I'm a gay guy in my early 20s who is not really into anal sex. I've tried bottoming a few times (around 5 times) but it just doesn't feel pleasurable. It wasn't entirely unpleasant, but it didn't turn me on. I've tried extensively with anal toys, aneros, dildos, vibrators, etc, and I can take them in my ass, but I just don't feel pleasure from it - I also haven't been able to find my prostate no matter how much I probe around down there. I've jacked off with a toy in my ass before, but the orgasm wasn't any better then when I jack off.
I WANT to be a bottom though, because I think I have kinda a "bottom mentality" (I know this sounds kinda ridiculous). I like bigger dominant guys, and watching power bottoms in porn turns me on because I really want to be like them. Which is why being a top doesn't really interest me.
On the flipside, I LOVE giving oral sex, and am quite good at it too.
Questions for you all: Would you guys be with someone who was only into oral (but really good oral)? How can I find my prostate, or enjoy bottoming? Any other guys in the same situation? Thanks.