Real life responses to Jason Collins coming out
Forget about the celebrity tweets or nasty anonymous comments on message boards. Forget about the media. What are people saying in real life? That's the best gauge of what people think.
What are the people at the sports bars saying? What are people at the gym saying? What are the people at your work saying?
|by Anonymous||reply 30||05/10/2013|
What are people saying right now? Nothing. Its already old news.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||05/08/2013|
I haven't heard anything personally, but I imagine it's a lot of the same clueless straight comments:
"I don't know why they feel the need to announce this."
"Why does this matter? Does this make any difference in how he plays basketball."
"I think things like this should remain private. It's nobody's business what he does in his bedroom."
It's like people can't get past the "bedroom business" aspect to acknowledge that the subject goes beyond that, especially in regards to how many young high school/college athletes may now look up to this man and feel a bit stronger within themselves. It may sound trite, but it's true. When well-known, successful people come out, there are always people who will find inspiration in that, to say, "He is out and playing professional basketball, maybe I can be more comfortable with who I am and strive for that goal as well."
|by Anonymous||reply 2||05/08/2013|
Nobody seems to think it is a big deal, which is a good thing. If people were shocked, mortified, pissed off, it would be an issue. I think it speaks volumes that everyone seems to have a so what attitude.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||05/08/2013|
Most people are supportive.
Certainly anyone who matters.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||05/08/2013|
Thank you, R2. You said it best...it matters, because Jason Collins has made it that much easier for some kid who is struggling with being gay and a strong desire to excel in whatever avocation he's good at. On Sunday, I listened as Martina Navratilova commented on the importance of Collins' coming out. She said that comments such as , "I don't care." can also be homophobic. I remember how one brother responded with that after telling him I was gay. It bothered me that he didn't articulate empathy.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||05/08/2013|
No one at work said anything. And none of my friends said anything either. I'm in CA though.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||05/08/2013|
I and nobody I know cares about sports, so I haven't heard anyone comment on it.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||05/08/2013|
adj. 1. without distinctive, interesting, or stimulating qualities
That describes a lot of sports fans.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||05/08/2013|
[quote]I remember how one brother responded with that after telling him I was gay. It bothered me that he didn't articulate empathy.
Empathy for what? It's not an affliction - don't make it into one.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||05/08/2013|
Damn. I almost forgot about it.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||05/08/2013|
Mostly it describes you, R10.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||05/08/2013|
My, someone is touchy. Well, if the shoe fits...
|by Anonymous||reply 14||05/08/2013|
Girls, girls, you are both insipid
|by Anonymous||reply 16||05/08/2013|
Straight men are saying nothing negative about his being gay(good thing), but the prevailing thought among sports addicts is that he pulled the stunt as he was finding himself without a job. Now, some team will pick him up for the publicity and to prove the NBA is not homophobic. I believe the commissioner is behind the latter premise. He'll be earning next to nothing, but I don't think that is of any concern for him. He wants to play another year, because all athletes cannot bear to hang up the old jockstrap.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||05/08/2013|
Prior to a couple of weeks ago, no one outside of die hard NBA fans could tell you who the guy was. Now if RGIII for the Washington Redskins came out, now that would tell how people REALLY felt about gay sports stars...
|by Anonymous||reply 18||05/08/2013|
Yes, R11, being gay is not an affliction. By empathy I mean an understanding of the struggle many of us experience growing up gay in a homophobic society.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||05/08/2013|
As Ben Shapiro so movingly attests, no one except Jews have suffered throughout history, so Jason Collins should STFU.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||05/08/2013|
The men in my steamroom seemed to be really supportive of him.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||05/09/2013|
Not hearing any responses. It's a non-event to most people. The attitude seems to be: Another gay came out? Yawn!
|by Anonymous||reply 22||05/09/2013|
[quote]I haven't heard anything personally, but I imagine it's a lot of the same clueless straight comments:
So you don't actually know what people are saying.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||05/09/2013|
[quote]Nearly seven in 10 Americans support the decision by professional basketball player Jason Collins to disclose publicly that he’s gay, the survey finds.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||05/09/2013|
Right, if RGIII came out it would be news. I don't think he's gay though, black sports people think he's Repub like Deion Sanders (another black Repub)
|by Anonymous||reply 25||05/09/2013|
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|by Anonymous||reply 26||05/09/2013|
I hope that Jason Collins realizes that he owes a lot of where he is and his acceptance to superstars like me who paved the way for gay to be acceptable.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||05/09/2013|
[quote] Most people at work lose interest when they find out he's black. Not sure why. I've heard a couple people say something to the effect of "get back to me when a Tom Brady" or another white athlete comes out.
In terms of athletic achievement, Jason Collins is no Tom Brady!
So are they actually saying 'white' or are they giving examples of athletes who are far better known and far higher achieving than Jason Collins?
|by Anonymous||reply 28||05/09/2013|
Not racial. I've heard the same thing, "call me when Kobe comes out".
|by Anonymous||reply 29||05/10/2013|