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How it feels to have a $300 extramarital sex romp with an A-list porn star

Well, I did it! Cross that off the bucket list. Details within.

by Anonymousreply 8808/27/2013

Felt damn good. He was what I hoped for, or at least played the part convincingly: gorgeous on the outside, sexy/sweet on the inside. And yet there is that Shavian trope about one of life's great disappointments being the aftereffect of getting what you want. But commingled with the satisfaction of having indeed gotten it, and it was as good as or better than hoped for. The rentboy in question turned out to be very sensual/generous in bed... a terrific kisser, very warm and fun to be with. I came so hard it shot up across and behind my head/face, which hasn't happened in years.

I feel no desire to do it again. At least not now, hope that stays the case, I'm not poor but not rich. But it was fun, and hot, to burn $300 on an hour-plus of carnality just one time with the hottest beautiful young stud I've ever been with. Perfection to go, ordered out of a catalog. And yeah I still love my partner, it's complicated but we are still in love. What I did falls under a mutual don't-ask-don't-tell understanding.

by Anonymousreply 104/03/2013

Will you be reviewing him on daddysreviews.com?

by Anonymousreply 204/03/2013

I'll text him tomorrow and offer to, R2. He said his work/activity is "right sized" at the moment, not looking too often for new clients. He really liked me, offered a discount for future repeats. I guess that's common, from a sex worker's POV, you know, once they assess you as non-repulsive and a safe repeat. Given what they must encounter.

by Anonymousreply 304/03/2013

A-list porn star? Who was it?

by Anonymousreply 404/03/2013

Good for you, OP. I will say, though, that my partner and I usually share trade.

by Anonymousreply 504/03/2013

R4, don't wanna say. DL can turn into a shark tank when people are identified. Except to say he is NYC based and stopped doing porn fairly recently, and is still in phenomenal buff fitness-model shape as he was known for on camera. My hands couldn't stop enjoying him.

by Anonymousreply 604/03/2013

[quote]He really liked me,

Yeah, right.

[quote]offered a discount for future repeats.

He sounds nice.

[quote]once they assess you as non-repulsive

Is that how you usually describe yourself, sexually speaking?

by Anonymousreply 704/03/2013

R5, we've had group thingies a few times but my partner is in an asexual rut due to life/health stuff mostly beyond his/our control. So, this DADT understanding for a while. Hoping his rut is temporary but hard to predict. I'm definitely as horned up as when we first met; he is just not. At all.

by Anonymousreply 804/03/2013

Wow, OP, there's no place to go but downhill after what's likely to be the brightest and the most special moment of your life.

by Anonymousreply 904/03/2013

A-list? I'll be the judge of that. Which one is he?

by Anonymousreply 1004/03/2013

[quote]And yet there is that Shavian trope about one of life's great disappointments being the aftereffect of getting what you want.

Mary!

by Anonymousreply 1104/03/2013

Why does the "Reply 3" post come after the "Reply 4" post?

by Anonymousreply 1204/03/2013

You've had "thingies"? Sounds hot.

by Anonymousreply 1404/03/2013

R7, ha ha, no... I'm fairly good looking. But seeing it from a sex worker's POV. You charge a basic rate not knowing who/what you'll be expected to have sex with. It must be a pleasant turnout when your client is not bad at all looks-wise and has a good personality. Just my thoughts afterward, imagining his life. We really clicked, for what it was. He even gave me his nearly new bottle of lube as a souvenir because I liked the brand so much. And copious goodbye making out in the doorway. I just wasn't expecting that much expressive affection alongside the sex. Quite a treat.

by Anonymousreply 1504/03/2013

His initials are Z.A.

by Anonymousreply 1604/03/2013

Ahem.

by Anonymousreply 1704/03/2013

[quote]my partner is in an asexual rut due to life/health stuff mostly beyond his/our control. So, this DADT understanding for a while.

Sorry to hear that, OP.

Good for you, taking the bull by the horns and enjoying yourself.

You go, girl!

by Anonymousreply 1804/03/2013

R11, brush up on them there reading comprehension skills. I'm married. And yeah, I'm a big ol Mary here on Datalounge. Deal.

by Anonymousreply 1904/03/2013

[quote]He even gave me his nearly new bottle of lube as a souvenir because I liked the brand so much.

What was the brand & what was it that you liked about it so much?

by Anonymousreply 2004/03/2013

R16 nope... Z.A. not my type, way too musclebound and dumb. This guy is fit/buff and far sexier.

R17, nope, R.A. not my type either. This guy is very handsome both in face and body.

by Anonymousreply 2104/03/2013

[quote]And yeah, I'm a big ol Mary here on Datalounge.

That's strange, because I was getting a very butch, 'straight acting' image of you in my mind's eye.

by Anonymousreply 2204/03/2013

Did you bottom for him?

by Anonymousreply 2304/03/2013

Ok gotta go for now. But, just saying, sometimes it can be worth just doing a thing one time when it's a thing you have fantasized about doing for years. "Done." It is a good feeling, on the whole.

Lube was Wet Platinum which somehow I never tried. Nice!

by Anonymousreply 2404/03/2013

Wow, people are actually indulging the OP in this bilge? The DL is surely collapsing...

by Anonymousreply 2504/03/2013

[quote]nope, R.A. not my type either

Nor, mine. I wouldn't know what the fuck to do with that much penis.

by Anonymousreply 2604/03/2013

[quote]Ok gotta go for now.

You got us all excited and now you flounce off.

This thread's going straight into my watcher for future posts from, OP. God bless his cotton socks.

by Anonymousreply 2704/03/2013

You got a somewhat used bottle of lube out of him? OMG, what a meaningful token of a deep connection. And to think it only cost you several hundred dollars!

by Anonymousreply 2804/03/2013

Was it Arpad Miklos? Wilfried Knight? Roman Ragazzi?

by Anonymousreply 2904/03/2013

You lost me at "that Shavian trope," OP. Maybe you should go read that thread about middlebrow writers.

by Anonymousreply 3004/03/2013

Noodles + Marley's Ghost + an active imagination = OP!

by Anonymousreply 3104/04/2013

Worth it. I'd pay $3,000 for a sex romp with a C-List actor. Anyone else?

by Anonymousreply 3204/04/2013

I'm a C-list actor, r32.

by Anonymousreply 3304/04/2013

If OP paid only $300, then it could not have been a porn star, much more an A-list porn star.

by Anonymousreply 3404/04/2013

No, it was Josh Weston, R29.

by Anonymousreply 3504/04/2013

Dear Datalounge,

This is how you do an Eccentric, Sensual Thread post.

by Anonymousreply 3604/04/2013

Maybe R34, unlike OP, you do not qualify as "non-repulsive" so you get charged a premium.

by Anonymousreply 3704/04/2013

[quote]he offered me a discount

In other words he overcharged you this time

Oh yeah it's a PROSTITUTE. If you won't name him it never happened.

by Anonymousreply 3804/04/2013

Is he known for a huge cock and is the rest of him to scale? If yes, I can guess who it is.

by Anonymousreply 3904/04/2013

"I'm definitely as horned up as when we first met; he is just not. At all."

What OP really meant to say is I'm desperately insecure and need constant validation. My old man isn't giving it to me, so fuck him, I'll get it on my own because I am so pathetic and weak.

by Anonymousreply 4004/04/2013

You're proud of paying a prostitute?

Wow, glad your priorities are straight.

by Anonymousreply 4104/04/2013

Puritans... So cute. Say "prostitute!" again some more, please. It tingles me dingles.

Definitely not an EST; come on, I'd have stacked increasing degrees of implausibility onto it if it were.

The rentboy is alive and then some. Beautiful man in his late 20s prime. Looks even better in person than his film work. He did porn scenes for at least 5-6 studios/websites a couple of years ago, then opted out.

by Anonymousreply 4204/04/2013

OP at least give us the name of one of the films he has been in.

by Anonymousreply 4304/04/2013

Tate Ryder is retiring really soon, and he hooks. And is really hot.

by Anonymousreply 4404/04/2013

Wow, some people have no self respect or even concern for their health.

by Anonymousreply 4504/04/2013

Well?

by Anonymousreply 4604/04/2013

This has restored my faith in finding true love in this cold, cold world.

by Anonymousreply 4704/04/2013

Honest question.... as I've been considering hiring a rentboy - are you concerned about diseases?

That's my worry - not so much hiv since rubbers will be used for anal, but I imagine oral would be condomless and syphilis, gonorrhea, and herpes can all be transmitted that way.

by Anonymousreply 4804/04/2013

Any pnp involved?

by Anonymousreply 4904/04/2013

r49 You pay your money, you take your chances.

by Anonymousreply 5004/04/2013

R48, me too. I chose this guy because in addition to looks and personality he is more self-protective about HIV / std's. He was much sluttier on camera, very warm in person but a carefulness re: health. I think I know why. Also re: an earlier post, yeah, $300 was just for non-anal "sexy time". Top cost more, bottom even more. But I'll say he delivered; I really enjoyed being with him.

R46, site down, will look later.

Also, speaking of DADT, he was active US military when he started appearing in porn online. Had some funny stories about that.

by Anonymousreply 5104/04/2013

I'd pay $300 for Paddy O'Brien, Tyler Torro, or Brandon from Sean Cody, but that's about it.

You can have the rest of them.

by Anonymousreply 5204/04/2013

Years ago I hired a porn actor from the classifieds of the BAR in SF. He had been the statue in the movie Mannequin Man. I was about 31 at the time and was a little high at the time. He arrived..was perfectly muscled and cute with a Canadian accent..and I have never been so bored in my entire life. I couldn't get past the hooker angle for some reason. Maybe at 56 I could now but at the time I just couldn't get into it. So good for you OP. You seemed to have found the perfect person for your walk on the wild side.

by Anonymousreply 5304/04/2013

I've never paid more than $20 for a prostitute.

by Anonymousreply 5404/04/2013

[quote] Also, speaking of DADT, he was active US military when he started appearing in porn online. Had some funny stories about that.

David Petraeus.

by Anonymousreply 5504/04/2013

Thanks R56. It's interesting to look at how other countries handle the "world's oldest profession.". Exchanging money for sex is legal in Germany, for example.

by Anonymousreply 5704/04/2013

But what does this have to do with me, Kim Kardashian?

by Anonymousreply 5804/04/2013

"I don't get all the nasty judgment and attitude about OP's fun night with the porn star."

It's not that he did it. It's that he's bragging about it as if he's won an Oscar.

by Anonymousreply 5904/04/2013

R58 'Cause you're a whore, too, darlin.

by Anonymousreply 6004/04/2013

Anyone know a sexy aggressive foot top in NYC? I want to hire one for my bf.

by Anonymousreply 6104/04/2013

I feel sorry for your partner, OP. The way you're carrying on about some paid whore as if you're in love is disgusting. I hope your partner kicks your skanky ass to the curb.

by Anonymousreply 6204/04/2013

R61, what is a "foot top"?

by Anonymousreply 6304/04/2013

I just love the term "sex romp"

by Anonymousreply 6404/04/2013

I wouldn't pay 2¢ for anyone, 'cause I can and have gotten REAL men and REAL porn stars.

by Anonymousreply 6504/04/2013

Today's "A-list" porn star is tomorrows, AIDS infested corpse.

by Anonymousreply 6604/04/2013

Foot Top is a guy who likes getting his feet serviced and likes to really work a guys face and cock over with his feet.

by Anonymousreply 6704/05/2013

OP = the gay equivalent of Newt Gingrich.

by Anonymousreply 6804/05/2013

This thread has PPSM written all over it.

by Anonymousreply 6904/05/2013

I confess it R69!

by Anonymousreply 7004/05/2013

[quote] Puritans... So cute.

Men who pay other men for sex: so gross!

by Anonymousreply 7104/05/2013

[quote]I just love the term "sex romp"

Yes, it's good, isn't it?

OP, SO knows how to start a thread that will get a response.

He knew exactly what he was doing and could predict exactly what kind of messages he's get.

He's a professional DLer.

Bravo, OP!

by Anonymousreply 7204/05/2013

Another day a good old DataLounge: OP posts an extremely believable and very happy story and a pack of venemous queens fall on it with their shrill attacks, not to mention that idiotically dreary "You're a whore, darlin'." Meanwhile, OP, how about giving us a hint as to the identity of the loved one? Just a hint?

by Anonymousreply 7304/05/2013

The OP is a TROLL, you idiots. Sometimes I think Dataloungers are the dumbest, most gullible people in the world. I mean, how can anyone with a functioning brain believe the OP's tale of the "A-list porn star (who he refuses to name; and who would classify as an "A-list porn star" anyway?)", the "hottest, beautiful young stud" who he "ordered out of a catalog?" And of course the exquisite porn star takes such a shine to the OP that he offers "a discount for future repeats" and "even gave me his nearly new bottle of lube as a souvenir because I liked the brand so much."

How can anybody believe this pathetic, obviously made-up shit?

by Anonymousreply 7404/05/2013

Another day a good old DataLounge: OP posts an extremely believable and very happy story and a pack of venemous queens fall on it with their shrill attacks, not to mention that idiotically dreary "You're a whore, darlin'"

"Extremely believeable?" HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHA!

You're a retard, darlin'.

by Anonymousreply 7504/05/2013

I'm in publishing, and this threat should be a book!

by Anonymousreply 7604/05/2013

I've also had a few pops from a bottle of Rye.

THREAD

by Anonymousreply 7704/05/2013

Congrats on fulfilling your fantasy successfully, OP.

I did the same with a handsome "masseur" whom I'd met before for a legit massage and had a sexual crush on. He used a condom for topping, but we did suck each other.

He claimed to be STD-free, but now I'm more aware of herpes, and MDR syphilis and gonorrhea. I would never do it again. It was wonderful, but was also a bucket list situation. Fortunately, my doctor (who is a bit of a slut) tested me for every STD and the results were negative. It was VERY high-risk activity for non-HIV STD's.

by Anonymousreply 7804/05/2013

I'm jealous of OP.

by Anonymousreply 7904/05/2013

Three hundred would get you the fat dwarf in "Leprecum II."

Such an Edenic, Succulent Tale.

by Anonymousreply 8004/05/2013

R46's link is Avi Dar. Very hot.

by Anonymousreply 8104/06/2013

Trashy

by Anonymousreply 8206/19/2013

Prostitute? From reading DL, it has been pretty much established that ALL New York men are gorgeous, fit, and desirable. Why would anyone need a prostitute?

by Anonymousreply 8306/19/2013

Four months later I just remembered this thread I started. Not sure it was worth the money, looking back. A fun/hot time, though.

by Anonymousreply 8408/27/2013

[quote]He really liked me

Hunty, that's his job.

by Anonymousreply 8508/27/2013

You paid for Zeb Atlas' tiny penis?

by Anonymousreply 8608/27/2013

Oh, I know. But he was convincing, warm and friendly enough to make it seem like he actually enjoyed the experience.

The thing I liked about it was the ease and convenience. No chasing, no failing: just ordering up this young guy with a truly amazing gym-honed body, as easy as ordering a meal from Seamless.com.

But yeah, it's a transaction that wouldn't be happening without the money on the client's end of it.

by Anonymousreply 8708/27/2013

(my reply at R87 was to R85)

And no, it was not Zeb Atlas. It was someone younger and blond who did porn online for lots of studios about 3 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 8808/27/2013
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