I've been called all three recently. Personally, when I see an attractive guy, I use the terms interchangeably to describe him. Or is there a difference?
Is there a difference between being cute, handsome, and good-looking?
|by Anonymous||reply 59||07/26/2013|
Handsome is for adult, masculine, stately, well-built tall men--and before, say, 1920, women as well.
Cute is for young, epicene guys or jejune, diminutive older guys.
"Good-looking" is a wishy-washy descriptor that really means "not ugly."
|by Anonymous||reply 9||07/24/2013|
Cute = Justin Bieber
Good Looking = Ryan Reynolds
Handsome = Channing Tatum
|by Anonymous||reply 10||07/24/2013|
I get handsome, alternating with good looking. I used to get cute, when I was younger. I hate to sound cavalier, but I never take any of it seriously. I just know it's better than being called strange, creepy, homely, chubby, geeky, etc.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||07/24/2013|
cute - Zac Efron
handsome - George Clooney
good looking - Jon Hamm
|by Anonymous||reply 12||07/24/2013|
Eww r10 thinks Channing Tatum is handsome. How about Henry Cavill instead? Actually how about using less douchey examples overall?
|by Anonymous||reply 13||07/24/2013|
Cute guys don't tend to age well. Think Paul McCartney.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||07/24/2013|
Cary Grant takes this thread as 'handsome'. You would never call him cute, or good looking. He was straight up, A+ , # 1 Handsome. And aged more beautifully than probably any other movie star ever.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||07/24/2013|
I think Matt Bomer would qualify as gorgeous--there's a "prettiness" about him that keeps him from being handsome, and the ice blue eyes with the pale skin give him a look that almost otherworldly. To me, that's gorgeous.
Handsome, on the other hand, has an earthiness to it. Cary Grant is for me a handsome man--the thick hair, the cleft thin, not too lean.
An interesting mix of a cute face on a handsome bod would be Clark Gable.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||07/24/2013|
I feel your pain OP. I was called "hot," "mysterious," and "well-hung" last year when I was a contestant on "Sweet Genius."
|by Anonymous||reply 19||07/24/2013|
Back in the day, I think that Tom Cruise was a cross between cute and good looking. Not sure I'd ever really call him handsome.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||07/24/2013|
a rose by any other name....
|by Anonymous||reply 21||07/24/2013|
[quote]I've been called all three recently.
Yeah okay but your grandma doesn't count.
The acid test is commentary by the Acid Queens at The Abbey.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||07/24/2013|
Cute = Harry from One Direction
Handsome = Brandon Routh
Good Looking = Tom Welling
|by Anonymous||reply 24||07/24/2013|
Cute has a very superficial, brand-wise connotation to it. When I say someone is cute it's more snide than complimentary. Handsome and good-looking have regal and classic nuances attatched to them.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||07/24/2013|
Cute: attractive and sexy in a non-threatening way. Striking "feminine" features like eyes, lips and hair. A pleasant, charming, entertaining or flirtatious personality usually increases this appeal. Usually indicates a youthful quality even when applied to older people.
Handsome: very attractive in a traditional and strongly masculine way. Think "movie-star", matinee idol, heart-throb, etc. Head-turning good-looks. A well-defined jawline and generally masculine features are required. Cute often ages into handsome.
Hot: sex on a stick. Dick-hardening at the sight. Of all three types this one is most dependent on body type over facial features, which often defy conventional standards. This term can be very relative, situational and subjective. One man's "hot" is another man's "huh?"
There is much overlap but I don't see the 3 words as interchangeable. Lots of twinks are cute but not really hot or handsome; a handsome man can be sexless and dull; a hot guy can be quirky-looking but possess a certain charm and project confidence.
The trifecta, though, is marriage material.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||07/24/2013|
We can probably all agree that Jon Hamm is handsome.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||07/24/2013|
How did this thread become about you r28 etc. You're not cute ok? There solved your prob.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||07/24/2013|
It is a problem...that all gay really want out of a conversation is for someone to acknowledge that they're as cute as they find themselves.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||07/24/2013|
Cute - Harry Styles
Handsome - Bradley Cooper
Good-looking - Matt Bomer
|by Anonymous||reply 32||07/24/2013|
Handsome ages well. Handsome will still see action after 50. Handsome usually doesn't come into their prime of looks until after 30.
Cute can become un-cute without a lot of work. Cute can't afford to not work out, moisturize, and get their hair situation under control at a young age.
Good looking is what falls between the two. It's a six that is well put together most of the time, or an eight who is underperforming due to egregious undercapitalization of their looks.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||07/25/2013|
"Cute" transitions into "Gnomish" once we hit our 40s.
"Handsome" can transcend age - it's the favored bone structure combined with minimal changes to overall weight.
"Good Looking" is subjective and requires a flock of ugly people for comparison.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||07/25/2013|
Is the OP Brandon?
|by Anonymous||reply 35||07/25/2013|
You're not allowed to type that name, R35.
It's like Candyman, but he licks all of your appliances.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||07/25/2013|
A good looking person can be cute or handsome, it's a synonym for attractive. It's not separate from those other words.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||07/25/2013|
I rather like cute than handsome or good looking. I never thought Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise were handsome.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||07/25/2013|
lolz @ R3
|by Anonymous||reply 39||07/25/2013|
People always called me cute most of my life but all I wanted to be was handsome damn it.
The reason I hate being called cute, especially from gay guys is like this:
It is a polite way of saying, that guy over there is hot! I want to fuck him. But you are cute, lets cuddle.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||07/25/2013|
R16, there are several things you could do. Start by changing your picture to something less attractive, or make it more obscure. How about a picture of you and your partner, Iv seen that before, that should get the point across.
Second thing is, you probably are flirting if your partner has picked up on it. Twitter is such a "look at me" kind of social app. People on Twitter usually crave attention. Shy people who like their privacy usually don't tweet. It's not a sex site but still, its a ego driven thing which attracts followers.
I am guessing you wont change your picture because you like the attention. But truth be told, if they are real friends, they would be so even if you looked like an old lady.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||07/25/2013|
Gregory Peck was handsome. Love him.
Was just watching Teen Wolf, so: Tyler Hoechlin is both handsome and good looking imo, Tyler Posey is cute and Dylan O good looking. I used to think Dylan was cute but now his features are more sharp and he's so skinny that he's just not cute anymore. Not that it's a bad thing. Hot is someone who you'd fuck, but it's more subjective than say handsome.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||07/25/2013|
Did he ask you for a loan right after that, R43?
|by Anonymous||reply 44||07/25/2013|
Your friend's feelings maybe more filial than sexual, R45.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||07/25/2013|
You are a terrible writer, r45. Take a basic composition class ASAP.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||07/25/2013|
Dumb question, OP, as those words don't necessarily mean the same thing to every person in the world.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||07/25/2013|
They aren't mutually exclusive, but they are different.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||07/25/2013|
[quote]I think Matt Bomer would qualify as gorgeous--there's a "prettiness" about him that keeps him from being handsome, and the ice blue eyes with the pale skin give him a look that almost otherworldly. To me, that's gorgeous.
Matt Bomer is just straight up beautiful. I agree it wouldn't really work to label him "handsome," certainly not "cute," and "good looking" doesn't remotely do him justice. However, he's probably the most beautiful man working in Hollywood right now, and his looks will age well. He may grow in to "handsome" as he ages.
My picks for examples of the OP's words:
Cute = Zac Efron when he was young and pretty (he seems to have beefed up too much of late)
Handsome = Pierce Brosnan
Good Looking = Ryan Gosling
BTW, Channing Tatum does not belong anywhere near any of these words.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||07/25/2013|
To each his own. I find Channing Tatum gorgeous and sexy. Bomer is certainly a good looking guy, but I personally find him bland and asexual. Plus, his body tends toward a pair shape, with narrow shoulders and wider hips, which I don't find attractive on a guy.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||07/25/2013|
May I hazard a guess as to your professional? Are you an acting coach who was either a model or actress in your youth?
|by Anonymous||reply 52||07/25/2013|
Channing Tatum has always reminded me of a wax figure doll--also he doesn't really have a distinct bone structure.
In ten years, you'll be posting "WHET Channing Tatum."
|by Anonymous||reply 53||07/25/2013|
Jake G was really cute when he was much younger. He morphed into a good looking guy. Not sure I would've ever labeled him handsome. He's still good looking, but age is not going to be kind. He already looks 10 years older than his age.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||07/25/2013|
If a guy is short, he's cute. Tall, handsome .or good-looking.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||07/25/2013|
Cute can be: 1- You seem nice and I'm trying to be polite but please go away. 2- You are young and seem adorable. There is no sexual/romantic attraction. Like how you would feel about a puppy. 3- You have a nice smile and seem warm/charming. There's sexual/romantic attraction.
Good looking sounds a bit sterile to me. Handsome sounds more appealing.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||07/25/2013|
What R8 says is how I see it.
|by Anonymous||reply 57||07/25/2013|
"Cute: attractive and sexy in a non-threatening way. Striking "feminine" features like eyes, lips and hair. A pleasant, charming, entertaining or flirtatious personality usually increases this appeal. Usually indicates a youthful quality even when applied to older people."
Perfect example of why the OP's question is so pointless; these words mean different things to different people. My own definition of "cute" agrees with all of the above EXCEPT "'feminine' features.'" I can think of a lot of guys I'd describe as cute whose features aren't "feminine."
|by Anonymous||reply 58||07/26/2013|
R8 nails it.
|by Anonymous||reply 59||07/26/2013|