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Are afraid of dealing with people?

I am. After years and years of being with people and being ignored or brushed aside, I lost all desire to be with people. Now even trying to hold a conversation with someone is tiring for me.

by Anonymousreply 2206/13/2013

I are afraid.

by Anonymousreply 106/11/2013

Me too OP

by Anonymousreply 206/11/2013

I'm not afraid of dealing with people. I'm sick of dealing with people.

by Anonymousreply 306/11/2013

What R3 said.

by Anonymousreply 406/11/2013

Who are these "people"; and why do you give these "people" so much power?

by Anonymousreply 506/11/2013

I'm sick of dealing with people, too. Tired of them.

by Anonymousreply 606/11/2013

I hate human beings too and I'm only in my early 30's. I cannot fathom how much more cunty I will become with age. I'm no longer able to mask my contempt.

by Anonymousreply 706/11/2013

Purr, purr Francine.

Is it just people, OP, or have you lost interest in other things, and do you enjoy porn?

Answer, please. It's important for my diagnosis and course of treatment (if needed).

by Anonymousreply 806/11/2013

People go on and on about the most boring things.

And their driving is horrible.

People can be so rude.

by Anonymousreply 906/11/2013

Most people just care about themselves. I like animals better than people.

by Anonymousreply 1006/11/2013

I'm not afraid, I just don't like them.

by Anonymousreply 1106/11/2013

People on the streets.

People on the streets.

by Anonymousreply 1206/11/2013

I don't like dealing with people who are so standoffish that they don't even address me as "you."

by Anonymousreply 1306/11/2013

Find a hobby that you really like - knitting, a pet, the opera, tennis, trainspotting, whatever. Then you'll always have something to talk about with others who share that interest.

But beware if you join a club not to get too personally involved. People in small, special interest groups inevitably turn on each other, no matter how petty the stakes are. Have never understood that.

by Anonymousreply 1406/11/2013

Ha, ha, there is a lot of truth in that R14. I always just thought it was my bad luck with the groups I joined.

Familiarity breeds contempt.

by Anonymousreply 1506/11/2013

Avoidant personality disorder.

by Anonymousreply 1606/11/2013

No r16, a disorder would be pretending that scum shouldn't be avoided.

by Anonymousreply 1706/11/2013

I'm afraid of closing the deal.

by Anonymousreply 1806/11/2013

Me too OP. Thanks mom for abusing me all my life.

by Anonymousreply 1906/11/2013

R8, I like porn, don't have that many other interests and feel very much like the OP. What say you????

by Anonymousreply 2006/11/2013

I am the exact opposite. I started out early in life strongly disliking people and having little patience for their tired shit. As I age, I understand people better, and find I am developing more empathy, cutting people more slack. This has caused me to like people more than I used to. I'm still not a people person, mind you.

by Anonymousreply 2106/13/2013

It's called depression, OP. Find a good therapist or shrink.

by Anonymousreply 2206/13/2013
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