What's your definition of a loser?
|by Anonymous||reply 66||05/11/2013|
What is yours, loser?
|by Anonymous||reply 1||05/10/2013|
My definition of a loser is someone who rides on the coat tails of others efforts and hard work.
Kind of like the closet cases who come here and proclaim they detest the word gay, yet here they are, on a gay site, created by and for gay people all the while enjoying the freedom to suck dick without getting their heads bashed in because of the work done by people who don't mind being labeled gay.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||05/10/2013|
A loser is someone who is mean, dishonest, a cheat, vain, selfish, narcisstic, insensitive and un-kind.
With hard work and time, anyone can get a decent job, a nice house, a nice car, many friends, and have success. So, I don't judge success on material things. Those come and go and are not important in the end.
Treating people with kindness, respect and honesty is the most important thing to do in this World. I've met many financially successful people in this World, and they are dead on the inside. At the same time, I've met many people who struggle financially, and they are the happiest people that I know.
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|by Anonymous||reply 4||05/10/2013|
A person who thinks Helen Lawson threads are funny.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||05/10/2013|
Living with your parents past the age of 22.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||05/10/2013|
r2 reeks of loser. Bitter nasty loser.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||05/10/2013|
A Jesus Freak
|by Anonymous||reply 8||05/10/2013|
A loser is someone who hasn't been able to get anything they want out of life.
It may be because of factors outside of their control, such as a low IQ, or maybe they've just wasted their lives and potential.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||05/10/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 10||05/10/2013|
Anyone who disagrees with me.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||05/10/2013|
Someone lacking passion and who was therfore never motivated to take a risk. So, while it may not make sense to most people, in my opinion, a loser is someone who has never really lost or failed because they could never be bothered to even try.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||05/10/2013|
Someone who mouths the talking points of the day and considers him or her self oh so clever for not deviating from the hive-mind.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||05/10/2013|
It's someone who believes meaningless insults like "loser" are meaningful.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||05/10/2013|
Someone whose existence depends on feeling superior to others.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||05/10/2013|
R4 beat me to it.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||05/10/2013|
R7 = lazy, fucking cunt.
Strike too close to home?
|by Anonymous||reply 17||05/10/2013|
Yep, r2/r17 is definitely bitter.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||05/10/2013|
Gay men who claim to fuck str8 men are losers. why the need to live this down low lifestyle if you are an out and proud gay man? I have no respect for gay men who are obsessed with fucking str8 married men. The threads here are this subject are tedious.
News flash: 'Str8 men' who fuck gay men ARE NOT STRAIGHT! I guess I am one of the few gay men who does not believe gay men can be bisexual.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||05/10/2013|
Prissy types like r19 who deeply resent their betters.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||05/10/2013|
Loser: R20 AKA closet case on the down low.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||05/10/2013|
R5 = Neely O'Hara, still blaming her career woes on everyone but herself.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||05/10/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 23||05/10/2013|
Somebody who thinks they are better than everyone else because they prospered due to their upper middle class advantage.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||05/10/2013|
This particular thread ⤦
|by Anonymous||reply 25||05/10/2013|
Anyone who still works at Structube in Toronto.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||05/10/2013|
Someone who, when they don't achieve what they want, becomes arrogant to hide and supress their low self esteem, basically someone who can't accept failure with dignity and becomes a bitter jerk because of it.
Someone who tries hard and fails but still remains a good person, is not a loser. They fail, like we all do, but they don't lose their dignity and don't take out their bitterness over their failures on other people.
Tamerlan Tsarnaev is a good example of a loser. He wanted glory and respect and for people to stroke his ego by competing in the Olympics, but when he couldn't make that work and got stuck in an ordinary life without glory, jobless, had a baby, supported by his wife, he took out his bitterness and his self hate and lack of glory on other people instead.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||05/10/2013|
r21 does sound like an upset priss.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||05/10/2013|
The guy who keeps posting threads about Heath Ledger's suicide.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||05/10/2013|
Avoid the impoverished puny putz who defines people so simply.
Picture the person pronouncing the judgment: you can see a soul equivalent to the aesthetic value of strip lighting.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||05/10/2013|
R14 is right. Anyone who thinks "loser" is a kind of person is the real loser, because we are all pretty much the same underneath. But the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune treat us all differently. Someone who dies of cancer at age 15 is a "loser" by any definition, but it would be ridiculous and cruel to call someone that.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||05/10/2013|
On the other hand, someone who was elected president twice but still refuses to act like he's in charge of Wall St. and the Pentagon, and still kisses ass to rich families (Kennedys, Pritzkers) like he's a fucking doorman....well, one wonders what other appellation one could have for such a person.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||05/11/2013|
Barack Obama is hardy a loser, R32. There are many, many words to describe him, such as republican, two-faced liar (oh wait, that's redundant), a politician, and many others that we don't use in polite company.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||05/11/2013|
Anyone with a roommate after the age of 30.
Anyone who lives in Kansas City.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||05/11/2013|
Someone who has no initiative and therefore does nothing -- and then whines loudly and incessantly about 'having no one,' 'going nowhere,' etc. -- or worse, sits on the sidelines and criticizes or bitches about people who are out there trying to make something of themselves.
Oh, and Jodi Arias = loser.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||05/11/2013|
[quote] Anyone with a roommate after the age of 30.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||05/11/2013|
People who put on airs but have nothing to show for their OWN efforts. People who speak of "gentile poverty" and name drop and who try to impress by their cultured background, experiences or breeding but who have no money because they are lazy.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||05/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 38||05/11/2013|
People who spell loser as looser.
aka 90% of internet posters. You know who you are...
|by Anonymous||reply 39||05/11/2013|
Money means everything to R35 and R37. Why? Because they are retarded children of psychopathic parents who botched their toilet training.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||05/11/2013|
90% of female posters. The O key sticks because they overuse it for online sex.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||05/11/2013|
I'd just call 'em Republicans, r40. But yeah, essentially the same thing.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||05/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 43||05/11/2013|
r41, the Heath Ledger troll, and the dude in here who thinks men who sleep with closet cases are somebody's "betters." Also, anyone prissy enough to use the term "betters."
|by Anonymous||reply 44||05/11/2013|
Don't forget the Daley family. They wouldn't give Obama the time of day until he proved he was one of them by getting his primary opponent thrown off the ballot. Since then he's had a brainless corrupt investment banker William Daley, proved incompetent in the 2000 election brouhaha, in the seat of power, apparently so Obama can wipe his investment banking ass.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||05/11/2013|
According to this thread, I would guess many people are losers in one aspect or another, either socially, professionally, ethically, personally. I don't know anyone who is a loser in every respect.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||05/11/2013|
One year we can become a "loser" and the next a "winner" and then back again.
Most people gauge this by material means. "Are you able to support yourself and your family?" "Are you in a decent career with possibility of advancement?" "Are you dating/married to someone hot?" "Are you social and popular?"
These are all fleeting things. They can come or go as quickly as the wind. Determination is the only measure that really counts. One's ability to pick themselves back up eventually is the key.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||05/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 48||05/11/2013|
PPSM! 'nuff said!
|by Anonymous||reply 49||05/11/2013|
Men who wear squared-toed shoes for business.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||05/11/2013|
A loser is someone that would visit the DL pages.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||05/11/2013|
so r47, it's determined by whether you chose to (or are able to) conform to what your culture/society has arbitrarily determined to be proper?
|by Anonymous||reply 52||05/11/2013|
Welcome to the club, R51.
And it's who, not that.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||05/11/2013|
Anyone into reality tv or religion.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||05/11/2013|
6 nominations, no wins
|by Anonymous||reply 55||05/11/2013|
it is the opposite of "tighter"
|by Anonymous||reply 56||05/11/2013|
I agree, R49.
He has a mean streak, which he indulges & then boasts about it, as if that were some kind of accomplishment, like tutoring kids to win spelling bees.
He says that he enjoys pissing people off, as if that were something to be gratified by, like giving cancer patient rides to treatment.
He gloats about breaking rules, as if that were something to be proud of, like fighting city hall to keep community centers open & helping kids avoid gangs.
He seems to do nothing for anyone other than himself & is a useless member of society, i.e.: LOSER.
|by Anonymous||reply 57||05/11/2013|
r57, that all sounds like an insecure person trying to appear otherwise. I just think "loser" is a meaninless insult.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||05/11/2013|
Arrogance; lack of empathy; cruelty; selfishness; narcissism; prejudicial; bigoted; materialistic
|by Anonymous||reply 59||05/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 60||05/11/2013|
R60 who takes her life skills from childhood rhymes.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||05/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 62||05/11/2013|
Somebody like Lindsay Lohan who had a shot at being something big but pissed it away... how many people would've killed to be her circa Mean Girls.
|by Anonymous||reply 63||05/11/2013|
Someone who has always owned a pair of shoes who claims to be a victim..
|by Anonymous||reply 64||05/11/2013|
Someone who doesn't know the difference between "loser" and "looser."
|by Anonymous||reply 65||05/11/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 66||05/11/2013|