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My roommate keeps on sexually harassing me

I don't know what the guy's problem is, but whenever we talk to each other, he always sort of leans on me or have one arm around me. And sometimes we'd bro hug and he'd pat my bum in the process.

And just now while we were talking, he casually places his hands on my chest. That touch felt VERY sexual. And he's never said he was gay or even hints he's gay; he even has a girlfriend.

And I'm not attracted to him, he homely. And I feel so violated after each encounter with him, but I can't bring myself to speak up because it may ruin the peace between us and I just want a good home environment to study but at times it really bugs me.

And I can't figure whether he's doing it on purpose or he's just a really touchy-feely guy, whose movements I misinterpreted.

What should I do?

by Anonymousreply 2508/20/2013

Have sex with him.

by Anonymousreply 108/17/2013

Gently remove his hand from your body when he's talking to you?

by Anonymousreply 208/17/2013

Why are gay men are such delicate hothouse flowers?

by Anonymousreply 308/17/2013

Have you not stated your boundaries?

by Anonymousreply 408/17/2013

I'm trying to imagine John Wayne posting this complaint , and it's just not working.

by Anonymousreply 508/17/2013

So, OP, if I'm interpreting your post correctly, the problem is that you don't find him attractive, right?

by Anonymousreply 608/17/2013

Maybe he's blind OP. Check to make sure he isn't disabled before you go all Anita Hill on his ass.

You might also try having three beers to see if he looks better. If not, you're a shallow cunt but tell him to keep his hands to himself.

by Anonymousreply 708/17/2013

It's only sexual harassment if you aren't sexually attracted to the other person. True facts.

by Anonymousreply 808/17/2013

Are you the other side of the My Roommate is a Prude that Won't Let Me Fuck Him thread?

by Anonymousreply 908/17/2013

just go ahead and cut off your cock and nuts and take estrogen shots. you sound like you're already a fish in terms of your gender identity.

by Anonymousreply 1008/17/2013

Just tell him that you're weird and don't like friends touching you. Or something. Unless you love touching other people.

by Anonymousreply 1108/17/2013

Surprise anal will put an end to it.

by Anonymousreply 1208/17/2013

Tell him you'd like to eat a salted nut roll out of his ass, if he's not game ask him if hell eat one out of your ass..

by Anonymousreply 1308/17/2013

How could you not see he has a crush on you ? Guys don't do this unless they mean they want you. You gotta tell him you're not interested or he's going to think you don't mind & try harder.

by Anonymousreply 1408/17/2013

[quote] What should I do?

You should shut the fuck up and enjoy it. He's not hurting anyone.

Stop being such a whiny pussy... seriously.

by Anonymousreply 1508/17/2013

Just how old are you, OP? Because if you're over 20 you really just need to tell him to stop that or move out. And stop being a whiny little bitch.

by Anonymousreply 1608/17/2013

Perhaps you accidentally presented OP?

by Anonymousreply 1708/17/2013

Smells are very important. Don't bathe for a week or heavily apply horrible cologne. That will keep him away.

by Anonymousreply 1808/18/2013

Get a new roommate.

by Anonymousreply 1908/18/2013


by Anonymousreply 2008/18/2013

Just think how hot this story would be if the roommate were attractive. Of course, then no one would believe it.

by Anonymousreply 2108/18/2013

Next time he places his hands on your chest hands on your chest, just pull out your cock.

by Anonymousreply 2208/18/2013

Kick him out, if he continues to harass you. I had a best friend who did the same thing, which ended our friendship. I don't miss him, because his harassing me outweighed our friendship.

by Anonymousreply 2308/18/2013

R23 has had fibromyalgia ever since. Imagine, being touched a homely person! The indignity! The horror!

I'm glad I've never suffered such things

by Anonymousreply 2408/20/2013

R23 used to be attractive. But after being touched by a homely person he caught ugly and that's been the story of his life ever since.

by Anonymousreply 2508/20/2013
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