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I don't want to be the kind of person that people are annoyed of or hate being around

I've been that kind of person for nearly half my life now. People do their best to a) ignore me b) take advantage of me c)bully me.

I'd love, for once, to be the popular person or the kind of person people are afraid of.

by Anonymousreply 404/22/2013

You are in charge of yourself OP. Fix it.

by Anonymousreply 104/22/2013

Annoyed with.

People are afraid of me, but I couldn't tell you why.

by Anonymousreply 204/22/2013

Do you have a friend, relative, coworker, or even a boss you trust? If you have, ask them the question you posed to us. Ask them to lay it on the line and be brutally honest and specific.

Once you have the information, you MUST do the hard work of self-examination. Don't get defensive, and ask yourself whether you have the capacity and true desire to change.

Then get to work.

by Anonymousreply 304/22/2013

The answer R3, would obviously be you are the kind of person who ASSUMES everyone dislikes you. It's really true that you have to ASSUME people will like you...and then many of them will. It's the old Jedi mind trick in action.

by Anonymousreply 404/22/2013
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