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How passive aggressive should I be for my birthday this year?

My birthday is in three weeks. My partner has been super busy with work (and kind of a grouchy asshole) and there's a chance that he may forget about it. Normally I spend the weeks running up to my big day reminding him about it. But this year I'm considering keeping my mouth shut to see what happens. If he forgets I get to be all hurt and pouty and make him feel bad. If he remembers it'll be sincerely lovely that he did it ALL ON HIS OWN. Like a big boy!

It's win win!

All I expect for my B Day is a nice dinner out. I don't care about presents, although if he gave me a shiny bauble I wouldn't return it, if you know what I'm saying.

by Anonymousreply 2304/24/2013

If you're real, you're a jerk.

by Anonymousreply 104/22/2013

What did you do for his birthday?

by Anonymousreply 204/22/2013

[quote]What did you do for his birthday?

It was a milestone birthday (ending in a zero) so spent a weekend in London (which we paid for together) My birthday treat for him was to take him for a nice dinner and a show.

Nice, right?

by Anonymousreply 304/22/2013

The best thing you could do is just forget it's your birthday at all. That way, if he remembers, it's bonus. And if he doesn't, you aren't a pissy little queen obsessed with your own navel.

by Anonymousreply 404/22/2013

We should never expect anyone to remember something because it's important to us. You don't get what you don't ask for.

by Anonymousreply 504/22/2013

How you should act probably depends on if you want to be alone on your next birthday.

by Anonymousreply 604/22/2013

What are you, 6?

by Anonymousreply 704/22/2013

R5 wins.

by Anonymousreply 804/22/2013

Hopefully he will give you some time to reflect on your assholism and neediness by dumping you. Whether you can function without someone to treat like your dog remains to be seen.

by Anonymousreply 904/22/2013

I LOVE being single!

by Anonymousreply 1004/22/2013

For your birthday, you should give yourself a present....and grow the fuck up!!!

by Anonymousreply 1104/22/2013

Sounds like a match made in heathen.

by Anonymousreply 1204/22/2013

If this isn't a troll posting, there's a fairly good reason that the boyfriend ignores OP.

by Anonymousreply 1304/23/2013

This is why I hat faggots.

by Anonymousreply 1404/23/2013

OP = June Cleaver

by Anonymousreply 1504/23/2013

OP, my god, but you're a manipulative 12-year old girl. Oh wait, that's a insult to all 12-year old girls.

Also, learn the definition of passive aggressive. Your little drama queen scene is not passive aggressive, it's immature, whiny, infantile - sure. Not passive aggressive.

by Anonymousreply 1604/23/2013

Hopefully he cares more than we do.

by Anonymousreply 1704/23/2013

I'd feel sorry for your BF, but he's obviously an idiot to be with you.

by Anonymousreply 1804/23/2013

What's the world coming to when a gay man can't decide how passive aggressive to be about anything all on his own?

by Anonymousreply 1904/23/2013

For his next birthday, give him his freedom and leave. He will be thriilled as you sound like a fucking nightmare.

by Anonymousreply 2004/23/2013

It sounds like keeping your mouth shut is the best gift you can give him.

by Anonymousreply 2104/23/2013

Are you in Jr. High, OP?

by Anonymousreply 2204/23/2013

How old are you, OP?

by Anonymousreply 2304/24/2013
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