep led to the slaughter.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||09/09/2013|
I guess it started when poor people were allowed to breed?
|by Anonymous||reply 30||09/09/2013|
It's called having a conversation, R1. Google it.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||09/09/2013|
[quote]When adjusted for inflation, the tuition at my Big 10 school is about twice what it was when I attended in the late '80s early '90s.
The state liberal-arts college I attended around the same time is about three times as expensive today.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||09/09/2013|
Funny my ex-boss worked her way through college and though it took six years, now is a registered nurse with a Bachelor's degree and totally debt free.
I guess some lazy asses don't want to work they're way through college.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||09/09/2013|
Because EVERYONE has the same circumstances, R34.
Lets say you want to go to law school, fuck face. How are you going to do that AND have a job that will pay the 30,000 (at least) yearly tuition plus extra money to live?
Go wrap your lips around the dangerous end of a shotgun.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||09/09/2013|
[quote]they're way through college.
r34, you should find out what school she went to and head there because it's apparent you didn't learn much at the one you attended. If you went to college at all.
I will say for the hundredth time since r34 does not listen; there are people who work FULL TIME JOBS while going to school and STILL HAVE DEBT! Just because you have a job while pursuing a degree does not mean you will make enough to fully finance your education!
|by Anonymous||reply 35||09/09/2013|
I know and millennials were online last week talking about how bad the Boomers and Gen Xers are.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||09/09/2013|
I didn't expect my parents to pay for my college education.
I received scholarships that paid for most of my undergraduate degree. I had to take out a loan to go an extra semester to complete a minor I wanted to get (yes, I know that was stupid, but at the time I wanted to continue studying that subject in graduate school. I didn't, so the loan/debt was a waste).
I worked and paid my way through most of my first masters degree. Again, I had to take out a loan for one semester.
My current employers paid for my second masters degree.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||09/09/2013|
Fuck you CUNT @R34
|by Anonymous||reply 38||09/09/2013|
I put my two kids through college by starting UGMA accounts for them at Fidelity in the early 1990's. There were ups and downs but both kids graduated debt-free, with a bit of money to spare.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||09/09/2013|
R34, my degree is in nursing and I worked part time during the school year, and full time in the summer. I basically made enough to pay for living expenses and books. Tuition had to come from grants and loans.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||09/09/2013|
My children are going to state schools or getting scholarships. I do not see the use in paying 50k yearly for a name school.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||09/09/2013|
Since the cost of higher education soared through the roof, OP.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||09/09/2013|
when I went to college in the late 80s my parents said they had enough to put me through 4 years of state school (about 25K all in with room and board) If I wanted to go elsewhere it was up to me to make up the difference.
I chose NYU and to go there I found: grants, student loans, work study and worked my ass off all summer and still had about 10-12 years of loans.
I am truly grateful my parents did that - they didn't have to. Now my teen kids are nearing College age and I can help with state school but can't pay their full ride - even after saving for over a decade. The market killed everyone's 529s. Don't know how parents are funding these undergrads going straight for Masters degrees because there are no jobs. This doesn't seem rational to me. If they can't find a job and mom and dad lose their retirement funds the whole family is up a creek.
I'm not going to risk my retirement fund (which also took a killing in the market)for a college experience that will result in expensive unemployment. I have started encouraging the kids to be entrepreneurial and to find a well paying job that will exist when they get out of school - like nursing.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||09/09/2013|
A huge reason for the high coasts is that there is a flood of new applicants over the last 20 years. Population growth and the need for everyone to have a college degree being what a HS degree was a generation ago.
People who could have gotten into and Ivy 10 years ago are now fighting for spots at good state universities. And the trend isn't stopping. It's like a blood sport to get into a decent school these days and if you have a good in state university you it's your one shot at an affordable good education.
My niece is applying and has a 4,0, almost all AP classes, high test scores, but we live in chicago and U of I is her only affordable option. She's not ivy material but just under. I hate that town though, there's nothing to do but drink for fun and she's not a drinker and it's one of the biggest drinking schools in the nation. A horrible place to spend 4 years. She could probably get into some better schools in nicer towns but it would quadruple the cost.
I went out of state to a good school 20 years ago for the same price (adjusted) as her in state will cost. The best part of going to school for me was getting out of the midwest to explore. I wish I had a gob of money to give her.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||09/09/2013|
Well, OP, I can tell you why I paid for my daughter's education. I value education. I have brought her up to value it too. I was a hands-on dad. I made everything a learning moment, and she was none the wiser. For example, I would cook dinner and I would have her help me. She would learn about measuring, temperatures, etc. We had fun together and to this day, she is a great cook. When I taught her Algebra, I made it into a mystery game: how can you use letters and numbers in math? Part of it I know, is that none of her peers were learning how to do this in 5th grade. She loved the idea of knowing something none of her friends did. When did didn't do her chores or got in trouble, I never screamed or yelled, nor hit her. I told her to write me an essay about why she thought she was right in her actions. By 6th grade she was able to write coherent, intelligent persuasive essays on just about any subject. She is an awesome writer today. In short, I was doing what I believe a parent should be doing. Guiding, teaching and preparing their children to be productive members of society. When my daughter went to state college, of course I paid for it. I didn't want her to be in debt. It was really is not that expensive if you budget and save. When she wanted to get her Masters, she picked out on of the finest in the country. I told her I would pay for it. She graduated recently and I was touched when she insisted she help pay for her Master's degree. That enough was worth it. I agreed she could, just so she could feel it was all hers. so, yes, that's why I did it.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||09/09/2013|
Jesus. Nobody had rich parents? My father easily wrote checks for the whole thing.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||09/09/2013|
Your child is rare these days, and you are an excellent father, r46.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||09/09/2013|
For every set of parents like this, there are dozens of "kids" who are trying to fund their own educations at commuter schools by holding down part or full time jobs. There are also a lot who have had to leave due to lack of funds or other considerations such as caring for ill family members, etc. and may or may not return to their studies. The inflated costs are killing lower middle-class and working class students, even at state schools. It's no wonder that the average number of years to complete an undergrad degree is going up.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||09/09/2013|
I live in a community of 50 houses and they virtually all have college age children at this time and nobody does this. Their various kids have been going to college over the past 5 years. They all go to state schools. Parents pay some money, kids get grants, small scholarships, loans and work during the summer.
I have a cousin who insisted her children must go to private, not state schools. She worked a lot and made real estate investments. By the time her kids went to school, she had amassed a good deal of money. She's mostly paying for it and her kids took some loans, but not much. It's money that she earmarked for years, so she's not missing it.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||09/09/2013|
I went to college in the late 80's and grad school in the early 90's. Things were just very different then - the cost of education now (for state colleges!) is unreal. The question isn't why are parents going into hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt - it's why a college education costs hundreds of thousands of dollars.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||09/09/2013|
Going into massive debt in order to get a college degree is stupid, be it the students or the parents who are paying for it. There are ways to get through college without drowning in debt, but it takes effort and perseverance to do it.
That being said, it seems to me that college students of today want everything handed to them on a platter. They don't want to WORK for anything. They want everything to be GIVEN to them. They want to live free and easy and without responsibilities in their teens...and twenties...and thirties. They want to postpone adulthood for as long as possible. They are appallingly lacking in common sense.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||09/09/2013|
Forget nursing. Schools are luring students with the promise of a high paying job. Not just colleges -- technical schools as well, which charge a shitload of money for an LPN diploma. This has been going on for 20 years. More and more schools have opened up nursing programs because of the money spent by suckers taking pre-requisites for years (without ever getting admitted to a nursing program). They outnumber the nursing students and are worth a lot of money.
And the ones who do get into nursing school? Good luck getting a job. Maybe your county will hire you as a part time public health nurse. Hospitals are closing all over the country; nursing homes are accepting sicker and sicker patients (ventilators, new traches) and cutting staff while nursing schools churn out students.
Physical therapists had the right idea. They banded together to go after schools that were taking money from students when there were already too many unemployed PTs. They first demanded MS degrees; now they are demanding PTs have PhDs. The result? Fewer PTs in the field, fewer unemployed PTs.
The country is awash in unemployed nurses.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||09/09/2013|
[quote]I went to college in the late 80's and grad school in the early 90's. Things were just very different then - the cost of education now (for state colleges!) is unreal.
Me, too. My University of California tuition for undergrad in 1984 was ~ $1200/yr ($400/quarter). I just checked it out: it's $14K now. I'm really stunned. It is truly unreal. This is tuition alone, no room and board, books, etc. Using a Consumer Price Index calculator, that's $2,557.62 in today's terms. Jesus Christ on a Cracker.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||09/09/2013|
R53, I am a registered nurse and get calls from recruiters on a weekly basis. My sister in law just graduated with a BS in nursing, and got a job within a month, making 60k a year. Her hospital has great benefits, 401k matches etc. Baby boomers are getting up there, and Obamacare is going to create a lot of new jobs for health care professionals. My mom works as a private care aid (no degree) and gets $20 an hour. She has wealthy friends and people like having her around. If I had a child, I would absolutely encourage them to go into the field.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||09/09/2013|
[quote]Obamacare is going to create a lot of new jobs for health care professionals.
Indeed. I live in Sacramento. (California is one of the few states gung ho about implementation). The vast majority of new construction going on around here is for health-related concerns.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||09/09/2013|
We were very poor. My parents were immigrants and my father died when I was 7. However, my mother believed our best chance to have a better life was for my sister and me to go to college. She didn't go into debt but she helped us out as much as she could. I had a little debt when I graduated.
My ex-wife and I saved to help our two sons get their undergrad degrees. We started early and were able to pay the bulk of it for both of them, close to 100K total. Their master's degrees are on their own, though my ex-wife is helping our younger son get his.
It's what we do in our family. Others may disagree but that's their business.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||09/09/2013|
I'm not going into debt for my son. He is the most disinterested kid I've ever met. He cares about sports and Xbox (which I did not buy for him) and nothing else. Doesn't read a book. Will not do extra credit assignments to boost his grades. Has a bad temper, doesn't listen to adults because they're "dumb." He knows better than anyone else.
He's adopted. I tried to get him to read, to be interested in the world, to be a little creative, to have some humility, to realize how lucky he is. My family is not at all like him. We love to read, to learn, too see the big picture, to be grateful for what we've got and be sensitive to others. We're not perfect, but we kind of strive to be better people.
I'm guessing genetics play a part in temperament and interests.
I have a feeling he won't last a semester at college. He's used to my husband doing everything for him and he likes it that way. Well, I'm not wasting my money on school for someone who hates school; I'll take my money and run. They can live together like two old biddies.
|by Anonymous||reply 57||09/09/2013|
I worked part time through the school year, and full time in Summer and Winter breaks. I lived at home, and only asked my parents for money one quarter when I took an extra class and didn't have e $100 for the book, graduating in 1988 debt free. I have a nephew starting college next year, and my brother has been saving for 20 years to pay for it, starting 2 years before he (or his little sister) was born. He's looking at the same school I went to, and I was astonished to see the tuition at 20 times what I paid. My advice to him was to look at a better school and both work and borrow to pay whatever his father couldn't.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||09/10/2013|
Jesus R58... no love for the husband or the kid. You sound like you regret adopting him. Hitting middle age and looking back on your life with regret, perhaps?
|by Anonymous||reply 59||09/10/2013|
Pretty much sounds like insanity. If the parents would stop doing that...the price of education would come down.
Some of the students coming out of colleges today are more like high school students from when I was in school...since the Reagan years, education has suffered badly.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||09/10/2013|
For-profit colleges and Universities, even the ones who claim they aren't are the biggest scam going.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||09/10/2013|
Add on the tuition for private elementary and high school and it's a a million bucks for an education. In honolulu so many kids are in private schools then go to a 4 year college I don't see how they afford it. Some people are loaded though and send their kids to Punahou and then Stanford. Talk about major money, but the ROI probably is not that great.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||09/10/2013|
R58, ever considered that maybe the fact you're giving your adopted son the impression that he's not really yours and doesn't belong to your family is partly what's making him so "disinterested"?
|by Anonymous||reply 63||09/10/2013|
I hope R58 isn't one of those people looking to rehome their adopted kids through facebook and Yahoo.
|by Anonymous||reply 64||09/10/2013|
Another area where the US could learn from the rest of the world.
Here, fees are capped at around $9K per year for almost all undergraduate courses, with many courses capped at around $5K. If you can't/won't pay upfront, you get an interest free loan from the government that you start paying back through increased income tax once you start earning $50K per year.
Higher degrees are often charged full fees, but you can still get an interest free government loan to cover them.
This is true for all universities, regardless or rank and status.
Except for certain degrees that require particular creative or technical talents, entrance to courses is based solely on your achievement in high school. Family connections and wealth count for nothing with admissions. As far as I know we don't give full scholarships for sporting prowess.
There are downsides, certainly - expensive Ivy league colleges in the US outperform our universities on world ranking scales, but our best universities still feature prominently in the global Top 50 lists. Personally, I don't mind being a little down the list if it means greater accessibility and fairness in admissions.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||09/10/2013|
It's what happens when people let the media do their thinking for them, and live like sheep.
Those who don't (i.e., those who collect allthat money) are happy to fleece them.
They'll learn, tomorrow, that today they were fighting yesterday's war, as they play catchup to copy today's winners.
|by Anonymous||reply 66||09/10/2013|
WElcome to your preview of why Obamacare is going to cause healthcare costs to skyrocket.
Anytime a business can just send the bill to the government when the customer can't pay, and people feel it's "required" to buy the product, costs will soar.
Employers requiring college just to protect their own executives' investments in their edeucations, the stigma of not having a degree, and people refusing to think independently enough to survey the present, rather than the past, all contribute.
Even the financial crisis didn't stop this, because we didn't let the system crash, instead printing money to sustain the unsustainable. With everyone drinking the same kool-aid, those who note that it's poisoned wind up being shot messengers.
After all, we're all meaningless individuals who are just lashing out emotionally, not people warning of economic armageddon.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||09/10/2013|
I'm curious if R58's brat son is the bio-kid of his husband.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||09/10/2013|
How about taking a hammer to that little shit's Xbox and making him get a job, R58? He doesn't sound like college material anyway.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||09/10/2013|
Uh, maybe because they love their kids?
|by Anonymous||reply 70||09/11/2013|
[quote]Interestingly enough, the hard workers paid their own way through school, (one is still doing so) and the ones who were fired are both supported by their parents. Coincidence?
Why are you so invested in, or even aware of, your co-workers' personal financial histories, R4? NOYFB.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||09/11/2013|
[quote]For-profit colleges and Universities, even the ones who claim they aren't are the biggest scam going.
Actually, the for-profits are just a tiny fraction of the ed biz. I'm not saying they aren't a scam (some certainly are), but almost every college and university in the country shares in the blame.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||09/11/2013|
Well I'm paying for my son's college. But he's going to a state school (I wasn't going to pay for out of state or private) and going for a practical degree (engineering). He's always been smart/brilliant but had very average grades in HS probably due to his ADD tendencies. But his AP classes and scores helped.
I'm paying because I don't want him saddled with debts when he's out of school. I don't want him to have to live with us later because he can't afford it. He's entitled and all that but he also has a big personality so he's made tons of connections at school & has gotten job offers already (from a professor in research) & offers from people who've asked him to look them up after he graduates. I think he's a worthwhile investment so I don't have regrets so far.
|by Anonymous||reply 73||09/11/2013|
[quote]WElcome to your preview of why Obamacare is going to cause healthcare costs to skyrocket.
That must be why premium prices for individual insurance in California have dropped ~20% and Blue Shield has dropped its rate for for CALpers (state employees). Behold the beauty of an open marketplace that the insurance industry will finally have to take part in.
You do realize health insurance industry executives lie, don't you? Here's a former CIGNA executive debunking the myth that costs are going to "skyrocket."
|by Anonymous||reply 74||09/11/2013|
I can't believe how many people on (what was originally, at least) a forum for gay men have so many children in college.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||09/11/2013|
Government "loans" = higher tuition.
Colleges are full no matter what they charge.
The market is completely distorted. There is no supply and demand.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||09/11/2013|
As a 1972 high school graduate, that makes me MUCH older than the rest of you. But I have seen this with my brother and his 3 kids; seen it even worse with former co-workers (I'm disabled now.)
And I wonder: with the boomers, which I am - and down to the "youngest" boomers, born in 1964 - is it some sort of "guilt" thing? However unconscious such "guilt" may be? I can't quite put my finger on it. I don't have kids; never wanted to (am female - hag - BTW); I do love my nieces and great niece and great nephews (I said I was old, right??!) but I really do.not.get.this.at.all.
The posters that mentioned state colleges, community colleges, NOT getting a damn English degree - are spot-on. Back in my day, that wasn't so much the case - guess we were lucky.
I reluctantly went to my 40th reunion; the nice classmate who took me mentioned her youngest son just graduating; I thought first - and instead of asking, "where is he going to college"? asked, "what is he going do do"? - BINGO! he was an indifferent student; is taking courses - or perhaps apprenticing? to be a stone mason; I said to her, in all sincerity; "good for him."
I wouldn't have thought that, 40 years ago! But "real life" has show me that plumbers, builders, contractors - these are people who have a salable skill. Only reason, I - drama major, film minor - made any real $$ for 35 years was: typing class; the ONE business class I took in college.
Great topic, OP! Sorry to go on and on.
|by Anonymous||reply 77||09/11/2013|
R24, thank you for that excellent post. I'm an oldster who perhaps got lucky: went to school in Canada as one of 6% foreign (I'm AMerican) students they took each year. Got a $2,5000 loan from the smalltown bank; paid back in 5 years. "Rich" aunt gave me $1,000. Parents helped out with incidentals.
My niece, 30 years younger than I, graduated froM Clarkson (well-thought of Univ in Northern NY); her last year, including housing, was $58K.
I found this SO unbelievable! but your post explains a lot. She also got loans, scholarships, and worked.
I agree with you that this has to STOP. somehow. I am truly sorry that you and others around your age have this difficulty. Not fair at all. I'd f---ing vote for whatever candidate for President promises to DO something about this.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||09/11/2013|
R46, you should write a book. We have some really good friends that do the same thing with their kids. They are so much fun to be around. Despite being quite young, they are incredibly bright, engaging and eager to learn.
|by Anonymous||reply 79||09/11/2013|
R46, what a wonderful post; what a wonderful person you are! You ought to expand the post into an article somewhere. I assume, if you're on this board, you're a gay man? I feel like dirt; ashamed, that I and my several gay male friends (I'm a hag) can't IMAGINE why people would want to have kids. Shame on me. I may never say, "breeders" again!
And what a great parent! May I ask: did you have similar great parents?
|by Anonymous||reply 80||09/11/2013|
If you're paying thousands for your kid to become an engineer, doctor or scientist, I understand. If your kid is taking courses in Beatles history, that's another story.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||09/11/2013|
r62, it's not just for-profits. In fact, the FPs are monitored now. It's all across the board. My brother teaches at the U. of Colorado in the 'environmental design school.' The students graduate with a BEnvd which qualifies them for nothing (although many talk about starting an "architecture practice" -- good luck with that when the AIA gets wind of it). And the U. of C. has known it was a joke degree for decades. Most of the graduates this May are unemployed or working in jobs that don't require a HS diploma.
Virginia Tech is under scrutiny now because its respected architecture school is graduating PhDs who can't read or write (they're jobbing out their dissertations). Private funders have taken note and pulled $$. Both the U of C and VT were recently written up in an arch. magazine about 'failures in education.'
|by Anonymous||reply 82||09/11/2013|
Parents and students are making stupid choices There are 'schools' that shouldn't even exist Reputable schools face a shitload of problems 1) Many of their degree programs are irrelevant 2) They are churning out graduates in 'real' degree programs way in excess of market demand for the profession (see law schools as a prime example) 3) There's no such thing as a not for profit school. They all want to milk you dry at this point to maintain their status quo. Besides the schools, you have lenders ready to milk parents and students dry, be it through student loans or credit card offers or whatever. We have a culture where a Bachelors degree has replaced the HS diploma as the entry level degree. It's assumed in way too many households that every kid is going to college now. There is an insufficient outlet for technical education as an alternative and it's looked down upon. Kids are lazy and avoid math and science way too often when that's what the country needs. There is a disconnect between education and how to live life (pay your bills, manage credit, etc.) and also with what employers will be looking for when these kids graduate. The culture allows far too much of a laissez faire 'take whatever classes you want and you will find your way in life' approach. That's unrealistic when cheap international labor is breaking down the walls and spilling into our country (figuratively). All of this makes for a ripe situation for white collar con men and snake oil salesmen to create a system like our modern higher education system. It's a political hot potato that everyone likes to fight about. Let me make it simpler though, the answer is we need a little bit of all of their solutions.
|by Anonymous||reply 83||09/11/2013|