I have come to a painful conclusion,I am not attractive.
So I'm 26 and for the last few months I have found it impossible, to hook up with anyone attractive and this is a new thing for me.
I use to be able to get hot guys and get a lot of attention but that's kind of come to an end.I am the same weight and I just find it weird to now be in a situation
So I went to a place tonight,and it was the first time in about year,usually in the past I have had some luck,but tonight nothing a .it was like I was invisible. So Should I keep on trying ,even thought it is making me kind of depressed,or should I just accept it and enjoy sex with ugly guys
|by Anonymous||reply 49||05/04/2013|
If all you want is a good-looking fuck, then just pay for it
|by Anonymous||reply 1||05/02/2013|
Maybe it's just your rancid breath.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||05/02/2013|
[quote] I just accept it and enjoy sex with ugly guys[/quote]
You are like most gay guys who are absurdly shallow and only chase after guys who are honestly out of your league unless you get very lucky.
It is always amusing at gay clubs to see everyone hitting on the same handful of hotties. If they could ignore them and start chasing after each other everyone would be happier.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||05/02/2013|
OP, after carefully reading your post I am thinking you're 'spaced out.'
|by Anonymous||reply 4||05/02/2013|
Maybe you lack self confidence. What's wrong with ugly guys? They can be sexy.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||05/02/2013|
Their is nothing wrong with ugly guys or guys who are less attractive.Its just new for me to be in a situation where I get overlooked by the guys who are better looking.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||05/02/2013|
This thread is useless without a picture.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||05/02/2013|
yeah my self esteem is at zero right now,So I am not going to post a pic for you bitches to tell me how god ugly I am
|by Anonymous||reply 8||05/02/2013|
In all my 71 years, I have never met a guy who thought of himself as handsome and actually was. You OP, sound like a delusional male twat.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||05/02/2013|
never said I was handsome ,show me where I said that
|by Anonymous||reply 10||05/02/2013|
R3 said it best:
[quote]It is always amusing at gay clubs to see everyone hitting on the same handful of hotties. If they could ignore them and start chasing after each other everyone would be happier.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||05/02/2013|
Don't destroy the lives of other men...just use your hand, dear. You are now a senior citizen, accept it.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||05/02/2013|
[quote]I have never met a guy who thought of himself as handsome and actually was
Bitch please. Some guys do happen to be very attractive, these guys do know they are very attractive based on how often they get hit on and referred to as hot. Even if they don't brag about it or have their own insecurities about their looks like everyone does they still know they are considered hot.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||05/02/2013|
OP is a self absorbed cunt
|by Anonymous||reply 14||05/02/2013|
If you "used" to attract hot guys, then it's not (over unless you recently became disfigured or had a face transplant). You're 26 for god's sake so please SHUT IT
|by Anonymous||reply 15||05/02/2013|
If only there were somehow a way you could lose weight and become muscular. But I guess at the advanced age of 26 it's impossible.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||05/02/2013|
I am the same weight,i was a year ago.Some of you bitches are too mean,but I know the problem is me not anyone else,I am way too sensitive for the gay scene right now
|by Anonymous||reply 18||05/02/2013|
OP, you may be the same weight, but have you replaced muscle with fat?
|by Anonymous||reply 19||05/02/2013|
Everyone on here is getting down on OP for trying to pull the hotties he thinks he deserves. But don't we all deserve hotties? Each and every one of us? Seriously people. Come on. Hotties on the House for Everyone!
|by Anonymous||reply 20||05/02/2013|
OP, you need to focus on your kagel exercises. It appears you assets are sagging and dragging your self esteem into the "pitiful pearl" zone. At 26 your assets should still be pretty snappy, but if you allow depression to distract you, you will be very loose and those hot guys will giggle at you.
Listen to the voice of experience.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||05/02/2013|
It might be because you are a vapid, looks obsessed shallow queen that is keeping you from all the "hotties." Just a guess.
What will you do when you are 36 and then 46 and then 56? OMG, run screaming into the streets!
|by Anonymous||reply 22||05/02/2013|
I am so not shallow,it might sound like I am.but I am respectful towards everyone.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||05/02/2013|
It's not a matter of respect. I'm sure the guys that think of you as invisible think they're being respectful.
And you're only 26. Jeezus. That's nothing. Are you just upset that the 21 year old tail you're used to are busy hooking up with people their own age?
Please go sleep with a fug. You'll find the enthusiasm refreshing. When you gotta work for it like they do they're a much better lay.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||05/02/2013|
You just need to move to another city OP. Everybody in that bar you go to is already familiar with your gaping hole.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||05/02/2013|
Maybe at your current age you send out a different vibe.Maybe you're not as approachable? You never know how others perceive you.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||05/03/2013|
I'll let you in on a personal secret of mine. When I fee a case of the dreadful-uglies taking control of me, I strip naked, with my back to my floor length mirror, spread my legs and stair into the mirror that never lies. This allows me to look at my face and my asshole at the same time. This never fails to help me find myself.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||05/03/2013|
R27 is obviously Debra Messing.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||05/03/2013|
If it makes you feel any better...I'm really attractive yet single and not hooking up.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||05/03/2013|
OP you're looking too hard, too focused. My experience has been whenever I just stop caring about meeting someone, that's when I meet them.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||05/03/2013|
[quote]But don't we all deserve hotties? Each and every one of us?
Well the hotties certainly seem to think so. Which sounds like basic OP's problem here.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||05/03/2013|
If there was a god, wouldn't it allow for the creation of hotties only? Why would an all loving Merlin-type allow for the ridiculous combinations of features and colors to be combined to produce a troll. That seems like an imperfect god.
My own take on our existence, we are a three dimensional cartoon strip for the rest of the inhabitants of the universe. I think we are one step below a rubik's cube in entertainment value.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||05/03/2013|
post your photo op. The DL will gladly offer you constructive criticism on how to improve yourself.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||05/03/2013|
[quote] post your photo op. The DL will gladly offer you constructive criticism on how to improve yourself.
And right after we should talk real estate in Florida.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||05/03/2013|
I am sure that OP still has everytthing that he ever had. Alas, it is now somewhat lower.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||05/03/2013|
OP is sad because he used to get all of the attention. Now he is and old man and will have to give all of the attention.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||05/03/2013|
op is 26, r35....please try to read the posts before posting.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||05/03/2013|
Could someone translate the OP's apparently whining boo-hoo session into something resembling English, please, so I can precisely target my invective? Thanks.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||05/03/2013|
R37 I read it. He is an old man for the twink business. Or if he is not a twink 26 is about the age when you can't trade off solely on your youth anymore. He will have to start making up stuff like the "I'm in med school" or "I live off my investments" type of bar conversation starters.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||05/03/2013|
Why don't you just try to meet regular guys instead of going for the hottest guy in the room or the ugliest one. Also clubs will never give you a good self esteem. You'd probably do better finding someone online.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||05/03/2013|
[quote]Why don't you just try to meet regular guys instead of going for the hottest guy in the room or the ugliest one.
Don't make him our problem.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||05/03/2013|
R42, they're all the same guy. Nice try.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||05/03/2013|
SHUT THE FUCK UP. YOU ARE 26 YOU SNIVELING LOSER.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||05/03/2013|
OP, if you were hot at 24 I can't fathom why you wouldn't be hot at 26. Nothing could possibly have changed that much. 26 is a great age for looks. You should be thrilled to be still at the age when one good night's sleep repairs all the excesses of the previous evening. Stop whining and go out and enjoy yourself.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||05/03/2013|
I am not the best looking guy in the room but I got a pretty good body and a 10 inch dick (no lie) soon as word got out I was hung, them pretty boy bottoms were coming up to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||05/03/2013|
I'm 27, but I can still look 15 if I wear the right clothes. So I'm still getting a lot of great dick.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||05/03/2013|
26? It's time to start developing something called an actual 'self' or personality. Looks don't last forever sweetie and it may initially lure them but sure in hell won't keep them. Work on yourself, darling.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||05/04/2013|
OP, do you have tinymeat? Is that what this is really about?
|by Anonymous||reply 49||05/04/2013|