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Straight Men Look At Penises While Watching Porn, 'A Billion Wicked Thoughts' Co-Author Ogi Ogas Claims

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by Anonymousreply 8005/05/2013

It's true.

by Anonymousreply 105/03/2013

Why wouldn't they? Wouldn't any man want to compare his own to that of other men, regardless of orientation?

by Anonymousreply 205/03/2013

How long before some basement dweller insists "They're not straight if they're looking at a penis."

by Anonymousreply 305/03/2013

Ogi Ogas? WTF?

by Anonymousreply 405/03/2013

BREAKING NEWS: PART OF THE APPEAL OF PORNOGRAPHY IS SEEING OTHER PEOPLE'S PRIVATE PARTS.

by Anonymousreply 505/03/2013

Well, it is usually the body that's doing the most stuff.

by Anonymousreply 605/03/2013

Then there are men who jsut want to watch a woman masturbate, or two women together- no dicks or hairy asses in site.

If you like looking at males having heterosex, you may be kinda bi.

by Anonymousreply 705/03/2013

The penis is fascinating!

Why wouldn't anyone look at penis.

Gay or straight!

Me loves the penis.

by Anonymousreply 805/03/2013

Not necessarily r7. I think mostly they compare their dicks to the porn actor's and they compare their performance to theirs (unfortunaly).

by Anonymousreply 905/03/2013

*unfortunately

by Anonymousreply 1005/03/2013

There was that study that had women and men look at a picture of a baseball player at bat. The women looked at the face, the men at the crotch.

by Anonymousreply 1105/03/2013

R7, true, real straight guys don't like straight porn and dicks

by Anonymousreply 1305/03/2013

Men compare dick sizes. It starts from childhood. It's not gay. It's not abnormal. It's evolution. It's Freudian.

by Anonymousreply 1405/03/2013

It's "sizing up the competition".

by Anonymousreply 1505/03/2013

r4

Is Ogi Ogas related to Yogi Yorgesson?

by Anonymousreply 1605/03/2013

So stupid. I'm gayer than Gay Gayerson, but if I'm watching straight porn, I'll check out the girl's pussy all the time. Doesn't mean I want to go there.

by Anonymousreply 1705/03/2013

R3 pedicted that you would post in this thread, r7

by Anonymousreply 1805/03/2013

This doesn't surprise me at all. Why wouldn't they? And, also, how can't they if they're watching some guy fuck a woman or a woman sucking the guy's dick.

They're straight, so they want to see straight sex depicted - sex which in theory could happen to them. They look to compare, they look because they can't avoid it, and they look to imagine themselves in the position of the guy.

Of course there are closeted and in-denial "straight" guys who are looking because it's what they actually want. But, no surprise to me that actual straight guys look as well.

by Anonymousreply 1905/03/2013

R17, no, you're bi. Pussy is a turn-off for a real gay man, just like dick is turn off for a straight guy

by Anonymousreply 2005/04/2013

[quote]no, you're bi. Pussy is a turn-off for a real gay man, just like dick is turn off for a straight guy

Sexuality is not as simplistic as that, though, especially when it comes to watching porn. We all have the potential to become aroused by images of sex and sexual situations, regardless of the genders involved and whether we would have sex with that gender in real life. Images of dick are not a turn-off to men - they're more likely to feel neutral/indifferent.

by Anonymousreply 2105/04/2013

R21, if i see pussy i lose my boner, that's why i don't watch str8 porn... so if a guy can still be aroused while looking at the dick, i wouldn't call him totally straight

by Anonymousreply 2205/04/2013

[quote]Pussy is a turn-off for a real gay man, just like dick is turn off for a straight guy

For most people it's not that it's a turn off but that it just does nothing for them.

For PHOBES it's a turn off. i.e. turn off is borderline disgust.

by Anonymousreply 2305/04/2013

R22, the world is not you.

by Anonymousreply 2405/04/2013

ALL porn is about guys getting off, that's what it's all about. No penises, no straight guys would be watching.

R22, as you travel through life you will observe at some point that the whole world is not exactly like YOU.

by Anonymousreply 2505/04/2013

R25, yeah because what makes a man straight - his love for penis! I get it! I must be totally straight then

by Anonymousreply 2605/04/2013

R22 / R26 = not the sharpest knife in the drawer

by Anonymousreply 2705/04/2013

A Billion Wicked Thoughts is an interesting book. There was a section about how straight men do more internet searches for dick than straight women do!

by Anonymousreply 2805/04/2013

We should just change the definitions of straight and gay

gay = loves dicks straight = likes dicks

by Anonymousreply 2905/04/2013

I watch straight porn for lingerie, hair and make-up tips.

by Anonymousreply 3005/04/2013

I've spoken to several young straight guys...

(I've done HIV/STD/teen pregnancy prevention as a volunteer for many years at my local health dept. - handing out condoms, answering questions, doing referrals for testing, etc.)

...who say, in confidence of course, that they're worried because they get off watching gay porn as well as straight porn and wonder if they might be gay.

After doing some research with a friend and colleague we've found that it's fairly common for young straight guys to masturbate to gay porn as much as straight porn. They think it's less phoney and blowjobs are blowjobs and humping is humping, I guess.

by Anonymousreply 3105/04/2013

R28, the majority of straight women do not search for "dick."

by Anonymousreply 3205/04/2013

R31, and denial is denial

by Anonymousreply 3305/04/2013

[quote]if i see pussy i lose my boner, that's why i don't watch str8 porn... so if a guy can still be aroused while looking at the dick, i wouldn't call him totally straight

It's quite obvious that R22 has no concept or understanding of men who are "totally straight." I suppose he must live in a totally gay environment with no contact with any hetero people.

by Anonymousreply 3405/04/2013

Plus a total lack of imagination, R34.

by Anonymousreply 3505/04/2013

R34, stop defending "straight" people, i know real hetero guys and they don't like dicks in their porn

by Anonymousreply 3605/04/2013

R22, you are exceptionally stupid.

by Anonymousreply 3705/04/2013

[quote] stop defending "straight" people, i know real hetero guys and they don't like dicks in their porn

But these "real hetero guys" are quite comfortable having intimate conversations with R36 of all people about the finer details of their turn-ons/turn-offs? Riiiiiigghhht.

More likely it's just an expression one of them was using to get you to stop hitting on him, like "Hey buddy, I ah.. I don't like 'dicks in my porn' if you you get my drift, okay pal?"

by Anonymousreply 3805/04/2013

And you're a dumb fraucunt

by Anonymousreply 3905/04/2013

R38, i see it's you who likes to hit on "straight" guys, you seem to have a "straight" fetish

by Anonymousreply 4005/04/2013

Watching straight porn, a gay sees the cock and says I want that, I want to suck it. A straight man sees the cock and thinks, that's mine, I want her to do that to me. That's why the money shot is so popular, because men know exactly what that feels like and triggers the desire for the same feeling.

by Anonymousreply 4105/04/2013

[quote]R34, stop defending "straight" people,

I did not defend straight people, r36 - r22. I merely pointed out your ignorance. At that point, an intelligent person would have stopped posting. But you don't have the intelligence to stop. Instead, you continue to broadcast your stupidity.

by Anonymousreply 4205/04/2013

I like straight porn, if the woman experiencing a lot of pleasure, genuine pleasure, from a dick or penetration. And its even better when the guy has a nice body. Same thing with gay porn. Im not really turned on at all by masculine bottoms. I guess you can call me bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 4305/04/2013

R42, ignorance is calling a man who likes looking at penises "straight".

by Anonymousreply 4405/04/2013

Why can't you grasp the idea of someone enjoying the sight of naked people in sexual situations, including people of the sex they don't want to fuck?

by Anonymousreply 4505/04/2013

[quote]Why can't you grasp the idea of someone enjoying the sight of naked people in sexual situations, including people of the sex they don't want to fuck?

Because he's ignorant.

by Anonymousreply 4605/04/2013

r45 I guess you are right. It is still strange I suppose.

by Anonymousreply 4705/04/2013

Because you're in denial

by Anonymousreply 4805/04/2013

R47, nothing strange, it's not the weirdest rationalisation i heard from "straight" guys. Read some craigslist profiles! Now that's whole other level of madness!

by Anonymousreply 4905/04/2013

Sexual arousal works in strange and complex ways, R47. Context is important. For example, the sound of my upstairs female neighbor screaming during sex can get me excited, even though I'm not normally turned on by women and wouldn't have sex with one. It's the mere knowledge that sex is going on that triggers me. The woman could be a 200-pound heifer and I would still be turned on. It's simple biology.

by Anonymousreply 5005/04/2013

ALMOST no one is THAT straight or THAT gay that they are disgusted by the sight of naked people of the gender they're not attracted to. Besides, it's easy to block out the women (or men) and focus only on the men (or women).

by Anonymousreply 5105/04/2013

R50 = bi freak in denial!

by Anonymousreply 5205/04/2013

Probably checking out the competition or comparison shopping .Bisexuality is more prevalent than you think.

by Anonymousreply 5305/04/2013

Why are there so many simple-minded people on this board with no sense of nuance and no grasp of basic human sexuality or psychology?

by Anonymousreply 5405/04/2013

R54, isn't calling a man who likes cocks 100% straight "simple-minded"?

by Anonymousreply 5505/04/2013

Simple-minded: refusing to even TRY to understand some of the complexity of human sexuality and patterns of arousal.

by Anonymousreply 5605/04/2013

R56, then do you agree the very definitions of "straight" and "gay" do not represent the complexity of sexuality?

by Anonymousreply 5705/04/2013

My point was, R57, that you don't have to be an expert on the human brain to understand that there are many triggers of sexual arousal. Sometimes the mere suggestion of sex is enough to get us hot, irrespective of the sexes involved.

by Anonymousreply 5805/04/2013

R58, are you aroused by monkeys sex?

by Anonymousreply 5905/04/2013

Take a course on basic human sexuality, R59. Then read up on the human brain. Or are you too "proudly anti-intellectual" even for that?

by Anonymousreply 6005/04/2013

How on fuckin earth are straight men supposed to ignore/not look at dicks in straight porn? Unless you are saying straight men should never watch straight porn and watch "lesbian" porn? Like I said, men are competitive and always compare themselves to other men, esp in the dick department.

BUT, the most important thing is that the men in straight porn serve the most important function which is to be a surrogate for the straight viewer!!! The men watching are imagining/hoping to be that guy, doing those things.

by Anonymousreply 6105/04/2013

Much of heterosexual male sexuality is about domination of women. They look at heterosexual male porn stars as themselves or a buddy and with that perspective look at the female as she is there in the throws of passion, moaning, her tits bouncing etc. and it turns them on.

by Anonymousreply 6205/04/2013

I have seen just as many straight men peer at my dick at a urinal as I have gay men. Absolutely believe this.

by Anonymousreply 6305/04/2013

No wonder there is confusion on this thread. The conversation is jumping around from "looking" at dicks to "liking" dicks and back again. There's a big difference. Heterosexual people are not repulsed by specific body parts. Gay people aren't either.

Whoever is insisting that only gay or bi men LOOK at penises is simply stating that the multibillion dollar porn industry only appeals to bi people. Straight men are confined to lesbian porn because if they see a single male pubic hair, their dick will shrivel.

by Anonymousreply 6405/04/2013

[quote]No wonder there is confusion on this thread. The conversation is jumping around from "looking" at dicks to "liking" dicks and back again.

That's because the moron at R22 thinks a guy who looks at a dick in a straight porn film is getting aroused by that dick, not by the male-female porn. He's simply too stupid to comprehend anything other than his bizarre views of people looking at porn.

by Anonymousreply 6505/04/2013

"I have seen just as many straight men peer at my dick at a urinal as I have gay men. Absolutely believe this."

It's funny how homophobes bitch about having to share a shower with gay guys in sports or the military because often it's the straight guys who are looking!

by Anonymousreply 6605/04/2013

For all the heterosexuals who say gay men should not be in men's lockerrooms because we will look at men's packages, well, heterosexual guys are already looking. Heterosexual males are looking at your crotch if you have clothes on or not. So stop playing games. And for gay people out there, now you have evidence so don't fall for this argument.

by Anonymousreply 6705/04/2013

There is a whole subset of gay guys on this forum who obviously feel threatened by the very idea of sexuality being fluid and more grey than black and white. Whereas I think most of us experience sexuality as something that transcends very hard boundaries. I've slept with women but have mostly slept with men. I don't really consider myself bi even though I can get aroused by a woman and straight porn can get me off.

by Anonymousreply 6805/04/2013

R68 is right. There are some gay nazis on this board that have a very neurotic view of sexuality.

Here is the reality of who looks at dicks: straight men, gay men, bi-men, straight women, bi-women, and lesbians. People in general are curious about the human body.

Do straight men have to find a penis disgusting? No. That is not the definition of straight. In fact, a straight man can appreciate the beauty in an ideal male figure without getting aroused.

Straight women look at each other without being self-conscious about it, and they are allowed by society to that.

Do gay men have to be disgusted by a pussy? No. Some may be but these are probably bitchy queens. Most normal people who are not defensive about their sexuality should not have a strong reaction at seeing a naked body of the gender they are not attracted to.

by Anonymousreply 6905/04/2013

Plus why would a straight guy be disgusted by a dick - he has one and he loves it. So it's not even exactly the same as gay guy being disgusted by pussy (although I don't believe that most are).

by Anonymousreply 7005/04/2013

R70, this whole being disgusted by pussy is down right silly. How old are these guys? 12 years old.

I can see being disgusted by a pile of barf or horse manure that's been baking in the sun, but come on people grow up.

by Anonymousreply 7105/04/2013

I am a gay male and can get turned on watching women cum for real in some porn. It's rare, but when you see a woman getting pounded and she has a real orgasm, it's hot. I think it's the idea that all of that is coming from some deep dick pounding or something a hot guy is doing to her that is the turn on for me.

by Anonymousreply 7205/04/2013

This turned into bi circlejerk. "Gay" guys who love pussy defending "straight" guys who love cock.

R68, you say its not "black and white" yet you want to identify as "gay" which is exactly "black" or "white".

by Anonymousreply 7305/05/2013

R73, you may have some pussy phobia and need to proclaim it in order to own your homosexuality, but the average gay does not need go to those extremes. Stop projecting your view on all gay men.

We all as human beings can appreciate a beautiful specimen whether male or female. Most gay men don't "like" pussy but don't need to feel disgust. If some gay men like how a pussy looks or the female body in general that too is not the key point. The telling thing is whether the gay man wants to put his dick in it instead of wanting to put it in the guy's ass.

by Anonymousreply 7405/05/2013

R73, get out now. You are incapable of not acting like an ass.

by Anonymousreply 7505/05/2013

r73, a lot of men that call themselves gay here like pussy too. Its probably more than you think and more than we regularly acknowledge. Calling yourself bi just has a negative connotation on both ends of the spectrum. Im sure that has something to do with why a lot of gay men really dont talk about their interest in vagina.

by Anonymousreply 7605/05/2013

R76, nice to see the majority is still pure blood gay men but the board is becoming infested with closeted bisexuals

by Anonymousreply 7705/05/2013

Infested. LOL.

If being gay is a 10 and being straight is a 1, statistically, the amount of 2 thru 9's collectively would outnumber any other single number.

by Anonymousreply 7805/05/2013

R78, that's what i'm actually trying to say but for these closeted bisexuals it's either "straight" or "gay". They don't want to acknowledge their bisexuality so they ignore the bisexuality of many "straight" men.

by Anonymousreply 7905/05/2013

You drama queens are annoying. Heaven forbid gay men don't shout from the mountain tops how much they abhor pussy. Otherwise they lose their gay credentials.

Being neutral or not thinking pussies are disgusting does not a bisexual make. The female body in its ideal form is a beautiful thing, just like the male form. Anyone who gets bent out of shape about this is an immature troll.

Yes, there are plenty of self-identified gay men who could technically be male-leaning bisexuals. But men in general are sluts and in the right situation could get it up for anything. Most gay men, however, are just that. They want to fuck men.

If you have an adverse physical reaction to seeing a pussy you might be a 10 or 11 or off the Kinsey scale or have some kind of trauma.

by Anonymousreply 8005/05/2013
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