I can truly say I don't 'get' women... or why straight men put up with them.
Seriously, a hot guy sends me an unsolicited dick pic, and I'm nothing but thankful. This bitch screamed "RAPE" and sent it to his mom. What the FUCK is wrong with her?
I can truly say I don't 'get' women... or why straight men put up with them.
Seriously, a hot guy sends me an unsolicited dick pic, and I'm nothing but thankful. This bitch screamed "RAPE" and sent it to his mom. What the FUCK is wrong with her?
|by Anonymous||reply 330||06/13/2013|
Straight guys do that too when you send them your dick pics. It's disgusting.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||06/10/2013|
This thread is useless without pictures of Trevor's face and cock.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||06/10/2013|
Old people, sheesh.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||06/10/2013|
Um, because if it is unsolicited and unwanted, then it is just wrong and offensive. Some of you posters are idiots, plain and simple.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||06/10/2013|
The man isn't just "cocky," he's crude, rude, completely self-centered, and extremely immature. Was he raised in a jungle by wolves? Has he been arrested for exhibitionism? No, I wouldn't send the dick pic to anyone; I'd just push the block key. It's obvious that he could care less about any girl or her feelings or who she is as an individual.
I love my man's cock and always let him know that fact. I also love the heart and brain and studly body to which it's attached. Still he would never send out pictures of his manhood; he's not 3 years old mentally.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||06/10/2013|
A friend of mine sent a nude pic of himself holding a teddy bear in front of his hoo-hoo and a bouquet of roses to Robert Goulet's hotel room, and he didn't even get a restraining order for the effort.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||06/10/2013|
It's not only that he sent the pic but when she made it very clear that she thought it was offensive, he called her a prude and later said "No wonder your [sic] single" followed by "I have a big cock." He deserves it.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||06/10/2013|
I'm quite sure if a woman sent an unsolicited pic of her twat to the queens on this board, half of them would pass out on the spot, the other half would run shrieking to their mama, especially R2 and R4.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||06/10/2013|
Dick pics rape my eyes! They rape my brain!
|by Anonymous||reply 19||06/10/2013|
[quote]So instead of comparing how you would feel when you get a picture of a dick you want to be sent, OP, perhaps you should compare how you would feel when some guy whom you don't want to expose himself to you, does just that.
I know, right? Because receiving a picture on your computer is [italic]exactly[/italic] the same as having someone in your living room (bedroom, car, shower, wherever) taking his pants off and showing you his dick.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||06/10/2013|
R15 is right, no guy would really cause drama about getting some dick pick they didnt want, they would just delete that shit and move on with life.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||06/10/2013|
How about if it was a pic of a pussy R15?
|by Anonymous||reply 23||06/10/2013|
Simple, R23. You say "Ewww" and delete.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||06/10/2013|
I read the story. Her perspective is summed up in the key sentence: I don't need that. I don't need to be disrespected.
What he did was not respectful. They'd barely connected online and did not know each other at all. He was an asshole to have done it, in addition to being an idiot to have done it.
The hyperbole of the rape reference aside, she also said, having been offended: I think you deserve to have that uncomfortable conversation with your mom.
Odds are high it will be a very uncomfortable conversation and maybe the doofus will learn something.
Was forwarding to mom a bit over the top? Maybe. I recall with interest he defenders of the lout on the train boasting about cheating on his wife.
The point is, if you send it, you lose control of it now. And if you don't know somebody well enough to reasonably predict their reaction it's probably best not to hit send.
If some guy sent me (a gay man) an unsolicited nude pic I'd just delete it with an eye roll. It's pretty creepy. But I can see how she got to where she did. I don't feel sorry for the guy. He didn't look before the leap.
Too bad he isn't gay. He'd probably getting his dick sucked instead of his ass handed to him.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||06/10/2013|
also the website "promises its users an entirely safe-for-work environment to find and connect with their One True Soul Mate or whatever." (Gawker.)
Not exactly the rate my dick crowd. Doofus should have known better.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||06/10/2013|
PR stunt, people!
|by Anonymous||reply 31||06/10/2013|
Trolldar OP. He certainly has a lot invested in this thread.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||06/10/2013|
It depends on the woman. I've worked with women who would feel truly violated by this. I'd feel mildly violated myself and I'm a whore, darlins.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||06/10/2013|
The Mom wrote back:
"Honey, I've seen it. Granted, it's a lot bigger now."
|by Anonymous||reply 34||06/10/2013|
What the guy did is offensive and obnoxious and was probably illegal. But it was not rape, and the "rape culture" phrase is ridiculously overused.
That being said, he was an asshole and deserved what he got.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||06/10/2013|
Like all big dicked guys, he thought all he had to do was show her the goods and she would fall all over herself trying to get a piece of it....he was wrong.
It has probably worked in the past.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||06/10/2013|
R36, I've actually met many nutso "little boys" that actually talk that way. I laugh in their face; I thought it was all a big joke.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||06/10/2013|
Where is Whoopi when you need her.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||06/10/2013|
[quote]Unless you are saying you've never met a guy you wouldn't want to have send you a picture of his cock.
Finally! Someone who understands me.
I actually agree w/ R27. He should have been playing by the rules.
I think it's harder for a guy to understand this. To us it's no big deal but women are used to being protective of their virtue and wary of (and sensitive to) being disrespected. God knows they have enough reason to be the way some straight guys act.
The thing is, I can't really see this working in the past for the guy. I don't think many women would respond positively.
Gay men, OTOH -- nicely done Trevor! Got any more?
|by Anonymous||reply 39||06/11/2013|
Can gay men even imagine the woman's point of view. Half the guys on Grindr are headless naked torsos.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||06/11/2013|
So does the forwarding mean she "raped" his mom?
|by Anonymous||reply 41||06/11/2013|
How is this different than walking through a parking lot and having some perv flash his goods? He got what he deserved. Women don't look for anonymous hookups, that's not being prudish. I don't think most of the posters here defending him would be so kind if it was a fat old dude sending dick pics to them instead of a young fit guy.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||06/11/2013|
"It's just a cock. Jesus."
Madonna approaches Jesus Luz, strapped with her boy-toy.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||06/11/2013|
[quote]How is this different than walking through a parking lot and having some perv flash his goods?
And why is that such a horrible thing? Laugh and point. Does the sight of a penis actually cause you trauma? Seriously? If so, what the FUCK is wrong with you?
If it were an ugly guy, it'd at least be more understandable. But my position would be the same. You don't want it, you delete it and block the sender. You don't do what this total bitch did. Ever.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||06/11/2013|
You'd sort of have to be a woman (not woman-hater) to understand. I'm sure to some here, years upon years of being flashed, groped, accosted, assaulted, molested and even raped by overbearing males is your gay wet dream, but it's not all it's cracked up to be if you're female, you know? Especially when this shit starts for most of us in preschool and doesn't stop. You guys can have Mr. Dick.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||06/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 47||06/11/2013|
Sorry. NSFW at r47.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||06/11/2013|
It's mean, but he did sexually harass her for his own amusement after she clearly was repulsed. I guess she believes in an eye for an eye. Or an unsolicited dick picture for an unsolicited dick picture.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||06/11/2013|
So R45, he should just be allowed to send dick pic to anyone he wants with no accountability? He's probably been doing this for a long time and the women just deleted so he kept on. And if you read the texts, he kept pushing and pushing and then attacked her for not appreciating an unsolicited picture. He needed some shame.
And about someone exposing themselves in public, as someone else mentioned, women deal with unwanted sexual advances all the time. It might not be anything for a gay man, but it's a real problem.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||06/11/2013|
It makes sense, from an evolutionary standpoint, for women to be weary of this type of sexual aggression from strange men. Get raped (maybe also beaten?) and get pregnant = out of the fucking race and incredibly vulnerable for 9 months (or really, until the kid is old enough to take care of himself).
Plus, women aren't generally the physical equals to their male sexual partners. If the guy gets rough, it's harder for her to push him off if need be.
To a certain extent, this evolutionary hesitance is still applicable. If young Trevor knocked up Miss Thing with a one-night stand, it's doubtful he would stay around to ease her financial and physical burdens for the next 18 years with Junior.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||06/11/2013|
What the woman did was mean but after reading their exchange, he absolutely provoked her. After she told him not to contact her again, he continued to taunt her.
He was too stupid to think through how vulnerable he was. Lesson learned.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||06/11/2013|
If it were me, I would have just encouraged him to keep sending more. He's fucking hot. Why wouldn't you want to look at that? I'd never want to MEET this asshole, but I'd masturbate to his pic for sure :-P
|by Anonymous||reply 53||06/11/2013|
To those who say it's not a big deal, come on, give me the emails of your daughter/niece/sister and mother, I want to treat them to daily dick pics to perk up their day. They'll love it!
Wait, while we're on sending random women dick pics, why don't YOU send your boss's daughter one of yours as a joke? That'll be hilarious! Hope she has a sense of humor, otherwise, what a prude bitch! Any takers?
|by Anonymous||reply 54||06/11/2013|
Jesus, some of you people are shallow in every way, aren't you?
|by Anonymous||reply 56||06/11/2013|
I think this college-aged blogger culture that's pushing "rape culture" as the new buzz term might actually end up desensitizing people further to rape.
I'm a PhD dropout, but still Facebook friends with a lot of former fellow grad students. Just tonight I saw one of them post some blog article about how that famous picture of the soldier and nurse kissing (V-J Day in Times Square) was actually an example of the "selective blindness of rape culture."
I just rolled my eyes and kept on scrolling.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||06/11/2013|
Men are utterly wasted on women.
|by Anonymous||reply 59||06/11/2013|
He got what he deserved.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||06/11/2013|
Why the hell do men think women get off on this?
buy a clue, jackasses.....THEY DON'T!
And Brett "tiny meat" Favre had to learn that the hard way.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||06/11/2013|
OP: you little bitch, what makes you think you get decide what women have to like? Typical straight prick, after he doesn't get the response he anticipated, he becomes hostile and insulting. Men are dumb beasts.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||06/11/2013|
Make no mistake: "Rape Culture" is real, especially among entitled conservative white males.
But invoking it in this case is beyond ridiculous.
|by Anonymous||reply 63||06/11/2013|
"Just tonight I saw one of them post some blog article about how that famous picture of the soldier and nurse kissing (V-J Day in Times Square) was actually an example of the "selective blindness of rape culture."
Well, dummy, the solider just grabbed the woman (a stranger to him) and kissed her.
|by Anonymous||reply 64||06/11/2013|
[quote]Men are dumb beasts.
Like I said, men are utterly wasted on women.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||06/11/2013|
r61 Some do clearly. I think these men have more experience with women then you do.
|by Anonymous||reply 66||06/11/2013|
Poor Farve will never live that down
|by Anonymous||reply 67||06/11/2013|
r58 Well a LOT of soldiers fill the free time by raping women and raiding peoples' homes.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||06/11/2013|
I'm familiar with the story, r64, dummy. And that's something like assault, but not rape. And I'd say the same for some jackass sending an unwanted dick pic.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||06/11/2013|
I think Farve will always been know as tiny meat, and he so deserves it.
Farve and Weiner..... laughingstocks for eternity!
|by Anonymous||reply 70||06/11/2013|
So is this Mr I-have-a-big-cock?
|by Anonymous||reply 71||06/11/2013|
What a hypocrite. She complains about receiving an unsolicited dick picture, being forced to see it and then turns around and does the same thing to an innocent third party.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||06/11/2013|
google Brett Farve tiny ding dong
|by Anonymous||reply 73||06/11/2013|
off topic, someone make a thread. More police brutality!!
And you dumbasses want these people to be the only people around with guns??
|by Anonymous||reply 74||06/11/2013|
Some of you don't get it. It doesn't matter that the guy looks hot, refusing to take "no" for an answer is a massive turnoff to any woman with sense.
To get how she feels, imagine you keep getting dick picks from a repulsive, obnoxious old troll.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||06/11/2013|
r75, I can imagine it, thanks to your post.
And I imagine myself laughing and deleting it and moving on.
It's just a picture. Grow up.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||06/11/2013|
R76 why tolerate some asshole scumbag when you can turn the tables?
|by Anonymous||reply 77||06/11/2013|
pants on fire, r76.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||06/11/2013|
R72, he's just as much of a hypocrite. If sending a pic of his huge dick is no big deal, then why protest when she sends it to his mother? I'm sure his mother is no prude, right?
|by Anonymous||reply 79||06/11/2013|
Exactly, R79. If he has a "right" to expose himself, then don't complain about the woman's "right" to expose him.
This thread is a textbook case of Datalounge's utter hypocrisy when it involves women; the basic differences between male and female sexuality (women generally don't appreciate genitalia pictures from romantic prospects; men do); and the inability of many (not all) DL men to empathise with another's point of view (just like the sexually harassing dick-pic-er in question)... At all.
|by Anonymous||reply 80||06/11/2013|
[quote] Exactly, [R79]. If he has a "right" to expose himself, then don't complain about the woman's "right" to expose him.
So the mother has no say at all then? She isn't also receiving unsolicited dick pics?
He's an asshole, but she handled it badly. She should have just uploaded it online and let tumblr do the rest.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||06/11/2013|
Oh, I don't think the mother should have to receive the pic either, believe me. What I said was that it was hypocritical for those who criticised the young woman for not reacting with joy to the dick pic to then say it was a terrible act for the young woman to forward the photograph to the mother.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||06/11/2013|
Why do so many sniveling little whiners here worship and defend any and all straight men? At least half of them would call you a faggot to your face, but because they're straight and hate women, you worship them regardless. You have no self-esteem and you perpetuate the very culture that keeps you second-class and continually marginalized.
But straight guys are hot and chicks are stupid, so who cares, right, bro?
[quote]a hot guy sends me an unsolicited dick pic, and I'm nothing but thankful
Let's just get this out of the way: you sound pathetic and desperate. So maybe this really isn't another skirmish in the battle of the sexes and just you bring a loser who's grateful for any scrap of sexual attention.
Putting that obvious truth aside, "a hot guy" is in the eye of the beholder, so you should begin by noting that. One man's hot guy is another woman's sleeve troll.
Also " straight dating app" and "gay hookup site" are not the same things.
And straight women are not gay men.
And women aren't men.
And differences aren't bad.
And respecting other people is a good thing.
But do go on ignoring these truths, and rattling your cage about how stupid women are. Just remember its straight men who put you in that cage, and it's identical to the cages that women and other minorities are kept in, too.
But you keep rattling your cage. Idiot.
|by Anonymous||reply 83||06/11/2013|
r72, yea, because the point of sending it to the mother was to be sexual bait her-- intentions of both really comparable, no?
r80, I agree. I am very surprised how most didn't empathize with the woman, and even rallying on the guy since he's a looker, wtf.
You think straight Trevor would "just point and laugh" or just calmly block if some gay dude harasses him with his dick pics?
|by Anonymous||reply 84||06/11/2013|
Jealousy sucks, eh OP?
|by Anonymous||reply 86||06/11/2013|
OP= creepy flasher.
I bet he posted this from a bush near a girls school. You're not even gay are you OP? You're straight and you know exactly why a guy taking a picture of his dick and sending it to a woman he barely knows is considered wrong by straight people- both men and women. You came here looking for validation didn't you? And some of the fools bought it.
|by Anonymous||reply 87||06/11/2013|
How the hell was she able to forward this to his mom?
|by Anonymous||reply 88||06/11/2013|
r4 I do question straight women that say things like that. But unsolicited naked pictures is violating. A gay man sending a naked picture to another gay man is different since two men are equals. There is a power dynamic between a man and a woman.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||06/11/2013|
Thank you, R85, for chiming immediately with a post that illustrates everything I was trying to demonstrate. Your overwhelming hatred of women coupled with your empty-headed worship of any oafish brut who possesses a cock is exactly the sort of whimpering, bitter self-loathing I was trying to describe. Bravo, bro.
|by Anonymous||reply 90||06/11/2013|
[quote][R72], he's just as much of a hypocrite. If sending a pic of his huge dick is no big deal, then why protest when she sends it to his mother? I'm sure his mother is no prude, right?
How does that excuse her actions? You're using the logic of a 2 year old. He was wrong, so she should have attacked him, not an innocent third party who wasn't involved.
|by Anonymous||reply 91||06/11/2013|
r83 Perfect post.
|by Anonymous||reply 92||06/11/2013|
[quote]A gay man sending a naked picture to another gay man is different since two men are equals. There is a power dynamic between a man and a woman.
Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner!
|by Anonymous||reply 93||06/11/2013|
Not exactly, R93. Similarly, a woman sending a photo of her genitalia shouldn't be excused just because the recipient is a man.
I don't think twat-pics are very popular though.
|by Anonymous||reply 94||06/11/2013|
It was unsolicited. She didn't want to see his fucking cock! How hard is that to understand? If you don't want to deal with spam, telemarketers, or religious zealots knocking on your door, why can't you understand that something both unsolicited, unwanted and sexual is a problem and a threat? This is the 21st century version of a creep in a trenchcoat flashing his junk at random passersby.
|by Anonymous||reply 95||06/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 96||06/11/2013|
Sending the pic to the Mother was hilarious. Mothers who see their adult kids naked don't look at them in a sexual way, she was probably furious he was an idiot for taking the pic in the first place.
|by Anonymous||reply 97||06/11/2013|
Love that she sent the pic to his mother. That really did make me LOL.
|by Anonymous||reply 98||06/11/2013|
Oh please, r91, you can't have it both ways. I said in an early post that what she did was mean. But when she warned him to stop contacting her, he kept insulting her. At that point, he was asking for this situation to escalate.
You cannot argue that seeing a dick pic is no big deal but then claim horror that his mother had to look at a dick pic. It's just a dick pic, right? Or maybe the offended woman was right and there is an appropriate time and place for that. Maybe she's not a prude for not wanting to be emailed that stuff.
This guy is literally sending out dick pics to complete strangers on a dating website that claims to be safe for work and then attacking women who don't want them. His parents clearly got something wrong as they raised them. Maybe they can fix it now.
|by Anonymous||reply 99||06/11/2013|
Btw, for people who are irritated by how many posters are defending the guy, I hope you realize how few people are actually reading the full story at the link. Most people are taking the OP's slanted version of events as exactly what happened.
|by Anonymous||reply 101||06/11/2013|
"a hot guy sends me an unsolicited dick pic, and I'm nothing but thankful."
I can't begin to describe how thoroughly pathetic this statement is. As a gay man, I find it so pitiful and reinforcing of the worst gay stereotypes.
|by Anonymous||reply 102||06/11/2013|
Well, in OP's defense, he has never received an unsolicited dick pic form a hot guy before, so this is all hypothetical.
|by Anonymous||reply 103||06/11/2013|
[quote]But when she warned him to stop contacting her, he kept insulting her. At that point, he was asking for this situation to escalate.
She should have acted against him then, not an innocent third party. If what he did was wrong, what she did is worse because not only is it the exact thing he did, but she did it while claiming it is wrong.
|by Anonymous||reply 104||06/11/2013|
[quote] but she did it while claiming it is wrong.
No, her intentions don't matter in your weird moral equivalency (if they did, your argument is still flawed) - you're the hypocrite - you're claiming that him sending dick pictures is fine, but her sending it is not. I think both cases are wrong - but you're an utter hypocrite for defending him and not her. Sexual harrasser-defender, that's what you are, actually.
|by Anonymous||reply 105||06/11/2013|
Any idiot who send an unsolicited picture of his dick to someone, man or woman without a hint of risk, is well, stupid beyond comprehension, or waayyy too full of testosterone (out of control) or both.
|by Anonymous||reply 106||06/11/2013|
So was this Eye-Rape? Or iRape?
|by Anonymous||reply 107||06/11/2013|
Really R102? Do you find it equally as pathetic when a straight guy says he wouldnt really be upset if some hot chick sent him a nude picordo you reserve your judgement for gays. In general men and women are different. Too many straight guys think women think like them if they liked dudes, but thats more likely tk be gay guys obviously.
|by Anonymous||reply 108||06/11/2013|
OP, you realize that not all people are as sexually libertine and thirsty as you are? In fact, most people (male or female) have different sexual ethics than you have and would find such conduct creepy and harassing. Why would you expect this poor woman to be okay with being sent an unsolicited picture of a near-stranger's genitals? I have dated online before, and I don't get why some dudes think it is okay to send a picture of their genitals to someone who has not requested it. I never send anyone a picture of my genitals or myself in an undressed state, so it is baffling why anyone would think it is okay to send an X-rated picture to somehow who has not requested it. That is called perverted harassment. Harassing someone in this way can lead to criminal charges and/or very public embarrassment and humiliation.
|by Anonymous||reply 109||06/11/2013|
"a hot guy sends me an unsolicited dick pic, and I'm nothing but thankful."
Dude, most people are not as desperate and creepy as you are.
|by Anonymous||reply 110||06/11/2013|
R110, it's neither desperate nor creepy. You have issues.
|by Anonymous||reply 111||06/11/2013|
Yeah Im curious about that as well, if its a good looking body Id look it over smile and go on with my life. How is that desperate or creepy? Just not ashamed to admit I dont mind looking at attractive people and a little nudity doesnt have me freaking ou and running for the smelling salts. I remember in college having 5 roommates one year and there were naked people all the time in that place. Not saying what he did was right but I do think some people needto loosen up.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||06/11/2013|
r112, okay, maybe you're not creepy, but you need to acknowledge your receptiveness to that type of thing is not the normal reaction of most people.
|by Anonymous||reply 113||06/11/2013|
R71, I don't know if that's DicPic Trevor or not, but whoever he is, he can send me all the nude photos he likes.
|by Anonymous||reply 114||06/11/2013|
[quote]Make no mistake: "Rape Culture" is real, especially among entitled conservative white males.
WTF? I hate being forced to defend conservatives but this is bullshit.
|by Anonymous||reply 115||06/11/2013|
R71 learn to post links asshole.
|by Anonymous||reply 118||06/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 119||06/11/2013|
BTW, R118, did you really not know how to do that yourself?
|by Anonymous||reply 120||06/11/2013|
I can't wait for Michfest to start so we can have a few days with less "male gaze", "rape culture", and other such nonsense on here.
|by Anonymous||reply 122||06/11/2013|
Dayum R119! Who would bitch about getting pictures of that find piece of tail sent to them?
|by Anonymous||reply 123||06/11/2013|
Is there an uncensored picture of him showing his face and penis?
|by Anonymous||reply 124||06/11/2013|
[quote]I agree with OP.
So you and the OP would be happy to receive unsolicited dick photos regardless of the source. What can I say - that's fantastic! Except that I don't believe you. You are imagining high quality dick attached to a hot stud, aren't you ? Sadly no imagination or too much imagination (plus, sounds like you couldn't care less if the dick was attached to a sociopath, or well, a dick.) Chances are the woman was sent a photo of a sad looking dick attached to a pathetic human being.
|by Anonymous||reply 125||06/11/2013|
I cannot believe the number of guys sticking up for this douchebag and I'm gay. Why would anyone send a pic of thier cock to someone they don't know and someone that clearly doesn't want it. Good for her for sending it on to his mom.
|by Anonymous||reply 126||06/11/2013|
R71, those pictures seem to be of a guy named Marc Fitt.
|by Anonymous||reply 127||06/11/2013|
I think the issue is that she handled this in an inappropriate and rather self involved fashion. The correct thing to do would be to block him and notify the owners/moderators of the "safe-for-work" site that a user had violated the terms of service. Instead, she decided to be a drama queen. I ma sure she did it with every intent of of being able to say "look what I did!!!!"
|by Anonymous||reply 130||06/11/2013|
[quote]A straight slut/cunt can blow/suck/swallow a guy a night BUT gets offended when they see a picture of a cock
You're delusional. She can suck however many guys she WANTS. She can also tell a cock she doesn't want to fuck off. Then again, there probably isn't a cock you'd pass up, is there?
|by Anonymous||reply 131||06/11/2013|
R71, it's impossible for the guy in the first photo and the guy in the second phots to be the same guy.
|by Anonymous||reply 132||06/11/2013|
[quote]This usually involved times when the check comes to the table or someone has to stay late to do extra work, but I think it applies in this case as well.
Right, because clearly this woman sends unsolicited twat pics to guys all the time ....
Logic's not your strong suit, is it?
|by Anonymous||reply 133||06/11/2013|
Gay or not, most men and women are different when it comes to these things, so WTF are you all arguing?
Still, for her to use the word "rape" makes her an idiot.
|by Anonymous||reply 134||06/11/2013|
For the last time, the biggest problem was this guy's refusal to listen when the woman set boundaries. There was no reason for him to start insulting her because she wasn't turned on/excited by his dick picture. There is no defense for that.
|by Anonymous||reply 135||06/11/2013|
R134, we are arguing that there is a right way and a wrong way to handle the situation, regardless of ones gender.
|by Anonymous||reply 136||06/11/2013|
[quote]It's about unwarranted harassment. A straight slut/cunt can blow/suck/swallow a guy a night BUT gets offended when they see a picture of a cock. It's all about their girl power, they get to choose who they want to be kinky with not the other way around.
You know, the "rape culture" thing seems a little melodramatic until you read something like this. What is your point here? Did you really mean to imply that there's something amiss with women who think they have the right to choose their sex partners? That women who enjoy sex with the men of their choosing ought to be willing to accept sex from any man who wants it?
|by Anonymous||reply 137||06/11/2013|
R135, you expect a guy who sent a dick-pic to understand boundaries? Really, that says more about you than it does about him. As the old saying goes,"Don't argue with a pig. It only makes you look like a fool, and it annoys the pig." The correct response would be to NOT engage him and to contact the moderators.
|by Anonymous||reply 138||06/11/2013|
There's a right way and a wrong way to handle the situation and it appears the side you're on depends on gender, not sex. pref.
|by Anonymous||reply 139||06/11/2013|
No, R139, the side you are on depends on ones intelligence and level of maturity.
|by Anonymous||reply 140||06/11/2013|
OP must have no standards if he's OK with just any guy sending cock pics to him.
A hideously ugly and gross guy sent a female friend a picture of his cock. She was horrified, understandably. I would not want to see that from 'him'.
|by Anonymous||reply 141||06/11/2013|
She shouldn't have sent the photo to his mum - very true. She should have told him not to do it again, and if that failed, take it to the police.
|by Anonymous||reply 142||06/11/2013|
As people keep ignoring, it isnt even about being okay with it R141, it is about not trying to cause drama and a big scene over it
|by Anonymous||reply 143||06/11/2013|
Sometimes causing drama and a big scene over it is the only thing that gets through. That guy couldn't understand what the problem was and just kept on provoking her. It's aggressive and unwanted.. and probably a bit scary for women.
|by Anonymous||reply 144||06/11/2013|
I doubt he sent it to her for no reason. She must have given him some hint she wanted him.
|by Anonymous||reply 146||06/11/2013|
If he looked like Harvey Weinstein, your reaction would be different.
|by Anonymous||reply 147||06/11/2013|
R146 - those trashy fucking tattoos she has were probably the only green light he needed.
|by Anonymous||reply 148||06/11/2013|
R147 What are you saying about Heavy Whalestein? He is so charming and good looking any woman would fall for him honey.Especially when they see that bulge....... where his wallet is of course.
|by Anonymous||reply 149||06/11/2013|
R146, I have multiple dudes online send me X rated self pics without any prompting for such material. In fact, all my pics I share with people are very Grated and so are my profiles. I never ask or suggest that anyone send me explicit pics. Yet, some guys will still send you unsolicited X rated self pics.
|by Anonymous||reply 150||06/11/2013|
R145, you perpetuate the archaic stereotype that gay dudes are nasty, misogynistic, catty, predatory, immoral, and jealous of women. You don't represent mainstream gay and bisexual dudes.
|by Anonymous||reply 151||06/11/2013|
can someone post an unedited version that shows his face and or cock? thanks
|by Anonymous||reply 153||06/11/2013|
[quote] OP, perhaps you should compare how you would feel when some guy whom you don't want to expose himself to you, does just that
I would feel similar to when I see idiot posts like yours on DL. It's not what I want to see, but I say oh well and move on. Because unlike you, I'm not an idiot.
|by Anonymous||reply 154||06/11/2013|
I think sending a pic of your genitals to someone is high risk if that pic was not unsolicited. You should expect people to freak out and call you out for it, just like you would with any sexual harassment.
|by Anonymous||reply 155||06/11/2013|
I love that she corrected his grammar. She would fit in here very nicely.
|by Anonymous||reply 156||06/11/2013|
I think "rape culture" speaks to the mentality of young men thinking they can stick their dick wherever they want (in pictures and in person) whether the woman wants it or not.
Pretty self-explanatory guys.
|by Anonymous||reply 157||06/11/2013|
Using the word "rape" regarding anything but a physical sexual assault diminishes the power of the word and is an affront to rape victims.
|by Anonymous||reply 158||06/11/2013|
I think she meant it that way, r158. And was trying to show the attitudes and behavior that are created by and continue to foster "rape culture."
BTW - according to the feminists, rape culture is not just about women being raped, it's about them being shamed and blamed post rape and having the rapists protected.
Can you imagine if the Jerry Sandusky victims were being blasted all over twitter for being shameless sluts for prancing around the showers nude with older men?
|by Anonymous||reply 159||06/11/2013|
r159, did they really prance? Could you give us a description of what that might look like?
|by Anonymous||reply 160||06/11/2013|
Women get a rapey vibe from unsolicited dick picks that gay men can't relate to.
I recall some chick complained that Brett Favre sent her a dick pick. Brett Favre!
|by Anonymous||reply 161||06/11/2013|
I think this SNL skit in which it isn't sexual harassment if the guy looks like Tom Brady says it all.
|by Anonymous||reply 162||06/11/2013|
This whole thread exists because Americans are uptight and Puritanical about sex. Y'all have a lot of shame about it.
|by Anonymous||reply 163||06/11/2013|
r161, you mean "your kind of gay dude" can't relate to. Don't defame all gay men to be just like you.
|by Anonymous||reply 165||06/11/2013|
r165, if you're a "gay gay" who is offended by a dick pic.... well, you're not even a gay guy. I'd say freak is a better description.
|by Anonymous||reply 166||06/11/2013|
R165 hasn't seen his own cock in 15 years
|by Anonymous||reply 167||06/11/2013|
For all the men who would enjoy unsolicited pics of genitalia - please post your cell phone numbers below to receive lots of pictures of beefy curtained va jay jays with plenty of pubes. We know you won't be freaked out to have these spontaneously arriving on your phone -especially when you are at a work lunch.
|by Anonymous||reply 168||06/11/2013|
r168's mind hasn't yet developed to the point where he can distinguish between the concept of spam vs a single pic.
|by Anonymous||reply 169||06/11/2013|
R168. Nice try, but she is supposedly straight. Sending a. cock pic to her does not equal sending a cunt pic to a gay man.
OTOH, some of my straight friends send me all kinds of pretty pink pussy photos, it doesn't bother me.
|by Anonymous||reply 170||06/11/2013|
This is the most insane thread I've ever read on DL, and that is saying something.
And they say the soap threads draw an unsavory crowd. I wonder how many of you are actually gay men.
|by Anonymous||reply 171||06/11/2013|
Like this, R170?
|by Anonymous||reply 172||06/11/2013|
Once again, clueless fuckwit at R173, the two situations are not the same due to the imbalance of physical/economic/societal power between men and women.
|by Anonymous||reply 174||06/11/2013|
Are you retarded or something?
|by Anonymous||reply 176||06/11/2013|
We're all kind of equal on the internets.
|by Anonymous||reply 177||06/11/2013|
r178, why did you have to go one step too far?
|by Anonymous||reply 179||06/11/2013|
This thread is like a lightning rod drawing all the sex negatives' energy to it.
|by Anonymous||reply 180||06/11/2013|
Yes, R178, identifying a power imbalance = exactly the same as identifying inferiority. *eye roll*
I hope that English is not your first language, otherwise you are really fucking stupid. I suspect the latter.
|by Anonymous||reply 181||06/11/2013|
R172 - that was hilarious and completely unexpected!
Thank you for the laugh.
|by Anonymous||reply 182||06/11/2013|
[quote]Using the word "rape" regarding anything but a physical sexual assault diminishes the power of the word and is an affront to rape victims.
I don't think anyone, including the recipient of the cock pic in question, has suggested that sending an unwanted dick pic = rape. People have merely pointed out that the mentality that says "You fucking bitch/cunt/slut/whore/prude, how dare you object when I send you a picture of my cock" is not THAT far off from the mentality that says, "You fucking bitch/cunt/slut/whore/prude, how dare you object when I decide to fuck you."
|by Anonymous||reply 184||06/11/2013|
R162's clip is so true.
|by Anonymous||reply 185||06/11/2013|
Um, I haven't seen anyone using a power imbalance to justify anything as right/wrong, R183. Seriously, how many people here are incapable of following a logical argument?
|by Anonymous||reply 186||06/11/2013|
[quote]You have to admit that using a power imbalance to justify something as right/wrong falls pretty close to the arguments used by people who claim black people can't be racists.
Y'know what, hon? Black people can be just as bigoted and prejudiced as any other group of people and absolutely nobody has ever suggested otherwise. Those who say blacks can't be racist are defining racism as the *systemic* (e.g., Jim Crow) oppression of a group of people of based on their race, and guess what? By that definition, African Americans cannot in fact be racist, because they have never been in a position to systemically oppress white Americans, however much they might hate white people. That's really not very hard to understand and had nothing to do with this discussion of cock pics, so take that trollbait somewhere else.
The concept of power imbalance is at the heart of laws and policies that says parents can't fuck their kids, 50-year-olds can fuck 10-year-olds, teachers can't fuck their students, etc. Shall I now leap to the conclusion that you are a pedo because you object to arguments based on the concept of power imbalances?
|by Anonymous||reply 188||06/11/2013|
Lots of theory, r188, which doesn't always translate into practice.
|by Anonymous||reply 189||06/11/2013|
Why are people saying the woman felt powerless here? She was pretty strong. She told him clearly she didn't want the pic and didn't appreciate it. She told him to stop contact her. When he didn't, she made him pay. By the end, he was pleading for her consideration. Bam.
|by Anonymous||reply 191||06/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 192||06/11/2013|
[your a prude]
Oh, dear..... how many times does the dumbass need to be corrected on his grammar?
|by Anonymous||reply 193||06/11/2013|
When you do something as stupid, dumb, and harassing as sending a pic of your genitals to someone who has not asked for such a thing, you should expect swift and strong retribution and humiliation to result. He got what he deserved.
|by Anonymous||reply 194||06/11/2013|
About the same number of times you need to be corrected on how to post a quote, dumbass.
|by Anonymous||reply 195||06/11/2013|
I have no idea what you mean by that, r189, but I won't ask you to explain because that whole tangent really doesn't have shit to do with this thread, anyway.
Sending an unsolicited cock pic is just a crappy idea, especially if you are sending it to somebody you located via an explicitly "SFW" dating site. I wouldn't say power differentials had anything to with it, though, unless we were talking about a boss sending a cock pic to an employee or something.
And although I think it's a shitty idea, I'd probably just chalk it up to harmless cluelessness if the guy had the grace to apologize and knock it off when informed that his pics were unwelcome. But a guy who gets all pissed off and argues and calls names is a different story; in essence, he's saying "it's okay for me to send you dick pics if I feel like it, but not okay for you to tell me to stop." That mentality is a problem.
|by Anonymous||reply 196||06/11/2013|
[quote]Men are utterly wasted on women.
That's certainly true for men who think dicks are the most important thing in the world.
|by Anonymous||reply 198||06/11/2013|
I hope Trevor's real or full name gets out.
When someone is told to fuck off, he/she should FUCK OFF.
|by Anonymous||reply 199||06/11/2013|
I apologize for the catty misogynistic creepy gay guys on this thread. They are not indicative of most bisexual/gay dudes.
|by Anonymous||reply 200||06/11/2013|
Could you bitches be any more tiresome? Now I have to scroll through all this drivel to see if there are unpixellated pics.
|by Anonymous||reply 201||06/11/2013|
[quote]I hope Trevor's real or full name gets out.
Or at least pics of [italic]his[/italic] face and [italic]his[/italic] dick, preferably in the same picture, i.e., not the one dailydot.com stole from someone else (more morally reprehensible IMO than what Trevor did).
|by Anonymous||reply 202||06/11/2013|
[quote] Your a prude
LOL She corrected him multiple times(that I saw), yet the ignorant jackass kept typing it!
|by Anonymous||reply 203||06/11/2013|
Dumbass at r193, it's not grammar, it's spelling.
Grammar is defined as "the rules for standard use of words" or "the study of the way the sentences of a language are constructed."
Spelling mistakes do not seem to be the same as grammatical mistakes.
|by Anonymous||reply 205||06/11/2013|
Lets be real about this bitches. It all comes down to this: attractive women are spoiled by good dick getting thrown at them left, right and center. Very, very few gay men get the same amount of penis offers from the most sexually enticing men. So we have two conflicting points of view, and there will never be an end to the argument.
|by Anonymous||reply 207||06/11/2013|
[quote]very few gay men get the same amount of penis offers from the most sexually enticing men.
You are obviously speaking from your own most unfortunate perspective.
|by Anonymous||reply 209||06/11/2013|
That was no spelling mistake.
Dumb redneck simply does not understand the difference between your and you're.
|by Anonymous||reply 210||06/11/2013|
I think it's pretty simple: Don't send cock shots to strangers who haven't asked for them.
A second issue is whether she should have then forwarded an unsolicited cock shot to another stranger (the guy's mother.)
|by Anonymous||reply 211||06/11/2013|
The guy gets what he deserves just for being so stupid
|by Anonymous||reply 212||06/11/2013|
Didn't she commit matrirape by forwarding it to her mother?
|by Anonymous||reply 215||06/11/2013|
[quote]You are obviously speaking from your own most unfortunate perspective.
r209, there are less gay men then straight men, that is just statistics. No need to work my own perspective into the argument. And I dont take dick up the ass anyway, so Im not thirsty. But there are plenty of guys who are.
|by Anonymous||reply 216||06/11/2013|
Uh, apparently she didn't want it, but the prick's little ego couldn't take it.
Can't he go to a bar and get laid?
|by Anonymous||reply 218||06/11/2013|
[quote]And this is where your argument fails. This is not our culture.
I myself am not totally sold on the idea that it is (though I would not say we even have one monolithic culture, and attitudes toward rape vary widely depending on demographic, local culture, etc.). My argument with the retarded asscannon with whom I have been "debating" rape culture began with my saying that his attitude that slutty women have no business objecting to sexual attention from ANY man helps me understand why some women DO believe in the existence of a rape culture.
|by Anonymous||reply 219||06/11/2013|
This whole thing is fake as hell anyway. The conversation between them is very scripted, right down to his spelling mistakes. She's just trying to get traffic for her blog or score a job in PR or something.
|by Anonymous||reply 222||06/11/2013|
r220, hon, you're an asscannon because you talk out your ass with the force of a cannon, not because I want to stick a cannon or anything else up your nasty old ass.
[quote]You don't deserve to live
Haha, you big baby. So sending unwanted dick pics is totally cool and recipients who say otherwise are hypersensitive, but disagreeing with you on the internet? Now, there's an offense that should be punishable by death, eh?
|by Anonymous||reply 223||06/11/2013|
Did someone on DL post this on Gawker:
What if this was reversed and it was a woman sending a pic of her cunt to some random guy? Would there still be outrage?
|by Anonymous||reply 225||06/11/2013|
r228: you're a dumb mess and not even a dumb hot one.
|by Anonymous||reply 229||06/11/2013|
R228, if that was supposed to be a slam, please pay an actual gay person to write one for you.
|by Anonymous||reply 230||06/11/2013|
[quote]fem-nazis are the scum of the earth, and there is no need for them anymore.
Rush, is that you? Time for your Twinkies and nap, dear.
|by Anonymous||reply 231||06/11/2013|
Good, because nobody else is R232.
|by Anonymous||reply 233||06/11/2013|
I hope, in your next life, most of you guys come back as attractive females. Trust me, you will change your tune about unwanted male attention.
|by Anonymous||reply 234||06/11/2013|
R234, I wish something equally horrific on you. And as gay men - which is who this site is for - we get a lot of unwanted attention all the time, and know how to deal with it like adults. Not horrible entitled assholes who think they're standing up for their systers by horrifying some innocent third party.
|by Anonymous||reply 235||06/11/2013|
r221 - Explain how you, a straight person, are entitled to come on a gay site and toss around the word "fag." Then again, don't. You're nothing but a bigot and a troll.
|by Anonymous||reply 236||06/11/2013|
I'm not straight, r236.
|by Anonymous||reply 237||06/12/2013|
r230, a/k/a "talks to self" and out of both sides of your mouth, you need to acquaint yourself with trolldar.
|by Anonymous||reply 238||06/12/2013|
So, you're saying, R239, that women perceive a hot guy's nice looking cock as something diseased and sicko?
That tells me all I need to know.
(shaking my head)
|by Anonymous||reply 240||06/12/2013|
"Not horrible entitled assholes who think they're standing up for their systers by horrifying some innocent third party."
Hahaha, "innocent third" party .. maybe her little prince should act like a grown up and fuck off when he's not wanted.
|by Anonymous||reply 242||06/12/2013|
I don't think anyone is really denying the guy was a boorish asshole. The point is, it's not just the guy who has obvious issues and did something completely wrong.
|by Anonymous||reply 243||06/12/2013|
I'm a GBM and I think the woman handled herself pretty well. I wouldn't be offended if I got that pic out of the blue but I respect her right to be put off. I don't think she acted like a victim at all. She got him to reflect on how his relentless behavior would look to someone he cared about. Pretty savvy.
|by Anonymous||reply 244||06/12/2013|
[quote] Hahaha, "innocent third" party .. maybe her little prince should act like a grown up and fuck off when he's not wanted.
So the mother of a grown man has to be blamed on everything her adult child does?
|by Anonymous||reply 245||06/12/2013|
[quote] A very savvy ex once told me that most grown men are still very little boys inside. They smart ones learn that society expects them to act grownup, especially if they don't yet know the girls they're trying to pursue.
Was your ex a Nice Guy(tm)? Why is he your ex?
|by Anonymous||reply 246||06/12/2013|
R240, Did you actually read my post? No, I love my man's dick and he is super hot. Everyone has always asked me why he never wanted to model.
Now, please re-read what I actually wrote. If a man sent you a pic of his dick that looked diseased or implied that it's owner had a bizarre fetish, how would you react? Or if it was clear that the man was grossly overweight? That's the equivalent to how most women would react if a total stranger sent her an unwanted pic, after she clearly stated that she wasn't at all interested in the jerk. It's not just what's in the pic, it's his whole attitude.
Please read more carefully next time, before you most something that sounds crazy in response. Actually you're doing exactly what the jerk did; ignoring what a girl actually wrote.
|by Anonymous||reply 247||06/12/2013|
R241, Like R240 apparently you can't read or comprehend what is written. That's exactly how the girl who got a dick pic felt about the sender. You both have some very serious and deep-seated anger issues.
|by Anonymous||reply 248||06/12/2013|
R246, We broke up because he got a job transfer out-of-state. He was a really wonderful, kind man. You can really care about someone and still realize that you shouldn't get married, because you don't have enough in common to sustain a long-term, permanent relationship.
What's a (tm)?
|by Anonymous||reply 249||06/12/2013|
I don't get how you could even see his cock in that pic? The most you could see would be pubes unless his dick was super erect at a 90 degree angle.
|by Anonymous||reply 250||06/12/2013|
So is this a hoax or did it really happen?
|by Anonymous||reply 251||06/12/2013|
If you join a dating site that allows people to send you an unsolicited photo, then you should expect that some of them will be dick pix. If it were a site to share recipes then it would be wrong, but on a dating site it would be appropriate. In our society, female nudity has been in our faces for decades, but there are still people who have a problem seeing a penis. Turn the lights on, see the the penis.
|by Anonymous||reply 252||06/12/2013|
R252,the site advertises itself as "Safe for Work". That is why she behaved in an inappropriate manner. She should have reported the the violation of the TOS to the site administrator(s). If I was the site administrator, I would throw them both off the site.
Otherwise, I agree. I find dick pics to be about as annoying as Farmville requests.
|by Anonymous||reply 253||06/12/2013|
this is a fake story.
|by Anonymous||reply 254||06/12/2013|
I briefly dated a guy with whom I broke up because on two separate occasions he struck me repeatedly in his sleep. He argued that it was not his fault, but I was nevertheless getting beaten. ANYWAY, he then proceeded to stalk me, threatening me with what he would do if I did not get back together with him. (What could be more enticing?)
I subsequently discovered photographs that he had posted of himself on line, dressed only in a tee shirt, holding his penis in his hand by way of advertisement. I did give serious consideration to printing them out and sending them to his mother, who was quite a piece of work in her own right. I decided against, mostly because if I did so, I'd be the jerk who sent the guy's penis pictures to his mother.
|by Anonymous||reply 255||06/12/2013|
OK,so where do we find the dick pic?
|by Anonymous||reply 256||06/12/2013|
It was on both Dudesnude and silverdaddies. No names, though, because I'm not in revenge mode at the moment.
|by Anonymous||reply 257||06/12/2013|
I once responded to a very conservative ad on a dating site. The guy asked ladies to respond by naming their favorite restaurant where they would like to meet for dinner. He then sent a dick pic and no other info. I now wonder if I should have told him that I was going to post it on a gay dating site, instead of just quickly pushing delete. Of course I didn't know if it was his dick or a strangers.
|by Anonymous||reply 258||06/12/2013|
Thanks r257. I just spent on hour on dudesnude but didn't find him. Found plenty of other stuff, though!
|by Anonymous||reply 259||06/12/2013|
I still want to see Trevor and his penis, even if Shayna doesn't.
|by Anonymous||reply 260||06/12/2013|
Not a day goes by that I am not grateful that I am a Gay man.
|by Anonymous||reply 261||06/12/2013|
I wonder how this moron is responding to all the unsolicited dick pics HE'S gotten since this story came out? You know he's getting deluged with them.
|by Anonymous||reply 262||06/12/2013|
r252, it is sad that you expect people to act like sexual predators.
|by Anonymous||reply 263||06/12/2013|
R263, it is sad you think showing [italic]a picture[/italic] of a penis equates to sexual predation. Because it isn't.
|by Anonymous||reply 264||06/12/2013|
R264, Sending a dick pic after the woman clearly stated that she wanted to be left alone is not rape but is very abusive and extremely immature behavior. I wouldn't be surprised if the jerk has been called a sexual predator at his workplace or in his community. Can he be correctly called a sociopath, as he clearly lacks empathy?
|by Anonymous||reply 265||06/12/2013|
From what I read, she didn't object until after he sent the pic -- what would there have been to object to? Rather, all he did was engage her in textversation after sending his pic.
|by Anonymous||reply 267||06/12/2013|
[quote]Jesus Fucking Christ, is any word thrown around more than 'sociopath' on DL?
|by Anonymous||reply 269||06/12/2013|
R266, Seriously? While I can't figure out how the girl got the idiot Mom's email/address, sending unsolicited dick pics is sadly very common on all dating sites. Haven't there been threads on the likewise very immature posters on gay male sites and their "emotional issues" and crazy ads and comments?
|by Anonymous||reply 270||06/12/2013|
R265, here's the conversation, with pic, sans dick. He did NOT send the pic after she asked him not to. She didn't start complaining about the dick until after she'd seen it (though it's hard to tell how much she could have seen from that pic).
If Shayna was really so appalled, so shocked, so completely grossed out, WHY DIDN'T SHE JUST HANG UP, or move to another site, whichever?
|by Anonymous||reply 271||06/12/2013|
[quote]it is sad you think showing a picture of a penis equates to sexual predation. Because it isn't.
If sending unasked-for dick pics is so harmless then what was wrong with her forwarding it to his mother?
|by Anonymous||reply 272||06/12/2013|
His mother isn't hanging out on a "dating" website, moron at R272. And your pal Shayna is doing it for revenge. Are you really that stupid?
|by Anonymous||reply 275||06/12/2013|
R268, By definition a sociopath lacks empathy and refuses to apologize for behavior deemed offensive by another party. How much do you want to bet that this jerk has been in trouble with the law or at least att his workplace for similar rude actions? He clearly doesn't comprehend societal norms of standard behavior.
|by Anonymous||reply 276||06/12/2013|
R276, what are you, a straight woman, even doing here? Go back to frauonlein.com.
|by Anonymous||reply 278||06/12/2013|
R277, R278, How ironic that I just completed a phone interview for a new TV pilot show on bullying.
|by Anonymous||reply 280||06/12/2013|
[quote] How ironic that I just completed a phone interview for a new TV pilot show on bullying.
Just proves that you'll seek to claim victimhood so long as it gets you attention.
|by Anonymous||reply 281||06/12/2013|
A lot of you guys don't understand the straight world. Women are looking for a male to have a family with. Most women are not interested in random hookups.
|by Anonymous||reply 282||06/12/2013|
r222 NAILED IT. Thread closed.
|by Anonymous||reply 283||06/12/2013|
Weird how so much of what's being posted here could just as feasibly be from gay men and Republican congressmen.
|by Anonymous||reply 284||06/12/2013|
R281, What planet are you on? Obviously the same place as this harasser that could care less how his victim feels. I said that it was very ironic that I had just been contacted for my interview for a new pilot on bullying, which is exactly what a few dicks on DL IMHO are trying to do.
|by Anonymous||reply 285||06/12/2013|
R284, Exactly. Bullying is wrong no matter where it comes from; it's a denial of someone else's rights and feelings.
|by Anonymous||reply 286||06/12/2013|
Why "ironic," R280? Are you Shayna?
|by Anonymous||reply 287||06/12/2013|
R287, Of course I'm not Shayna. I also said earlier in the thread that I've been in the same situation on dating sites, and have also blocked the jerks who send me naked pics unsolicited or who make rude comments. I would never forward the pics to anyone else either, although now I'm considering posting some on this thread. LOL
|by Anonymous||reply 288||06/12/2013|
You didn't answer the question, R288. Why is it ironic that you got a phone call about a show on bullying?
|by Anonymous||reply 289||06/12/2013|
I can't believe how many moon-eyed homosexuals are defending this (cute, buff, hung, but DUMB) young man. You don't send a cock pic after chatting about the weather. She legitimately expressed her distaste and he stupidly taunted her: "too big for ya?" and "your a prude". He's like a flasher in the street taunting the woman he flashes once spurned.
|by Anonymous||reply 290||06/12/2013|
R289, IMHO a few posters on this thread have been bullying me after I simply stated my views. I can't believe that anyone would disagree with the following, unless they also enjoy bullying girls.
I was the one that said the woman should have quickly deleted the pics and blocked the jerk. Still those that send dick pics to ladies IMHO are extremely immature and possibly have deep seated anger or mental health issues. I can't believe that this is the first time this jerk has acted completely inappropriately.
|by Anonymous||reply 291||06/12/2013|
If you're a woman, you don't belong here, R290.
|by Anonymous||reply 292||06/12/2013|
How many of you are men in this thread? Anyone?
I'm the only one?
|by Anonymous||reply 293||06/12/2013|
290 here and I'm a fellow homosexual MAN - one that respects women and isn't struck dumb by the sight of young straight cock, oohKay?
|by Anonymous||reply 294||06/12/2013|
I'm a man, baby.
And I think it's pretty simple: Don't send cock shots to strangers who haven't asked for them.
A second issue is whether she should have then forwarded an unsolicited cock shot to another stranger (the guy's mother.)
|by Anonymous||reply 295||06/12/2013|
This is not for men only, R292. I'm not sure why you think that. I get the feeling you are the one always trying to start the lesbian vs gay men flame wars.
|by Anonymous||reply 296||06/12/2013|
r292, I am a bi dude. Anyone defending this sexual creeper is probably guilty of similar conduct, and we can look forward to reading about how they were exposed as a sexual predator one day.
|by Anonymous||reply 297||06/12/2013|
Jesus Fictional Christ, some of my fellow gay men are stupid, hateful misogynist pricks.
I'm ashamed to share a sexuality with you. Grow the fuck up!
|by Anonymous||reply 298||06/12/2013|
I don't understand why anyone would send a dick pic, anyway. Especially not to straight women- they aren't normally going to jump all over a detached penis like a lot of gay men do. It's just a difference in how men and women work, generally.
I think a lot of the "rape culture" stuff is over the top, but I think it should be clear to anyone that dick pics should not be sent unsolicited and especially not if they are specifically told they are unwanted.
|by Anonymous||reply 299||06/13/2013|
Additionally, Was it even "big"? We know the guy is an idiot, but not all of the hung are dumb.
Personally, I am statistically big, but I would never be comfortable sending a pic and bragging that I am "too big for ya." I'd have to be like 12 x 7 or something unheard of for that kind of confidence. I am puzzled at the 120lb guys with 6.5 inchers who insist they are huge.
|by Anonymous||reply 300||06/13/2013|
Haven't checked this thread out in a few days now - is it still all about how ugly fat chicks and uptight lonely gay guys scream RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAPE at the virtual sight of a penis?
|by Anonymous||reply 301||06/13/2013|
[quote]A second issue is whether she should have then forwarded an unsolicited cock shot to another stranger (the guy's mother.)
It's an interesting message: Don't send an unwanted cock shot if you don't want it forwarded to your mother. That might be what it takes to stop the behavior.
|by Anonymous||reply 302||06/13/2013|
there was a study done on men and women.
Men would hook up with an average or even someone below him but a woman will only hook up with a man that is exceptionally attractive. So who is the most shallow?
|by Anonymous||reply 303||06/13/2013|
Link to the study R303.
|by Anonymous||reply 304||06/13/2013|
I see too many women with inferior men to believe that's true, R303.
|by Anonymous||reply 305||06/13/2013|
I want to know what his mum said.
|by Anonymous||reply 306||06/13/2013|
this thread is too long to read the whole thing but here's the unblurred pic if it hasn't been posted. kinda fugly. poor mrs duddy...
|by Anonymous||reply 307||06/13/2013|
[quote]Men would hook up with an average or even someone below him but a woman will only hook up with a man that is exceptionally attractive.
On what planet was this study conducted? Bizarro World?
|by Anonymous||reply 308||06/13/2013|
“since you’re pretty easy to find on Facebook, Trevor Duddy, shall I send mom (Mary Beth Duddy) screencaps of this coversation? To show her how you treat women?”
|by Anonymous||reply 309||06/13/2013|
His cock looks tiny.
|by Anonymous||reply 310||06/13/2013|
I laughed when he tried to talk her out of sending the conversation to his mother. He was totally arrogant until Mom was mentioned.
|by Anonymous||reply 311||06/13/2013|
"Men would hook up with an average or even someone below him but a woman will only hook up with a man that is exceptionally attractive."
Most men would THINK they are hooking up with someone beneath themselves but most men vastly overrate their attractiveness. And by vastly I mean comically so.
|by Anonymous||reply 312||06/13/2013|
Neither R307 nor R310's links appear to be working.
|by Anonymous||reply 313||06/13/2013|
Are the same guys who post that seeing a picture of a naked dick is no big deal....
....the ones that filled a 600 post thread venting their outrage at some old troll towel dancing at the gym and trying to look at their junk?
|by Anonymous||reply 314||06/13/2013|
You have to be a better judge of character before you send out a pic like that. In the gay world, posting a naked pic online would only get 'likes' and thumbs up. In the straight world you get vilified and attacked.
If he was looking for sex, he should have been smart enough to know that wasn't the place to do it. I don't know that website real well, but clearly that isn't what people are looking for there. Now if he showed his penis to a female in the back of an adult bookstore, he MIGHT get a different response. Context is everything.
|by Anonymous||reply 315||06/13/2013|
Please where is the dick shot?
Even examining the base, which is all you can see, it is obvious he is not that well-hung. What's the big deal? The issue is he exaggerated. There are many men in porn who are much better looking with MUCH bigger penises.
|by Anonymous||reply 316||06/13/2013|
all this fucking fuss,over 300 posts and still NO cock shot?
So, then, what's the big fucking deal?
The girl's a monster to call him out like this...for nothing!
|by Anonymous||reply 317||06/13/2013|
R301, It isn't "rape" by my definition; just totally disrespectful. Please read the brilliant analysis of the 3 posters ahead of you for details. By the way all of the girls that I've met that focus on the size and shape of a man's privates have deep-seated anger issues, like straight men who will only date women who have huge tits. Perhaps some are over-compensating as well.
|by Anonymous||reply 318||06/13/2013|
Shayna caused all this mishegas over [italic]that[/italic]? You can't see a thing.
|by Anonymous||reply 319||06/13/2013|
How can you generalize about the different level of attractiveness in straights pairing up? There are so many factors that determine compatibility, especially in long-term friendships.
That said, I've gone on many, many blind dates for lunch and dinner after connecting on dating sites. Men who are less physically attractive, even if they're very successful and educated, often do not feel comfortable with the amount of attention girls receive. Also they tend to place less emphasis on physical fitness and grooming and fashion. This causes a disconnect due to a difference in values.
|by Anonymous||reply 320||06/13/2013|
Why would a real women care what a man's dick looks like? I'd assume he'd be a rotten and totally selfish sex partner because he stupidly thinks that size is everything. He obviously could care less what a girl wants in bed.
|by Anonymous||reply 321||06/13/2013|
[quote]Why would a real women care what a man's dick looks like?
Are you saying women shouldn't or don't care about aesthetics when it comes to men's bodies? I can't imagine that's true.
|by Anonymous||reply 322||06/13/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 323||06/13/2013|
If doing in person would not be the right thing to do, then doing it online is not acceptable as well.
Nobody would unzip and haul out their cock when first meeting somebody in person, why would it be okay to do online?
The only place it would be acceptable is if you are a member of a sexually explicit hookup site like Manhunt.
|by Anonymous||reply 324||06/13/2013|
Seriously, I can't believe we've gone this far without a link to the uncensored pic.
What have we become??
|by Anonymous||reply 325||06/13/2013|
R322, A pic tells a lot about a man. Do his eyes show intelligence and sensitivity? How about his smile, or does he appear unpleasant? Possess good grooming or dress like a nerd? Focused on physical fitness or grossly overweight? (Most of the men who I've dated look like models.)
No, as long as it's not diseased, I could care less what his dick looks like.
|by Anonymous||reply 326||06/13/2013|
Every photo I've seen so far is the same as r310, which appears to be a screen cap. Is there another one around, showing a little more?
|by Anonymous||reply 327||06/13/2013|
R328, any woman who thinks that should just be a lesbian and not even pretend to be Straight.
I've always said it, Men are WASTED on women.
|by Anonymous||reply 329||06/13/2013|
R329, I agree with you that dicks are very beautiful and "wonderful things." Still I would NEVER choose a man based on what his dick looked like.
Do gay men put up with jerks if they like how he looks "below the waist?"
|by Anonymous||reply 330||06/13/2013|