How passive aggressive should I be for my birthday this year?
My birthday is in three weeks. My partner has been super busy with work (and kind of a grouchy asshole) and there's a chance that he may forget about it. Normally I spend the weeks running up to my big day reminding him about it. But this year I'm considering keeping my mouth shut to see what happens. If he forgets I get to be all hurt and pouty and make him feel bad. If he remembers it'll be sincerely lovely that he did it ALL ON HIS OWN. Like a big boy!
It's win win!
All I expect for my B Day is a nice dinner out. I don't care about presents, although if he gave me a shiny bauble I wouldn't return it, if you know what I'm saying.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||04/24/2013|
If you're real, you're a jerk.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||04/22/2013|
What did you do for his birthday?
|by Anonymous||reply 2||04/22/2013|
[quote]What did you do for his birthday?
It was a milestone birthday (ending in a zero) so spent a weekend in London (which we paid for together) My birthday treat for him was to take him for a nice dinner and a show.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||04/22/2013|
The best thing you could do is just forget it's your birthday at all. That way, if he remembers, it's bonus. And if he doesn't, you aren't a pissy little queen obsessed with your own navel.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||04/22/2013|
We should never expect anyone to remember something because it's important to us. You don't get what you don't ask for.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||04/22/2013|
How you should act probably depends on if you want to be alone on your next birthday.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||04/22/2013|
Hopefully he will give you some time to reflect on your assholism and neediness by dumping you. Whether you can function without someone to treat like your dog remains to be seen.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||04/22/2013|
For your birthday, you should give yourself a present....and grow the fuck up!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 11||04/22/2013|
Sounds like a match made in heathen.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||04/23/2013|
If this isn't a troll posting, there's a fairly good reason that the boyfriend ignores OP.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||04/23/2013|
OP, my god, but you're a manipulative 12-year old girl. Oh wait, that's a insult to all 12-year old girls.
Also, learn the definition of passive aggressive. Your little drama queen scene is not passive aggressive, it's immature, whiny, infantile - sure. Not passive aggressive.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||04/23/2013|
Hopefully he cares more than we do.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||04/23/2013|
I'd feel sorry for your BF, but he's obviously an idiot to be with you.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||04/23/2013|
What's the world coming to when a gay man can't decide how passive aggressive to be about anything all on his own?
|by Anonymous||reply 19||04/23/2013|
For his next birthday, give him his freedom and leave. He will be thriilled as you sound like a fucking nightmare.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||04/23/2013|
It sounds like keeping your mouth shut is the best gift you can give him.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||04/23/2013|